If Teen Boys Were 100% Honest

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  • @jubilee
    @jubilee  2 роки тому +500

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  • @coliestellar917
    @coliestellar917 2 роки тому +9157

    I hope Nathan feels better about crying in front of a trusted person. He just had someone who wasn’t mature enough to handle or be receptive to that. Everyone deserves relationships that can honor and respect vulnerable emotions. 🖤
    Thanks Jubilee for this, and please continue this very honest series!

    • @sarahhe7828
      @sarahhe7828 2 роки тому +203

      i’m the opposite. my boyfriend cried and i viewed it as maturity, acceptance, and comfort. it made me more attracted to him

    • @cmooreHD
      @cmooreHD 2 роки тому +59

      I can relate to nathan. The same thing happened to me and it made me not trust her and we ended up separating in the long run. And im not even a teen.

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 роки тому

      Yo fam, I’m a small UA-camr from Cali 📍, and I make a variety of short entertaining videos on UA-cam As well, I’m still working On quality But I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy💛💛💛

    • @sabinajoh
      @sabinajoh 2 роки тому +15

      @@sarahhe7828 100%

    • @slendy1641
      @slendy1641 2 роки тому +11

      I can relate to him, it happened to me when I was a young teen (14), haven’t trusted someone on that level since, (19.)

  • @tux75
    @tux75 2 роки тому +37144

    Teenagers are expected to act like adults but treated like kids. Why do adults think that being a teenager isn’t stressful?

    • @philderkomischetyp4481
      @philderkomischetyp4481 2 роки тому +717

      because it barely is, adult life is far more stressful than Teenage Life.

    • @gardenjhr
      @gardenjhr 2 роки тому +2251

      @@philderkomischetyp4481 I would disagree, teenagers minds are not fully developed nor do they have as much experience as adults generally. Still, they sometimes run into very adult problems which can be hard to deal with ontop of school. Now I do agree that adult life is more complicated but to say its more stressful in proportion I would disagree with.

    • @karmicobsession1636
      @karmicobsession1636 2 роки тому +236

      in part I think they forgot what it was like to be young but also life only gets harder as you grow up and the stress gets worse

    • @bengalaj3236
      @bengalaj3236 2 роки тому +137

      Because they havent always been adults, they were also teenagers at some point and know for a fact that their lives were much easier back then. I'm 21 but my life was way easier when i was 15

    • @soulgazer11
      @soulgazer11 2 роки тому +497

      @@philderkomischetyp4481 so far, my teenage life was 20 times worse than my adult life. You were priviledged af if you think all teens have it easy

  • @soulgazer11
    @soulgazer11 2 роки тому +28487

    Too many people confuse feminism and misandry. They are NOT the same. Let me clarify:
    Feminism = equality for all genders
    Misogyny = sexism against women
    Misandry = sexism against men
    Just because feminism has the word "feminine" in it doesn't mean it's for bringing men down. Some people will tell you they're feminists but are in fact misandrists.

    • @Jacob12611
      @Jacob12611 2 роки тому +734

      Society is already equal

    • @umbra014
      @umbra014 2 роки тому +2

      @@Jacob12611
      You're the real feminist, someone on the internet? Not the feminists in offices spewing misandry? Sit down. Feminism is misandry.

    • @thijmstickman8349
      @thijmstickman8349 2 роки тому +3

      I agree, the problem is when people fight for the rights of women by trying to give them advantages men will often feel attacked, because they can't see the many different ways women are disadvantaged in society
      (Lmao proved by the comment above me)

    • @succhiatoredelcazzo4689
      @succhiatoredelcazzo4689 2 роки тому +4512

      @@Jacob12611 it isnt but you get a gold sticker for trying

    • @kxndyyy
      @kxndyyy 2 роки тому +1

      Feminism doesn't own the concept of equality. Feminism is the "equality of all genders" but with an obvious focus on WOMEN. True egalitarianism would be the "equality of all genders"

  • @KentPetersonmoney
    @KentPetersonmoney 2 роки тому +29277

    Any girl that dumps a boy for crying deserves to stay single for life.

    • @mxsthxted
      @mxsthxted 2 роки тому +222

      fax

    • @Unknown-px6lm
      @Unknown-px6lm 2 роки тому +169

      But if they cry over something little, then the girls should leave them

    • @FroppyFroggy
      @FroppyFroggy 2 роки тому +1281

      @@Unknown-px6lm Even if it's something little, you shouldn't dump them over that. Some people are just sensitive and that's ok. I used to be really fvcking sensitive and really in touch with my emotions until people start coming at me for it when I really couldn't control it. Now it's just weird to have emotions especially crying. I very rarely cry, I don't smile a lot, I don't know how to comfort people. It's ok to be sensitive, it really is. It's better than feeling nothing.

    • @kingbaguette1843
      @kingbaguette1843 2 роки тому +151

      @@FroppyFroggy Being sensitive is not ok. This world will swallow you whole while I laugh.

    • @tiramyshu
      @tiramyshu 2 роки тому +8

      💯

  • @michaelp9061
    @michaelp9061 2 роки тому +11066

    Tough topics but I truly appreciate the honesty they have.

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 роки тому

      Yo fam, I’m a small UA-camr from Cali 📍, and I make a variety of short entertaining videos on UA-cam As well, I’m still working On quality But I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy💛💛💛

    • @fark69
      @fark69 2 роки тому +6

      Poor Liz, he'll see how the feminists think about him honestly eventually and he'll join his friends in being anti-feminist

    • @StraightUpRainbows
      @StraightUpRainbows 2 роки тому +4

      How is it brave, their identities are a secret, lmao.

    • @dollface6376
      @dollface6376 Рік тому +2

      tough? how?

    • @luzcoletti633
      @luzcoletti633 9 місяців тому +2

      ​​@@dollface6376well, the topics in the video are not usually Easy to talk about In your daily life yk? More hard if you are a teenager.

  • @hc7092
    @hc7092 2 роки тому +17891

    I like this series a lot. Now people can say how they genuinely feel without being attacked in the comments section!

    • @nightmarestar01
      @nightmarestar01 2 роки тому +54

      Agree 😊

    • @jessicamoreira1511
      @jessicamoreira1511 2 роки тому +30

      Agree as well

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 роки тому

      Yo fam, I’m a small UA-camr from Cali 📍, and I make a variety of short entertaining videos on UA-cam As well, I’m still working On quality But I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy💛💛💛

    • @dvo9882
      @dvo9882 2 роки тому +40

      Yes but they should’ve done this with grown men or atleast have some of them be grown men. Teenage boys don’t really have a clear understanding with some of these topics.

    • @chiara1363
      @chiara1363 2 роки тому +372

      @@dvo9882 grown men dont either

  • @robonurcob2584
    @robonurcob2584 2 роки тому +1212

    “If you never died, you would never do anything; because you would always have more time to do it.”
    I love how he phrased this

  • @mercygirl317
    @mercygirl317 2 роки тому +6125

    who breaks up with someone cuz they cry in front of them? he dodged a bullet there. hes way better off without someone THAT heartless and self centered. shes gonna feel the karma of that one day.

    • @anonymousbo0318
      @anonymousbo0318 2 роки тому +1

      @@jewelthompson4210 Screw that little guy

    • @eli4984
      @eli4984 2 роки тому +149

      @@jewelthompson4210 Bro if you break up with someone cuz theycry your a Problem dnc how young u are.

    • @riti7074
      @riti7074 2 роки тому +132

      maybe he actually was insecure and it wasn’t the crying that made them breakup 😶 it’s only one side of the story so

    • @mullythebully5557
      @mullythebully5557 2 роки тому +77

      lots of women do. I've heard this many times

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 роки тому

      Yo fam, I’m a small UA-camr from Cali 📍, and I make a variety of short entertaining videos on UA-cam As well, I’m still working On quality But I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy💛💛💛

  • @emmarenee
    @emmarenee 2 роки тому +4629

    should make one of these with both teen boys and girls but in more of a debate style. I think having both sides creates an even wider range of discussion!

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 роки тому

      Yo fam, I’m a small UA-camr from Cali 📍, and I make a variety of short entertaining videos on UA-cam As well, I’m still working On quality But I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy💛💛💛

    • @juevenito
      @juevenito 2 роки тому +33

      Love that

    • @jasonlang9074
      @jasonlang9074 2 роки тому +87

      True but I think you also have a lot of range just between guy and just between girls as well. It brings more nuance

    • @sambawden5448
      @sambawden5448 2 роки тому +144

      Yeah but that’s not quite the point. People would be hesitant to say something about the other. It’s not supposed to be a debate with masks is supposed to be a way for deeper feelings to get out without someone else challenging them.

