Kindly note that I will never give you a phone number to contact me on. Please beware of fake Jessica OS accounts looking to scam you. The only way to have any direct conversation with me is via my Patreon account. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos . Stay safe guys!
Also for both women and men is the emotional connection that the person has with the other. I believe without the emotional connection then sex isn't as exciting and or intense. Yes, lack of support, the selfishness from the man, and not feeling safe reduces interest in sex .
Excellent presentation on the aspects of sex. I learned so much about the women's side of sex in this video. I was never taught these things about a woman. I always took it as not being desirable enough for women. This would be a good precursor for a couple that needs to discuss why they have a sexless marriage. I often wondered why I would hear from female friends that they could never have sex and be just fine. This would be a good thing for men to evaluate with possible relationships. Mismatched libidos are terrible. I think the worst thing a man could do is get into a relationship where the initial sex is great and then it turns out she no longer desires you.
Men and Women need to communicate more with each other to continuously allow what both sexes need and want to be at the fore, or at least to gain an understanding of it. You hit the nail on the head in this video Jessica, when it comes to women and sex, us men definitely needs to be attuned with the woman, but the woman also needs to understand what this thing called testosterone does to us men. The video was positively informative.
10 things to quit for all Strong Men: 1. Caring about what others think 2. Not believing in yourself 3. Not experimenting different ideas / solutions for problems (life&business) 4. Not prioritizing your health 5. Wasting your precious time 6. Wanting something (instead write a plan and work towards it) 7. Chasing meaningless relationships 8. Wasting or draining your energy from beating your meat 🥩 9. Wasting time by scrolling social media 10. Nailbiting/nailpicking habit for good (if you do it - consider stopping it as it makes you mentally weak + affects your confidence and all other areas of your life!) Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list.
Great List - MwanzaFitAlpha! I appreciate it. Personal Development is one of the best things you can do for yourself - because, we as human beings, we’re supposed to embrace growth! So make sure you find your Purpose in life - whatever it might be, and work on it daily, and continue to make progress, because progress is - really the key to happiness. But don’t do it for any girl or guy, make sure you’re doing it for yourself - and just be happy! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
Hi @JessicaOs. Just wanted to say something not directly related to this video. I've been watching your videos since the beginning of the year. English is not my first language so I'm trying to improve myself every single day. Not only I like the topics covered but you are one of the people out there for whom I would never need to activate captions (subtitles)😁. The way you speak is soo clear and so perfect. Thank you and keep going!
I appreciate your advice especially on this topic. I’ll just say Women need to be more open to communicate and express exactly how they feel on this topic. Same way you broke it down, she/they can do, or should do just as well, because communication is key, and enlightened me. Thank you
Thank you so much Jessica ❤️❤️❤️ you've really given me a lot of content. I've been following your videos silently for a while and I can no longer hide myself I've chosen to break my silence and say I'm grateful for your content . I hope someday I'll get a chance to meet you in person and share more at a personal level . Keep it up 💪
Really am grateful to u i jst get to learn abt women n i think u hv made me a pro concerninv that. Appreciate u for the good work making us gain self confidence nyc wrk done
Sister Jessica, you are good, absolutely amazing. You are sooo explicit, concise & very knowledgeable about the subjects you lecture on. You remind me of my psychology & sociology professor I had in my college days twenty five years ago. Thank you.
Hi Jessica, on another podcast you mentioned that we should watch what we whisper in a womans ear...my dear i tried it and my lady's response from a V8 to a V12 power engine. I must say she is totally in tune with me and I'm loving it. Thank you ma'am!
One thing I learned over the past few years in life Jessica. A woman will darted a man who don’t love them or care about them one bit, he get the most sex without putting a slice of bread one the table!!! So bro just continue walk good and work on yourself and do more for yourself!!!
