5 Tricks To STOP Being Shy In ANY Situation! (INSTANT Confidence)

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  • @waterblonk
    @waterblonk 7 років тому +2955

    I don't talk to people because I have no social skills.
    And I have no social skills because I don't talk to people.

    • @FeelinHazey16
      @FeelinHazey16 7 років тому +197

      waterblonk let me guess and when u do eventually start talking u embarrass urself?

    • @m.m.i.9586
      @m.m.i.9586 7 років тому +66

      I know it sounds silly, but if you read books on manners and social skills, it really helps. I highly recommend anything by Judith Martin (she's got a sense of humor). In and among instructions about excusing yourself from events or sending thank-you notes, there is practical, helpful advice for really awkward social situations.

    • @droptak
      @droptak 7 років тому +42

      You don't need social skills to start talking to people

    • @Jayant_klkrni
      @Jayant_klkrni 6 років тому +1

      Same loop bruv

    • @Kingwil497
      @Kingwil497 6 років тому +12

      Dude, literally just go out there and find someone that relates to you.

  • @sonnydong3726
    @sonnydong3726 7 років тому +467

    I have acne,uneven teeth, and low income. I am not the tallest or the best looking person, but I have my confidence and sense of fashion; confidence helped me in my social life and women. Life is to short to be shy. Seize the moment and just go for the girl you want. The worst she can say is no, then you can move on.

    • @HeedAndSucceed
      @HeedAndSucceed 7 років тому +16

      son dong how did you stop being shy?

    • @sonnydong3726
      @sonnydong3726 7 років тому +66

      HeedAndSucceed hope you are doing well. One of the thing that helps me to overcome my shyness is to understand that no matter what a person does or how much they change, life will basically stay the same, like "haters will always hate". With that mentality, I just approach life by being myself. Another aspect is that you are unique, even though you might think you're boring, but in reality you are not. Share who you are with someone. Some will walk away some will stay, those who does stay are the ones worth keeping.

    • @pakipashtunmafia6924
      @pakipashtunmafia6924 6 років тому +5

      son dong much respect brother fr u talk some sense right there

    • @prince_sach50
      @prince_sach50 6 років тому +3

      Tbh just dress well, look and groom yourself the best you can, and Have CONFIDENCE and Be yourself and I think 99.9% of guys can get a girl...

    • @Dovehkis
      @Dovehkis 6 років тому +1

      Bro ik a guy way worse then how you depict yourself that got with a really good looking girl, just got to work with what you have and just like alpha said if you can better yourself in some way to boost yourself up go for it !

  • @reacttv219
    @reacttv219 4 роки тому +1211

    Each like will increase your confidence level
    give it a shot guys...

    • @mohitbhatt5868
      @mohitbhatt5868 4 роки тому

      Shi h londa

    • @reacttv219
      @reacttv219 4 роки тому +1

      @@mohitbhatt5868 arre thnks bhai

    • @reacttv219
      @reacttv219 4 роки тому +1

      @@mohitbhatt5868 tune msg na kiya hota to pta na chlta kitne likes mil gye the meko

    • @mohitbhatt5868
      @mohitbhatt5868 4 роки тому +1

      Ab khush h na bhai😅

    • @reacttv219
      @reacttv219 4 роки тому

      @@mohitbhatt5868 bahot yr😂👍

  • @danielguzman9907
    @danielguzman9907 7 років тому +984

    Being 17, I've been shy almost all my life and life sucked. Plus, as I was getting older (middle-high school), I was extremely lonely and also extremely insecure about my body. I had terrible teeth that I needed braces (and it's extremely worth it, still have them on), I have gyno (moobs) and still do (not as bad since my testosterone has grown due to puberty and working out), and my whole body was out of shape (very skinny fat and worked out to fix it and still a lot more room for improvement). I had to first battle my insecurities and as well as embracing them for the time being. However, what made me break out of my bubble was just being more open. No one else can do it for you. Of course, one has to have some confidence in themself first as the foundation of breaking out of that damn bubble, but just being more open is what sets everything apart. As I reached junior year of high school, as much as I didn't want to talk, I realized that I need to change and that there's no other option. I did this by just gathering with people I'm comfortable with and cracked a joke (and it has to be funny and not out of place or else you've just fucked up). The crazy thing is that just like what Alpha said, now those people started talking to me more often and now those 3 guys are my friends. As the year progressed, I created social media accounts (don't really talk to anyone that much there since I'm a born introvert), especially since almost everyone st school had Snapchat and I was one of the only few people without one. I've also talk to way more people and rarely feel like an introvert anymore. Of course I'm still fairly anti-social and an introvert since I need some "me time" and don't really party, but all that has changed in the past year ultimately change my life for the better. To anyone out there, don't wait like how many people, such as myself, did for some "miracle" to happen, or that someone can make you not shy. Only YOU can change that and the sooner, the better. I call myself lucky since I've realized that I needed to change pretty early in my life, and as one gets older, the more stubborn people become. Being shy sucks ass since you aren't living life to the fullest. I do wish I wish that I lived my high school years to the fullest because I did miss out on so many opportunities just for being shy, but now I'm looking foward to college and upcoming years. What's a better time to break the bubble than now?

