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From manifesting my SP, removing the 3rd party and living happily, I’ve been on this journey and it’s paying off. Every time I listen to you, I get something new and feel a little different and more capable. Even though I’m with my SP now I still come here. We practically living together now and I’ve been waiting for him to talk about him letting his apartment go as he hates going there now, he’s always at my place but now I have a different idea. I think I can start a story of marriage, we’re good together. Thank you Shelly, keep doing your thing.
@@tafadzwamaura2161why would you feel guilty for removing a 3rd party? If I believe I'm supposed to be with someone and truly love them, a 3rd party needs to go!! They're not supposed to be there!! At least not in my reality! I'll be getting a 3rd party to disappear... Like *poof! Be gone!*!! Cuz he doesn't love her, he loves me... He's just acting out of his own pain and trauma... ❤️🩹
I talked to my SP for hours this morning! I haven't heard his voice in so long. I'm so thankful for getting his call! He told me he loves me and misses me. We live in different states. He wants me to move in with him. I have circumstances that keep me from living in his state with him and the same for him. I'm letting go of all the circumstances and the old story and now I'm living in my new story that he is already living here with me! Keep persisting in your new story everyone and I promise you all will get movement! Love and light to you all!
Wow! This is amazing 💕 though me and my live in the same city, we haven't been able to meet as often as we would and I'm affiming that he's moving in my vicinity! 😉💖Coz anything is possible! And your story gives me a sign ❤️ Thank you and congratulations!
Thank you for sharing, Emma and congrats. Am affirming my bf is longing to make arrangement to live near or with me in my new story new lifestyle. Love you all♥️♥️
Good indicator that you have let go of the “old story”, you feel at peace , you feel love , calmness , your automatic thoughts are that of the “new story”. That’s been my experience anyway.
How to let go of the old story that you are still carrying about your specific person . Why I still ruminate the old story ? Why I still feel hurt ? Why we should release the old story .? * Whatever we think, feel, believe and ruminate that shapes and moulds who we are , the perception of our reality . * What are predominantly thinking , memories we go back to shape our manifestation. * if manifesting a sp and we go back and think of the old things , we impress the subconscious and we manifest the same story . * example they hurt me in past then we attract the same ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ 1.) When we start to think or ruminate the old story and if does not makes you feel good * Immediately transfer to new thought * This is all about training yourself into new pattern * When we train effectively we easily go back through new memory . * If your alone just make a motion with your hands and redirect yourself to new story . * easy way to implement this :- To a new thought /new story . + Example- you have a thought your sp ghosted you and it’s not feeling good . * and if you feel this in your reality , and you have a go to thought to make you feel a relief about this situation. * a very Potent way is to write it down , to script it. * when you write it down you sink it in Little Deeper * Have a go to thought - they feel bad about that. They were acting on their wounds . They never wanted to hurt me . They don’t like to hurt me. * Have a journal with you . Train yourself . * Push the old thought and immediately gather new thoughts . * It’s difficult but with practice and effort it will be easy . * Just refuse and cut it out . ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ 2.) Write down many new thoughts that bring you relief about your sp. * Story that makes you feel good about your sp . * the story that involves you and your sp. * particular thoughts on them that makes you feel good, better . * it’s okay if you can’t land in end result . * If you can land then it’s okie . * just explore your very particular thoughts that make you feel better + They like me having around. + They think about me + they miss me + They are attracted to me. + They are coming towards me. + I am super special to them . + they are already coming towards me. * You can have a lot of affirmations that make you feel happy and feel the end result . * Relief , wanted , cared for and loved by your sp this all your trying to feel . * what to do is with this list , you can revisit when you have negative thoughts . * don’t just mindlessly read it , your relief should go deeper . * feel the truth of the affirmation. * Take a moment to see if it’s bringing relief . * Go one by one into the affirmation. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ 3.) If you still in the phase of needing to change the old story . What’s mostly likely is happening is The practice deep knowing of end result is not anchored within you yet. * You have not practiced enough and the old story is not swayed away still because of your dominant belief system . * The way to change the dominant belief system is - practice the new thoughts , new inner reality. * To master manifestation it’s all about practice . * Practice the new inner reality and trusting the new inner vision is the current reality. * if it’s on surface level it won’t make any difference. * Close your eyes go into a deep vision . * Look how it feels when you are together over and over . And it will feel normal at the end . * It blends with outer reality . * It’s not like your looking with eyes but it’s the feeling of it . * It’s just practice of living in the end , go there over and over again . * Just practice it’s the key to manifestation. * once you live in the end you stop being swayed with old reality , old story . * Cause you know the truth that you will be together . Thank You Shelly❤️
Im a trauma girl with ptsd.. I learned from one of your previous videos to ask myself, when old stories comes up: Yes, that happend then, but what do I want NOW? It has changed so much for me💙
This is something I have been working on. Whenever my mind starts to make up a story that doesn’t feel good, I tell myself to change the story to something that does. I’m looking forward to this topic. Thank you.
Thank you so much for this video!! ❤️🙏🏼❤️ I was having such a hard time with letting go of the past hurts by my SP & therefore wasn’t able to manifest anything regarding him. It wasn’t until I realized I didn’t want a “2nd chance” with him, but a “new” relationship that I was able to put the past I’m the past. I also started thinking of him in a new positive way. Whenever I start to feel the negative thoughts come in, I immediately start feeling the new relationship & how wonderful it is. I’ve been saying a lot of self-love positive affirmations which I know has helped me raise my vibrations. Just this morning after being blocked for weeks, he unblocked me on his phone. My heart was filled with gratitude & I made sure to thank the Universe. Thank you again!!!