    • @emmarenee
      @emmarenee 2 роки тому +53

      @@sambawden5448 oh yeah I agree!! i think they should film a girls one separately and THEN come together to film a video! it shows how they might change their opinions when put in front of one another. With the masks on people are more likely to give their blunt or true opinions. I would like to see if they would maybe leave with new or otherwise further developed understandings of the other sex.

  • @harshdeepsingh4802
    @harshdeepsingh4802 2 роки тому +3860

    This is why i love this channel. When all of the world is fighting over who's better or who deserves more, the people behind this channel are genuinely trying to make us question our whole though process, about everything. Thank you guys, your doing a great work.

    • @marcusvision
      @marcusvision 2 роки тому +10

      That was the main reason behind the great resignation as well, when the world stopped in 2020. People had time to themselves and their family finally (applicable to some) . And people asked themselves, what am i doing with myself ?! Its easy to shout or do something like a robot but take the time and ask yourself WHY?

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 роки тому

      Yo fam, I’m a small UA-camr from Cali 📍, and I make a variety of short entertaining videos on UA-cam As well, I’m still working On quality But I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy💛💛💛

  • @brookedavis404
    @brookedavis404 2 роки тому +6496

    I hope we’ll get to see more of these “Mask Off” episodes!

    • @3K2-k3m
      @3K2-k3m 2 роки тому +70

      I hope we will get to see different viewpoints, lately watching jubilee feels like I am watching the same person over and over again, everyone has the exact same opinions -_-

    • @ashtinpeaks9972
      @ashtinpeaks9972 2 роки тому +7

      @@3K2-k3m The solution is to release full videos on a second channel but they have yet to do that

    • @love-ip7sz
      @love-ip7sz 2 роки тому +18

      Ask masked gay people about gender ideology

    • @3K2-k3m
      @3K2-k3m 2 роки тому

      @@ashtinpeaks9972 it will be a longer circle jerk of people having the same opinion and patting each other on the back 😑 they need to diversify their casting

    • @o.bro.exei.provlimata
      @o.bro.exei.provlimata 2 роки тому +4

      @DON'T WATCH MY VIDEOS ok

  • @peaperxni5807
    @peaperxni5807 2 роки тому +6456

    It's very westernized and privileged to say you don't like feminism because someone didn't say something nice about you on a piece of paper at school on fridays. while my country still has girls being married as teenagers. and it's not even some random little poor village country, it's in eastern europe.

    • @shortclub7011
      @shortclub7011 2 роки тому +420

      literally what I came here to comment

    • @Bassguitarist192
      @Bassguitarist192 2 роки тому +283

      That still happens in a lot of places in the US

    • @axzel4038
      @axzel4038 2 роки тому +56

      Then do something about it.

    • @DD-rh2sz
      @DD-rh2sz 2 роки тому +414

      But I assume they interpret it as "feminism in the USA". If the question were "do all men and women deserve the same rights" they would I assume ALL agree. But because we are so privileged here in America some of these movements can be seen as "taken too far" when you are protesting to lower the price of a barbie doll to be equal to the price of a Tonka truck.

    • @SubscriptionUnboxing
      @SubscriptionUnboxing 2 роки тому +436

      @@DD-rh2sz IMO the US still has a long way to go in terms of feminism. For one, the controlling and monitoring of women's bodies - Roe vs. Wade. Secondly, it's the only developed nation that doesn't have mandatory paid maternity leave.

  • @quinn6603
    @quinn6603 2 роки тому +3452

    loving how theyre all so open with each other about such touchy topics for today's society, its quite enlightening to hear!

    • @MarcoAshford
      @MarcoAshford 2 роки тому +29

      Because their face is hidden, that's the whole point of the entire video, come on wtf...........
      If they do this in a regular white room, they will hide lot of their true thoughts.

    • @xinpingdonohoe3978
      @xinpingdonohoe3978 2 роки тому +8

      @@MarcoAshford it's still not properly anonymous though. I wouldn't tell the full truth on some of these unless I could guarantee there was no way it would be linked back to me.

    • @TheeDionysus
      @TheeDionysus Рік тому

      @@xinpingdonohoe3978 L

    • @xinpingdonohoe3978
      @xinpingdonohoe3978 Рік тому +1

      @@TheeDionysus criminaL

  • @Duckduckobtusegoose
    @Duckduckobtusegoose 2 роки тому +4131

    I feel like feminism should be defined more often in these things. A bunch of people complementing each other and insulting other people isn’t a display of feminism, it’s bullying under the guise of “feminism”

    • @catherinehammond1519
      @catherinehammond1519 2 роки тому +18

      No sir.

    • @thatguy720
      @thatguy720 2 роки тому

      I’ve only ever met rude feminist who try to belittle and make men inferior rather than equal.

    • @100inchdestroyergodBull
      @100inchdestroyergodBull 2 роки тому +11

      Nope

    • @Duckduckobtusegoose
      @Duckduckobtusegoose 2 роки тому +179

      @@catherinehammond1519 yes it is bullying and I’m not a sir.

    • @mathewholman927
      @mathewholman927 2 роки тому +141

      Doesn’t matter cuz it’s still part of the movement and a lot of the time its the loudest part of it

  • @jennalavena
    @jennalavena 2 роки тому +1027

    As a teenage girl you never hear guys talking about stuff like this. In most of my past friendships, guys would talk about other women, or talk about conversations that I've started. I've noticed a lot of guys are closed up, until they want something serious with me or are acting like they do

    • @riddlebergerbrothers26
      @riddlebergerbrothers26 2 роки тому +147

      Because we know most wmn don't care. We talk amongst ourselves

    • @Silverswitch1
      @Silverswitch1 2 роки тому +76

      It is rare for boys to talk about girls and it is usually out of boredom.

    • @Xarfax321
      @Xarfax321 2 роки тому +13

      Did you ask them?

    • @jennalavena
      @jennalavena 2 роки тому +8

      @@Xarfax321 ask them about ?

    • @Xarfax321
      @Xarfax321 2 роки тому +51

      @@jennalavena Stuff like this. You said you never hear guys talking about stuff like this. Well have you asked them about their opinions on stuff like this?

  • @saeed05
    @saeed05 2 роки тому +1085

    i wish during the “i’ve questioned my sexuality” question we heard what the other guys who had their light on had to say, this is a really important topic since homosexuality is so stigmatized between teenage boys and it would’ve been better to hear all of their inputs

    • @happyco.943
      @happyco.943 2 роки тому +42

      I have recently heard from older teenage people that homosexuality and being a part of LGTB community has actually become fashionable and trendy… and lots of younger boys start exploring homosexuality because they think it’s “cool” to be different, to be super open, to have no limits on sexuality, etc.

    • @Random-sk6hm
      @Random-sk6hm 2 роки тому +284

      @@happyco.943 this is definitely not true, its still very stigmatised and casually homophobic - a teenage boy

    • @wanderingsoul2881
      @wanderingsoul2881 2 роки тому +156

      @@happyco.943 I'm still in high school and I've never seen anybody think that being Gay is a trend or cool. Although I do think kids are more comofortable with homosexuality now since they've grown up with people that have come out as queer.

    • @wanderingsoul2881
      @wanderingsoul2881 2 роки тому +11

      @eragon I respect your opinion/theory but the peson I replied to mentioned "older teenage people" which kinda dictats that it was kids in highschool/college.

    • @kaliyah3011
      @kaliyah3011 2 роки тому +23

      @eragon how do you know it’s for popularity and attention did these kids you talk to come to you and say I decided to come out as bi because it’s cool and trendy or did you assume that? I’m a teenager and I can assure you people at my school don’t just come out to be trendy and as far as getting attention, it’s not all positive attention and teens/ kids know that, it is still stigmatized and kids get bullied for it. Also as far as acting gay there no one way to act when someone is gay it’s simply a sexuality meaning they are attracted to the same sex. Just because you know people who act in a way that you perceive as “gay” doesn’t make them gay.

  • @edenshamy5339
    @edenshamy5339 2 роки тому +1171

    Really love this and hope this becomes a full blown series, teen girls, mothers, fathers, all walks of life!

  • @EvolianTiger
    @EvolianTiger 2 роки тому +1435

    My only criticism is that I could hardly tell who turned their light on and who kept it off. It's all red and an incredibly dark video (visually).

