I really wish someone had told Austin he didn’t need to apologise for crying. Made me cry seeing him apologise for getting upset over something horrible happening to him
@@harun3953 what are you talking about? Nobody was saying they were upset about him crying. They are saying they wish someone would have told me he didn’t need to apologize for crying and letting his emotions out
The colours are confusing me! I think red is disagree and blue is agree but its the other way round and takes me a few seconds to figure it out but having Jubilee say agree or disagree with each person is helpful
@@darkangelprincess101 This may not be the reason but blue and red are easier for colourblind people, as red and green is a very common type of colourblindness
@@Bongtaker It's them basically showing they're proud of him. The story is sad so it makes them cry but theyre happy they told it because you admire their strength. It's not sarcastic
Wish they would’ve clarified the first question because there’s a difference between being racist and being prejudice. We are all prejudicial to some degree but not everyone is racist
I don’t care how controversial Thomas’s answer to the fantasy question was, at least it felt like he was being honest which is what he was asked to do in this video. I’m sure plenty of other people wouldn’t have been so honest
Bottoms can have those fantasies too, not only tops. I think it's a question with confusing implications if you don't specify which one you are in the fantasy.
Austin breaking down completely broke my heart. Women can absolutely harass men and it's so terrible that Austin and other men have been scarred because they aren't being listened to. I'm so sorry that happened to you Austin
Maybe the color assignment was done on purpose to get you to think outside of the binary and not automatically associate the people who disagreed as "bad". Maybe they want you to focus less on the color and more of what's being said.
Austin's story made me sad. Being told to "toughen up" when he was being harrassed and made to feel unsafe is so messed up. I'm glad the people in his life were able to help him.
Same! While I think it's important to acknowledge that "the majority of smth doesn't mean ALL" - same goes with privilege, racism, sexism etc. I have personally been dismissed as "you are privileged, you or your people have never experienced oppression" when the other person knew nothing about me. While generalizations from a large sample of individuals onto a population can help us improve society by identifying certain problems, we should not generalize from a population to an individual. Assuming what one did and did not experience based on their gender, skin color, ethnicity etc. is not a helpful thing to do.
Because they disguised the voices I couldn't tell if he was being serious. Maybe I confused him with another guy who was making jokes about everything, but I first took his emotion as sarcasm. Fault of this experiment. I agree, of course, the double standards are toxic and should be done away with. I've heard people talk about being literally raped and are laughed at by authorities because they appear to be men and "men can't be raped by women". That long-standing prejudice is every bit as false and harmful and when I heard people laughing on a 1980s Johnny Carson show about the concept of a wife being raped by her husband, as if that's simply not possible.
I would have gathered evidence, maybe even taped conversations, just gathering info depending on the state and its laws. Sue the damn company for millions, its the american way!!!
I agree he needs to toughen up, we have enough over emotional woman when men start to become over emotional nothing gets done and we stagnate as a society
Honestly, I thought everyone here was really brave. It is hard to be vulnerable, and I am very encouraged by the fact that these men were brave enough to do that. Thank you.
I wish Austin was comforted by at least one of the guys sitting next to him when he discussed his work harassment situation ☹️ I just wanted to give him a big hug
The questions asked here were definitely well picked unlike some of the other episodes. I really do appreciate how many important topics had been covered with just 6 questions.
How are they well picked? I think these are horrible topicks often talked about and most importantly topics that makes white men look bad. Why? Because these are topics that usually discussed about all men but for some reason only 'white men' are answering them. Like rape, sexuality, racism, feminism etc. as if white men are responsible for every one of these topics.
I very much disagree these were kinda circlejerky with obvious answers and I wish they picked guys with more diverse opinions because this is not most men and I think we know that😭
I just think they barely had to do with them being white and their perspective of being white the first and last question were more of what I was looking for and they didn’t even get to answer the last one
Telling people to just “suck it up” is something I will never get over. It doesn’t teach anyone anything and when people say that, it actually just means “I don’t know how to handle the situation so just stop talking about it.” Like we have to learn and teach others how to develop the emotional tools to work through things ccappropriately. That’s actual resilience. You can’t just will away feelings or pain or trauma.
I think it is absolutely wrong. But we have to acknowledge that, that is the tone men not women set for society. It is absolutely wrong when men do that and if we want a change men gotta stop telling other men suck it up and have consequences for the women who commit thoes acts.
I think in some instances it's definitely what you said, people not knowing how to handle the situation so they just want you to get over it. But I think in some instances, when someone says you should learn to get over it, they may just be saying, "you're not dealing with this situation effectively and It's a situation that you have to learn to become better at dealing with emotionally." So in a way it's trying to encourage them to develop those emotional tools and work through things. Definitely could be worded better though and depending on the situation it would probably help to elaborate instead of just saying get over it
@@SiavashGolzar I understand what you’re saying, but idk, that doesn’t actually tell the person anything or help in any way. Like telling a person who is clearly experiencing some kind of distress that they need to “get over it” is like….well, yeah they would love to do that thanks for stating the obvious. Now that the obvious is out of the way, I’d like to have more resources and education on how to cope with certain situations in ways that work for the individual. I’m sitting here and talking about this mostly because I’m lucky enough to have been exposed to this concept of not just coping strategies, but that there’s a plethora of coping strategies available to people. The thing is, they have to first learn more about them selves and try various ones out until they find one that works for them. I wish this was more common in common conversation.
Wow... Austins recovery from that momentarily crying breakdown was insanely quick... it's like he just flipped a switch. This just shows how men are trained and so skillful with shutting down any emotions that make them seem weak. Especially infront of other men. This is actually sad that men have to get that ability over time. I don't know one single women that can just stop crying like that.
yeah, i learned it pretty quickly when showing an ounce of emotion got wierd looks or my parents and teachers punished me for having an undesired emotion.
People who have been abused or emotionally neglected can do this. Females just tend to be allowed to experience these emotions outwardly, however, many ladies "the strong ones" also have this. They recover because they were never comforted while in pain or emotional distress. Certainly males would be more at risk for developing this behavior, but it has more to do with how you were nurtured, and younger ladies tend to receive more compassion than do young men.
I see no problem with men having a front emotionally. That means being emotionally mature enough to put those around you first and handling yourself on the side. I’m still striving for mastery of that though.