Who thought u all these things, I can say is only from above bc the fluency is not just from studying but inbuilt to bless the world with knowledge in this field of life
thank you for being honest. in my situation i found out this to be true as well. the only thing i feel missing is the real concideration toward the man. i understand that these examples are how the woman really thinks. im just saying in my situation and many more i have seen around in my life, there is the expectation of men to cater and cater whilst the woman feels she is doing alot, we men are also internalising the same thing. balance is key. and all the mind games work for a while but when you are in a long term relationship and certain promises are not being met because we are expected to keep them and they are alowed to act as they feel, this disrupts everything. emotional understanding is very important yes and so we have to work on it together and not just be like oh we will see where this might fall. in my case dedication and fully commiting is a must and expected from her because this is the standard before wanting to start a family. but after 3 kids wait loss adn a career change i see what it does. when the tables are turned inmy case unforunatly and also some others i know of it does not go the same way around. sorry for the long story but i really tried everything and she does not want to find help and i just lost my family because its never enough or just not that specific thing she expected from me whilst her shortcommings i accept and dont hold against her. i refuse to break apart 13 years without doing everything i can so we might come back where we need to be for her to love again. for better or worse its like its a joke to her.
lol, you have brought out two things i have said for years, children affect what happens in a relationship because many women today are also working at a job and when they come home there is another job and if the man helps great but if he doesnt then she is too busy or tired to be bothered, as making out, yep wham bam does not make them want more, i always tried to see that they were pleased as well and this made the experience worth while for them also. from some of the vids i have watched there are men out there that realize this and they make an effort so that both are pleased.
I am a man and I only think about sex when am not doing anything unfortunately I am always busy so sex is the last thing on my mind I love being single and I am going to stay that way for a while.
My girlfriend at the time now wife used to talk about doing something like going out to eat and sex later and she would be all flirtatious and sexual. So obviously im all about it. Fast forward to later that night we get home wind down and go to bed maybe even some intimate kissing but when in bed i would get the cold shoulder and excuses like i dont feel good or im tired or both and it was said like I should know. Looking back i should of there were small signs but as a guy i can not feel good and still have sex and enjoy it. I also found out later she had digestive issues so after she would eat she sometimes didn’t feel good and that meant she didn’t sleep well either . But bcuz I didn’t know that i would take it the wrong way and feel like it was a game. it didn’t cause huge problems bcuz we were able to communicate our issues with each other and work through them together hence why she is my wife lol.
Learn how to touch her VERY APPROPRIATELY..These things are about not kissing her. For instance, touch her forearm very gently (between her elbow and shoulder); touch her hip while you're opening the door for her; touch her hand (high five, handshake, rub her hand, etc.). Gentle touch allow women to see you're a man and not afraid of her resistance. Nice Guys will never touch her because they're too scared. She will remember a man's touch more than the conversations the two of you had together. Again, Gentle Touch is a good approach and you don't have to kiss her..but your Gentle Touch will get more approval w/o trying to go for the kiss (then get rejected). Do the Gentle Touch with respectful ways w/o invading her space. She Will Remember Those....Gentle Touches You Gave Her.
Only men without ambition and focus in life will really have time to do all these to please a woman. Guys if you have the resources do you really want to get married when you can actually stay single and have a girlfriend who doesn't live at your place therefore save yourself the headache and wanting to please her desire and focus on attaining your wealth
Why do you need girlfriend when you are single? It's better not to have anyone and live your life as you want. Because your girlfriend is not a slave to you. But I will marry and have time for her as she will do to me.
Unless there ambition and focus include a meaningful relationship and a family. 🤷♂️ If you don't get the appeal of a long term relationship and family, what is your goal, what is your focus? Money? That's a means to an end and a pathetic goal.
Hey Jessica. I hope your good. I'm impressed with all your UA-cam videos I've managed to watch, they are all informative and eye-opening. But how do you come up with all these ideas? Do you read books, surround yourself with knowledgeable people because of wow.
Nice views and opinions as usual. However I think just like men, women assume a lot of things about men. Men also want emotional connection for sex to happen. A man ejaculating sperm is not actually an orgasm and I think this is worth putting out there. So in essence, a lot of men don't have orgasms, they ejaculate.