    • @Zaurkax14
      @Zaurkax14 2 роки тому +173

      Agree. I'd like easier names like, idk A B C or 1 2 3. It's hard to remember multiple names when they're not connected to a face or even a real voice.
      Maybe giving each guy a color, or an actual mask with distinguishable pattern

    • @chai7766
      @chai7766 2 роки тому +38

      same, I can't really tell which lights are on or off

    • @islamwithproof20
      @islamwithproof20 2 роки тому +5

      This ambience make scary

    • @nabieu7218
      @nabieu7218 2 роки тому +10

      That’s kinda the point

    • @organizedchaos4559
      @organizedchaos4559 2 роки тому +5

      @@nabieu7218 yeah that’s the point. Makes it so that it a safe place to talk. It’s hard to see the others.

  • @irena1222
    @irena1222 2 роки тому +942

    I like this type of episode. I can see how it provides more freedom and assurance for expression. Applaud you for considering each feature in editing - names, masks, even voices.

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 роки тому

      Yo fam, I’m a small UA-camr from Cali 📍, and I make a variety of short entertaining videos on UA-cam As well, I’m still working On quality But I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy💛💛💛

  • @abracadabra4144
    @abracadabra4144 2 роки тому +5239

    Its kinda nerve racking hearing how many of the teen boys viewed feminism. It displays how much exposure can lead people to a certain position. Im assuming, but it reminds me of those youtube video of people “owning or putting feminist in there place”, those videos purpose was to invalidate or undermine the feminism movement by molding them as delusional. It seems the participants that agreed hadn’t acknowledge what feminism is in all its aspect and kinda deflected, specifically when the guy was talking about being put down.

    • @ashtinpeaks9972
      @ashtinpeaks9972 2 роки тому +269

      It's hard qhen feminist movement doesnt call out the people in it using it as a shield/dragging men down. In your comment you say it isn't femnism but there are people using it that way

    • @salmaabdullahgb
      @salmaabdullahgb 2 роки тому +464

      @@ashtinpeaks9972 People using a movement in a bad way do not represent the movement

    • @abracadabra4144
      @abracadabra4144 2 роки тому +85

      @@ashtinpeaks9972 Im not saying there isn’t a case were individuals use the movement to further their own purpose, but using a minority of people to dismiss a obvious problems it more detrimental then the small minority themselves. And people do call it out despite it not being necessary because they have no relation

    • @werrutkyupnext
      @werrutkyupnext 2 роки тому +73

      @@salmaabdullahgb they do that's why it is so hated because the bad people are the loudest

    • @Callisto_52Hz
      @Callisto_52Hz 2 роки тому +146

      @@abracadabra4144 how is the feminist movement supposed to call out ppl? its not an official club where cards can be revoked or punishments given for being out of line. its a set of ideals that people can choose to advocate for. yall always have this skewed understanding of how movements and ideologies work

  • @joy_yt99
    @joy_yt99 2 роки тому +608

    The answers to some of these really hurt. These men are brave and I hope they find more people around them that accept them for who they are

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 роки тому

      Yo fam, I’m a small UA-camr from Cali 📍, and I make a variety of short entertaining videos on UA-cam As well, I’m still working On quality But I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy💛💛💛

    • @user-cu8jk9hp5y
      @user-cu8jk9hp5y 2 роки тому

      They’re not men they’re boys

    • @muffinmendy7327
      @muffinmendy7327 10 місяців тому

      They are not even men yet, they are boys. Kids.

  • @kyrn_aubrey
    @kyrn_aubrey Рік тому +29

    I love how respectful and mature all these boys were. I grew up with guys and never have seen any talk like this. It's nice to see.

    • @TheRealF.ckingJesus
      @TheRealF.ckingJesus Рік тому +5

      Cause they actually opened up. All men are like this if they open up.

    • @HythoxLen
      @HythoxLen 2 місяці тому

      @@TheRealF.ckingJesusthat’s dependable… not every guy neither every girl is that „mature“.

  • @brittanyp9334
    @brittanyp9334 2 роки тому +166

    I applaud these guys! This is not easy to do, even while being "anonymous". They're still around each other and the crew, so it's not completely anonymous. Even if it was, it's still hard to talk about your feelings even with yourself. Great job guys!!!

  • @alaub1334
    @alaub1334 2 роки тому +3854

    i agree with liz on the feminism part! But feminism goes way beyond just employment opportunities, but social, economic, and reproductive security/ safety. it’s truly sad to hear that some of the boys here have negative experiences with feminism and being “brought down,” and i hope that they are exposed to men and women who can give more positive insights to the movement and everything we stand for. i disagree that men should be brought down in the name of feminism because that would be counterintuitive to the idea of gender equality, especially because i believe that we should exert more energy into protecting and representing women in ther families, jobs, communities, etc., than bringing down men

    • @noeliafernandz
      @noeliafernandz 2 роки тому +106

      I too was surprised when they responded from an economic standpoint, given the fact that feminism is much more than that. It might have to do with them being American and the education they received because of the country's mentality. Nevertheless, It's very insightful to see young people to talk about delicate topics, wether I agree with them or not. You could see they lacked the experience in life that other guests usually show just because they're older and have been through a lot more, but I appreciate their bravery to put themselves out there and be vocal about their views on the world. One thing ia clear: we're a long way off with today's kids.

    • @itsnatemate7697
      @itsnatemate7697 2 роки тому +157

      I feel like people don’t realize feminism is to support women AND men.

    • @abracadabra4144
      @abracadabra4144 2 роки тому +65

      The example he brought up wasn’t a bad experience with feminism as a movement however, it was a bad experience with women and “Feminine men” who complemented each other’s outfits. Thats have more factors like the people being mean and him not having a great outfit.

    • @NeroMai
      @NeroMai 2 роки тому +140

      I wish the others explained their experiences of "being brought down" or "put in their place" by feminism more? Nathan's example didn't really make sense to me. Girls and boys have been socially segregated for decades now, from cootie wars to societal norms to se>

    • @melaninkind8783
      @melaninkind8783 2 роки тому +8

      @@NeroMai Exactly

  • @braydendukes6633
    @braydendukes6633 2 роки тому +187

    This actually was so cool. No gotchas, no walking on eggshells, no getting shy, just genuine answers. So so cool

  • @maybe.yellow
    @maybe.yellow 2 роки тому +966

    This is a great concept, but I wish it was easier to tell who had turned their lights on and who was speaking.

    • @maggie_crystal4578
      @maggie_crystal4578 2 роки тому +76

      isn’t that the point tho?

    • @bluebirdx
      @bluebirdx 2 роки тому +15

      That's the point tho?

    • @beththebunny
      @beththebunny 2 роки тому +176

      No, I think what they mean is they wish it was easier to see the lights in the video. When it shows the group put their light on if they agree, some of the lights show when actually they're not meant to, e.g. Jared's light is sometimes faint even when he agrees with a statement.

    • @erictopp7988
      @erictopp7988 2 роки тому +60

      @@maggie_crystal4578 It took me awhile to realize how many lights had turned on and what was just ambient light. It's also hard to keep track of how everyone's opinions reflect on their own stories when all you have is a name and a backlit profile. I like the setup and idea but it's just not something my brain likes to let me follow effectively lol

    • @maggie_crystal4578
      @maggie_crystal4578 2 роки тому +1

      ohhhhh ok

  • @shellrockguy9761
    @shellrockguy9761 2 роки тому +272

    “Are you afraid of death” is not a question people should be scared to answer.

    • @jayyy1677
      @jayyy1677 2 роки тому +7

      I’m scared of dying before I feel accomplished but I’m probably going to take my self out when I accomplish everything I want

    • @quandaledingle3262
      @quandaledingle3262 2 роки тому +10

      @@jayyy1677 What’s ur meaning of accomplished? Married with kids? Having money to spare?

    • @jonatan2139
      @jonatan2139 2 роки тому +19

      @@jayyy1677 you will never feel accomplished our desires are never satisfied

    • @intence1233
      @intence1233 2 роки тому

      Nope I'm not afraid of death if it's natural death then I don't care bc it is natural also why would I wanna live to 80 or 90+ bc I'd barely be able to walk

    • @jaydenchaney4081
      @jaydenchaney4081 2 роки тому +5

      Yeah it was a random question but I guess it’s more of a philosophical topic

  • @everyoneroasted
    @everyoneroasted 2 роки тому +670

    You know how messed up the world has become when Jubilee decided to hide even their voices.
    I really hope nothing happenned to previous guests especially children, and I appreciate that you are protecting their privacy

    • @arb9010
      @arb9010 2 роки тому +15

      That's not vegan
      I guess it is - for the most part - because they are talking about things most ppl only talk about bc they are sure nobody can recognise them

    • @Forit26
      @Forit26 2 роки тому +94

      i'm assuming that they did it not for safety per se, but to get the most authentic answers from the boys (Cuz these are personal questions), because they are anonimous they wont feel pressured and feel like they are sharing 'too much'

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 роки тому

      Yo fam, I’m a small UA-camr from Cali 📍, and I make a variety of short entertaining videos on UA-cam As well, I’m still working On quality But I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy💛💛💛

    • @jelly4129
      @jelly4129 2 роки тому +9

      I've been wanting something like this because people are too influenced by what others say and nobody truly says their own opinion and we learn nothing new i love this way more that way people can talk more freely

    • @Random-sk6hm
      @Random-sk6hm 2 роки тому +4

      I dont think its for safety just for privacy

  • @ReggieClutch
    @ReggieClutch Рік тому +11

    Completely agree with Carl about feeling more comfortable telling a random stranger everything than someone you are close to. Most of the time the people close to you don’t actually care and then use it against you in the future

  • @gochieie4223
    @gochieie4223 2 роки тому +56

    I feel for Nathan so much, I would love to give him a hug. A lot of what he said touched me personally and I found myself relating to a lot.

