I Hate My Daughter-in-Law on Dr. Phil - Part 7
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Dr. Phil explains to Donna how her current methods have become a method for alienating her son and daughter-in-law.
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I have not heard a single thing that’s happened that justifies all the hate from that mother toward her son’s wife.
HER SON loves HIS WIFE and CHID!! for that evil woman THAT'S TOO MUCH!!!!!!
Mom has unnatural feelings for her son.
Dr. Phil absolutely nailed this!
I relate to this.....supportive husband and four beautiful kids. After 20 years my MIL isn’t as cruel as she used to be, so I tolerate visits, but my kids don’t even know my in laws. Totally fine with me....they don’t deserve it and my parents are loving, brilliant grandparents. Toxic people live for drama.
She has absolutely no right in this world to treat her DIL the way she has. Mom is jealous and can’t CONTROL DIL in any aspect and she hates her for it. You can lack respect for a person, not hate them and still be able to act with civility towards them. They are well within their rights to keep the grandchild away until she can behave like a descent person towards that grandchild’s mother. This whole situation is the result of Mom’s actions and no one else’s.
She wants her DIL to be submissive and she’s not. She’s smart and a medical professional. She works and is a mother. The MIL is miserable and wants everyone else to be too
I wish there was an update on this.
I lived this. Bet she's still causing drama
Back handed compliments. Undermining them
The son needs to be a husband FIRST
as any decent mother would expect
@@Kathy-kr1sv i did too. This was 30 years ago. I finally walked out and never saw them again.
I feel so bad for the words she just sits there and take all that negative hate in, that woman is crazy
grow a pair
@@Imran-iwnl-Haider I’ve seen your comments all over these videos - you seem like a very insecure man child. Sorry about that.
@@leahvibes grow a pair
@@Imran-iwnl-Haider you’re disgusting lol
@@Imran-iwnl-Haider why tho? What do I need to grow, what does the original commenter need to grow, cos if it’s balls bff I think that’s a bit of projection
I'd love to know after all these years when this was first aired, whatever happened with this lovely young couple and his crazy jealous Mother.
I have a similar mother in law while my husband has chosen our small family over his first family, there is no doubt that her behaviour has poisoned our relationship.
@@zeinak5154 I'm so sorry to hear that Zeina. I have 3 daughters in law and one son in law and I am so glad they have found good people to stand by them. As to whether I endorse their relationships, well no I cant say that I do but despite my own reservations, I do know that they love one another and they stand by each other and that for me means so much. I just can't understand how a mother could be so dead set against her son's/daughter's choice of a soul mate that she would jeopardise her relationship with her son/daughter and her grandkids in trying to criticize and bring down their union. If it was a case of spousal abuse or some form of addiction, maybe I could understand but in the end, they've made their choice and are willing to stand by their man or woman and there is nothing I can say or do that will change that. My focus would be on the wellbeing of my son or daughter but most especially, my grandkids. They're me and their grandfather's blood too. I just don't get this jealousy thing with a mother and her son's choice of partner in life. She needs some other form of focus and quite frankly, she's bordering on the psychotic here. So as for yourself and your husband, maybe a little counselling wouldn't go astray. But ye made the right choice nonetheless, no matter what trauma it has caused you both. And I have no doubt that this annexation from grandma has done just that.
My guess either they cut her off and they broke up either one
I watched all 7 parts to this story. I hope they cut all ties with this toxic woman!
where is the husband
This is the classic “nobody is good enough for my son” syndrome. She’s jealous that her son is no longer paying attention to her and is focused on his own family, and she’s trying to force his hand by causing problems in his marriage in the hopes that she’ll be able to break them up and he’ll be all hers again. What a bitter, jealous lady. Let your son go live his life and have his own family. This isn’t about you.
Mother in law keeps changing subject and not answering Dr Phil’s question. She’s crazy and pissed she has no control in her sons life anymore.
GROW UP ALREADY!!!!!!!
She is just jealous of this lovely girl who this mother in law thinks stole her precious son.
It is not jealousy. It is "disrespect." I think the hate is a product of "disrespect." She does not "respect" this girl. She doesn't cook. She sleeps all day. She is pampered. She went to nursing school but does she work? We don't know. MOM is carved out of wood. She is up at 5AM. She makes food for everyone in the house, gets two loads of laundry on, goes out to work construction, pulls a 10 hour shift, comes home, makes dinner for everyone, and doesn't go to sleep until 11PM. She is a machine and she demands that any wife that comes into her son's life be that same way, a machine. That girl will never ever do that. Ever. MOM does more in one day than she could ever do in a month. So MOM disrespects her. So SHE (out of vengence of the disrespect) tells her husband (MOM's son) lets deny your mom access to her grand-daughter. And if you love me, you will do that. And son capitulates to his young wife because he likes having a happy wife and like the s3x.
