Madea filed for an increase in child support against Lyle around the same time she found out Lyle was newly engaged. Lyle says Madea is worrying about his money only because she's mad that he has a new relationship.
Aren't this kids lucky? My dad had too much cousins, dentist cousin, guitarist cousin, beautician cousin, all without their license but very effective and has experience 😆 the auntie and uncle duties 🤣🤣🤣
In reality both parties would (most likely) have lawyers and the child support wouldn’t just be for schooling and extra curricular activities. There’s also food, clothing, and household needs for the kid. Also, someone working a $9.whatever job wouldn’t be able to afford that stuff mostly on their own to begin with
That man barely pays for his children. The 3 year old has to go to private school since he is in pre-k and the state of Texas doesn't have public preschool programs, unless your child is special needs. You don't know her situation, she works and probably can't drop the children off at separate schools in the morning. That woman needs a lawyer because half of tuition is not enough.
@Inspired with Dominique I will agree with you; they both need lawyers. That being said, you're right; we don't know their stories, but if he has an alternative to the child care the mother selected, he should have had an attorney present who is more familiar with the process and how it works instead of waiting until he is brought in child support. And while Texas doesn't currently have universal 3-k, it still has daycare centers and child care providers. Even if the man is paying the bare minimum (this guy is probably below that), the father should have a say in that regard, but support hearings aren't the best place to bring it up.
She hires a sitter when she wants to go out, and he's saying that he'll watch them if she pays him?! Boy, you don't get paid for watching your own kids! Smh!
"I gotta cousin that walk on his hands...we on't need all dat!" "Well has he taught em that yet?" "He ain't been around here...I gotta wait til he git outta jail." 🤣🤣🤣...this dude is hilarious!
Where there's a will, there's a way. She gets 500 in CS already. Plus when you work for the school, you get paid once a month. So she gets all her money at once. She's sinking all her money into these priorities
Wouldn’t private school and extracurricular activities have to be agreed on by both parents? Especially if one parent want the other to split the costs.
It doesn't matter, remember the kids are 3 and 6 years old. School ends at around 3pm or so.Most parents get off at 5pm, so extra curricular activities could be as simple as an after school program or a baby sitter. So that's an extra cost.
@@LtJohnnyRidden1 Both parents share the costs of raising a child in child support cases. It's not a bias for either parent to pay to help raise the kid. If the kid is in majority custody of one parent, the other parent usually pays more. That has nothing to do with gender. What DOES seem to be affected by gender is how often men petition for custody of their kids. Disproportionately more than women, men opt out of custodial arrangements for the kids. So more often than not, men are the ones on the hook for child support, because Mom is keeping the kids all/most of the time.
She seem very bitter and she is lying. There is no way in HELL she is paying all of that on $9.50 an hour plus the child support of $500 a month. There is no way in HELL.
@LilNi66a 215 Because of my profession and my Low Income clients it's kind of possible...Especially when they are already getting free housing and food stamps...it's a whole different world , trust me...plus some places pay your power bill...
Judge you made me a fan over a couple of videos. I love how you call out both the mothers and their fathers on their BS. We need more judges like you in the system
In a way it is revvent in away.yes he may have been do for upgrade in cs but to file this soon as she found out he was engaged and the b want the other lady money to this was nothing but bag grabbing as the guy said
Yep. It also seems like they wanted more because he was getting married. The step-mom has ZERO obligation to pay child support her her stepchildren. Greedy mamas. Reminds me of my husband's ex-wife. She agreed to an amount and then changed her mind once she stood in front of the judge. She didn't realize I was in the room she was standing next to when she and her lawyer were talking in the hallway. She told her lawyer she wanted more money because she forgot that I get money from VA and she knew we could afford to pay more than what she agreed to my husband paying. Her lawyer said she couldn't do that, but she didn't care. She wanted more. Her lawyer advised her to take what she agreed to or the judge wouldn't be to pleased with her wanting more after stating she agreed. Some women are just money hungry because they're scorned and want the father to pay them for their pain.
@@beckyl9454 There is women like that but $500 a month for two kids I think it’s not enough specially since they are toddlers. Also it’s very good on her part putting the 3 year old in school too instead of just paying for child care and running the risk of being mistreated
@@jesseniaax child support is based on a calculation from dad's income. She's lucky she gets any type of child support seeing as they have 50/50 physical. You legally can't take more than a certain percentage from Dad's income for child support. He has to live too. Kids don't have to go to private school. I've seen many kids mistreated in school. Childcare facility vs. school doesn't stop mistreatment.
I may have not put in exactly the right amounts but she’s $40 short per month _just_ on the tuition, based on making $9.50 an hour. Absolutely nothing else included.
