Say it again! I am a witness, I am loved and given the best even when am not asking. He just glories in making me elegant and impacting me. Gentle and God fearing gentleman. He is my Good God Gift always n forever.
@@amazing_georgee..7304 Its not even about having money it's about how he gets out of his way to give you the best!also like Mr Zulu has said, Quality over quantity,set your standards high and don't settle for less and that's it.
I have really enjoyed this! Thanks Benjamin and Mwikali. Truly we shouldn't lessen our standards, men and women alike, and end up settling for less than what God desires for us to have. Thanks for making this clear. Grace from Uganda 😃
I always pray that my daughter will be like you Benja....people that we need in this generation I will never get tired of listening to you God bless you
Somethings only make sense when everything is perfect.. What if you wake up one day and you can't provide?.. is she prepared to hang with you at your very lowest levels in life.. Those high stands are good to have but we should never forget that the coin can always be flipped at the masters call..
As for me...I am used to people switching lanes on me..I am always the good girl supporting every nigga I be dating but am always single...I got tired of love and dating..
I used to feel the same until I had to learn from my few friends that have serious and happy relationships or marriages. I took a break from dating until I meet the man that will change my previous experiences, I am happy but lonely at times but it's better than forcing things on men. If u r good God has something good for u. Good things come to those who wait.
Never send a man money sis! I was that way too..till I was like naah!they will always take advantage.so stop giving men money you deserve to be given,loved and poured into.
I agree bro some women already set their standards too low ... Just imagine a woman taking you live in mabati houses in the slams and you still go a head an beat them up 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
All ladies are raising their hands to say yes yes...but am asking myself....maybe you are not stable financially to spoil a woman ..what do you do ...Benjamin ????
@@judynyambura6653 hey for me i have tried everything in this world but wapi...bytheway i would like someone to really educate me on what women wants....
@@mamawatorotalks8208 There is nothing like me being up to no good, I treat them as friends, we talk about alot of issues, we help each other with clear and good intentions.No ulterior motive, sadly my willingness to help makes some of my female friends think that I am interested in dating and consequently marrying them.
Actually, you can not say "pure lie" you better say, "false"...there is need for clarification between lying and saying something falsehood. Lying means you know the truth but willingly and with full knowledge say something untrue in line with what you know to be true. For example, you went to the market yesterday, and if you are asked, did you go to the market yesterday, then first your conscious comes alive and you remember going to the market yesterday but then you say, "no I did not". This is lying. On the other hand, saying something false means you simply thought to the best of your ability that what you are saying is the case but it later turn out after evidence to the contrary of what you said had been found to be false. For example, if testing an hypothesis, you get three evidences that confirms it, you might simply conclude that it is true. However, later on, you find another contrary evidence, it finally falsify your hypothesis. It becomes 'false'.
Sometimes you misjudge people with all your wisdom. You have to tell those girls to stop expecting stuff from 30 year old man which his 60 year old father couldn't provide. Stop making 20 year old boy feel like a failure cos he can't meet all your needs.
A 20yr old boy as you've put it is someone who should be working towards being better and not being in a relationship...it's the same cases we see in campus 20yr olds want to date women/girls/ladies,they end up having sex the lady gets pregnant then the guy becomes deadbeat or bails out ..my take kama ni shule umepelekwa usome soma!and focus on that only,then after that try out diffrent jobs hustles and when you feel like you are in a position to pay your bills comfortably without the help of your parents you can now date. But until that happens zip up.
Say it again! I am a witness, I am loved and given the best even when am not asking. He just glories in making me elegant and impacting me. Gentle and God fearing gentleman. He is my Good God Gift always n forever.
Better you
Wow....
Wow
So does it mean if he didn't have money you couldn't have fallen for him?
@@amazing_georgee..7304 Its not even about having money it's about how he gets out of his way to give you the best!also like Mr Zulu has said, Quality over quantity,set your standards high and don't settle for less and that's it.
I am holding my principles until l find a person with principles. I am confident that men with principles still exist
True,keep up with the spirit
Keep up. Let's everyone do their part and if we happen to bump into each maybe we might have a thing.
"Quality is always persecuted by mediocricity' Damn thank you Benjamin!
"you are rare, the people you want to marry are also rare, but they are there!" I felt it🥰 thanks
Thank you Uncle Zulu
If wisdom was a person Benjamin Zulu you make sense all the time thank you
wooo from tanaznaia and zuluu has realy helped me out to be a man of class and a best husband of standads thanks to zulu God bless you
Zulu... God bless you! I'm so glad I discovered him. I have become so wise since I began watching him last year
What an intellect. Mr Zulu thinks on his toes & answers the questions head-on! Your wisdom is truly appreciated. 👏🏽
Have never found a good man but I truly know that God will truly provide for me one day.
Amen sis I'm praying too
Wait on God. He will bring you a man who you will look at and see God's presence in your life
Benjamin Zulu,this man is a true legend!God bless
Wow wow I pray many men are listening to this because we have too many small men 🙆🏼♀️🙆🏼♀️
Benjamin please shout to the top of your voice some people got clogged ears 😂😂
Love, love, love Zulu's mind.👏🏽
I have really enjoyed this! Thanks Benjamin and Mwikali. Truly we shouldn't lessen our standards, men and women alike, and end up settling for less than what God desires for us to have. Thanks for making this clear. Grace from Uganda
😃
I always pray that my daughter will be like you Benja....people that we need in this generation I will never get tired of listening to you God bless you
Always with wise words,,big up Zuli
I relate so well with everything he says
You are the best Zulu always a mentor love frm 🇺🇬🇺🇬
Thanks yu Zulu for addressing some of the crucial things that most of us women are not told or rather taught when finding a true companion/partner
Thanks Benjamin Zulu and mwikali ....great conversion you people held am soon grateful darlings .
