WHY I LEFT THE PHILIPPINES 🇵🇭😢
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- Опубліковано 16 лип 2024
- yes, I Left the Philippines. In today's video I share with you the 4 reasons why I decided to leave the philippines early and I came back to Thailand.
Thank you so much for watching ;)
Best,
Gabi
0:00 intro
0:26 my original plan in the philippines
01:04 Issue n.1
01:44 Issue n.2
02:12 the REAL reason
02:20 Mental health
03:13 Loneliness in Boracay
05:32 Cebu
08:05 Leaving the Philiipines
08:47 Paradise Overdose
11:07 Future Plans
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I love traveling alone. Being anonymous is so liberating. I do chat with the locals, but I like that I can move on and do what I want, when I want. Unfortunately, if you are depressed, you can be anywhere, with anyone and the feeling will not go away. I hope you find inner peace. I get mine by being grateful for the things that I learned or received everyday. 🙏
Being able to travel solo seems like a super power sometimes. Definitely takes some inner tenacity to weather the storms of being alone. The saving grace is that the "storms" pass more quickly as you become a more seasoned "sailor".
All nations has it's SHARE of good people and bad people, good places and bad places. It is just a matter of being at the right place and at the right time with the RIGHT COMPANY! Yes, especially with the RIGHT COMPANY!
same me i like alone travel
Amen! 🙏
*he sounds weak as h311*
It is not about the place and the people you have visited…ultimately, it’s the traveler’s state of mind that matters
We are tiwns why are the same R to me koddo?
It's also about the place, though.
@@timothyspool1399 Not entirely. I was in Singapore recently and the place was so beautiful but my state of mind was just not vibing. It was not the place. It was me, at that moment of my life, I was just feeling off.
@@chinacancioyes, I agree. You can be in the most beautiful place but if you're not in the right state of mind, you won't appreciate the beauty of the place & you can still be miserable. I hope you're feeling better now.
It’s a reason why socializing is such an important practice.
It’s like when people feel lonely at the movie theatre, but when you look around there’s tons of people.
Sure you don’t have to talk to them all. But what would we do if we were children? Probably just walk up to someone and say hi, or maybe just stare… lol
Somewhere along the lines we get rusty at making friends or just conversation with strangers. Massively underrated skill.
Scum. All them. Even if you try being friendly to them a lot, you get stabbed verbally in gossip m, work and among other friends. I mean no harm but it is too much. I lost faith with my countrymen.
Social skills died at the onset of social media. Not having friends in real life is a soul destroyer no doubt.
@@sfrealestatedealmaker6001 it is - I don't blame social media though.
friends as we age has been a problem for some time now.
hell, imagine in the early 1900s what adults said about A/C. "damn kids staying inside all day cause of that A/C. member we used to sit outside and just sweat it out on the stoop?" @@sfrealestatedealmaker6001
Not to mention the romanticism of being an introvert and being a homebody and all these other things
Visiting the Philippines has partly cured my depression and cured my drug addiction! Beautiful place and people, I think about this beautiful place every night!! 🥰🥰
Yeah many expats changed their lives in the Philippines and even cured Depression and saved lives. I don't know what's wrong with this person. He was saying the other way around. 🥴
Same for me ,was healing experience, was great ❤👍
Congrats to you guys for getting clean and free of depression. You can enjoy the sunrise and sunset now.
I am from Canada and my favorite place for relaxation and healing is Mazatlan, Mexico. I understand what you are saying.
Leyte is nicer and very peaceful
Only those with a strong mentality can truly appreciate the experience of traveling alone . The Philippines is an incredible place, albeit not without its imperfections. What makes it truly special is the company you keep. Unlike many other destinations, English is widely spoken here, allowing for meaningful connections with the locals. My time here has been life-changing, not just because of the country's natural beauty, but because of the warmth and kindness of the Filipino people.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I find Thai people as more kind. I fly in all S.East countries for an airline, and Thais happens to be naturally lovely and welcoming. They are second to none, and their healthy economic eco-system and Thai tradition are less prone to corruption and incompetence plus real tourism. That explains why they have the greatest number tourist than all other South East Asian countries combined. Second to Thai, Bali- Indonesia, and Malaysia without forgetting Singapore.
I really appreciate you speaking openly about your mental health issues. You demonstrated your strength by acknowledging your limits and making the right decision for your well-being.
