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1) recognise that "what shows up in front of us is our creation" 2) looking at the situation from "both me and sp were acting from our own lack and smaller self (the wounded self) - hurt people,hurt people. - so you see how you also contributed to creating this dynamic. It wasn't all them. (Didn't feel good to me but it probably didn't feel good to them either.) 3) starting the Practice of forgiveness - just recognising that in our egoic (small self expression) we do things from our wounded self - anytime we are in this lacking state - we have to create that lack! Understanding that when they (anyone) did things that hurt me it wasn't intentional, it was actually showing up the best they could - even if it wasn't good enough. But that was coming from their own wounded self. "The desire to hurt someone else, is always coming from a wound!" This was an amazing takeaway Shelly ♥️ I personally find myself doing the 2nd the 3rd pieces of what you said , whenever sp hurts me, I do imaginal acts where he says he didn't do it intentionally and it helps me to let go of the negative feelings and the resentment. While for others, I try and understand that since i have wounds, I may be creating them. So I soothe myself and bless the ones who hurt me, trying to help them heal as well.❤️❤️ All of us deserve to heal💖💖
One of the best things my mother and her parents taught me was that it’s never about anything outside of yourself that makes you angry or frustrated. It’s always - always - about you. I’ve had a lifetime of training at stepping back after my knee jerk reaction and finding the problem in myself that caused me to judge someone else so harshly that it made me feel that bad. Life is meant to feel good. I’ve embraced the chance to make personal changes that made life easier for me and those living in my world, and many times they express appreciation to that dedication. As my daughter ages in her own relationship I’ve had the pleasure of watching her express that same level of self-awareness. 🥰 Her partner calls her his “unicorn.” 😄 I can understand. Her father used to tell his friends that “everyone deserves a Susan, but you have to find your own. This one is mine.” 😍 Having him die at such a young age has forced me to become a better version of me, with less emotional baggage, before I meet his successor. Not a bad thing for the next man I’ll likely outlive. Not a bad thing at all.
I used to be angry at my SP, I cursed him, I focused too much on his mistakes. And yeah, his mistakes happened again and again. Now, after I learnt a lot from you and other manifestation coaches, whenever I am angry at my SP, my emotion is high, I will say, "He loves me! He wants me! I don't care, I know that he is obsessed about me! He is madly in love with me!" You know what, I saw things have changed a bit by bit. I used the emotion and said what I want.
Couldn't agree more. I am particularly good at demanding perfect behaviour of my SP while acting like a jerk myself. I've still got a lot to learn. Thank you very much for this!! 🤗
"What shows up in front of us, is our creation". So very true, Shelly. I've done this many times in my life, lost people I've loved because of my fears.
Wow very powerful video!! I actually did that with my SP and have been continually doing it since February and he has actually apologized to me. I truly felt like he owed me something amazing and he should put me up on a throne and praise me, because of all of the pain, suffering,and tragic losses I experienced without him being there for me. I continue to throw it in his face and I know I put myself in that situation and I take responsibility, I just couldn’t understand why he was acting like the victim and being so hurtful to me. I see it now Shelly I was literally holding on to that pain and putting it on him for 3 years and he has been doing the best he can and truly tried to be there when he could for me, and vise versa I was showing up for him when he needed me but I was complaining the entire time and throwing it in his face. I see how me holding on to it is affecting my relationship’s now.
Going to keep this in mind when I find myself ruminating on any resentment towards my sp. Going to work on releasing all the feelings that are preventing us from connecting 💫
This year I’ve learned to observe my ego and all the stories it creates, specially when we are in our lack state, forgiveness and taking responsibility it is all about. Loved this lesson🌟🍀♥️
Shelly, you always fill the missing piece of the puzzle. That was amazing! The fact that we had to do with this issue make the hurt get small as this was then, in the past when we didn’t know better, we didn’t have u to teach us, but now, we know more, we can control the next relationship much more. We get to practice self love and change our consent of ourselves and don’t expect people to leave us etc.. and then it doesn’t happen .’Thank you so much!!!!