@@SensualBrunette ... because he texted me & I replied. We have iPhones & it lets you know when the text was delivered. If I was still blocked, it wouldn’t give me a delivered status.
We’ve pushed each other away before. 😄 When it happens I usually have a day or two of grief and questioning, but then I reject that response and fall directly and consistently into celebration mode - celebrating my life, the richness of my relationships, the beauty that surrounds me everywhere, and what I love about him. I make a daily list of “ten things I love about…..” on a purple index card (in my universe purple is the color of love 💜). The lists sit in a stack on the corner of the coffee table, and I periodically stop to read today’s list. The feelings are all warm and fuzzy ones. I keep this up while I wait for us to get back together. I know we’re getting closer to that point where we trust each other enough to stop pushing away. I’ve written about it from many lovely directions, and well……I just know. Kindness and trust are called for as we work through to retuning. 💜
Re-Writing the old story and adding/imagining a favourable outcome to it - helps you to know and allow that you are creating a story that you want , while also helping you to erase and reduce the wounds /irritation that came with the old story. Your tips in the video: transfering to a new story/thought, thinking of affs that give you relief, rewriting the story assuming that they did what they did coz they're acting out of their wounds/they don't like to hurt me - are very helpful Shelly😁❤️
I’m gonna write it out, record it in my voice notes and listen daily. Just so that I continue to heal because I haven’t had a day I don’t think about him and the other day had a nightmare. Perfect video & timing. Thanks Shelly
She is so good to me, she cares about how I feel, she wants to see me happy, she's always helping me through tough times, she is such a good person, she's always helping people and asks for nothing in return. She lives a fulfilled life. Her name is Shelly Bullard and she's helping me get--helping my girl get me. Thank you Shelly from your next success story!
I pray the universe grant your heart desires, Hey friends I got my relationship fixed with the help of a great spiritualist Who brought my ex after many months of separation,,,
I agree, when I’m more into my inner world and my inner conversations I experience a sense of peace and happiness. So my goal is going back to that as much as I can. Because it feels good.
I feel better reading the affirmations I created through scripting than affirming them in my head alone. It gets me closer to the feeling of it already manifested and it helps me focus on what I want to visualize.
I always do the first one! Since we are all wearing mask no one knows if im talking to myself loud 😂 i was like NOPE!!! He deeply loves me! Nope 👎 i do scripting too and write what i want for us and feel about us! 😊
Really sucks feeling hate and anger for someone you love. I want to see the good in him (and in people) whether I end up with the SP or not. I'm changing the story for the sake of that.
Great tips! I wonder if creating the new story will create excuses for someone else's hurtful behavior towards us, and thus cause us to not set a boundary with someone who has ghosted for e.g.
I pray the universe grant your heart desires, Hey friends I got my relationship fixed with the help of a great spiritualist Who brought my ex after many months of separation,,,
Thank you for this! I’ve been so much more aware of my thoughts and when I’m ruminating in the old story because of you!! I’m able to change my thoughts, feelings and beliefs with regard to my SP. Can you touch on the subject of outside people and their influence? Some of my family members tend to remind me of old hurts/ old story and I’m trying to just change my story about how they feel about my SP as well but it’d be good to have your perspective on this more.
When I was ghosted by my SP a little over two years ago... Without realizing it, I had of course, created that situation - because I was focused on all of these fear-based & negative thoughts at the time. Also without realizating it, I slowly began flipping the story and using those affirmations that you suggested (or similar ones)... Not consistently though as this was in early 2022, and I hadn't yet discovered manifestating. In addition, (after some time went by) I practiced complete forgiveness. I just decided to forgive absolutely, and to chose love - knowing that we can always start over again fresh. (For, past & future don't exist, only now!) My rational mind was confused & didn't understand how or why I could just forgive and let go - but the intuition to do so was very strong. After about 1 & 1/2 years went by, I had completely let go, but still thought fondly of my SP. I also had this knowing that I would hear from them again. And two years later... I did!!!❤😊
Icing on the cake of our journey together and Shelly!! Really nailed it for me with this one! Thank you again for being a part of my awakening .. could not do it with out you!!
Thank you Shelly! I know I kept having a lot of assumptions and beliefs about my SP that aren’t in conjunction with the end result I know is going to happen. I now realise I need to tweak those middle stories I tell myself about him and his attitude!
I love the idea involving physical motion to stop 🛑 the thought. (also love the other two) I know a lot of it is geared for an SP but I use a lot of your teachings to help manifest so many other things!
This actually made me realize I have the potential and the power to do so! Me and my sp have so much love and care for each other and I believe with me and my power that we are better and greater than ever
Dear Shelly, can you do a video about "How to be a loving Parent( Mother/Father). Or how to be around kids? " How or if at all you can use manifestation if children are involved? I fee so exciting about the new video.
Thank you so much. I had a good call with a friend today about this. I was saying an old story and it didn't feel good so I decided to finally let it go and start saying it how I want it. I hot and fun. Eager for my SP to return, reconcile, resolve, and heal with me and for us to be in love together. Praying for the best. Thank you Universe, I am so grateful for everything.🙏
I can’t believe this is my first time seeing this video. I needed this. I manifested my sp. But parts of the old story, that hurt me, still show up at times. I’m going to try this.