I also needed to hear what you had to say. Your video helped me very much. Thank you.
I totally understand where you are coming from ,I also have similar mental health issues as yourself , I recently spent 3 months in the Philippines and had very similar emotions you described but as time went on it became easier thanks for your openness and honesty it helps me to see I'm not the only one 👍
I agree , his sharing these experiences will go a long way in helping me with mine , when they inevitably arise in the future , someplace far from home . . . alone !!!! And yes , you're definitely not the only one ! The more we are open about this experience we can all go through while travelling the world , the more we can do to help fellow travelers along the way , who might be having a rough day . . ... or more .
Tell us what drugs you were addicted to, relationships you've ruined over the years , family and friends you've fallen out with.
What medication you're doctor has you on.
This will give us some idea about you buddy.
@@thehomefront1905he's not your buddy. Not a lot of people would like to be your buddy. Don't be so bitter, judgemental and frustrated cause someone is doing good. How are things going for you? You don't sound very happy.
@Magic0165 Hi. I'm doing great, thanks. No addictions, no mental issues, no financial issues. How about you?
@@thehomefront1905 I'm doing great. Meaningfull job. Not bitter. Spend a lot of time in nature and backpacking. Not judging people without a reason Maybe try that👍.
Get well.🙏💪👌
The Philippines will be glad to welcome you again!!!
Hang in there! I very much relate to the feelings you are experiencing, particularly the social anxiety and depression. Sharing your feelings publicly takes a lot of courage, but talking about them definitely helps others who are dealing with similar struggles.
Social Anxiety is to do with being torn between Alcohol, Cannabis, Sobriety...the enjoyment of solitude, but contemplating the gravity of what solitude means, I think.
Depression is to do with Spiritual Anxiety, right?
I wish you well.
Cheers
Snowflake generation, get depressed when they burn their avocado toast, try getting a job and stop jumping on the bandwagon
@@onekumarajay
Yah good that youre not an psychologist!
@@Magic0165 Whatever you wrote appears to be judgemental & relevant to your self.
Cheers
Just to clarify, social anxiety is a condition arising from a conflict between love of solitude and socialisation.
The reason also my American brother inlaw left Thailand is the language barrier he is now in Philippines he said the people are friendly and they can speak English and culture more southern
Yup. Plus too many lady bys and drg addicts walking around in Thailand. No thanks
Also. Don't ever pick up a stray ping pong ball from the ground. It was covered in a liquid. I found out later what it was. 🤮🤮🤮
Pretty understandable. I can feel your pain. Glad you are feeling better. Thailand is a beautiful country I heard. Thanks for sharing your experiences.
I can relate with the Paradise Overdose. I also lived in the Philippines and just like what you said I am so used to seeing beautiful islands and beaches so whenever I travel I am not really excited to see other countries beaches. What I wanted to see are beautiful cities or some places that I can't see in the Philippines.
I appreciate you for being so open about mental health issues and depression. Maybe not a popular topic, but a very important one for sure. I know exactly what you mean. I just have been to Asia for about three month, but I feel quite lonely a lot of times. The most beautiful place on earth can not make it Go away. To enjoy the outside world, you have to be at peace with your inner world first. And that can be very challenging. Wish you all the best
I dont think that’s depression, I think you just dont like it here in the Philippines. You just dont want to hurt our feelings. Been there, but if you are having a depression or mental health issue, it couldnt be cured by a place and even if you are in the comfort of your family.
Hahahaha... Alibi nalang ni kuya na may depression siya. Sana nagpunta nalang siya sa psychiatrist..
It’s not where you are it’s how you live your life. Being depressed in cebu? I think we Filipinos never experience it. Just eat mangoes 🤍
He want to live in thailand but he want the support of the Philippines thats what the video for. 🤍
Thanks for sharing. People need to hear this. Take care of yourself. You’re not alone.
