Keep trying to win her ONLY if you see these signs

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  • @JessicaOS
    @JessicaOS  Місяць тому +13

    For a private consultation with me, sign up as a VVIP here: www.patreon.com/jessicaos

    • @noelneel9091
      @noelneel9091 17 днів тому +2

      @@JessicaOS Please i need your help. I'm seriously in pain. Please help me.

  • @mnickiel09
    @mnickiel09 Місяць тому +126

    _DON'T EVER LET A WOMAN MAKE IT A CHALLENGE SIMPLY TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH HER, PERIOD_

    • @TeW33zy
      @TeW33zy 28 днів тому +4

      Yeah u want a woman easy which is understandable. But woman who are easy are open and other men will see that and try to sleep with her.

    • @kwekswilliams6884
      @kwekswilliams6884 21 день тому +9

      ​@@TeW33zyit's not about being easy but as a human being you know what you like so if she prefers you she's to connect the dot with you if it's the other guys she shouldn't. Period

    • @KarlEmanuel-f4l
      @KarlEmanuel-f4l 20 днів тому +7

      @TeW33zy I can't go out there and do my best to provide for my family, only to be greeted with stupid mind games and attitudes.

    • @iamflashin
      @iamflashin 19 днів тому

      AYE FOR REAL DOE

  • @viomao1963
    @viomao1963 17 днів тому +18

    If she's playing hard to get " leave her" chasing her will lower your self esteem

  • @gregorylatta8159
    @gregorylatta8159 Місяць тому +115

    Lack of reciprocity is the biggest red flag.

    • @tevbuff
      @tevbuff Місяць тому +7

      @gregorylatta8159 Agreed 100%

    • @alriyamy613
      @alriyamy613 5 днів тому

      🎉🎉 period

  • @Trelznc
    @Trelznc 19 днів тому +21

    I’m glad men are in sync here cause who wants to go through these headaches just to be loved ?

    • @FF-bj4nq
      @FF-bj4nq 10 днів тому +1

      I doubt men will be loved even after going through these

    • @jorammuwanguzi3698
      @jorammuwanguzi3698 10 днів тому +2

      😂😂😂

  • @TS-eg8dm
    @TS-eg8dm Місяць тому +76

    In today's date, men have no time to wait it out. Testing to see if she's gonna come back in, the truth is many of these women are sleeping with more than one man at the same time, whenever she's not available. And if she's unavailable too often, I definitely do not waste my time. I don't necessarily ghost her, but I stop texting her. I don't block her either, but I just won't respond too often, I won't prioritize reading her message, And when she decides to come around, I won't prioritize my time to focus on her.
    I'm not playing hard, but I just don't waste time with these modern women. When we date a woman, we spend money on her. I'm not gonna run her down so I can give her my cash. She better run me down and that's what's going on now, ha ha, ha. I'm not cocky. I'm just confident and smart. Reciprocation is what I responto very well

    • @Requordman
      @Requordman Місяць тому +12

      Bro, you said it all... I won't beg you to spend my money and time..

    • @TS-eg8dm
      @TS-eg8dm Місяць тому

      @Requordman Appreciate you sis👍🏾

    • @davidmatovu4230
      @davidmatovu4230 Місяць тому +6

      The guy she loves doesn't do much

    • @iamflashin
      @iamflashin 19 днів тому

      DAM ALL FACTS BRO ❕❕❕

    • @iamflashin
      @iamflashin 19 днів тому

      @@RequordmanSHEESH DAT SHT HIT

  • @briar35981
    @briar35981 Місяць тому +43

    This is good. Always look for reciprocal effort. Remember, your not the only one she's testing. She will have multiple suitors and she's trying to find the best and with the most resources. HYPERGAMY is real. Never be afraid to walk away.

    • @YalaMan01
      @YalaMan01 Місяць тому +1

      Thank you. I needed this.

    • @Requordman
      @Requordman Місяць тому +12

      ​@YalaMan01 Be very careful with some of these simp advisers. As a man, you also have the liberty to have multiple women as suitors. Then, choose the best for yourself!! Don't put yourself in an unnecessary competition with men you do not know. If the lady isn't ready to deal with you, walk away from her and move on to the next. Women make it easy for the men they like. Concentrate on your health, finances and peace of mind. If she isn't adding up to any of these 3, my guy, run. The dumpest thing a man will do is to tolerate a woman who plays mind games and seeks a man to prove himself to her.