Wow this Is going to help me a lot 😀. I am so piss off with my sp, I cant even do the guided meditation cos I cant feel any good feeling for him, just anger. Thanks Shelly
I subscribed to your channel yesterday and today I was feeling a lot of anger. Half an hour or so ago i got a notification about this video! I needed to hear this today 🙏 thank you
I dont have words to Express gratitude......if this video was not there then I would have remained angry or hurt for quite sometime....but this really changed my perspective.....its the best video I have ever seen......I was hurt or angry for around 3 hrs...I searched for this video and my anger /hurt was over seeing this video.....thank you so much.....
This video was absolutely wonderful to me! I could see the dynamics of relationships and how it works. Everything is so clear now, thanks so much, Shelly!
@decemberclouds letting go of things ( all kinds of situations) is so beneficial to all of us. As I have said in my comment I was never angry at him, but I think I kind of put my own frustration on him. ❤❤❤❤❤
This was definitely life changing for me. Here recently I have come to the point of deep feeling and not accepting the outter reality if its not what I desire. Ho'oponopono is amazing at forgiveness.
I love the book A Course in Miracles! Loved this video!! Makes total sense. Love all the new videos. Also thank you for teaming up with Kim, I love her too!!! Love both of you, super awesome! ❤️💞✨✨✨
The book LETTING GO-THE PATHWAY TO SURRENDER By David R Hawkins is a really great book to help with manifesting. He talks about Letting go of all types of things ( desire, anger, pride ) so was really useful for me before I am where I am now. 🦄💕🧚♀️❤
I know for experienced that these is not easy to accept, but when you do it helps so much to finally move on and take charge of our own lives . Thank you again for your wonderful words 💕
This is so helpful. It’s allowing me to let go of so much anger. I do feel like as a mother I have to fix my wounding. I do not want to repeat patterns. I want to be a pattern breaker.
Dr. Pat Allen says: Other people cannot hurt you.They only cause pain. You can only hurt yourself. * Another thing, I started to train: It only becomes meaningful because of the meaning I give it.
Perfect timing! I haven't even watched this video yet. But I KNOW it's going to be great already :) This is the exact question that I have been asking myself the past couple of days. Thank you Shelly. Now I'm going to watch the video. I manifested this question. For sure!
Thank you! ❤ Gah, the first thing is so true. But it is the shittiest thing ever! I even remember my thoughts and feelings, that manifested him hurting me. It is because I already have resentments and doubts regarding him. A total mess and it hurst!!
I love this video so much! I think all 3 steps are so helpful in letting go of hurt or anger. I already feel better just having watched the video for the first time.💞
I'm beginning to see how I pushed my sp away. I thought he just ghosted but when I dissect the situation, I see that I wasn't as confident when we met and even though we had the most perfect night, I still had doubts that I was good enough. I've spent tons of time working in myself with affirmations, self love & your course on How to become Absolutely Magnetic, Irresistible & Wildly Attractive, Im a totally different person who knows my worth & knows he will be the lucky one to be with me!!! I know when we are together again this time will be perfection😊 (Now all I need is him to manifest back 🙏) Thank u as always Shel 😘
that’s true the same thing happened to me. at the day he ghosted me I was so doubtful and insecure, I literally gave him all my energy because of desperation and the tighter I held him the more distant he got. I’ll never do this mistake again no matter how much I like someone. good luck and remember you are the price!
Shelly you’re an angel! Every time you surprise me with the deepness of your teachings and the sweetness of your ways of speaking and moving! (And you look amazing with this color!) thank you so much 🌈🍁🌈🍁
Wow. Perfect timing to see this.thankyou! I have been going through anger, sadness, pining, strength, manifesting, then all over again..i need to work through them all to get to the 5d! X
This reminded me of something I used to say to feel better before. That the person wants to be nothing but respectful and loving towards me but that I created them to act otherwise to me - something they never wanted to - and therefore if anything I should be the one to apologise to them.
Another gem , you are such a light that shines bright. Brighter then any star. I love it. Thank you for sharing this one !!! Everything you brought up is VERY much on point !!!
