@@TeW33zyit's not about being easy but as a human being you know what you like so if she prefers you she's to connect the dot with you if it's the other guys she shouldn't. Period
Romantic relationships require maturity and being intentional. Under 25s usually don’t understand the concept of love and relationships. Even data shows that couples married under 25 have the highest divorce rates. Mature up, get your life in order and look for compatibility.
This is good. Always look for reciprocal effort. Remember, your not the only one she's testing. She will have multiple suitors and she's trying to find the best and with the most resources. HYPERGAMY is real. Never be afraid to walk away.
@YalaMan01 Be very careful with some of these simp advisers. As a man, you also have the liberty to have multiple women as suitors. Then, choose the best for yourself!! Don't put yourself in an unnecessary competition with men you do not know. If the lady isn't ready to deal with you, walk away from her and move on to the next. Women make it easy for the men they like. Concentrate on your health, finances and peace of mind. If she isn't adding up to any of these 3, my guy, run. The dumpest thing a man will do is to tolerate a woman who plays mind games and seeks a man to prove himself to her.
@@YalaMan01 bro, as a man, you already have problems to figure out. So, why do you go for a woman whose intentions about you is also another problem for you to figure out? It doesn't make sense one bit! Deal with women who are ready to deal with you.
@@UsmanAbiodun-or3hp Claiming someone is a golddigger just for looking for the best security in a relationship (which money provides) is ignorant. Golddiggers aren't looking for security (or even love) in a relationship. They are con artists.
They won't 'test' the HR executive or play hard-to-get when they are looking for a job but something tells them they need to 'test' a man? Can you see why many of them cannot have a good relationship? Do you think that a high-quality man has much time for tests by one who should be an assistant to him?
@@br_josh who should be an assistant to him??? A person's wife is their assistant?? If many guys feel this way, then no reason why the rate of divorce is so high. Wow.
thanks! the comment I'm looking for! Unless both see each other almost every other day, tests is a waste of time and resources whereas a man can put it to someone else who has little mind games. I have plenty success during my crazy dating game more than 15 years ago and can't remember if any gave me tests because I was so busy with others.
My two scent here from my experience with women is that if she's interested she'll make time for you. If she's giving flimsy excuses walk away. Life is full of trial and error. Embrace rejection and move on. If she's interested but playing games she'll come back. It's up to you as a guy to decide if you still want to or not. Women are attention lovers know when she's using you as an option to feed her ego. Self respect will make you know your worth in people's lives. Don't be a nice guy. It never ends well because you'll definitely be used financially or emotionally.
Let me add this also. When someone wants something they go all in. So, if she's not reciprocating then she's not that interested in you. Rather she's just being kind not to hurt your feelings.
In today's date, men have no time to wait it out. Testing to see if she's gonna come back in, the truth is many of these women are sleeping with more than one man at the same time, whenever she's not available. And if she's unavailable too often, I definitely do not waste my time. I don't necessarily ghost her, but I stop texting her. I don't block her either, but I just won't respond too often, I won't prioritize reading her message, And when she decides to come around, I won't prioritize my time to focus on her. I'm not playing hard, but I just don't waste time with these modern women. When we date a woman, we spend money on her. I'm not gonna run her down so I can give her my cash. She better run me down and that's what's going on now, ha ha, ha. I'm not cocky. I'm just confident and smart. Reciprocation is what I responto very well
Nah, if she can't show her worth to me immediately, she's gone. I don't play games, and if she wants to, she can play them with someone else. I don't have time for games and tests.
Definitely take it personally, we not kids/teenagers.. I have no time for "test" and games , chicks who's mutually interested in you will not play games
I met this girl that leave in my appartment on a cool evening we chatted, I collected her number then about 2 days ago I sent her message introducing myself, she didn’t reply until 3 days ago.. she was like hey mentioned my name and said morning… I asked her how was her night? It took 30min for her to reply it was good and she didn’t ask how was mine, already knew it was a red flag.. I asked her if she is working today? Haven’t gotten a reply. Am about to delete her number right away I don’t play games.
