As the only entj here, I like how infp want to be productive but still be lazy... its cute lmao and it also helps me chill a bit... Tho youre right im 17 and my studies are still my top priority, family is next and then u... and building a business empire requires me to get married at 30 lol unless if its an infp i can compromise..🤯🤯🤯 and the moment i realise im being bossy, Ill back off..
A thought regarding INFJ: depends on the inner core of the INFJ. Fi users do and will notice the Fe chameleon survival thing we tend to do. At least in my case, it's not done to be an ass. It's done to survive. I describe it as bending my inner core, but not betraying it so I can function in this world. That said, you're spot on that what's behind the Fe mask reveals the real soul, the real values, the authentic person. If that deep inner authenticity which can be buried in the Fe survival mode matches up with an Fi user for the most part, it can be pretty special. The INFJ has to show you who they really are in private, in their own little world. If that inner world isn't full of asshattery, I think it can be a lovely mix. That's just me though. Cheers. INFJ 5w4.
Stephanie Sandlin That’s insightful. I agree the INFP would have to get to know the real INFJ by getting to a certain closeness (beyond the Fe mask) before knowing how well they’re compatible with their inner cores. I’ve heard of some getting along great. But others do have issues. It’s interesting how you describe “bending the inner core.”
Me An INFP don’t worry I’m not stalking, after leaving a comment on a previous vid earlier and now deciding to check out another to get a better handle on infps, I couldn’t not comment after seeing this. INFJs aren’t that complicated, they’re fun-loving, geeky, goofy idiots who learn through their childhood experiences that they’re weird / different. Unlike some other types however, notably ENFPs for example, they feel great shame at not being able to fit in and as a result learn to censor the things about themselves that get these responses. And to demystify Ni, it’s just a database of past experiences and knowledge. Ni users are good at identifying patterns because they can run a quick query on certain traits / characteristics and be informed of all the things they know that match the criteria. For example with INFJs - person C has this way of speaking, this specific cadence, this way of holding themselves - they run a query for anyone else they’ve met or seen that matches. Let’s say there was a person A 10 years earlier that matches up well, an INFJ will then extrapolate out and make the assumption that what person A responded well or didn’t respond well to will also be the case for this person C. They’re usually right because what they’re doing is creating their own taxonomies and refining this with every new experience. Ni is just a lightning-fast, pattern-identifying and data organising machine. I’m bringing this up because it explains how they’re able to quickly get a handle on what behaviour and forms of presentation work for various people that they might have never even spoken to. They can make assumptions on how people are just by observing the way they talk, walk, hold themselves and comparing to other similar people they know better all in a few seconds. For example, this stranger holds themselves like friend A, i’m going to approach and start talking to them like their friend A. This allows them to quickly build rapport and present a version of themselves that will likely resonate with that person. Whether they’re doing to manipulate or because they just want to make the other person feel safe and relaxed is up to the INFJ, the situation and their maturity level. Fe compounds this by giving real-time feedback on how they’re likely coming across - “i can’t say this because this could be taken the wrong way and make me sound lazy”, “you’re coming on too strong, start acting cold”, “they didn’t respond to this type of humour, don’t use it again”, “that joke went over like a dog’s wet fart, feel terrible about yourself...but also don’t you dare look sad for scolding yourself...feel terrible about yourself x2 for now looking sad...and x3 for being unfunny...oh this joke worked, well done, but remember you F ed up 1 min ago, and again, don’t forget to look positive or stoic. Looking sad makes you look weak which will invite someone to take advantage and / or lower your chances of finding a partner. That girl over there who may have found you attractive is now no doubt disgusted with how visibly shamed you are, that’s if she wasn’t put off with your terrible attempt at humour, feel bad, oh and can we please get a McDonalds later? I, as your junkie brain will likely let you off if you promise to give me a fix” etc. They’re not that complicated, and at their core they’re wistful, playful, optimistic and fun-loving. Unfortunately unless they learn to open up more, there won’t be many people who get to see this. They’re so desperate to reach out and connect with people however that they will have moments where their authenticity will break through, giving off idiosyncratic behaviour. An example of this is making ball-busting jokes when first meeting someone, at the risk of offending them, in