I don't understand this case; these are choices the mother made without speaking to him. I must admit he has trouble articulating his thoughts. However, I find it somewhat shady that the mother plans to return to court once he is married to get more funds. The title should be "Revenge Case"!
five days a week every 1st, 3rd, and 5th weekend he has them. That means she has their kids 90% of the time. Which is Standard visitation. That also means she has primary custodianship and he is non-primary. In most cases that indicates the primary is the only person legally to make those kinds of decisions. Such as choice of school, activities and medical needs, etc with the exception of real emergencies. non primary custodianship doesn't get to choose as long as it is in the best interest in the child/children and if found to be within reasonable means.
@@katisclean I will need to read the Texas Code but I believe private school tuition should be discussed by the parents prior to enrollment. On the other hand, If one or both of their kids are considered "special needs" that's a different story. Thanks for the information.
@@2bstiff584 it won't in Texas no matter how much the new spouse make she won't get an increase based on her salary ... Spouse income is not factored I wish the judge would have let her know
Child Support doesn't normally cover private school tuition reimbursement. She says many times that it's based off of a simple calculation using how much money the non-custodial parent makes. The only changes that should have mattered are whether he's making more or less money or if he's spending less time with his kids. It doesn't sound like either of those happened. Forcing the guy to pay additional support to cover private school expenses is ridiculous.
Damn Gloom, she put you in your place. That said, i will agree that private schooling is something that needs to be agreed on. Ideologically i am against private schools, i do not think they should exist. As pioneer of American public education Horace Mann once said: "Education is the great equalizer of the conditions of men".
@@JudgeVondaB just out of curiosity how does private school factor into that because that far different from extra-curricular activities there are no free extra-curricular activities
Personally, I'd hire a lawyer to contest this ruling in court and wouldn't agree to it in a private arbitration agreement. Especially since private schooling is not a necessity. At his rate he was already paying $800 in child support, at that rate adding an additional $500/month is raising the burden from the standard 20% closer to 33%. With the cost of rent going up that would be an undue burden on most people. People are free to agree to whatever they want in arbitration but they should definitely consult a professional when it comes to agreements like this that can last almost 20 years.
When he said his cousin can do back flips ..💀🤣🤣. Like he a Olympic gymnastic!! I wanted to flip off my chaise sofa!!!!!!! This show should be on t.v. Love this.🤎
Take them out of pvt school if you are that poor, one case she will tell the woman the extras comes out of the support and on this one she makes him pay more. She is inconsistent with the rulings
@@eragon12111 and from what seem vidoe she did ask what his income was either to make sure he even could aford this increase.that why u see this as nothing but a money grab
I do not agree with the principles of this reenactment: As a woman, I think this is completely BS. Expensive private school and activities is not a right. It is a privilege and should not be an additional cost to income based child support unless both parents agree on it. If you want your 6 year old to be in cheer and gymnastics (fueling your fantasy that they become the popular cheerleader) then the cost is on you and you budget the income based child support you receive. If you want your 3 and 6 year old in "private school" without my agreement then you budget it into the money you earn and the child support you receive. If you don't like the schools in your district, move to one you do like. Don't expect the other parent to fund your likes or dislikes or your fantasies for your children that you can't afford especially if the other parent is not in agreement with them. No!
Exactly what I think when I hear these parents talk about it! This kids don't need private school, gymnastics, football, and 200$ shoes! Its ridiculous live within your means if you guys cant afford it, even with child support already coming in, then you can't afford it! Simple as that!
I think he is implying instead of hiring a babysitter she can just let him take the kids for a few hours or something. I cant exactly tell but that is what I am thinking.
I don't agree that the woman should determine what the kids do. If the dad doesn't want them in private school why should she get more money for it? It's her decision. The mom is like I want my kids spoiled, pay more bc I cant afford it.
Private school and gymnastics are not necessities they are luxuries he is 100% right both are required to provide the children with necessities but luxuries must be discussed and mutually agreed on. If they don’t agree on the luxuries and one of the parents chooses to do said luxuries in opposition of the other parent then said parent who chooses the luxury should pay said luxury 100% on their own.
He saw Judge Vonda B. Later the same day...with his 1st baby mama & stayed he is engaged to his pregnant fiancée (she was there, too). Busy person...not a man! A man & Father would not be making 4 babies in 3 years + other babies he won't admit to the judge...
Mom wasnt the only one paying for it and that was never said. He is paying child support and carrying insurance, like the mom was. But because the mother decides to increase the expenses, the father gets the shaft. The only time this judge ever rules for the father is when the mother has absolutely ZERO ground to stand on. But if the mother has 1" of ground, the father will lose.