I’m feeling this for the first time solo traveling. I always travel solo and it helps my depression. I meet random people go on adventures with them etc. This time around it’s different. Loneliness is effecting me while traveling for the first time. Finding it hard to talk to people. First time I’ve travelled since all the lockdowns etc. I’m wandering if the world has also changed a bit. Like people seem to be harder to approach. Or maybe it’s just me. I feel for you brother. I’m actually in Boracay now feeling the exact same way minus anxiety, I don’t get anxiety. Just depression and loneliness. It’s a damn unshakable monster at times. Hang in there and keep searching for your joy. Glad you have somewhere that makes you feel better. Sadly I’m still searching for that place within at 41 years old it grind you down. A form of torture some would say. Wishing everyone a new year full of blessings and abundance in your lives. Peace
There's no magic word potion to make sense of life, however, finding ways to feel fulfilled is possible! Then ones focus is on sharing energy and time doing things you feel inspired by, in a way of sharing, in a way of giving. Then the focus of ones attention is coming from a place of light and blessings. The other option is being mentally consumed with thoughts of what one lacks. I'm 46, lack stuff, like a partner I feel right with etc. yet have been progressively realizing that while being alone is kinda shitty feeling, at times, being with the wrong people is even worse, and that goes for even if they are good people, if it's just not the right match for whatever reason one needs to get out of there if it's at all a possibility that makes sense to do, hopefully with out hurting others, but sometimes you need to care for yourself, and others will find their way. There really is a lot to learn through being on ones own. We're never actually alone in the Spirit.
Stay strong man. Paradise is not the place, it is the people where you feel confortable to be with. Cheer up! Salamat for visiting my country. 🤗
My god, so beautiful phrase! Paradise is not a place.🎉🙏🙏
Really like yourcomment
What a load of crap. Why dont you go live in Somalia or South Sudan or right in the middle of any warzone with your friends and loved ones then. It will be paradise.
@@user-ym5xk8um9cI totally disagree. You just know pointless things that are of no interest to locals and they find you boring.
@@user-ym5xk8um9c well, you're most probably just a whining brat
Thank you for visiting the Philippines. Take care man. Hope you overcome your anxiety and depression. I’m going to the Philippines next month. The country that I love.
Anxiety is just managing substances such as Alcohol/Cannabis/Sobriety, right?
Depression is just Spiritual Anxiety I think.
I wish you well.
Peace
Why do you love the Phillipines. Im considering going. I'm 60
I need to be somewhere where people are kind and humble 😊
I'm leaving the Philippines.
@@eddieBoxerwhy?
@@stevenflores972 Go to Thailand.. 30 years advanced from the Philippines, No value for money in the Philippines. depressing place
Im sorry to hear what you're going through.... no matter where you go if your depressed you cant find happiness. Hope youll be healed soon🙏🙏🙏
Sorry for how you feel. It’s tough to be on your own when travelling. Maybe you shouldn’t travel on your own. Anywhere you go you will feel like this. But it’s also what you bring to it? What energy do you bring to this experience? A lot of vloggers I watch are very positive, energetic, open, adventurous and friendly. They bring this energy everyday or as much as possible. But we’re only human so perhaps when you are more ready and in a better place you can travel again. Good luck!
Oh mate Gabi, I feel for you. Thanks for sharing your personal issue which somehow I also can relate to it. Like many commenters have already said, there is no rush. The Philippines will be right there when you feel you are healed and ready to take on a new journey. Right now, enjoy Songkran festival but be cautious with the extreme weather there, I heard it is extremely hot this year 40+ degree. Stay strong, safe and hydrated, very important. I cannot wait for your Chiangmai trip. Cheers mate!
I think you have a great personality and I think it's great that you can open up about your mental health! Stay strong Gabi, you're doing great and keep on following your heart xxx❤
A long time ago in the military, i learned something very true: it doesn't matter where you are, it's who you are.
I commend your honesty. It’s hard to open up about vulnerability; that itself is showing your humility and strength. More power to you!
But your loneliness has nothing to do with the country. I travelled alone a lot too and you have to realize that you are alone, wherever and whenever you go. That's the reality.
The guy is too insecure and depressed to be traveling alone
Exactly, he is too low self-esteem. Philippines is great.
Locals will speak with you happily but are shy, so you should reach out first and engage.
But obviously when you are someone in a mental state like this, making the first move is too difficult…
you can made friends every where,,,alone is great free
Hope everything is settling a bit now my friend. We're just so thankful that you did your best visiting Philippines. Hope one day you'll visit again with your someone special or special people and you'll share it with them. Take care and hope that you'll have a peaceful mind and being strong emotionally and mentally. God bless 🙏 🇵🇭.
good video mate! sounds like the timing was off. i'm sure you'll make up for it in the future!