Hey Jess, It's been a good miniute since taking in one one of your good videos. Lol ... Fellas, don't chase, just replace. Express interest but if she doesn't reciprocate keep it movin. No time for stupid games. Facts
Keep trying to win her?😂😂. That funny! The only thing men are winning here is our life goals and dreams. Nothing less!! Relationships should be mutual. If a man approaches a woman and she's interested, she should be direct with it. We already have problems to figure out. It is very silly to go for a woman whose intention about you is also another problem for you to figure out!
This is gold, just see your best friend, how difficult was to talk to him/her in the beginning? Exactly, it was mutual and easy, because you were BOTH interested in things to work
1. She tests you but remains engaged. She just needs and wants affirmation and has no real interest, so move on, because that's a massive red flag for future drama.
There’s a girl I like, and I believe she feels the same way, but I’m not ready for a relationship right now. I had to block her on all platforms, which really hurts. I still have feelings for her, and I hope our paths cross again soon.
@@CodeWithClinton don't block her.. let her always see you so you'd ring in her head.. be of impact to her make sure you keep her busy with things that can develop her for you. Give her books to read, advise her to learn a skill.. be busy and keep her busy.. she'd love you more.. make sure you're not distracted too
Hi pipo Smith here from Zambia n I just want to say I thank God for this ledy I mean Jessica like she has really really helpt me like that's me been honest on a normal day like this one this Jessica thin is something El's I thought I have lost everything I worked like I thought have lost the love of my life not until I started following this beautiful n intelligent Jessica n may God how can someone be this complete like Jessica you are one in a million otherwise much love from Zambia n God all might helpt you reach every were ur eye's are able to see
I am trying to get a girl for 3 months long now... She shows 4 of these 5 signs. She is still coming back. I am thinking now to walk away and hope she will figure out quicker if she wants me.
Me, personally. I love GENUINE EFFORT from the BEGINNING. I know my worth, and I'm not jumping through any extra hoops, or hurdles. Fellas, I advise you to do the same.
You have given us very good and sometimes wise advices related to relationships over the years, but I would like to know if you have already gotten engaged, if yet married? Peace ✌ from Luanda-Angola
Thanks so much for this video but I will love to ask for more clarification. Based on the examples you gave for sing number 4, plz I will love to ask what then can I do and how can I go about it cous that what exactly am facing.
If a men is focusing on a better future for him and her, why the hell testing him so that you can distracting him so that you can have a better future; that makes sense. Why don't we as men start testing women with our friends to see how loyal women are.
I sent a treble txt one of them mentioning I didn’t sleep all night and probably won’t go into work and hate letting people down…but also it it just happened to be my birthday and I told her that too! Guess what no happy birthday txt or any txt and I haven’t heard from her since.
Here's the thing... I'm 30 years old and been single my whole life. I don't want that kind of headache... it's distressing and in a way a spat in the face of a man who is genuinely in love with you. Sure you might test someone but it gets to a point where she intentionally hurts you just to test how far you're willing to go and that's messed up. I'm currently in this situation right now where a girl I like is doing this or I don't know... she's making very subtle hints and also her friends to let me know that there's still a chance but made it painfully obvious weeks ago that she isn't really interested and that I should stop. I put a lot of effort in those weeks of courting her but end up getting rejected. And now I see these subtle hints that it got me bugging. My friends told me that they might be right that she only tested me to see how far I'll go and that I shouldn't have stopped. But should my love for her be payed with too much drama and heartache from the onset? This is why I'm really having huge trust issues especially in loving someone. 😞
Not at my age of 60. I poured a lot of effort into the 1st date, a spontaneous 90 mile drive to be with her, it felt so bloody good to meet this girl. A week later she just came back with the one liners and backtracking on what i thought she wanted. Im gutted to have pulled the plug tbh, but I'm not prepared to fight tooth and nail for that 2nd date, that is not forthcoming, I've walked away, hard as it is 😢
What if she’s shows signs of being a dismissive avoidant and pulled away? I decided to go no contact and let her reach out. It’s been 3 weeks so far. Not really sure how long to hold out for hope . I see it could be from 1-3 months before coming back around. That’s a lot of time to wait 😕
Why play? Playing hurts alot in the end making you dissapear... why that play, why people are not believing in true intentions ? Why pure is considered strange....
