Really resonates! I ended things with my SP in October last year because the relationship was no longer serving me anymore, and I've been grieving ever since. This video really helped cement the idea that I just simply have to let go now because continuously grieving and overthinking the situation, wishing he would come back, wishing I had that validation, that attention, is not only making me feel shit, but is pushing him away further. So I can't wait to tap into my highest self, my feminine energy, and let go. Thanks Natalie xx
My SP person ended our relationship because she said she needed to fix her self i respect her decision still want her more then ever but i know i need to let her go 😢😊
Non attachment occurs when we let go of old self and old beliefs. I choose happiness regardless. I am radiating love, kindness and forgiveness. Freedom always feels wonderful 🎉
Focus on loving you! Being the love you seek that’s v important! That’s why when we look for love outside of us it’s not working the way we want! When you truly love who you are you radiate love you’re then aligned to it! Write down the love you want put it away and become the love you seek! I have a self love workshop that dives into healing so you can become this or my radiate confidence workshop is incredible for becoming the person that radiates from The inside out and also it provides beautiful guided meditations to getting into that feeling of the love you do deserve! Links below this video xxx
This is great. For me it was an abdonment wound that was strife in me that lead my life in many ways. I’d recommend looking into that if it resonates. Since releasing that, my vibration has raised. So when I look at my resistance in how I think things should be, I let go and add that leaking energy back to myself. It’s amazing the orchestration in your life that happens in a positive way.
I thought about all the things I've ever wanted that i thought i needed and when i got them, it might not have been everything or quite what I wanted but i was still ok with what i got.
Now, instead of just letting go, my thoughts are on coming up with negative reasons why I must/need to let go. I need to find a blank/neutral state of mind. It feels like withdrawals-- SP was my focus for a year. Even though I was still busy doing my life, thoughts of him were always motivating me-- I got so many awesome things accomplished that100% benefited me because I wanted to be better in his eyes-- he inspired me. Everyone thought I was amazing for what I've accomplished and now I don't have that fire, that drive, that excitement. I know that there needs to be a space to step into, rather than crowded out of, and detaching is the only way. But it feels like a void. An emptiness. How do you manifest and let go at the same time?
@@Firefly-ht9fp I understand. My thoughts of SP were always so happy and fun and sparkly. I have a good life, and I'm in a good place, yet it feels flat now. How do you get that uplifted feeling from within?
@@MIMIDSH - Today is my Self-Care day. I am just going to do things that make me happy and hope this sad, feeling of dread just goes away. He and I were good, and we had a stupid disagreement on Wednesday, and since then, it's has been silence. I need to put myself out there rather continue to mourn for a man who simply does not care. So sorry you are in the same "boat" as me...
@@Firefly-ht9fp I wish you the best. My issue is-- he finally confessed his feelings for me, and that seems to have terrified him and so he backed off. Meanwhile, I learned he had started a project that includes in-depth collaboration with a new woman (who is clearly interested in him). Half the time I'm angry and want it to fail, and then I'm telling myself to let go with love, this is HIS journey, and then I'm also trying to keep manifesting that we're together. Meanwhile, he's got something new to pursue and I'm feeling empty as I try new things. Let's keep sailing.
The way you explain with so much feeling and real life scenarios is just so beautiful and helps so much because you make it relatable. Thank you ever so much… 💗
Thank you Natalie!! I think of my SP All the time yet its more of a NEED THAN PLEASURE !! I just need to let go and work on my reason for needing this!!