    • @YalaMan01
      @YalaMan01 Місяць тому +3

      @@Requordman You must be one of the best in the world ❤️🤗😂

    • @Requordman
      @Requordman Місяць тому

      @@YalaMan01 bro, as a man, you already have problems to figure out. So, why do you go for a woman whose intentions about you is also another problem for you to figure out? It doesn't make sense one bit! Deal with women who are ready to deal with you.

    • @UsmanAbiodun-or3hp
      @UsmanAbiodun-or3hp Місяць тому +5

      @@Requordman simp advisers indeed
      The part She will have multiple suitors and she's trying to find the best and with the most resources
      It means she is gold digger

  • @Kingglory1997
    @Kingglory1997 Місяць тому +130

    Romantic relationships require maturity and being intentional. Under 25s usually don’t understand the concept of love and relationships. Even data shows that couples married under 25 have the highest divorce rates. Mature up, get your life in order and look for compatibility.

  • @br_josh
    @br_josh Місяць тому +47

    They won't 'test' the HR executive or play hard-to-get when they are looking for a job but something tells them they need to 'test' a man? Can you see why many of them cannot have a good relationship? Do you think that a high-quality man has much time for tests by one who should be an assistant to him?

    • @TheVineAbiola
      @TheVineAbiola 20 днів тому +1

      @@br_josh who should be an assistant to him??? A person's wife is their assistant??
      If many guys feel this way, then no reason why the rate of divorce is so high.
      Wow.

    • @MUSIQ_IS_MY_LIFE
      @MUSIQ_IS_MY_LIFE 2 дні тому +1

      @@TheVineAbiola Not married women but single ones

  • @obinnadike3923
    @obinnadike3923 Місяць тому +56

    We don't have time for games. Is either you are in or out. 😂

    • @skepo22
      @skepo22 23 дні тому +3

      I met this girl that leave in my appartment on a cool evening we chatted, I collected her number then about 2 days ago I sent her message introducing myself, she didn’t reply until 3 days ago.. she was like hey mentioned my name and said morning… I asked her how was her night? It took 30min for her to reply it was good and she didn’t ask how was mine, already knew it was a red flag.. I asked her if she is working today? Haven’t gotten a reply. Am about to delete her number right away I don’t play games.

    • @richardkimuyu1765
      @richardkimuyu1765 22 дні тому

      @@skepo22 do it let her go we should see other people

    • @VARCHANT
      @VARCHANT 20 днів тому

      My G 😂

    • @iamflashin
      @iamflashin 19 днів тому

      MAN IM TELL’N U

    • @pfuxamutirikhotso4094
      @pfuxamutirikhotso4094 18 днів тому +1

      @@skepo22 Wasted time

  • @ChardinKinkonda
    @ChardinKinkonda 8 днів тому +3

    I love this woman so much, she is so inspiring. i have learned a lot from your videos

  • @lambypigs
    @lambypigs Місяць тому +25

    Definitely take it personally, we not kids/teenagers.. I have no time for "test" and games , chicks who's mutually interested in you will not play games

  • @yrnbornstarr821
    @yrnbornstarr821 Місяць тому +38

    The guy she wants doest have to try, remember

  • @dancowan5129
    @dancowan5129 26 днів тому +12

    Nah, if she can't show her worth to me immediately, she's gone. I don't play games, and if she wants to, she can play them with someone else. I don't have time for games and tests.

    • @livermorej7238
      @livermorej7238 22 дні тому

      @@dancowan5129 fact my man big respect 🙏

  • @obinnadike3923
    @obinnadike3923 Місяць тому +26

    Pass her test? Is this a job interview? Meanwhile, while we are at it, money is being spent😂

  • @tashingabravechaitezvi8596
    @tashingabravechaitezvi8596 15 годин тому

    Thank you, Jessica. I paused your video and followed your advice. You're a genius 🥰

  • @OdoguKashimbi
    @OdoguKashimbi Місяць тому +3

    Hi pipo Smith here from Zambia n I just want to say I thank God for this ledy I mean Jessica like she has really really helpt me like that's me been honest on a normal day like this one this Jessica thin is something El's I thought I have lost everything I worked like I thought have lost the love of my life not until I started following this beautiful n intelligent Jessica n may God how can someone be this complete like Jessica you are one in a million otherwise much love from Zambia n God all might helpt you reach every were ur eye's are able to see

