An Honest View on India After 18 Years (American’s perspective)

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  • @anthonyfernandes576
    @anthonyfernandes576 5 місяців тому +491

    She's speaking truth as she is now adopted to India (her husband's nation). She is very much happy in India with real life experiences ...

    • @pragawa
      @pragawa 5 місяців тому +2

      Adapted*

    • @SurbhiGupta_2704
      @SurbhiGupta_2704 4 місяці тому +2

      Adapted*

    • @nitish.anand99
      @nitish.anand99 4 місяці тому

      Adapted*

    • @watermelonlover745
      @watermelonlover745 4 місяці тому +1

      It's sad to see a woman from America reduce herself to living surrounded by idols just to have her money go further.

    • @Vaahbiz
      @Vaahbiz 3 місяці тому

      ​@@watermelonlover745😂

  • @Giveuspeace
    @Giveuspeace 4 місяці тому +92

    I spent combined total of 5 years in India. I absolutely love India and I really connected with it. returning to the US I find I feel more isolated even though I spent two years in India during covid.
    It was such a shock with the huge increase in rents and groceries.
    Finding peace in the chaos was my greatest gift i could return with. I also gained a wonderful honorary family. My blessing that i wish I could always be with.

    • @user2j3ycg4df
      @user2j3ycg4df 4 місяці тому +1

      You can always visit us whenever you wish to, ma'am. Best wishes.

    • @manishpandey5217
      @manishpandey5217 3 місяці тому +1

      ❤❤ Thanks for compliment even when u visit India a warm welcome once again. If u have time then must visit Patna. I will meet u. Respect for u always.❤❤🎉🎉❤❤

    • @kantabangovindbhai3936
      @kantabangovindbhai3936 3 місяці тому +1

      Hi

  • @ajittffcure
    @ajittffcure 5 місяців тому +484

    As an Indian, what stuns me about foreigners living here and making India their home is how adaptable they are and how they are willing to embrace it to this extent. It is obviously challenging and difficult but they just make the effort to do it. Nicole is one such person for sure! Great interview, Max.

    • @striker44
      @striker44 5 місяців тому

      Unfortunately, NRIs are not respected by Indians. Why the double standards?

    • @evm6177
      @evm6177 5 місяців тому +6

      Also for them job competition and cost of living struggles in their home countries is far greater (US / Europe / even Arabs and African foreigners who settle here) .. Indian local people friends, shopkeepers etc. realise this when they see why these people are not going back permanently? So not everything is green and roses and she is even mentioning the struggle with savings and cost of living as a foreigner in India. So you can imagine the majbooriya!

    • @breezeanonymous6034
      @breezeanonymous6034 5 місяців тому +9

      Wh*the skin in itself is treated as royalty in the 5th world. Easy to accomodate

    • @gopalramanathan7062
      @gopalramanathan7062 5 місяців тому +7

      I don’t think it should “stun” you. After all millions of us Indians form the diaspora today and we successfully live in every part. And conversely as India develops economically we can expect thousands of non Indians to come and settle successfully here in India, and we should welcome it as part of our own transformation.

    • @selinaali9367
      @selinaali9367 4 місяці тому +3

      I equally find it stunning how my south Asian immigrant parents moved to England in the 1980s and lived through the freezing winter and goin through amazing length to adapt to the culture that didn’t understand but were willing to sacrifice.

  • @nam070
    @nam070 5 місяців тому +99

    She is such good wife and mother with wonderful personality and respectful towards both cultures thanku for bringing her

  • @necromancena
    @necromancena 5 місяців тому +1540

    The worst thing that I can hear as an Indian is a lady being bothered whenever she goes out. These inappropriate touching and "accidents" need to be addressed and stopped.
    Edit: I wrote "a lady" and not "a lady from any particular country". Statement is meant for all ladies.

    • @SLLR4594
      @SLLR4594 5 місяців тому +119

      This is something Indian ladies also face, hope people would learn to respect and get rid of doing such cheap things.

    • @DrAkashraj
      @DrAkashraj 5 місяців тому +61

      The PM take this up in Man Ki Baat, it's a big menace to the society and our global image, tourism is suffering, solo female traveller avoid India 😔

    • @SLLR4594
      @SLLR4594 5 місяців тому +39

      @@DrAkashraj in fact we Indian ladies still need family members to travel with us to tourist places in remote or not much developed areas. Travelling to a metro city and when you know which places to visit and which to avoid in a city helps ladies who travel solo for work purposes.