Yay! You’re v welcome! If you need a little more guidance, check out my newest reel on instagram! Link below or take a look at my new premium service offering The Collective! 🔗 below. Such amazing stuff in there xx much love ❤️❤️❤️
This is super helpful, Natalie!! I like the idea of having a specific process. I will certainly add to my practice. Saw movement with SP this weekend as well. Now, not to react to 3D (or at least for too long) lol
You are amazing Natalie!😊 I don't NEED some things, but it would be so very helpful. I did send him a ❤ just to let him know I still love him. And then about 1/2 hr ago, he called but I couldn't answer bc I was working. Then about a week after, I sent another but this time I saw that he read it right away. We've been in no contact for 3 months... now 4 months... I've been trying to do my life while thinking of him only once in a while
❤❤ oh wow that’s so where I’m at right now. I need to loop that. I detach then reattach now need to detach again. Thank you Natalie again that was spot on xx
1st of all tqsm🌹 fr this 1st lengthy video of urs👏.. this is hw it should be.. u told to accept ppl/ things as it is ... Saying is easy bt the way they be disloyal to us hurts us & make us validate them feeling very bad.. the thing is we will never expect anything frm them bt they take advantage of us like a blood sucker instead of seeing our efforts & valuing us.. in all those scenarios hw can we actually deal with it? In the way of accepting.. pls make a video on it separately like the scenarios that comes accross us & who to change our thoughts & deal with it... Guys who feel this is needed pls like this comment if u can read it full....
This video came in a rightful moment! Thank you for the insights Natalie! During the process of letting go and detaching should stop the specific affirmations or should keep with generic affirmations instead? Sometimes I feel that during this negative or sadness waves (is really a rollercoaster of emotions) doing sp affirmations makes me wanna cry and other times makes me smile, it is so challenging to not look to the 3D or to think the circumstances don’t matter. And other times when I don’t feel like doing any sp affirmations or visualizations, things feel lighter, I do realize my biggest challenge is fulfilling my own life because many of my dreams/goals were shared with that person and reality is that I do want that person back but also I want a better version of her while I know I don’t need her to achieve my own goals, never did. Quite funky moment 🙈
Thanks, Natalie. Great video. Though I can't seem to wrap around my head as to how we should live in the end result and let go of the desire that we don't need this specific thing/person in our life. Can you please tell more about this or if you already talked about this in old videos, can you refer to me? Thanks,
My SP abandoned me because of his need to grow his business, looking after his princess teenager daughter and needy ex wife who is happy with her daughter dating rich kid . He feels great seeing his daughter and ex wife relationship improving
Thank you so much for your video. I have been trying to manifest my SP for the last 6 months and haven't gotten anywhere. I felt that if I let go I was giving up and I really love him. But after listening to you I have started to let go and feel so much better and have to hope that the universe can now start to bring him to me.
This!! I'm going through a break up and this is exactly how I feel. I'm scared to let go because manifestation states to never doubt or give up what you want but nothing is happening and I'm still so sad. I feel like if I stop trying to manifest him I would be losing the hope of him coming back. I want to be happy but I want to be happy with him. I feel guilt if I just let go because I feel like I'm giving up on him even though he broke it off with me. How can you put all your energy into manifesting someone (what they tell you to do if you want it to become true) but also let go and pull your energy towards yourself at the same time?
Totally. After eight months, no xmas/New Year message, absolutely nothing, it's a good idea to really let go. It's a damn shame though, especially after being really good to the person. Oh well.
Lovely video Natalie I'm finding your talks very helpful thank you 🌷 Living in the end state even in no contact is helping me feel so much better I was so afraid my depression would swallow me whole. Tell me dear, if I detach, how does that square with this practice? I want to detach but is it safe?
I am enough! I am happy.. SP announced sleeping back together in one bed with the third party after years of sleeping apart. How to manifest the positive in this?