Hi Gabi, thanks for the honesty. One thing I've learned as I've gotten older (66) is the more we focus on meeting other's needs the less we care about how we feel and paradoxically become happier.
thats fine man we understand the situation and we know that a lot of people are experiencing anxiety and i personally know how hard it is. keep in mind that you are always welcome here in the Philippines
I like your comment. Very kind of you. Yep! We are all in the same boat and there are many of us. Take care.
Nice comment. Thank you for your kind words.
@@Dan-xx5jq you too sir always take care and be blessed
@@joeysarmiento1925 your welcome
All nations has it's SHARE of good people and bad people, good places and bad places. It is just a matter of being at the right place and at the right time with the RIGHT COMPANY! Yes, especially with the RIGHT COMPANY!
Thanks for sharing. I can relate to your struggles. I’ve had the same in my younger years. Work on your happiness first and you’ll find someone to share it with. The key is to not care what others think about you. You can’t please everyone. Take care.
Hi Gabi, been watching your videos for a while now and your honesty and the way you explain things and show us all around is so nice. I can relate 100% to what you are saying about sharing experiences etc... so important!! All the best from Sydney:-)
Thank you Thomas 🙏🏻 I appreciate it
Thank you for sharing. It's not about the place that matter it's about company. But I really salute you for giving a shot to visit here. Good luck and God bless you😇😇
Oh wow. Honest and straight to the point. Respect! We all have up and downs, but sharing them (specially the downs) with thousands of people, is a highly respected thing to do. Sei forte!!
Thanks for voicing this Gabi. This is how I've always felt. I mean, I CAN travel by myself and I have a bit of a lone wolf complex, but I know exactly how you feel. Traveling to new and interesting places, witnessing something amazing for the first time, experiencing beauty with no one you know to share the experience feels really empty to me.
Once again, thank you. Sei bravo!👏🏽
All nations has it's SHARE of good people and bad people, good places and bad places. It is just a matter of being at the right place and at the right time with the RIGHT COMPANY! Yes, especially with the RIGHT COMPANY!
Thank you for sharing your struggles. Sometimes I feel that I’m the only one struggling with depression and social anxiety. Listening to you share helped me very much.
Thank you bro. 👍
3:57 Being alone is tough sometimes bro, we all go through this. Part of being a human being. Thanks for sharing man. You’ll get through it, try to make small talk with strangers, I feel like this helps me with my mood. Specially in the Philippines where everyone is friendly, approachable and warm. That was literally the perfect country to have the mental issues you were experiencing.
Yeah supposedly as many expats do. But his was the other way around. I think he was just being pessimistic first hand in coming to the Philippines that's why he didn't enjoy. 🙄
I think it can hit one anywhere , at any time . Sometimes being in the happiest place can make a person feel worse , as it can make one feel even lonelier , if that makes sense .
He's still traumatized by Dubai and much to handle traveling alone w/ a trusted host.
Thank you for sharing Gabi. What you are saying resonates with me. I know the feeling of loneliness and depression and have felt it when travelling alone. The way you told your story I find very helpful and I’m sure others will too. I love your channel and look forward to seeing more of your incredible adventures. Take care of yourself and travel safe 🤗
Brother! So many of us have tried virtually any and everything to fill that void that you still have. Only JESUS does it for us, Bro! We hope that you reach out/pray to HIM! HE is Everything and exactly what you need, my friend! 🙏🤗🙏
This is so interesting to watch. I had the exact same feelings when I landed in the Philippines. Both in terms of paradise overload and something feeling off.
Say no to drugs, you will be happier.
You are so brave, Gabi. Hang in there. I watched your video and was so moved. I thought over and over of what words I could say. And then, I too had to face my own failings in life and it just opened up a can of worms for me. At the same time I wished I could tap you on the back and say it is okay, my friend. I wished I lived around you so that I could visit you but I know Flo will be there for you. Yes, your video had a huge effect on me like no other video has had. I admire folks like you who are so brave to be open and share something so personal but that it helps so many. We are all in the same boat as you. Take care my brother. We all love you Gabi.
Gabi, I really appreciate this video. I have travelled over 50 countries, more often than not alone, and there have been times that I have experienced similar feelings and have had to move on from particular locations and even countries. Never been to the Philippines, but hope to get there in the next few years. Have been to Thailand many times, and expect I will enjoy more visits in the future. You did the right thing by yourself and I trust you will be able to adjust to Malaysia when you visit there. Thailand makes a great base.