That is where the disrespect turns into hatred.
Dr Phil LOVES the MOM. He does. He sees her and a completely and totally functional human being. The problem is Dr Phil is NOT permitted to put this discussion in the frame that I have done because that will destroy this young girl on national television. So he has to find a way (through the MOM) to get the MOM to understand (no matter how difficult it is) that there is NO WAY that daughter-in-law will ever be everything that MOM is. And that is a really tough thing to do because MOM is super smart and MOM is super functional and MOM really hates the daughter-in-law who took away the grand-daughter.
@@paulcolburn3855 I wonder why my comments keep disappearing? I expressed my honest opinion. You seem terribly controlling of others and what they are allowed to say.
@@louellajackson3647 : I don't delete your comments. My comments seem to disappear as well Louella. I am not controlling. I am only (properly) explaining why the MOM is the way she is. Makes sense to me.
@@paulcolburn3855 So your comments are disappearing, too. Hmmmmm. Just because Mom is the way she is, it doesn’t justify her behavior. Mom gets to work or live her life the way she so chooses. That’s her right. Yet, she hates her daughter in law for how she chooses to live. You can hate a someones actions and not totally hate the them personally. Hatred and toxicity are two sides of one coin. They don’t want their child exposed to that and actions have consequences. In my opinion Mom is trying her best to destroy her own son’s marriage and doesn’t care about who she’s hurting. In the long run it will truly be her grandchild that suffers the most because of her actions and behaviors.
@@louellajackson3647 I upvoted you because I don't dispute any of what you wrote. But none of what you wrote is the point. The point is her hatred is a manifestation of her not "respecting" this girl. She has NO RESPECT for her now daughter-in-law and is convinced that this girl will eventually RUIN her son. She is convinced of it. And she feels that way because she can see nothing of value or virtue in her daughter-in-law. I didn't say it was right. But I get her point.
I just hope one day my son will find a girl like her. My wife and I would be thrilled, and we would love her dearly. Mum needs to get over the jealousy double quick, life its too short and its running out fast.
The MIL should have to beg forgiveness for all the pain she has caused. I also would like an update on this. The MIL seems incorrigible.
Hope the DIL finds support on the Reddit MIL page.
That poor Girl you can really see the hurt in her eyes because she really wants her mother-in-law to accept her even after being so vicious to her.
Pride gets us every time
I think dumb is ON that list😁
Fantastic. Well done Dr Phil!
My first MIL was a cruel perpetually hateful lady. I will say this: All this ugliness does is cause misery for one and all, including the grandkids. An older woman should know better. My first husband passed away years ago and his mother has never ever said one word of apology or regret, not to him, not to my kids, certainly never to me. I guess she is comfortable passing into the next time with her hate. How sad that is!
Seems like she’s offended that her son picked a woman who is nothing like her. The amount of pride she exudes when she talks about all the things she’s able to do, and the amount of shame she throws at the DIL for sleeping in late and not cooking…she’s insulted that her son picked a woman completely opposite of her
I wouldn't allow her to see her grandchild!!
The reason why she hates her daughter-in-law is because she’s a beautiful young woman who is in a good marriage, is academically/ professionally successful and comes from a good family.
She hates her because she’s jealous of her and feels inferior by comparison.
The fact her son always picks his wife’s side only fuels those feelings of inferiority in comparison to her daughter-in-law. Many people are here suggesting her hate for this woman exists because she’s possessive of her son, but I think it has little to do with her son, and all to do with her fragile ego.
She’s envious, and that feeling is eating her alive. So much so, she desperately tries to dig to find a reason to vilify her DIL, but the more she digs, the more she realizes that woman has absolutely no reason to be the target of so much hate, which unfortunately, only makes her hate her more.
Kind and beautiful woman bothers the evil and ugly witch. What a Disney plot.
I was blessed with an amazing MIL...♥️
I don't even understand what the mother thinks her DIL did. It sounds like the mother is just looking for reasons to hate her DIL and is doing her best to drive a wedge into her son's relationship with his wife. Luckily her son is not playing that game and is standing by his wife.
The only thing I'd say is that Dr. Phil did not give the mother a chance to talk about why she hates her so much. She started to say that it started last year when.....and then he cut her off.