Hi, I`m Natalie`s Email Coach. Try not to focus on that too much. Instead tell yourself that everything is resolved now and your SP is very loving and caring to you again. Conny xx
What if your living in the end. I know I don't need my specific person. I focusing on me. No longer feel the need to reach out. But I am in the knowing it is mine. Now. X
Natalie I am taking your advice. In your testimony of how your sp came back within months. However you mentioned that your sp ex and you only broke less than a 6 months. What if I have been broke up for a year and my sp ex has been dating another person now for 8 months. Does what you teach still apply? Thank you Sonny
Thank you for replying I’m literally watching this now I just had such a great connection with this guy and he said the feeling was mutual yet he is now pulled away due to a apparent health issue with his mum is not replying to any of my messages and straight up ghosting me I’m hoping it is a problem with him and a time he will realise the love that we had because he showed this I’m just struggling to let this go
Looks like you’re holding onto some Beliefs that go against what you want. What are your true beliefs you need to write them down and flip the story to empowering beliefs. If you need more help I do offer coaching services and all the links are below the video xxx
Really resonates! I ended things with my SP in October last year because the relationship was no longer serving me anymore, and I've been grieving ever since. This video really helped cement the idea that I just simply have to let go now because continuously grieving and overthinking the situation, wishing he would come back, wishing I had that validation, that attention, is not only making me feel shit, but is pushing him away further. So I can't wait to tap into my highest self, my feminine energy, and let go. Thanks Natalie xx
My SP person ended our relationship because she said she needed to fix her self i respect her decision still want her more then ever but i know i need to let her go 😢😊
Work on you too! You deserve to be the one chosen! Xx
Non attachment occurs when we let go of old self and old beliefs. I choose happiness regardless. I am radiating love, kindness and forgiveness. Freedom always feels wonderful 🎉
I understand what you're saying, but I just can't find that loving relationship that I want. I don't what else to try.
Focus on loving you! Being the love you seek that’s v important! That’s why when we look for love outside of us it’s not working the way we want! When you truly love who you are you radiate love you’re then aligned to it! Write down the love you want put it away and become the love you seek! I have a self love workshop that dives into healing so you can become this or my radiate confidence workshop is incredible for becoming the person that radiates from The inside out and also it provides beautiful guided meditations to getting into that feeling of the love you do deserve! Links below this video xxx
It is difficult, but I am going to try every day, one day I will succeed in it and everything will change, thank you Natalie.
This is great. For me it was an abdonment wound that was strife in me that lead my life in many ways. I’d recommend looking into that if it resonates. Since releasing that, my vibration has raised. So when I look at my resistance in how I think things should be, I let go and add that leaking energy back to myself. It’s amazing the orchestration in your life that happens in a positive way.
💯 It all starts with your own self belief!
Love this reminder, Natalie! Fear can keep us in a frustrating loop that holds us back. Thank you for all of your content. You are amazing!❤
I thought about all the things I've ever wanted that i thought i needed and when i got them, it might not have been everything or quite what I wanted but i was still ok with what i got.
Now, instead of just letting go, my thoughts are on coming up with negative reasons why I must/need to let go. I need to find a blank/neutral state of mind.
It feels like withdrawals-- SP was my focus for a year. Even though I was still busy doing my life, thoughts of him were always motivating me-- I got so many awesome things accomplished that100% benefited me because I wanted to be better in his eyes-- he inspired me. Everyone thought I was amazing for what I've accomplished and now I don't have that fire, that drive, that excitement.
I know that there needs to be a space to step into, rather than crowded out of, and detaching is the only way. But it feels like a void. An emptiness. How do you manifest and let go at the same time?
I am feeling that same way right now. A void. A feeling of emptiness. I need to be free and feel free of those thoughts
@@Firefly-ht9fp I understand. My thoughts of SP were always so happy and fun and sparkly. I have a good life, and I'm in a good place, yet it feels flat now. How do you get that uplifted feeling from within?
@@MIMIDSH - Today is my Self-Care day. I am just going to do things that make me happy and hope this sad, feeling of dread just goes away. He and I were good, and we had a stupid disagreement on Wednesday, and since then, it's has been silence. I need to put myself out there rather continue to mourn for a man who simply does not care. So sorry you are in the same "boat" as me...
@@Firefly-ht9fp I wish you the best. My issue is-- he finally confessed his feelings for me, and that seems to have terrified him and so he backed off. Meanwhile, I learned he had started a project that includes in-depth collaboration with a new woman (who is clearly interested in him). Half the time I'm angry and want it to fail, and then I'm telling myself to let go with love, this is HIS journey, and then I'm also trying to keep manifesting that we're together. Meanwhile, he's got something new to pursue and I'm feeling empty as I try new things. Let's keep sailing.