  • @diingthiong3504
    @diingthiong3504 23 дні тому +3

    We should withdraw our attention if they don't notice our efforts

  • @Eriecartel
    @Eriecartel 28 днів тому +9

    this video contradicts a video where you state shes stringing you along. One minute you say dont tolerate hot and cold the next you say hot and cold could mean shes fighting her feelings. If shes fighting her feelings it means you are an option and she doesnt see you as the main one so essentially you are a backup.

  • @addoasante7437
    @addoasante7437 Місяць тому +12

    Jess we need a lecture on "Self Evaluation before Relationship"

  • @NJM4279
    @NJM4279 Місяць тому +26

    They can pretend to be like that. Remember, they are also watching this video . Don't try so hard chasing a liability

  • @allanbrown8655
    @allanbrown8655 27 днів тому +8

    Last 3 relationships cost me a lot in monetary terms 😮

    • @estebantv8395
      @estebantv8395 3 дні тому

      @@allanbrown8655 boss leave and have peace

  • @GodBlessTheChild1
    @GodBlessTheChild1 3 години тому

    All of needing these explanations means dump her. If she has to do all of this guessing then she should dump you. Learn to leave quick! This type of energy causes doubt. Life is too demanding on other points to juggle for someone to care for them.
    “Thank You!” for sharing
    🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸

  • @4hinson777
    @4hinson777 27 днів тому +1

    Hey Jess, It's been a good miniute since taking in one one of your good videos. Lol ... Fellas, don't chase, just replace. Express interest but if she doesn't reciprocate keep it movin. No time for stupid games. Facts

    • @promotarfx
      @promotarfx 16 днів тому +1

      No time to entertain drama

  • @Requordman
    @Requordman Місяць тому +8

    Keep trying to win her?😂😂. That funny! The only thing men are winning here is our life goals and dreams. Nothing less!! Relationships should be mutual. If a man approaches a woman and she's interested, she should be direct with it. We already have problems to figure out. It is very silly to go for a woman whose intention about you is also another problem for you to figure out!

    • @edwinalcantaradelarosa4691
      @edwinalcantaradelarosa4691 29 днів тому +1

      This is gold, just see your best friend, how difficult was to talk to him/her in the beginning? Exactly, it was mutual and easy, because you were BOTH interested in things to work

  • @odinakajulian7474
    @odinakajulian7474 4 дні тому

    My two scent here from my experience with women is that if she's interested she'll make time for you. If she's giving flimsy excuses walk away. Life is full of trial and error. Embrace rejection and move on. If she's interested but playing games she'll come back. It's up to you as a guy to decide if you still want to or not. Women are attention lovers know when she's using you as an option to feed her ego. Self respect will make you know your worth in people's lives. Don't be a nice guy. It never ends well because you'll definitely be used financially or emotionally.

    • @odinakajulian7474
      @odinakajulian7474 4 дні тому

      Let me add this also. When someone wants something they go all in. So, if she's not reciprocating then she's not that interested in you. Rather she's just being kind not to hurt your feelings.

  • @MrYoooki
    @MrYoooki День тому

    Came just in time... Thanks Jessica

  • @007-bourne
    @007-bourne Місяць тому +2

    Thank you Jess. Good advice once again, it ain’t easy though. Patience in a foggy situation can be testing!

  • @emmanuelagbafor2027
    @emmanuelagbafor2027 Місяць тому +1

    This video was timely. I needed to watch it
    Thanks Jessica for sharing❤

  • @CodeWithClinton
    @CodeWithClinton Місяць тому +4

    There’s a girl I like, and I believe she feels the same way, but I’m not ready for a relationship right now. I had to block her on all platforms, which really hurts. I still have feelings for her, and I hope our paths cross again soon.

    • @UsmanAbiodun-or3hp
      @UsmanAbiodun-or3hp Місяць тому

      Bro are you a developer?

    • @CodeWithClinton
      @CodeWithClinton Місяць тому

      @@UsmanAbiodun-or3hp yes I am.

