Mine convos go like: Me: Hey, How's it going?! Her: fine. Me: That's good. Any plans this weekend? Her: No. Not yet. Me: that's too bad. I'm going to see that new dinosaur movie. Habe you seen it? Her: Huh? Oh. No I haven't. Me: chivalry died a looooong time ago
Alpha it worked! I asked a girl who makes the best pizza and BOOM! Pantees hit the floor and we had sex! Unfortunately we got kicked out of Walmart though...
“How’s your day going?” Is perfect. It’s not contrived, it’s generic yet personal and it allows the other person to engage as much or as little as they like. It also lets the other person take the conversation instantly to what they are interested in.
Appreciate video content! Sorry for chiming in, I am interested in your initial thoughts. Have you heard about - Tanoah Dumbstruck Tip (should be on google have a look)? It is a smashing one off guide for use smalltalk to make simple sexual conversations with women without the normal expense. Ive heard some awesome things about it and my good mate called Gray after many years got amazing results with it.
Damn that’s tough, I haven’t seen a woman without eyebrows or eyelashes (maybe eyebrows but never eyelashes) and all women have peach fuzz at the least so... I guess you don’t dig any natural chick on the planet oh well, you don’t need to multiply by having offspring anyway
Alpha I farted a couple of times and that started a conversation before ironically. They always asked me what did I eat, and we just start going down the rabbit hole of what gives me and that person gas.
The pizza one is GENIUS especially because I was a pizza chef for 18 months so I can bring my expertise into the conversation. Literally just tried it on Tinder and it worked like a charm. Thanks, Alpha!!
Yeah me too I like Papa Johns but there's a few other spots like Marco's and its another pizza spot the sells New York City style pizza down in Atlanta. Its awesome but for some reason I can't think of the name
Wealthbuilderz TV another Italian based restaurant serves humongous pizzas that are just so juicy it'd called Mamma Mia 2 I recommend it if it's around
I dont know if you, Alpha are going to see this someday but that nevermind, I wanted to writte it. Thanks! I began a few months to see your videos and I began to do what you always recommend us. Like this video, the small conversations, I never thought to talk the people that I just wanted to buy them something but when I started to do this even one of those guys said that just for ask him: How is your day? He was very thankfull with me, he told me that it's something kind and that made me see how good is to do these "not important things". Your videos are great and I have learned good things like something that you always say: "Be kind with everyone" it's another great thing.
1. Complement 2. No "me me talk" , no " i do this n i do this" don't be me centric 3. Look into their eyes. 4. ask them their opinion 5. be polilte 6. just start, don't think much 7. look good.
I like talking about myself if there's a need, and I don't give a rat's ass what the other party thinks lol.. just be confident we're not trying to make best friends out of everyday strangers
Me: excuse me i know this is kinda random, but who would you say has the best pizza around here? Her: idk Me: but what’s your favorite? Her: pepperoni Me: me too! i love it Her: good Me: ok bye
Matias Ross Why pepperoni instead of six cheese? What about stuffed crust? Second favorite? Why that one? Do you like Hawaiian pizza by any chance? Maybe we can go get one together sometime; I know a great place or maybe you may know one better
@@redgalaxy5199 Depends on the context. 'Cause if u approach a girl randomly on the street probably the conversation might have gone like this: The girl later your first question: Idk 'cause I think it's better. Idk, you know I gotta go.
For the dumb ones on my responses here, it’s a reference to Master of None. And how about you learn to take a joke for once and stop being so serious? Maybe you’ll get more dates and friends for that matter.
Number 8 Me: "Whats up girl... I use Tiege Hanley." Her(a year later, on the phone with a friend): "I know right, that's the only thing he said to me. Next thing I knew I was pregnant..."
Hey, alpha, I just wanted to say thank you. You probably won’t see this but I’m trans and chubby so I’ve never been comfortable with my body. You have inspired me to lose weight and do things to feel comfortable with myself. I just went down a size in clothes and bought an out I feel comfortable and love. It looks good and stylish. I’m so thankful I found this channel. Thanks Alpha
Thank u so much i am a student from iraq i ma studing at the department of translation in English language, and this conversation is really help full for me ❤️
I couldn't be more grateful and thankful for your awesome content that you put out Alpha, especially this video! Thank you so much for providing life skills for myself and for many others out there who want to connect and create new friendships. Been watching your channel for over a year and a half and hope you've been having a fantastic day! -Cody And Aloha from the island of O'ahu!