Hi Luv! 💞 YES!!!! I KNOW WHAT I KNOW! 💗 You say you're gonna do a video about 3D reality soon?! Soooo glad to hear! Thank you. Looking forward to it. A new guided meditation too, by any chance please? (It would be fabulous & lovely if you'd consider doing gender specific g.m.'s too.; like videos you did previously....) As always my friend, you're a pleasure to see and hear, and you lift my spirits daily! Much love, LL♡77 🌞 SUNNY IN OREGON TODAY! YAY!!
I always heard that self-love is important but I never really knew how to do that until I found your channel. Love your videos. :) Could you do a video about separating self-love from selfishness? I think I've been conditioned into believing that doing things for myself is selfish and my loved ones are more important than my needs. When I think about my needs and what I want I worry about being selfish. I have been called selfish in the past.
Anyone telling you that you are not allowed to love and think for yourself is selfish and toxic...Remember that...if you won't love your own self,,,you won't be able to receive and send love to others..
This was so helpful for me. I also love that you can apply the techniques you discuss in your videos to many if not all areas of our lives. Thank you Shelly!💞
Great video! I don't have a specific person but I have been trying to manifest soul mate love for the past year. I find i have so many fears and worries that I will end up alone. My love life in the past has been really tough. So i am hoping to use this technique to stop all these fear based lack thoughts and replace them with great thoughts/affirmations that epic love is for me. I would love any suggestions for affirmations that I can use to change my negative thoughts/feelings and stop being scared?!
Really helpful video, I keep rewatching it. Practical, applicable instructions and a guide of what to do, but also provides a lot of cerebral metaphysical concepts to mull over and think about. Satisfying.
@@sonyavincent7450 Yes but it's also much harder to believe when the current 3D situation is pretty bad so it will create more resistance in the mind. I think the goal here was to find something that seems more possible and easier to accepted by the mind, like a stepping stone to the next level.
Thank you Shelly! 🙏💖🙏 I so needed this today. I actually got ghosted a few days ago after spending a lovely evening with my SP and plans for a few days after 😶 he's never ditched me like that before...
Hi Shelly, I love my SP and she loves me, we had a great coverstion on Friday night. I am trying to help my SP exit an abusive relationship. MY SP told me on Friday night she is feeling bad that we are taking less. I am guessing with regards to the crazy abusive guy she is with create an image that she has dump him and will message me very soon letting me she has dump him. What I've personally notice that with me creating self love for myself is helping my SP feeling confident about herself.
I love all of your videos! This really hits Ihome. When you think of new thoughts and practice them on a daily basis. Really helps your heart, soul and mind, to rise above and transform do something more incredible! We deserve the best! I'm so happy to find your Channel! Thank you for all you do!🤩🤗💖🥀
I Needed this so bad today! I need to practice this Visualization that makes me feel really good until it feels like that’s just the way it is or what will manifest. What do I do if I feel like this person has behaved badly or treated me in a Way that is less than I deserve?
I pray the universe grant your heart desires, Hey friends I got my relationship fixed with the help of a great spiritualist Who brought my ex after many months of separation,,,
Yes, so true! Sometimes unfortunately I project my previous experiences to my SP, which I know is not a really good thing. I know that my ego contains all these past hurts and experiences which 95% of the time do not have any connection with my SP at all. What I realised is that the ego does not like changes, it stubbornly insists on things which were 'recorded' during the years. Once I start to change things the ego kicks in, and brings up things which happened years ago, when my SP was not in the picture yet. In these cases I say 'stop, delete, you (ego) have no power here/over me'. And I affirm some good things which I want to happen. It is a process, it is getting easier and easier, day by day. One more thing I'd like to add, recently I learned that for example if sg my SP does, do not serve me, I change the story. Ok, my SP did not answer to my text immediately, it will happen, my SP must be tired, wants to talk to me when nothing is stopping my SP in it. My SP does not want to hurt me, etc. It works really good.
I pray the universe grant your heart desires, Hey friends I got my relationship fixed with the help of a great spiritualist Who brought my ex after many months of separation,,,
That is so helpful. I’m already started to noticed what am I saying to myself, thanks to you. This is real deep stuff only you could teach it that well. In my core self I know you are so right. Thank you Shelly:))🌸
I’m so looking forward to doing all your videos @Shelly, I am manifesting my SP and I have to try and manifest that his Mother will change her point of view over the relationship, I’ve never met her not seen a picture of her so how do I do that.
I pray the universe grant your heart desires, Hey friends I got my relationship fixed with the help of a great spiritualist Who brought my ex after many months of separation,,,
I pray the universe grant your heart desires, Hey friends I got my relationship fixed with the help of a great spiritualist Who brought my ex after many months of separation,,,
I pray the universe grant your heart desires, Hey friends I got my relationship fixed with the help of a great spiritualist Who brought my ex after many months of separation,,,
I pray the universe grant your heart desires, Hey friends I got my relationship fixed with the help of a great spiritualist Who brought my ex after many months of separation,,,
I pray the universe grant your heart desires, Hey friends I got my relationship fixed with the help of a great spiritualist Who brought my ex after many months of separation,,,
Shelly, I've having the worst day of myself and yes I understand that I'm causing it because I am reacting to things in my reality, me doubting myself being really hard on myself then that of course leads to doubling my manifestations. I was talking to a friend and her doubts and talk about free will just really has me questioning everything. I've been doing this for two years but it's become so much more than my manifestation I'm really wanting to change my life and how I see myself but today I just feel like giving up on manifesting. I thought I was doing so well but today just has me in the dumps and I haven't felt like this for so long.😞 and sorry it's not a happy post I don't like to be a downer just hoping someone will have something to say that gets me out of this funk❤
Please don't be harsh on yourself.. Give yourself a day or two or whatever it takes to calm yourself down...Do some fun activities instead of constantly thinking abt your manifestation...It's yours once you decide that...That's it...And no,,,nobody has free will in your reality...They just mirror back your perceptions...if you think they will cheat,,,they will...if you think you guys are gonna end up together,,,it will happen...don't let any body let you that you can't have it...shally has made a video on this topic...Recharge,,,,rewind and get going...