    • @sixteen02
      @sixteen02 6 років тому +54

      Wow, thats a huuge motivation 🙏 ty

    • @ugaming5893
      @ugaming5893 6 років тому +43

      Great comment and I respect you

    • @rojayrg8715
      @rojayrg8715 6 років тому +19

      Good advice bro

    • @PortugalMatt
      @PortugalMatt 6 років тому +27

      Thanks for the advice man, I'm 17 also and I think that from now on I'll open up to people more often

    • @rockybutts3360
      @rockybutts3360 6 років тому +17

      Amazing story, I along with many can relate to what you were/ still are going through. This was very motivating and up-lifting to read, thank you for sharing your story!

  • @sunilsigar3145
    @sunilsigar3145 5 років тому +469

    1. Identify your insecurities
    2. Pep talk , I'm awesome I'm great you are great
    3. Smile and give a compliment
    4. Push out of your comfort zone on daily basis, practice it, the more you do it

    • @r011ing_thunder6
      @r011ing_thunder6 5 років тому +11

      I don't want to compliment a dude on what he's wearing because I think that's kinda gay.

    • @Ragtime_Tony
      @Ragtime_Tony 5 років тому +1

      Some heros dont wear capes

    • @existence.5806
      @existence.5806 5 років тому

      @@r011ing_thunder6 lol

    • @r011ing_thunder6
      @r011ing_thunder6 5 років тому +1

      @@Jan7kowa11 okay sweet cheeks.

    • @ChrisCaldwellO66
      @ChrisCaldwellO66 5 років тому +8

      @@r011ing_thunder6 thats an insecurity! If you are secure in your sexuality, you should have no problem complimenting another man! And its really immature to think that way and not attractive to anyone.

  • @shintaromidorima3703
    @shintaromidorima3703 4 роки тому +1078

    I'm shy in real life but when it comes to online I'm fine.

  • @nateprince
    @nateprince 6 років тому +14

    1.) Identify your insecurities
    a. Change or embrace them
    b. Insecurities are invisible
    2.) Identify when you begin feeling shy
    3.) Give yourself a peptalk
    4.) Smile and give a compliment
    5.) Push yourself out of comfort zone on a regular basis
    You are F***ing amazing :D

  • @jordanl2317
    @jordanl2317 7 років тому +1619

    I'm insecure that the people I'm with don't want me there

    • @Vepporizer
      @Vepporizer 6 років тому +162

      Jordan L Same. Even though they tell me they like me 100 times I somehow don't believe them

    • @rosshenleytiburcio3287
      @rosshenleytiburcio3287 6 років тому +23

      same.

    • @taherismael1887
      @taherismael1887 6 років тому +129

      Even if they don't want you there, what is the worst thing that may happen ? They would form bad opinions about you ? Excuse me bro but screw them ! Do what you like and stop thinking about what people think of you because :
      A) people don't judge all the time as we imagine .
      B) even if they do judge you, it doesn't matter , even if they don't want you then being worried and ruining the moment for you won't get you over that , they would just make it worse .

    • @shielamaemenoza1632
      @shielamaemenoza1632 6 років тому +5

      I feel you.

    • @David-yw3os
      @David-yw3os 6 років тому +9

      Jordan L so good to know other people feel the same way

  • @pyareemohan3084
    @pyareemohan3084 7 років тому +240

    My confidence level increases when my hair style is good.👍

  • @mephistopheleslookingforad3861
    @mephistopheleslookingforad3861 6 років тому +731

    He snort some white confidence in the bathroom xD

  • @ryaneveridge2103
    @ryaneveridge2103 7 років тому +1971

    The comment section:
    5% about being shy
    5% thanking alpha for his videos
    90% rubbing/eating Tiege Hanley

    • @rah1752
      @rah1752 7 років тому +6

      lame

    • @Tabish80
      @Tabish80 7 років тому +6

      why arent pete and pedro in the comment section ;)

    • @503945158
      @503945158 7 років тому +3

      Ryan E1097 - Yup. When people don't know when jokes get old.

    • @oofnibber3507
      @oofnibber3507 7 років тому

      500 like boiiii but I don't know why that matters

    • @ryaneveridge2103
      @ryaneveridge2103 7 років тому +3

      Gertrude haha who cares if it's old? I didn't mean it as a joke anyway, just a general thing that I noticed...

  • @doruvictoru767
    @doruvictoru767 7 років тому +1845

    I love it when you upload when I've got studying to do :)

    • @CanalDoFilipe_
      @CanalDoFilipe_ 7 років тому +7

      Kamikaze 0150 same here

    • @afonsolucas2219
      @afonsolucas2219 7 років тому +9

      I hate to admit it, but it's also my case although I did do half of my work so I guess I'm ahead of you two... Whatever you're studying.