    • @Kalki-2
      @Kalki-2 5 місяців тому +22

      Exactly..... Such a mindset and thought process should change asap in India

    • @GK-qx6mn
      @GK-qx6mn 5 місяців тому +11

      Totally agree

  • @jusatnk
    @jusatnk 5 місяців тому +73

    The lady is so down-to-earth and honest, could listen to her all day!! The vide ended abruptly!! All the best o her. చాల సంతొషం she speaks Telugu. ఆవిడకి Indial మంచి అనుభవాలు ఇస్తుందని ఆసిస్తున్నాను.

    • @rajanmathai
      @rajanmathai 5 місяців тому

      Why down to earth ? Whe they are trying understand Indian languages?

    • @captaincaveman8729
      @captaincaveman8729 3 місяці тому

      If you watched the video, somewhere at the start itself she mentioned she knows basic telegu and even their children are fluent, chill out a little bit, in the end we are all humans, I am Indian born and brought up here, my Hindi is very terrible and I don't speak any other language other than English, so does that mean I am not down to earth either?​@@rajanmathai

  • @rYtwing
    @rYtwing 5 місяців тому +479

    The lady is a complete family person ❤

    • @anil7154
      @anil7154 5 місяців тому +14

      She was not from the city, she said. Maybe it is the reason she is more human ❤

    • @stephenwatson672
      @stephenwatson672 5 місяців тому

      That uses helpers? I think not. Modern women don’t know how to cook or clean.

    • @masterquiz143
      @masterquiz143 5 місяців тому

      Yeah Party 4 times a week 😊

    • @NicoleInIndia
      @NicoleInIndia 5 місяців тому +7

      @@masterquiz143 I said that people can party four times a week. I don’t actually do that.

    • @masterquiz143
      @masterquiz143 5 місяців тому +2

      @@NicoleInIndia Sorry you got a different idea . Live a Great life Akka 🙏🏻

  • @basanthpatil6454
    @basanthpatil6454 5 місяців тому +104

    She's a friend and was a colleague. One of the strongest and funniest women I know. She wholeheartedly was part of almost every event at office, cultural and non cultural. She's embraced the land and it's ways with open arms.
    Loved the interview, she's just fantabulous.

    • @NicoleInIndia
      @NicoleInIndia 5 місяців тому +5

      ❤❤❤

    • @shrishri8898
      @shrishri8898 4 місяці тому +1

      @@NicoleInIndia please tell what did you study and how did you meet your husband

    • @NicoleInIndia
      @NicoleInIndia 4 місяці тому +6

      ⁠@@shrishri8898I initially studied liberal arts in college but it was my work experience that I used to start my career. I worked in technical support while I was going to school.
      I took that experience and moved to California where I eventually met my husband. We met at work.

  • @AnilNagubadi
    @AnilNagubadi 5 місяців тому +26

    She was frank about her experience. She wasnt biased and also she didnt cook anything about India. She told her experoences honestly. I appreciate this 🙏 interview. In addition to great respect 🙏 to UA-cam channel for making many videos on India.

  • @AnkitRoy0709
    @AnkitRoy0709 5 місяців тому +37

    Really appreciate how true she is in the whole interview I really appreciate how she pointed out the downside of india unlike other youtuber Or interviewer

  • @aveekbanerjee2164
    @aveekbanerjee2164 5 місяців тому +47

    Respect to you Madam for making India your home and raising your kids here.

  • @gauravviit
    @gauravviit 5 місяців тому +61

    She is very sorted. Really liked the video. Thoughtful painting of Ganesh/Ganpati.

  • @tulika_9519
    @tulika_9519 5 місяців тому +161

    India is not cheap 😅 TRUE.
    Its affordable. You get what you pay for. You can get everything here according to your budget. If you want expensive things, you will get expensive.
    If you want neither too expensive, nor too cheap...you will get that too.
    So yesss, always keep your budget in mind.

    • @evm6177
      @evm6177 5 місяців тому +5

      😁🤣👍 FACTS!

    • @samgilchristv
      @samgilchristv 4 місяці тому +2

      tax😭

    • @wellwisher.
      @wellwisher. 4 місяці тому +1

      Fax

    • @SenorSol
      @SenorSol 3 місяці тому

      But life is cheap in India!

    • @fortuneltd3591
      @fortuneltd3591 3 місяці тому

      Well I won't get good roads and infra how much ever I pay for in Mumbai. And no clean air and peace with silence either😂

  • @bigmoose143
    @bigmoose143 4 місяці тому +10

    Hats off to this lady! She is so polite and kind to her experience in India

  • @harshdhoka
    @harshdhoka 5 місяців тому +250

    I thank the lady for showing the world were we stand in compare to america.