Wow I can’t wait for this because last night I saw something in my bfs phone and I handled it very poorly. After sleeping I realized I reacted horribly and I know he loves me and things will be amazing still. It was our anniversary and he brought me a beautiful thoughtful bracelet.
Yes sometimes I feel hurt but I know he did not do that willingly. And yes he regrets ever doing that to me and he will be here with me. I know this experience will make our bond strong and everlasting. It's needed so that we don't take each other for granted. He misses me as much as I do. He wants to be with me too. And we can will be. His mom will accept me.
Thank you for this video. I didn’t realize I was still holding on to anger. I thought I had forgiven him, but I realize now my behavior & reaction to our break up tell me I haven’t.
I do take the majority of responsability for what happened with my sp. But I haven't been able to forgive myself for years. I know that I'm the one that hurt myself by creating that situation, and because I know that ''hurt people hurt other people'' I haven't been able to be open to dating someone new because I don't want to hurt them because I'm still hurt by this situation...
How to let go of anger towards your specific person.? There are things 1st piece of letting go of anger .! * Really recognising how you have unlimitedly created the situation with your sp.! * example being betrayed by your sp . * It is very easy for us to get hurt when we are in this dynamic of relationship. * it is very us for us to feel like victim , they hurt me and I am the victim. * This is okay , however if we want to manifest in life anything . * we have to recognise what shows up in front us is our creation . * it is for you realise that it showed up cause you created it. * a self concept you expected to be betrayed . * with expectations with your past experiences or childhood the pattern can be created . * you don’t have to go to past and recognise . You just have to recognise right now right here. * take responsibility right now . That you are the reason that this dynamic showed up. * if we really take up responsibility we can really change our reality . * we must transition from what we expect old pattern to soemthing new and fresh . ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ 2nd piece .! * they were in their smaller self so was i * This is just to take the edge of if you feel actively hurt by your sp. * this looking to the lens from , my sp was not acting this way from their higher self instead they were doing so from their lack and fear so did even I contributed through my fear and lack. * this is another way to look through about this dynamic . * you are also in your smaller self when you in a relationship with them . * cause even you realise it’s not just them but it’s even you . * you will feel better and you will recognise your mistakes too. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ 3rd piece .! * Start the practice of forgiveness . * forgiveness is very potent . * forgiveness is just recognise we make mistakes and we do act from our wounded self and we do have lack state . * and we tend to create from there . * the way to forgive is recognise they were acting from their wounded self they were hurting , they have wound just the way I have . * when you bring them to your own level , and let go of the egoic state . * they were just doing best they could , even if you were hurted by the process . * they were just doing best they could. * when you realise this you will develop compassion towards them . * the desire to hurt comes from wound . * when you realise you will just develop a compassion towards them. * and just know that things will change , they will change , I gotta work on myself . * if you do this much things in your reality will change . Thank You Shelly ❤️
I struggle with this because yes I was worried he would cheat but I remember specifically saying to myself “but he would never leave his family” and he did
I don't feel any anger towards him, I never have. ( maybe a little bit of frustration at the start of the year, but that was mainly me, and not really anything from him ) He always told me he loved my energy. Last time I saw him he gave me the best hug. Now I just want to run into his arms and feel that again......or do the dirty dancing scene and jump into his arms and above his head 😁🤣 I seem to only really think about him when I'm watching the videos, maybe briefly during the day, but im concentrating on other manifestations now or just doing others things to take my mind off him. Trying to make the most of the sabbath before he arrives 😉 ha ha. Im super super confident in everything now. Just properly understanding everything now has made it feel so easy. ( im trying to grasp the idea of Power vs Force, which i think I understand is the difference between Trying to get your desire, to effortlessly getting your desire) but haven't quite got it yet. The Kaballion is definitely a great book to read about the fundamentals of what we are doing, understanding the 7 laws ( law of correspondence, law of gender etc ) but I think it will take me reading it twice to have taken it in completely, but its definitely helped me ( along with your teachings) to understand E.I.Y.P.O. MY SP IS COMING. I AM MRS CAFOLLA 👰🤵 I'm going to be sharing stories very soon. HAPPY MANIFESTING 🦄❤🧚♀️💕 Thank you Shelly ❤❤❤❤❤
@@decemberclouds exactly 💯. I just let random things get into my head. I had my doubts because of someone from my past, I was thinking he was stressed because of what had happened at work, and that he needed a bit of space, now I realise that I was projecting that onto him, and even though I know some of it was actually happening ( not just my assumption) because he had a hard time in the office. 💕💕💕
How beautiful is it to understand that we contribute so much to our reality. We would blame people for hurting us, but now we know that we are the power!💕 I still have instances where people hurt me, but instead of explaining it to them, I focus on me - healing myself. And it helps 💕
@@samhitaparab it makes us see everyone/everything from a new more open perspective. I feel that even though we are connected ( the law of one) that we cannot blame ourselves for everything that we get back from people, I know its still E.I.Y.P.O, but we could get something reflected back from someone that we are not even aware of ourselves. But by getting ourselves into a good mindset we can reduce the chance of having bad things reflected back to us. 💕🧚♀️💕
When it’s all said and done our creation of the reality isn’t An excuse for their choice because they still chose. But we definitely have to change our self concepts
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I really need this. Sometimes I feel love for him and sometimes feeling used and then I get angry.