I realized something today this woman I was talking to I thought she interested in me was actually playing me for a fool and I had enough of her stupid little games she plays so I decided to walk away and never speak to her again because they are other women out there who won’t play theses games with me and she was following other guys behind my back making up stories that she was married oh and other good story that she made up that she had a supposedly partner I’m just glad I walked away because that I’m not tolerant of that BS if she wants to play games do it on her on own time not wasting my time
this video contradicts a video where you state shes stringing you along. One minute you say dont tolerate hot and cold the next you say hot and cold could mean shes fighting her feelings. If shes fighting her feelings it means you are an option and she doesnt see you as the main one so essentially you are a backup.
I see how you might see that as a contradiction... The key difference in what she is saying though is not a contradiction. In this video she is saying that when she is being hot and cold, it's not necessarily because she is playing a game... It's that she has feelings for you but is still figuring things out, so don't give up just yet. It means she feels something deeper for you, but as she said in the video she could be scared of getting hurt, maybe she still needs time...or something else Where as someone who is playing hot and cold but doesn't actually have deep feelings for you and the connection is leading no where but frustration for you and manipulation or games.
The thing to remember though is women are always going to test you... EVERY woman is going to test you. Hot and cold, confidence tests, shit tests, value tests, whether to see what kind of man you are, to test your strength, emotional independence, or whatever... They do this as a way to weed out weak men and to find a strong partner for them. So that's why you can't ever let a woman move you off center, always remain calm, and don't ever let her emotional state affect you, her emotional state does not dictate how you feel about yourself, no matter what her behavior is!! You remain masculine, calm and easy going, confident! Make lite of situations, be humorous (not a clown), playfully challenging, don't take her so serious when she gets emotional and trys to test you to make you emotional. Tests are not necessarily a bad thing, it's means she sees you as a potential partner! She wants you to pass her tests. It's when the testing is disrespectful, that's when you stand your ground, be assertive and put her in her place, and if you feel the need to, walk away! Now it is your job as the man to decide what you will accept and not accept... And whether or not things are mutual and if the investment and energy you put into the woman is worth it, tests and all. So if you feel that hot and cold, or whatever the case may be is not what you deserve or want to accept, or you don't feel she values or respects you, then you have every right to not put up with it and walk away.
Jesse I am with someone. Where I keep we keep on chatting every blessed time even at work times, we each other respect. We do everything ,We cross the elements of friendship. We have good times together, but whenever I propose to her ,she keeps on pushing me away. She's not ready for a relationship, saying I should move on ,But she opens up to me ,tell me everything about her and her family, showing me family pictures. SO WITH THIS SHOULD I MOVE ON?
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@@JessicaOS Please i need your help. I'm seriously in pain. Please help me.
Hey Jessica! 😊
If she turns to you to open up all of a sudden she sees you as her gay best friend
You are a genius where have you been all my life 🤦🤦💯🙏🙏
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Lack of reciprocity is the biggest red flag.
@gregorylatta8159 Agreed 100%
🎉🎉 period
If she's playing hard to get " leave her" chasing her will lower your self esteem
@@viomao1963 exactly
Just done it mate. I'm 60, not 16 and ain't got time for the games, stress, and headaches.
_DON'T EVER LET A WOMAN MAKE IT A CHALLENGE SIMPLY TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH HER, PERIOD_
Yeah u want a woman easy which is understandable. But woman who are easy are open and other men will see that and try to sleep with her.
@@TeW33zyit's not about being easy but as a human being you know what you like so if she prefers you she's to connect the dot with you if it's the other guys she shouldn't. Period
@TeW33zy I can't go out there and do my best to provide for my family, only to be greeted with stupid mind games and attitudes.
AYE FOR REAL DOE
@@TeW33zyTF are you talking about?😂🤣😭
I’m glad men are in sync here cause who wants to go through these headaches just to be loved ?
I doubt men will be loved even after going through these
😂😂😂
Romantic relationships require maturity and being intentional. Under 25s usually don’t understand the concept of love and relationships. Even data shows that couples married under 25 have the highest divorce rates. Mature up, get your life in order and look for compatibility.