I'm not that type of guy, i don't always feel comfortable talking about sex...but sometimes i would be confused about it because people my age want to get down to the nitty gritty at times but that's not me I'm 21 and i have a different mindset on that, just once i wish i can befriend a person who has the same mentality and mindset that i have
I really wonder every time you share a video. Am always a culprit at that very moment 😀. This video will help me in other new relationships . The previous one has ended because I have been pushy for sex 🙏
Hey i love you your videos because they have someone logic plzz make a video about good guy y not to become a good guy and if someone is how to switch it to what changes plz reply
Dearest Jessica, I love your videos and in this case I have to say I have been lucky so far and been able to accomplish my goals! I am very private when it is about sex and I don’t like to talk much about intimate things such as sexual matters! I love your videos and thank you so much for this one Lovely Jessica! Love and Light to you always! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🍀🍀🍀🍀❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹❤️❤️
Hey Jessica The points you given out are really great and I follow them especially if she's special to me, I like to play gentle. What does it mean when you (a man) do everything but the lady is not responding positively and she keeps avoiding intimacy especially sex... I fail to get it? I will greatly appreciate your reply. Thanks for always giving us the best infor.
Kindly note that I will never give you a phone number to contact me on. Please beware of fake Jessica OS accounts looking to scam you. The only way to have any direct conversation with me is via my Patreon account. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos . Stay safe guys!
thank you
Noted
Thanks J.
Thank you for the good work, but please do something about your volume it is always very low and we struggle to hear you
I'm only 18 and God has blessed me with people who give me so much wisdom at such a young age and I will help the world and my generation
I wonder how you get to build up such level of knowledge. I believe someday I will meet you in person but first I start by becoming a patron
She reads a lot and does research.
What a great communicator making us men understand a bit more about women.
Also for both women and men is the emotional connection that the person has with the other. I believe without the emotional connection then sex isn't as exciting and or intense. Yes, lack of support, the selfishness from the man, and not feeling safe reduces interest in sex .
Excellent presentation on the aspects of sex. I learned so much about the women's side of sex in this video. I was never taught these things about a woman. I always took it as not being desirable enough for women. This would be a good precursor for a couple that needs to discuss why they have a sexless marriage. I often wondered why I would hear from female friends that they could never have sex and be just fine. This would be a good thing for men to evaluate with possible relationships. Mismatched libidos are terrible. I think the worst thing a man could do is get into a relationship where the initial sex is great and then it turns out she no longer desires you.
You are really a blessing to this generation, thank u for been the instruments to exhume these wealth of wisdom ..More grace to your elbow
I said Jessica is a celestial being…mark my words…I just love ❤️ her…what a waaaaaaaaaw!!!
Men and Women need to communicate more with each other to continuously allow what both sexes need and want to be at the fore, or at least to gain an understanding of it.
You hit the nail on the head in this video Jessica, when it comes to women and sex, us men definitely needs to be attuned with the woman, but the woman also needs to understand what this thing called testosterone does to us men. The video was positively informative.
Communication is good but to act on what was communicated is even better.
10 things to quit for all Strong Men:
1. Caring about what others think
2. Not believing in yourself
3. Not experimenting different ideas / solutions for problems (life&business)
4. Not prioritizing your health
5. Wasting your precious time
6. Wanting something (instead write a plan and work towards it)
7. Chasing meaningless relationships
8. Wasting or draining your energy from beating your meat 🥩
9. Wasting time by scrolling social media
10. Nailbiting/nailpicking habit for good (if you do it - consider stopping it as it makes you mentally weak + affects your confidence and all other areas of your life!)
Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list.
Great List - MwanzaFitAlpha! I appreciate it.
Personal Development is one of the best things you can do for yourself - because, we as human beings, we’re supposed to embrace growth!