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 роки тому

      Yo fam, I’m a small UA-camr from Cali 📍, and I make a variety of short entertaining videos On UA-cam As well, I’m still working On quality But I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy💛💛💛

  • @Light-oz5pv
    @Light-oz5pv 2 роки тому +29

    Their responses to the question on sexuality makes you wonder how much of what we say to others about them and how we define them makes them choose an identity.
    I love this series and hope to see more of it!

    • @renny3816
      @renny3816 2 роки тому +3

      That’s not how it works. People just like what they like.

  • @libusehikesova3025
    @libusehikesova3025 2 роки тому +274

    I really hope you'll do one with teen girls too! I'm sure it would help also the female side of your viewers feel more comfortable with how they feel. Great idea, Jubilee!

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 роки тому

      Yo fam, I’m a small UA-camr from Cali 📍, and I make a variety of short entertaining videos On UA-cam As well, I’m still working On quality But I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy💛💛💛

    • @thickboi7570
      @thickboi7570 Рік тому +2

      That would be interesting, as a guy I’m really curious on what the female common opinions are.

    • @elinbird00
      @elinbird00 Рік тому +1

      They did that a while ago

  • @ahmed51988
    @ahmed51988 2 роки тому +19

    I like how the show takes hiding their identity very seriously by covering the face and the voice very professionally. They can then feel 100% safe and sure that the mask is fully off with no consequences and thus open up and be themselves.

  • @Olahardguy
    @Olahardguy 2 роки тому +661

    I feel sad for thr guy who said his girlfriend broke up with him cus he cried in front of her. This is why a lot of guys nowadays find it hard to look vulnerable in front of women but then women call it toxic masculinity. Sad world, i hope we do better

    • @szasbaddest1
      @szasbaddest1 2 роки тому +161

      I don't quite think you know what "toxic masculinity" means.

    • @teratoma.
      @teratoma. 2 роки тому +26

      sadly that's how it is
      being vulnerable to your girl is a recipe for disaster unless you were together for years
      you can always be vulnerable to your female friends tho

    • @aubee2744
      @aubee2744 2 роки тому +59

      you’re hearing one perspective on the relationship of a stranger on the internet.

    • @ashtinpeaks9972
      @ashtinpeaks9972 2 роки тому +77

      @@teratoma. If someone breaks up with you because of that you dodged a bullet. Thats a dogshit relationship if you can't be emotional.

    • @itsnatemate7697
      @itsnatemate7697 2 роки тому +71

      That’s so untrue. Women call toxic masculinity this:
      - having the mindset of talking about, or expressing emotions, is “weak”
      - anyone not submitting to societal standards in terms of clothing, roles, etc; “gay” or “weird”
      - typical pink or purple is girly
      I could go on...

  • @carissaingram5618
    @carissaingram5618 2 роки тому +34

    I’m not a boy or a teen but I loved one of the points brought up. It can be easy to get insecure about your body when grown adults are playing teen roles in tv and movies. Of course you’d start to compare. I think that needs to be fixed.

  • @anthonymoreno2811
    @anthonymoreno2811 2 роки тому +137

    When the sexuality question came up and I saw how many lights came on my heart dropped. Love the vulnerability

    • @Random-sk6hm
      @Random-sk6hm 2 роки тому +17

      same as a teenage boy it was relatable

    • @alejandronogueerol9491
      @alejandronogueerol9491 Рік тому +6

      @@Random-sk6hm Same fr

    • @alaskansoybean6297
      @alaskansoybean6297 Рік тому +8

      I mean, Ryan Reynolds has that effect on people.

    • @great10toes40
      @great10toes40 Рік тому +8

      Why? Jubilee deliberately picks a certain type of people to be on their videos and this just proves it again

    • @randomboyfrom2004
      @randomboyfrom2004 Рік тому +12

      @@great10toes40 can u tell me what type of people they pick?

  • @abu-bøqr
    @abu-bøqr Рік тому +12

    I love this type of video, I'm a teenage boy myself and seeing my fellow brothers and sharing their experiences is so wholesome and so genuine. This type of things builds real friendships and relationships. I love the subjects they talk about in this video because these are all things all teenage boys go through, including myself. I hope these guys can all be friends after the video. Stay strong kings.

  • @xxttiiffaannyyxx
    @xxttiiffaannyyxx 2 роки тому +38

    If a girl breaks up with you just bc you cried she didn’t really love you. Being able to be vulnerable with someone and open is an important aspect of a relationship. Even if he is insecure, you work on that together to address the insecurities, you don’t break up with them.
    She is a teenager though so i’ll cut her some slack but, I just don’t like it when people make others feel like they can’t express themselves.

    • @intence1233
      @intence1233 2 роки тому

      It's the same for adults tho what ur saying is the girl doesn't know that was wrong and aswell there's no point commenting on another person's relationship unless ur family but why would I or anyone listen to a random person that doesn't know what was actually going on

  • @alisteelman9270
    @alisteelman9270 Рік тому +24

    8:24 the young men who have seen death know that death is terrifying. Death is quick and it doesn’t care who you are. It’s terrifying. I’m glad that they realize it now, because life sucks and death is everywhere

    • @alaskansoybean6297
      @alaskansoybean6297 Рік тому

      Maybe I am just calloused to facing death, and have brought myself too close to it to truly understand the fear. However, I do agree that without death, life would be meaningless, and no one would do anything.

  • @ABlackMan9
    @ABlackMan9 2 роки тому +510

    Please do more of these for attraction and race issues. A lot of people mask their true opinions when they know they're being watched or see an opportunity to become "famous". With this anonymous approach I guarantee even if you had on previous guests we would get some shocking but genuine answers which in my opinion are the best ones for growth

    • @Aaron-kj8dv
      @Aaron-kj8dv 2 роки тому +15

      I would be interested in this too

    • @gimygaming8655
      @gimygaming8655 2 роки тому +7

      Oh yea, I like this idea

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 роки тому

      Yo fam, I’m a small UA-camr from Cali 📍, and I make a variety of short entertaining videos On UA-cam As well, I’m still working On quality But I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy💛💛💛

    • @shinyringo
      @shinyringo 2 роки тому +4

      Same here!

    • @Dhi_Bee
      @Dhi_Bee 2 роки тому +2

      They just did one for Black people a few hours ago. Check it out

  • @Sarah-xn8dv
    @Sarah-xn8dv 2 роки тому +452

    I really enjoyed the episode, but I have to say that the lights were a little difficult to distinguish and because they were close to each other it was even more confusing... Maybe the lights could turn green if they agree with something and stay red if they don't... Just an idea :)

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 роки тому

      Yo fam, I’m a small UA-camr from Cali 📍, and I make a variety of short entertaining videos On UA-cam As well, I’m still working On quality But I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy💛💛💛

    • @Random-sk6hm
      @Random-sk6hm 2 роки тому +5

      yeah it was hard to see the colour

  • @zara-cm3kv
    @zara-cm3kv 2 роки тому +64

    these boys were all so mature, well spoken and seemed so respectful and smart. where are these boys at school and in real life?? 😭😭

    • @thekulaura
      @thekulaura 2 роки тому

      You get boys of your own level, The boys in the video are above your level.

    • @zara-cm3kv
      @zara-cm3kv 2 роки тому +4

      @@thekulaura who are you? do you know me personally? no you don’t 💀 i can tell you’re definitely not like the boys in the video

    • @thekulaura
      @thekulaura 2 роки тому +4

      @@zara-cm3kv Maybe I am, Maybe I'm not. Im just replying to you because your statement was illogical as if majority of the male gender is just bad, which is untrue. Sorry for being rude tho.