You are right bro 💯
You are right bro 💯
You are right bro 💯
You are right bro 💯
100percent fact
This is good. Always look for reciprocal effort. Remember, your not the only one she's testing. She will have multiple suitors and she's trying to find the best and with the most resources. HYPERGAMY is real. Never be afraid to walk away.
Thank you. I needed this.
@YalaMan01 Be very careful with some of these simp advisers. As a man, you also have the liberty to have multiple women as suitors. Then, choose the best for yourself!! Don't put yourself in an unnecessary competition with men you do not know. If the lady isn't ready to deal with you, walk away from her and move on to the next. Women make it easy for the men they like. Concentrate on your health, finances and peace of mind. If she isn't adding up to any of these 3, my guy, run. The dumpest thing a man will do is to tolerate a woman who plays mind games and seeks a man to prove himself to her.
@@Requordman You must be one of the best in the world ❤️🤗😂
@@YalaMan01 bro, as a man, you already have problems to figure out. So, why do you go for a woman whose intentions about you is also another problem for you to figure out? It doesn't make sense one bit! Deal with women who are ready to deal with you.
@@UsmanAbiodun-or3hp Claiming someone is a golddigger just for looking for the best security in a relationship (which money provides) is ignorant. Golddiggers aren't looking for security (or even love) in a relationship. They are con artists.
They won't 'test' the HR executive or play hard-to-get when they are looking for a job but something tells them they need to 'test' a man? Can you see why many of them cannot have a good relationship? Do you think that a high-quality man has much time for tests by one who should be an assistant to him?
@@br_josh who should be an assistant to him??? A person's wife is their assistant??
If many guys feel this way, then no reason why the rate of divorce is so high.
Wow.
@@TheVineAbiola Not married women but single ones
thanks! the comment I'm looking for! Unless both see each other almost every other day, tests is a waste of time and resources whereas a man can put it to someone else who has little mind games. I have plenty success during my crazy dating game more than 15 years ago and can't remember if any gave me tests because I was so busy with others.
My two scent here from my experience with women is that if she's interested she'll make time for you. If she's giving flimsy excuses walk away. Life is full of trial and error. Embrace rejection and move on. If she's interested but playing games she'll come back. It's up to you as a guy to decide if you still want to or not. Women are attention lovers know when she's using you as an option to feed her ego. Self respect will make you know your worth in people's lives. Don't be a nice guy. It never ends well because you'll definitely be used financially or emotionally.
Let me add this also. When someone wants something they go all in. So, if she's not reciprocating then she's not that interested in you. Rather she's just being kind not to hurt your feelings.
@@odinakajulian7474 I agree and I've experienced it. Just walk away.
Correct bro, I have been a victim of this , she left me without no concrete reason, after a year she is trying to come back.
In today's date, men have no time to wait it out. Testing to see if she's gonna come back in, the truth is many of these women are sleeping with more than one man at the same time, whenever she's not available. And if she's unavailable too often, I definitely do not waste my time. I don't necessarily ghost her, but I stop texting her. I don't block her either, but I just won't respond too often, I won't prioritize reading her message, And when she decides to come around, I won't prioritize my time to focus on her.
I'm not playing hard, but I just don't waste time with these modern women. When we date a woman, we spend money on her. I'm not gonna run her down so I can give her my cash. She better run me down and that's what's going on now, ha ha, ha. I'm not cocky. I'm just confident and smart. Reciprocation is what I responto very well
Bro, you said it all... I won't beg you to spend my money and time..
@Requordman Appreciate you sis👍🏾
The guy she loves doesn't do much
DAM ALL FACTS BRO ❕❕❕
@@RequordmanSHEESH DAT SHT HIT
Perfect video. Currently in this phase now and everything you said is right on point. She's worth fighting for. God bless you
She is not, dude...
We should withdraw our attention if they don't notice our efforts
Nah, if she can't show her worth to me immediately, she's gone. I don't play games, and if she wants to, she can play them with someone else. I don't have time for games and tests.
@@dancowan5129 fact my man big respect 🙏
THAT PART.