    • @haider5932
      @haider5932 7 років тому +2

      OMFGGGG/......I GT A BIO TEST TOMMORW

    • @rageblade7833
      @rageblade7833 7 років тому +3

      Im subscribed to 62 channels
      -_-

    • @ricitosdecobre__
      @ricitosdecobre__ 7 років тому +1

      Kamikaze 0150 hahahahaha my mum has just teased me for not leaving my phone and doind my homework lmao

  • @thesherbet
    @thesherbet 7 років тому +4

    I find that I'm chronically shy in quite a few situations, and you're right, I'm very aware of it when it happens. To this end, I've booked myself a trip to new york for a month next year to complete take myself out of my comfort zone and drop myself into a place where I know absolutely no-one and can hopefully be myself and help to beat a lot of my own personal insecurities.
    I feel like more people need a person like you Aaron in their lives. As much as society is moving towards more emotional connectivity, especially in men, most men simply don't have a figure they can go to when they need a pep-talk or advice on fashion/lifestyle. Certainly not parents, even if they in their mind wanted to give advice and help on these kind of subjects, it's still a very male thing to not show emotions and such as though it's a weakness.

  • @drizzylmg752
    @drizzylmg752 7 років тому +670

    Step number 1: stop being shy
    Step numbed 2: Do step number 1

  • @missylks1239
    @missylks1239 7 років тому +22

    "What are you insecure about?" EVERYTHING. I can't fix it all.

  • @ProPlayer-wq3nu
    @ProPlayer-wq3nu 7 років тому +2040

    I'm always shy...
    *BUT NOT WHEN I LUBE MY BODY WITH TIEGE HANLEY*

    • @davidcrossmier6012
      @davidcrossmier6012 7 років тому +24

      *FUCK YEAH*

    • @Nygge1982
      @Nygge1982 7 років тому +11

      I just had to click that Read More, even thou I knew that it was going to reference my favorite product in the world!

    • @thevibestation5174
      @thevibestation5174 7 років тому +1

      Oh yes daddy

    • @syedalee227
      @syedalee227 6 років тому

      Pro Player 1⃣ daym

    • @marmiksoni474
      @marmiksoni474 6 років тому +2

      Would you plz stop being everywhere.

  • @pharmit24
    @pharmit24 7 років тому +6

    I just say in my head that "I'm a motherfuckin' Starboy" when I'm feeling shy or in a stressful situation.

  • @mikeoxlong371
    @mikeoxlong371 7 років тому +148

    Why am I even watching this?
    I already know Tiege Hanley is the answer.

    • @skaterjoe1669
      @skaterjoe1669 6 років тому

      Thomas Betschart lol I'm here for these memes

    • @fahimshahriyar2494
      @fahimshahriyar2494 6 років тому

      just don't watch! stupid

    • @HamoTheUltimate
      @HamoTheUltimate 6 років тому

      Saqeeb Sakib it was a joke,calm down ur fuckin ass kiddo.

    • @defstonerworld1912
      @defstonerworld1912 5 років тому

      They dont sale Tiege Hanley at walmart. I was there yesterday

  • @smiggy5768
    @smiggy5768 7 років тому +1

    Recognising the fact that we are all equal helps build confidence because it removes the feelings of inferiority and superiority. Basically you don't anybody as better than you, and you don't see anybody as worse than you. This has helped me overcome shyness.

  • @Pduarte79
    @Pduarte79 6 років тому +10

    Another trick "Never took yourself too seriously. Learn to loosen up." Smile and be funny, make smart observations and conversation, that tends to help. If you are too focused in yourself and in the situation that produces the shyness, that feeds the problem and you start sweating and possibly entering in a paranoia state "what I'm doing here? I want to go home. etc" is important to fight that. And I know, what I talking about, because I used to be more shy, than I used to be.

  • @Hyperions92
    @Hyperions92 7 років тому +614

    I see some comments on here about "Eating" Tiege Hanley, so I bought some today, of course using Alpha M's "Discount code". It shipped to me in a jiffy, that's same day delivery for those who want to know. Gotta love the Tiege Hanley customer service. I sat down at my desk and began to put some in my mouth. I am now cooler, smarter, and faster in everyway, all because of Tiege Hanley. Thank you. Tiege.

    • @joejackson444
      @joejackson444 7 років тому +4

      :) :) :)

    • @yourfriendlyneighbourhoodc7969
      @yourfriendlyneighbourhoodc7969 7 років тому +6

      LMFAO!

    • @jack_crutons
      @jack_crutons 7 років тому

      LOL

    • @kwhiskey1373
      @kwhiskey1373 7 років тому

      Curious are people making fun of these videos about teige Hanley cuz the other advice he gives sucks or just to joke he mentions teige Hanley every video?

    • @tomscavo9419
      @tomscavo9419 6 років тому

      Brian Tobias Thanks bro,now I know how to use it :)

  • @HazmanTheGreat
    @HazmanTheGreat 7 років тому +403

    I have confidence like Johnny Bravo. "I am pretty, I am amazing"!

    • @afonsolucas2219
      @afonsolucas2219 7 років тому +14

      Too much sometimes is a bad thing, ya know that.