Be in bohol safe and have lots of white beaches
Thank you for sharing. I hope your mind is once again at peace 😊
You can always go back to the 🇵🇭 with a friend or family in that way you won’t feel sad or alone. Good luck🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Love your videos! I think we can all relate to occasional bouts of loneliness or anxiety. It’s all part of being human. And happiness is connecting with people do never feel bad about missing loved ones. I’ve travelled every way possible ( alone, with a friend, with a gf, in a group) and all four ways are extremely different experiences. If I’m alone I grab a beer at a small bar and chat away with the bartender or other customers. It’s all part of human interaction. Man you’re the best! Please keep up the awesome work
Thanks for being so honest. I’ve followed your channel for a while. Particularly your Indian trip. I guess I don’t fully appreciate mental health issues Just let me say you appear to be an incredible human being who would be a pleasure to know and engage with. You have brought so much joy and encouragement to so many. Particularly those of us armchair adventurers. Thank you so much and please know you have the emotional support and love and appreciation from all of us. Prayers for you and your well being. 👍🙏
I resonate with how you felt and appreciate your honesty, I've felt the same issues when solo travelling before, down to tropical touristic paradises and even PH cities specifically
That's ok man. We are not disappointed, we understand you. I hope ypu find your peaceful happy place just go back to Philippines whenever you feel like it. We always welcome you there.
Damn sorry to hear that missing the people in your life makes you have anxiety. Might I suggest you don't travel alone next time bring the people you love. I hope you get better soon there in thailand and thank you for visiting our country.
Hey Gabi! You are not alone! We totally love you and your videos and were following your steps in Thailand and Cambodia this year ( just back in Greece, where we live). I just watched thos video yesterday and was quite surprised that you are suffering from depression and low moods, because my partner thinks you are the most positive person 😊😊😊.
Well, you are never alone! I bet so many people love you already! The job that you are doing is amazing and motivates so many of us!
I must tell you that I felt quite similar in Philippines, I keep on thinking that I should give it another chance. I have so many Philippino friends here,so maybe next time it's better to travel with locals. There is a darkside of the Philippines, so don't be surprised you felt like that.
Anyway, if you need a rest and to recharge your batteries, please, be our guest in Greece, always!!! Not kidding! Here for you to be your guide! 🤩🤩🤩
I appreciate the honesty and openness about your experience. What you shared is truly a gem in a sea of influencers/vloggers hype.
Thank you for sharing and your honesty. A lot of people will not understand your situation unless they’ve gone through what you’ve experienced in life. We’ve traveled the world for a bit and do understand what you mean. I get it. I was in Korea last time and it just hit me that I’m home sick and I was having a mental breakdown. I, myself, didn’t understand why I was feeling that way when I actually like being in Korea.
Your mental health is more important than what people would say. Take care of yourself and continue what makes you happy … peace ✌️ ☮️
Thanks Gabi for your honesty and transparency. Good to see you made the right decision to put yourself and your mental health first. The viewers aren't going anywhere. Enjoy your break and the Songkran water festival. I will be doing the same here in Laos and will be sure to raise a glass of beer laos for you mate. Also I will be moving to Chiang Mai with my family in July so If I bump into you I will surely say hello.
Hi Gabi. I'm sorry to hear about your situation, you are so brave talking about your feelings, I think it was a good decision to leave the Philippines and come to Thailand where you feel at home, take it easy for a while and do your planning and if possible spend some time with Ploy. Take care Gabi 💛
Thank you for sharing your most inner feelings and struggles .I went with friends to Phillipines ..we went to Boracay, which I can relate to that paradise feeling
but I spend my days alone on that beautiful beach wishing I had someone to enjoy it with .
Hi Gabi I really understand where youre coming from. Sounds like you have the not belonging belief. I recognise it in myself too. Travel is always round the corner and depression, if people dont get depressed they dont understand it. Thank you for being so vulnerable and honest. It always passes. Love your videos sending much Love xx
You're a really honest, interesting, resourceful & smart guy, Gabi.
Thanks very much for your informative vlogs.
Kind regards & ciao JC
Sorry to hear about your depression. Thankfully traveling alone for myself has given me a great deal joy in my life.
Thank you for being truthful about your feelings. The issue is not the place but how you feel. Who knows when everything clears up you might reconsider visiting again. I suggest you go to the north up there in the mountains province in the Cordillera region.
