If she ask's for space she either has another guy already or is looking to get back out there and explore her options. Can't sugar coat or gloss over "I need space!" You're done...Next
My wife’s issue is she thinks we got married young and she didn’t get a chance to live her life so she’s going backwards and we have 2 small kids , my party days are over and all I get from her is she’s not ready so I’m gonna do me she does her but it’s unfortunate tho she’s being selfish
Bro I'm kind of in the same situation. We've been together going on 7yrs and have a 2yr and 4yr old. My Ex says she wants to be on her own and for once live her life without being accountable for another person, the children don't apply to that of course. But I do know she's been talking to another dude though lol
Can you make this into a series? Especially when relationships are done but involve children, how to be adults and move on for the better sake of the kids.
When someone asks for space, they’re usually already in a relationship with someone else, usually physical. If you think you’re doing right by putting your relationships on hold, all you’re doing is giving the other person time to solidify their new relationship and figure out ways to manipulate finances in their favor. IMO once u hear your woman needs space, realize the relationship is over, protect yourself and start the process of getting over the old and starting the new.
When a relationship arrives at a point of a request for space?! It is like sleeping on a smouldering mattress. As a man who has worked with kids with absent fathers and mum's boyfriends, my advise is to be present in your kids life no matter what! You may experience attempts to being punished or manipulated by her or him using the kids, still stay in your kids life. The power of your presence in your kid's life if you are a good parent is a solid foundation for your kid's progress in life.
when a woman asks for space, I have learnt she needs a new man to ride on she's tired of riding the same man and now wants to try something exciting I know some people won't agree to me but that's the reality because there are some girls in the world who says, lets take a break and you can date someone else relationship is not a fucking joke, if you don't wanna fight the circumstances then why the heck you have been sleeping with a man then?
When a woman asks for space.......its 99% over most of the time. Let her go!! She most likely has someone else on the side. If your married whatever you do don't leave your house. If you own a house together. Don't leave your house. Just concentrate on your kids if you have them and concentrate on your own goals and worries. Let her be. She is fighting her emotions and feelings she will come to you when she is ready to talk about it.
Hello. My girlfriends father died and she broke up with me at the same time because she was falling our of love with me. We both have our own kids and we love them so much. She is hurting in so many ways and I am lost in so many ways. I need some real help please. This is a cry of desperation. Any help is much appreciated. I am so sad for her loss but also so sad for our breakup.
Love you for Just reading the title I’m in this exactly moment for more over then a year and is been a challenge to communicate with my ex partner in belonging of the emotional bond with kids and there father. Thx for so much
Your new videos are now focus more on complicated situation, which is good. Please make a video about how to handle your self in a situation were the parents and friends of that person you are dating does NOT APPROVE of you.
Please help me, I been with my ex girlfriend for 5 years we have a 2 yr old we broke up in January 2020 I am so hurt it was really rough she was so mean to me but now we text every single day and she FaceTime me sometimes randomly she always asks what am I doing we laugh a lot on the phone she knows that I love her and she told me she loves me too but not like before which is understandable I put that women through so much she knows I want her back she's so hot and cold with me but mostly she nice to be but randomly she just distance herself which hurts me so much idk how to move step forward with her without losing her or making her feel pressured
I'm no expert and no offence but this sounds like Stockholm Syndrome to me, she was abusive and yet after breaking up you care about not hurting her and playing along with the hot and cold drama. Go to court so that you can atleast secure your visitation rights if she has the custody of your child and then have some self respect and move on
Me and my wife have 2 kids ages 14 and 10. We have been married for 17 years but she doesn’t have any affection for me right now and she said she needs space. We are still living together and sleeping in the same bed but I don’t know how to work things out and give her the right space. We don’t fight and she says things will be fine. How do I approach this situation. Thanks
We just moved to Texas from New York in March, we had our second child in May (we also have a 4 year old) and she left to her parents 7 hours away in Kansas. What do I do?
My daughter was born 4 months ago and my gf is bi polar has depression Ppd I think But she always tells me she needs space I see friends going threw this all the time And I give her space then few days or maybe weeks go past and she is fine then 💥 I need my space we live together and have for 2 yrs I have done nothing I actually cut back on working to stay home with baby so she can get back to work and out the house Thought it might work Fml Did absolutely nothing
Ok but here the thing my kid wont leave her side no matter what I have to go there with her and be in the same house just to see my kid what do I do also I didnt contact her 2 days she just contacted me and I playes it cool nothing about us and what not but she says I am talking to someone he understand me but I dont know where its going
Love video not really apply no kids at all with anyone or dating anyone with a kid. Good advice if that ever happens. Codependency was not really ever be my problem. being too independent and worrying are not enough is my problem
Hy I have been watching your videos since last year so they is this woman that I like I always text her first and the conversation will last long we are not in a relationship so i decided to not text her for week but she still not texting me back what must I do
My children's mother uses the kids as start of conversation just to talk to me and find stuff out etc .. even when I tell her to stop she doesn't what should I do????