I pray the universe grant your heart desires, Hey friends I got my relationship fixed with the help of a great spiritualist Who brought my ex after many months of separation,,,
Hi Shelly! I would love for you to touch the subject of when your SP always reminds you that your just friends, because that ruins living in the end for me. I talk with mine at least twice a week because we are best friends (actually we dated for several years, but he broke up with me 2 months ago, and now, thanks to you, I can see that I was the one who manifested that!) We broke up in good terms and stayed best friends. Sometimes I feel like I'm really living in the end but then he comes and calls me best friend and ruins everything because I remember that he doesn't love me and I'm just lying to myself. For an example, this week we did not talk so that helped because I was just focusing on thinking that he loves me and our relationship is already happening so I don't have to worry! yesterday I manifested a text from him and it worked! He asked me how I was doing and what I was doing and I got super excited and said that I was cooking. His answer was "what a great cooking chef that my best friend is" and I got really sad because it was like a slap in the face saying "nope, he really doesn't love you, you're just making that up, you just got friendzoned" and it really suuucks when this happens! Please help meeee. I love love loveeee your videos, sending you lots of love and good vibrations
Don't react to what he says...revise on the spot...no,,,you love me and you're gonna accept that...say that in your head...situations are powerless until you react to them...people manifest out of no contact zones...you are in a far better place...it's not a lie,,,,just an assumption...and an assumption if persisted upon hardens it self into reality🙏❤
Yeah, what Kanika said. You are still on good terms and in frequent contact, so affirm that every day he realizes how much he wants to be in a lasting relationship with you. He regrets that you guys ever took a break.
Thank you so much @@letsdomath1750 I am also starting to think that maybe when he says things like this I can switch it like for an example, if he sends me a text calling me best friend, I can just look at it and be in my head like "yes! of course we are best friends, I am your best friend, and you are mine, that's how I see my perfect relationship! the base of our relatioship is friendship, trust, respect and soo much love for each other!" :)
I'm really confused...psychotherapy teaches us to face situations and feelings in order to overcome them, while manifesting teaches us to turn our focus away from what we dont want...what's your take on this, guys?
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@@misss827 It's not out yet...it will be coming out in a week or so and if you put your name on the list, you will receive notification when it's out
I am in wait list dear Shelly.
From manifesting my SP, removing the 3rd party and living happily, I’ve been on this journey and it’s paying off. Every time I listen to you, I get something new and feel a little different and more capable. Even though I’m with my SP now I still come here. We practically living together now and I’ve been waiting for him to talk about him letting his apartment go as he hates going there now, he’s always at my place but now I have a different idea. I think I can start a story of marriage, we’re good together. Thank you Shelly, keep doing your thing.
Hie dear. How did you eliminate a third party and not feel guilty about it?
Thank you for the hope.
Update?
@@tafadzwamaura2161why would you feel guilty for removing a 3rd party? If I believe I'm supposed to be with someone and truly love them, a 3rd party needs to go!! They're not supposed to be there!! At least not in my reality! I'll be getting a 3rd party to disappear... Like *poof! Be gone!*!! Cuz he doesn't love her, he loves me... He's just acting out of his own pain and trauma... ❤️🩹
I talked to my SP for hours this morning! I haven't heard his voice in so long. I'm so thankful for getting his call! He told me he loves me and misses me. We live in different states. He wants me to move in with him. I have circumstances that keep me from living in his state with him and the same for him. I'm letting go of all the circumstances and the old story and now I'm living in my new story that he is already living here with me! Keep persisting in your new story everyone and I promise you all will get movement! Love and light to you all!
Wow! This is amazing 💕 though me and my live in the same city, we haven't been able to meet as often as we would and I'm affiming that he's moving in my vicinity! 😉💖Coz anything is possible!
And your story gives me a sign ❤️
Thank you and congratulations!
@@samhitaparab you're very welcome and thank you! Yes anything is possible! Keep the Faith! We got this!
@@emmarose2369 we got this❤️❤️
Thank you for sharing, Emma and congrats. Am affirming my bf is longing to make arrangement to live near or with me in my new story new lifestyle. Love you all♥️♥️
@@cherrylmao2234 you're very welcome and thank you! You got this! Love ya ❤
Good indicator that you have let go of the “old story”, you feel at peace , you feel love , calmness , your automatic thoughts are that of the “new story”.
That’s been my experience anyway.
How to let go of the old story that you are still carrying about your specific person .
Why I still ruminate the old story ?
Why I still feel hurt ?
Why we should release the old story .?
* Whatever we think, feel, believe and ruminate that shapes and moulds who we are , the perception of our reality .
* What are predominantly thinking , memories we go back to shape our manifestation.
* if manifesting a sp and we go back and think of the old things , we impress the subconscious and we manifest the same story .
* example they hurt me in past then we attract the same
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1.) When we start to think or ruminate the old story and if does not makes you feel good
* Immediately transfer to new thought
* This is all about training yourself into new pattern
* When we train effectively we easily go back through new memory .
* If your alone just make a motion with your hands and redirect yourself to new story .
* easy way to implement this :-
To a new thought /new story .
+ Example- you have a thought your sp ghosted you and it’s not feeling good .