Do you mean you go your SP and that left a void?
The way you explain with so much feeling and real life scenarios is just so beautiful and helps so much because you make it relatable. Thank you ever so much… 💗
This video really resonates with me! Thanks for this powerful message.
Thank you Natalie!!
I think of my SP All the time yet its more of a NEED THAN PLEASURE !!
I just need to let go and work on my
reason for needing this!!
Yay! You’re v welcome! If you need a little more guidance, check out my newest reel on instagram! Link below or take a look at my new premium service offering The Collective! 🔗 below. Such amazing stuff in there xx much love ❤️❤️❤️
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop thank you!!
Love u Natalie ❤. I needed this talk
This is super helpful, Natalie!! I like the idea of having a specific process. I will certainly add to my practice.
Saw movement with SP this weekend as well. Now, not to react to 3D (or at least for too long) lol
You are completely describing me right now with regard to the desperation 😢. Thank you for this video ❤❤❤
Very nice easy to understand explanation about letting go and detaching. Thank you!
Always hits the nail on the head. Thank you Natalie 😊
Thank you for reminding me!❤
EVERY video is repetition but VERY NECESSARY REPETITION until we "get it" - PLEASE KEEP REPEATING:) with LOVE!
love your videos, thank you
Easy to say, very hard to do. Especially when You love someone with all Your soul and they just dont want to accept that.
You are amazing Natalie!😊
I don't NEED some things, but it would be so very helpful.
I did send him a ❤ just to let him know I still love him. And then about 1/2 hr ago, he called but I couldn't answer bc I was working. Then about a week after, I sent another but this time I saw that he read it right away. We've been in no contact for 3 months... now 4 months... I've been trying to do my life while thinking of him only once in a while
Right on time,thank you natalie 💖 .
I need to detch from grades,sp,carrier,money,social life.
Thankyou so much I needed to hear this today! ❤ I’m finding it so hard to detach atm
❤️one day at a time xxx
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop ❤️
Thank you, really appreciate this video 😆
Thanks Natalie. Love this video.
❤❤ oh wow that’s so where I’m at right now. I need to loop that. I detach then reattach now need to detach again. Thank you Natalie again that was spot on xx
You got this gorgeous xxxxx
Love your videos! ❤
Thank you xxx
These videos are great!!! You remind me so much of Arica Angelo. Y’all should work together
1st of all tqsm🌹 fr this 1st lengthy video of urs👏.. this is hw it should be.. u told to accept ppl/ things as it is ... Saying is easy bt the way they be disloyal to us hurts us & make us validate them feeling very bad.. the thing is we will never expect anything frm them bt they take advantage of us like a blood sucker instead of seeing our efforts & valuing us.. in all those scenarios hw can we actually deal with it? In the way of accepting.. pls make a video on it separately like the scenarios that comes accross us & who to change our thoughts & deal with it... Guys who feel this is needed pls like this comment if u can read it full....
This video came in a rightful moment! Thank you for the insights Natalie!
During the process of letting go and detaching should stop the specific affirmations or should keep with generic affirmations instead? Sometimes I feel that during this negative or sadness waves (is really a rollercoaster of emotions) doing sp affirmations makes me wanna cry and other times makes me smile, it is so challenging to not look to the 3D or to think the circumstances don’t matter. And other times when I don’t feel like doing any sp affirmations or visualizations, things feel lighter, I do realize my biggest challenge is fulfilling my own life because many of my dreams/goals were shared with that person and reality is that I do want that person back but also I want a better version of her while I know I don’t need her to achieve my own goals, never did. Quite funky moment 🙈
Thank you so much it really helps
Thanks, Natalie. Great video. Though I can't seem to wrap around my head as to how we should live in the end result and let go of the desire that we don't need this specific thing/person in our life. Can you please tell more about this or if you already talked about this in old videos, can you refer to me? Thanks,
Enjoy a Moment With Them Right NOW | This is YOUR Wish Fulfilled ❤️ | Specific Person |
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I relate to this WYA
My SP abandoned me because of his need to grow his business, looking after his princess teenager daughter and needy ex wife who is happy with her daughter dating rich kid . He feels great seeing his daughter and ex wife relationship improving
Thank you so much for your video. I have been trying to manifest my SP for the last 6 months and haven't gotten anywhere. I felt that if I let go I was giving up and I really love him. But after listening to you I have started to let go and feel so much better and have to hope that the universe can now start to bring him to me.