    • @Narvella
      @Narvella 2 роки тому +35

      People are different in different settings.

    • @myfaceisthefrontofshop
      @myfaceisthefrontofshop 2 роки тому

      Being boys👿👿👿

  • @jasonlang9074
    @jasonlang9074 2 роки тому +6

    I loved the perspective on crying and vulnerability. People need to understand that when someone bares all to you they do so because they trust you! Breaking trust like that is hard to gain back especially if a guy showed emotion and was ostracized for it.

  • @kaylaguillot9914
    @kaylaguillot9914 2 роки тому +141

    Definitely wanting to see a teen girls mask off to see both perspectives

  • @ShwetaSingh-co4gv
    @ShwetaSingh-co4gv 2 роки тому +540

    It's a shame that people get uncomfortable sharing their thoughts.. I mean there wasn't one bad thing i heard from these guys everything was genuine and still the society makes them feel uncomfortable by judging them...

    • @ashtinpeaks9972
      @ashtinpeaks9972 2 роки тому +49

      In modern day if you disagree with someone they are "the enemy" in current culture. Not surpise tbh

    • @Zavlon
      @Zavlon 2 роки тому +18

      I believe It’s just human nature to want some things to be kept personal. These guys, through anonymity, can vent about these issues without pressure about it being tied to them. This is an awesome series which I hope they make more of 💗

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 роки тому

      Yo fam, I’m a small UA-camr from Cali 📍, and I make a variety of short entertaining videos on UA-cam As well, I’m still working On quality But I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy💛💛💛

    • @bulletz510
      @bulletz510 2 роки тому +31

      @@ashtinpeaks9972 People acting like that is a modern problem is genuinely so problematic. It was so much worse in the past. People have always been pushed to the edges of society for opinions that don't reflect the norm at the best. At the worst, you would be breaching the law and would get persecuted.
      And it's important to emphasise that it's healthy to disagree on most things, HOWEVER it should not be normalised to get along with people who don't agree with basic human rights. Why would I be okay with someone believing that me, as a same sex attracted person, shouldn't have equal rights, or should be looked down upon as some freak.

    • @maleahj308
      @maleahj308 2 роки тому +7

      @@ashtinpeaks9972 This is not a modern thing this has been going on forever. And everyone isn't going to agree with one another why are you surprised?

  • @facewednesday
    @facewednesday 2 роки тому +185

    I relate to this a lot, because I see a lot of controversial topics all over social media that I'd love to speak on, yet I find myself staying silent simply because I don't feel like arguing with anyone since that's all that seems to be happening these days. This platform seems like a great way to spark up conversation without getting verbally beat down by the masses; Great Job Jubilee !!

    • @jada17
      @jada17 2 роки тому +14

      This is so true! Any time I try to say my opinion on something (I say it in a VERY kind and non-confrontational way) I get people arguing with me and hating on me for literally no reason 🙄

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 роки тому

      Yo fam, I’m a small UA-camr from Cali 📍, and I make a variety of short entertaining videos on UA-cam As well, I’m still working On quality But I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy💛💛💛

    • @facewednesday
      @facewednesday 2 роки тому +19

      @@jada17 I find myself in the middle of typing responses to comments I receive, and mid sentence I end up deleting the whole thing and moving on; too many judgemental people in the world with closed minds, makes it not even worth it to respond.

    • @salcvries
      @salcvries 2 роки тому +2

      @@facewednesday so true!

    • @alaskansoybean6297
      @alaskansoybean6297 Рік тому

      One of the things that I find interesting was the feminism question. Do I think feminism has gone too far? No. However, it is incredibly common for people to focus on the most extreme groups. I found a quote a while back that kind of helps me think better about controversial subjects: "Never let the actions of one judge the many." Too often I see people focused on the eccentrics of groups, not the majority.

  • @ifyoulikepinacoladas9669
    @ifyoulikepinacoladas9669 9 місяців тому +3

    it’s sad that this is one of the only times i’ve ever seen a guy truly open up and be vulnerable

  • @dancingmama3134
    @dancingmama3134 2 роки тому +271

    I was pleased with the part on pornography and how open and honest the boys were. Pornography does change your brain and does do lasting damage. It is NOT healthy. Grateful that they spoke on this and how addictive it is

    • @painunending4610
      @painunending4610 2 роки тому +2

      It CAN change your brain and it CAN be addictive and it CAN do lasting damage, the same way that anything that releases dopamine can

    • @tobiaslawrence8928
      @tobiaslawrence8928 2 роки тому +7

      I think t does damage if you don't watch it in a healthy way.

    • @Spider-Man62
      @Spider-Man62 2 роки тому +22

      @@tobiaslawrence8928 any dose of it is bad for you just like junkfood. Doesn’t mean you can’t do it in small doses

    • @renny3816
      @renny3816 2 роки тому

      It does change the brain?

    • @requiem5151
      @requiem5151 Рік тому +9

      I don't know much about the subject but I agree that it's not healthy. Once you start and do it regularly you feel less and less dopamine and need more spicy videos to jerk off. It also prevents men from having a partner because the main initial drive is sex and you're already jerking off so you are even less prone to finding a partner (not to mention the fear of rejection or approach anxiety which diminish even further your need to interact with women).

  • @emkayr6866
    @emkayr6866 2 роки тому +30

    This was super refreshing to hear as a teenager myself. It's comforting to know that I'm not the only one struggling with some of the topics they discussed..

  • @dudelove9
    @dudelove9 2 роки тому +27

    this is probably the next best series they have on this channel next to middle ground. this is so inquisitive

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 роки тому

      Yo fam, I’m a small UA-camr from Cali 📍, and I make a variety of short entertaining videos On UA-cam As well, I’m still working On quality But I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy💛💛💛

  • @karstenklarsten4814
    @karstenklarsten4814 2 роки тому +11

    That was a fantastic video! I’m 26 now but this resonated with me on so many levels, I could really see my 17yo, insecure self sitting there in between these kids. I’ve been struggling with all these things and, to some extent, still am to this day. They should know that things start to fall into place as you start getting older. It takes time to really get to know yourself!

  • @soulgazer11
    @soulgazer11 2 роки тому +574

    Love Nathan's journey on accepting that he's still straight no matter the type of women he likes. Fr, liking trans people doesn't make you gay. But he's valid in questioning himself, it only brought growth and acceptance and that's wholesome 🤗

    • @GalaxyNina
      @GalaxyNina 2 роки тому +28

      Thanks for saying this 🙂

    • @chulzzz99
      @chulzzz99 2 роки тому

      If you date trans. You are gay. Sexes dictate that. i love science. 😊

    • @MissingYouser
      @MissingYouser 2 роки тому +8

      I know at least 1 person that would claim to switch genders multiple times within a year. If they were dating someone, is that person gay just because their friend identifies differently constantly? In this situation you kind of have to call a spade a spade. It’s pretty absurd to say dating the exact same person for a year could change your sexuality multiple times.

    • @Sndndjddudj
      @Sndndjddudj 2 роки тому +26

      @@MissingYouser Pansexual maybe

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 роки тому

      Yo fam, I’m a small UA-camr from Cali 📍, and I make a variety of short entertaining videos on UA-cam As well, I’m still working On quality But I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy💛💛💛

  • @demikazi
    @demikazi 2 роки тому +37

    The style of this is so intense and mysterious at the same time, more of this please!

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 роки тому

      Yo fam, I’m a small UA-camr from Cali 📍, and I make a variety of short entertaining videos On UA-cam As well, I’m still working On quality But I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy💛💛💛

  • @christinamock7264
    @christinamock7264 2 роки тому +30

    As a mother of two young boys, this was very interesting to me. I appreciate their honesty and was impressed with their thoughtfulness in answering the questions.

  • @daddycravaii6378
    @daddycravaii6378 2 роки тому +46

    We need a teen girls episode

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 роки тому

      Yo fam, I’m a small UA-camr from Cali 📍, and I make a variety of short entertaining videos On UA-cam As well, I’m still working On quality But I guarantee you will find something you will Enjoy💛💛💛

    • @iloveeatingpaint
      @iloveeatingpaint 6 місяців тому +2

      There’s actually a teen girl video out there! :33

  • @KingDami1999
    @KingDami1999 2 роки тому +14

    Nathan is such a real one. He has my genuine respect 🙌🏾

  • @123-k5o7f
    @123-k5o7f 2 роки тому +31

    Pretty brave of these kids to come up and answer questions honestly. I wonder how their answers would change if their name and silhouette weren’t shown at all so they could be completely anonymous

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 роки тому

      Yo fam, I’m a small UA-camr from Cali 📍, and I make a variety of short entertaining videos On UA-cam As well, I’m still working On quality But I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy💛💛💛

  • @KataomoiFinally
    @KataomoiFinally 2 роки тому +7

    I’m begging y’all please make more of this. It was very refreshing hearing peoples true thoughts

  • @cynthiayx54
    @cynthiayx54 2 роки тому +29

    I'm a girl but i feel for the being shamed for crying just because of the household I was raised in, I hope people will understand it doesnt make you '''weak'' one day.