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I feel the same way too. It’s a challenge sometime indeed..
I go back and forth too.
And when I'm angry, I don't even want to do guided meditation for SP🤣😑
Same!
1) recognise that "what shows up in front of us is our creation"
2) looking at the situation from "both me and sp were acting from our own lack and smaller self (the wounded self) - hurt people,hurt people. - so you see how you also contributed to creating this dynamic. It wasn't all them. (Didn't feel good to me but it probably didn't feel good to them either.)
3) starting the Practice of forgiveness - just recognising that in our egoic (small self expression) we do things from our wounded self - anytime we are in this lacking state - we have to create that lack!
Understanding that when they (anyone) did things that hurt me it wasn't intentional, it was actually showing up the best they could - even if it wasn't good enough. But that was coming from their own wounded self.
"The desire to hurt someone else, is always coming from a wound!"
This was an amazing takeaway Shelly ♥️ I personally find myself doing the 2nd the 3rd pieces of what you said , whenever sp hurts me, I do imaginal acts where he says he didn't do it intentionally and it helps me to let go of the negative feelings and the resentment.
While for others, I try and understand that since i have wounds, I may be creating them. So I soothe myself and bless the ones who hurt me, trying to help them heal as well.❤️❤️
All of us deserve to heal💖💖
Beautiful 💛
I also take notes in my Diary.
You make it easier dear.
@@zrhaque7255 I am glad it helps💖
Thanks 🙏
And when they hurt and they know they hurt? What about narcissists and psychopaths? When they know very well they hurt and they continue doing it?
One of the best things my mother and her parents taught me was that it’s never about anything outside of yourself that makes you angry or frustrated. It’s always - always - about you. I’ve had a lifetime of training at stepping back after my knee jerk reaction and finding the problem in myself that caused me to judge someone else so harshly that it made me feel that bad. Life is meant to feel good. I’ve embraced the chance to make personal changes that made life easier for me and those living in my world, and many times they express appreciation to that dedication.
As my daughter ages in her own relationship I’ve had the pleasure of watching her express that same level of self-awareness. 🥰 Her partner calls her his “unicorn.” 😄 I can understand. Her father used to tell his friends that “everyone deserves a Susan, but you have to find your own. This one is mine.” 😍 Having him die at such a young age has forced me to become a better version of me, with less emotional baggage, before I meet his successor. Not a bad thing for the next man I’ll likely outlive. Not a bad thing at all.
I used to be angry at my SP, I cursed him, I focused too much on his mistakes. And yeah, his mistakes happened again and again. Now, after I learnt a lot from you and other manifestation coaches, whenever I am angry at my SP, my emotion is high, I will say, "He loves me! He wants me! I don't care, I know that he is obsessed about me! He is madly in love with me!"
You know what, I saw things have changed a bit by bit. I used the emotion and said what I want.
Wonderful!
