Maintaining a healthy relationship - do's & don'ts with Benjamin Zulu

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  • Опубліковано 26 чер 2024
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  • @jeslinahmontsho3731
    @jeslinahmontsho3731 3 роки тому +108

    Joyce is so beautiful❤👑

    • @xolanihlongwa2438
      @xolanihlongwa2438 3 роки тому +3

      She is taken.in Zulu culture you dnt say that to married woman cz she got someone who tells her that.😀

    • @annbak5209
      @annbak5209 3 роки тому +2

      Please can you use english all throughout cz am in uganda but i cant understand kiswahili thanks

  • @shemerick77
    @shemerick77 3 роки тому +8

    "Relationship dies for lack of friendship" Waooooh that's so great

  • @Nana-jj7zv
    @Nana-jj7zv 3 роки тому +9

    Your hair looks so naturally good! That's a simply beautiful style. Keep up your excellent team work

  • @dawnwilliams1071
    @dawnwilliams1071 3 роки тому +11

    Mr Benjamin's wealth of experience and advise is appreciated by many from all over the world who do not speak your language so please speak english so that we can all learn from this wise and insightful man. Much appreciated.

  • @alexandrinejuma5334
    @alexandrinejuma5334 4 роки тому +53

    Since I started listening to your show Joyce nowadays napambanaa na hali yangu vizuri kabisaa

  • @patiencepeace1748
    @patiencepeace1748 4 роки тому +29

    True, relationships dies for luck of friendship...

  • @rosemarynjenga4410
    @rosemarynjenga4410 3 роки тому +31

    I really love this show for real it has helped me...am 23 years and I have really struggled with relationships but after I started watching you people there is a turn around in my life like now I know I should not date right now until 25 so now am working on my life alone and enjoying my single hood....I used to feel pressured and sometimes been jealous after my friends get married or have kids but now I don't feel that anymore...am happy with the new me keep Inspiring us....I love you and God bless you😘😘

  • @suzettepalarche7262
    @suzettepalarche7262 3 роки тому +33

    I love watching this show, it's very informative. However I wish they would be more considerate knowing they are speaking to the world, and use subtle.....love from Jamaica

    • @ShiaGirl18
      @ShiaGirl18 3 роки тому +1

      Yay! Love from Jamaica as well. This show is excellent!

  • @fosterchikola1932
    @fosterchikola1932 3 роки тому +3

    Much love for you Mr Zulu from Zambia 🇿🇲 🇿🇲 🇿🇲

  • @cyrabrown8609
    @cyrabrown8609 4 роки тому +37

    Since i started listening to you guys my mind is at peace after having soo many relationship essues...keep it up guys

  • @ropgetrude6668
    @ropgetrude6668 4 роки тому +8

    Zulu the man of the moment,putting things into perspective and as it is.

  • @pediwacontent1920
    @pediwacontent1920 4 роки тому +3

    Benjamin Zulu ......The man 👨Your wisdom and guidance is very amazing 💯

  • @jamie1879
    @jamie1879 3 роки тому +33

    This show will make my life longer....the kind of laughing aki, Benjamin is a cartoon 😂😂😂

  • @immanuelmathari4862
    @immanuelmathari4862 4 роки тому +12

    Faith bases show
    Aki u inspire me joyce
    May God's hand be with you

  • @glorysummithotelhoima4204
    @glorysummithotelhoima4204 3 роки тому +3

    Indeed am in love with the the conversation, it has has lifted me up

  • @felistamuturi3010
    @felistamuturi3010 4 роки тому +5

    am loving this, Nzulu you are always inspiring

  • @mubizz80
    @mubizz80 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you Joyce for the show.
    Thank you Zulu for that relationship tip

  • @tanyarotham6408
    @tanyarotham6408 3 роки тому +4

    Writing from New Jersey USA love your show i like to share your program with my single, married and soon to be married friends and family by now you should have realized that your program has gone far so PLEASE ☺️ more english, I know it's very easy to switch to our native language but do be mindful. The Lord Jesus Christ bless you and your program. I like Mr Zulu.