What happens when your wife separated from you but she has toxic friends who never told her to think of the family or reconsider. I am a firefighter of 17 years and had depression. I had counselling for my issues and was feeling literally like a new man but 2 weeks later she told me she was leaving the day after my 40th birthday. She thinks her friends care about her. A few of them are divorcees and many don't even have children. We have a perfect little 7 year old boy. Yes we had some arguments before but we always made up and hugged. We haven't had sex for 3 months. She said she had been unhappy for 2 years but she never acctually told me. She said "what about my happiness" and "If you couldn't tell something was wrong then you must be an idiot" She is broke and had to get loans to rent a place. She says she still finds me attractive and invited me over for dinner as soon as I got back from work 2 days after she left. She said "I don't have a crystal ball" and "I might say to myself in 2 months what the hell am I doing and come back" she texts me every day and video calls me with our child when I'm home alone or at work. We have been married 9 years. She is 36. Any ideas.
Bruh same story feller sheesh except she left me after 15 years for a young dude left me with kids tractor trailer driver 13 years I send mine ur way freind it's hard my way to
she asked for space I gave it to her, after about 5 days she texted me saying i seem to have moved on and I seem very busy and that i seem not to care about her anymore and she probably wo0nt be reachi9ng out to me anymore.. what now? do i keep letting it go and be distant ?
thnx! this helps! cause the girl im dating or seing is maried but she wants to divorce but then she wants to try it for her kids but she is not happy with that guy. both he and her say there is nothing any more between them. me and her share the bed an im crazy in love with her! tonight she asked her kids what they like her daughter is okay with living with mom her son said can you please try it one more time! so now she is talking with her husband any tips for me cause im losing my mind because she loves me as well i know her for like 14+ years she loves me she said it her self but the only thing holding her from a divorce are the kids. i told her she has to do what she thinks is best but she is un happy so if any of you in the community has advice or tips for me please help me out. Lots of love
Apollonia, I LOVE your videos & would love help from you. Having said that, I’m shocked at some of the comments these jerk-like guys make. It’s true, only 5% of guys are worth it for a respectful good woman. On behalf of the few good men, well at least I’m trying, I apologize for those ridiculous, sexist, & disrespectful comments.
I’m about to leave the house to give my wife space. She feels lost and doesn’t know what she wants. Not having a job and being in the house has really stressed her out. Also the fact that she has lost feelings for me and doesn’t know if she wants to continue with our marriage. We’ve been trying for the past year living together and giving ourselves space but it’s difficult. That’s why we are now trying this. She told me if she had a job and was able to take care of herself she would have left me a long time ago. I will be doing what you mentioned in this video about our kids though. I honestly see no hope in her about us anymore. Is it still possible to get her back?
Do not leave the house at any cost if you own it or if it is joint property and be with your kids else if she asks for a divorce you'll be kicked out and would have to pay her as well.
Wtf if she says she would have left you if she had a job (money) then I only see a gold digger here who's only with you for her comforts. This relationship stands no chance because she's clearly not interested in you, hire an attorney else she'll take away everything that belongs to you. Have some self respect
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Omg finally something with children involved.
I agree!
Finally
Exactly
This is the only video that explains it
Ha she needs space?.. Dude get a hotel room and dont return her calls... tell her the next person she hears from is a divorce attorney.
With or without children Is it because she's seeing someone else ?
It could be. But not 100% of the time. Every relationship is different.
Maybe she wants to see someone else or she did see someone else or she wants to leave
If she ask's for space she either has another guy already or is looking to get back out there and explore her options. Can't sugar coat or gloss over "I need space!" You're done...Next
My wife’s issue is she thinks we got married young and she didn’t get a chance to live her life so she’s going backwards and we have 2 small kids , my party days are over and all I get from her is she’s not ready so I’m gonna do me she does her but it’s unfortunate tho she’s being selfish
Bro I'm kind of in the same situation. We've been together going on 7yrs and have a 2yr and 4yr old. My Ex says she wants to be on her own and for once live her life without being accountable for another person, the children don't apply to that of course. But I do know she's been talking to another dude though lol
She needs space to establish custody arrangement beware of this consult a lawyer.