"Hurt people Hurt people" 🏵️
Couldn't agree more. I am particularly good at demanding perfect behaviour of my SP while acting like a jerk myself. I've still got a lot to learn. Thank you very much for this!! 🤗
You’re welcome !
Your videos are my go-to whenever I feel down or wake up with negative thoughts in general or about my SP.
Can’t wait for this! Don’t want to be holding onto any anger or resentment
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"What shows up in front of us, is our creation". So very true, Shelly. I've done this many times in my life, lost people I've loved because of my fears.
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I needed this
Wow very powerful video!! I actually did that with my SP and have been continually doing it since February and he has actually apologized to me. I truly felt like he owed me something amazing and he should put me up on a throne and praise me, because of all of the pain, suffering,and tragic losses I experienced without him being there for me. I continue to throw it in his face and I know I put myself in that situation and I take responsibility, I just couldn’t understand why he was acting like the victim and being so hurtful to me. I see it now Shelly I was literally holding on to that pain and putting it on him for 3 years and he has been doing the best he can and truly tried to be there when he could for me, and vise versa I was showing up for him when he needed me but I was complaining the entire time and throwing it in his face. I see how me holding on to it is affecting my relationship’s now.
Awww! Good luck and congratulations!
Thank you for this amazing video. I really needed to hear this. I’m so grateful to be a part of this community.
So glad you’re here💛
Going to keep this in mind when I find myself ruminating on any resentment towards my sp. Going to work on releasing all the feelings that are preventing us from connecting 💫
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This year I’ve learned to observe my ego and all the stories it creates, specially when we are in our lack state, forgiveness and taking responsibility it is all about. Loved this lesson🌟🍀♥️
Glad you liked it🥰
You have NO IDEA how much I needed this!! Thank you!
You’re welcome 💛
Shelly, you always fill the missing piece of the puzzle. That was amazing! The fact that we had to do with this issue make the hurt get small as this was then, in the past when we didn’t know better, we didn’t have u to teach us, but now, we know more, we can control the next relationship much more. We get to practice self love and change our consent of ourselves and don’t expect people to leave us etc.. and then it doesn’t happen .’Thank you so much!!!!
You’re welcome 🥰
I needed this soooo much. Thank you!
I was literally at therapy yesterday talking about how angry I was at my sp and then you upload this 😭
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Wow this Is going to help me a lot 😀. I am so piss off with my sp, I cant even do the guided meditation cos I cant feel any good feeling for him, just anger.
Thanks Shelly
You’re welcome 💛
I subscribed to your channel yesterday and today I was feeling a lot of anger. Half an hour or so ago i got a notification about this video! I needed to hear this today 🙏 thank you
You’re welcome, so glad you’re here 💛
I love how you talk about taking responsibility for our experiences because we are creating all of it. ❤️❤️
Glad you like it🙏
Absolutely brilliant. Thanks for sharing!
I dont have words to Express gratitude......if this video was not there then I would have remained angry or hurt for quite sometime....but this really changed my perspective.....its the best video I have ever seen......I was hurt or angry for around 3 hrs...I searched for this video and my anger /hurt was over seeing this video.....thank you so much.....
This video was absolutely wonderful to me! I could see the dynamics of relationships and how it works. Everything is so clear now, thanks so much, Shelly!
So glad you enjoyed it!
This is exactly what I need today. Thank you so much!
You’re welcome!
I had an issue with this for quite some time, but I ended up letting it go. :) Thank you for sharing, Shelly.
@decemberclouds letting go of things ( all kinds of situations) is so beneficial to all of us.
As I have said in my comment I was never angry at him, but I think I kind of put my own frustration on him.
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Try this: Shift from judgement to curiosity and wonder. Watch all of your relationships benefit. 🥰
Wow, I really needed this video! Amazing! Thank you!!😭❤️
Glad it was helpful!
This is great! So relevant to something I CREATED (key word) recently! Also interesting how it relates to forgiving your parents.... thank you Shelly
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This was definitely life changing for me. Here recently I have come to the point of deep feeling and not accepting the outter reality if its not what I desire. Ho'oponopono is amazing at forgiveness.