an attempt to skip to the friendship stage immediately, or revealing things about themselves to strangers that fit the current topic but that other people would never dream of revealing such as having a particular medical ailment, a deep-seated fear / insecurity or an embarrassing experience. If they aren’t ashamed with something or don’t mind it being used against them, they will be shockingly open about their thoughts, history and life experiences. The last thing I would say about INFJs is they’re emotionally more volatile. They feel things strongly, find it extremely difficult to hide these feelings and as a result become emotionally expressive.They don’t feel comfortable showing negative emotions but if an INFJ is feeling sad or angry, you’ll likely know it no matter how much they try and hide it. INFPs by contrast seem to be much more guarded emotionally but also more comfortable being open about their weirdness, at least they won’t allow themselves to censor it in the same way. That’s my understanding of them, I admire their uncompromising authenticity. I hope this gives you enough to manipulate and exploit INFJs in the wild. Just try it, if you suspect / know of someone that is likely INFJ, maybe a friend of a friend, anyone you haven’t really spoken to - start acting like an ESFP and watch them approach you like you’re an ESFP. Then you switch it up and watch them short circuit. TLDR - infjs are fake, callous robots who do nothing but manipulate others and make terrible jokes, I think that’s what I was trying to say? I can’t remember. What do I know, i’m just an owl with a tired talon and a screen now covered in claw marks. ...at least I can still get into my contacts, ...i’m kawing for a McDonalds.
@@MeAnINFP INFJ are 2 faced manipulators at their core... The purpose of their mask is to conceal this single fact. The "chameleon thing" does not negate their 2 faced ways. My opinion is based on MULTIPLE Infj's that I've encountered. Their dishonesty cost them our respect... They are Big Liars.
My fiancé is intj. He completely complements on me even though we scratch each other mostly b/c my sensitivity but understand easily. Maturity is a must for this relationship but this relationship will be the best especially for INFP! I strongly recommend intj infp relationship😁 intj can take infp to another level while teaching intj patience 😊
ISFJ is accurate, the Fe-Fi clash of titans, it's a battle I fought fiercely with growing up. The potent passive aggressiveness too becomes the poison of tragedy. The Maeby quit cut for INFP tho xD.
Really funny. As an infj I totally agree with how infps perceive of me sometimes. Now looking out for that! Greetings from the other side of this tiny ocean. (Brussels, Belgium)
was actually waiting for a literal workout video, with funky shorts and the sweat to match :P But seriously, good job with the content, it's very engaging to watch.
Possibly-Compatible & Why: ENTP- Very Natural Chemistry BUT it just depends on their maturity level ENFJ- Natural chemistry BUT can be smothering and intrusive/ nosey so depends on maturity ISFP- They would have to be like "Prince" in his prime !!! Ok, seriously...I've never dated one so I can't honestly say but I didn't want to write them off ISFJ- I've never dated one BUT I've encountered 2 of them & they were both cool. So based on that i can definitely say Friends!
@Any RD Immature ENFJ's are divisive. They like to openly share other people's secret faults and delight in CAUSING hostility & disagreements between the friendsips and family members of others. They consider this to be "fun" when in actuality it's evil. So I ignore them & AVOID interaction. Immature ENTP's are nonsensical. They like to look for loopholes in any discussion just to Troll...and ask silly questions in an attempt to lure people into pointless debates. They consider that to be "fun", when in actuality it's childish. So i just BLOCK them and I move on. I was kind enough to reply BUT I don't go back & forth with trolls #Final Response :)
I think if the INTP did as much research on INFPs as we do on anything else we are interested in we would know to tread lightly as to not break trust. I would be way too scared to try to flirt. I would slowly become close and then reveal my feelings if I felt I had a chance with the INFP. I haven't thought about this too much, you have! 👀
PS: When an infp has this problem with me (an infj) I always see the limit of his/her understanding inbetween us like a deep and gloomy ocean and I always think that it wouldn't have to be a problem if they didn't have to take my behavior as a personal insult. It's like they feel betrayed when you don't act authentic in every moment and for an infj, this acting inauthentic is paradoxically part of BEING authentic. On the other hand I think that it does feel quite harsh for an infp when they're told not to take something personally. And maybe personally is the wrong word. I think they often take one momentary behavior of someone else as representative for the whole thing and therefore they easily feel betrayed, especially because they invest so many dreamy sweet thoughts into the people they care about. As always, I think communication is key. And videos like yours!