Speak it all🔥🔥
So real and true.,,the blunt truth,,,demand it ,,you are not marrying the crowd,,only one man
I am confident that the man for me is seeking me out💫thank you Zulu Benjamin for your inspiration 🙏
You have been found by me now
Wisdom wisdom
Thank you for your passionate expression of wisdom
Benjamin pumps a lot of sense
Somethings only make sense when everything is perfect.. What if you wake up one day and you can't provide?.. is she prepared to hang with you at your very lowest levels in life.. Those high stands are good to have but we should never forget that the coin can always be flipped at the masters call..
As for me...I am used to people switching lanes on me..I am always the good girl supporting every nigga I be dating but am always single...I got tired of love and dating..
We're twinning in this my dear
I used to feel the same until I had to learn from my few friends that have serious and happy relationships or marriages. I took a break from dating until I meet the man that will change my previous experiences, I am happy but lonely at times but it's better than forcing things on men. If u r good God has something good for u. Good things come to those who wait.
Never send a man money sis! I was that way too..till I was like naah!they will always take advantage.so stop giving men money you deserve to be given,loved and poured into.
@@faithsintamei2333 true
@@faithsintamei2333 I second you ❤️
Thank you zulu
This presenter is jovial and smart
Why are you mad now😆😆😆😆...aah i felt that...
And yea we go quiet sometimes as women...true😆
Am single end searching too.
That's me Nimile who will just laugh at some stupid things then I tell them nice meeting you if they don't add to my test
Aki mwikali😂😂😂😂😂aty chakula baridi
True
We dont have firewax n we are 4years n counting.
SDAs tunachoma😂😂😂😂set standards huko juu
I agree bro some women already set their standards too low ...
Just imagine a woman taking you live in mabati houses in the slams and you still go a head an beat them up 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Say again to them Ben
Tell us again and again dir
Sir
Hahahaha
Karibu niDM mtu hii
It's worth it
😂😂😂😂😂
I love your teachings but you speak too fast
Zulu ,you always sound controversial
Today is my birthday 😊
Happy birthday to you!!
Happy bithday to you♥️
Happy birthday 🎉!
Hbd dia
Happy birthday 🎂
😂😂😂 but Germans were never blessed with a man like Zulu .. you go on a date you pay your bills
The Dutch way
Fuck that material
,😂nakama hana pesa
All ladies are raising their hands to say yes yes...but am asking myself....maybe you are not stable financially to spoil a woman ..what do you do ...Benjamin ????
Then don't get one😊
@@lucywanderi7331 so it's all about money right????
Go out of your waaay!
To do the little things
Women appreciate effort.
@@judynyambura6653 hey for me i have tried everything in this world but wapi...bytheway i would like someone to really educate me on what women wants....
It's not about how much money you have..its generosity Kuna watu ata wakiwa na millions can't do nothing for you
Uyu anahubiri,,such BS
Mwikali Bwana Bado? Shida Wapi? Inbox me for a date - i show you real romance ♥️
Mwikali pekee ama pia fans wa hii show 😂😅
Pure lie, I spoil alot of women without the intention of dating or marrying them.
It’s up to those women to know you are up to no good
@@mamawatorotalks8208 There is nothing like me being up to no good, I treat them as friends, we talk about alot of issues, we help each other with clear and good intentions.No ulterior motive, sadly my willingness to help makes some of my female friends think that I am interested in dating and consequently marrying them.
@@victornyakundi244 sorry I misunderstood you I have been helped by guys who did not want anything more than my friendship so I know that also exists
Actually, you can not say "pure lie" you better say, "false"...there is need for clarification between lying and saying something falsehood.
Lying means you know the truth but willingly and with full knowledge say something untrue in line with what you know to be true.
For example, you went to the market yesterday, and if you are asked, did you go to the market yesterday, then first your conscious comes alive and you remember going to the market yesterday but then you say, "no I did not". This is lying.
On the other hand, saying something false means you simply thought to the best of your ability that what you are saying is the case but it later turn out after evidence to the contrary of what you said had been found to be false.
For example, if testing an hypothesis, you get three evidences that confirms it, you might simply conclude that it is true. However, later on, you find another contrary evidence, it finally falsify your hypothesis. It becomes 'false'.
@@jacobochieng7621 wow! Nice write up!
WTF Benjamin??? Ati spoiling a woman who is not your wife?
Hapo Benja amepotea 😂
@@techienomadiso8970 anafanya ladies wafeel entitled.nimspoil ju amenifanyia nini?
Yeah qwani
@@millicentouma1931 Okay, good for you if such men are in your life. I don't do that.
@@millicentouma1931 Dont argue with mediocre men swirry..you deserve to be pampered
Talking about MEN, Can't you talk calmly? Why all this hand throwing?
I wish you knew how emotionally it is.... behave well Joseph
Sometimes you misjudge people with all your wisdom. You have to tell those girls to stop expecting stuff from 30 year old man which his 60 year old father couldn't provide.
Stop making 20 year old boy feel like a failure cos he can't meet all your needs.
I can't watch this without a notebook.
A 20yr old boy as you've put it is someone who should be working towards being better and not being in a relationship...it's the same cases we see in campus 20yr olds want to date women/girls/ladies,they end up having sex the lady gets pregnant then the guy becomes deadbeat or bails out ..my take kama ni shule umepelekwa usome soma!and focus on that only,then after that try out diffrent jobs hustles and when you feel like you are in a position to pay your bills comfortably without the help of your parents you can now date.
But until that happens zip up.
Ilove this explosive materials it's bombing every where.all about truth...be blessed Zulu,am.mwilakali.up sent Bramwel💗💗🙏🙏