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This literally made me cry. Even at his worst, he’s still showing up, even if it’s out of wounding
This is the most useful video for me. I was going through so much anger and I knew that this was stopping me from manifesting her. Thanks a lot....
I love the book A Course in Miracles! Loved this video!! Makes total sense. Love all the new videos. Also thank you for teaming up with Kim, I love her too!!! Love both of you, super awesome! ❤️💞✨✨✨
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Another puzzle piece 💖 Thanks Shelly, this one was particularly brilliant 🙏
Glad you enjoyed it!
The book
LETTING GO-THE PATHWAY TO SURRENDER By David R Hawkins is a really great book to help with manifesting.
He talks about Letting go of all types of things ( desire, anger, pride ) so was really useful for me before I am where I am now.
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Thank you for sharing!
One the best books i have ever read. Its highly recommended especially if you seek healing and better manifestations.
I know for experienced that these is not easy to accept, but when you do it helps so much to finally move on and take charge of our own lives . Thank you again for your wonderful words 💕
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I love that you are speaking on forgiveness. Forgiving is about taking a burden off of yourself, and recognizing the human in all of us 💕
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Oh wow!
What clicked was "hurt people, hurt people".
Thank you Shelly❤️✨
You’re welcome 💛
This is so helpful. It’s allowing me to let go of so much anger. I do feel like as a mother I have to fix my wounding. I do not want to repeat patterns. I want to be a pattern breaker.
Glad it has helped 💛
Dr. Pat Allen says: Other people cannot hurt you.They only cause pain. You can only hurt yourself. * Another thing, I started to train: It only becomes meaningful because of the meaning I give it.
What a timing!!!
You have a soul to soul communication with YOUR viewrs I guess. Thank You🍎
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Basically it's our manifestation from wounds and lacks, so we have to let it go by forgiveness, love ya Shelly 💚😽
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It's amazing how you post this in exactly the time I felt this, wow THANK YOU SHELLY ❤🙏 You changed my life so I could change my life ❤
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Taking ownership is a top value!
Very important topic! We sometimes we do have underlying anger there!
Perfect timing! I haven't even watched this video yet. But I KNOW it's going to be great already :) This is the exact question that I have been asking myself the past couple of days. Thank you Shelly. Now I'm going to watch the video. I manifested this question. For sure!
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The desire to hurt someone is coming from a wound. Thanks Shelly
The clarity you have taught me to understand certain actions I have taken is mind blowing. So thank you, thank you, thank you 🙏🏽
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Thank you! ❤ Gah, the first thing is so true. But it is the shittiest thing ever! I even remember my thoughts and feelings, that manifested him hurting me. It is because I already have resentments and doubts regarding him. A total mess and it hurst!!
You’re welcome 🙏
Thank you Shelly this is a very powerful video and just what I needed
Glad it was helpful!
Wow this is so helpful today, thanks Shelly 💖
I love this video so much! I think all 3 steps are so helpful in letting go of hurt or anger. I already feel better just having watched the video for the first time.💞
So glad to hear this!
I'm beginning to see how I pushed my sp away. I thought he just ghosted but when I dissect the situation, I see that I wasn't as confident when we met and even though we had the most perfect night, I still had doubts that I was good enough. I've spent tons of time working in myself with affirmations, self love & your course on How to become Absolutely Magnetic, Irresistible & Wildly Attractive, Im a totally different person who knows my worth & knows he will be the lucky one to be with me!!! I know when we are together again this time will be perfection😊
(Now all I need is him to manifest back 🙏) Thank u as always Shel 😘
that’s true the same thing happened to me.
at the day he ghosted me I was so doubtful and insecure, I literally gave him all my energy because of desperation and the tighter I held him the more distant he got.
I’ll never do this mistake again no matter how much I like someone.
good luck and remember you are the price!
@@chxhxhxjxss6894 thank u!!!🥰
Perfect timing! Thanks beauty 💞
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Thank you so much, Shelly. I really appreciate your work ❤ this video is so helpful. 😍
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I really love your videos, Shelly! I truly needed this video, so seeing this video is timely for me.