  • @ilobeau
    @ilobeau 2 роки тому +25

    i love these guys, they genuinely felt comfortable expressing their opinions.

    • @kungfukenny4718
      @kungfukenny4718 2 роки тому +2

      This video is perfect visualization of how this world is structured for males to thrive yet they still don’t feel comfortable enough to have their own thoughts and opinions unless they’re anonymous. What a sad world we live in.😬

    • @ilobeau
      @ilobeau 2 роки тому

      @@kungfukenny4718 honestly. 😕

  • @takemichi6870
    @takemichi6870 2 роки тому +20

    Haha by seeing the comment section of this video i can confirm that majority of Jubilee's audience is Female as like 90% of people in comment section is focused on discussing boys views of feminism & sexuality
    While in the video you can easily see that they're more affected by p@rn, their size, etc.

  • @lilliepowell939
    @lilliepowell939 2 місяці тому +1

    love how nathan said he was brought down once in class , boy imagine not getting looked at seriously everyday in public , careers, in the home 😭 doesn’t even compare to what women might go threw.

  • @graciemicofsky6898
    @graciemicofsky6898 2 роки тому +26

    This is such a wonderful way to encourage vulnerability without the threat of judgement! i have no doubt that this series will take off!

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 роки тому

      Yo fam, I’m a small UA-camr from Cali 📍, and I make a variety of short entertaining videos On UA-cam As well, I’m still working On quality But I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy💛💛💛

    • @riddlebergerbrothers26
      @riddlebergerbrothers26 2 роки тому +2

      Vulnerability. I hate when women use that word

  • @mjanger1
    @mjanger1 2 роки тому +19

    The only thing I wish was different about this is that I wish there were more questions and maybe more people. While I assume this was random when choosing for this, I’m pretty sure they were all straight and I’d love to see more diverse responses

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 роки тому

      Yo fam, I’m a small UA-camr from Cali 📍, and I make a variety of short entertaining videos On UA-cam As well, I’m still working On quality But I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy💛💛💛

  • @anushkagoyal9671
    @anushkagoyal9671 2 роки тому +20

    6:00 honestly i'm scared of complementing guys. most guys take it as flirting and if they aren't attracted to you, they look at you like you're a bug which is really humiliating. some women react like that too but it's much easier to compliment women or gay men that straight guys

    • @intence1233
      @intence1233 2 роки тому +5

      Nope a girl can compliment a guy if they're friends same other way round

    • @chikentendersandfries
      @chikentendersandfries 2 роки тому +1

      @@intence1233 Ok and what was the point of this comment 😭 Obviously, but that’s not gonna change her mind

    • @tromboner6061
      @tromboner6061 2 роки тому

      as a guy, I can understand 👍🏻
      it's ok you don't need to compliment us, just be nice

    • @intence1233
      @intence1233 2 роки тому

      @@chikentendersandfries it will change her mind the more you get rejected the more you get compliments

  • @jacobelrom7184
    @jacobelrom7184 2 роки тому +3

    these series are actually so eye opening. i especially love the idea of the anonymity; i think it really allows people to share openly without judgement. id be so inclined to have a conversation with all of these boys, i think it would be really interesting.

  • @muffen5148
    @muffen5148 2 роки тому +121

    I feel like the feminism As are misguided. I don’t judge any of the teens who think it’s gone to far but the way the one guy was saying “you need to put in work” especially rubbed me wrong just bc the whole point of feminism is that. Same work - same opportunities. Not same opportunities less work or no work. I find a lot of people seem to have a warped definition of feminism given perhaps some radicals in the group or the lack of education on the subject. Even though feminism has historically been only for white women it should be for equality and equity for all women

    • @anonomous5157
      @anonomous5157 2 роки тому +25

      I also had an issue with that because women then and now have "put in the work" and most likely much harder than some of their other male counterparts if they're in a male-dominated industry or an industry where men have the most power (which is most jobs lets be honest) but they still would get paid less which is why women are given more opportunity with things but that still doesn't mean they have it easier even with more opportunities given to them.

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 роки тому

      Yo fam, I’m a small UA-camr from Cali 📍, and I make a variety of short entertaining videos On UA-cam As well, I’m still working On quality But I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy💛💛💛

    • @DD-rh2sz
      @DD-rh2sz 2 роки тому +28

      I agree with your point, however, I will just give a life experience of mine. i worked in construction. It was 100% men. When the diversity in employment became mandatory we noticed women getting brought in to do the job with us. There is of course no problem with that. But MY EXPERIENCE was that these women would always get out of the hard work. They would be placed in the shade, with their water, sorting tools, or filling out paperwork, or operating the elevator, or hosing down the dirt (to prevent all the dirt from flying up in to the air) getting paid the same as the men who were in the sun all day, lifting hundreds of pounds, getting injured, sunburnt, etc. It's like their focus was more to get women in the workplace and pay them the same rather than actually making them do the same job. I am fully aware this is one experience and not every situation but I've also seen it in the trucking industry and mostly male dominated fields.

    • @marvin2678
      @marvin2678 2 роки тому +4

      @@anonomous5157 thats simply not how economics work....if you put in more work asnd get payed less than some one else, youre underselling your work, your labor...youre the only one who can chnage that

    • @Silverswitch1
      @Silverswitch1 2 роки тому +2

      Their response teaches people that they need to sort out people in the feminist group. They will never leave that belief behind as long as radical feminists continue to exist.

  • @nicholashandfield-jones1837
    @nicholashandfield-jones1837 2 роки тому +78

    Oooh this is such a cool concept. Looking forward to seeing more of this

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 роки тому

      Yo fam, I’m a small UA-camr from Cali 📍, and I make a variety of short entertaining videos On UA-cam As well, I’m still working On quality But I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy💛💛💛

  • @lexm17
    @lexm17 2 роки тому +174

    I’m sorry but it’s taken centuries for women to be granted working rights and autonomy and a lot of those rights are not guaranteed in some countries. To say women must earn their way isn’t necessarily wrong but u have to look at the structural factors. It’s too easy to say women should work harder when we’re still held back

    • @bellef7687
      @bellef7687 2 роки тому +18

      Agreed

    • @rasasaba2106
      @rasasaba2106 2 роки тому +14

      Nope can’t agree.

    • @leeyam2520
      @leeyam2520 2 роки тому +17

      exactly

    • @salmaabdullahgb
      @salmaabdullahgb 2 роки тому +11

      @@rasasaba2106 its a fact

    • @isabella6075
      @isabella6075 2 роки тому +16

      @@rasasaba2106 Tell that to the women in the Middle East and whole Latin America and the whole of Africa.

  • @charlieginyard6907
    @charlieginyard6907 2 роки тому +5

    I love how this show allows people to not only start these conversation on camera but also in the comment section I love hearing peoples opinions on different situations in life.

  • @shirahime23
    @shirahime23 2 роки тому +17

    This is a great addition to the segments that you maintain, Jubilee. I hope you keep this going. This was raw and honest, insightful, and a way for people (and their peers) to open up to one another while also bringing their voices to a wider audience. Cheers!

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 роки тому

      Yo fam, I’m a small UA-camr from Cali 📍, and I make a variety of short entertaining videos On UA-cam As well, I’m still working On quality But I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy💛💛💛

  • @maribart4237
    @maribart4237 2 роки тому +424

    Sad that people have to hide their identity to express opinions because others can’t handle it.

    • @adriannayoung4262
      @adriannayoung4262 2 роки тому +73

      That’s not the reason but ok 🤣

    • @Aaron-kj8dv
      @Aaron-kj8dv 2 роки тому +58

      @@adriannayoung4262 then what's the reason? Lol
      They obviously don't want the judgement from others. Literally what could be another reason?