As a POC, to this day and age I think everyone should really take racism seriously, not only on white people but also people of colour who take advantage of it just so they can be racist towards other races. With the release of “Velma” by Mindy Kaling, it opened my eyes that people of colour could get that far to be openly racist on a TV Series! As an Asian Pacific Islander, being racist as a POC is completely unacceptable! Being part of this newer generation of children, I have been surrounded by white, black and brown children, all are innocent and unaware of the history of their ancestors. The first thing we don’t want them to see on TV is a Person Of Colour being plain racist and bully to a white boy. It’s not only white people whose being racist anymore, it’s all of us! We need to get our crap together if we want to live in a better world. Don’t reflect on other people’s racism because that would make you racist yourself despite what your skin colour is. In this century, everybody are being racist.
Period. I am half white, half Hispanic (ik some ppl consider Hispanic white but acknowledging the tan/brownish Hispanic) I’m mainly surrounded by Mexican ppl and I’ve personally seen Mexican ppl say some of the most out of pocket racist things towards every race. Racism/racial prejudice is just wrong period and so gross to see ppl try to justify and normalize it.
Austin crying made me tear up too. I felt his fear when he said "I was so scared". Austin, if you're reading these comments, I'm sorry you had that experience. That was horrible what happened to you and it should NOT have happened.
yesss some videos where people have discussions or answer questions, they all are just shouting and here they were calmly letting everyone tell their part
I really appreciate the fact that jubilee masks the identity’s of the people on these. I definitely think that the fear of judgment or public perception clouds peoples ability or want to tell the truth, but when that’s removed people are much more open.
yo kid listen to their tone of voices and their hand gestures, 60% of these "men" are gay and they are all but one liberal this group represents men as much as ru paul does
@@daftwod Also a psych and soci lover, while these videos are super interesting you always have to take these types of videos with a grain of salt. Regardless of if they randomly selected 7 white men, their responses and perspectives do not represent the majority of white men in America and should be seen more as individual cases. Also their responses to questions could be influenced by what others say in the room (for example i noticed some took a little longer to respond to questions and saw what others chose before picking their choice).
"women have more power than me" Austin said exactly what I was thinking, there are definitely times where women do have power over men, I was r*ped by a woman at work but I knew if I said anything nobody would believe me, or if they did I would get the "toughen up" treatment.
I'm so sorry you went through that, and the lack of support and safety to seek help. Don't even get me started on issues like false accusations. It's devastating seeing the impact on a mans life, and the obstacles it places making it even harder for real victims to open up.
Something similar happens to a friend of mine but the woman flipped it on him and said she was the one who was assaulted even though he was 12 at the time and she was 16 so nothing happened to her after that and he was kicked out of the summer camp it happened at and was never allowed to go back
To be honest, it's nice to hear white men talk about their experiences apart from their whiteness without someone invalidating them by telling them they have white privilege as if it somehow undoes their trauma.
Yeah that's not usually how those conversations go. It's not about invalidating white people's trauma, it's about white people pretending they don't have a leg up by virtue of being white.
I personally didn't even understand the question, what does white male era even mean? White male feeling superior? Too focused on? Feeling oppressed? Having power? I think the question is not clear enough to actually have an opinion on, and im sure each guy understood the question differently and at least one of them didn't understand it at all lol
Wow these men were so loving and validating in this conversation, it was beautiful. If only our culture made space & normalcy for this level of vulnerability in men, society would be a safer place.
This is a very interesting concept, as most people are afraid to say what they truly want to say as they don’t want to be cancelled, not just in a social media sense but in a job sense too, as people loose their jobs over things they say
@@ConvenientlyShapedUsername Depending on your definition of homophobic but yeah I see and hear racist people all the time in public, social media, and the news they all discriminate against white people I think they are all whitephobic and probably heterophobic.
Not about being cancelled. If that was the case, Andrew Tate wouldn't exist. It's about not wanting to deviate from the norm and being scared to be disliked or having opinions that, unbeknownst to us, hurt people.
My father had to fight tooth and nail to get custody of me over my mother, and even with lots of evidence of some not so kid friendly stuff, it still took 5 months of court.
Yeah bro is a creep. Whether it’s legal or not it’s the fact that the other person doesn’t consent is what gets him off. Idk why he said as long “as it’s lega and consented to” as if it makes a difference.
Austin, if you read this, I feel your pain. I've been there. That feeling of helplessness and despair is real. Please seek professional help if possible. It has helped me much more than I could have ever imagined. Praying for you🙏
Them all disagreeing that women had more power was comforting to see. The reason equality is so important is for guys like Austin. If women were seen as equals and not inferior, this situation would become less common because his feelings would be more validated by other people. So sorry you went through that Austin. You are so brave for sharing that and you never have to apologize for crying.
Equality is impossible, women will never be viewed as equal because they are biologically not. The reason why men are laughed at when they say a woman r*ped them is because of that, men are stronger and women are weaker. You don't fix that by pretending men and women are equal, you can still fix it with equality though, by encouraging people to have the mindset that men who are r*ped are hurt equally to when women are r*ped, no matter the situation.
@@JaydenConnors please point me to where I said that it is all men’s fault and that women do no wrong. I said if there was more of a feeling of equality (all people feeling that way, not just men seeing women as equal but everyone seeing every gender as equal) that *people* would be more validating of his feelings. Not only men be more validating of his feelings. I said “people” as including all genders. If I meant men, I would have said men. But if you read that and *only* thought about men when you saw the word “people” then you are just proving my point. Don’t put words into someone else’s mouth.
Oh wait this video is actually very based so far. Vibe check passed, guys✅ Also I feel so bad for the guy who got harrassed by his ’superior’ :’( I can only imagine the frustration and fear he felt when they didn’t take it seriously.
everyone does have inherent biases. I'm glad he said that. don't agree with "people not believing in redemption anymore". Twitter and cancel culture isn't real life. we all make mistakes and hopefully learn from them and be better
I do say that sometimes to comfort myself but.. Sadly twitter and cancel culture are being upheld by real people that exist in real life. Just look at many of the teens in schools, they’ll grow up to be adults too and have more of an effect on society.
Cancel culture has an effect on people in real life though. It can jeopardize people from having job opportunities and this can ruin a person mentally. Though it might begin online, it is certainly not confined to that space.
The title of this video is planned so so cleverly. It's controversial and it will attract the most amount of comments possible. Just like this channel's other content these days lol
Thank you to all the men who participated in this video and thank you all for being so honest! So informative and honest how could you not appreciate this ❤
I wish this episode was done in different states with more men, especially older. The openness with which they talked and approached the issues showed they all had already deconstructed a lot and thought the issues thru
Do one with black men but with similar questions. Especially when it comes to sexuality. We have alot of homophobia in the black community. A bit ironic when we preach “equal rights” but not for gay men.