So glad to hear this🙏💛
Needed this. Thank you
All begins with self, thank you Shelly
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Shelly you’re an angel! Every time you surprise me with the deepness of your teachings and the sweetness of your ways of speaking and moving! (And you look amazing with this color!) thank you so much 🌈🍁🌈🍁
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It’s a great insight Shelly! Thank you!❤️
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Wow. Perfect timing to see this.thankyou! I have been going through anger, sadness, pining, strength, manifesting, then all over again..i need to work through them all to get to the 5d! X
I loved this! I needed to hear this! Thank you
Glad you liked it!
This reminded me of something I used to say to feel better before. That the person wants to be nothing but respectful and loving towards me but that I created them to act otherwise to me - something they never wanted to - and therefore if anything I should be the one to apologise to them.
Such a powerful lesson 🖤
Much needed for people that suffer from pstd ....thank you doll ❤️✨❤️
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I needed to hear this thank you!!
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Another gem , you are such a light that shines bright. Brighter then any star. I love it. Thank you for sharing this one !!! Everything you brought up is VERY much on point !!!
I love this video so much. I've already been working on a lot of this things that you mentioned. This just affirmed that I'm on the right path.
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Loved this Shelly
Thank you!
Thanks for this shelly
This is very helpful. Thank you!
Glad it helped!
Hi Luv! Great color on you! Lovely. 🦋
Thank you ladies!
Need this one !
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Thank you so much Shelly❤️
You’re welcome 💛
Wow I can’t wait for this because last night I saw something in my bfs phone and I handled it very poorly. After sleeping I realized I reacted horribly and I know he loves me and things will be amazing still. It was our anniversary and he brought me a beautiful thoughtful bracelet.
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Thank you for all your wonderful videos! 🌹🌹🌹
You’re welcome 🥰
hey shelly, can you do a video on time traveling and how to fix past mistakes that were made out of anger? love your videos!! :)
Embrace your anger 💫🌸 don’t be silent and then burst in rage at yourself and others
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The information in this video is so valuable.
Glad you enjoyed it 🙏
Yes sometimes I feel hurt but I know he did not do that willingly. And yes he regrets ever doing that to me and he will be here with me. I know this experience will make our bond strong and everlasting. It's needed so that we don't take each other for granted. He misses me as much as I do. He wants to be with me too. And we can will be. His mom will accept me.
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Lol after what happened at work yesterday, this comes up today for me as a suggested view. Guess I will watch :)
Needed to hear this today, thank you 💕😊
You’re welcome 💛
Thank you for this video. I didn’t realize I was still holding on to anger. I thought I had forgiven him, but I realize now my behavior & reaction to our break up tell me I haven’t.
I needed this so much! ❤️🙏🏻
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Thank you Shelly
Shelly you are an amazing woman✨🌹
I am so happy that I am totally free of anger for my sp, I have never been angry with him just like he doesn't have that kind of feeling for me.
Amazing!
I do take the majority of responsability for what happened with my sp. But I haven't been able to forgive myself for years. I know that I'm the one that hurt myself by creating that situation, and because I know that ''hurt people hurt other people'' I haven't been able to be open to dating someone new because I don't want to hurt them because I'm still hurt by this situation...
How do you forgive YOURSELF for creating this? That is making me very upset right now... 😭 Thank you Shelly, perfect timing! ❤
You are so welcome!🥰🙏
How to let go of anger towards your specific person.?
There are things
1st piece of letting go of anger .!
* Really recognising how you have unlimitedly created the situation with your sp.!
* example being betrayed by your sp .
* It is very easy for us to get hurt when we are in this dynamic of relationship.
* it is very us for us to feel like victim , they hurt me and I am the victim.
* This is okay , however if we want to manifest in life anything .
* we have to recognise what shows up in front us is our creation .
* it is for you realise that it showed up cause you created it.
* a self concept you expected to be betrayed .
* with expectations with your past experiences or childhood the pattern can be created .
* you don’t have to go to past and recognise . You just have to recognise right now right here.
* take responsibility right now . That you are the reason that this dynamic showed up.
* if we really take up responsibility we can really change our reality .
* we must transition from what we expect old pattern to soemthing new and fresh .