This channel all way come up with the goods It's got the clearest information simply explained It's the one channel I've been able to get the most from so far Love ya work man
I tried it now on the bus stop. Me: Hey man! Him: Hey?! Me: Did you see what I just right there? Him: Uhmm no, what?! Me: I started a CONVERSATION. Dude just walked away from me...rude smh...
Much needed tips on conversation starters. Starting a conversation with anyone is fairly easy and doable but lots of people seem to have struggles with it. Thanks for sharing.
Hey Alpha and others watching. I was struggling with this myself for quite some time. A bit of social anxiety you could call it. One tip to improve hugely is to just start talking about whatever you're doing he or she is doing. Also having a job where you have to sell stuff definitely helps as well. Just start talking about yourself if you're not sure. Everyone likes to be the centre of attention and anyone will have a remark on what you said since anyone has opinions nowadays. Talk about anything. Just a tip of advice since I struggled with social interacting myself for a long time
You are not gonna believe this. I watched the whole video and continued watching a random soccer video. I felt like I was talking to someone for a bit. I was thinking whether I was on phone with someone. It took 30 secs for me to realize that I watched this video. This shows how good he is at his job.
Hey alpha just would like to thank you for staying true to your subscribers. You influence me daily and hope I could one day be an influencer such like yourself.
This video is a big help for people like me who's most of the time the shy type and introverted. Thanks Aaron and I miss you and your awesome videos bigtime since I've been busy lately. xD
The best conversation starter that I use is to ask something generalize question of the event or place I'm in Like "Hey, how's your interview, have you got selected?" or "Excuse me, I found you looking at me, do you wanna have a cup of beer with me?" or I talk about something which we both are observing for a while like talking about some person or thing related to any activity.
I love that alpha puts everything in the video into the description, sometimes I want the information but don't have enough time to sit and watch all the way through
Yo alpha I don't know how you got this one but today I was thinking to talk to my crush. I didn't know what to start the conversation with. I randomly opened UA-cam and now I see your video.. Awesome videos man. Keep it up
Man, alpha, I just wanted to say that I freakn love you. Not being gay here it’s just that you’re always so engaged when talking to a camera that it feels like you’re standing right in front of me, giving me personal advice. Please never, ever stop this.
You are I think THE greatest person On UA-cam No Joke my friend iT Comes from the bottom of my heart i see that you have motivated me so I can not believe No one else did I think you are THE best motivator keep this up brother
It almost seems like they're weirded out by someone started conversation with them, which makes me wonder how they even managed to get more than 2 friends.
videos like this are usually garbage but this was pretty good. I really like the cell phone one and the hows your day. one can even go into the other. very well done M.
These were so good I almost talked back to you...
Ace lmao
Ace haha
Ace lol😂😂😂🤣🤣
Right on
Wow you're so funny bro
"Hey, you dropped something"
"Hmm? What?"
"Your standards. Hi, I'm Jordan".
That's awesome 😆
Got that from liveloveserve
that s actually genius dude
My name is Jordan so this hit hardddddd
Me: Excuse me, dropped my standards.
8. I use Tiege Hanley
*meet’s girlfriend’s parents for the first time*
“Hey where’s the best pizza?”
😂😂😂
Probably better not say that at the dinner table that her mother cooked lol
Ricardo Milos Oily flex power astartes agreed 😂
Ayooo😭💀💀💀😂
💀💀💀
Me: "Hows your day going?"
Them: "Good"
Me: "Oh thats good!"
Them: "Yup"
Me: ............ok then
Lane B lmao story of my Life
LMAOO yesss what should I say after they say “good”
LMAO 😂
Lane B you can ask if they like sand
Them: "How is your day going?"
Me: "Fine." (Code for "I don't know you. Leave me the fuck alone.")
This is how my conversations go..
Awkward Hi's
Eventually a topic to talk.
Talking topic ends
Awkward again.