Kudos to you for telling your story with your mental health, that takes a lot of courage. Best of luck to you.
Thank you for visiting the Philippines!😊 hope you will come back!
Gabi, hai fatto benissimo a tornare in Thai: sei stato attento e in ascolto verso te stesso ed é la cosa piú giusta. Grazie per avere esposto questa parte delicata di te, sei una persona coraggiosa e vera.
Yes true and geniune conversation with oneself and so to the people..like it very much..
You communicate yourself so well bro! I could learn from you, especially as a vlogger.
Your mental health is a priority, hope you come back to The Philippines when you're ready. We are with you all the way and will welcome you back anytime. Hugs for you friend
I now travel Phillipines on my bike past few month and loving it, I also bought it second hand without an issue cash on spot and got all registration transferred and with 3 signatures letters sign by attorney under one day man, I think you panicked and definitely didn’t do your homework prior coming here.
All the best😊
The title of the video should've been "I'm depressed, I need help". Your struggles are from the inside, and it has nothing to do with the Philippines.
He was pretty transparent as to why and he mentioned his mental health you don’t have to be so Vicious, he’s actually sharing his life and personal struggle on a public platform what in the world is wrong with you ?
Get in where you fit in
@@Classwork-uk8mu well say bro
Just like some Filipino who speak english politely but not politely in real sense😂😂😂😂
@classwork-uk8ma as a Filipino I’m dead serious as to why I hate living in the Philippines. It just feels so depressing and lonely to live in the country especially with the way how things are going 😢😒
In the Philippines, instead of beaches, maybe it might be better to travel to the mountains. The mountains are a nice contrast to the beaches since the weather is cooler, no beaches, no coconut trees but lots of pine trees and mountain scenery. You can smell the pine trees. The coolest months are Dec and Jan. It gets to around 10 C at night. Nothing sub zero but cold enough to need some form of heating in the home or heavy blankets.
the mountains in the cebu province are full of coconut trees and don't get that cold
Hi Gabi, 🤗thanks for sharing your thoughts. I like your videos very much and I appreciate your honesty. Wish you all the best and a good time back in Thailand to find new strenght and muse for further journeys. It was your fault, that I was visiting Thailand (Chiang Mai, Ao Nang and Bangkok) in February this year. AND I LOVED IT 😉.Greetings from Germany.
It happened to me in Phuket in January 2023. 😢 Phuket is beautiful but I completely lost the motivation and energy. I ended up buying an expensive flight ticket to return earlier to Europe.
Can u elaborate
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I don’t want to sound non sympathetic but you’re an adult, you chose to either be a victim or a champion. As a teenager I had major social anxieties, but guess what, I realized no one was gonna save me from them so I actively worked to over come them. Since then I have lived in many counties met many people, had relationships with beautiful women, all things I could never have done if I sat around feeling sorry for myself. Some would say that the Philippines is one of the best places to overcome your social anxieties because people are so friendly and talkative there!
Hope you're feeling better and hope you can return and explore the Philippines 😊❤
It’s a little heartbreaking to watch this video knowing you missed to explore the real beauty of our country. But I totally agree that mental health must always be a priority. It’ll be a real challenge to unleash your creative juices if your mind, soul and body are not connected. Hope you feel better soon Gabi. 🙏🏻
We love you Gabi 🙂 Great that you know yourself so well and are authentic enough to share it.
Your explanation and your feelings is valid. I feel the same way too no matter how pretty the country if I struggle and deal a chaotic overwhelming stressful condition and hassle I get sad and wanted to leave. Pray for ur recovery bro.
Hi Gabi, I think I understand what you have had...had exactly the same 'anxiety' issues many times....I wonder if breaking the cycle wouldn't help...push yourself to meet people !
Oh man Gabi, I love this episode! Really resonates with me, especially your 'Paradise Overdose' and the anxiety in the face of loneliness. Mine came having to spend much of my young years sort of alone and young adult years working in remote and isolated parts of the world. When I would return from isolated barren and isolated work places to paradise places for weeks or months, and sometimes I would experience pretty pronounced social anxiety and sadness in paradise and depression, and depression and hopelessness when returning to work in desolate isolation. People said I had the best life, making very good money months and then going to anywhere in the world. But honestly Gabi, as you likely understand I was very miserable, and became more anxious and sad, to the point where I found little joy an anything.