* and if you feel this in your reality , and you have a go to thought to make you feel a relief about this situation.
* a very Potent way is to write it down , to script it.
* when you write it down you sink it in Little Deeper
* Have a go to thought - they feel bad about that.
They were acting on their wounds .
They never wanted to hurt me .
They don’t like to hurt me.
* Have a journal with you . Train yourself .
* Push the old thought and immediately gather new thoughts .
* It’s difficult but with practice and effort it will be easy .
* Just refuse and cut it out .
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2.) Write down many new thoughts that bring you relief about your sp.
* Story that makes you feel good about your sp .
* the story that involves you and your sp.
* particular thoughts on them that makes you feel good, better .
* it’s okay if you can’t land in end result .
* If you can land then it’s okie .
* just explore your very particular thoughts that make you feel better
+ They like me having around.
+ They think about me
+ they miss me
+ They are attracted to me.
+ They are coming towards me.
+ I am super special to them .
+ they are already coming towards me.
* You can have a lot of affirmations that make you feel happy and feel the end result .
* Relief , wanted , cared for and loved by your sp this all your trying to feel .
* what to do is with this list , you can revisit when you have negative thoughts .
* don’t just mindlessly read it , your relief should go deeper .
* feel the truth of the affirmation.
* Take a moment to see if it’s bringing relief .
* Go one by one into the affirmation.
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3.) If you still in the phase of needing to change the old story .
What’s mostly likely is happening is
The practice deep knowing of end result is not anchored within you yet.
* You have not practiced enough and the old story is not swayed away still because of your dominant belief system .
* The way to change the dominant belief system is - practice the new thoughts , new inner reality.
* To master manifestation it’s all about practice .
* Practice the new inner reality and trusting the new inner vision is the current reality.
* if it’s on surface level it won’t make any difference.
* Close your eyes go into a deep vision .
* Look how it feels when you are together over and over . And it will feel normal at the end .
* It blends with outer reality .
* It’s not like your looking with eyes but it’s the feeling of it .
* It’s just practice of living in the end , go there over and over again .
* Just practice it’s the key to manifestation.
* once you live in the end you stop being swayed with old reality , old story .
* Cause you know the truth that you will be together .
Thank You Shelly❤️
Thank you ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you Richal, really appreciate your notes ❤️
@@Blessings313 you’re welcome 😇
@@samhitaparab you’re welcome 😇
Thank you very much Richal.....💫🙏
Im a trauma girl with ptsd..
I learned from one of your previous videos to ask myself, when old stories comes up:
Yes, that happend then, but what do I want NOW?
It has changed so much for me💙
This is something I have been working on. Whenever my mind starts to make up a story that doesn’t feel good, I tell myself to change the story to something that does. I’m looking forward to this topic. Thank you.
Thank you so much for this video!! ❤️🙏🏼❤️ I was having such a hard time with letting go of the past hurts by my SP & therefore wasn’t able to manifest anything regarding him. It wasn’t until I realized I didn’t want a “2nd chance” with him, but a “new” relationship that I was able to put the past I’m the past. I also started thinking of him in a new positive way. Whenever I start to feel the negative thoughts come in, I immediately start feeling the new relationship & how wonderful it is. I’ve been saying a lot of self-love positive affirmations which I know has helped me raise my vibrations. Just this morning after being blocked for weeks, he unblocked me on his phone. My heart was filled with gratitude & I made sure to thank the Universe. Thank you again!!!
how do you know he unblocked you on the phone?
@@SensualBrunette ... because he texted me & I replied. We have iPhones & it lets you know when the text was delivered. If I was still blocked, it wouldn’t give me a delivered status.
@@ginadehoyos2423 ohh ok. well im happy for you!
So glad to hear that!🥰
We’ve pushed each other away before. 😄 When it happens I usually have a day or two of grief and questioning, but then I reject that response and fall directly and consistently into celebration mode - celebrating my life, the richness of my relationships, the beauty that surrounds me everywhere, and what I love about him.
I make a daily list of “ten things I love about…..” on a purple index card (in my universe purple is the color of love 💜). The lists sit in a stack on the corner of the coffee table, and I periodically stop to read today’s list. The feelings are all warm and fuzzy ones. I keep this up while I wait for us to get back together. I know we’re getting closer to that point where we trust each other enough to stop pushing away. I’ve written about it from many lovely directions, and well……I just know. Kindness and trust are called for as we work through to retuning. 💜
and how about now?
Re-Writing the old story and adding/imagining a favourable outcome to it - helps you to know and allow that you are creating a story that you want , while also helping you to erase and reduce the wounds /irritation that came with the old story.
Your tips in the video: transfering to a new story/thought, thinking of affs that give you relief, rewriting the story assuming that they did what they did coz they're acting out of their wounds/they don't like to hurt me - are very helpful Shelly😁❤️
You are the soothing of my heart 😍
I’m gonna write it out, record it in my voice notes and listen daily. Just so that I continue to heal because I haven’t had a day I don’t think about him and the other day had a nightmare. Perfect video & timing. Thanks Shelly
Your Welcome🥰
She is so good to me, she cares about how I feel, she wants to see me happy, she's always helping me through tough times, she is such a good person, she's always helping people and asks for nothing in return. She lives a fulfilled life. Her name is Shelly Bullard and she's helping me get--helping my girl get me. Thank you Shelly from your next success story!
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shellyyyy you loookkkk firreeee!!!!!!
While watching this video, I was writing the new stories about me and my SP in my journal. Ohhhh... The stories make me smile all the time... 😍
Wonderful!