And these kids dont always have to attend private school. If I were the judge, I would tell the custodial parents that if they solely decide on private school then that is on you. Basic needs are to be met and anything extra is a concern on your shoulders. Welcome to adulthood.
So she pays rent, utilities, food, clothes, gymnastics (not to mention the list of activities that the children may or may not be actually doing), and 2 private school tuitions on $9.50/hr? Maybe some math classes at that school are in order.
In my opinion the parent that’s paying child support shouldn’t have to pay more just because the one receiving child support wants to put their kids in extra activities that aren’t necessary for child expenses. Now it can be talked out but really pisses me off if these mothers are getting upwards of $1000-1500/month. Like how is the man supposed to live comfortable? That’s just my opinion tho
Do you know how much money it costs to have to children? Little ones are quite expensive. I have two. Health insurance is 250 per month. Daycare is 1600 per child before before and aftercare. Private school tuition is 1500 per child. Groceries are like 270 a week. Clothes another 200 dollars. Shoes another 200 unless each child only gets one pair. My kids extracurriculars are 220 per child. Children also require extras like toys, day trips like the aquarium, museums, or zoo. It even costs money to prepare for them to participate in church programs. If you can’t afford children, you should take preventive measures to prevent pregnancy because it’s so much more than you can expect. It’s not easy. I’m blessed to work from home so I don’t have daycare, but the Mr. and I spent mad bread on these kids like most parents do. Why should women have to do that alone? Why don’t mothers deserve 1k if it’s being spent on things that benefit the child?
@@heyitslae178 yes I do have a child but no it’s not expensive if your smart about it. Cut out daycare and private school and you have 3,100 extra dollars. Extracurricular activities and private schools is a want not a need! Most have friends/family that can watch them. All and all I probably spend on his portion is about 400-500/month. that’s dippers, food, med insurance, and going out. My family plan with blue cross is around 400/month for 3 people. My point is that these dads are getting fucked over on child support. If a split 50/50 custody mom needs support from the dad on her time then she needs to get a better job, or the child lives with dad. A lot of these younger women got like 2-3 baby daddy’s living of child support. On top of family and another husbands/boyfriend’s support. If you need anything over 1k month for child care then your doing it wrong. Child’s needs > moms wants.
What about those mothers who have no parents around?? Or even grandparent in good health?? I’m on of those people. I don’t have kids now.. however if I did I would have to be a housewife.. not work to take care of the kids. I have no family around to help. Several of my aunts sick. All of my cousins are all over the country. Or have lot of kids and a job. So just be careful with how word things. There some of us out here.. really alone in this motherhood role.
@@MasonStrutton it makes me sad that you’re saying your children don’t get enrichment and experiences and you think thats good for them because you wouldn’t want to pay. I have a degree in developmental psychology, and I need you to know that’s not okay. I don’t know your situation but I hope that someone is working with those children to make sure they are learning skills and becoming well rounded. I, also, live 12 hours away from family. We moved across country for my husbands job, but even still why is it my families job to care for my kids? Why should i pull my children out of extracurricular activities that benefit there coordination, social development, and intellectual development. I think thats selfish.
@@iceprincessnc my point is child support is outdated and needs to be reevaluated. Because I know a lot of women of get 1-3k/month on their children from their baby daddy’s
“Private school” and daycare at these ages are about the same costs. $2000 a month is about average for full-time daycare and before & after-school care.
“your majesty” took me out 😂😂
Yes!!! 😂👑💁🏼♀️🔥
Me too!!! 😂🤣
Same 🤣
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I SCREAMED 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
“I got another cousin that is really smart” TOOK ME OUT 😂😂😂
His family multi talented they got everything covered 😆😆😆😆
Aren't this kids lucky? My dad had too much cousins, dentist cousin, guitarist cousin, beautician cousin, all without their license but very effective and has experience 😆 the auntie and uncle duties 🤣🤣🤣
Yes, I laughed too at that remark, Erin; it is a pity that those "smarts" were not evenly distributed via the gene pool of this man's family...
My cousin is really smart, he can teach her to flip, I just have to wait till he gets outa jail 🤣🤣
And don’t forget the backflips and they walking on they hands
I LOVE how she drink the tea when it gets messy 🤣🤣🤣
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Right? Once that cup rises up you know it's getting juicy
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Me too I was watching old ones and was like where the cup
I have never, in my 23 years of adulthood, heard anyone address the judge as "your majesty" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Come to Texas
@@512Terrance 😂😂😂😂😂
@@512Terrance 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
You need to watch the tea and shade one
Lol Check Missouri out they do. Lol
“No I don’t know gymnastics but my cousin knows how to do backflips” 😂🤧
But he’s in jail 😂
@@braceface4187 you heard that too.😂😂
Loooool
"He walk on his hands!"