    • @PrinceoftheLightSkins
      @PrinceoftheLightSkins 29 днів тому +4

      Take her, opportunities like that don’t come everyday. Trust me you’ll wish you had her with you when no one is standing at the end waiting for you.

    • @CodeWithClinton
      @CodeWithClinton 27 днів тому +1

      @@PrinceoftheLightSkins thanks King.

    • @KOSEUNTI
      @KOSEUNTI 13 днів тому +1

      @@CodeWithClinton don't block her.. let her always see you so you'd ring in her head.. be of impact to her make sure you keep her busy with things that can develop her for you. Give her books to read, advise her to learn a skill.. be busy and keep her busy.. she'd love you more.. make sure you're not distracted too

  • @michaeljewell53
    @michaeljewell53 Місяць тому

    Good one Jessie your a wise woman,good things come to those who wait 👰🏾‍♂️

  • @Chosen_Wealth
    @Chosen_Wealth 10 днів тому +1

    Thank You Jessica ❤.

  • @olabisiabraham801
    @olabisiabraham801 6 днів тому

    Thank you Jessica! This is profound.

  • @felisco-multipurpose
    @felisco-multipurpose 5 днів тому

    Really great tips. Love it 💕

  • @Maskman_original
    @Maskman_original Місяць тому +3

    If a men is focusing on a better future for him and her, why the hell testing him so that you can distracting him so that you can have a better future; that makes sense. Why don't we as men start testing women with our friends to see how loyal women are.

  • @MVD8796
    @MVD8796 28 днів тому +1

    You have given us very good and sometimes wise advices related to relationships over the years, but I would like to know if you have already gotten engaged, if yet married?
    Peace ✌ from Luanda-Angola

  • @jamesbarnes1427
    @jamesbarnes1427 Місяць тому +3

    Keep up the great videos Jessica! 👍👍

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you! Will do!

  • @vensonleviticus
    @vensonleviticus 25 днів тому

    Great video Jessica 📹
    Precious my mentoress

  • @daima-v8s
    @daima-v8s 29 днів тому +1

    You have good skills personality and attitude.

  • @Its_superdave09
    @Its_superdave09 Місяць тому +1

    Thank you
    God bless you for this Jess! 👍🏾

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  Місяць тому

      You are so welcome and just so you know, i appreciate the way you interact with my channel. Means a lot

    • @Its_superdave09
      @Its_superdave09 Місяць тому

      I'm honoured! 🙌🏾 @@JessicaOS

  • @aliactsc
    @aliactsc Місяць тому +6

    "Playing hard to get" got some of us in a lot of trouble, Jessica. I'm sorry, but I have to caution men about this "playing hard to get" game. I almost self deleted because of this due to a false accusation. I love your content but for our generation, this might just be a dangerous game, especially if she attended/attends an ivy league university.

  • @roguegoldza8305
    @roguegoldza8305 29 днів тому +4

    Only accept tests from God

  • @AbdoulieJarju-ji8cv
    @AbdoulieJarju-ji8cv 22 дні тому

    Interesting my sister you really couch my heart may god bless you

  • @alexgodwinchinonso4531
    @alexgodwinchinonso4531 5 днів тому

    Some just take you for granted

  • @mn1994
    @mn1994 Місяць тому +2

    What are lovely conversation ❤❤

  • @SamuelPendar
    @SamuelPendar 27 днів тому +8

    Jessica, I usually like your content but trying to give justifications for womens’ games is ludicrous. If a woman is truly interested, she won’t play games. If she is playing games or “testing” it means her interest is low; she’s not that into you. Period. Guys listen, walk away immediately when the games begin! Don’t waste your time trying to raise her interest. Just walk. The next woman might value you more.

  • @SKYKID45
    @SKYKID45 Місяць тому +4

    I love you jesica ❤❤❤

  • @iamflashin
    @iamflashin 19 днів тому

    WELL U DEFINITELY FKN KEPT ME COOL PERFECT TIMING PERFECT VID 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

  • @DicksonEli2024
    @DicksonEli2024 Місяць тому +1

    Hello Jessy, nice to see you again

  • @samokoniha7022
    @samokoniha7022 Місяць тому

    Thank u a lot for this....wat i really needed at this time

  • @danieltob6362
    @danieltob6362 Місяць тому +5

    Make plenty of money guys

    • @GB-gf3dm
      @GB-gf3dm 5 днів тому

      You're gonna need it. 😂

  • @greensidehealth
    @greensidehealth Місяць тому +2

    Thanks for this

  • @FonyuyAyuveaElvis
    @FonyuyAyuveaElvis 8 днів тому

    Well said but I really wish to know if all these appy to godly relationships as well because to me a lady who doesn't have the fear of God is a no go area

  • @brianbrino4310
    @brianbrino4310 Місяць тому +1

    Thank you sooo much Jessica!