I agree, when I’m more into my inner world and my inner conversations I experience a sense of peace and happiness. So my goal is going back to that as much as I can. Because it feels good.
I feel better reading the affirmations I created through scripting than affirming them in my head alone. It gets me closer to the feeling of it already manifested and it helps me focus on what I want to visualize.
There are times you need a revision, thank you Shelly for keeping us on track
Your Welcome.🥰
I always do the first one! Since we are all wearing mask no one knows if im talking to myself loud 😂 i was like NOPE!!! He deeply loves me! Nope 👎 i do scripting too and write what i want for us and feel about us! 😊
Every sentence from this video is so deep and meaningful. Thanks a lot Shelly, you are helping so many change their lives for better!❤
I always say, my SP would never hurt me.
This is a nice affirmation
You're manifesting hurt by saying that. Dont use negative words. Better to say my sp will always protect my heart.. or something similar
@@obehianita4938 Good point! I dumped her anyway. She is a narcissist! 😂
@@lucytupper69 You created her to be one :)
@@godsfavcreator Wrong! Narcs are made in HELL! 👹
something i needed i didn’t know I needed
Really sucks feeling hate and anger for someone you love. I want to see the good in him (and in people) whether I end up with the SP or not. I'm changing the story for the sake of that.
You speak to the heart and with so much kindness 🤗
Thank you for seeing that.
Great tips! I wonder if creating the new story will create excuses for someone else's hurtful behavior towards us, and thus cause us to not set a boundary with someone who has ghosted for e.g.
This is the most important video I have watched in a very long time. Perfect timing to help and support me at the moment. Thank you
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Omg your eyes are intense in this video I did a double take they are so pretty!
Thank you for this! I’ve been so much more aware of my thoughts and when I’m ruminating in the old story because of you!! I’m able to change my thoughts, feelings and beliefs with regard to my SP. Can you touch on the subject of outside people and their influence? Some of my family members tend to remind me of old hurts/ old story and I’m trying to just change my story about how they feel about my SP as well but it’d be good to have your perspective on this more.
This is NOT a video! This is a masterpiece!!!!!⚘⚘⚘
thank you!
@@ShellyBullard thank YOU!!! Such a great video!!!
When I was ghosted by my SP a little over two years ago... Without realizing it, I had of course, created that situation - because I was focused on all of these fear-based & negative thoughts at the time. Also without realizating it, I slowly began flipping the story and using those affirmations that you suggested (or similar ones)... Not consistently though as this was in early 2022, and I hadn't yet discovered manifestating. In addition, (after some time went by) I practiced complete forgiveness. I just decided to forgive absolutely, and to chose love - knowing that we can always start over again fresh. (For, past & future don't exist, only now!) My rational mind was confused & didn't understand how or why I could just forgive and let go - but the intuition to do so was very strong.
After about 1 & 1/2 years went by, I had completely let go, but still thought fondly of my SP. I also had this knowing that I would hear from them again. And two years later...
I did!!!❤😊
Awesome!
Icing on the cake of our journey together and Shelly!!
Really nailed it for me with this one!
Thank you again for being a part of my awakening .. could not do it with out you!!
Thank you Shelly! I know I kept having a lot of assumptions and beliefs about my SP that aren’t in conjunction with the end result I know is going to happen. I now realise I need to tweak those middle stories I tell myself about him and his attitude!
These are really good ideas 😊😊 and I work remotely so I can definitely wave my hands constantly with no worries 😊😊
Loving your glamorous hollywood moviestar look today Shelly
I used to wear black a lot... I don't wear it so much now but I loved the black vibe in this outfit. Going to start wearing more black again ;)
I was thinking the same x
This is a brilliant video. I now know that I need to change my belief system to my SP always texts me asking me to go out! Exciting! ♥️
I’m so happy you liked it.
Loooove your cup with M for Michelle ❤️
And poppies and gold.. Ohhhh love it!
YEEES! You noticed that! Love it!
I love the idea involving physical motion to stop 🛑 the thought. (also love the other two) I know a lot of it is geared for an SP but I use a lot of your teachings to help manifest so many other things!
Nice!
This actually made me realize I have the potential and the power to do so! Me and my sp have so much love and care for each other and I believe with me and my power that we are better and greater than ever
Shelly, this was your best video yet. Wow!
Glad you think so!🥰🙏
Dear Shelly, can you do a video about "How to be a loving Parent( Mother/Father). Or how to be around kids? " How or if at all you can use manifestation if children are involved? I fee so exciting about the new video.
I'm not a parent so I don't feel it's really my place to talk about it. However, the same techniques/tools would be used ;)
@@ShellyBullard Thanks Shelly.
Good wisdom. We need mind renewal. And Dont make idols of people we lost.
This will definitely benefit me! ♥️ I will have to watch the replay later ... thank you in advance Shelly! 💗💗
You are so welcome!🎉🥰
You are working wonderfully well. Best Wishes!
This was exactly the issue that was on my mind the past days. Thanks so much!
You're so welcome! 😍
Thank you so much. I had a good call with a friend today about this. I was saying an old story and it didn't feel good so I decided to finally let it go and start saying it how I want it. I hot and fun. Eager for my SP to return, reconcile, resolve, and heal with me and for us to be in love together. Praying for the best. Thank you Universe, I am so grateful for everything.🙏
I dont need this video but watching it as an excuse to see Shelly..
I watch all videos even if I don't feel I need them!
Awwww....❤️
Found this very elaborative, practical, and real. Thank you so much Shelly ❤️
I can’t believe this is my first time seeing this video. I needed this. I manifested my sp. But parts of the old story, that hurt me, still show up at times. I’m going to try this.