    • @saint4lifeboi76
      @saint4lifeboi76 6 років тому

      HAZMAN THE GREAT lol

    • @saint4lifeboi76
      @saint4lifeboi76 6 років тому

      Bradius Maximus im not douche i was just kidding

    • @Dovehkis
      @Dovehkis 6 років тому +1

      *HOO*
      *HAA*
      *OOOH MAMA*

  • @thetattooedguy1413
    @thetattooedguy1413 7 років тому +47

    Have to admit Alpha is the man!! I am almost 40 and learn a lot from his videos

  • @Zain-ir6rm
    @Zain-ir6rm 6 років тому

    You are a brilliant marketer and genuine salesman, the way you bring attention to peoples insecurities then present a solution swiftly. I got distracted about the shy content and just observed from a marketing perspective lol.

  • @erl7466
    @erl7466 6 років тому

    my friend, i’ve developed a ton of social anxiety over the years, and it’s weird, because I’m a chef and in my element, i’m top fricken dog. you can’t phase me, can’t dog me down. but in social situations it’s gotten worse and worse over the years. THIS SHIT YOU SAY WORKS. I can’t thank you enough man. From dance floor anxiety to parties to casual interactions, it’s finally getting better and it’s because i’ve been watching your vids (among others). best, dude, keep it up.

  • @Ghostlytales.
    @Ghostlytales. 7 років тому +1450

    Im better when im drunk.

    • @toothlesstoe
      @toothlesstoe 7 років тому +74

      Who isn't?

    • @baka_geddy
      @baka_geddy 7 років тому +9

      Like raj koothrapali ( or whatever shit it is ).

    • @leathercheerio1
      @leathercheerio1 6 років тому +44

      Me too. Therefore I drink every day.

    • @neneklampir6664
      @neneklampir6664 6 років тому +1

      Me too 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @nigelmascarenhas9907
      @nigelmascarenhas9907 6 років тому +2

      Ikr I had a glass of beer and then the whole hotel wad looking at me abd i felt aweosme inside

  • @khemarakbotra4183
    @khemarakbotra4183 6 років тому +511

    I'm shy to talk because I don't speak clearly 😩😩😩

    • @simonpetkov6640
      @simonpetkov6640 6 років тому +32

      Thats actually a part of being shy

    • @بشرىصالح-ك6ك
      @بشرىصالح-ك6ك 6 років тому +36

      i have this probleme too when i speak to people and sometimes forgeting what i wonna say and this killed me everytime i used to cry cause mom always tell me that this enter in personality and self-confidence , trust . but i cant overcome this

    • @kwstaslungu1522
      @kwstaslungu1522 6 років тому +12

      @@بشرىصالح-ك6ك everything can change brother

    • @edboss36
      @edboss36 5 років тому +28

      i have a deep voice and it's very quiet

    • @andyesp4702
      @andyesp4702 5 років тому +3

      Me too

  • @xyon9090
    @xyon9090 7 років тому +2183

    *I'm not shy.*
    I'm n-not. Trust m-me..

  • @disobey5615
    @disobey5615 5 років тому

    This is what I love about you man, you might come off as a jerk in some videos, but once you get going you’re actually pretty cool and passionate about helping guys, not just some, but all guys, become a better version of themselves

  • @nickamp3390
    @nickamp3390 5 років тому +53

    Me in front of all class ( In a speach) : *clears throat*
    Heart : Oop my turn
    *starts pumping crazy*

  • @mahdy77m
    @mahdy77m 7 років тому +213

    I’m not shy I just don’t have nothing to say I have a 24/7 brain fart

    • @barryseaworth
      @barryseaworth 7 років тому +4

      WisePanda me too

    • @sdivan3g931
      @sdivan3g931 7 років тому +26

      Hella bro
      Its like if you cant think about what to talk aboit

    • @YungPac
      @YungPac 7 років тому +11

      WisePanda
      Thats because you're anxious. You're shy, bitch. Stop the excuses.

    • @toddhuynh3188
      @toddhuynh3188 7 років тому +16

      Yung Pac shutup you don't know how it feels to brain fart

    • @toniodarko5404
      @toniodarko5404 6 років тому +7

      I think on a level so deep and philosophical that an everyday chat is so strange to me. Idk what to say in simplest occasions without sounding like a complete psycho to others.

  • @shutupplease8737
    @shutupplease8737 6 років тому +128

    moms friend: Hey! how are you
    me: oh uh hi *hides behind mom*
    mom: she’s a little shy
    me: i’m not shy IM NOT shy...

  • @jackraiden4175
    @jackraiden4175 7 років тому +171

    i usually remind myself that we're living in a simulation and nothing is real

    • @Johtic_
      @Johtic_ 7 років тому +11

      Jack Raiden that makes it harder for me

    • @FeelinHazey16
      @FeelinHazey16 7 років тому +7

      Jack Raiden that might work..

    • @Skywalker.Movies
      @Skywalker.Movies 7 років тому +11

      You live inside a simulation of a simulation inside another giant simulation!

    • @RJ__927
      @RJ__927 7 років тому +7

      Too much rick and morty

    • @elcocaino8728
      @elcocaino8728 7 років тому

      Same bro

  • @julianzurita5215
    @julianzurita5215 7 років тому +1

    Alpha! Thank you so much for making this video, it really means so much that you try to help every guy out there.
    As a inner shy guy myself, it’s very hard to try to step out of your own bubble when you bubble is all you’ve ever known.
    You videos always inspire me so thank you!