However, A good number of years ago, when I whet through the loss of both, parents, having my business and everything I worked for stolen by some corrupt family members while I was caring for my dying parents, Loosing a lovely fiancé and a few best friends along the way, with some simple insights from someone who provided some simple insights to un-hook from some simple hooks everyone has to some degree, I was able to find peace there I was alone, isolated or with others. King back, it's hard to imagine how simple and now seemingly simple things could become so overwhelming. Spent almost the last two decades doing what I can to try to help others find some direction out of their anxiety, I suspect Gabi, being such an aware and searching person, what you occasionally struggle is not as located or difficult to overcome as it may seem, usually it's a result too much force and will applied in the wrong way and time (sort of like riding a motorcycle or flying an aircraft) that keeps us hooked into a that loop of negative thoughts and emotions, that only have the power over us that we give it through our struggle that prevents us from seeing.
If you you ever want to chat about such things. privately or possibly online I'd appreciate doing so. Thanks again, what you share is a blessing for many.
Great support and words Jack which I'm sure will be appreciated and useful, from your story family can't be trusted. Take care
I asked all my Filipina friends why they don't date men from other countries, all of them have looks , stable and educated. They said, there is no assurance if the guy wants to live in pH. They don't wamt to leave their country. Now I get it. I'm Thai, BTW.
Thank you for your kind words Jack O'Neil. I wish you the best and a warm handshake from my humble country the Philippines 🇵🇭.
All nations has it's SHARE of good people and bad people, good places and bad places. It is just a matter of being at the right place and at the right time with the RIGHT COMPANY! Yes, especially with the RIGHT COMPANY!
Bro, you’ve had some heavy losses. Love your words of compassion and encouragement.
I visited Thailand first time 7 months after breaking up with a gal I thought I would marry.
Being alone in Thailand was both amazing and awkward. Bittersweet as I miss her still after 10 months. I just want to feel better again but I see that others struggle too for many reasons.
I also work remotely from home and the isolation can feel like death. I’ve lost my motivation for life but traveling is a new adventure… which I see has its ups and downs.
It's good to share this. You stay already for many years in Thailand. It feels very comfortabel. That's why you feel happy. And than there is the moment. You switch country. Heavy thoughts and Belly, because the comfortzone and everything is gone.😊
I respect you for sharing your true feelings and thoughts about your trip to Boracay. We all have hang ups that we're dealing with in silence. I pray you are able to develop ways to minimize your anxiety and depression.
I am sorry to hear that Gabi. I hope you be well. As a Filipino, I felt more concern about your overall well being than your experience here. Stay happy!
Best of luck fellah filipino are the warmest and happy people in the world, if u get back try to blend in and get friends with the locals they will make sure ure leaving with happy smile in ur face....
Your revelation comes as a bit of a shock to me but I can empathise with your feelings Gabi. I find the social life overseas to be better than what I experience at home so I'm currently in a strange place today having pulled the plug on my trip to Vietnam via Bali. I have a bad back so I thought it was sensible to defer travel until I was better. Menatally though I really needed a change in scenery although I like where I live. Mixed emotions as they say. Guess The Phillipines was way outside your comfort zone right now. Glad you're feeling better back in Thailand. I envy you being OS. Really appreciate your honesty and hope things work out with future travel plans.
I traveled for years in the Philippines. I bought a scooter and it was easy. If you buy new.... there's no paper work. The dealer does it all for you. They give you a temporary plate. Good until you get your permanent number. They will email you when it arrives at their shop. No problem. Yes, you need to take a ferry to the islands. Very easy also. Drive your scooter onto the ferry. Drive it off and go. Once again, I can't understand why you had a problem. Then I hear you say you have anxiety issues. It was all in your head. Don't discourage people from exploring the Phillipines. It's really a mute problem. Just be careful driving because there's no rules driving. My God!!! Thailand hasn't anything over the Phillipines. I put them both in the same bucket. Both have their pluses. This vidio really sucks because your mind is screwed up.
Very well said,Thank you Sir !, This will give a Positive impact to the people that think Philippines is not a good choice to travel with.
Thank you for your honesty….You might not realize that you are helping people to acknowledge some aspects of their lives…I know of that feeling alone & “tristesse” while being with others…..😊
Hi Gabi! I know that Situation as well. You are very open mindet. Best wishes and all the Best! Hans
Yah, I know that feeling too --- BEING LONLEY IN A CROWD --- and in a paradise as well --- is depressing for sure. I appreciate that you bailed from the Philippine's scene altogether --- to rebalance your mental health --- with loved ones in Thailand.