  • @euniceopuyachannel
    @euniceopuyachannel 4 роки тому +1

    In love with this conversation

  • @peoplevoices5307
    @peoplevoices5307 3 роки тому

    It is always insightful to listen to Zulu.

  • @husnakh5136
    @husnakh5136 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you sooo much
    We’re learning a lot💞

  • @fredrickyiga6318
    @fredrickyiga6318 3 роки тому

    Thanks so much for the program

  • @DrKayExplains
    @DrKayExplains 4 роки тому +15

    Relationships sure do take some work! This is an interesting perspective

  • @ShiaGirl18
    @ShiaGirl18 3 роки тому +5

    Joyce is stunning! Benjamin is well-dressed!

  • @elizabethakot9250
    @elizabethakot9250 Рік тому

    Thanks Benjamin, our Dr

  • @immanuelmathari4862
    @immanuelmathari4862 4 роки тому +2

    Idol boy🤣😂😂😂😂
    Big lol
    Love the show @Benjamin & @Joyce

  • @carolmwendwa290
    @carolmwendwa290 Рік тому

    Wao,thz making my day 💓💓team switch tv nifikisheni 2k subscribers

  • @Mkayzeee
    @Mkayzeee 3 роки тому +22

    “Relationships are like ur phone...they only work when there is network connection if not url are playing games” yeah ne!

  • @lilikeilaliz389
    @lilikeilaliz389 3 роки тому +3

    Very true if you are busy no time for playing games

  • @elsieatieno4421
    @elsieatieno4421 4 роки тому +7

    Such a fun interview, session I laughed so hard, Thanks for availing it and good job .

  • @theorama5711
    @theorama5711 3 роки тому +1

    this show has got me learning swahili

  • @phoeberetunoi484
    @phoeberetunoi484 3 роки тому

    I love the show soo much

  • @reginapulane838
    @reginapulane838 3 роки тому +14

    I really love watching..but the language that you mix ..I end up being confused...feel like I am missing some information

  • @elroibeautyglamour5359
    @elroibeautyglamour5359 Рік тому

    Joyce's hair is amazing

  • @Stacykibe
    @Stacykibe 3 роки тому +4

    Beauty diminishes with exposure 🔥

  • @somilangaye9465
    @somilangaye9465 3 роки тому +74

    I like this show, wish they can speak English so we can all understand everything they're saying

    • @pulanemahase728
      @pulanemahase728 3 роки тому +4

      I share these sentiments. Sometimes the statements are so long that we totally get lost. I love the content too

    • @nombulelokupa653
      @nombulelokupa653 3 роки тому +2

      Same here😥

    • @HeSeesUs
      @HeSeesUs 3 роки тому +8

      I agree, really love this show but feel like I'm missing a lot of useful information when they switch languages. Subtitles would be great for those of us who don't speak the language.

    • @pulsesecure1894
      @pulsesecure1894 3 роки тому +1

      Totaly feel you. Or they should add subtitles at least....it's sad we missing out.

    • @adaariina7175
      @adaariina7175 3 роки тому

      When they start talking other language i stop watching from that moment.

  • @thesuccessfulfamily8178
    @thesuccessfulfamily8178 3 роки тому +2

    This woman is gorgeous ❤️

  • @LovableMe137
    @LovableMe137 3 роки тому +1

    Joyce is so beautiful! God bless you Mr Benjamin

  • @aishaj8348
    @aishaj8348 3 роки тому +6

    Ouu Joyce this is your hairstyle girl😍

  • @adambasiganga1135
    @adambasiganga1135 3 роки тому +7

    For everybody's sake,🇰🇪.very good content.Keep it english please.

  • @Winniefaithmutula
    @Winniefaithmutula 3 роки тому +3

    Joyce is Beautiful❤️

  • @sharonbrenda1752
    @sharonbrenda1752 3 роки тому

    Wow I love the discussion... have learnt alot

  • @mw7882
    @mw7882 3 роки тому

    I love the show but please is it possible to post the main points in the description of the video? Thank you for your consideration.