@@badabingbadaboom4624 Im speaking from a gay black mens perspective, I live both experiences and if you don’t yourself, then you cant tell me how to feel. I deal with homophobia within my own community which is already oppressed. Its just annoying caping for black men only to be called a f@gg0t behind my back. Like, how can you be outraged when a nonblack person calls you the nword and turn around and call me the fword?
This is the only way they can show a panel of all white males. Fascinating how using the terms "the times of" with traits a human can't help is still priority. It shows what lessons society has yet to learn.
I liked the color choices. I think it makes sense to flip the colors in this case because the questions were kinda heavy, so if the light goes red on that person it gives a sense of... maybe not alarm but a "Oh damn he agreed to that" feeling, and i think that effect is stronger when you see a red light than when its blue :)
this is SO important, people should be able to talk about touchy topics like this and not get flamed. here at 36k views. but some points should be taken really seriously, if you have a problem and is open to redemption then sure go ahead but if not then its a serious problem.
If there is an other episodes including women, can you ask THE SAME questions ? Especially question 3 and 5 would be very intersting to hear. E.g. "I always ask for consent ("even" when your partner is a male)"
When the guy shared his story about the woman harassing him and NOBODY defending him at his job, I got so angry. If I worked there and had been his boss, that lady would've been FIRED. Poor guy 🥺
I'm curious about the reasoning behind asking the last question, especially without allowing them to talk about it afterward. Answering the question at all implies agreement with the premise on which it's based, but I don't think that agreement should be expected without first creating room for nuanced discussion.
@@ninaaden8338 Who’s deflecting? I’m just stating what people are saying in the comments. Someone’s butthurt. If you’re mad than I’m talking about you😂
The very last question was pretty arbitrary, especially since they were denied any discussion on it. No other episode in this series so far has employed the final Yes/No question sans elaboration which is particularly ironic because it was the question most specific to this given demographic.
It would be nice if the questions asked were more relevant to the group. For example, if you're going to bring a group of "white men", it would make sense to do questions relating to race and masculinity. I guess if you want to add other random questions in there you can do what you want, but it would have been nice to have more relevant questions
All of these questions just felt like preconceptions liberals have surrounding white men. I mean obviously the ones who agreed with the statements made up the majority of the content while the ones disagreeing with the statements participated far less. Basically, Jubilee had an agenda to push.
@@2405phuong questions that are blatantly obvious what liberals think white men do/think. And then giving all the content/coverage to those who confirmed their beliefs/agenda. It's just obviously pushing a narrative lmao. Just like I doubt this was a random sample size.
7:30 My female boss was harassed by a male colleague IN WRITING. She reported it, and her boss said it would not be addressed. Austin shouldn't have had to experience that. It's awful. I can see why he thinks men have less power in this situation, since we talk about the victimization of women more often, but I think he's not considering the fact that (some) men have always done this more often to women than the other way around.
I feel like the men were talking about CNC rather than fantasising about actually assaulting/hurting a woman. I think if anyone had though, they wouldn’t have admitted it
If people have those feelings surely it's more important for them to know how do that in a healthy way as opposed to bottling it up and assaulting someone
Yeah as someone who's into BDSM there's a pretty big difference. I'm into BDSM and CNC, have been for many years, and do it with my partner, but I've never had any urge to assault a woman.
"suck it up" yep, at age of 27, white male, i'm still struggling to open up with my problems, I feel weak and embarassed but if I keep them inside, they build up and destroy me slowly. Psychologist is a great place to go and open up, it has helped me the most.
If there's one thing I've learned from my successful and failed interactions with people is that it's better to expose your ideas rather than impose them.
Austin's story was heartbreaking 😢. I hope he's gotten help since then dealing with his feelings about the situation. I hate that some people think men can't be harassed in this way.
Agreed! My heart breaks for him and what he had to go through and that people just told him essentially to “get over it” Like, no. He was being harassed. It literally doesn't work like that! You don't just “toughen up” and be fine in those situations
This is a fantastic format. I feel so much love for these people and appreciate their vulnerability and candid introspections. Please keep exploring this style of intimate anonymity.
I appreciate Thomas's honesty with the fantasies question, and maybe I am being too black and white about this, but as a SA victim myself, I don't think there is a "healty way" to pretend to r*pe someone or to pretend to know what it's like to be r*ped and I find it very disrespectful
I've never been told to suck it up, not in those words. It's always been about how other's struggle. Do not get me wrong everyone has difficulties. But eventually you feel like yours don't matter. Idk lately I've just been so tired of everything.
please do more videos like this!!! i really love them, i wish there were more already! i appreciate how much effort you guys have put into your videos though
I want to give Austin a hug and ask Thomas to seek help so that he can interpret his curiosities and his subconscious in a way that's safe and healthy for himself and others.
Let's face it: we need something like this to happen to every American every 10 years. It could be a generic block party for the neighborhood for everyone to get together and chat it out, or it could be something private like "Conversations Anonymous;" I've never lived in a social neighborhood (in California, New York, or Hawai'i), so the concept of neighbors speaking any more than a simple "How ya doin'?" with a wave of the hand is beyond me.
Austin broke my heart when he talked about his harassment from a woman. Like this is sooooo common for men to be harassed, assaulted, abused, raped by women. And it's this gross societal belief that they should just suck it up. It's wrong!
Even tho their face was hidden I still think that they didn't say exactly what they wanted to say, like they were still trying to put everything in nice words to not create conflict.
My heart breaks for Austin. I cannot imagine having to go through that and have people tell you to just “toughen up.” What is with this weird idea that men cannot be harassed/assaulted/etc.? The people who think like that are a HUGE part of the problem
I'm really happy to hear these conversations between men because I'VE NEVER heard the types of conversations from them. This is the type of vulnerability I like to see
Did two of the guys just have nothing to say? I swear we kept going back to the same four people throughout the video. Great video though! I loved all the discussions between this panel.
Why weren’t they allowed to elaborate on the last question? The way to actually get anything out of this discussion is to allow them to elaborate and actually talk about the topic with mutual understanding and nuance. I don’t like at all that they did that.
I’m bothered by the color choices. I inherently see red as a disagreement.
yes omg red is the color of disagreement imo, the same way math is a red subject & science is green etc
@@tinypinkangel excuse me, math is blue >:(
@@tinypinkangel science is yellow in my mind lol
@@tinypinkangel math is Blue
@@pedroloto science is green
Jubilee can you please switch the Red light to DISAGREE
U don't get it, red z EBIL!!1!11-Jubilee
Seriously, it’s messing with my head that red light is agree
Haha I thought the same. 😂
And make the colour for agree, GREEN.