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2nd piece .!
* they were in their smaller self so was i
* This is just to take the edge of if you feel actively hurt by your sp.
* this looking to the lens from , my sp was not acting this way from their higher self instead they were doing so from their lack and fear so did even I contributed through my fear and lack.
* this is another way to look through about this dynamic .
* you are also in your smaller self when you in a relationship with them .
* cause even you realise it’s not just them but it’s even you .
* you will feel better and you will recognise your mistakes too.
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3rd piece .!
* Start the practice of forgiveness .
* forgiveness is very potent .
* forgiveness is just recognise we make mistakes and we do act from our wounded self and we do have lack state .
* and we tend to create from there .
* the way to forgive is recognise they were acting from their wounded self they were hurting , they have wound just the way I have .
* when you bring them to your own level , and let go of the egoic state .
* they were just doing best they could , even if you were hurted by the process .
* they were just doing best they could.
* when you realise this you will develop compassion towards them .
* the desire to hurt comes from wound .
* when you realise you will just develop a compassion towards them.
* and just know that things will change , they will change , I gotta work on myself .
* if you do this much things in your reality will change .
Thank You Shelly ❤️
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Shelly Bullard thank you ❤️
I struggle with this because yes I was worried he would cheat but I remember specifically saying to myself “but he would never leave his family” and he did
That blue POPS on you 💙💙💙💙💙
Thank you!
This is powerful. Thank you.
Excellent advice. Thanks.
You’re welcome!
Such a powerful message 🙏
Glad you liked it🥰
Thank You Shelly for sharing Your Videos with all of Us, I hope You are enjoying your Afternoon 🌹❤🎃🎃
You’re welcome Sharon!
I don't feel any anger towards him, I never have. ( maybe a little bit of frustration at the start of the year, but that was mainly me, and not really anything from him ) He always told me he loved my energy.
Last time I saw him he gave me the best hug. Now I just want to run into his arms and feel that again......or do the dirty dancing scene and jump into his arms and above his head 😁🤣
I seem to only really think about him when I'm watching the videos, maybe briefly during the day, but im concentrating on other manifestations now or just doing others things to take my mind off him. Trying to make the most of the sabbath before he arrives 😉 ha ha. Im super super confident in everything now. Just properly understanding everything now has made it feel so easy.
( im trying to grasp the idea of Power vs Force, which i think I understand is the difference between Trying to get your desire, to effortlessly getting your desire) but haven't quite got it yet.
The Kaballion is definitely a great book to read about the fundamentals of what we are doing, understanding the 7 laws ( law of correspondence, law of gender etc ) but I think it will take me reading it twice to have taken it in completely, but its definitely helped me ( along with your teachings) to understand E.I.Y.P.O.
MY SP IS COMING. I AM MRS CAFOLLA
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I'm going to be sharing stories very soon.
HAPPY MANIFESTING 🦄❤🧚♀️💕
Thank you Shelly
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Same with me, my anger was actually directed towards ME because of EIYPO, not him.
@@decemberclouds exactly 💯.
I just let random things get into my head. I had my doubts because of someone from my past, I was thinking he was stressed because of what had happened at work, and that he needed a bit of space, now I realise that I was projecting that onto him, and even though I know some of it was actually happening ( not just my assumption) because he had a hard time in the office.
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How beautiful is it to understand that we contribute so much to our reality. We would blame people for hurting us, but now we know that we are the power!💕
I still have instances where people hurt me, but instead of explaining it to them, I focus on me - healing myself.
And it helps 💕
@@samhitaparab it makes us see everyone/everything from a new more open perspective. I feel that even though we are connected ( the law of one) that we cannot blame ourselves for everything that we get back from people, I know its still E.I.Y.P.O, but we could get something reflected back from someone that we are not even aware of ourselves. But by getting ourselves into a good mindset we can reduce the chance of having bad things reflected back to us.
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When it’s all said and done our creation of the reality isn’t An excuse for their choice because they still chose.
But we definitely have to change our self concepts
I know I was not expecting to get rejected.
Ooh bless you Shelly! 💋 awesome
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