So make sure you find your Purpose in life - whatever it might be, and work on it daily, and continue to make progress, because progress is - really the key to happiness.
But don’t do it for any girl or guy, make sure you’re doing it for yourself - and just be happy!
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
Give thanks!
@chukwudumaga nwachukwu funny how society changes everything from normal to abnormal and wants us to adjust
Hi @JessicaOs. Just wanted to say something not directly related to this video. I've been watching your videos since the beginning of the year. English is not my first language so I'm trying to improve myself every single day. Not only I like the topics covered but you are one of the people out there for whom I would never need to activate captions (subtitles)😁. The way you speak is soo clear and so perfect. Thank you and keep going!
❤❤❤❤
Exactly what I noticed.
Thank you Jessica. These are definitely powerful ideas for hubby and I
I appreciate your advice especially on this topic. I’ll just say Women need to be more open to communicate and express exactly how they feel on this topic. Same way you broke it down, she/they can do, or should do just as well, because communication is key, and enlightened me. Thank you
Wow! I have learned alot from this video. Thank you so much Jessica. I have a better understanding now.
Thank you very much Jessica! May the world be blessed with ladies like you!
Variety is the spice of life but I love this content. So much gold in this video.
So much easier to be single. Less complex, no mind games just a less complicated life.
Easier yes ...but shouldn't be forever. Male and Female Companionships are still necessary when all is said and done
👌
Thank tou fkr taking patience and explaing your rsally the hope and truth of alm female dating people.
Thank you so much Jessica ❤️❤️❤️ you've really given me a lot of content.
I've been following your videos silently for a while and I can no longer hide myself I've chosen to break my silence and say I'm grateful for your content .
I hope someday I'll get a chance to meet you in person and share more at a personal level .
Keep it up 💪
I'm glad I pulled you out today. 😅 I appreciate you
@@JessicaOS I'm really grateful for your knowledge.
Really am grateful to u i jst get to learn abt women n i think u hv made me a pro concerninv that. Appreciate u for the good work making us gain self confidence nyc wrk done
Sister Jessica, you are good, absolutely amazing. You are sooo explicit, concise & very knowledgeable about the subjects you lecture on. You remind me of my psychology & sociology professor I had in my college days twenty five years ago. Thank you.
Your a woman that is a bundle of joy to listen to.......
Hi Jessica, on another podcast you mentioned that we should watch what we whisper in a womans ear...my dear i tried it and my lady's response from a V8 to a V12 power engine. I must say she is totally in tune with me and I'm loving it. Thank you ma'am!
Great video, thank you. Every man has to watch this!!!!
Really appreciate the way you have broken this down and explained it!
One thing I learned over the past few years in life Jessica. A woman will darted a man who don’t love them or care about them one bit, he get the most sex without putting a slice of bread one the table!!! So bro just continue walk good and work on yourself and do more for yourself!!!
i can really see what you mean i just hope its not to late thank you very much this is very helpful
Very useful insight Jessica. There is much to be learned from you.
Wow u are blessed MA so much enjoy every of ur video, pray to see u someday when I arrive Ghana
I love all your advice and you are very professional and very beautiful
Another brilliant one. Bigups Jessy 👌💯😎
Who thought u all these things, I can say is only from above bc the fluency is not just from studying but inbuilt to bless the world with knowledge in this field of life
thank you for being honest. in my situation i found out this to be true as well. the only thing i feel missing is the real concideration toward the man. i understand that these examples are how the woman really thinks. im just saying in my situation and many more i have seen around in my life, there is the expectation of men to cater and cater whilst the woman feels she is doing alot, we men are also internalising the same thing. balance is key. and all the mind games work for a while but when you are in a long term relationship and certain promises are not being met because we are expected to keep them and they are alowed to act as they feel, this disrupts everything. emotional understanding is very important yes and so we have to work on it together and not just be like oh we will see where this might fall. in my case dedication and fully commiting is a must and expected from her because this is the standard before wanting to start a family. but after 3 kids wait loss adn a career change i see what it does. when the tables are turned inmy case unforunatly and also some others i know of it does not go the same way around. sorry for the long story but i really tried everything and she does not want to find help and i just lost my family because its never enough or just not that specific thing she expected from me whilst her shortcommings i accept and dont hold against her. i refuse to break apart 13 years without doing everything i can so we might come back where we need to be for her to love again. for better or worse its like its a joke to her.