@@goldseraph7051 did you watch the episode at all? The MIL had plenty of opportunity to talk about the things she doesn't like about her DIL. The truth of the matter is that she doesn't have a specific reason to "hate" her. The problem is she's jealous of her DIL for taking her son away from her. She's also jealous of the life her DIL and son have together. They're attractive, smart, kind and clearly make a great couple. The MIL hates that because it's everything she doesn't have in her own pathetic life. She's a vile woman, and I hope she didn't get to see the grandbabies this wonderful couple made.
@@melaniekathleen4098 don't talk to me like that
@@goldseraph7051 like what? It was a simple question. I've watched the episode in it's entirety, and the mother is a bitter jealous woman who had no real reason to "hate" the DIL other than the already mentioned.
@@goldseraph7051 i bet you and the Mom would get along very nicely
It's simple. Mother is jealous. She crosses boundaries. She's going to nit pick everything thing about this girl that is not like herself. Mother's don't rule all. She thinks she does. What a shame to have a mother like her. She needs to keep her nose out of his life.
Point blank, she is just jealous of her daughter in law
as a man I can say its always the husbands mom that is the problem
I watched all these clips and I have yet to understand what the problem is. The morher has yet to explain why she hates his wife. She said 2 things so far... she sleeps in, and she doesn't cook much. This just tells ya her real problem is that she's 100% jealous
She wants to have 100% or nothing control.
Part 8?
My sister was very much like this woman
When she would meet a woman that was successful or came from a blessed family, and or very attractive she would unleash vicious hatred towards the woman non stop. Once the target of her hatred was no longer in her life she moved on to the next target. Consumed by jealousy expressed through pure hatred.
Great plan!!!
At least she wanna see her grandaughter.. Some dnt even wanna see their grandkids. Of course you dnt expect your mother inlaw to love you like you mom. Get into marriage knowingly. Tables can turn any minute. I know i experienced this ..
I remarried and my second MIL was a true kind-hearted lady; everything the first hate riddled MIL always was. I will NEVER willingly ruin my son's marriages when they marry. The only time people should interfere without a doubt is when a child is neglected and/or abused! This woman is obviously a good mother! Sheesh, what more should a mother wish for?!!
Jealousy
Where's the next part
dumb is number ONE on the list. stop
lying to her
There must be some severe trust issues with the way they look at each other like the mother doesn't trust her to be in her home or something.
At least that is the impression.
Let’s hope that they walked away from this vile woman. She’s not worth the time or effort. 😤😣
This Mom is CRAZY !!!!!!!
Almost as crazy as prince Harry
Jesus Christ loves you .
Amen
honestly I really don’t think she was smart enough to know that
wheres her husband, got a feelin he ran like he stole something
MIL hates DIL cause she expects her to take care of her son like she does , ( spoiled him and be his maid ) cook and serve her son like how she would do for her son . So when son cook n DIL wash up is not good enough . She forgot that as much as she wants that for the son , DIL also got a mum that wants to spoil her . Most mother will spoiled their son, seeing their son doing everything n spoiled their wife will really hurt MIL until it turn to hate.
I'm spiderman
no you’re not
Mom can't let go of the son that's it in the nutshell
Why is she constantly blinking her eyes 👀 ?
Stubborn woman.
There’s an old saying “ Never let a woman come between you and your family”
Not in this case
Yes DIL is spoiled, but her son is also spoiled! Here is what I think the problem is. 1. MIL tried to be sure her son is successful and no doubt she has probably bailed him out of a few situations. 2. Now she feels like DIL will only make matters worse. 3. Son telling Mom to close the f'ing door is disrepectful and hurtful. 4. Son taking advantage of his Mom's caring and wants independance from her but needs her there in case he needs financial help. 5. Son letting his wife take the brunt of Mom's rage to keep the pressure off of him and to justify HIS shortcomings. MIL needs to step back, bite her tongue and let him live his life! Let him fail and quit trying to clear the way to his success. DIL needs to tell them both that she is not participating in this drama. DIL needs to let MIL know that her acceptance is not required!
Damn why are women so complicated!!!!
She drove her husband away and doesn't want to share her little boy. Disgusting!
I would get out of that marriage not worth the drama you will always be misarible get out
It doesn’t matter who the son marries, the mother will always be mad if there’s another woman in his life. Plus they’re a happy couple. why throw that all away?
We can't pick our inlaws so get over it.
Barbara I’m sorry to say you sound exactly like this toxic mother in law I can only hope you aren’t one