  • @rhodahj7121
    @rhodahj7121 4 роки тому +1

    Verrrrrrrry educative thanks for real.

    • @nokwandaselolo3048
      @nokwandaselolo3048 3 роки тому

      Hello Joyce and Benjamin
      Listening to your show from South Africa and enjoying it
      Please speak more English

  • @brendawinsome8996
    @brendawinsome8996 3 роки тому +1

    I love the show,it has taught me alot

  • @wachekemburu5680
    @wachekemburu5680 4 роки тому +6

    Joyce is laughing but Mimi huku Ni machos😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 but not coz I'm sad or hurt but because I'm learning so so much that my eyes and heart zinafunguka n the funny thing is that I'm growing n understanding so many things...Asante I Sana Zulu n Joyce stay blessed guys even ur spouses❤️🌹❤️

  • @ebbykerubo95
    @ebbykerubo95 3 роки тому

    God bless

  • @rashidagh3530
    @rashidagh3530 3 роки тому +27

    I get lost often times as a Ghanaian when the language is being switched from English to Swahili....subtitle would have helped

    • @dianakyanjo
      @dianakyanjo 3 роки тому +1

      Watch BBC. This is a Kenyan show

    • @BlackPanther-lt7wr
      @BlackPanther-lt7wr 3 роки тому +6

      @@dianakyanjo Be kind.

    • @BlackPanther-lt7wr
      @BlackPanther-lt7wr 3 роки тому +4

      They addressed that issue on one of their segments n they said that, if they speak English only, it wont be enjoyable n some of the words will lose its meaning

  • @damariskasembi8258
    @damariskasembi8258 3 роки тому +2

    Very educative conversation...

  • @Mahinge
    @Mahinge 3 роки тому

    I just discovered Benjamin today. My ribs.

  • @kendinjeru7551
    @kendinjeru7551 4 роки тому +10

    An interesting and educative conversation 😂😂😂😂

  • @blessingdanduri5158
    @blessingdanduri5158 3 роки тому +2

    Would you please put subtitles for us?

  • @qatatvip5451
    @qatatvip5451 4 роки тому +15

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣this man is so hilarious and I like his advice

  • @janemkade3488
    @janemkade3488 3 роки тому +2

    More love ❤️❤️💝❤️❤️❤️ enjoying the show. Watching from Qatar 👌👌👌👌👌

  • @Zoe16952
    @Zoe16952 2 роки тому

    Am in love with hair natural hair

  • @blessedandfavoured5941
    @blessedandfavoured5941 2 роки тому

    I really enjoy your shows they are so insightful. Unfortunately I don’t speak your language so I can’t always follow the discussion, please give the meaning in English sometimes if possible. Stay blessed

  • @bancypius6919
    @bancypius6919 3 роки тому +1

    Feeling inspired 🤓🤓🤓

  • @joypeacewisdom
    @joypeacewisdom 3 роки тому +3

    I wish I understood Swahili, or there were English subtitles so I wouldn't miss a thing. I enjoy these conversations.

  • @nancyayabei5249
    @nancyayabei5249 3 роки тому +5

    Joyce, you're looking amazing and beautiful

  • @trudytriad4574
    @trudytriad4574 3 роки тому +2

    Joyce's hair is chastising me into a wash day. ❤

    • @lariad2845
      @lariad2845 3 роки тому

      I know...her hair are really beautiful

  • @fatimasultan9694
    @fatimasultan9694 3 роки тому +2

    Who else ameboeka na hizi too much adds🥺🥺but nimecheka sana

  • @sheilamogeni6466
    @sheilamogeni6466 3 роки тому

    I just watched a couple of your posts
    And you actually continued yourself

  • @empressnicoleo641
    @empressnicoleo641 3 роки тому

    Great convo... English please. We don't wana miss out on anything that is said

  • @mildrahkatlego5745
    @mildrahkatlego5745 3 роки тому +3

    Subtitles please

  • @merehmmf1139
    @merehmmf1139 2 роки тому

    This is interesting but the parts spoken in another language frustrates me because I don't understand. What language is that?