He said I can teach her backflips at the house 😂 i am crying
“ how long ago did you get engaged ?
“ about 3 months ago “
“ ohhhhh, and you filed this about 3 months ago “ * sips tea * 😗☕️😂😂😂
Took me clean out 🤣🤣
@@whitleyann 😂😂😂👌🏼
😂😂😂😂 she be doing that. When they telling on each other.
That man needs a lawyer. Especially if he felt strongly about the private school issue.
The new girl not going to like him being broke
Don't chase these she-rippers
In reality both parties would (most likely) have lawyers and the child support wouldn’t just be for schooling and extra curricular activities. There’s also food, clothing, and household needs for the kid. Also, someone working a $9.whatever job wouldn’t be able to afford that stuff mostly on their own to begin with
That man barely pays for his children. The 3 year old has to go to private school since he is in pre-k and the state of Texas doesn't have public preschool programs, unless your child is special needs.
You don't know her situation, she works and probably can't drop the children off at separate schools in the morning. That woman needs a lawyer because half of tuition is not enough.
@Inspired with Dominique I will agree with you; they both need lawyers. That being said, you're right; we don't know their stories, but if he has an alternative to the child care the mother selected, he should have had an attorney present who is more familiar with the process and how it works instead of waiting until he is brought in child support. And while Texas doesn't currently have universal 3-k, it still has daycare centers and child care providers. Even if the man is paying the bare minimum (this guy is probably below that), the father should have a say in that regard, but support hearings aren't the best place to bring it up.
She hires a sitter when she wants to go out, and he's saying that he'll watch them if she pays him?! Boy, you don't get paid for watching your own kids! Smh!
Yep he was so quick to be like pay me the money back so you can go out ... like hold on what
"I gotta cousin that walk on his hands...we on't need all dat!"
"Well has he taught em that yet?"
"He ain't been around here...I gotta wait til he git outta jail."
🤣🤣🤣...this dude is hilarious!
Yoo that shit had me dying !! 😂😂
“I got another cousin that was real smart” had me dying again
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Why I just posted a similar comment 😂😂
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How is she paying for private school and extra curriculum activities on $9.50 per hr?
My thoughts exactly!
Exactly!
Where there's a will, there's a way. She gets 500 in CS already. Plus when you work for the school, you get paid once a month. So she gets all her money at once. She's sinking all her money into these priorities
she's not
She is getting scholarships.
Wouldn’t private school and extracurricular activities have to be agreed on by both parents? Especially if one parent want the other to split the costs.
This show isn’t real, she isn’t even a rule judge lol tells you at the end of the video
@@_Simba_J2425 I never make it to the end, lol. I stop watching after she says they’re dismissed.
She's a family lawyer
I think so she could of asked him
It doesn't matter, remember the kids are 3 and 6 years old. School ends at around 3pm or so.Most parents get off at 5pm, so extra curricular activities could be as simple as an after school program or a baby sitter. So that's an extra cost.
How can she pay all those things with 9.50 and hour..😂😂😂😂
You just saw how. She leaned on the female bias in the system to take cash out of her ex's pocket.
She makes $1600 a month but pay $1800 in school and activities???
That's what I'm saying? How can she pay for all of that on $9.50/hr
Think the mother is at it. Private school is a choice.
@@LtJohnnyRidden1 Both parents share the costs of raising a child in child support cases. It's not a bias for either parent to pay to help raise the kid. If the kid is in majority custody of one parent, the other parent usually pays more. That has nothing to do with gender. What DOES seem to be affected by gender is how often men petition for custody of their kids. Disproportionately more than women, men opt out of custodial arrangements for the kids. So more often than not, men are the ones on the hook for child support, because Mom is keeping the kids all/most of the time.
She seem very bitter and she is lying. There is no way in HELL she is paying all of that on $9.50 an hour plus the child support of $500 a month. There is no way in HELL.
I said to myself, maybe she living rent free😳
Maybe she's working in the world's oldest profession
Shows not real, she ain’t even a real judge lol
@@_Simba_J2425 you lying!
@@_Simba_J2425 Oh for real?
Wait wait if she is making 9.50 an hour how the hell is she paying for private school?!
She might can get a scholarship based on her low income
@LilNi66a 215 Have you heard about the step up scholarship...you should research it...