This!! I'm going through a break up and this is exactly how I feel. I'm scared to let go because manifestation states to never doubt or give up what you want but nothing is happening and I'm still so sad. I feel like if I stop trying to manifest him I would be losing the hope of him coming back. I want to be happy but I want to be happy with him. I feel guilt if I just let go because I feel like I'm giving up on him even though he broke it off with me. How can you put all your energy into manifesting someone (what they tell you to do if you want it to become true) but also let go and pull your energy towards yourself at the same time?
@tinarusso3775 fall in love with yourself and put the energy you need to on you and healing lovely
But that really get him to unblock me and contact me again. Or is that just me moving on
Update
I think my attachment stems from the need to feel desired
Totally. After eight months, no xmas/New Year message, absolutely nothing, it's a good idea to really let go. It's a damn shame though, especially after being really good to the person. Oh well.
It’s not giving up xx
This helps a lot thank you!! ❤
Hi Natalie, This was the right video at the right time! Thanks to my long lost cousin with the same surname. Haha!
Ha ha ha love it you’re a Dance too xxx
Brilliant video!
Thank you xxxx
Lovely video Natalie I'm finding your talks very helpful thank you 🌷 Living in the end state even in no contact is helping me feel so much better I was so afraid my depression would swallow me whole. Tell me dear, if I detach, how does that square with this practice? I want to detach but is it safe?
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I am enough! I am happy.. SP announced sleeping back together in one bed with the third party after years of sleeping apart. How to manifest the positive in this?
I’m so sad 😢😢😢. We had a fight last night . F me
Hi, I`m Natalie`s Email Coach. Try not to focus on that too much. Instead tell yourself that everything is resolved now and your SP is very loving and caring to you again. Conny xx
Thank you Conny. I appreciate your words. You and Natalie are quite a team
What if your living in the end. I know I don't need my specific person. I focusing on me. No longer feel the need to reach out. But I am in the knowing it is mine. Now. X
Natalie I am taking your advice. In your testimony of how your sp came back within months. However you mentioned that your sp ex and you only broke less than a 6 months. What if I have been broke up for a year and my sp ex has been dating another person now for 8 months. Does what you teach still apply?
Thank you
Sonny
Circumstances don’t matter
Can letting go help to bring them back if they’re meant to be
I really loved him and felt it was true
Letting go gets you the life you want!
Thank you for replying I’m literally watching this now
I just had such a great connection with this guy and he said the feeling was mutual yet he is now pulled away due to a apparent health issue with his mum is not replying to any of my messages and straight up ghosting me I’m hoping it is a problem with him and a time he will realise the love that we had because he showed this I’m just struggling to let this go
@shannonhawkeyptholisticper9882 why not get some coaching with me lovely to help? Links below the video xxx❤️
What if your living in the end. I know my sp is mine. Im in the knowing phase. I know i am happy with out and no longer feel the need to reach out. X
I manifest same situation n bf then why i lost it ,now i have fear for relationship that any relationship will ever last ??
Looks like you’re holding onto some
Beliefs that go against what you want. What are your true beliefs you need to write them down and flip the story to empowering beliefs. If you need more help I do offer coaching services and all the links are below the video xxx
i saw a sign it said "JUST IN TIME " what does that mean ? i am manifesting my ex . pls help
What you want it to mean
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop its difficult to connect the dots .. but i guess may be i will meet my ex in some time ... i guess !!!
How can you detach when your affirmations are about your SP and not your life ? So conflicting ?
Self love
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Great video thank you so much ❤