    • @PickAShoe1
      @PickAShoe1 2 роки тому +34

      @@adriannayoung4262 ik you mad offended at this video and you’re mad they’re anonymous so people like you can’t harass them 🤣🤣

    • @adriannayoung4262
      @adriannayoung4262 2 роки тому +37

      @@PickAShoe1 ain’t no one mad bozo I’m just saying that’s not the reason. They needed a video idea and the little boys can just talk online I really couldn’t care

    • @kimthv5
      @kimthv5 2 роки тому +49

      @@adriannayoung4262 that’s literally the whole reason of the episode 😭 people are masks so they feel like they can express themselves more

  • @Apoz_
    @Apoz_ Рік тому +9

    Honestly I’m surprised there was no questions on body dis morphia because I personally suffer from it but it would be interesting on what other people go through with that topic

  • @withloverose7902
    @withloverose7902 2 роки тому +17

    I LOVE this🖤 But could we do something more with the lighting? It is very hard for me to tell which one has turned their light on and which ones have them off. I don't have the best vision anyways 😅 Maybe red for off, then another color for when they turn it on? Idk, y'all are geniuses and will figure out something brilliant 😊 Thank you to the whole Jubilee team 😊😊🖤🖤🖤🖤

    • @aluminumratmilk5971
      @aluminumratmilk5971 2 роки тому +2

      Agreed, I was expecting green for yes red for no

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 роки тому

      Yo fam, I’m a small UA-camr from Cali 📍, and I make a variety of short entertaining videos On UA-cam As well, I’m still working On quality But I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy💛💛💛

  • @spamandkimchi
    @spamandkimchi 2 роки тому +1366

    I like this concept, especially if they’re minors. People from other videos have been witch hunted (“That’s not vegan.”) by viewers and I like that this anonymous concept keeps the kids safe.

    • @erictopp7988
      @erictopp7988 2 роки тому +70

      I try hard to avoid it, but I still can't help but form biases against some of the people on these videos based on the really blatant stereotypes they embody sometimes. It's nice not having to deal with that, but I was also completely lost the entire time because I couldn't keep track of who was talking lol

    • @itsnatemate7697
      @itsnatemate7697 2 роки тому +33

      I mean...Erin doesn't deserve death threats whatsoever but tbh anything else she kind of asked for it. lol

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 роки тому

      Yo fam, I’m a small UA-camr from Cali 📍, and I make a variety of short entertaining videos on UA-cam As well, I’m still working On quality But I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy💛💛💛

    • @celaya-s4e151
      @celaya-s4e151 2 роки тому +1

      @@typicaldigicamenjoyer Lol she deserved all the hate.. Not death threats tho, that's too far

    • @vex080
      @vex080 2 роки тому +47

      @@typicaldigicamenjoyer the fact you wrote "didnt deserve any death threats BUT" is insane to me, she didn't tell people to go off themselves she didnt deserve them whatsoever. No "but"

  • @NovaRambo4427
    @NovaRambo4427 2 роки тому +190

    MEN ARE JUST AS EMOTIONAL AS WOMEN!! Let’s set that straight!

    • @assumealu
      @assumealu 2 роки тому +81

      And not all women express their emotions outwardly either. I hated when he said crying was a women thing bc we do it a lot like wtf

    • @NovaRambo4427
      @NovaRambo4427 2 роки тому +31

      @@assumealu Exactly crying is not exclusive to women! wtf

    • @maribart4237
      @maribart4237 2 роки тому +38

      @@assumealu it’s not a lie. Women are free to express their tears and stuff . Men are just told to suck it up.

    • @3K2-k3m
      @3K2-k3m 2 роки тому +9

      ​@@NovaRambo4427 Its a women thing tho because they are more inclined to cry than men🤷‍♂️ being connected with your emotions makes you more emotionally intelligent tho its not a disadvantage, both sexes have advantages and disadvantages ignoring that is like a fish trying to fly -_-

    • @Sianne-sj2mx
      @Sianne-sj2mx 2 роки тому +18

      @@maribart4237 not always it depends more on the person, while it is more common for women to express emotion cause thats considered a women's trait, i also couldn't tell you the amount of times i've heard women or young girls put down cause 'must be that time of the month' or their just being hormonal often their emotions are allowed but also made a mockery of. so no women aren't always free to express emotions. even phrases told to boys to 'stop crying like a girl', while that obviously affects boys as its directed to them, tf does that tell a young girl? their emotions make them the weaker sex. I have more examples but this is the most common that i see.

  • @taylorjubie5442
    @taylorjubie5442 2 роки тому +172

    “Having access” and “being equal” aren’t the same thing.

    • @riddlebergerbrothers26
      @riddlebergerbrothers26 2 роки тому +21

      But we aren't equals

    • @fwhideaki6242
      @fwhideaki6242 2 роки тому +16

      If you are the same access then you are indeed equal to what everyone has possession of. If everyone has the same access to stuff, they are all equal in that way.

    • @maapauu4282
      @maapauu4282 2 роки тому +9

      @@fwhideaki6242 If someone has the same access to a job as someone else, but that someone else gets paid more, and you get discriminated against, that not really equal is it?

    • @maapauu4282
      @maapauu4282 2 роки тому +5

      Exactly. People need to realize this

    • @fwhideaki6242
      @fwhideaki6242 2 роки тому +30

      @@maapauu4282 Paying another gender/race more because of that is illegal, If i could pay someone less because of their gender or race I would only hire women. Where is the STATISTICS of women being paid less.

  • @euphrasiepolly5575
    @euphrasiepolly5575 2 роки тому +85

    The amount of them who said feminism has gone too far is alarming. Men and women are still not equal in society.

    • @norceenhamdi
      @norceenhamdi 2 роки тому +33

      and the way they said it only boils down to employment.... the ignorance

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 роки тому

      Yo fam, I’m a small UA-camr from Cali 📍, and I make a variety of short entertaining videos On UA-cam As well, I’m still working On quality But I guarantee you will find something you will Enjoy💛💛💛

    • @andresajadi6955
      @andresajadi6955 2 роки тому +5

      @@norceenhamdi how are me and women still not equal (no hate genuinely curious)

    • @blackdragonsaber7956
      @blackdragonsaber7956 2 роки тому +24

      As a woman, highly disagree (talking about the USA, not Saudi Arabia, etc where it is still very bad for women). Laws are equal on the books for both sexes, ensuring equality of opportunity, which was the point of the movement. You can’t control equality of outcome. Regardless of how far feminism goes, there will always be a few in society who hold sexist views no matter what is said or done by the movement.

    • @ledernierutopiste
      @ledernierutopiste 2 роки тому +22

      They did't say that society has gone too far for women, they said that feminism has gone too far and it's true, if the people who call themselves feminist had everything they ask for the society would be extremely unequal for men.

  • @adacta756
    @adacta756 Рік тому +2

    even tho the participants were anonymous you still gotta show respect to them cause ofc it makes it easier for them to speak about those subjects knowing they’re masked but you still gotta have a certain level of bravery to confidently answer these types of questions as teenage boys.

  • @Random-mr3pn
    @Random-mr3pn 2 роки тому +13

    I'm probably walking on eggshells here, but alas.
    The thing I dislike about modern feminism in the West is that it expects females to be a weird female-male hybrid rather than giving them more choices. For instance, mothers are damned if they return to work after having a child (traditionally male). They are also damned if they don't return to work (traditionally female). In a way they are expected to do both which is an impossible standard to meet. Ultimately they will always fall short.
    On the other hand, males are still constrained to traditional male roles. He is expected to provide and to be a firm leader. He cannot be a stay-at-home parent and he certainly cannot breakdown and cry. Again, another impossible standard to meet if you want to remain sane.
    We probably need to ask ourselves if our quest for equality between the se>

  • @define_goof9162
    @define_goof9162 Рік тому +5

    You know, it's interesting. From the experiences I've had with women, I've just learned not to trust them at all. I know sociopathic men and dudes who are complete aholes and yet I feel like, from my experiences, women are so much more manipulative, self centered, and apathetic. I was in a relationship and I always took care of her, even when I was actively working or in class. And ONE TIME, JUST ONCE, I cried in front of her. Well, she put me on blast online and completely misquoted me and made me seem like an ahole. Then, she cheated on me and she began crying when I told her that I was leaving her, even threatening to harm herself indefinitely. Second chick I talked to happened to come into my life after two family members died of mine. She was the only one to hug me, infact she would corner me and literally chase me to hug me. Eventually I fell in "love" and she used me, played me, lied to me, gave false promises, and eventually kicked me to the curb. And I know a lot of other really crappy women, some worse than my examples, that my friends have met and been with. I quickly learned that women, from my experiences, see men as a game/toy. We are to be used and thrown away. I tell myself it's not all women, but it seems like it's fan near every woman I know except my mom. Luckily, I like to think I'm more self aware than the average person so I don't hold anything against women. Nor do I see all of them in the same light. I try my best to be fair. But, now, I definitely walk with extreme caution. And that same caution, I feel like, will leave me lonely for quite some time. I'm around the same age as the people in this video, and I find it interesting just how MUCH an individuals experiences can shape their views and mindsets. This was neat.