  • @scooterlovya
    @scooterlovya Рік тому

    I admire her hair

  • @broken_arrow1813
    @broken_arrow1813 3 роки тому

    To the production team, kindly add subtitles to give the show an international appeal. You use too many filler words that can only be understood by Kenyans in the right context.

  • @yvonnealuoch2967
    @yvonnealuoch2967 2 роки тому

    is it right for a spouse to invite his family when still dating.

  • @firststar2
    @firststar2 3 роки тому +8

    Yes english please . People are watching all over world.

    • @missparker2645
      @missparker2645 3 роки тому +2

      Go listen to experts from ur country leave ours alone
      Shindwe

    • @julhe8743
      @julhe8743 3 роки тому

      Please English only 🙏🙏

    • @Itsmuthoni347
      @Itsmuthoni347 3 роки тому

      @@missparker2645 😂😂😂😂

    • @bettybetty3518
      @bettybetty3518 3 роки тому

      It's time too learn the sweet Swahili language guys! A Tanzanian from Europe ✌😅😂

  • @balancedviewpoint7418
    @balancedviewpoint7418 3 роки тому +2

    You do not throw away your friends but minimise those who don't add value to your life.
    Are you OK implies many things. It can be in good or bad faith. It is best to wait to be explained something than sounding like you are nagging or interrogative.
    Dos and donts apply at the point of the altar. It is natural. Start acting plural and avoid singular. Draw the lines based on your strengths and weaknesses

  • @josephinekimaro761
    @josephinekimaro761 4 роки тому +1

    😁😂😂😂😂😂😂this man though!

  • @immanuelmathari4862
    @immanuelmathari4862 4 роки тому +1

    @10:30 ati tourism 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
    Lol

  • @janemkade3488
    @janemkade3488 3 роки тому +1

    Waaauuu. This guy is funny 🤣🤣😂😂

  • @immanuelmathari4862
    @immanuelmathari4862 4 роки тому +5

    Ati io box niliifungua nikajiingiza😂😂😂😂

  • @faithntukamazina8480
    @faithntukamazina8480 3 роки тому

    Wow!

  • @Bee-wd4mh
    @Bee-wd4mh 3 роки тому

    Nice suit Benjamin !

  • @marymusol7791
    @marymusol7791 3 роки тому

    Mtoto wa class 3 asicheze😂😂😂😂😂

  • @peacefreedom4930
    @peacefreedom4930 3 роки тому +4

    I need a translator. I feel so left out of the punchlines. What language are they speaking when they switch from English?

    • @zoe1870
      @zoe1870 3 роки тому

      Swahili from Kenya

  • @wanjirukarago9308
    @wanjirukarago9308 4 роки тому +4

    Even as we are spicing up the relationship with jokes some jokes i can't stand

  • @pollynkirote9097
    @pollynkirote9097 3 роки тому +1

    😂😂😂😂😂 it's true..niko Hapo kwa that age where I don't have a minute to waste

  • @faridahnakayemba1496
    @faridahnakayemba1496 4 роки тому +1

    I know amarried man who always find peace wen we are together with him coz am his friend his free

    • @annithibu4650
      @annithibu4650 3 роки тому +2

      😂😂😂😂 funniest thing I have seen today

    • @marlliet86
      @marlliet86 3 роки тому

      Peace giver✌️😂😂😂😂

    • @cynthiamaua
      @cynthiamaua 4 місяці тому

      ​@@marlliet86😂😂😂😂

  • @SA_Barbie
    @SA_Barbie 2 роки тому

    Please guys! English 🙏 we miss some important things

  • @aishaj8348
    @aishaj8348 3 роки тому +5

    PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE cut back a little on the local language. You guys got a lot of foreign viewers here that feel so left out and lost when you switch language mid sentence... I enjoy the show a lot but im really holding back on subscribing to this channel because i dont feel involved language wise .... again kindly consider this please

    • @dianakyanjo
      @dianakyanjo 3 роки тому +2

      Seriously 😒 - Swahili is the national language of Kenya . Stick to BBC shows if English is your preferred language -

    • @aishaj8348
      @aishaj8348 3 роки тому +4

      @@dianakyanjo I didnt know it was the official language of Kenya. I've read similar comments like yours though, very rude and unwelcoming to outsiders. I'm African too and have my own language. Im sure This stinking attitude is not how we address non Kenyans.

