By the moment a friend starts showing his interests in being a lover, i flee! Please, a friend stays a friend. A lover is another level. Mixing up feelings and considerations doesn't work for me 😂
I might have done so many things in life but this thing of " friends with benefit" has never been my thing ever.... agreeing with a guy to remain friends but we be sleeping together 😣😣
"All things that last need patience, inaniuma saaana"! I think everyone is wired different, so to some sex is okay, to others its a NO NO and we all respect that
I'm really addicted to this discussion Benjamin always enlighte my mind in what to do to get in a good relationship love it and Joyce you're my role model ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Benjamin your one in a million... Your discussions molds me soo much... Kindly is any means you can organize those willing to be talking one on one even if is via wasap please
Please Benjamin n Joyce speak even in 'tongues' of every tribe in our country n put speakers all over the country so that even the *rural'est* girl n boy hear you *God bless u two*
I insist - if you don’t understand the language/ s in this show find related programmes in a language of choice . Changing the language/s here will dilute the concept. The topics here have been discussed in so many other forums search the internet for a language you understand well
Well always informative and enjoying the show am always learning new things every single time God bless .so my question is as a woman should you always be the first to initiate things please advise accordingly.
@@marykapembwa597 I beg to differ. What if my boss in the workplace is a Married Man? What if a collegue at work is directly working with me on a project is a married man? What if my gym instructor is a married man? Does that mean we cannot be friends? I believe what matters is the parameters of the friendship.
Sex is sign of love especially the relationship has been prolonged...For how long a man can wait for sex..1 year, 2 year..3 years..? sex is huge commitment from woman..
Joyce is very beautiful and her modesty is top notch with a touch of class. I always enjoy the show
Zulu needs his own channel
Am with you on this
He's not just a psychologist, he's a comedian too 😂 cracks me up all the time but his points hit home.
I think I see why, especially this particular show😂😂😂
Why do you want to destroy unity of two people.. they work together and they are doing well...
Check him out on his social media handles! Thank me later 😁
Benjamin's wisdom is on another level. Thanking God for your ministry
Maan...have been binge watching this stuff
Benjamin..... Your phrases are classic.... "some of these guys live in bedsitters..." 😂😂😂😂 We need memes aki
😂😂😂💯💯💯💯 very accurate and true indeed
Foolish. There's absolutely nothing wrong with living in a bedsitter. Some of the wildest behaviors emanate from the mansions y'all crave for
@@garettclement6671 Wau....
@@davidmuriithi 🤣🤣🤣
The immense wisdom this man has is overwhelming... Amazing stuff! Love love love!!!"
"Can you hear that sound".... Joyce for you... I love you guys...
I come hear to laugh ,,, and I find myself learning.💖💖 Benjamin and Joyce
By the moment a friend starts showing his interests in being a lover, i flee! Please, a friend stays a friend. A lover is another level. Mixing up feelings and considerations doesn't work for me 😂
Benjamin :That's a confused student in my class 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I love this discussion!!!!
I might have done so many things in life but this thing of " friends with benefit" has never been my thing ever.... agreeing with a guy to remain friends but we be sleeping together 😣😣
Sorry siz
I wonder how people do it,what if you develop feelings along?
He’s on point but we’re forgetting that chivalry didn’t just die but feminism also had a major part in killing it
True... There is so much we ladies can offer.
Rescue season that’s the sweetest part in the topic
Wow I really love the topic, thenk u so much Benjamin I enjoyed it
you are a man of wisdom Benjamin
This was soo timely.
Your talk show so sweet! I love it😍😂😂😂
Benjamin Ya something else😂😂
Loving this Channel, Thank you Benjamin。
I really like this guy😂😂😂....... Love the show too...... Love from Tanzania 🔥
"All things that last need patience, inaniuma saaana"! I think everyone is wired different, so to some sex is okay, to others its a NO NO and we all respect that
Loving the show ❤❤❤
I love joycez laughter😁😁😁😁
I'm really addicted to this discussion Benjamin always enlighte my mind in what to do to get in a good relationship love it and Joyce you're my role model ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I always love Benjamin talks very helpful
Benjamin wisdom is on another level....keep it up man....God bless you
Benjamin!!!🙌
Thank you for this education Mr Benjamin, keep advising and motivating us, watching from Namibia.
Waooo.nice one
Sincerely I love it
Watching from Ghana. I love this guy. Real Talk
Same
I love you guys.Ben very straight on point,,, Joyce very smart dressed.