  • @Derickongo-ox7np
    @Derickongo-ox7np 5 днів тому

    I have noticed these traits in a friend

  • @RodneyDailey-df7sj
    @RodneyDailey-df7sj 10 днів тому

    Great content thank you Jessica

  • @MrXslim
    @MrXslim 29 днів тому +2

    I realized something today this woman I was talking to I thought she interested in me was actually playing me for a fool and I had enough of her stupid little games she plays so I decided to walk away and never speak to her again because they are other women out there who won’t play theses games with me and she was following other guys behind my back making up stories that she was married oh and other good story that she made up that she had a supposedly partner I’m just glad I walked away because that I’m not tolerant of that BS if she wants to play games do it on her on own time not wasting my time

  • @TheoplisFisher
    @TheoplisFisher Місяць тому +4

    Naw…this a bad return on investment. She plays game and I’m On my way! Out the door. Absolutely no games period.

    • @GB-gf3dm
      @GB-gf3dm 5 днів тому

      You can do that. But the point of the video is for you to consider the woman's comparable value. Fools walk away from gold that's hard to get. 😢

    • @TheoplisFisher
      @TheoplisFisher 5 днів тому

      @@GB-gf3dm fools gold everywhere it’s cheaper not to keep her.

  • @iconerable
    @iconerable 14 днів тому

    Testing is the method used in the 90s. It doesn't work anymore; its either u r in or out

  • @bernardthuo2455
    @bernardthuo2455 5 днів тому

    If she play games she is not that interested in you. An interested woman can do anything to get you. Just walk away and never chase her,period!

  • @akandejoseph01
    @akandejoseph01 13 днів тому

    God bless you for these tips 😅

  • @sanelesithole5427
    @sanelesithole5427 Місяць тому

    Thank you, I really needed this

  • @reggresseau5427
    @reggresseau5427 12 днів тому

    Men observe and evaluate too.

  • @ceptermicray
    @ceptermicray Місяць тому +4

    HERE IS A TOPIC: MONEY

  • @nickislearning
    @nickislearning 6 днів тому +1

    Or, you could find a woman who doesn’t play games. Just a thought ❤

  • @davidfreeman8091
    @davidfreeman8091 Місяць тому +2

    Thanks Jess

  • @eniolasamuel7754
    @eniolasamuel7754 Місяць тому +2

    Thanks so much for this video but I will love to ask for more clarification.
    Based on the examples you gave for sing number 4, plz I will love to ask what then can I do and how can I go about it cous that what exactly am facing.

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  Місяць тому +1

      Hi Sam, Let jump on a private call so i can elaborate further. Sign up as a VVIP here: www.patreon.com/JessicaOS

  • @DabohChelsea-ik7bm
    @DabohChelsea-ik7bm Місяць тому +1

    Good afternoon Jessica

  • @dingdong3482
    @dingdong3482 Місяць тому +5

    Sorry Jessica but fuck em if they don't reply or show you respect move on and don't look back ❤

    • @user-bs5qr5ie4s
      @user-bs5qr5ie4s 29 днів тому

      @dingdong3482 lol
      I can advice you as a man on how to get ladies attention
      And how to get ladies to say yes

    • @darlingtonsilva2612
      @darlingtonsilva2612 28 днів тому +1

      Please advice me on how to get a working class lady to say yes to you, there is this lady, she is very matured, also from Africa, she’s in her middle 30’s and vet matured, working class lady, we both are in the same office, I have approach her twice, she told me that, she’s not ready for relationship, even she will, that it will be some one from the sane country with her, that shares the the same culture and traditions, she gave me her number, I do text her, but she don’t give me much attention

    • @vaice2k
      @vaice2k 28 днів тому

      What country is she frm? hw abt u?​@@darlingtonsilva2612

    • @dingdong3482
      @dingdong3482 27 днів тому +1

      @darlingtonsilva2612 go to Thailand lady love you for long time

    • @NtokozoChristian
      @NtokozoChristian 27 днів тому

      ​​@@darlingtonsilva2612 Leave brother, time is money... Surely she's seeing someone else or doesn't necessarily see you as the one... Run brother man, just run away mate

  • @kartof47
    @kartof47 11 днів тому

    Why play? Playing hurts alot in the end making you dissapear... why that play, why people are not believing in true intentions ? Why pure is considered strange....