    • @abhishekwadwalkar6032
      @abhishekwadwalkar6032 5 місяців тому +24

      She is expressing her comfort with india. No need to disrespect other countries. Be like a real Indian.

    • @HarshitMishra89
      @HarshitMishra89 5 місяців тому

      Fake knowledge.. it is only applicable in Delhi and Mumbai.. NO WHERE ELSE

    • @SueU-x9u
      @SueU-x9u 5 місяців тому +3

      You should rephrase your sentence to be clear…. Seems like you are praising Americans and America…

    • @abhishekshukla4073
      @abhishekshukla4073 5 місяців тому

      Lol American is worst than indian when it's come to women safety

    • @FunnyIntelliInnocentVilageKid
      @FunnyIntelliInnocentVilageKid 5 місяців тому +3

      @@SueU-x9u Blind patriotism is the flavour of the day. 😂

  • @promethiusunknown2872
    @promethiusunknown2872 5 місяців тому +375

    I have been living in India since my birth. I'm 28 years old now. I still can't understand this country 😂

    • @ClearExplain
      @ClearExplain 5 місяців тому +6

      😂😂💯💯✔✔ me too

    • @ThamizhiAaseevagar
      @ThamizhiAaseevagar 5 місяців тому +10

      S,no one can,it's so diverse.

    • @sammanipur8795
      @sammanipur8795 5 місяців тому +3

      😂😂

    • @kannanvenkat5922
      @kannanvenkat5922 5 місяців тому +38

      huh. don't bother. I am indian and I have not understood my countrymen either. you find temples overflowing with devotees but come election they elect a party which demolishes temples. i find them very stupidly selfish but very generous to strangers. i gave up trying to understand my own country men.

    • @ClearExplain
      @ClearExplain 5 місяців тому +4

      @@kannanvenkat5922 👍🙄

  • @shabarishbalaji1881
    @shabarishbalaji1881 5 місяців тому +24

    Wow, great video. I must say Nicole did a fantastic job. I know some Indians are terrible and some places are awful but when you look at the bigger picture, India is as beautiful and diverse as they come and its a hell of journey. Even me being a Native Indian, India is hard for me but people like Nicole who come from comfortable places to India and they still love it. That's just awesome.

  • @rmk_ro
    @rmk_ro 5 місяців тому +17

    So wholesome. I watched the entire video with such a big smile on my face. Well done!

  • @arvindgoudar1586
    @arvindgoudar1586 5 місяців тому +13

    Beautiful interview and content. Also salute to Nicole, a small town girl from Dakota to move to a city in India and stay for 18 years and raise a beautiful family. It can test your sanity to the hilt !! 😀

  • @skilllearnacademy6005
    @skilllearnacademy6005 5 місяців тому +23

    India is so unique, natural, intrinsic , intuitive, holistic

  • @RivanJD
    @RivanJD 5 місяців тому +13

    I watch her videos and really love the way she perceive India. Thanks Max for this video.

  • @dp-hy8jz
    @dp-hy8jz 4 місяці тому +6

    I loved this honest guest. She gave true perspective on all topics and questions that were asked and she did it with utmost respect. I wish her all the best ❤

  • @SuDeep_M9999
    @SuDeep_M9999 5 місяців тому +6

    Thanx Max for yr clips! They mk a comprehensive presentation of the realities. So was the Lady here. We can empathise with her views but one must also appreciate her initial challenges & the ways she handled them.
    Thank you All!🎉

  • @LyricalMurderer1
    @LyricalMurderer1 5 місяців тому +6

    She is awesome - down to earth and has lived there for 18 plus years. I was born in India but can’t imagine having to adapt now that I’m an adult.

  • @SuryanarayanaJagarlapudi
    @SuryanarayanaJagarlapudi 5 місяців тому +56

    She is incredibly wise. She is ready to accept the fact that India is incredibly varied and confusing and that not all Indians are nice.

  • @martin96991
    @martin96991 5 місяців тому +140

    She has a YT - Nicole in INDIA. 🎉

  • @TheUnknowns90637
    @TheUnknowns90637 5 місяців тому +2

    I really enjoyed watching the full video..the interview was smooth and I loved the experience and comparison shared..she was actually being very honest..