Sending love
Merci beaucoup de nous informer,tres instructive
This got me thinking a lot Jess!!
lol, you have brought out two things i have said for years, children affect what happens in a relationship because many women today are also working at a job and when they come home there is another job and if the man helps great but if he doesnt then she is too busy or tired to be bothered, as making out, yep wham bam does not make
them want more, i always tried to see that they were pleased as well and this made the experience worth while for them also. from some of the vids i have watched there are men out there that realize this and they make an effort so that both are pleased.
Thanks!
Mike!!!! 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
Jessica Jessica. Consider counseling. Enormous experience
Super thanks!
Incredible level of knowledge on ur subjects. Great information! Thank u!
Thanks Jess this is it ! I wish men knew this 🙏🏽
I am a man and I only think about sex when am not doing anything unfortunately I am always busy so sex is the last thing on my mind I love being single and I am going to stay that way for a while.
Friends with benefits? 🌞
My girlfriend at the time now wife used to talk about doing something like going out to eat and sex later and she would be all flirtatious and sexual. So obviously im all about it. Fast forward to later that night we get home wind down and go to bed maybe even some intimate kissing but when in bed i would get the cold shoulder and excuses like i dont feel good or im tired or both and it was said like I should know. Looking back i should of there were small signs but as a guy i can not feel good and still have sex and enjoy it. I also found out later she had digestive issues so after she would eat she sometimes didn’t feel good and that meant she didn’t sleep well either
. But bcuz I didn’t know that i would take it the wrong way and feel like it was a game. it didn’t cause huge problems bcuz we were able to communicate our issues with each other and work through them together hence why she is my wife lol.
Woww Our Family is Growing ❤️❤️❤️
JASSICA IS UNIQUE
Great analysis on sex in relationships in one video.
Thank you
😍😘Good morning Queen Jessica😍😘💖these are fact's lovely one
Man that 9:30 mark ain't joke! Jess hit it right on the spot! Damn!
Once again you have dropped some extremely valuable nuggets of truth love your vids
Thanks for the knowledge Jessica u are a blessing🥰👌🏾🙏🏾
On some other sites I read about cheating an what they say is right but your advice is good im learning more about women
I love you thanks for all the info i learn alot from you
Thank you so much for this content. You the best
Thanks so much Jessy for tips... So educative 👌👌
Learning a lot from you since day one…. I love you jessy
I love your advice!!!!! It's all true!!!!🥰🥰🥰🥰 I am from Jamaica
Learn how to touch her VERY APPROPRIATELY..These things are about not kissing her. For instance, touch her forearm very gently (between her elbow and shoulder); touch her hip while you're opening the door for her; touch her hand (high five, handshake, rub her hand, etc.). Gentle touch allow women to see you're a man and not afraid of her resistance. Nice Guys will never touch her because they're too scared.
She will remember a man's touch more than the conversations the two of you had together. Again, Gentle Touch is a good approach and you don't have to kiss her..but your Gentle Touch will get more approval w/o trying to go for the kiss (then get rejected). Do the Gentle Touch with respectful ways w/o invading her space. She Will Remember Those....Gentle Touches You Gave Her.
Why do you think this is so effective?
Thanks Jessy❤️
As always, I’m wowed great job !!!
Great job Jess!
Thanks for sharing this info
Thank you Jessica Os
Hi Jess thanks for always being there to be helpful to us through your research hope you doing fine , one day at a time ok. Stay safe 🍯.
Pure truth thanks Jessica ❤️
My woman... ❤️ From Nigeria. I like your new hairstyle.