This gets brought up every time they post one of these, and they always ignore it 🥲
I really wish someone had told Austin he didn’t need to apologise for crying. Made me cry seeing him apologise for getting upset over something horrible happening to him
I was looking for this comment.
I was so confused sort of by the way he immediately tried to dismiss his built up emotions :(
@@harun3953 what are you talking about? Nobody was saying they were upset about him crying. They are saying they wish someone would have told me he didn’t need to apologize for crying and letting his emotions out
@@harun3953 she’s not saying that, she saying people shouldn’t have to apologize for feeling, and she’s also saying she wished someone told him that
@@harun3953 babe, read the comment again.
The colours are confusing me! I think red is disagree and blue is agree but its the other way round and takes me a few seconds to figure it out but having Jubilee say agree or disagree with each person is helpful
Same here. At the beginning of each prompt I had to re-read what each color meant. I wish they went with green and red and red means disagree
@@darkangelprincess101 This may not be the reason but blue and red are easier for colourblind people, as red and green is a very common type of colourblindness
I think red simply means the controversial choice, the choice that might only be admitted under anonymity.
@@JasperCasper24ye but why not blue agree red disagree 😅
@@Nada-od5nv For Real LMAO
Austin, I’m sorry that you got harassed at work and nobody did anything about it… I hope you can receive the help you need.
What's with the smiley face
@@Bongtaker Who knows, bitches be passive aggressive sometimes for no reason.
@@Bongtaker it's so mentally unstable people can get hung up on it
@@JoeMama-mg5dk don't really know what u mean tbh
I just couldn't tell if the smiley face was crying or sarcastic
@@Bongtaker It's them basically showing they're proud of him. The story is sad so it makes them cry but theyre happy they told it because you admire their strength. It's not sarcastic
Wish they would’ve clarified the first question because there’s a difference between being racist and being prejudice. We are all prejudicial to some degree but not everyone is racist
Don't expect much from a jubilee video
LMFAOOO speak for yourself
Racism is prejudice based on one’s race. So it’s still racism.
Look up the definition of racism. The first word in the definition is prejudice.
@@Junior-zf7yy So?
I don’t care how controversial Thomas’s answer to the fantasy question was, at least it felt like he was being honest which is what he was asked to do in this video. I’m sure plenty of other people wouldn’t have been so honest
Yeah people acting as if CNC isn't known
Exactly! Everyone has kinks or fantasy's as long as they are explored in a healthy way that's okay.
@@stefangrubesic2708 not a healthy coping mechanism but it is *a* coping mechanism
I know many women who are into cnc
Bottoms can have those fantasies too, not only tops. I think it's a question with confusing implications if you don't specify which one you are in the fantasy.
Austin breaking down completely broke my heart. Women can absolutely harass men and it's so terrible that Austin and other men have been scarred because they aren't being listened to. I'm so sorry that happened to you Austin
Maybe the color assignment was done on purpose to get you to think outside of the binary and not automatically associate the people who disagreed as "bad". Maybe they want you to focus less on the color and more of what's being said.
interesting take
nicely said
They should’ve just made it grey then
no, it was just not thought through lol
Things work for a reason, color psychology is very much a thing
Austin's story made me sad. Being told to "toughen up" when he was being harrassed and made to feel unsafe is so messed up. I'm glad the people in his life were able to help him.
Same! While I think it's important to acknowledge that "the majority of smth doesn't mean ALL" - same goes with privilege, racism, sexism etc. I have personally been dismissed as "you are privileged, you or your people have never experienced oppression" when the other person knew nothing about me. While generalizations from a large sample of individuals onto a population can help us improve society by identifying certain problems, we should not generalize from a population to an individual. Assuming what one did and did not experience based on their gender, skin color, ethnicity etc. is not a helpful thing to do.
@@Lina_al_j "should not generalise from a population to an individual", perfectly said, couldn't have said it better myself
Because they disguised the voices I couldn't tell if he was being serious. Maybe I confused him with another guy who was making jokes about everything, but I first took his emotion as sarcasm. Fault of this experiment.
I agree, of course, the double standards are toxic and should be done away with. I've heard people talk about being literally raped and are laughed at by authorities because they appear to be men and "men can't be raped by women". That long-standing prejudice is every bit as false and harmful and when I heard people laughing on a 1980s Johnny Carson show about the concept of a wife being raped by her husband, as if that's simply not possible.
I would have gathered evidence, maybe even taped conversations, just gathering info depending on the state and its laws.
Sue the damn company for millions, its the american way!!!
I agree he needs to toughen up, we have enough over emotional woman when men start to become over emotional nothing gets done and we stagnate as a society
Honestly, I thought everyone here was really brave. It is hard to be vulnerable, and I am very encouraged by the fact that these men were brave enough to do that. Thank you.
Anonymity helps
@@kabutoyakushi6618 they are still in a room with eachother
These are garbage leading questions. Poorly chosen. *Garbage methodology.* Garbage survey.
I'm sorry...ARE THEY DOING THIS WITH ALL RACES OF MEN? Or is it just White men we can ask embarrassing questions of??? Ffs.
@@Its_Quash yeah, all of them are also white
I wish Austin was comforted by at least one of the guys sitting next to him when he discussed his work harassment situation ☹️ I just wanted to give him a big hug
The questions asked here were definitely well picked unlike some of the other episodes. I really do appreciate how many important topics had been covered with just 6 questions.
How are they well picked? I think these are horrible topicks often talked about and most importantly topics that makes white men look bad. Why? Because these are topics that usually discussed about all men but for some reason only 'white men' are answering them. Like rape, sexuality, racism, feminism etc. as if white men are responsible for every one of these topics.
I very much disagree these were kinda circlejerky with obvious answers and I wish they picked guys with more diverse opinions because this is not most men and I think we know that😭
I mean these arent exclusive to white men at all
I just think they barely had to do with them being white and their perspective of being white the first and last question were more of what I was looking for and they didn’t even get to answer the last one
@@mimosasseat9860 Trust me they deliberately picked these questions for white males🤣
Telling people to just “suck it up” is something I will never get over. It doesn’t teach anyone anything and when people say that, it actually just means “I don’t know how to handle the situation so just stop talking about it.” Like we have to learn and teach others how to develop the emotional tools to work through things ccappropriately. That’s actual resilience. You can’t just will away feelings or pain or trauma.