Ajay kandhari my social life in a nutshell
Ajay kandhari I honestly thought your logo was a stray hair on my phone screen.
andythedarkone1982 omg same
Everytime someone asks me something, I'm too shy and always make an awkward smile.
Mine convos go like:
Me: Hey, How's it going?!
Her: fine.
Me: That's good. Any plans this weekend?
Her: No. Not yet.
Me: that's too bad. I'm going to see that new dinosaur movie. Habe you seen it?
Her: Huh? Oh. No I haven't.
Me: chivalry died a looooong time ago
"Your skin is so handsome. Do you use Tiege Hanley?"
ghettolawn middle LOL😂😂😂
HAHAHAHHA
"Your skin looks horrific, ever heard of Tiege Hanley?"
Aaahaahhha nice one :)
I made it a thousand likes bois
Hey Alpha, I tried using these tips today. Now I’m no longer allowed near the pre-school
This is an underrated comment
Yeah that's where you went wrong bro, let the wrong one catch you near a pre school your gonna lit up
Bruh💀
Of course you a Travis Scott fan 🤣🤣
LMAOO
Number 8. Ask them if they're subscribed to Alpha M.
You're goddamn right!
me: *approaches girl*
me: hey I don't meen to bother but I really like the length of your beard. How do you ke--
girl: *slaps me*
😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
AlfieAmmo 😂😂
"Is that a mirror in your pocket? I can see myself in your pants."
That one just missed the list.
mafia II?
batterysurf nice legs when do they open?
LOL
batterysurf “Hey are those new pants? Let me test out the zipper”
Does "I'm an astronaut and my next mission is to visit Uranus" work?
Imran Hisham of course, but just dont forget to tell people that you use Tiege Hanley.
Psssst...It's free real estate
Not Alpha
Eeeeeewwwww!!! 👎🏼
iykwim
Alpha it worked! I asked a girl who makes the best pizza and BOOM! Pantees hit the floor and we had sex! Unfortunately we got kicked out of Walmart though...
Andrew Hather lol that’s not really him
It worked for me too. I could've continued but the stupid daycare employee cock blocked me by kicking me out.
Dude it was great plot twist I was the girl💀
Lavar Ball😂😂😂😂😂
Funny! But I know your 🤥
“How’s your day goin”
“Good yours?”
“Good thanks”
Gets em every time ;)
But what next?
@@pizza619 radio silent
I used the beard conversation starter with a spicy señorita
Plot twist!
Dafaq😂😂😂
I'll assume her name was Carlo
Sergiu Spirescu that video 😂😂
XD
“How’s your day going?” Is perfect. It’s not contrived, it’s generic yet personal and it allows the other person to engage as much or as little as they like. It also lets the other person take the conversation instantly to what they are interested in.
Me: "Hey, do you breathe air?"
Girl: "uhhh ... yes?"
Me: "OH we have a lot in common!"
Girl: xdddddddddddd
Now we've been together for 2 months
Appreciate video content! Sorry for chiming in, I am interested in your initial thoughts. Have you heard about - Tanoah Dumbstruck Tip (should be on google have a look)? It is a smashing one off guide for use smalltalk to make simple sexual conversations with women without the normal expense. Ive heard some awesome things about it and my good mate called Gray after many years got amazing results with it.
LMFAOOO💀💀💀😭
That's so fuxking crazy lmaoooo
I did this and he replied with "lmaoooooo" and awkward mode again :")
I bet that’s the longest relationship you are in so far
My introverted ass still wont be able to start a conversation 😂😂
Same
Me: Wow, thats a really nice beard you got there!
Girl: *slaps me across the face*
Vincent Penschke 😂😂😂😂😂
I thought the same thing 😂
[5th graders be like]
“Hey baby you come here often”
“Umm yea it’s the playground”
Lmfao 😂
I spit out my orange juice on my grandpa while reading this.
Oh no
But Alpha, I don't really dig chicks with facial hair.