    • @dianakyanjo
      @dianakyanjo 3 роки тому +2

      BYUTFUL 77 I’m actually not Kenyan and sorry to rant at you - what I Mearnt is we should be proud they’re putting in bits and bobs of Swahili - i don’t speak Swahili either and didn’t find it distracting at all as the Swahili words are about 10% - easy to flip through
      I wouldn’t push for English as the national language is perfectly fine - it makes this show unique IMO . Otherwise they will become a bunch of try hards- Those who are completely lost should find alternative shows in languages they understand .

    • @ginnymugure9215
      @ginnymugure9215 3 роки тому

      I hope that the show can focus on at least providing subtitles for you and all the people who want to follow the show from around the world. This show has such great advice everyone should be able to follow.

  • @kigememugeni2267
    @kigememugeni2267 3 роки тому +1

    Pliz look at yur viewers when talking!!!!!! Very important!!!!!! Connection with yur viewers is. Very important!!!!!

    • @wandumazgabu8702
      @wandumazgabu8702 3 роки тому +2

      Just listen to the questions and answers.... lol

    • @j.m9189
      @j.m9189 3 роки тому

      @@wandumazgabu8702 Thank you Wandu, some people are too negative.

  • @carolynejackson4877
    @carolynejackson4877 3 роки тому +5

    Swahili is one of our official language, it's acceptable.

    • @dianakyanjo
      @dianakyanjo 3 роки тому +1

      Agree with you - I don’t understand those obsessed with foreign languages . This is one way of promoting language proficiency for those who want to learn an African language - those who can’t hear should stick to English programmes of similar themes . It’s irritating

    • @ginnymugure9215
      @ginnymugure9215 3 роки тому

      @@dianakyanjo I don't think anyone is obsessed with foreign languages. People in the comments section are simply asking for subtitles where Swahili is spoken. This program is drawing in viewers from across the world which is such a blessing...The world should benefit from the great advice given by Zulu, not Kenyans only.

    • @dianakyanjo
      @dianakyanjo 3 роки тому +1

      Ginny Mugure The fact that you’re here , the format works ! I’m pro native language promotion to avoid erosion of indigenous cultures . I hope you understand that people in Kenya speak many dialects/ languages and Swahili is the one which unites them all . Let’s solve Kenya language problems first before catering to outsiders

    • @ginnymugure9215
      @ginnymugure9215 3 роки тому +1

      @@dianakyanjo The format of course works if the goal is to only reach the Kenyan audience. Note I never said they change the language, nor should they, but since they are catering to a global audience, include English subtitles for everyone to follow. If you are at an event at home, with 50% of the people from your tribe, you can decide to start conversing in your mother tongue because you have a majority presence there. However, other people would decide to converse in Swahili or English to make the other people there also a part of your conversation. You cannot just lock out and dismiss people who don't understand your language as though you want to keep this program audience exclusive to Kenyans. If your point is to lock out all non-Kenyans from getting this great advice, then no translation subtitles are even required here...

  • @sharonjohns1686
    @sharonjohns1686 3 роки тому +5

    Too much Swahili here. Not fair for people who dont understand Swahili

  • @zoe1870
    @zoe1870 3 роки тому

    Oh Please Joyce and Benjamin, interpret from Swahili into English. None Swahili speakers are here following you. Do not leave us in the hung ups, then start concluding the point No. The messages are rich in The Full Circle.