  • @karthikghantasala2444
    @karthikghantasala2444 4 місяці тому +2

    Very honest and straightforward experiences from Nicole.. loved her husband's grandmother kitchen cabinet and her versatile Ganesha painting..never seen that depiction before of Ganesha!!

  • @FrancescoMarelli84
    @FrancescoMarelli84 5 місяців тому +19

    Great interview. Wonderful person!
    Myself 10 years into living in Hyderabad, it's indeed a great experience to live in Beautiful Bharat ❤

  • @nipunath
    @nipunath 5 місяців тому +19

    She is nice. She has a UA-cam channel also. Thank you for loving and spending so much time of your life in India.

  • @priyashmukherjee3015
    @priyashmukherjee3015 5 місяців тому +37

    *I AM SUBSCRIBING TO THIS KIND LADY'S CHANNEL. SHE IS A TRUE INDIAN*

    • @stephenwatson672
      @stephenwatson672 5 місяців тому +2

      Lol

    • @shubodas499
      @shubodas499 5 місяців тому

      ​@@stephenwatson672get lost

    • @ketandamle7729
      @ketandamle7729 5 місяців тому

      What's the name of her channel?

    • @ketandamle7729
      @ketandamle7729 5 місяців тому

      Stephen we love our coutry. We understand its not perfect. If any foreigner genuinely likes us like she does we will rerurn respect multiplied by 10

  • @saravanakumar7394
    @saravanakumar7394 2 місяці тому +1

    Great Show.
    Wonderful Effort.
    Appreciate Nicole and her family.
    Thanks again Brother Max 👏🙏

  • @shankarraman6038
    @shankarraman6038 5 місяців тому +5

    This interview offers an honest and candid perspective on living in India from a US-born, native American viewpoint. Even for Indians, traveling to new places within the country is a constant learning experience, especially when visiting regions vastly different from one's own cultural background.
    India's diversity presents a unique challenge, with countless layers and levels of familiarity needed-one lifetime isn't enough to fully grasp it all. The country’s rich cultural tapestry means you’ll meet a wide variety of people, each differentiated primarily by financial status, requiring a customized approach for interaction. There's no one-size-fits-all method here.
    The interviewee's genuine and unpretentious insights highlight the complexity and beauty of navigating life in India. Her observations are refreshingly honest, reflecting the experiences of many who have lived or traveled extensively in this incredible country.

  • @zenitasequeiravaz4921
    @zenitasequeiravaz4921 3 місяці тому +2

    Thanks a lot.
    Very interesting watch.
    I learnt a lot about my own country from your experience.

  • @parijattrivedi8310
    @parijattrivedi8310 5 місяців тому +3

    One positive things about this podcast is that the host is a very good listener and that's good tactics to arrive at exceptional content.

  • @rashmigupta5119
    @rashmigupta5119 4 місяці тому +2

    I loved this conversation , truly delightful , happiness just flowed out of her , very engrossing and transparent thought process ❤

  • @bandhabindaas
    @bandhabindaas 5 місяців тому +22

    Nicole is such a sweet lady ❤. It's not that easy to settle in foreign land and embrace to the extent you love it.

  • @Vijay-mi1ql
    @Vijay-mi1ql 4 місяці тому +2

    She gave a beautiful picture of life in India and the pros and cons. Great job

  • @AlohaKutla
    @AlohaKutla 5 місяців тому +44

    I believe in future many Americans especially of Indian heritage will shift to India. Right now many elder Americans are shifting to Mexico, Costa Rica after retirement. India along with Vietnam can be a viable option for such Americans in future

    • @subhadramahanta452
      @subhadramahanta452 5 місяців тому +1

      More than welcome, ignore the upper comment

    • @subhadramahanta452
      @subhadramahanta452 5 місяців тому +1

      Americans are good people

    • @rskolkata
      @rskolkata 5 місяців тому +2

      @@Master_champ_24 Yes, but it's better to control the rabbit like breeding of people without basic civic sense for that issue. Return of Indian origin people will be an asset.

    • @peace-doctor
      @peace-doctor 5 місяців тому

      no it will never hpn, as a indian i can confirm that, here no one knows cleaning, hygiene…..nothing, only poor americans can come here, whats here nothing full of trash, no fresh air, pollution, crowd…..

    • @stephenwatson672
      @stephenwatson672 5 місяців тому

      But will it with rising global temperatures around the equator? India people are brown skinned for a reason.

  • @stanendo3537
    @stanendo3537 2 місяці тому +1

    Wonderful and enjoyed this video. We need to learn more of India.