Or learn how to stand up for yourself
Tell that to my parents.
I think it is absolutely wrong. But we have to acknowledge that, that is the tone men not women set for society. It is absolutely wrong when men do that and if we want a change men gotta stop telling other men suck it up and have consequences for the women who commit thoes acts.
I think in some instances it's definitely what you said, people not knowing how to handle the situation so they just want you to get over it. But I think in some instances, when someone says you should learn to get over it, they may just be saying, "you're not dealing with this situation effectively and It's a situation that you have to learn to become better at dealing with emotionally." So in a way it's trying to encourage them to develop those emotional tools and work through things. Definitely could be worded better though and depending on the situation it would probably help to elaborate instead of just saying get over it
@@SiavashGolzar I understand what you’re saying, but idk, that doesn’t actually tell the person anything or help in any way. Like telling a person who is clearly experiencing some kind of distress that they need to “get over it” is like….well, yeah they would love to do that thanks for stating the obvious. Now that the obvious is out of the way, I’d like to have more resources and education on how to cope with certain situations in ways that work for the individual. I’m sitting here and talking about this mostly because I’m lucky enough to have been exposed to this concept of not just coping strategies, but that there’s a plethora of coping strategies available to people. The thing is, they have to first learn more about them selves and try various ones out until they find one that works for them. I wish this was more common in common conversation.
Wow... Austins recovery from that momentarily crying breakdown was insanely quick... it's like he just flipped a switch. This just shows how men are trained and so skillful with shutting down any emotions that make them seem weak. Especially infront of other men. This is actually sad that men have to get that ability over time. I don't know one single women that can just stop crying like that.
yeah, i learned it pretty quickly when showing an ounce of emotion got wierd looks or my parents and teachers punished me for having an undesired emotion.
People who have been abused or emotionally neglected can do this. Females just tend to be allowed to experience these emotions outwardly, however, many ladies "the strong ones" also have this. They recover because they were never comforted while in pain or emotional distress. Certainly males would be more at risk for developing this behavior, but it has more to do with how you were nurtured, and younger ladies tend to receive more compassion than do young men.
I'm a woman and do the same thing
I see no problem with men having a front emotionally. That means being emotionally mature enough to put those around you first and handling yourself on the side. I’m still striving for mastery of that though.
As a POC, to this day and age I think everyone should really take racism seriously, not only on white people but also people of colour who take advantage of it just so they can be racist towards other races. With the release of “Velma” by Mindy Kaling, it opened my eyes that people of colour could get that far to be openly racist on a TV Series! As an Asian Pacific Islander, being racist as a POC is completely unacceptable! Being part of this newer generation of children, I have been surrounded by white, black and brown children, all are innocent and unaware of the history of their ancestors. The first thing we don’t want them to see on TV is a Person Of Colour being plain racist and bully to a white boy. It’s not only white people whose being racist anymore, it’s all of us! We need to get our crap together if we want to live in a better world. Don’t reflect on other people’s racism because that would make you racist yourself despite what your skin colour is. In this century, everybody are being racist.
Thank you for noticing and also being outraged at the anti-white racism out there.
What do you mean it's not only white people being racist anymore?
You might need to read some history
As a POC that has experienced more racism from my own than in the reverse I agree.
Period. I am half white, half Hispanic (ik some ppl consider Hispanic white but acknowledging the tan/brownish Hispanic) I’m mainly surrounded by Mexican ppl and I’ve personally seen Mexican ppl say some of the most out of pocket racist things towards every race. Racism/racial prejudice is just wrong period and so gross to see ppl try to justify and normalize it.
Finally some one with common sense
Austin crying made me tear up too. I felt his fear when he said "I was so scared". Austin, if you're reading these comments, I'm sorry you had that experience. That was horrible what happened to you and it should NOT have happened.
I love the way they answered the questions and discussed so civil
yesss some videos where people have discussions or answer questions, they all are just shouting and here they were calmly letting everyone tell their part
i think it’s because they cant see eachother and it makes it easier to understand bc you cant hold anything against them based on appearance
so civil shamed that they can't show their faces or voices? Gotcha.
Having the lights off might help
@@bdmenne oh hush
This was absolutely incredible. Mask Off is so important, please continue with this series
I really appreciate the fact that jubilee masks the identity’s of the people on these. I definitely think that the fear of judgment or public perception clouds peoples ability or want to tell the truth, but when that’s removed people are much more open.
That’s exactly why they’re face and voice is covered.
yo kid listen to their tone of voices and their hand gestures, 60% of these "men" are gay and they are all but one liberal
this group represents men as much as ru paul does
I gasped when Austin started crying im sorry that happened to you 🥺 its not fair when people don't get their voice heard
then stand up for everyone not just protected classes
@@sedna2644 um I do
@@maam9401 ok monkey
It shouldn't be surprising and and your 129 upvoters are naive. This is the experience we men have to deal with all the time at work.
As a person that greatly enjoys psychology and sociology i absolutely love these anonymous videos :)
Same! Psychology buddies! Also you're very beatiful.
@@iamReddington thank you :)
Licensed psychiatry provider/ nerd here! I love it too and always have! 😂❤
Dont you worry that the subjects could have been selected to give the answers they did?
@@daftwod Also a psych and soci lover, while these videos are super interesting you always have to take these types of videos with a grain of salt. Regardless of if they randomly selected 7 white men, their responses and perspectives do not represent the majority of white men in America and should be seen more as individual cases. Also their responses to questions could be influenced by what others say in the room (for example i noticed some took a little longer to respond to questions and saw what others chose before picking their choice).
"women have more power than me"
Austin said exactly what I was thinking, there are definitely times where women do have power over men, I was r*ped by a woman at work but I knew if I said anything nobody would believe me, or if they did I would get the "toughen up" treatment.
I'm so sorry that happened to you. I hope you are doing well and are no longer around them.
I'm so sorry you went through that, and the lack of support and safety to seek help. Don't even get me started on issues like false accusations. It's devastating seeing the impact on a mans life, and the obstacles it places making it even harder for real victims to open up.
@@keatonmccarthy8691 0/10 troll better next time.
That shouldn't have happened i am so sorry, some people don't deserve to be called humans really.
Something similar happens to a friend of mine but the woman flipped it on him and said she was the one who was assaulted even though he was 12 at the time and she was 16 so nothing happened to her after that and he was kicked out of the summer camp it happened at and was never allowed to go back
To be honest, it's nice to hear white men talk about their experiences apart from their whiteness without someone invalidating them by telling them they have white privilege as if it somehow undoes their trauma.