I'm so happy it resonated for you. Makes me so happy!
Hi Luv! 💞 YES!!!!
I KNOW WHAT I KNOW!
💗 You say you're gonna do a video about 3D reality soon?! Soooo glad to hear! Thank you. Looking forward to it. A new guided meditation too, by any chance please?
(It would be fabulous & lovely if you'd consider doing gender specific g.m.'s too.; like videos you did previously....)
As always my friend, you're a pleasure to see and hear, and you lift my spirits daily! Much love, LL♡77
🌞 SUNNY IN OREGON TODAY! YAY!!
You look stunning! 🖤
Oh thank you! Appreciated!
perfect timing ..love you
Shelly Bullard!!! This is the best video! I cannot believe this is free content!! So much love to you! Thank you for this! ❤️
Awwww....thank you so much🥰
I always heard that self-love is important but I never really knew how to do that until I found your channel. Love your videos. :) Could you do a video about separating self-love from selfishness? I think I've been conditioned into believing that doing things for myself is selfish and my loved ones are more important than my needs. When I think about my needs and what I want I worry about being selfish. I have been called selfish in the past.
Anyone telling you that you are not allowed to love and think for yourself is selfish and toxic...Remember that...if you won't love your own self,,,you won't be able to receive and send love to others..
I’m so happy you liked it. 🎉
This was so helpful for me. I also love that you can apply the techniques you discuss in your videos to many if not all areas of our lives. Thank you Shelly!💞
So glad you liked it!🥰
Thank you, my wonderful Shelly, it's always such a joy to see you😊🌹
You are so welcome!💖💖💖
Awesome video! Looking beautifuul Shelly!
444 Views 😍 It is a good sign. Love it 🌈🙏🏼
@@RT-nv4pn What do you mean with "It's no sign" ???
@@RT-nv4pn OH yeah, I know. Yes definitely 🙏🏼❤️.
Great video! I don't have a specific person but I have been trying to manifest soul mate love for the past year. I find i have so many fears and worries that I will end up alone. My love life in the past has been really tough. So i am hoping to use this technique to stop all these fear based lack thoughts and replace them with great thoughts/affirmations that epic love is for me. I would love any suggestions for affirmations that I can use to change my negative thoughts/feelings and stop being scared?!
Third time watching this... love you Shelly 💕
Thank you Shelly 🙏 This is really the first time I've had clarity on this topic.
Glad it was helpful!🙏
Thanks Shelly for this video. This is what I really need it. It came in the right moment because I was going crazy with my old story.
Excellent video - great points and you look beautiful in it!
I thought I was doing great but had 2 dreams of them walking away and ignoring me I was confused in my dream wondering where they went..
Keep persisting. You'll change your dreams and then reality will follow.
Really helpful video, I keep rewatching it. Practical, applicable instructions and a guide of what to do, but also provides a lot of cerebral metaphysical concepts to mull over and think about. Satisfying.
Glad it was helpful!🥰
Needed this video and those affirmations, thank you!
This is very helpful!
For the replacement thought, would the following be good:
My SP realizes he should choose me.
I like this, seems like a good "transition thought" because it's a very positive change but not too "out there".
I think " I'm so glad we are together now" would be stronger, because it bypasses the element of choice and goes straight to the end. X
@@sonyavincent7450 Yes but it's also much harder to believe when the current 3D situation is pretty bad so it will create more resistance in the mind. I think the goal here was to find something that seems more possible and easier to accepted by the mind, like a stepping stone to the next level.
Yes you are right, you have to choose an affirmation that feels believable for you. Good luck!
Thank you Shelly ❤️💖
You are so welcome! 🥰🙏
Hi Shelly , thanks for the vídeo! Looking more beautiful on each vídeo, I wish I was as pretty as you are ❤
Awwww....
thank you.🥰
I love your content! ❤ at times I feel I’m delusional when I do this or like come on, there’s no way. What would you recommend?
I loved that you included everything in this video! And that it was extra long 😍 You are amazing Shelly ❤
Yay! Thank you!
Great video! I also feel that writing down your affirmations helps a lot, I feel the energy has been released.
So glad you liked it!💜
Thank you Shelly! 🙏💖🙏 I so needed this today. I actually got ghosted a few days ago after spending a lovely evening with my SP and plans for a few days after 😶 he's never ditched me like that before...
Awww!💖
Hi Shelly, I love my SP and she loves me, we had a great coverstion on Friday night. I am trying to help my SP exit an abusive relationship. MY SP told me on Friday night she is feeling bad that we are taking less. I am guessing with regards to the crazy abusive guy she is with create an image that she has dump him and will message me very soon letting me she has dump him. What I've personally notice that with me creating self love for myself is helping my SP feeling confident about herself.
I love all of your videos! This really hits Ihome. When you think of new thoughts and practice them on a daily basis. Really helps your heart, soul and mind, to rise above and transform do something more incredible! We deserve the best! I'm so happy to find your Channel! Thank you for all you do!🤩🤗💖🥀
Glad you like them! 😍
Funny I was just thinking about searching up this 'exact' topic and there you showed up. Love the way you explain things.
Glad it was helpful!
I really needed this today - thank you for this amazing video 💖 you’re such a blessing!
You are so welcome!❤️
Yes! It’s like Jesus said. “ Forgive!”
I have manifested this 🤩🤩🤩🤩
Wow Congratulations!
I Needed this so bad today! I need to practice this Visualization that makes me feel really good until it feels like that’s just the way it is or what will manifest. What do I do if I feel like this person has behaved badly or treated me in a Way that is less than I deserve?