  • @TravelFans4U
    @TravelFans4U 5 місяців тому +11

    Very nice interview. Ganesha looks so wonderful. Very unique.

  • @saimahesh7433
    @saimahesh7433 28 днів тому +1

    tq madam amd special regards to ur husband for giving importance to the the father tongue which is telugu apart from english..telugu is pure honey..let the kids learn and enjoy the language and converse with grandparents in telugu

  • @killingking1739
    @killingking1739 5 місяців тому +6

    These experiences are so good to see and heartwarming.

  • @KunalVankani
    @KunalVankani 2 місяці тому +1

    Thankyou Nicole 🙏 for this truthful perspective of yours for India, I am happy that its a home to you and now you are a homei. Bless you and family

  • @ketandamle7729
    @ketandamle7729 5 місяців тому +17

    I can imagine for her how difficult it would be to go out on her own. There are some really nice aspects of Indian society but there are some horrible ones.
    The way Nicole has integrated with India is incredible. She made a huge decision. She made a huge sacrifice. Her love for her husband prevailed.

    • @neetashah1572
      @neetashah1572 5 місяців тому

      The not so nice aspects occurs in all countries ,India is vast ,with a massive population so bad things can occur

  • @vijayadas3317
    @vijayadas3317 4 місяці тому +2

    A very nice and honest lady full of energy enthusiasm and good humour, May God bless her,

  • @manusukul7497
    @manusukul7497 5 місяців тому +7

    Your subtitles are so on point, so very contextual, and so well timed. Congratulations 🙌

  • @japaadi
    @japaadi 5 місяців тому +14

    To all the tourists watching,When you come to India stay as much as possible in villages and experience the food and culture.

    • @SV-wu2my
      @SV-wu2my 5 місяців тому +6

      Easy to preach. Culturally difficult.

    • @SHIVAMYadav-pw5uz
      @SHIVAMYadav-pw5uz 4 місяці тому +3

      Washroom problems 😂😂😂

    • @ppaz1956
      @ppaz1956 3 місяці тому

      😂 😂

  • @harshak3590
    @harshak3590 5 місяців тому +28

    Max your format of doing interview is very honest and truthful, much appreciative. We do see more content on India, But on Singapore and Dubai are really helpful in understanding whats happening in other places.. Keep up and good going.. Truly remarkable effort..

    • @stephenwatson672
      @stephenwatson672 5 місяців тому

      Disagree. Saw another channel describing how in Singapore you can face criminal charges for offending someone or giving the finger. No civil proceedings. So yeah, things are safe around there if you don’t offend anyone and never mind all eyes on you “90,000 police cameras.” with more planned.

  • @NeetReel
    @NeetReel 5 місяців тому +2

    Nicole this was a lovely window to your human experience here in india. The viewer can draw some of who you are and where you come from while also getting to see how that could possibly have contributed to your realistic understanding and assessment the indian experience. Its a new lens through which i see the colleague i barely knew.

  • @amusicalinstrument9745
    @amusicalinstrument9745 5 місяців тому +5

    "It is a controlled chaos"..now that line is just so accurate at also beautiful. I liked this line.

  • @user-mt1is1ky2p
    @user-mt1is1ky2p 5 місяців тому +2

    Nice interview. As a tour guide I feel much of here observations are very much objective unbiased.
    My first priority in my profession is the safety of my guests.
    I do share those worries and one more to be added is toilets and the fear of UTI.
    Being cautious on these and be prepared to face these situations and having alternatives at the shortest possible time and distance help.
    Kudos to both of you.

  • @kutekiaan786
    @kutekiaan786 5 місяців тому +3

    She is more Indian than lot of Indians ...because she is a beautiful human being...
    Thanks for this beautiful interview...when so many Indians intending to move outside of country...here Nicole reminds us how to deal with this controlled Chaos...cause this is our country ..
    Thanks for this awesome conversation and perspective...be happy..❤

  • @suryanarayan848
    @suryanarayan848 2 місяці тому +1

    This lady is adaptable.. living in India and adapting to a different culture and learning husband's language and teaching kids to be adaptable to both USA and Indian lifestyle is encouraging which native urban ladies in India should learn.

  • @Maitreya-7777
    @Maitreya-7777 5 місяців тому +27

    I am from Delhi and I see foreigners in all top areas here. Even got to talk to one who was studying in my college.