Definitely take it personally, we not kids/teenagers.. I have no time for "test" and games , chicks who's mutually interested in you will not play games
We don't have time for games. Is either you are in or out. 😂
I met this girl that leave in my appartment on a cool evening we chatted, I collected her number then about 2 days ago I sent her message introducing myself, she didn’t reply until 3 days ago.. she was like hey mentioned my name and said morning… I asked her how was her night? It took 30min for her to reply it was good and she didn’t ask how was mine, already knew it was a red flag.. I asked her if she is working today? Haven’t gotten a reply. Am about to delete her number right away I don’t play games.
@@skepo22 do it let her go we should see other people
My G 😂
MAN IM TELL’N U
@@skepo22 Wasted time
Hey Jess, It's been a good miniute since taking in one one of your good videos. Lol ... Fellas, don't chase, just replace. Express interest but if she doesn't reciprocate keep it movin. No time for stupid games. Facts
No time to entertain drama
Thank you Jess. Good advice once again, it ain’t easy though. Patience in a foggy situation can be testing!
Absolutely!
The scales are callin off my eyelids thanks Jessica!!!
Don’t walk away. RUUUUUNN!!!!!!!
Jess we need a lecture on "Self Evaluation before Relationship"
good idea
I love this woman so much, she is so inspiring. i have learned a lot from your videos
Wonderful
Good one Jessie your a wise woman,good things come to those who wait 👰🏾♂️
I love you Jessica,you are the best of your kind. You are beautiful, confident and yes you hit the nail on the right spot. Thank you for being you.
Pass her test? Is this a job interview? Meanwhile, while we are at it, money is being spent😂
You damn right! Money is also spent while we make moves and we just get tested?! F*CK THAT!
wow ...this was really informative..feels like a game of chess ,thank you for shedding some light on this
Interesting my sister you really couch my heart may god bless you
Thanks for watching
This video was timely. I needed to watch it
Thanks Jessica for sharing❤
Glad it was helpful!
@@JessicaOSyea
Keep trying to win her?😂😂. That funny! The only thing men are winning here is our life goals and dreams. Nothing less!! Relationships should be mutual. If a man approaches a woman and she's interested, she should be direct with it. We already have problems to figure out. It is very silly to go for a woman whose intention about you is also another problem for you to figure out!
This is gold, just see your best friend, how difficult was to talk to him/her in the beginning? Exactly, it was mutual and easy, because you were BOTH interested in things to work
Your words are intelligent and meaningful ones
1. She tests you but remains engaged. She just needs and wants affirmation and has no real interest, so move on, because that's a massive red flag for future drama.
Came just in time... Thanks Jessica
I actually needed this..
They can pretend to be like that. Remember, they are also watching this video . Don't try so hard chasing a liability
Haha 😅
You said it all 😅
So who’s gonna talk then 😂😂🤦🏾🤦🏾
Good
😂
There’s a girl I like, and I believe she feels the same way, but I’m not ready for a relationship right now. I had to block her on all platforms, which really hurts. I still have feelings for her, and I hope our paths cross again soon.
Bro are you a developer?
@@UsmanAbiodun-or3hp yes I am.
Take her, opportunities like that don’t come everyday. Trust me you’ll wish you had her with you when no one is standing at the end waiting for you.
@@PrinceoftheLightSkins thanks King.
@@CodeWithClinton don't block her.. let her always see you so you'd ring in her head.. be of impact to her make sure you keep her busy with things that can develop her for you. Give her books to read, advise her to learn a skill.. be busy and keep her busy.. she'd love you more.. make sure you're not distracted too
The guy she wants doest have to try, remember
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You have good skills personality and attitude.
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Great video
Make a lot senses what you have said. Thank you for that.😂😂🎄🎅
Some just take you for granted
I have a female friend name Jesse who does everything you explained with me..Thanks much Jessica..
I like your excellent advice thanks 👍
Thank you, Jessica. I paused your video and followed your advice. You're a genius 🥰
Keep up the great videos Jessica! 👍👍
Thank you! Will do!
Thank you Jessica! This is profound.
Really appreciate this 👏👏👏
Thank You Jessica ❤.