@LilNi66a 215 Because of my profession and my Low Income clients it's kind of possible...Especially when they are already getting free housing and food stamps...it's a whole different world , trust me...plus some places pay your power bill...
My same comment. The father said they can go 2 public school and I agree if you only make $9.50.
Private schools offer assistance.
This man said “I got another cousin that’s real smart”😂😂
I died and the other one is in jail
@@christiandilday7543 😂
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This too would send you to Jesus if eating or drinking💀💀💀💀💀
Judge you made me a fan over a couple of videos. I love how you call out both the mothers and their fathers on their BS. We need more judges like you in the system
“You filed this about 3 months ago so let’s talk about that” 😂😂
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Irrelevant
In a way it is revvent in away.yes he may have been do for upgrade in cs but to file this soon as she found out he was engaged and the b want the other lady money to this was nothing but bag grabbing as the guy said
I vote that Judge Vonda B should be in charge of all child support cases in the USA… Period!
"the kids can flip at my house"😂😂😂😂
He's a dusty 🤡🤛
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after watching both cases with this guy it’s clear that both moms teamed up with the “the kids might have sports andI need MY money for it” story. 😂
Yep. It also seems like they wanted more because he was getting married. The step-mom has ZERO obligation to pay child support her her stepchildren. Greedy mamas. Reminds me of my husband's ex-wife. She agreed to an amount and then changed her mind once she stood in front of the judge. She didn't realize I was in the room she was standing next to when she and her lawyer were talking in the hallway. She told her lawyer she wanted more money because she forgot that I get money from VA and she knew we could afford to pay more than what she agreed to my husband paying. Her lawyer said she couldn't do that, but she didn't care. She wanted more. Her lawyer advised her to take what she agreed to or the judge wouldn't be to pleased with her wanting more after stating she agreed. Some women are just money hungry because they're scorned and want the father to pay them for their pain.
@@beckyl9454 There is women like that but $500 a month for two kids I think it’s not enough specially since they are toddlers. Also it’s very good on her part putting the 3 year old in school too instead of just paying for child care and running the risk of being mistreated
@@jesseniaax child support is based on a calculation from dad's income. She's lucky she gets any type of child support seeing as they have 50/50 physical. You legally can't take more than a certain percentage from Dad's income for child support. He has to live too. Kids don't have to go to private school. I've seen many kids mistreated in school. Childcare facility vs. school doesn't stop mistreatment.
@@beckyl9454I never understood why someone has to pay more just because the kid wants special privileges
@@jesseniaaxAbsolutely agree!
I'm not the best mathematician but income to debt ratio don't add up.
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I was saying the same thing! $9.50/hr and private school shouldn’t even be in the same sentence.
I may have not put in exactly the right amounts but she’s $40 short per month _just_ on the tuition, based on making $9.50 an hour. Absolutely nothing else included.
Facts
I’m thinking like 🤔 ..
“Oh..... so you hurt her feelings?” that was hilarious 😂😂😂😂
So she claims she makes the bare minimum but she has the kids in gymnastics, and private school without dicussing with the father.
Facts!!!
Ok so I'm not the only one who caught that lol
Thank you. And someone please tell me when gymnastics became a requirement.
That's what I'm saying. And is private school a must?
If you work at a private school they give you a discount and the kids should be in engaged in those activities. She also could have another job.
"I got a cousin" he had me 💀💀😂😂 on serious note. Judge you should be on tv vs youtube!! I enjoy watching your shows..and I love how chill you are!!
Shes not even a judge
@@yvfkm silly rabbit. What’s her profession then?
She is a real judge
I don't understand this case; these are choices the mother made without speaking to him. I must admit he has trouble articulating his thoughts. However, I find it somewhat shady that the mother plans to return to court once he is married to get more funds. The title should be "Revenge Case"!
five days a week every 1st, 3rd, and 5th weekend he has them. That means she has their kids 90% of the time. Which is Standard visitation. That also means she has primary custodianship and he is non-primary. In most cases that indicates the primary is the only person legally to make those kinds of decisions. Such as choice of school, activities and medical needs, etc with the exception of real emergencies. non primary custodianship doesn't get to choose as long as it is in the best interest in the child/children and if found to be within reasonable means.
@@katisclean I will need to read the Texas Code but I believe private school tuition should be discussed by the parents prior to enrollment. On the other hand, If one or both of their kids are considered "special needs" that's a different story. Thanks for the information.
his new wife and what she make should have nothing to do with his kids with another woman
@@2bstiff584 it won't in Texas no matter how much the new spouse make she won't get an increase based on her salary ... Spouse income is not factored I wish the judge would have let her know
The guy who introduces the judge has such a lovely smile and the judge always puts a smile on my face
Thats just what it is 'EXTRA'curricular activities, not NECESSARY activities.