She’s Ghanaian not Nigerian
@@Avy999
I know. I'm from Nigeria. Sending her love from Nigeria. That's what I mean.
Very educative Jessi you do all
Great video, Jessica...👍
Only men without ambition and focus in life will really have time to do all these to please a woman. Guys if you have the resources do you really want to get married when you can actually stay single and have a girlfriend who doesn't live at your place therefore save yourself the headache and wanting to please her desire and focus on attaining your wealth
That's a totally wrong mentality my brother , marriage is a beautiful thing if both of you understand each other
Why do you need girlfriend when you are single? It's better not to have anyone and live your life as you want. Because your girlfriend is not a slave to you. But I will marry and have time for her as she will do to me.
Unless there ambition and focus include a meaningful relationship and a family. 🤷♂️
If you don't get the appeal of a long term relationship and family, what is your goal, what is your focus?
Money? That's a means to an end and a pathetic goal.
Friends with benefits? 😉
Take a deep look at yourself. There could be fears you must overcome in your life.
Hey Jessica. I hope your good. I'm impressed with all your UA-cam videos I've managed to watch, they are all informative and eye-opening. But how do you come up with all these ideas? Do you read books, surround yourself with knowledgeable people because of wow.
Nice views and opinions as usual. However I think just like men, women assume a lot of things about men. Men also want emotional connection for sex to happen. A man ejaculating sperm is not actually an orgasm and I think this is worth putting out there. So in essence, a lot of men don't have orgasms, they ejaculate.
i support u
Keep up the good work Jessica...
This makes a lot of sense
Very educative
Thank you Jessica. Wonderful.
This video will reach 1 million views in no time
I'm not that type of guy, i don't always feel comfortable talking about sex...but sometimes i would be confused about it because people my age want to get down to the nitty gritty at times but that's not me I'm 21 and i have a different mindset on that, just once i wish i can befriend a person who has the same mentality and mindset that i have
God bless you🙏
@@beckythebestt god bless you too
I really wonder every time you share a video. Am always a culprit at that very moment 😀.
This video will help me in other new relationships . The previous one has ended because I have been pushy for sex 🙏
Yep it was truth I just stay postivie abt one big girl for my future see what top to down bottom..
Good job. Keep them coming. Road to 1m subs.
Right after work, i am heading straight home love my partner more♥️♥️♥️ I can’t wait to get off!
Great one
love your videos💯
Thanks
Appreciate you Kev! 🙏🏾
she stood me up so amny times but she wont stop calling me from time to time... any advice
Ignore her... no contact for a month. She was taking you for granted. You are most probably NOT the only guy in her life.
@@cedenga Exactly...Matter of fact, just drop her all the way.
Great information, thanks Jessica
Very good video.
Your hairstyle is great. I like it. You should do it more regularly.
This lady is damn intelligent 😍
Preach on
Excellent video 📹
Hey i love you your videos because they have someone logic plzz make a video about good guy y not to become a good guy and if someone is how to switch it to what changes plz reply
Some of us needs subtitles please. Thank you
You're very intelligent
Dearest Jessica, I love your videos and in this case I have to say I have been lucky so far and been able to accomplish my goals! I am very private when it is about sex and I don’t like to talk much about intimate things such as sexual matters!
I love your videos and thank you so much for this one Lovely Jessica!
Love and Light to you always!
🙏🙏🙏🙏🍀🍀🍀🍀❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹❤️❤️
Hey Jessica
The points you given out are really great and I follow them especially if she's special to me, I like to play gentle. What does it mean when you (a man) do everything but the lady is not responding positively and she keeps avoiding intimacy especially sex... I fail to get it?
I will greatly appreciate your reply.
Thanks for always giving us the best infor.
Great 👍
very true you can just go for that with out love not only them some of us we can just go for that with out love no no no
You great Jessica
Much love from ❤️❤️❤️ from 🇰🇪
If the feel is not mutual, I’m out!
Amazing video