Too bad, you miss out a lot of fun. Tickling can cause an absolutely ecstatic sensation
That's your personal problem Bob, maybe this is not the channel for you
Shut up Bob
@NotZim he has a wife
Damn that’s tough, I haven’t seen a woman without eyebrows or eyelashes (maybe eyebrows but never eyelashes) and all women have peach fuzz at the least so... I guess you don’t dig any natural chick on the planet oh well, you don’t need to multiply by having offspring anyway
1:58 i complimented my crush fr her facial hair n c doesnt talk 2 me anymore😢😢😢
Rlly😂
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
Lololololololololol 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂
Some people
Alpha I farted a couple of times and that started a conversation before ironically. They always asked me what did I eat, and we just start going down the rabbit hole of what gives me and that person gas.
HAZMAN THE GREAT I'm sure you get ratchets only
Ha ha ha ha!!!!
Convo repellant lol
guys, farting shows self convidence. farting is self expression. BEST tip no 8: fart whenever you're able to.
this story was too awkward to finish
Hey alpha I've never been more confident than I am now all cause of you, so thank you and I have an exam today so wish me luck! 😃
Abdullah Rehman Not alpha speaking but I hope you do great 😉
No luck for you if you haven't studied enough...
how did it go?
Δημητρης Χρονης yeah it was very easy did really good on it. Waking up early to study was worth it.
Антон Фомин went great. Studied really hard. Understood everything. Was really easy in my opinion. Summer officially starts for me now.
The pizza one is GENIUS especially because I was a pizza chef for 18 months so I can bring my expertise into the conversation. Literally just tried it on Tinder and it worked like a charm. Thanks, Alpha!!
Gotta say alpha, one of my favorite videos ever. These actually feel genuine. Thank you.
Agree these are great
This has been one the most helpful "conversation starter" videos ever; thank you, dude!
That pizza convo starter is something I wouldn't ever thought of in my life but its a golden nugget!! So.... whats the best pizza you've ever tasted?
Wealthbuilderz TV Papa Johns man, it really tops all the rest of the other pizza parlors, but I do love Little Ceasers if I'm on a budget.
Yeah me too I like Papa Johns but there's a few other spots like Marco's and its another pizza spot the sells New York City style pizza down in Atlanta. Its awesome but for some reason I can't think of the name
Wealthbuilderz TV another Italian based restaurant serves humongous pizzas that are just so juicy it'd called Mamma Mia 2 I recommend it if it's around
Wedgys
Dont burn me for this but its pizza hawaii (yes as an italian I love pineapple on my pizza so its legit now!)
I dont know if you, Alpha are going to see this someday but that nevermind, I wanted to writte it.
Thanks!
I began a few months to see your videos and I began to do what you always recommend us. Like this video, the small conversations, I never thought to talk the people that I just wanted to buy them something but when I started to do this even one of those guys said that just for ask him: How is your day? He was very thankfull with me, he told me that it's something kind and that made me see how good is to do these "not important things".
Your videos are great and I have learned good things like something that you always say: "Be kind with everyone" it's another great thing.
1. Complement
2. No "me me talk" , no " i do this n i do this" don't be me centric
3. Look into their eyes.
4. ask them their opinion
5. be polilte
6. just start, don't think much
7. look good.
Mohit Sharma ok
Looking straight into their eyes might be too invasive for some people. Like, do that, but be chill about it.
I like talking about myself if there's a need, and I don't give a rat's ass what the other party thinks lol.. just be confident we're not trying to make best friends out of everyday strangers
Bruhh look good should be on top followed by a fat wallet
Compliment pal
Me: excuse me i know this is kinda random, but who would you say has the best pizza around here?
Her: idk
Me: but what’s your favorite?
Her: pepperoni
Me: me too! i love it
Her: good
Me: ok bye
Matias Ross
Why pepperoni instead of six cheese?
What about stuffed crust?
Second favorite? Why that one?
Do you like Hawaiian pizza by any chance?
Maybe we can go get one together sometime; I know a great place or maybe you may know one better
You could've said, ”fr why pepperoni? I usually find that shit common asf like your personality with girls”
Then you:Do ya wanna hang on with me ?
@@redgalaxy5199 Depends on the context. 'Cause if u approach a girl randomly on the street probably the conversation might have gone like this:
The girl later your first question: Idk 'cause I think it's better. Idk, you know I gotta go.
“I’m going to Whole Foods, want something?”