  • @VVSChopps
    @VVSChopps 6 років тому +186

    6:16, I appreciate the compliment bro, but im not wearing a Jacket at the moment.

  • @surya8891
    @surya8891 6 років тому +208

    I feel shy to even ask for something to buy from the shop

  • @galactush8808
    @galactush8808 7 років тому +212

    I want a relationship like the word on his t-shirt

  • @nolomus
    @nolomus 7 років тому +165

    Acne was a big confidence buster, when I was a teenager. Just drink A LOT of water and stop eating fast food and tons of candy and don't drink 10 Red Bull's a day and all that nonsense. If that doens't help, Tiege Hanley against acne is there for you, coming early 2018!

    • @reecebudd9009
      @reecebudd9009 7 років тому

      Kevin J. Meyer 👍

    • @shutupidiott
      @shutupidiott 7 років тому +7

      Kevin J. Meyer how did ya comment 4 hours ago when the video was uploaded just few mins ago?

    • @prashantrana7962
      @prashantrana7962 7 років тому +3

      Kevin J. Meyer And n0w you are most confident guy. Booom!!!!

    • @reecebudd9009
      @reecebudd9009 7 років тому

      Anonymous Guy its a glitch with youtube

    • @etherealpetrichor9572
      @etherealpetrichor9572 7 років тому +2

      Kevin J. Meyer remember, your diet DOESN’T effect ACNE!

  • @vorg858
    @vorg858 7 років тому

    Oh god, the way you talk is really clear and i understood every word you said. Man it's actually making me do the things you told us.

  • @Iamsamayy
    @Iamsamayy 2 роки тому +1

    My man getting me ready for school! Always hooking it up man keep up the good work. :)

  • @SergeantKurabara
    @SergeantKurabara 7 років тому +305

    All im getting insecured about is that god damn blushing... i swear my confidence would go so high if i didn't blush you have no idea. I embraced it, I blush every day, yet, nothing happens... Like I don't even get nervous about what im gonna say to that girl, IM AFRAID THAT IM GONNA BLUSH.. AND ITS FKED UP

    • @andy1999k
      @andy1999k 7 років тому +37

      MrViperBG just embrace your blushes dude she wont think you are weak because you blush a little

    • @JakobM
      @JakobM 7 років тому +40

      MrViperBG me too then ppl point it out which makes it worse, best way to help confidence is to fake it to you make it I guess and go through things that make you blush and awkward don’t avoid them then it’s easier to overcome

    • @SergeantKurabara
      @SergeantKurabara 7 років тому +11

      Well I guess theres no escaping that, since few people told me some tricks similar to these, but never seen a complete blush cure. Thanks though, appreciate it.

    • @MrKing-qd7gi
      @MrKing-qd7gi 7 років тому +15

      MrViperBG there isn't really a CURE. Just ignore it, if your confident without it then keep talking and being confident. People may notice it but if your talking confident it will just seem to be a phenomenon. And if someone points it out then just say something like "oh yah, I blush when even I talk to myself" as a joke to make light of it. Just change your reaction to you blushing. Embrace it. (Plus girls love it when a guy blushes, especially when he is confident and blushing at the same time)

    • @javiernight4478
      @javiernight4478 7 років тому +6

      It happens to me every damn same time but girls like that! Just ask someone that has seen you like that and they will agree.
      Same as us guys love a blushing girl

  • @TheRealMikeyXZ
    @TheRealMikeyXZ 6 років тому +72

    His real prep talk is
    "Tiege Hanley,
    Tiege Hanley,
    Tiege Hanley,
    Tiege Hanley,
    Tiege Hanley,
    Tiege Hanley,
    Tiege Hanley,
    TIEGE Hanley,
    Tiege HANLEY,
    TIEGE HANLEY!!"

  • @medhabharti7969
    @medhabharti7969 6 років тому +3

    I love u man!!! You r so amazing..u don't even have an idea how you have changed people's lives within minutes....love love!!! U r a blessing!😘😘😘

  • @mdunawaym
    @mdunawaym 5 років тому +1

    I've never been shy, but I always was girl shy. They always thought I was attractive, and charming, but for some reason I always kept myself in the "friend zone". When I finally decided to deal with it, I joined about 5 dating sites, and just dove in. It was amazing! I came to realize that all kinds of women were attracted to me, and I could date just about anyone I wanted to!

  • @michaelwinslow3666
    @michaelwinslow3666 6 років тому

    I'm a new subscriber to Alpha M. Thanks for speaking from your own experiences. It's obvious your information is very real to you and that you are speaking from your own experiences. Please keep-em coming!!

  • @whytxr9247
    @whytxr9247 4 роки тому +33

    Being shy sucks, I’ve only had like- 7 friends my whole life..

    • @Ken-no5ip
      @Ken-no5ip 4 роки тому

      Is that the sickness or the symptom?

    • @atilayakubov7684
      @atilayakubov7684 3 роки тому +8

      7 close friends? If that is true, than you are normal!

  • @yamagucci4177
    @yamagucci4177 7 років тому +80

    How about tips to start a conversation or be engaged in a conversation?