Hi pipo Smith here from Zambia n I just want to say I thank God for this ledy I mean Jessica like she has really really helpt me like that's me been honest on a normal day like this one this Jessica thin is something El's I thought I have lost everything I worked like I thought have lost the love of my life not until I started following this beautiful n intelligent Jessica n may God how can someone be this complete like Jessica you are one in a million otherwise much love from Zambia n God all might helpt you reach every were ur eye's are able to see
What are lovely conversation ❤❤
Thank you
God bless you for this Jess! 👍🏾
You are so welcome and just so you know, i appreciate the way you interact with my channel. Means a lot
I'm honoured! 🙌🏾 @@JessicaOS
I love you jesica ❤❤❤
I am trying to get a girl for 3 months long now... She shows 4 of these 5 signs. She is still coming back. I am thinking now to walk away and hope she will figure out quicker if she wants me.
Move on. She belongs to the streets!
Great video Jessica 📹
Precious my mentoress
Not if she's in a rebound. Head the opposite direction and never look back
Hello Jessy, nice to see you again
You too!
Men deserve more 😢, we don't care about all this game.
Thanks for this
Exactly that's what she's doing
Great content thank you Jessica
Last 3 relationships cost me a lot in monetary terms 😮
@@allanbrown8655 boss leave and have peace
That guy winding a tape took me back to my teenage years
Thanks for sharing ❤❤❤
You are so welcome
Thanks Jess
Thank u a lot for this....wat i really needed at this time
Always welcome
Me, personally. I love GENUINE EFFORT from the BEGINNING. I know my worth, and I'm not jumping through any extra hoops, or hurdles. Fellas, I advise you to do the same.
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Thank you sooo much Jessica!
You are so welcome!
You have given us very good and sometimes wise advices related to relationships over the years, but I would like to know if you have already gotten engaged, if yet married?
Peace ✌ from Luanda-Angola
Good afternoon Jessica
Thanks so much for this video but I will love to ask for more clarification.
Based on the examples you gave for sing number 4, plz I will love to ask what then can I do and how can I go about it cous that what exactly am facing.
Hi Sam, Let jump on a private call so i can elaborate further. Sign up as a VVIP here: www.patreon.com/JessicaOS
Thank you, I really needed this
No problem 😊
Naw…this a bad return on investment. She plays game and I’m On my way! Out the door. Absolutely no games period.
You can do that. But the point of the video is for you to consider the woman's comparable value. Fools walk away from gold that's hard to get. 😢
@@GB-gf3dm fools gold everywhere it’s cheaper not to keep her.
Really great tips. Love it 💕
Or, you could find a woman who doesn’t play games. Just a thought ❤
Thanks much for this video.
If a men is focusing on a better future for him and her, why the hell testing him so that you can distracting him so that you can have a better future; that makes sense. Why don't we as men start testing women with our friends to see how loyal women are.
That push and pull garbage is to confusing
God bless you for these tips 😅
This massage is all about me and my girlfriend
Men observe and evaluate too.
I sent a treble txt one of them mentioning I didn’t sleep all night and probably won’t go into work and hate letting people down…but also it it just happened to be my birthday and I told her that too! Guess what no happy birthday txt or any txt and I haven’t heard from her since.
Make plenty of money guys
You're gonna need it. 😂
not a test kind of man, Man of my word yes, test me Na i’m good.
Here's the thing... I'm 30 years old and been single my whole life. I don't want that kind of headache... it's distressing and in a way a spat in the face of a man who is genuinely in love with you. Sure you might test someone but it gets to a point where she intentionally hurts you just to test how far you're willing to go and that's messed up. I'm currently in this situation right now where a girl I like is doing this or I don't know... she's making very subtle hints and also her friends to let me know that there's still a chance but made it painfully obvious weeks ago that she isn't really interested and that I should stop. I put a lot of effort in those weeks of courting her but end up getting rejected. And now I see these subtle hints that it got me bugging. My friends told me that they might be right that she only tested me to see how far I'll go and that I shouldn't have stopped. But should my love for her be payed with too much drama and heartache from the onset? This is why I'm really having huge trust issues especially in loving someone. 😞
*never mind the games and all, i caught her she had cheated on me!*
Not at my age of 60. I poured a lot of effort into the 1st date, a spontaneous 90 mile drive to be with her, it felt so bloody good to meet this girl. A week later she just came back with the one liners and backtracking on what i thought she wanted. Im gutted to have pulled the plug tbh, but I'm not prepared to fight tooth and nail for that 2nd date, that is not forthcoming, I've walked away, hard as it is 😢
If she play games she is not that interested in you. An interested woman can do anything to get you. Just walk away and never chase her,period!