Make that part of the old story. You will only accept the new story and new version of him.
Thankyou ! The timing of your message is perfect
You are so welcome🥰
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Totally agreé with you, dear. That's what I've been doing lately. Thx
I’m so glad it resonated.
Yes, so true! Sometimes unfortunately I project my previous experiences to my SP, which I know is not a really good thing. I know that my ego contains all these past hurts and experiences which 95% of the time do not have any connection with my SP at all. What I realised is that the ego does not like changes, it stubbornly insists on things which were 'recorded' during the years. Once I start to change things the ego kicks in, and brings up things which happened years ago, when my SP was not in the picture yet. In these cases I say 'stop, delete, you (ego) have no power here/over me'. And I affirm some good things which I want to happen. It is a process, it is getting easier and easier, day by day.
One more thing I'd like to add, recently I learned that for example if sg my SP does, do not serve me, I change the story. Ok, my SP did not answer to my text immediately, it will happen, my SP must be tired, wants to talk to me when nothing is stopping my SP in it. My SP does not want to hurt me, etc. It works really good.
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This is very helpful. Thank you
That is so helpful. I’m already started to noticed what am I saying to myself, thanks to you.
This is real deep stuff only you could teach it that well. In my core self I know you are so right.
Thank you Shelly:))🌸
Wonderful!💖
Thank you Shelly. Loved this one
So glad you liked it!💛
I’m so looking forward to doing all your videos @Shelly, I am manifesting my SP and I have to try and manifest that his Mother will change her point of view over the relationship, I’ve never met her not seen a picture of her so how do I do that.
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I know it’s true ☺️
This was so incredible!
I’m so happy you liked it. 🥰
Another great video and great teachings. Thank you, Shelly 💛
Awww! You are so welcome!
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This will definitely help me💪because i constantly go back to the old story but now i know🤗Thank you
Your welcome.🥰
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I think i manifested this
Loved this ❤ cant wait too see whats happening soon!!!
I’m so happy you loved it. ❤️
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Looking lovely Shelly 🤗
Thank you! Cheers!
Absolute Angel ❤️ Thank you Shelly.
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My sp is reaching out to me as usual
Shelly, I've having the worst day of myself and yes I understand that I'm causing it because I am reacting to things in my reality, me doubting myself being really hard on myself then that of course leads to doubling my manifestations. I was talking to a friend and her doubts and talk about free will just really has me questioning everything. I've been doing this for two years but it's become so much more than my manifestation I'm really wanting to change my life and how I see myself but today I just feel like giving up on manifesting. I thought I was doing so well but today just has me in the dumps and I haven't felt like this for so long.😞 and sorry it's not a happy post I don't like to be a downer just hoping someone will have something to say that gets me out of this funk❤
Please don't be harsh on yourself..
Give yourself a day or two or whatever it takes to calm yourself down...Do some fun activities instead of constantly thinking abt your manifestation...It's yours once you decide that...That's it...And no,,,nobody has free will in your reality...They just mirror back your perceptions...if you think they will cheat,,,they will...if you think you guys are gonna end up together,,,it will happen...don't let any body let you that you can't have it...shally has made a video on this topic...Recharge,,,,rewind and get going...
@@i.y.o.k3914 thank you so much for your words. Sending you ❤
@@jenniferpeters9821 Sending you love and healing...Take care...you are precious❤🙏
Such a good video!! Thank you
You're so welcome! I'm glad you like it! 💖
Another great video, thank you Shelly
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Hi Shelly! I would love for you to touch the subject of when your SP always reminds you that your just friends, because that ruins living in the end for me. I talk with mine at least twice a week because we are best friends (actually we dated for several years, but he broke up with me 2 months ago, and now, thanks to you, I can see that I was the one who manifested that!) We broke up in good terms and stayed best friends. Sometimes I feel like I'm really living in the end but then he comes and calls me best friend and ruins everything because I remember that he doesn't love me and I'm just lying to myself. For an example, this week we did not talk so that helped because I was just focusing on thinking that he loves me and our relationship is already happening so I don't have to worry! yesterday I manifested a text from him and it worked! He asked me how I was doing and what I was doing and I got super excited and said that I was cooking. His answer was "what a great cooking chef that my best friend is" and I got really sad because it was like a slap in the face saying "nope, he really doesn't love you, you're just making that up, you just got friendzoned" and it really suuucks when this happens! Please help meeee. I love love loveeee your videos, sending you lots of love and good vibrations
Don't react to what he says...revise on the spot...no,,,you love me and you're gonna accept that...say that in your head...situations are powerless until you react to them...people manifest out of no contact zones...you are in a far better place...it's not a lie,,,,just an assumption...and an assumption if persisted upon hardens it self into reality🙏❤
Yeah, what Kanika said. You are still on good terms and in frequent contact, so affirm that every day he realizes how much he wants to be in a lasting relationship with you. He regrets that you guys ever took a break.
@@i.y.o.k3914 Thank you sooo much, have a nice day :)
Thank you so much @@letsdomath1750 I am also starting to think that maybe when he says things like this I can switch it like for an example, if he sends me a text calling me best friend, I can just look at it and be in my head like "yes! of course we are best friends, I am your best friend, and you are mine, that's how I see my perfect relationship! the base of our relatioship is friendship, trust, respect and soo much love for each other!" :)
@@CarolBieliber You go girl🙌
I'm really confused...psychotherapy teaches us to face situations and feelings in order to overcome them, while manifesting teaches us to turn our focus away from what we dont want...what's your take on this, guys?