I know right
I think that's 2 much
Facts! They got after school programs
Exactly they don't have to do that it is extra periodt so she should pay if she wants them to go
There ya go!
Ima tell you the after school programs are expensive too. I pay $115 a week
i love that judge saw their back and forth was calm and appropriate so she allowed it
Child Support doesn't normally cover private school tuition reimbursement. She says many times that it's based off of a simple calculation using how much money the non-custodial parent makes. The only changes that should have mattered are whether he's making more or less money or if he's spending less time with his kids. It doesn't sound like either of those happened. Forcing the guy to pay additional support to cover private school expenses is ridiculous.
There are factors Texas courts consider in deviating from guideline child support. Tuition and extracurricular activities fall into that category.
Facts
Damn Gloom, she put you in your place.
That said, i will agree that private schooling is something that needs to be agreed on.
Ideologically i am against private schools, i do not think they should exist. As pioneer of American public education Horace Mann once said: "Education is the great equalizer of the conditions of men".
@@JudgeVondaB just out of curiosity how does private school factor into that because that far different from extra-curricular activities there are no free extra-curricular activities
Personally, I'd hire a lawyer to contest this ruling in court and wouldn't agree to it in a private arbitration agreement. Especially since private schooling is not a necessity. At his rate he was already paying $800 in child support, at that rate adding an additional $500/month is raising the burden from the standard 20% closer to 33%. With the cost of rent going up that would be an undue burden on most people.
People are free to agree to whatever they want in arbitration but they should definitely consult a professional when it comes to agreements like this that can last almost 20 years.
“I was for the streets, but not no more” took me out! 😂😂😂😂
He has another child he gotta go to support court for 🤣 this man needs to chill out.
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When he said his cousin can do back flips ..💀🤣🤣. Like he a Olympic gymnastic!! I wanted to flip off my chaise sofa!!!!!!! This show should be on t.v. Love this.🤎
No self control at all🤡🤛
The drinking of the tea.. it kills me every time 🤣🤣🤣👍
Bro dropped "your majesty " he completely took me out lmao 😂 😂 😂
What came in my mind the queen of England. This dude is hilarious 😂 😂 😂
“Oh so you’re coming back to see me!” 😂😂😂😂
"I gotta another cousin that was smart"😂😂😂
This is a good judge, however, why in the hell does the Father have no say on where the kids go to school or extra activities? BS BS BS
She can afford all that on 9$ a hour?💀
I was just thinking that
Facts lol
SHe tellin a damn lie lol
I Agree
What kind of 9.50 she making
That's bs..so she can just make unilateral decisions to put kids in all types of activities that require money and demand tribute...total bs
Hold up Hold up the ways she said “Your majesty I like that” had me dying 😂😂😂
"OH. Its somebody you know 😮" took me out.
Kids that young don't need private school or gymnastics. They screwed him. He needs a lawyer
The facts that he keeps saying his cousin can do this and that it really cracking me up😂😂,my stomach is hurting 😂
Enjoy your cases. They were at least nice to each other. God bless you
As soon as he said “your Majesty” , i knew he was here to waste her time🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂
" Your Majesty" took me out too😂😂😂😂😂
Just from the beginning I could tell this is gonna be good appreciate the content Judge Vonda B
If she makes $9.50 an hour then tell me how she can pay for private school and extra curricular activities. No way
"I want my money, and hers too". I thought it was the child's money since it's called "child support ", not baby mother support lol
Absolutely !
That drink sip gets me every time.
Take them out of pvt school if you are that poor, one case she will tell the woman the extras comes out of the support and on this one she makes him pay more. She is inconsistent with the rulings
If he can pay then what’s the problem .
@@tydieajames1701 let flip it on to you add all that see how u will feel.what make u think he can afford it.
@@tydieajames1701 bc courts go after men.
If she wanted the child in private school, he shouldn't have to pay for it unless it was agreed upon. He needed an attorney.
If they are doing a 2,2 5,5 schedule doesn't that mean they have split custody?
That’s correct which is why they split the expenses.
So wich to me mean mom over stepped and did not get his consent to for his kids to go in those thing.
@@richardrabe7940 That's rather why I figured there weren't grounds for an increase.
@@eragon12111 and from what seem vidoe she did ask what his income was either to make sure he even could aford this increase.that why u see this as nothing but a money grab
@@JudgeVondaB 50/50 spilt the cost and representatives.
So one person runs bills, does the other person does it.
I do not agree with the principles of this reenactment:
As a woman, I think this is completely BS. Expensive private school and activities is not a right. It is a privilege and should not be an additional cost to income based child support unless both parents agree on it.