    • @Kingwil497
      @Kingwil497 6 років тому +21

      Broo... literally just talk about anything bro and stop being so self conacious

    • @colevien2712
      @colevien2712 5 років тому +5

      1. I usually start off with a compliment which was mentioned in the video.
      2. I will add something additional to what the person says.
      3. Ask a probing question (make sure they elaborate on their explanation avoid yes/no answers the majority of the time).
      4. Try to give them a chance to ask you a question.
      5. Repeat (w/o step 1).
      Good luck 👍

    • @mackenziegray2090
      @mackenziegray2090 4 роки тому

      I got the same problem. Not exactly shy being around people. Just trying to build a relationship that is difficult.

  • @stutteringcris468
    @stutteringcris468 7 років тому +26

    My pep talk.
    "I can do this. I know it can... i know it."
    And then I fail miserably in front of everyone.

  • @chloecronin7692
    @chloecronin7692 6 років тому +2

    I love this! I’ve been feeling so shy and insecure lately and I’ve wanted to stop that and come out of my shell and with these tips I will hopefully if not completely but little bit by bit become more confident as I need the confidence because I’ve gone too long with being unconfident x

  • @moneytiming5987
    @moneytiming5987 7 років тому

    @alpha m. this guy is literally the best at vids guy gets straight to the point and always knows alot about the topic you can tell by how he talks about it

  • @Tyler2hunnid
    @Tyler2hunnid 4 роки тому +31

    Me: How to not be shy.
    Alpha: Don’t be shy.
    Me: Ok, got it.

  • @beautifulinfinity
    @beautifulinfinity 6 років тому +6

    I've always been a shy girl. As I'm getting older, I'm starting to realise it may have something to do with an emotionally troubled childhood. I stumbled across your channel while googling 'how to be assertive'. And oh boy, I've been watching all your related videos for the last hour. Thank you. ❤

  • @ivansmirnov4339
    @ivansmirnov4339 7 років тому +127

    It's hard to be confident at all times.. especially when people talk smack behind your back, making it harder to say or do anything in front of anyone ..

    • @Kingwil497
      @Kingwil497 6 років тому +32

      STOP GIVING A FUCK

    • @yodawg3469
      @yodawg3469 6 років тому

      @@Kingwil497 Damn skippy

    • @NenUser12_
      @NenUser12_ 5 років тому

      We all are judged everyday. Just practice your Nen bro...

    • @mercpindi5522
      @mercpindi5522 5 років тому +1

      Be yourself. I got number from a random chick at the uni yesterday it worked. You need balls to do this shit.

  • @vishveshtadsare3160
    @vishveshtadsare3160 7 років тому

    In his every video comments are promoting Tiege Hanley much more than the guy in the video! This is how you get things done! Simply amazing!

  • @HeadiHD
    @HeadiHD 6 років тому

    I really don’t know who would dislike this Video.
    Alpha M gives great advice, offends no one and is an experienced Adult.
    The product placement is the only negative thing I could imagine, but come on.
    Great Video as always.
    Keep it up!

  • @GasMan444
    @GasMan444 7 років тому +30

    Thanks Alpha, these tips helped me approach the lover of my dreams! Teige Hanley had all the boys fighting over her, but by using these tips I was able to stand out! We are even expecting our first child soon. We can't decide between the name Pete or Pedro.

  • @ezure3087
    @ezure3087 6 років тому +31

    My combination is bein shy, socially akward and being wierd overall
    CHANGE MY MIND

  • @yinvlogsomg8345
    @yinvlogsomg8345 5 років тому +31

    Does anyone else get red when there is an uncomfortable momemt or when you get shy? Or am I the only one 🤣

    • @tkmtkm4527
      @tkmtkm4527 5 років тому +2

      You mean blushing??

    • @yinvlogsomg8345
      @yinvlogsomg8345 4 роки тому +1

      @@blackstack54 well for me its my whole mf head like is that normal

  • @MegaJesus114
    @MegaJesus114 6 років тому

    Alpha M is the person we need but don't deserve. Love your videos!

  • @ocbosco_
    @ocbosco_ 7 років тому

    I just stumbled on to this channel. I’m 60 yo wish I had this 40 yrs ago! But am pointing my two teenage boys 16 and 18 this way. Great stuff. Invaluable. Thanks

  • @BURGERKINGXL
    @BURGERKINGXL 6 років тому +4

    I have to be honest. I was just looking for videos for different hairstyles but ended up discovering alpha.m and bro u cool af. keep up the dope videos.

  • @mysterymanifest1
    @mysterymanifest1 7 років тому +211

    How to introduce your girlfriend to your parents
    (please guys,don't let this comment disappear in a sea of comments!!!)

    • @K4M41
      @K4M41 7 років тому +6

      This is definitely a subject that would make an awesome video. Great suggestion! 👍🏽

    • @mysterymanifest1
      @mysterymanifest1 7 років тому +1

      Kamal El watik thank you😃

    • @gigachad3861
      @gigachad3861 7 років тому +1

      Is she hawt 😂

    • @beforehours1773
      @beforehours1773 7 років тому

      You need a chick for that you call centre fuck

    • @mysterymanifest1
      @mysterymanifest1 7 років тому

      clorox bleach call your mama a call center fuck

  • @EnricoReyes
    @EnricoReyes 7 років тому +12

    I used to be a shy kid... til I met Tiege Hanley. Now I'm a Stand Up Comedian.