Benjamin us such a darling
First one to comment here... Loving the show
she has a lovely voice
Eye opener
So true..
Informative
Benjamin ur words are really nice.. Ooh my good Joyce I Wanaa ask u u organize another show with benjam so that he can educate me more ad me
Interesting..
This has been one of my most favourite episodes. So so so true for so many I'm sure 👀
Acha
@@chitekoakiba7181 😂
No took more
This program
your give conversation
your program it is more
My love Mr Zulu no get
Money l buying more
data for this program
Benjamin Zulu👏👏👏👏👍👍👍
So informative.
Talk to 'em Zulu!!! Tell them!!!
If his arials are off,,😂😂😂😂he doesn't pick signals heee 😂Benjamin youu😂😂😂😂I'm addicted to this show ,,,it's very informative,, thankyou
Very nice talks
zulu is a legend.
I liked the part when Joyce said watu wazeyi wakonadrama
Benjamin your one in a million... Your discussions molds me soo much... Kindly is any means you can organize those willing to be talking one on one even if is via wasap please
Please Benjamin n Joyce speak even in 'tongues' of every tribe in our country n put speakers all over the country so that even the *rural'est* girl n boy hear you *God bless u two*
I insist - if you don’t understand the language/ s in this show find related programmes in a language of choice . Changing the language/s here will dilute the concept. The topics here have been discussed in so many other forums search the internet for a language you understand well
@@dianakyanjo I think you didn't understand him,, hebu soma tena pole pole
Well always informative and enjoying the show am always learning new things every single time God bless .so my question is as a woman should you always be the first to initiate things please advise accordingly.
I was listening to him before this....he said the man should be the hunter but the girl should be available
Wow
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣The grandmother over mourned🤣🤣🤣🤣
Nimecheka yangu yote waaa Benjamin your funny
I come for work
No come for conversation
I work this relationship
I get money no like convesation
No like conversation
Conversation speak
It is too much
I like new relationship
Work now in forever
Mtu anisaidie nipate job pia ndo tuwe more than friends
Surprise not a shock
I think it was Jacob who helped those women get water for their animals
Moses did too
Moses did too.
So after a failed proposal, if the relationship over or what?
Black mail ahhh, ewoooh😂😂😂
Hey hey Benjamin i will not do that for a woman she can do it alone
😂😂😂
l like new relationship
l love my best wife
I work this new woman
🔥💓💓💓 watching this make m feel like stand and sitting down 🙆♀️true naked
Acha uongo
I'm also asking that is it okay to be friendship with a married man??
No
No I don't think so, cause you have nothing in common with married man
What kind of friendship?
@@marykapembwa597 I beg to differ.
What if my boss in the workplace is a Married Man?
What if a collegue at work is directly working with me on a project is a married man?
What if my gym instructor is a married man?
Does that mean we cannot be friends?
I believe what matters is the parameters of the friendship.
@@janeotieno6378 there is nothing wrong with being friends but t you should just have boundaries dear
50 ladies ! 🙆♂️🙆♂️😹😹 during dating olloooooo😹😹🔥
He did not date them, he tried to
5:40 me not agreeing 😂
your give me conversation
How I'm tooling
I get you
Benjamin do you practice what you preach really hizo vitu ni mingi kufanyia mtu
so nyingi, unless one is selfish
Ladies love flowers but not in Africa.
We still exist😊
Hahaha.. i can't believe it
Hahahahahhaha😂😂😂😂😂
Hey...I love flowers
@@kimbarly🤔 unless yr aren't raised or born in Africa there I agree!!
Sex is sign of love especially the relationship has been prolonged...For how long a man can wait for sex..1 year, 2 year..3 years..? sex is huge commitment from woman..
Firstly put a ring on her then sex will follow no sex before marriage
Marriage. Sex seals a relationship and in this case the most ideal relationship to be sealed with sex would be marriage.
Put a ring on it.
Haki your name defines you.😂😂 . You want RAPID DELIVERY.
You resemble your name, you're the ones who are rushy
the title is misleading
😆 😆 😆 Yah...
Most times it normally is
Sure
Too much teething in the program please.
U r so silly if u dnt find it interesting go to aburrial ceremony and grieve😷😷😷😷😷😷
Hbsbeb nakyangwe mbikooye 😂😂😂perfect response 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Olivia what a rude comment !
You want them to cry?.....
@@hbsbebnakyangwembikooye7639 thanks dear.
BS