  • @immanuelmathari4862
    @immanuelmathari4862 4 роки тому +3

    Huko ni wapi watu wanareply na zinasomwa 😂😂

  • @lee-yng9098
    @lee-yng9098 3 роки тому

    😂😂😂👍👍👍

  • @igweisaac8641
    @igweisaac8641 3 роки тому +3

    I’m watching from South Africa, this is good but on international platform please u must speak English so we understand... unless u only want to reach Swalihi viewers alone..

  • @edinakimeu3181
    @edinakimeu3181 3 роки тому

    Lots of take-ins

  • @meghaclaris2024
    @meghaclaris2024 3 роки тому

    Can you guys pls speak more English than your language? Some of us can’t understand your language and are missing out on a lot of essential information. It’s like ALMOST only getting 50% of the message. Please, do well to reduce how much of your language you speak on the show. Thanks much in advance

    • @aishaj8348
      @aishaj8348 3 роки тому +1

      I just commented the same thing right before coming across your comment... I love the show and the topics they cover but i just might stop watching anytime soon cos i dont understand alot of the things they're laughing about sadly.. I can't even subscribe

    • @fasinaleseilane4269
      @fasinaleseilane4269 3 роки тому

      Yep is so stressing to miss out some points,
      Love S.Africa!

  • @RedGGitwilfade
    @RedGGitwilfade 4 роки тому

    Three comas kwa salare

  • @komujuninorahmishell6224
    @komujuninorahmishell6224 3 роки тому +1

    Don't break English character !! Please

  • @naxiz_kenya2805
    @naxiz_kenya2805 4 роки тому +3

    Zulu is a rookie though a sensible one but he's also not serious as a couch. I'll find him some day n tell him why.

    • @diplomatdiplomat2800
      @diplomatdiplomat2800 4 роки тому +19

      You're here to insult him but you can't even spell. It's coach and not couch.

    • @lkatisi7407
      @lkatisi7407 3 роки тому +7

      Diplomat Diplomat 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣you savage

    • @hannahngeru9691
      @hannahngeru9691 3 роки тому

      Lol

    • @naxiz_kenya2805
      @naxiz_kenya2805 3 роки тому

      Wooow..... i should be allowed to disagree with somethings i believe r wrong right.... it's called opinion. Spellings have nothing to do with me disagreeing with him..... just because he's a return guest doesn't mean i should agree with everything he says. Gosh folks...... give me a break. N btw i also agree with some of his sentiments it's only that this particular one i dont agree. It's called opinion.... n it's my entitlement.

    • @naxiz_kenya2805
      @naxiz_kenya2805 3 роки тому

      @N Kim i still insist that's my opinion n my spelings r a non issue. FYI am not putting him down i just disagree with some of his sentiments in this particular interview of which i haven't elaborated on because as I've said I'll tell him that in person. So i don't think u have an iota og point to trll me i should not agree. Ama pia my mispelling of 'og' will also be an issue???? Listen am not one of these keyboard hungry people who type nonsense on people's work... am extremely sober... very literate n on top of all that very sane in what i type n put out there. So i know what am doing am not putting anyone down am only disagreeing n pls check your dictionary for the meaning of a rookie. Thank u sweet heart. N btw u so cute

  • @broken_arrow1813
    @broken_arrow1813 3 роки тому +1

    The discussion is interesting but their assumptions are too far from the reality on the ground. All these talk shows assume that everybody is a good kid who grows up in christian family and stays a virgin till they decide to marry. That is not true for the majority. People get sexually active way too young these days such that by the time they get married they've had several partners. Please tailor your advice to the reality on the ground.

    • @mariegenius
      @mariegenius 2 роки тому

      It's a FAITH BASED SHOW. Which means there will be assumption that any one coming wants or is ok with faith (Christian) based contents

  • @m.m1561
    @m.m1561 3 роки тому +3

    Please speak English 😩

  • @missparker2645
    @missparker2645 3 роки тому

    Stop it! learn Swahili improve urself or go listen to experts from ur country
    Nonsense!