Klara Winterain I agree with the last part. INFPs do build up a picture of who you are, and if someone acts contrary to that it’s like they’re not who INFP thought they were, and they have to reevaluate them. We do take inauthenticity personally because it’s so important to us. We want to be able to count on someone being real no matter what. But Fe often works differently than that, so we’d have to adjust our thinking. Communication is key, right!
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As an INFP it makes me sad... All types are incompatible with just one type, while INFP is incompatible with all of them :)
Is that true? I looked through all the types and decided that a fellow INFP would probably be the most compatible
(INFP) Was 5 types in before I realized, this has nothing to do with going to the gym... 🤦🏻♂️
Papa Romeo It honestly never crossed my mind that people would make such a connection...😅
😂😂😂 Ahahahhaha
Your voice is so soothing and therapeutic.
Hetvi Khetia Thank you ❤️
"Glad you broke my heart before it was too late" I FELT THAT. Infp-Istj so true..
As the only entj here, I like how infp want to be productive but still be lazy... its cute lmao and it also helps me chill a bit... Tho youre right im 17 and my studies are still my top priority, family is next and then u... and building a business empire requires me to get married at 30 lol unless if its an infp i can compromise..🤯🤯🤯 and the moment i realise im being bossy, Ill back off..
XD this is awesome "PLAYAH" LOL
A thought regarding INFJ: depends on the inner core of the INFJ. Fi users do and will notice the Fe chameleon survival thing we tend to do. At least in my case, it's not done to be an ass. It's done to survive. I describe it as bending my inner core, but not betraying it so I can function in this world. That said, you're spot on that what's behind the Fe mask reveals the real soul, the real values, the authentic person. If that deep inner authenticity which can be buried in the Fe survival mode matches up with an Fi user for the most part, it can be pretty special. The INFJ has to show you who they really are in private, in their own little world. If that inner world isn't full of asshattery, I think it can be a lovely mix. That's just me though. Cheers. INFJ 5w4.
Stephanie Sandlin That’s insightful. I agree the INFP would have to get to know the real INFJ by getting to a certain closeness (beyond the Fe mask) before knowing how well they’re compatible with their inner cores. I’ve heard of some getting along great. But others do have issues. It’s interesting how you describe “bending the inner core.”
Me An INFP don’t worry I’m not stalking, after leaving a comment on a previous vid earlier and now deciding to check out another to get a better handle on infps, I couldn’t not comment after seeing this. INFJs aren’t that complicated, they’re fun-loving, geeky, goofy idiots who learn through their childhood experiences that they’re weird / different. Unlike some other types however, notably ENFPs for example, they feel great shame at not being able to fit in and as a result learn to censor the things about themselves that get these responses. And to demystify Ni, it’s just a database of past experiences and knowledge. Ni users are good at identifying patterns because they can run a quick query on certain traits / characteristics and be informed of all the things they know that match the criteria. For example with INFJs - person C has this way of speaking, this specific cadence, this way of holding themselves - they run a query for anyone else they’ve met or seen that matches. Let’s say there was a person A 10 years earlier that matches up well, an INFJ will then extrapolate out and make the assumption that what person A responded well or didn’t respond well to will also be the case for this person C. They’re usually right because what they’re doing is creating their own taxonomies and refining this with every new experience. Ni is just a lightning-fast, pattern-identifying and data organising machine. I’m bringing this up because it explains how they’re able to quickly get a handle on what behaviour and forms of presentation work for various people that they might have never even spoken to. They can make assumptions on how people are just by observing the way they talk, walk, hold themselves and comparing to other similar people they know better all in a few seconds. For example, this stranger holds themselves like friend A, i’m going to approach and start talking to them like their friend A. This allows them to quickly build rapport and present a version of themselves that will likely resonate with that person. Whether they’re doing to