Yeah that's not usually how those conversations go. It's not about invalidating white people's trauma, it's about white people pretending they don't have a leg up by virtue of being white.
white privilege isnt a thing, institutional racism isnt a thing
Exactly!!
odd to not let them elaborate on the last one… it implies a lot by their answer and I’d like to hear the reasoning
I personally didn't even understand the question, what does white male era even mean? White male feeling superior? Too focused on? Feeling oppressed? Having power? I think the question is not clear enough to actually have an opinion on, and im sure each guy understood the question differently and at least one of them didn't understand it at all lol
Same
Me too. I’m actually really annoyed jubilee didn’t allow them that.
What do you think each answer implies?
I think it helped them answer 100% honestly by worying less about explaining their reasoning
Wow these men were so loving and validating in this conversation, it was beautiful. If only our culture made space & normalcy for this level of vulnerability in men, society would be a safer place.
This is a very interesting concept, as most people are afraid to say what they truly want to say as they don’t want to be cancelled, not just in a social media sense but in a job sense too, as people loose their jobs over things they say
That doesn’t stop thousands of people from saying racist/homophobic things online everywhere, though.
@@ConvenientlyShapedUsername Depending on your definition of homophobic but yeah I see and hear racist people all the time in public, social media, and the news they all discriminate against white people I think they are all whitephobic and probably heterophobic.
Not about being cancelled. If that was the case, Andrew Tate wouldn't exist.
It's about not wanting to deviate from the norm and being scared to be disliked or having opinions that, unbeknownst to us, hurt people.
@@ConvenientlyShapedUsername Yeah, not sure what OP's point is
@@kevinsundelin8639 Oh yea. What do you tater totes call it? tHe mAtRix
My father had to fight tooth and nail to get custody of me over my mother, and even with lots of evidence of some not so kid friendly stuff, it still took 5 months of court.
It's a scam!! Don't fall for it, it's not the real Jubilee!!
I'm referring to the comment above, by the way!
I feel like you’re lying because most statistics disagree with this. 💀
@Kringe Did you just pull that out of your arse? Not even close to the truth women are definitely are favoured.
@Kringe tf? why are you lying?
'exploring rape fantasies healthily is valid' this is so funny and terrifying at the same time.
It is, but at the same I think it is a valid point
@@johnchesterfield9726 🙂
Yeah bro is a creep. Whether it’s legal or not it’s the fact that the other person doesn’t consent is what gets him off. Idk why he said as long “as it’s lega and consented to” as if it makes a difference.
@@johnchesterfield9726 the fact that u even have rape fantasies from the start, is quite unhealthy
@@pizzermaster1145 When did I ever say I have rape fantasies?? You’re clearly trying to read statements into my words that aren’t even there.
I find it sad on multiple levels that a lot of the comments are “wow they weren’t awful people! That’s crazy” or “dang got lucky with these ones”
I was going to say the same thing. The point that every comment is "I'm surprised how well this went" shows what is wrong with people rn
Very sad indeed. Found more than a few comments just being openly racist, too.
Yup. It's controversial now to not openly hate white men and blame them for everything wrong in society.
Austin, if you read this, I feel your pain. I've been there. That feeling of helplessness and despair is real. Please seek professional help if possible. It has helped me much more than I could have ever imagined. Praying for you🙏
In what universe is the color red used to represent “Agree?”
I know, I kept having to remind myself which color was which, lol!
I thinks it's because of the studio setting, using other colors might be transparent for "nose pitbuller" to check fir their identity.
Them all disagreeing that women had more power was comforting to see. The reason equality is so important is for guys like Austin. If women were seen as equals and not inferior, this situation would become less common because his feelings would be more validated by other people. So sorry you went through that Austin. You are so brave for sharing that and you never have to apologize for crying.
Yeah! Men are the ones to blame for their own misfortunes! Women can do no wrong!
@@JaydenConnors if you got that from what I just said, you are part of the problem.
Equality is impossible, women will never be viewed as equal because they are biologically not. The reason why men are laughed at when they say a woman r*ped them is because of that, men are stronger and women are weaker. You don't fix that by pretending men and women are equal, you can still fix it with equality though, by encouraging people to have the mindset that men who are r*ped are hurt equally to when women are r*ped, no matter the situation.
@@jesswinter Thats exactly what you said.
@@JaydenConnors please point me to where I said that it is all men’s fault and that women do no wrong. I said if there was more of a feeling of equality (all people feeling that way, not just men seeing women as equal but everyone seeing every gender as equal) that *people* would be more validating of his feelings. Not only men be more validating of his feelings. I said “people” as including all genders. If I meant men, I would have said men. But if you read that and *only* thought about men when you saw the word “people” then you are just proving my point. Don’t put words into someone else’s mouth.
Oh wait this video is actually very based so far. Vibe check passed, guys✅
Also I feel so bad for the guy who got harrassed by his ’superior’ :’( I can only imagine the frustration and fear he felt when they didn’t take it seriously.
Agreed. I'm glad he called it out too because so many men would keep quiet for fear of being mocked.
It's way more common than you may think. But people pretend to care online but really don't care irl cause they're men
Yeah no this video is 100% racist think about who made the questions its just gaslighting people
Based? Tf does that mean? (Im not up to date on the young hip lingo)
@@thetick7684 means valid or something on point
Damn this went better than I expected
That’s what happens when you see “white” and “men” as red flags
The questions were so weak though!!!!! Nothing controversial
everyone does have inherent biases. I'm glad he said that. don't agree with "people not believing in redemption anymore". Twitter and cancel culture isn't real life. we all make mistakes and hopefully learn from them and be better
Literally, like people don’t live on Twitter and if ur so racist that you post something racist 💀 then that’s on you.
I do say that sometimes to comfort myself but..
Sadly twitter and cancel culture are being upheld by real people that exist in real life. Just look at many of the teens in schools, they’ll grow up to be adults too and have more of an effect on society.
@@ConvenientlyShapedUsername how so?
Cancel culture has an effect on people in real life though. It can jeopardize people from having job opportunities and this can ruin a person mentally. Though it might begin online, it is certainly not confined to that space.
@@johnchesterfield9726 what's an example?
This was so much better than I thought it would be, and I am so happy I was wrong. We’re creating a better world!