    • @dj4uufdkls8
      @dj4uufdkls8 5 місяців тому +3

      Did foreigners were coming this much before or it is after covid-19 the number of foreigners is increased

    • @mtarkes
      @mtarkes 5 місяців тому +3

      Yes i see a lot of Nigerians in Delhi.

  • @bharatiyaindia2709
    @bharatiyaindia2709 5 місяців тому +2

    This was a very interesting interview, more like conversation you have with your colleagues, I wondered how the time flew for 20 mins, when in some cases its hard to watch even a 7 min video.

  • @selinaali9367
    @selinaali9367 4 місяці тому +3

    I love how they are making lot of effort for the children to learn Telugu. Being bilingual makes your life richer

  • @neetashetty4910
    @neetashetty4910 3 місяці тому +1

    Respect !! truly amazing to hear soh much sense n wisdom today..ego free clarity.

  • @arnipskumar3245
    @arnipskumar3245 5 місяців тому +3

    Very balanced lady...heart and brain in the right place. Respects family, culture etc. Good interview 👍

  • @havyagadepalli1
    @havyagadepalli1 5 місяців тому +2

    @Max chernov thankyou somuch for taking this concept ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @nikcon769
    @nikcon769 5 місяців тому +3

    True
    Thanks to accepting India as what it's is wholeheartedly
    Great someone understand deeply

  • @Rog709
    @Rog709 5 місяців тому +2

    Very Open minded woman,l really appreciate her personality and attitude.God bless you maam.

  • @SrinivasaReddy-m7b
    @SrinivasaReddy-m7b 5 місяців тому +8

    Wow, my language is Telugu and my city Hyderabad.

  • @SPotThought
    @SPotThought 4 місяці тому +1

    Awesome. Thank you for sharing your journey living in India for long. Mostly it's the perspective you build in favor of making your life a part of a place on the planet. However.. for anybody, living in India, in general, is nothing short of a luxury when compared to any geography. Glad to watch this lady who is open and matured. All happiness and love to this wonderful family.😊

  • @silencespeaks5455
    @silencespeaks5455 5 місяців тому +8

    If one has enough money, India is the place to be...to have a good life!

  • @rashmigupta5119
    @rashmigupta5119 4 місяці тому +2

    Max Chernov I am a huge fan of your work

  • @BharatDattawade
    @BharatDattawade 5 місяців тому +3

    Thank you for the video. We have so many things to improve and so many things we are good at..

  • @Sritejajeedigunta
    @Sritejajeedigunta 3 місяці тому +1

    I think the way you've raised your children is awesome. Some of my cousins are married to US citizens and they live in the US. I know how hard it is for my cousins to cope up, but they do it for Love. They do it for bonding. They do it for this one beautiful thing called, "Family." I sincerely appreciate you for doing this for your family. You are a true Indo American. Stay blessed.

  • @Sun-gz6um
    @Sun-gz6um 5 місяців тому +3

    Both of you have great personalities.

  • @karnator4689
    @karnator4689 3 місяці тому +1

    nicole is incredible. she is loving caring and a gr8 person. i loved hearing her entire interview ❤❤❤

  • @subinkumar1714
    @subinkumar1714 5 місяців тому +3

    Honest view❤ every word she said is experience she had in india over the years

  • @ajitsawant50
    @ajitsawant50 5 місяців тому +2

    It was pleasure listening you Ma'am...Admireing the adjustment you did post marriage to settled in India..you are true bridge between east and west..god bless you with happy and healthy life

  • @NicoleInIndia
    @NicoleInIndia 5 місяців тому +6

    My husband gave his green card back to the US embassy when he realized he wouldn’t be able to meet the requirements while we were living in India.
    Would you give up a green card?
    Would you move back to India after living outside for 12yrs?
    Let me know your thoughts 😀

    • @ritaranee4787
      @ritaranee4787 5 місяців тому

      You can be authentic in India.....

  • @MariaPerryMohan-s6h
    @MariaPerryMohan-s6h 5 місяців тому +2

    Great interview. Well done to the interviewer and the interviewed.

  • @nishu413
    @nishu413 5 місяців тому +3

    ITPL is information technology park ltd . Nothing to do with indian oil.
    Addendum: ITPL actually stands for the initials of the park holding company, Information Technology Park Limited. Which was original name of property i.e tech park as well.
    But they renamed property to ITPB International tech park Bangalore when it was sold to ascendas.
    But holding company is not renamed .

    • @blackman7186
      @blackman7186 5 місяців тому

      Delhi is the absolute worst seriously.