If you want your 6 year old to be in cheer and gymnastics (fueling your fantasy that they become the popular cheerleader) then the cost is on you and you budget the income based child support you receive.
If you want your 3 and 6 year old in "private school" without my agreement then you budget it into the money you earn and the child support you receive.
If you don't like the schools in your district, move to one you do like. Don't expect the other parent to fund your likes or dislikes or your fantasies for your children that you can't afford especially if the other parent is not in agreement with them.
No!
Exactly what I think when I hear these parents talk about it! This kids don't need private school, gymnastics, football, and 200$ shoes! Its ridiculous live within your means if you guys cant afford it, even with child support already coming in, then you can't afford it! Simple as that!
SHE'S BITTER🤣🤣
When he said “I got another cousin she real smart”🤣🤣🤣🤣
How do you babysit your own kids🤦🏽♀️
That Part🤡🤛
I think he is implying instead of hiring a babysitter she can just let him take the kids for a few hours or something. I cant exactly tell but that is what I am thinking.
@@jeremycocciolone9223 actually I think that's what he meant.
@@djcoolzi2.07 yeah possibly.
@@jeremycocciolone9223 lol thanks for responding if anything sorry for being late to the show ⊂(・﹏・⊂)
Why do I love the way the bailiff says "you're welcome" so much?
It's so wholesome
I don't agree that the woman should determine what the kids do. If the dad doesn't want them in private school why should she get more money for it? It's her decision. The mom is like I want my kids spoiled, pay more bc I cant afford it.
He has a good point. He is doing what the court tells him.
Private school and gymnastics are not necessities they are luxuries he is 100% right both are required to provide the children with necessities but luxuries must be discussed and mutually agreed on. If they don’t agree on the luxuries and one of the parents chooses to do said luxuries in opposition of the other parent then said parent who chooses the luxury should pay said luxury 100% on their own.
He saw Judge Vonda B. Later the same day...with his 1st baby mama & stayed he is engaged to his pregnant fiancée (she was there, too). Busy person...not a man! A man & Father would not be making 4 babies in 3 years + other babies he won't admit to the judge...
Crazy part is they work together
That gasp and sip combo took me out 😂😂😂😂
I wanna know what be in that cup. Child, ain't no way it's only tea. 🤣🤣🤣 I love her!
Mom wasnt the only one paying for it and that was never said. He is paying child support and carrying insurance, like the mom was. But because the mother decides to increase the expenses, the father gets the shaft. The only time this judge ever rules for the father is when the mother has absolutely ZERO ground to stand on. But if the mother has 1" of ground, the father will lose.
I have a sincere question: if he is okay with his kids going to public school, why should he be forced to pay for private school?
Agreed.
Judge Vonda holds a very civil courtroom. Sweet and funny too .
Why do they need private school
These numbers are not adding up!
Doing the math
350 for extra activities
430/ 1200 for private school tuition
And she makes 9.50 per hour
🧐ok.......
'I need the money" probably one truthfull sentence the mother said
And these kids dont always have to attend private school. If I were the judge, I would tell the custodial parents that if they solely decide on private school then that is on you. Basic needs are to be met and anything extra is a concern on your shoulders. Welcome to adulthood.
You know it’s gonna be a good one when the judge is sipping tea in the thumbnail 🤣🤣
I agree totally with the other commenters, the way she leans back and sips her tea, speaks loud and clear. Just effing love, it. !!!
So she pays rent, utilities, food, clothes, gymnastics (not to mention the list of activities that the children may or may not be actually doing), and 2 private school tuitions on $9.50/hr? Maybe some math classes at that school are in order.
YOUR MAJESTY.... ABSOLUTELY DISRESPECTFUL!
I just came across this channel the other day and I’m hooked! She reminds me of Judge Mablean ❤️this can be her daughter in my opinion.
This fool said "she can go to public school I went to public schools I'm just fine"🤣🤣🤣
@Setozy there's many teachers that are bums.
“I got another cousin that’s real smart”💀💀 done
Like he’s cousins have all the skills to help his kidz 😅
I like how she makes sure that the kids are covered by insurance
That coffee mug always find a way to her hands 😂😂😂😂 faithfully
Ms. VONDA I love the way you sip your tea while they just say whatever pops into their minds
So The Kids are $2,000 monthly but she makes 9.50@hr 40=380x4=$1,520 monthly 🤔 what about every other bills she has. It just don't make any sense.
Facts...
Sure doesn't make sense..at $9.50 hr she can barely afford public school for the children
If you can’t afford the private school, then don’t send the kid to private school. Why would that be on him?