manipulate or because they just want to make the other person feel safe and relaxed is up to the INFJ, the situation and their maturity level. Fe compounds this by giving real-time feedback on how they’re likely coming across - “i can’t say this because this could be taken the wrong way and make me sound lazy”, “you’re coming on too strong, start acting cold”, “they didn’t respond to this type of humour, don’t use it again”, “that joke went over like a dog’s wet fart, feel terrible about yourself...but also don’t you dare look sad for scolding yourself...feel terrible about yourself x2 for now looking sad...and x3 for being unfunny...oh this joke worked, well done, but remember you F ed up 1 min ago, and again, don’t forget to look positive or stoic. Looking sad makes you look weak which will invite someone to take advantage and / or lower your chances of finding a partner. That girl over there who may have found you attractive is now no doubt disgusted with how visibly shamed you are, that’s if she wasn’t put off with your terrible attempt at humour, feel bad, oh and can we please get a McDonalds later? I, as your junkie brain will likely let you off if you promise to give me a fix” etc. They’re not that complicated, and at their core they’re wistful, playful, optimistic and fun-loving. Unfortunately unless they learn to open up more, there won’t be many people who get to see this. They’re so desperate to reach out and connect with people however that they will have moments where their authenticity will break through, giving off idiosyncratic behaviour. An example of this is making ball-busting jokes when first meeting someone, at the risk of offending them, in an attempt to skip to the friendship stage immediately, or revealing things about themselves to strangers that fit the current topic but that other people would never dream of revealing such as having a particular medical ailment, a deep-seated fear / insecurity or an embarrassing experience. If they aren’t ashamed with something or don’t mind it being used against them, they will be shockingly open about their thoughts, history and life experiences. The last thing I would say about INFJs is they’re emotionally more volatile. They feel things strongly, find it extremely difficult to hide these feelings and as a result become emotionally expressive.They don’t feel comfortable showing negative emotions but if an INFJ is feeling sad or angry, you’ll likely know it no matter how much they try and hide it. INFPs by contrast seem to be much more guarded emotionally but also more comfortable being open about their weirdness, at least they won’t allow themselves to censor it in the same way. That’s my understanding of them, I admire their uncompromising authenticity. I hope this gives you enough to manipulate and exploit INFJs in the wild. Just try it, if you suspect / know of someone that is likely INFJ, maybe a friend of a friend, anyone you haven’t really spoken to - start acting like an ESFP and watch them approach you like you’re an ESFP. Then you switch it up and watch them short circuit. TLDR - infjs are fake, callous robots who do nothing but manipulate others and make terrible jokes, I think that’s what I was trying to say? I can’t remember. What do I know, i’m just an owl with a tired talon and a screen now covered in claw marks. ...at least I can still get into my contacts, ...i’m kawing for a McDonalds.
@@MeAnINFP INFJ are 2 faced manipulators at their core...
The purpose of their mask is to conceal this single fact.
The "chameleon thing" does not negate their 2 faced ways.
My opinion is based on MULTIPLE Infj's that I've encountered.
Their dishonesty cost them our respect... They are Big Liars.
if an ENFP truly loves you he's fiercely loyal
My fiancé is intj. He completely complements on me even though we scratch each other mostly b/c my sensitivity but understand easily. Maturity is a must for this relationship but this relationship will be the best especially for INFP! I strongly recommend intj infp relationship😁 intj can take infp to another level while teaching intj patience 😊
Thank you for sharing! I do believe mature INTJs and INFPs can have valuable relationships where each helps the other. :)
ISFJ is accurate, the Fe-Fi clash of titans, it's a battle I fought fiercely with growing up. The potent passive aggressiveness too becomes the poison of tragedy. The Maeby quit cut for INFP tho xD.
Really funny. As an infj I totally agree with how infps perceive of me sometimes. Now looking out for that! Greetings from the other side of this tiny ocean. (Brussels, Belgium)
Awesome, I visited Brussels on my way to London a few years ago, just for an hour or two.