  • @emmanuelessel2811
    @emmanuelessel2811 Місяць тому +4

    Jesse I am with someone. Where I keep we keep on chatting every blessed time even at work times, we each other respect. We do everything ,We cross the elements of friendship. We have good times together, but whenever I propose to her ,she keeps on pushing me away. She's not ready for a relationship, saying I should move on ,But she opens up to me ,tell me everything about her and her family, showing me family pictures.
    SO WITH THIS SHOULD I MOVE ON?

    • @solomonblack6344
      @solomonblack6344 Місяць тому

      Bro you might be in a friend zone. Sorry it hurts.

    • @UltimateBallaPOM
      @UltimateBallaPOM 25 днів тому

      She told you to move on, what more proof do you want that she can't be with you?

  • @Atluntadhimanathoni.trolls
    @Atluntadhimanathoni.trolls 12 днів тому +1

    This is bs.. 😂 just ignore her and focus on yourself brothers

  • @robertcarney6259
    @robertcarney6259 11 днів тому

    not a test kind of man, Man of my word yes, test me Na i’m good.

  • @chonga_j
    @chonga_j 2 дні тому

    *never mind the games and all, i caught her she had cheated on me!*

  • @jowurani
    @jowurani 5 днів тому

    Great video

  • @DabohChelsea-ik7bm
    @DabohChelsea-ik7bm Місяць тому +2

    Thanks for sharing ❤❤❤

  • @jamesbarnes1427
    @jamesbarnes1427 Місяць тому +3

    What if she has all this! But want give u a answer about getting back with you? But only tells u she loves u and doesn't want anyone else but u. But says she's letting Jesus let her know? 🤔

    • @redpillknowledge1578
      @redpillknowledge1578 Місяць тому +1

      Dude why would you want to get back with an ex? 🤨🤔 y'all dudes be funny 😅😅

    • @jamesbarnes1427
      @jamesbarnes1427 Місяць тому +1

      @redpillknowledge1578 not me my best friend! It was just a Question? My friend wanted a answer... lol

    • @jimifash
      @jimifash Місяць тому

      Don't go that far!
      At the very end, we're all humans.
      A UA-cam comments section is one of the wrong places to decide if two people who were previously in love should get back or not when you don't know the context of why a breakup happened in the first place; and for as fickle and irrational as humans can be.
      That's not how the human world works. Not ever, actually!

    • @UltimateBallaPOM
      @UltimateBallaPOM 25 днів тому +1

      Your friend should move.
      Right now their ex is benefiting having your friend around without any of the responsibility that comes with being in a relationship with them.
      They might genuinely be unavailable or, more than likely, exploring their options and treating your friend as a safety net.

  • @dibondokasingo
    @dibondokasingo 20 днів тому

    I don't agree with fact no 4,inconsistency means she's after something,she comes back because you've refused to play ball

  • @ugochuke
    @ugochuke 13 днів тому

    Men deserve more 😢, we don't care about all this game.

  • @BillGriffins
    @BillGriffins Місяць тому +2

    U have a very wonderful and sweet voice, i wish tried doing ASMR, i bet u guys will kill to see that.

  • @OGTrollTroll8
    @OGTrollTroll8 19 днів тому

    They have rules for Simps and non for the man she wants.

  • @modinxpression9513
    @modinxpression9513 Місяць тому +1

    Thank you 🥂

  • @khotsomohlala1106
    @khotsomohlala1106 25 днів тому

    This is a Grey area big sis... you could be the safe option in this case...

  • @victorayodele2577
    @victorayodele2577 Місяць тому +1

    Yeah thats right

  • @NineToes19
    @NineToes19 4 дні тому

    Don’t walk away. RUUUUUNN!!!!!!!