Working $9.50 per/h but sending a 3 year old to a $2000 a month school. Living above her means
I love it when she sips her tea
😂😂😂😂😂
I finally found it!!!! The part one. I loved it.
In my opinion the parent that’s paying child support shouldn’t have to pay more just because the one receiving child support wants to put their kids in extra activities that aren’t necessary for child expenses. Now it can be talked out but really pisses me off if these mothers are getting upwards of $1000-1500/month. Like how is the man supposed to live comfortable? That’s just my opinion tho
Do you know how much money it costs to have to children? Little ones are quite expensive. I have two. Health insurance is 250 per month. Daycare is 1600 per child before before and aftercare. Private school tuition is 1500 per child. Groceries are like 270 a week. Clothes another 200 dollars. Shoes another 200 unless each child only gets one pair. My kids extracurriculars are 220 per child. Children also require extras like toys, day trips like the aquarium, museums, or zoo. It even costs money to prepare for them to participate in church programs. If you can’t afford children, you should take preventive measures to prevent pregnancy because it’s so much more than you can expect. It’s not easy. I’m blessed to work from home so I don’t have daycare, but the Mr. and I spent mad bread on these kids like most parents do. Why should women have to do that alone? Why don’t mothers deserve 1k if it’s being spent on things that benefit the child?
@@heyitslae178 yes I do have a child but no it’s not expensive if your smart about it. Cut out daycare and private school and you have 3,100 extra dollars. Extracurricular activities and private schools is a want not a need! Most have friends/family that can watch them. All and all I probably spend on his portion is about 400-500/month. that’s dippers, food, med insurance, and going out. My family plan with blue cross is around 400/month for 3 people. My point is that these dads are getting fucked over on child support. If a split 50/50 custody mom needs support from the dad on her time then she needs to get a better job, or the child lives with dad. A lot of these younger women got like 2-3 baby daddy’s living of child support. On top of family and another husbands/boyfriend’s support. If you need anything over 1k month for child care then your doing it wrong. Child’s needs > moms wants.
What about those mothers who have no parents around?? Or even grandparent in good health?? I’m on of those people. I don’t have kids now.. however if I did I would have to be a housewife.. not work to take care of the kids. I have no family around to help. Several of my aunts sick. All of my cousins are all over the country. Or have lot of kids and a job. So just be careful with how word things. There some of us out here.. really alone in this motherhood role.
@@MasonStrutton it makes me sad that you’re saying your children don’t get enrichment and experiences and you think thats good for them because you wouldn’t want to pay. I have a degree in developmental psychology, and I need you to know that’s not okay. I don’t know your situation but I hope that someone is working with those children to make sure they are learning skills and becoming well rounded. I, also, live 12 hours away from family. We moved across country for my husbands job, but even still why is it my families job to care for my kids? Why should i pull my children out of extracurricular activities that benefit there coordination, social development, and intellectual development. I think thats selfish.
@@iceprincessnc my point is child support is outdated and needs to be reevaluated. Because I know a lot of women of get 1-3k/month on their children from their baby daddy’s
It's the sipping of the tea for me!
But those children don’t need to do extracurricular activities so if Mom signed them up then SHE should pay.
Sooo if the dad can pay but the mom can’t they shouldn’t get to do stuff
@@tydieajames1701 not unless they both agree don’t volunteer nobody else money
@@tydieajames1701 Sooo if the dad can pay, but the mom can't, she should just rack up bills and ask for a subsidy?
@@blazewind5947 why wouldn’t he just give the money so the child can enjoy life she already raising him
@@blazewind5947 why wouldn’t he just give the money so the child can enjoy life she already raising him
Love this judge!!
I would have argued about the private school being they both are teachers. That’s money out the window at that age
She’s a janitor
She's a janitor and wants better for her kids.
I agree with you 💯 when it could be going towards college fun
Some Mothers purposely run up bills, then try to give the bill to the dad. She is trying to live a champagne lifestyle on a beer salary.
Fact
She’s just mad cause he’s engage
He ain’t been around, gotta wait til he got outta jail🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
9 bucks a hour ?🤷🏾♂️
I just want his money and possibly hers too.....🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Never miss a premier with judge Vonda B
When Ms Vonda be get to drinking that tea you know it’s getting good 😂😂😂
“Private school” and daycare at these ages are about the same costs. $2000 a month is about average for full-time daycare and before & after-school care.
Pretty much. Ppl don't realize how expensive childcare is.
Exactly so it’s better to have your 3 year old in school than be paying child care.
The way these parents act, your child should be in the free public school. Use more money for supporting the child.