  • @mikadopowerranger5254
    @mikadopowerranger5254 4 роки тому +1

    There’s a thing that works for me. What I do is when I’m in a situation where I have a choice and I’m tempted to make the most comfortable decisions, I do the oposit. If you want to approach a stranger but you’re scared af, you have the choice of staying in your comfort zone or you can just...do it. Always make the choice you’re scared to make.

  • @anthonyhewitt9397
    @anthonyhewitt9397 6 років тому

    Dude your great you almost made me cry brotha i can truly feel like you wanna help others and that makes me happy

  • @IMetLadyGaga
    @IMetLadyGaga 7 років тому +5

    When he pulls out the “PMD” - and you’re like, “oh sh*t, what the hell am I watching?!” 😂🤦‍♂️

  • @IshnoorSarao
    @IshnoorSarao 7 років тому +11

    I am not shy but people around me, girls especially, act very weird (and shy) resulting in awkward situations. Tell me how to get out of that.

    • @DigitalxFe3r
      @DigitalxFe3r 7 років тому

      Ish Noor play along
      Be fun with it if it’s you that’s not actually being awkward..not only will it be inviting and fun but you’ll become even better at communicating by having a whole knew universe to explore

    • @prince_sach50
      @prince_sach50 6 років тому

      Idk why But I'm Natural with almost every type of girl except for hot white girls. Idk it's just a different vibe with me and I don't be talking...

  • @vikashtewari6748
    @vikashtewari6748 7 років тому +34

    Every fucking comment is about tiege hanley

  • @Captivate_Life
    @Captivate_Life 6 років тому

    Anyone who hits the dislike button on ANY of your videos are gremblins ☺️ your stuff is the best, love the effort you put in. Big fan ❤️

  • @estebansantana2646
    @estebansantana2646 5 років тому

    I like how honest you were during the intro. No fronting.

  • @captainbluethunder8771
    @captainbluethunder8771 7 років тому +25

    A poem for Tiege Hanley:-
    Tiege Hanley is the best.
    Use it and forget the rest.
    Alpha m likes it a lot.
    Without it your body will rot.
    Apply it and fly in the sky.
    Haters of Tiege Hanley are supposed to die.
    Everyone uses Tiege Hanley.
    From Kim Kardashian to Fucking Stanley.

    • @manishaher1796
      @manishaher1796 7 років тому +1

      CaptainBlueThunder 😂😂😂😂best one...i hope alpha highlights it

    • @sr33nathx83
      @sr33nathx83 7 років тому

      Imao!!

  • @vimalkumar-tc1bi
    @vimalkumar-tc1bi 7 років тому +7

    wow people liked without even watching the whole video. great work alpha

  • @c5steppagaming573
    @c5steppagaming573 5 років тому +9

    I missed out on a lot of opportunity because of my shyness so I hope this helps 🤞🏽

  • @IgnatPankratov
    @IgnatPankratov 6 років тому

    4:38 _what_ are you insecure about? 1) fix it or 2) embrace it (btw it's invisible, lol)
    4:53 _when_ do you start feeling shy?
    5:12 take a moment to do a _pep talk_ and encourage youself. I'm good at... I'm great at... Ima amazing, fkn awesome!
    6:02 _smile_ and _give a compliment_ 6:42 constantly go _out_ from your _comfort_ zone

  • @philliprodriguez9757
    @philliprodriguez9757 7 років тому +2

    Awesome video! Thank you for this Alpha, being shy is something I've always struggled with but after watching your video I already feel better about myself :) Seriously, thank you

  • @Ezbc05
    @Ezbc05 7 років тому +4

    YES!!! I love this guy. Keep up the good work man.

  • @hunter_ndp5904
    @hunter_ndp5904 7 років тому +27

    2:38 Did anyone else feel a strong Tiege Hanley plug coming on just to be blindsided by the PMD?

  • @milosrocenovic8526
    @milosrocenovic8526 7 років тому +692

    If you are shy just eat some Tiege Hanley and you will be fine ;)

    • @shutupidiott
      @shutupidiott 7 років тому +15

      Milos Rocenovic wtf Video uploaded a min ago and your comment posted a couple hours ago?

    • @pokegmaestro4631
      @pokegmaestro4631 7 років тому

      Milos Rocenovic 😂😂😂😂

    • @alexandruvlad467
      @alexandruvlad467 7 років тому

      Anonymous Guy yea, right 😂😂😂 wtf 😂😂

    • @geetakharva7733
      @geetakharva7733 7 років тому +1

      Milos Rocenovic 😂😂😂

    • @milosrocenovic8526
      @milosrocenovic8526 7 років тому +1

      Anonymous Guy Sorry i use Tiege Hanley to much ;)

  • @luckyali13
    @luckyali13 7 років тому

    I just saw your Shark Tank and loved how you didn’t get bullied into a bad deal! Great work keep it up!

  • @Draco5483
    @Draco5483 7 років тому

    One of if not the best videos you’ve ever uploaded. Truly inspirational!