Treat yo self
Officer Jerry I actually had a girl on Match.com say this to me.... I wasn't feeling it, so I left it at that
Nah i only fuck with processed meats
For the dumb ones on my responses here, it’s a reference to Master of None. And how about you learn to take a joke for once and stop being so serious? Maybe you’ll get more dates and friends for that matter.
what an obscure reference. love the show but don't remember this
Those last two are golden! Don’t be afraid to give compliments because that is the most amazing way to engage people into a conversation with you
Thi channel is just amazing. Keep up the great work. You just can't imagine how much i appreciate all the effort that you put in your videos.😊
Number 8
Me: "Whats up girl... I use Tiege Hanley."
Her(a year later, on the phone with a friend): "I know right, that's the only thing he said to me. Next thing I knew I was pregnant..."
You’re my second dad💪🏻
Hubadancer SAME HERE !!
He is my dad
So how many dads u got??
More than u think :D
Same
I’m gonna go txt my crush “HEY MAN U COME HERE OFTEN???? ME TOO AHAHA”
I AM SO GLAD YOU DID NOT USE THE WORD CONVERSATE
Conversate is a word 😤😤😤 i use it
Hey, alpha, I just wanted to say thank you. You probably won’t see this but I’m trans and chubby so I’ve never been comfortable with my body. You have inspired me to lose weight and do things to feel comfortable with myself. I just went down a size in clothes and bought an out I feel comfortable and love. It looks good and stylish. I’m so thankful I found this channel. Thanks Alpha
“Hey do you watch Alpha M on UA-cam?” That’s a good start
Thank u so much i am a student from iraq i ma studing at the department of translation in English language, and this conversation is really help full for me ❤️
I couldn't be more grateful and thankful for your awesome content that you put out Alpha, especially this video! Thank you so much for providing life skills for myself and for many others out there who want to connect and create new friendships. Been watching your channel for over a year and a half and hope you've been having a fantastic day! -Cody And Aloha from the island of O'ahu!
This channel all way come up with the goods
It's got the clearest information simply explained
It's the one channel I've been able to get the most from so far
Love ya work man
"Hey do you know how heavy a polar bear is?"
"Heavy enough to break the ice"
LOL try that.
I tried it now on the bus stop.
Me: Hey man!
Him: Hey?!
Me: Did you see what I just right there?
Him: Uhmm no, what?!
Me: I started a CONVERSATION.
Dude just walked away from me...rude smh...
😂😂😂
Ahahhaha
Evilsamar well now you know what kind of person he is and you don’t need people like that in your life
😂😂😂😂
Evilsamar introverts can relate
Yes I do come here often
Me: **Looking at my watch*
someone: Hey, are you running late?
Me: No, My watch is amazing
**awkward silence from that side*
**real story
Legendary
@@mariolovenjak5696 :3 XD
Ask them if they use tiege Hanley
Much needed tips on conversation starters. Starting a conversation with anyone is fairly easy and doable but lots of people seem to have struggles with it. Thanks for sharing.
No not so easy
I love how you write all the tips in the description so i dont have to watch the videos when im in the hurry👌
I love when you do a genuine video without a sponsor, and just for us to get better. I got used to it though that I thought Brio was the sponsor lol
Thanks alpha i really wanted a video on this
You are really a great therapist you help out mankind cool dude lots of good talking
It’s my birthday, and this is a video i have been looking forward too!
Andrew S. Happy birthday!
I like this guy! He is good at giving us a good advice and life hacks so that our life as men will be easier than before.
The one video that we all must watch
thanks man it acually worked. ive tried it on this girl at worked and i got her number. hands down best channel for advice
Hey Alpha and others watching. I was struggling with this myself for quite some time. A bit of social anxiety you could call it. One tip to improve hugely is to just start talking about whatever you're doing he or she is doing. Also having a job where you have to sell stuff definitely helps as well. Just start talking about yourself if you're not sure. Everyone likes to be the centre of attention and anyone will have a remark on what you said since anyone has opinions nowadays. Talk about anything. Just a tip of advice since I struggled with social interacting myself for a long time
Have you tried the manscape lawnmower? Supposed to be a trimmer that can be used on the balls with no snag and cuts.
A play on, "How's your day going?" is "What's been the best part of your day?" I prefer the second option because it isn't an open ended question.
if they say anything other than "when you started talking" prepare to be curved
Julian C lol... just rub some Tiege Hanley on their reply; problem solved.