That was the best one so far! I wish it was longer
It feels like they’re actually being honest this time unlike in the other videos in this series
Hehe longer
Nah if it was longer it might not have a nice personality.and then it might be a drag to watch
The title of this video is planned so so cleverly. It's controversial and it will attract the most amount of comments possible. Just like this channel's other content these days lol
All the videos in this series are titled the same way
Thank you to all the men who participated in this video and thank you all for being so honest! So informative and honest how could you not appreciate this ❤
I think that if the word “honest” was replaced with “vulnerable” then people wouldn’t be so offended by the title
But then there'd be less clicks
To be fair, all the other videos in this series were title the same
Who's offended by the title?
Why would people be offended?
Austin, You dont have to apologize for feeling. You're valid and im sor sorry that you experienced work place harrassment. Stay strong bud.
That last question felt really unnecessary. Why would you not allow them to elaborate?
They really shortchanged us by not letting them elaborate. 😕
I wish this episode was done in different states with more men, especially older. The openness with which they talked and approached the issues showed they all had already deconstructed a lot and thought the issues thru
Women can definitely harass...I'm so sorry for how toxic your boss was and your work environment. I'm so sorry you had to go through that
Do one with black men but with similar questions. Especially when it comes to sexuality. We have alot of homophobia in the black community. A bit ironic when we preach “equal rights” but not for gay men.
Race is not monolithic tho
@@badabingbadaboom4624 Im speaking from a gay black mens perspective, I live both experiences and if you don’t yourself, then you cant tell me how to feel. I deal with homophobia within my own community which is already oppressed. Its just annoying caping for black men only to be called a f@gg0t behind my back. Like, how can you be outraged when a nonblack person calls you the nword and turn around and call me the fword?
@@badabingbadaboom4624 It isn't but some people treat it as if it is and always has been. It causes a lot of problems.
They want equal rights. Just only for race, and not for gay folks. You have got to use your brain.
@@badabingbadaboom4624 It is. That’s how it was created and has always been. Ppl just won’t come to accept that for some odd reason.
Nobody should ever feel bad or be judged for feeling bad about their sexuality everyone has to find themselves in this world embrace every aspect❤
Does that include Thomas and his rape fantasies?
This is the only way they can show a panel of all white males. Fascinating how using the terms "the times of" with traits a human can't help is still priority. It shows what lessons society has yet to learn.
the "r*pe fantasies" part made my blood froze literally
Not literally, that's metaphorically.
@@somebodyoncetoldme2664 there doesn’t always have to be an argument. they’re literally sharing how they feel abt the situation
@@somebodyoncetoldme2664 pretty self explanatory. he fantasizes ab r@p3
@@fantasia7357 It's a very common kink. It's called CNC or Consensual Non-Consent. He explained that he doesn't actually want to rape someone.
@@theguywhoisaustralian1465 still ew
I liked the color choices. I think it makes sense to flip the colors in this case because the questions were kinda heavy, so if the light goes red on that person it gives a sense of... maybe not alarm but a "Oh damn he agreed to that" feeling, and i think that effect is stronger when you see a red light than when its blue :)
I agree, I feel like If disagree was red they would get more judgement & they would seem more in the wrong.
I can’t see this going badly in any way at all
yes😀
You obviously didn’t watch it
Mfs when white dudes:😡😡
Preconceived notions like this comment are the problem.
Let the Lizard make a comment before watching the video lmao
I really wished they would elaborate on the last one it's such an interesting topic!
I didn’t really understand it
I wish there was a part 2 for it
Why didn't they? Why ask such a deep question and not elaborate??
you cant ask that question and not have them elaborate at the end. Also, Jubilee knows exactly what they're doing what that color selection...
Austin, if you're reading these comments I hope you recover and I hope you're doing okay. We're all here for you 🫂
I like how at the time of commenting, nobody has watched the full video and yet everyone is still commenting on it on how bad it is
Same
It's a jubilee video, what do you expect?
Exactly
Jubilee progressive viewers tend to be closed minded to anything they deem against their narrative. I’m not surprised.
this is SO important, people should be able to talk about touchy topics like this and not get flamed. here at 36k views. but some points should be taken really seriously, if you have a problem and is open to redemption then sure go ahead but if not then its a serious problem.
If there is an other episodes including women, can you ask THE SAME questions ? Especially question 3 and 5 would be very intersting to hear. E.g. "I always ask for consent ("even" when your partner is a male)"
Dude that was the most respectfull and relatable somhow (gurl here) of 100% honest. I was not expecting that ❤
Would’ve liked to hear elaboration on the last question. I don’t understand why a rule was put in place not to.
When the guy shared his story about the woman harassing him and NOBODY defending him at his job, I got so angry. If I worked there and had been his boss, that lady would've been FIRED. Poor guy 🥺
this went much better than I was thinking it would go
Nah the r@pe fantasies caught me EXTREMELY off guard wtf
🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀
I'm curious about the reasoning behind asking the last question, especially without allowing them to talk about it afterward. Answering the question at all implies agreement with the premise on which it's based, but I don't think that agreement should be expected without first creating room for nuanced discussion.
Seeing men have thoughtful and meaningful conversations like this is so attractive
The amount of people in this comment section that think African Americans can’t be racist is just sad.
It's a little bit racist in itself to think black people can't look down upon white people.
@@Leaffordes no its not. Check out the definition of racist
The video is centeted on WHITE men
The amount of *white people* that think *white people can't be racist* is just sad. Stick to the topic and quit deflecting.
@@ninaaden8338 Who’s deflecting? I’m just stating what people are saying in the comments. Someone’s butthurt. If you’re mad than I’m talking about you😂
I don't believe their selection was random and It is obvious that the questions are ideologically motivated.
The very last question was pretty arbitrary, especially since they were denied any discussion on it. No other episode in this series so far has employed the final Yes/No question sans elaboration which is particularly ironic because it was the question most specific to this given demographic.
i wish they could’ve elaborated on that last question, i was honestly a lil surprised by how most responded that they agreed!
Because it’s true, the media gives way more attention to minorities and see white men as bad.
Yeah, tbh, I don't understand why Jubilee didn't allow any elaboration on that. 🤷♀To make people watching think for themselves or? Idk.
Era of white men? I believe there's no such thing; Never was.
What do the last five questions have to do with being white?
It would be nice if the questions asked were more relevant to the group. For example, if you're going to bring a group of "white men", it would make sense to do questions relating to race and masculinity. I guess if you want to add other random questions in there you can do what you want, but it would have been nice to have more relevant questions
All of these questions just felt like preconceptions liberals have surrounding white men. I mean obviously the ones who agreed with the statements made up the majority of the content while the ones disagreeing with the statements participated far less. Basically, Jubilee had an agenda to push.