As an INFJ, I completely agree with you lol!
Toby Garza That’s to hear it was accurate! 😆
was actually waiting for a literal workout video, with funky shorts and the sweat to match :P
But seriously, good job with the content, it's very engaging to watch.
Possibly-Compatible & Why:
ENTP- Very Natural Chemistry BUT it just depends on their maturity level
ENFJ- Natural chemistry BUT can be smothering and intrusive/ nosey so depends on maturity
ISFP- They would have to be like "Prince" in his prime !!!
Ok, seriously...I've never dated one so I can't honestly say but I didn't want to write them off
ISFJ- I've never dated one BUT I've encountered 2 of them & they were both cool. So based on that i can definitely say Friends!
@Any RD Immature ENFJ's are divisive. They like to openly share other people's secret faults and delight in CAUSING hostility & disagreements between the friendsips and family members of others. They consider this to be "fun" when in actuality it's evil.
So I ignore them & AVOID interaction.
Immature ENTP's are nonsensical. They like to look for loopholes in any discussion just to Troll...and ask silly questions in an attempt to lure people into pointless debates. They consider that to be "fun", when in actuality it's childish.
So i just BLOCK them and I move on.
I was kind enough to reply BUT
I don't go back & forth with trolls
#Final Response :)
Hilarity! Very nice and clever job.
Thank you!
46 times huh? 😂 well at least there's some fire
cascade ghost Fire and chaos. 😝 It warms you at first then explodes into a fiery mess. Am I being dramatic much? 😂 Yes I am
Keep, it up I have enjoyed watching your videos have not seem then all yet.
That broke my INTJ heart :)
DeXtinite D. Awww noo
DeXtinite D, she didn't mean that. INTJ's are good, they're not evil but they are just driven by their head but INTJ's dont not have bad intentions.
I have experience with an ENFP. It's like the same jellyfish brain except they have zero filter and thought process. Its actually quite a nightmare
Omg this was awesome do more of these!!❤
Thank you, glad you enjoyed it!
@@MeAnINFP well I'm glad I found an awesome channel like yours keep up the great work!!!😁👍💛
Xoltar Kahlisi I appreciate the kind words ❤️ I’ll do my best!
Oh darn it.. I think we really would work out though lol
Wow, the ENFP is exactly how my ex boyfriend was 😮
3:02 Brilliant! 😂
That made me LOL
The most dramatic part! 😁
Plot twist: what if infp is on intp's mind?
Tripcore Then the INTP might try some awkward wooing..? 😂
“your dress isn’t even that ugly”
I think if the INTP did as much research on INFPs as we do on anything else we are interested in we would know to tread lightly as to not break trust. I would be way too scared to try to flirt. I would slowly become close and then reveal my feelings if I felt I had a chance with the INFP. I haven't thought about this too much, you have! 👀
Why do people get so intense about labels it's ridiculous
Because people like labels 😂😂
They all sound like no go for me because I need connection romance n real relationship except esfp. That could work out balance and compromise maybe.
You should watch the video I made about how an INFP would work out with the 16 types, it provides the positive side of the perspective 😊
PS: When an infp has this problem with me (an infj) I always see the limit of his/her understanding inbetween us like a deep and gloomy ocean and I always think that it wouldn't have to be a problem if they didn't have to take my behavior as a personal insult. It's like they feel betrayed when you don't act authentic in every moment and for an infj, this acting inauthentic is paradoxically part of BEING authentic. On the other hand I think that it does feel quite harsh for an infp when they're told not to take something personally. And maybe personally is the wrong word. I think they often take one momentary behavior of someone else as representative for the whole thing and therefore they easily feel betrayed, especially because they invest so many dreamy sweet thoughts into the people they care about. As always, I think communication is key. And videos like yours!
Klara Winterain I agree with the last part. INFPs do build up a picture of who you are, and if someone acts contrary to that it’s like they’re not who INFP thought they were, and they have to reevaluate them. We do take inauthenticity personally because it’s so important to us. We want to be able to count on someone being real no matter what. But Fe often works differently than that, so we’d have to adjust our thinking. Communication is key, right!