  • @TedIsHere2
    @TedIsHere2 2 роки тому +341

    How has feminism gone too far but barely 10 days ago women just lost rights to their own body?

    • @aleksander6582
      @aleksander6582 2 роки тому +8

      Bro what?

    • @yeet399
      @yeet399 2 роки тому +14

      Fr

    • @GenesisBish
      @GenesisBish 2 роки тому +74

      men exhaust me

    • @DP-mv7ph
      @DP-mv7ph 2 роки тому

      @UCBJtghtHI-wW7KsEU9WQKZA cry about it

    • @umbra014
      @umbra014 2 роки тому +46

      @@GenesisBish
      Say you're a misandrist and move on babe.

  • @ohshitakimushroom
    @ohshitakimushroom 2 роки тому +135

    “Feminism is about the workplace” casually looking over misogyny and violence

    • @juevenito
      @juevenito 2 роки тому +13

      Ikr that guys sucks 😢😢😢😢.
      In all seriousness yes that was me, boils down to employment, they cut my answer I mentioned violence in particular sry

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 роки тому

      Yo fam, I’m a small UA-camr from Cali 📍, and I make a variety of short entertaining videos On UA-cam As well, I’m still working On quality But I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy💛💛💛

    • @lolaWWEWWFpunk
      @lolaWWEWWFpunk 2 роки тому +18

      @@juevenito But it doesn't boil down to employment. Honestly, you only have a simple basic general knowledge about what feminism is! I would say you to educate yourself and about other societies, and how Feminism is about helping women from outside the US as well. It is much more then employment. I should know because I have seen/heard things people shouldn't.

    • @tytube3001
      @tytube3001 2 роки тому +1

      Men are assaulted at greater numbers than women

    • @axzel4038
      @axzel4038 2 роки тому +9

      @@lolaWWEWWFpunk he did say he mentioned violence. Plus it’s more of a fast talk, you can’t really fit all that in this conversation, so he mentioned something that’s really big in the feminism movement which is employment.

  • @theunicornsin1144
    @theunicornsin1144 2 роки тому +8

    I noticed that Liz really used this opportunity to peal and heal from things that were taught to him that affected him in a negative way.

    • @juevenito
      @juevenito 2 роки тому +2

      very sweet if you to notice

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 роки тому

      Yo fam, I’m a small UA-camr from Cali 📍, and I make a variety of short entertaining videos On UA-cam As well, I’m still working On quality But I guarantee you will find something you will Enjoy💛💛💛

  • @livithecow
    @livithecow 2 роки тому +6

    I think you should make the colour glow a different colour when they say they agree. It can be hard sometimes when it’s only all red or black.

  • @rachelmorrow9042
    @rachelmorrow9042 2 роки тому +6

    3:20 If a woman breaks up with you because you cried in front of her and she thought you were insecure for that, you dodged a bullet.

  • @matheusiva
    @matheusiva Рік тому +1

    This mark off series is one of the most important here! It’s a portrait of what society truly is, without the fear of being cancelled!

  • @MonkeyDLuffy-rr3wl
    @MonkeyDLuffy-rr3wl 2 роки тому +233

    Kinda spooky, but I really loved that.
    I'd love to have a girl version of it or an ADHD version, because I feel like I'm struggling with it, but I need more validation to kick my butt to go for professional help.

    • @jakebowen8617
      @jakebowen8617 2 роки тому

      @DON'T WATCH MY VIDEOS ok! 👍

    • @King-zx4qr
      @King-zx4qr 2 роки тому +3

      What type of professional help?

    • @ashtinpeaks9972
      @ashtinpeaks9972 2 роки тому +24

      You really shouldn't be taking advice from the internet but heres it anyway. Just go seek medical help because self diagnosis is very bad. Better off talking to a doctor then checking boxes yourself

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 роки тому

      Yo fam, I’m a small UA-camr from Cali 📍, and I make a variety of short entertaining videos On UA-cam As well, I’m still working On quality But I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy💛💛💛

    • @_kikizaman_
      @_kikizaman_ 2 роки тому

      Don’t self diagnose, seek professional help. I have diagnosed ADHD and bro it’s so annoying when people self diagnose. Just because you think you have ADHD doesn’t mean you do, go to a professional.

  • @prinxe4230
    @prinxe4230 2 роки тому +198

    “women should build us up” when teen boys are the worst to each other first 💀 the call is coming inside the house

    • @nazius
      @nazius 2 роки тому +16

      this!

    • @sixpense
      @sixpense 2 роки тому +23

      LMFAOO FR

    • @pastel_crybaby1030
      @pastel_crybaby1030 2 роки тому +65

      LMAO also it just shows how they make it all about themselves like hmm let me take a movement not made for me and say I want them to cater to me instead lmao

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 роки тому

      Yo fam, I’m a small UA-camr from Cali 📍, and I make a variety of short entertaining videos On UA-cam As well, I’m still working On quality But I guarantee you will find something you will Enjoy💛💛💛

    • @Sum.Mer444
      @Sum.Mer444 2 роки тому +8

      @@pastel_crybaby1030 YEP

  • @faith-xt9ll
    @faith-xt9ll 2 роки тому +26

    Keep doing these more. Makes me understand how I could be effecting men that aren’t willing to tell me

    • @KFC_Pyongyang_AssistantManager
      @KFC_Pyongyang_AssistantManager 2 роки тому +5

      Do you think men worry about how their behaviour affects you? Lmao

    • @gooeyissilver2925
      @gooeyissilver2925 2 роки тому +16

      @@KFC_Pyongyang_AssistantManager yeah we do

    • @MrBingo-rv4mk
      @MrBingo-rv4mk 2 роки тому +6

      @@KFC_Pyongyang_AssistantManager you have some growing to so 👍

    • @scrubs3050
      @scrubs3050 2 роки тому +2

      @@KFC_Pyongyang_AssistantManager I do

    • @tromboner6061
      @tromboner6061 2 роки тому

      @@KFC_Pyongyang_AssistantManager they do but without being loud. We change our tones when talking to women, we make sure that in threatening situations women stay assured that we are safe. We are more gentle in every way to women. We do things so that we are sufficient for our partners. and other stuff

  • @pet4886
    @pet4886 2 роки тому +4

    this typa brotherhood us bros gotta have always be supportive and stop judging and hating eachother

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 роки тому

      Yo fam, I’m a small UA-camr from Cali 📍, and I make a variety of short entertaining videos On UA-cam As well, I’m still working On quality but I guarantee you will find something you will Enjoy💛💛💛

  • @kellykelbe
    @kellykelbe 2 роки тому +11

    I love this format for keeping anonymity (anonymous). Helps the participants feel more comfortable & not have to answer a certain way based on what they think they “should say”
    although… I did have trouble understanding the voice modifier & had to watch with subtitles

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 роки тому

      Yo fam, I’m a small UA-camr from Cali 📍, and I make a variety of short entertaining videos On UA-cam As well, I’m still working On quality But I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy💛💛💛

  • @the3dotsguy...610
    @the3dotsguy...610 Рік тому +4

    This video made me feel least alone ive felt in like 10 years...
    And the funny thing im in a dark room alone watching bunch of pixels in a screen

  • @HannaSis
    @HannaSis 2 роки тому +5

    Now this is definititely the type of show I would feel comfortable coming on.

  • @jhonklan3794
    @jhonklan3794 Рік тому +6

    The main issue with feminism is that it inherently excludes men and their issues. There is a reason you only hear about the professions where men dominate but not the ones where women do. 60% of new doctors are women, most psychologist, nurses, teachers are women but no one seeks to equalize that.

  • @Name-se3xz
    @Name-se3xz 2 роки тому +21

    Imagine they used a higher pitch than the lower one used in this video. All of them sounding like chipmunks.

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 роки тому

      Yo fam, I’m a small UA-camr from Cali 📍, and I make a variety of short entertaining videos On UA-cam As well, I’m still working On quality But I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy💛💛💛

  • @flamingooooo
    @flamingooooo 2 роки тому +4

    I would love to hear more on their thoughts around the concept of fearing death. Especially the one who spoke about nothingness and floating in the void. I'm glad I'm not the only one who thinks that way

  • @nobleknight11
    @nobleknight11 2 роки тому +5

    It's really poetic how when you put a physical mask on, you can take your "emotional mask" off. This also goes vice-versa

  • @Tostitosncheese
    @Tostitosncheese 10 місяців тому +1

    I think the first question was a great one. My father has an addiction that has ruined his marriage. With that being said, it’s important to address that kind of thing because it is affecting teenagers now too.