  • @metalwarrior81
    @metalwarrior81 7 років тому +16

    Poor Aaron looks so sad and shy in the thumbnail, I just want to give him some Tiege Hanley to make him feel better.

    • @ohmy9261
      @ohmy9261 7 років тому

      The Dallas Space Cowboy 😂😂😂

    • @atharvas6546
      @atharvas6546 7 років тому

      The Dallas Space Cowboy lol 😂

    • @miguelpereira9859
      @miguelpereira9859 7 років тому

      What is Tiege Hanley?

  • @31sarm
    @31sarm 7 років тому +5

    All you had to say was "I created Teige Hanley"
    Confidence level > ∞

  • @AyushKhugshal
    @AyushKhugshal 6 років тому +46

    I can see tears on your eyes

  • @andrewpowell7352
    @andrewpowell7352 7 років тому

    Alpha m got me a girl with these tips. This guy is honestly the nicest at giving advice

  • @matthew-saul3967
    @matthew-saul3967 7 років тому

    I love that this channel exists-alpha is the man

  • @pallav5833
    @pallav5833 7 років тому +17

    Alpha m : "So there's something about me that will surprise you. I'm shy."
    Also Alpha m : *jumps on a table and takes off pants in front of the camera and an innocent asian 19 year old to promote sponsored product*

  • @juozsx
    @juozsx 7 років тому +6

    find your insecurities... hmmm ok
    My insecurities:
    1.Cause im shy
    ...
    welllll shit

  • @MrLivinitup123
    @MrLivinitup123 7 років тому +95

    What if it's a girl? Do I still say, "Hey Bryan, I like that jacket!"??

    • @mantas831
      @mantas831 7 років тому +1

      What's wrong?

    • @marshmeowllow6816
      @marshmeowllow6816 7 років тому +20

      It`s the best compliment you can give to someone

    • @MrLivinitup123
      @MrLivinitup123 7 років тому

      Vaping & crossfiting vegan who`s triggered everyday That's what I'm saying!

    • @raze_6474
      @raze_6474 7 років тому

      HA! smartass... Just give a compliment

    • @MrLivinitup123
      @MrLivinitup123 7 років тому

      AsSaSSIN305 _ Lol oh I know.

  • @nauhti7933
    @nauhti7933 6 років тому

    I'v legit had classes at school to improve our mental health in terms of happiness for like 1 class each month or 2, this 7min video made more of an impact than those classes.

  • @AustonHolleman
    @AustonHolleman 7 років тому

    Thanks alpha this has helped me open up and everybody does want to be around me more

  • @GoGoFIFANL
    @GoGoFIFANL 6 років тому +4

    Bro you did A good job with this video for me!!❤️❤️❤️

  • @3dsock
    @3dsock 6 років тому +14

    its 12 am, by school i will be antisocial no more

  • @goldgabich6863
    @goldgabich6863 7 років тому +23

    I feel like the board members are watching this now

    • @Shmacss
      @Shmacss 7 років тому

      Ben Holden Tomatoes are good.

  • @mysticnick2095
    @mysticnick2095 7 років тому +1

    Your awesome man, this is why I subscribed to you bro, I appreciate how invested you are with all of us. Your an Alpha

  • @T-lycan
    @T-lycan 7 років тому

    Alpha has got to be the best when it comes to inspiration

  • @Ransom2k
    @Ransom2k 6 років тому +3

    I haven’t had friends since the third grade I’m in 10th I just can’t talk to people but when I’m at home I won’t stop talking

  • @gouthamabhishek1395
    @gouthamabhishek1395 5 років тому +16

    When am not high - super shy
    When am high - am a chick magnet

    • @M16music69
      @M16music69 5 років тому

      😂same here bro

    • @ElHal04
      @ElHal04 4 роки тому

      Sorry but it’s I’m😂 I couldn’t help myself

  • @rehanjamshed2936
    @rehanjamshed2936 6 років тому +5

    I wish i could love reacc your videos lmao , man i'mma be honest with you i haven't had a strong manly figure in my life who could teach me stuff and i was raised up a shy kid and had many concern about whether some things were right or wrong but you Alpha , YOU have literally taught me a LOT OF STUFF and i've been watching your videos for as long as i remember using youtube . There's something about your channel that i know even if you may have sponsor stuff in your videos you're honest to the point and your help has helped me so much that i can't describe in words , most of all you take care of telling about your past and how poorly you've been raised , many of us are going through the same hell right now which once you went through and its so amazing to know that a successful and helpful guy like you was once in our shoes and your honesty about it makes my day better , kinda makes me glad that there are good people like you and that i found your channel when i needed to , Peace alpha.

  • @JuanVega-rf6wf
    @JuanVega-rf6wf 5 років тому

    Alpha, thanks for the last step i came across this video and decided to become an uber driver just to overcome my social shyness and i can gladly say after 2 months i see a huge difference in myself in a great way

  • @Dovehkis
    @Dovehkis 6 років тому +2

    Thats a hell of a pep talk alpha! I needed to hear that, and thanks so much bro. Im going to talk to that girl i like and gain back my confidence :)