Your openness to talk about your sensitive inner-spirit is refreshing --- and yes, makes me feel less vulnerable as well.
Your future plan --- to drive your beloved African Twin --- to Malaysia sounds exciting --- like the middle path, as we say in Buddhism. Perhaps Ploy could join you in Malaysia from time to time --- and/or team up more often --- with your UA-cam fans from Malaysia --- to have more fun and companionship on day or multiple road-trips with them.
I often replay your Indian vlog --- "I went home with a street beggar." Full support --- from your Earthpeople fans in Hawaii.
Hats off to you Gabi for sharing your struggles with mental health. It’s great to see that there are other people out there that have similar issues.
Nice video,,, thank you, you are helping people by your experience and videos, plz stay positive and keep going, Cebu is beautiful safe lots of things to see and visit and amazing beaches,,, food ehh ok
Gabi, I just want to cheer you up! ❤ Everyone is different so no need to push yourself to be like others. You are in control of your own health and happiness. Do what make you feel good because you are the one who feel and experience it, not other people. No need to feel guilty! Happiness comes from inside.
Paradise is where you feel confidence and calm not the beauty that you can't even seen it. Health is more important than everything 🙏🏾 wish you all the best and strong 💪🏽 ❤️ 💖 we love you Gabi ❤
That is such good point
Thank you for making this 🎥
Stay strong and always remember, there is NO such thing as a PERFECT place... it is always up to you how you will make it perfect and make it worthy to appreciate. Good luck!
@Gabi....You should have explored the mountains and rural areas of Cebu island and not stayed in the urban center of Cebu City if you really wanted something to soothe your mind and keep your mental health in check. The mountains of Cebu City alone (just a few minutes drive uphill) has lots of natural and man-made attractions such as adventure parks, botanical gardens, rock formations, scenic peaks, scenic roads, scenic villages and farmlands, camp grounds/sites, mountain resorts, viewing decks, chic restaurants/cafes, glamping sites and hiking trails. And if you drive further out to either south or north of Cebu City to rural towns and cities, paved roads crisscross the mountains offering you amazing sceneries as they take you to quaint mountain villages and farmlands, waterfalls, springs, lush jungles and dozens of mountain peaks that you can easily climb in just few minutes of short trek. Cebu is a very big island that has hundreds of calming natural wonders such as the famous turquoise blue waters of its waterfalls, cold springs, streams, lakes and many semi-secluded white sandy beaches all to yourself that may have given you some sort of healing.
New to your channel. It’s surprising to know you have social anxiety. Something I struggle with as well but I think I have learnt to live with myself for a long time in my life.
I like your honesty, I think Bangkok has a real heart about it and you never feel alone there, and totally get you being in paradise alone can mess with your head!
Well, thank you for visiting! Hope you improve with your anxiety 👍
It’s not the destination that matters, it’s not even the journey that matters. It’s the company that matters. ❤❤
Be the best company you can be
I enjoy reading this pleasant comments. Thank you for your kindness.
My traveling companions are; Me, Myself, and I 😅.
I have my best company right beside me, my passport
It gets to the point where you want to share it with that special someone. We used to call it missing someone, now they call it mental illness. Hearts can break from missing people.
Sure just use one person as your medicine for mental health. Sounds healthy
It's basically saying he is getting crazy or partly crazy already 😢
There will come a day when there won’t be a “special someone”, if you live long enough. Then you need to find your peace from within.
He’s just in a place that doesn’t speak to his soul.
He just needs to move on.
Gabi, one day at a time. I hope Thailand provides you with an environment that makes you happy and less lonely. Your travels are so interesting to me. I love travel on two wheels. The African Twin is !! and hope to see your journey though Thailand and Malaysia. Take care
you took some nice shots of the beaches, palm trees and sand, I like it and there are longer fragments of the film, not the short two seconds that some people do and they run away and run away as if someone was chasing them, and you did it much better, much longer, I like it! you can easily see something in your videos. Most people don't have time for themselves even on their holidays because they are in a hurry! Sometimes you have to stop and look at this beautiful nature 😊👍
Sounds like the issue is not the place but companionship. Which is relatable. Find a good group of people or close friends to travel with.