Going through a joint custody battle but need space after a 8 year relationship ended with her cheating
Really
Can you make this into a series? Especially when relationships are done but involve children, how to be adults and move on for the better sake of the kids.
Yes. I will make more series of videos like this. :-)
How you doing brother?
When someone asks for space, they’re usually already in a relationship with someone else, usually physical. If you think you’re doing right by putting your relationships on hold, all you’re doing is giving the other person time to solidify their new relationship and figure out ways to manipulate finances in their favor. IMO once u hear your woman needs space, realize the relationship is over, protect yourself and start the process of getting over the old and starting the new.
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If she asked for space . Just back up like 2 feet’s . And that’s it .
When a relationship arrives at a point of a request for space?! It is like sleeping on a smouldering mattress. As a man who has worked with kids with absent fathers and mum's boyfriends, my advise is to be present in your kids life no matter what! You may experience attempts to being punished or manipulated by her or him using the kids, still stay in your kids life. The power of your presence in your kid's life if you are a good parent is a solid foundation for your kid's progress in life.
She’s seeing someone else at least in my case now that I know that it all makes sense..
when a woman asks for space, I have learnt she needs a new man to ride on
she's tired of riding the same man and now wants to try something exciting
I know some people won't agree to me but that's the reality because there are some girls in the world who says, lets take a break and you can date someone else
relationship is not a fucking joke, if you don't wanna fight the circumstances then why the heck you have been sleeping with a man then?
When a woman asks for space.......its 99% over most of the time. Let her go!! She most likely has someone else on the side. If your married whatever you do don't leave your house. If you own a house together. Don't leave your house. Just concentrate on your kids if you have them and concentrate on your own goals and worries. Let her be. She is fighting her emotions and feelings she will come to you when she is ready to talk about it.
That's one of the most difficult thing especially when kids are involved.
It really is!
Hello. My girlfriends father died and she broke up with me at the same time because she was falling our of love with me. We both have our own kids and we love them so much. She is hurting in so many ways and I am lost in so many ways. I need some real help please. This is a cry of desperation. Any help is much appreciated. I am so sad for her loss but also so sad for our breakup.
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Love you for Just reading the title
I’m in this exactly moment for more over then a year and is been a challenge to communicate with my ex partner in belonging of the emotional bond with kids and there father.
Thx for so much
Your new videos are now focus more on complicated situation, which is good.
Please make a video about how to handle your self in a situation were the parents and friends of that person you are dating does NOT APPROVE of you.
Solid topic, keep putting in work
Your a triple threat Life Coach, Dating Relationship Jedi, Spiritual coach rather know it or not
Please help me, I been with my ex girlfriend for 5 years we have a 2 yr old we broke up in January 2020 I am so hurt it was really rough she was so mean to me but now we text every single day and she FaceTime me sometimes randomly she always asks what am I doing we laugh a lot on the phone she knows that I love her and she told me she loves me too but not like before which is understandable I put that women through so much she knows I want her back she's so hot and cold with me but mostly she nice to be but randomly she just distance herself which hurts me so much idk how to move step forward with her without losing her or making her feel pressured
I'm no expert and no offence but this sounds like Stockholm Syndrome to me, she was abusive and yet after breaking up you care about not hurting her and playing along with the hot and cold drama. Go to court so that you can atleast secure your visitation rights if she has the custody of your child and then have some self respect and move on
Apollonia, you’re so cute I can’t lie 🥰.
Me and my wife have 2 kids ages 14 and 10. We have been married for 17 years but she doesn’t have any affection for me right now and she said she needs space. We are still living together and sleeping in the same bed but I don’t know how to work things out and give her the right space. We don’t fight and she says things will be fine. How do I approach this situation. Thanks
Any update I’m going threw this to as of yesterday 3 kids 4 2 and a 3 month old been together almost 7 years idk what to do
Yea man, update
Women will start calling this entanglement
I sure hope not!! :-(
We just moved to Texas from New York in March, we had our second child in May (we also have a 4 year old) and she left to her parents 7 hours away in Kansas. What do I do?