    • @nishu413
      @nishu413 5 місяців тому

      @@blackman7186 wrong comment to reply on buddy

    • @blackman7186
      @blackman7186 5 місяців тому

      @@nishu413 I have no idea how my comment got here lol

    • @kshitijkumar-vv7ix
      @kshitijkumar-vv7ix 5 місяців тому

      Is itpl a company. What is it park .

    • @nishu413
      @nishu413 5 місяців тому

      @@kshitijkumar-vv7ix added addendum. And I hope I confused you more ,😆

  • @rashmigupta5119
    @rashmigupta5119 4 місяці тому +1

    What makes it easy for foreigners to adapt so well to India and its culture is the ever embracing Indian people , we are culturally brought up to ‘atithi devo bhava ‘feeling and we mostly go all out to welcome and adapt to them too , smiles all around !

  • @vilakkattulife295
    @vilakkattulife295 5 місяців тому +7

    Your husband is lucky. God bless you sister.

  • @2cr8gdtimes
    @2cr8gdtimes 5 місяців тому +2

    @MaxChernov #MaxChernov , 🙏🏾 my humble thanks to both of you for putting it straight. Foreign Tourists + expatriates are quite likely to be more receptive to what you convey than if an Indian national puts it.
    Like any other country, 🇮🇳 India is not perfect, but we love it very much. India keeps the gate open, it is also very welcoming. You must have noticed how liberty, independence and freedom is definitely a very Indian mentality : debates, activists, NGOs and initiatives abound.
    You understand, like I do, that it takes a remarkably long time to get a message across or to resolve an issue addressing more than 1 billion people ! But over 78 years, we still try to accomplish this; transcending the whole span in educational and socio-economic levels.
    Thanks for understanding and appreciating our diversity, its benefits too.

  • @dr.python
    @dr.python 5 місяців тому +28

    Pune, Hyderabad, Bangalore are the best cities in India followed by Chennai, Ahmedabad and Indore (for foreigners, IMO)

    • @pramodwarvatkar5337
      @pramodwarvatkar5337 5 місяців тому +9

      Mumbai is safest place for all even for Punekars😂😂😂

    • @janardhannaik9250
      @janardhannaik9250 5 місяців тому +5

      BANGALORE IS NUMERO UNO

    • @Utsav1990
      @Utsav1990 5 місяців тому

      ​@@pramodwarvatkar5337except for Bihaaris and U.P. people.

    • @granand
      @granand 5 місяців тому +4

      I do know she is in Hyderabad, because of family. But Hyderabad ? I am native of Hyderabad. There is nothing around and it is hot. The hyderbad of 60s was cooler and 1000 lakes, all occupied, destroyed

    • @ss-ib8gm
      @ss-ib8gm 5 місяців тому +1

      thats why sustainable living even if you have money restrain from buying unecessary things no show off , use natural organic stuff, natural homes more tress , politically active dont allow bangladeshi and rohingays ...tax more than 2 kids people ...twins exceptional

  • @bharathb81
    @bharathb81 Місяць тому +1

    I think what helps foreigners in general is their desire to learn and adapt new cultures. They seem always open to learning new things. I mean genuinely wanting to learn. Where we as Indians (atleast a large part of us) may find comfort in similarities.

  • @narasimhammvl6161
    @narasimhammvl6161 5 місяців тому +3

    You are an ideal woman really. Your cosmopolitan view is of great value for others. We have great veneration for your commitment and devotion. My pranams to you.

  • @IndiaWithJessica
    @IndiaWithJessica 2 місяці тому

    wow. so relatable! I've also been here 18 years, married to an Indian man. And I'm also learning something new every day. India is so fascinating.

  • @shravan97
    @shravan97 5 місяців тому +3

    00:38 this scene is of bajrangi bhai jaan's movie which showing the city of pakistan. That's really inaccurate pick by your editor.

  • @rameshnambiar8237
    @rameshnambiar8237 5 місяців тому +1

    Brilliant !! Its very heartening to see how she evolved as a straight talking Indophile without sugar coating!!

  • @upadhyayrathiraj1518
    @upadhyayrathiraj1518 5 місяців тому +52

    My nephew, working in US firm, was called to work there. Two weeks were enough for him there and he returned to India. Even the lure of salary increase didn't encourage him.
    In short, we have mutual differences and feel alien in such places. America is no better.

    • @SshivamKhopkar
      @SshivamKhopkar 5 місяців тому +5

      America is really nice. I have lived in the US during my training. I hated the first month! But after that!! OMG! I loved it. I cried my journey back home to India!
      Im sure what your nephew felt is home sickness! Its very common.