  • @curtisamoako8685
    @curtisamoako8685 17 днів тому

    Good idea

  • @rufusg7544
    @rufusg7544 5 днів тому

    What if she's in a relationship and she's still interested in you, how do you do that??

  • @ErickSande-hb1kd
    @ErickSande-hb1kd 5 днів тому

    Never chase a woman who is playing hard to get, by any stretch of the imagination.
    Be kind to yourself gentleman

    • @QuietStorrm860
      @QuietStorrm860 4 дні тому

      @ErickSande-hb1kd well, I definitely dont want a woman thats easy to get. Cant take that seriously.

    • @ErickSande-hb1kd
      @ErickSande-hb1kd 4 дні тому

      @@QuietStorrm860 it's not about easy or hard to get. It's more vibrational. It's about protecting my mental health.
      I used to believe that a woman must play hard to get when I was young.
      Ugandan women are approachable, they get married at a high rate. Kenya women are not very approachable and the rate of singleness isn't very amazing. Women in their late 20s and mid 30s still playing hard to get. Lol

  • @Bigdawg-fx2sf
    @Bigdawg-fx2sf 16 днів тому +1

    They belong to the streets..

  • @muchirigachirigachiri3839
    @muchirigachirigachiri3839 26 днів тому

    IF IT FEELS LIKE IT'S PULLING MY TEETH, THEN IT'S NOT FOR ME TO CHEW

  • @georgenjue1394
    @georgenjue1394 26 днів тому +2

    Fuck all these tests

  • @abrahamgpoquee5013
    @abrahamgpoquee5013 28 днів тому +1

    Hey J, thanks so much. I’m Abraham l met a girl at my job site of recent and l tried to establish something with her (relationship) and she’s displaying some of these signs. But the frustrating part is she’s don’t reply to my messages until after 5 to 6 hours and we both work with the same company and same position but senior for me . What’s your advice? Please reply.

    • @olusholaige4851
      @olusholaige4851 23 дні тому

      11:02 don’t get into a relationship with anyone who works at same company or establishment with you. It’s a red flag to any type of romance or relationship you wanna have. Be wishes.

  • @sorin_ion8151
    @sorin_ion8151 16 днів тому

    She can't cook but she tests the crap out of you...
    Nah , i'm good...

  • @xammyroxmusic744
    @xammyroxmusic744 20 днів тому

    Test my patience?😂
    Go test Drake. Never ask her out more than once. Never qualify to her if you are truly that guy, it is always the other way around .. Women are never unsure, you are not just him my king. Don’t be a rebound, it ain’t worth the wait cos some other dude hitting that and you are just one of her gfs, an emotional tampon. Nothing should feel stressed. It is only worth your time if you detect a genuine burning desire from the jump PBP👍🏾

  • @ampdrum1
    @ampdrum1 11 днів тому

    What if she’s letting you into her world, but she has a boyfriend? I had to ask. He’s still there. Rubbish character.

  • @AfricanDive
    @AfricanDive Місяць тому +1

    What if your ex says she loves you but not sure if she wants to get back with you.

    • @UltimateBallaPOM
      @UltimateBallaPOM 25 днів тому

      Move on.
      She's getting your time and attention without the responsibility of getting your time and attention.
      If she finds someone she wants to be in a relationship, there's nothing you can do to stop her.

  • @tabotcaleb4821
    @tabotcaleb4821 18 днів тому +1

    Looks like a second Job to me

  • @MrIchikun21
    @MrIchikun21 27 днів тому +1

    what does it mean if she already said no to me about a month ago when I confessed my feelings and asked her out, but lately she is not distant anymore and she comes to see me with her friends and talk to me when i'm working (I work in a grocery snack bar) whenever she has time. She even dances when she hears songs that she likes to dance to in my shop, in front of me, even though she should know I fell in love for her through looking at her dancing in the past, I know she is a dancer, she loves dancing but ... What does it mean ? and why is she acting like that ? (me and her have been good friends for over a year)

  • @debojitrabha2502
    @debojitrabha2502 5 днів тому

    Dont listen to her. Dont waste time with testers. Dont be an option.

  • @RoselineEkeocha
    @RoselineEkeocha 12 днів тому

    Na your eyes dey make me watch your videos 😂😂