You want open ended questions
You are not gonna believe this. I watched the whole video and continued watching a random soccer video. I felt like I was talking to someone for a bit. I was thinking whether I was on phone with someone. It took 30 secs for me to realize that I watched this video. This shows how good he is at his job.
Me: "hows your day doing?"
Her: "idk good I think"
Hey alpha just would like to thank you for staying true to your subscribers. You influence me daily and hope I could one day be an influencer such like yourself.
This video is a big help for people like me who's most of the time the shy type and introverted. Thanks Aaron and I miss you and your awesome videos bigtime since I've been busy lately. xD
The best conversation starter that I use is to ask something generalize question of the event or place I'm in Like "Hey, how's your interview, have you got selected?" or "Excuse me, I found you looking at me, do you wanna have a cup of beer with me?" or I talk about something which we both are observing for a while like talking about some person or thing related to any activity.
I love that alpha puts everything in the video into the description, sometimes I want the information but don't have enough time to sit and watch all the way through
These tips are amazing 😉 I usually compliment to start a conversation
Not sure why.But this video is one of the best videos that you have uploaded till now...!
Alpha we love you . Thanks a lot.
Always appreciate a guy who uses Pixel phones, they're the best
I saw a girl today, she had a bit of hair on her chin, I just went: Aye, you gonna rock that beard girl
I love you man. I started a conversation with her using do you come here often but then I did my own thing... I love you alpha m.
Yo alpha I don't know how you got this one but today I was thinking to talk to my crush. I didn't know what to start the conversation with. I randomly opened UA-cam and now I see your video.. Awesome videos man. Keep it up
Ik I'm late but what happened? Did you talk to your crush
@@jessjess4192 I think we will never know...
Man, alpha, I just wanted to say that I freakn love you. Not being gay here it’s just that you’re always so engaged when talking to a camera that it feels like you’re standing right in front of me, giving me personal advice. Please never, ever stop this.
"Looks like a lord just sent me a conversation starter!", - Herbert the Pervert 😂😂
You are I think THE greatest person On UA-cam No Joke my friend iT Comes from the bottom of my heart i see that you have motivated me so I can not believe No one else did I think you are THE best motivator keep this up brother
Me: How is your dsys going?
My crush: Good.
[Insert awkward silence and crickets]
It almost seems like they're weirded out by someone started conversation with them, which makes me wonder how they even managed to get more than 2 friends.
videos like this are usually garbage but this was pretty good. I really like the cell phone one and the hows your day. one can even go into the other. very well done M.
Very good tips.Thank you Alpha🔥🤙
do a video about the man bun. I was thinking to try this hairstyle and I would really use ur advice
I love that outfit. PERFECT!!!
This is literally worth watching, the best channel on youtube definitely.
Best way to start a good conversation:
Start selling them some random product
What jacket are you wearing alpha
Rocking the jacket from the jose calab?!
Thnx 4 the heart Aaron
Alpha where did you get the black jacket from? Want!
Me: "hey excuse me what phone id that?"
Her: *"i have a boyfriend"*
Hey Alpha can you do a video about Your gardrop i wonder how many black t shirt you have
Continue the work you’re doing Aaron ❤️
This is a great video. I always want to make more friends at dog parks so now I know how to start a conversation 🙏🏼
*sees girl*
"I really like your beard, I wish I could sculpt mine like that."
These tips didn't work, got my beard stuck in the blender...
The last one just busted RIGHT THROUGH ME 5:40 TO 5:50 I inspire this guy alpha m.
U just nailed it man
All of alphas videos are godlike, keep it up man!!!!!
Anybody else noticed he low key plugged a beard trimmer.
Ethan Rix 😂😂
Loool yeah noticed
Just Met Alpha at the Gym ! Awesome guy ! Huge fan. Made my whole Freakin Year! Thanks for shouting out my brother !!!
Me: Do you have a boyfriend? Her: I have pizza. Me: 😐
I love the way how he sells his ideas, you the shit!
every time I start a conversation with someone, they always end up trying to sell me something. lol
Great video. Wjere did u get that jacket. As well as being a converstion starter, I really want to know where u got that jacket.