They have rules for Simps and non for the man she wants.
Thank you
Thank you so much
What if she’s shows signs of being a dismissive avoidant and pulled away? I decided to go no contact and let her reach out. It’s been 3 weeks so far. Not really sure how long to hold out for hope . I see it could be from 1-3 months before coming back around. That’s a lot of time to wait 😕
bummer😢...bruv just move on...if she's really interested she'll get back to you minimum 1 day of silence...sorry manh shes not that interested
Testing is the method used in the 90s. It doesn't work anymore; its either u r in or out
Here is the thing, I have no time for stupid games.
Jessica i understand you're msg very well if you're not mature enough you will not understand but this is fact 👌
Why play? Playing hurts alot in the end making you dissapear... why that play, why people are not believing in true intentions ? Why pure is considered strange....
I realized something today this woman I was talking to I thought she interested in me was actually playing me for a fool and I had enough of her stupid little games she plays so I decided to walk away and never speak to her again because they are other women out there who won’t play theses games with me and she was following other guys behind my back making up stories that she was married oh and other good story that she made up that she had a supposedly partner I’m just glad I walked away because that I’m not tolerant of that BS if she wants to play games do it on her on own time not wasting my time
I have noticed these traits in a friend
Thanks you
this video contradicts a video where you state shes stringing you along. One minute you say dont tolerate hot and cold the next you say hot and cold could mean shes fighting her feelings. If shes fighting her feelings it means you are an option and she doesnt see you as the main one so essentially you are a backup.
I see how you might see that as a contradiction... The key difference in what she is saying though is not a contradiction. In this video she is saying that when she is being hot and cold, it's not necessarily because she is playing a game... It's that she has feelings for you but is still figuring things out, so don't give up just yet. It means she feels something deeper for you, but as she said in the video she could be scared of getting hurt, maybe she still needs time...or something else
Where as someone who is playing hot and cold but doesn't actually have deep feelings for you and the connection is leading no where but frustration for you and manipulation or games.
The thing to remember though is women are always going to test you... EVERY woman is going to test you. Hot and cold, confidence tests, shit tests, value tests, whether to see what kind of man you are, to test your strength, emotional independence, or whatever... They do this as a way to weed out weak men and to find a strong partner for them. So that's why you can't ever let a woman move you off center, always remain calm, and don't ever let her emotional state affect you, her emotional state does not dictate how you feel about yourself, no matter what her behavior is!! You remain masculine, calm and easy going, confident! Make lite of situations, be humorous (not a clown), playfully challenging, don't take her so serious when she gets emotional and trys to test you to make you emotional.
Tests are not necessarily a bad thing, it's means she sees you as a potential partner! She wants you to pass her tests. It's when the testing is disrespectful, that's when you stand your ground, be assertive and put her in her place, and if you feel the need to, walk away!
Now it is your job as the man to decide what you will accept and not accept... And whether or not things are mutual and if the investment and energy you put into the woman is worth it, tests and all. So if you feel that hot and cold, or whatever the case may be is not what you deserve or want to accept, or you don't feel she values or respects you, then you have every right to not put up with it and walk away.
Jesse I am with someone. Where I keep we keep on chatting every blessed time even at work times, we each other respect. We do everything ,We cross the elements of friendship. We have good times together, but whenever I propose to her ,she keeps on pushing me away. She's not ready for a relationship, saying I should move on ,But she opens up to me ,tell me everything about her and her family, showing me family pictures.
SO WITH THIS SHOULD I MOVE ON?
Bro you might be in a friend zone. Sorry it hurts.
She told you to move on, what more proof do you want that she can't be with you?
@@UltimateBallaPOM Maybe a move on official letter with a friendship certificate 😂😂😂😂