    • @Daddy_Of_soraML
      @Daddy_Of_soraML 5 місяців тому +8

      Everyone has their own preferences and comfort zones ​@@SshivamKhopkar

    • @thehawkseye3412
      @thehawkseye3412 5 місяців тому +1

      It's very subjective. Some people feel very homesick even if they just travel to another city in the same state. Others may prefer better infrastructure or more modernized life style.

    • @Commander-leo
      @Commander-leo 5 місяців тому +1

      I left Sri Lanka for America and I love America and would never return like Sri Lanka is a dump compared to America (for context Sri Lanka and India is very similar)

    • @Daddy_Of_soraML
      @Daddy_Of_soraML 5 місяців тому

      @@Commander-leo after going to America u surely do type like an uneducated one 😂😂 is education that illegal in your srilanka and "murica"

  • @Nikunj_Bhuptani
    @Nikunj_Bhuptani 22 дні тому +1

    This women is a legend. She respectes her husband's language and adopts it to teach her kids is respectable. Kuddos to you girl 💪🙏

  • @nationalinterest3163
    @nationalinterest3163 5 місяців тому +3

    Appreciate the effort you made to pass on the language.

  • @smrutiranjanbehera6772
    @smrutiranjanbehera6772 2 місяці тому +1

    I believe the ITPL she talked about is International Tech Park Limited Bangalore.

  • @AverageGuy513
    @AverageGuy513 5 місяців тому +6

    Glad you liked being in India.

  • @ivyimogene
    @ivyimogene 5 місяців тому +2

    She has embraced India so India has also embraced her. Yes, as an Indian who has visited the West several times, I think it is v clean but one has to work a lot there. Even a tourist has to walk a lot in the West. I remember on my recent trip to Europe being exhausted at the end of the day.

  • @vinaybati4606
    @vinaybati4606 5 місяців тому +10

    One has to be reborn here to understand it completely.

  • @VeggieFoodLover
    @VeggieFoodLover 4 місяці тому +1

    Such an amazing lady and gave real correct picture of living in India

  • @SshivamKhopkar
    @SshivamKhopkar 5 місяців тому +3

    I saw the notification and thought Nicole uploaded a new reaction video. after clicking on it found it was your video haha.

  • @jaytirth
    @jaytirth 3 місяці тому +1

    Wonderful interview on a wonderful channel.

  • @Lifebaaji
    @Lifebaaji 4 місяці тому +3

    You are sitting at home without shoes, you have learned Indian culture. Welcome sister-in-law

  • @freekvarossieau9666
    @freekvarossieau9666 Місяць тому +1

    Lived and worked in Bangalore for 5 years. Wonderful time. Decided to live amongst Indians instead of an all expat compound. Now my wife is Indian so that helped.
    India is a wonderful country

  • @ashoka10563
    @ashoka10563 5 місяців тому +3

    Great work Max 👍

  • @Sam-Retina
    @Sam-Retina 4 місяці тому +2

    Love the Ganesh painting!

  • @samprasad2743
    @samprasad2743 2 місяці тому +4

    0:10 Marrying a guy with a village background is so crazy. It is a whole lot easier if it happens to be a guy from the city there is a huge difference between city dwellers and people from small towns or those with a rural.background. No wonder your husband was so conservative.

    • @baljindersinghsidhu3959
      @baljindersinghsidhu3959 2 місяці тому

      Absolutely bullshit.. it depends on person to person who is conservative or not.. I'm from a village, and my family is not conservative.. how many examples should I give u for opposite families to what u r talking about.
      People like u think the village population is uneducated, unethical, and has no brain.. lol you.. how dumb one could speak..

  • @raghunandanm3971
    @raghunandanm3971 5 місяців тому +2

    Max, with so many videos on India, you've had soooo many guests talk about "Apps in India for everything". This lady also spoke about Swiggy. Maybe in your next video, you could cover the app ecosystem in India. For example
    Food- Swiggy, Zomato
    Travel - Ola uber
    Urban company! Can't talk about this enough! Everything from carpenter, electrician, plumber to Massages at home.
    Metropolis - blood tests at home.
    Payments - Phonepe, Googlepay
    Porter - intra city delivery
    10 min Groceries delivery -zepto, blinkit
    Practo - online doctor consultation (hidden gem)
    Apollo, Pharmeasy- medicine delivery
    Some of my expat friends have taken years to figure this out and we're shocked that these exist