@@skylergardner2792 yep
Questions like?
@@2405phuong questions that are blatantly obvious what liberals think white men do/think. And then giving all the content/coverage to those who confirmed their beliefs/agenda. It's just obviously pushing a narrative lmao. Just like I doubt this was a random sample size.
7:30 My female boss was harassed by a male colleague IN WRITING. She reported it, and her boss said it would not be addressed.
Austin shouldn't have had to experience that. It's awful. I can see why he thinks men have less power in this situation, since we talk about the victimization of women more often, but I think he's not considering the fact that (some) men have always done this more often to women than the other way around.
Harassed HOW exactly?
I can't blame you because colors are wack but he literally disagreed that women have more power.
I feel like the men were talking about CNC rather than fantasising about actually assaulting/hurting a woman. I think if anyone had though, they wouldn’t have admitted it
If people have those feelings surely it's more important for them to know how do that in a healthy way as opposed to bottling it up and assaulting someone
Yeah as someone who's into BDSM there's a pretty big difference. I'm into BDSM and CNC, have been for many years, and do it with my partner, but I've never had any urge to assault a woman.
@@justahugenerd1278 exactly. Huge difference between rape fantasies and power play in a consensual setting.
or maybe just maybe men don't want to hurt women
@@Omars911 statistics prove otherwise.
They were so self aware and honest, this was really brave.
"suck it up" yep, at age of 27, white male, i'm still struggling to open up with my problems, I feel weak and embarassed but if I keep them inside, they build up and destroy me slowly. Psychologist is a great place to go and open up, it has helped me the most.
Based on the controversial questions, RED makes more sense as a color for agreeing cus it highlights the aspect of honesty to a touchy subject.
If there's one thing I've learned from my successful and failed interactions with people is that it's better to expose your ideas rather than impose them.
Austin's story was heartbreaking 😢. I hope he's gotten help since then dealing with his feelings about the situation. I hate that some people think men can't be harassed in this way.
Agreed! My heart breaks for him and what he had to go through and that people just told him essentially to “get over it”
Like, no. He was being harassed. It literally doesn't work like that! You don't just “toughen up” and be fine in those situations
This is a fantastic format. I feel so much love for these people and appreciate their vulnerability and candid introspections. Please keep exploring this style of intimate anonymity.
I appreciate Thomas's honesty with the fantasies question, and maybe I am being too black and white about this, but as a SA victim myself, I don't think there is a "healty way" to pretend to r*pe someone or to pretend to know what it's like to be r*ped and I find it very disrespectful
I've never been told to suck it up, not in those words. It's always been about how other's struggle. Do not get me wrong everyone has difficulties. But eventually you feel like yours don't matter. Idk lately I've just been so tired of everything.
Lol that ending was 10/10! The irony and accuracy Ahahahahaha. Your best video ending yet!
please do more videos like this!!! i really love them, i wish there were more already! i appreciate how much effort you guys have put into your videos though
I want to give Austin a hug and ask Thomas to seek help so that he can interpret his curiosities and his subconscious in a way that's safe and healthy for himself and others.
What's wrong with Thomas?
Thomas is fine and doesn’t need help.
Why does thomas need to seek help
I agree don't listen to these baboons Chrissie....
@@valcee_calling us baboons just cuz we black, racist punk, youre every bit the people you pretend to hate
Hopefully nothing racist happens in this video.
We can only hope 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Going based off on the title I HIGHLY doubt it
Edit: im referring to the “…100% honest.” part
They didn’t ask why white men commit school shootings. I’m tryna see what’s up with that.
All white people are racist including the women
@@itsnatemate7697 thats racist
Why are they in the same room? This still doesn't let them speak their mind
Why couldn't they elaborate on the last question? Nice hit job Jubilee.
I wasn’t expecting to like this episode so much! Well done everyone! Seemed like a great group of guys.
Jubilee : that UA-cam channel that just keeps getting better.....and better
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They’re all very mature and intellectual, I love how they don’t judge each other
If only they gave non-White people the same respect regarding topics like this
@@Mrcleanfrfr fr
Let's face it: we need something like this to happen to every American every 10 years. It could be a generic block party for the neighborhood for everyone to get together and chat it out, or it could be something private like "Conversations Anonymous;" I've never lived in a social neighborhood (in California, New York, or Hawai'i), so the concept of neighbors speaking any more than a simple "How ya doin'?" with a wave of the hand is beyond me.
Austin broke my heart when he talked about his harassment from a woman. Like this is sooooo common for men to be harassed, assaulted, abused, raped by women. And it's this gross societal belief that they should just suck it up. It's wrong!
It’s interesting to see which issues white men discuss vs the video with black people discussing issues 🤔
Great video Jubilee
Can you explain what you mean by this?
Even tho their face was hidden I still think that they didn't say exactly what they wanted to say, like they were still trying to put everything in nice words to not create conflict.
The point was using the anonymity to talk honestly.
Sounds like you tend to go out of your way to create conflict... troublesome.
My heart breaks for Austin. I cannot imagine having to go through that and have people tell you to just “toughen up.” What is with this weird idea that men cannot be harassed/assaulted/etc.? The people who think like that are a HUGE part of the problem
Bruh there is no such thing as "exploring rape fantasies healthily" you cannot convince me otherwise.
Like rape is not healthy in itself so
thank you, person with common sence
I'm really happy to hear these conversations between men because I'VE NEVER heard the types of conversations from them. This is the type of vulnerability I like to see
Because men have more important stuff to do than worry about nonsense like this.
@@rick_222 do you need to cry or a hug
Those aren't real men. Real men are men like Andrew Tate
@@bud1221 sounds like you might never find a woman to submit to you
@@bud1221 let me guess, another black men who wanna be andrew's tate wife??? you're tate's bitch*s
Did two of the guys just have nothing to say? I swear we kept going back to the same four people throughout the video. Great video though! I loved all the discussions between this panel.
Comments: "tHiS iS GonNa tuRn oUt Bad"
Those lads: *meh opinions and meh questions*
Why weren’t they allowed to elaborate on the last question? The way to actually get anything out of this discussion is to allow them to elaborate and actually talk about the topic with mutual understanding and nuance. I don’t like at all that they did that.
You definitely should’ve elaborated on ‘the era of white men is over’, because I don’t remember a specific race having an era.