Can you do a video on when she spends a lot of time with her family… excessive time. A week or two a month in my situation
Does this still apply when you catch your wife cheating twice and threatened divorce to make her stop and then she wants space
My daughter was born 4 months ago and my gf is bi polar has depression Ppd
I think
But she always tells me she needs space
I see friends going threw this all the time
And I give her space then few days or maybe weeks go past and she is fine then 💥 I need my space we live together and have for 2 yrs
I have done nothing I actually cut back on working to stay home with baby so she can get back to work and out the house
Thought it might work
Fml
Did absolutely nothing
3 days for our 11 year anniversary n its over like that... ima be there for my kids
Ok but here the thing my kid wont leave her side no matter what I have to go there with her and be in the same house just to see my kid what do I do also I didnt contact her 2 days she just contacted me and I playes it cool nothing about us and what not but she says I am talking to someone he understand me but I dont know where its going
Love video not really apply no kids at all with anyone or dating anyone with a kid. Good advice if that ever happens. Codependency was not really ever be my problem.
being too independent and worrying are not enough is my problem
Hy I have been watching your videos since last year so they is this woman that I like I always text her first and the conversation will last long we are not in a relationship so i decided to not text her for week but she still not texting me back what must I do
My children's mother uses the kids as start of conversation just to talk to me and find stuff out etc .. even when I tell her to stop she doesn't what should I do????
I’ve seen the setting before in - I think Marriage Helper videos… shared space?
Hi Apollonia can you help me please how can I break up with a girl without upsetting her we are together just for 3 months
What if she's asked you to leave her alone but you didn't and she doesn't want to talk you. Is there anyway to fix this?
Hi, how can I set-up a session with you? This video is something I definitely needed to watch and hear.
What are the little things you could do for her Apollonian I need your advice
Great presentation. Love the set and multiple camera angles. Wise words. Wonderful dress!
You made this video for me!!! Awesome video. Can’t wait to heard from you in our group. Jon Hunt
Thank you Apollonia this video was perfect for me🙏
Thank you for this video, you really came through with this one.
What happens when your wife separated from you but she has toxic friends who never told her to think of the family or reconsider. I am a firefighter of 17 years and had depression. I had counselling for my issues and was feeling literally like a new man but 2 weeks later she told me she was leaving the day after my 40th birthday. She thinks her friends care about her. A few of them are divorcees and many don't even have children. We have a perfect little 7 year old boy. Yes we had some arguments before but we always made up and hugged. We haven't had sex for 3 months. She said she had been unhappy for 2 years but she never acctually told me. She said "what about my happiness" and "If you couldn't tell something was wrong then you must be an idiot" She is broke and had to get loans to rent a place. She says she still finds me attractive and invited me over for dinner as soon as I got back from work 2 days after she left. She said "I don't have a crystal ball" and "I might say to myself in 2 months what the hell am I doing and come back" she texts me every day and video calls me with our child when I'm home alone or at work. We have been married 9 years. She is 36. Any ideas.
Bruh same story feller sheesh except she left me after 15 years for a young dude left me with kids tractor trailer driver 13 years I send mine ur way freind it's hard my way to
What are the little things you could do for her
What is the best for the kids?
The rest comes second.
Congratulations. Is it a boy or girl?
You are very helpful, thank you🙏🏽
Do you have more on co dependence?
Great thoughts and insight. Real talk.
Hi mam need your advice.
I love you
For how long
she asked for space I gave it to her, after about 5 days she texted me saying i seem to have moved on and I seem very busy and that i seem not to care about her anymore and she probably wo0nt be reachi9ng out to me anymore.. what now? do i keep letting it go and be distant ?
End the relationship
Yes. She is manipulating the situation.
thnx! this helps!
cause the girl im dating or seing is maried but she wants to divorce but then she wants to try it for her kids but she is not happy with that guy.
both he and her say there is nothing any more between them.
me and her share the bed an im crazy in love with her!
tonight she asked her kids what they like
her daughter is okay with living with mom
her son said can you please try it one more time!
so now she is talking with her husband
any tips for me cause im losing my mind because she loves me as well
i know her for like 14+ years
she loves me she said it her self but the only thing holding her from a divorce are the kids.
i told her she has to do what she thinks is best but she is un happy
so if any of you in the community has advice or tips for me please help me out.
Lots of love
She needs to figure out her marriage without you. You don't deserve to be a guy on the "side". :-)
You are the one who gon lose man... she just use u to feel good.
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Apollonia, I LOVE your videos & would love help from you. Having said that, I’m shocked at some of the comments these jerk-like guys make. It’s true, only 5% of guys are worth it for a respectful good woman. On behalf of the few good men, well at least I’m trying, I apologize for those ridiculous, sexist, & disrespectful comments.
This is why I always cheat first idgaf 😂
I’m about to leave the house to give my wife space. She feels lost and doesn’t know what she wants. Not having a job and being in the house has really stressed her out. Also the fact that she has lost feelings for me and doesn’t know if she wants to continue with our marriage. We’ve been trying for the past year living together and giving ourselves space but it’s difficult. That’s why we are now trying this. She told me if she had a job and was able to take care of herself she would have left me a long time ago. I will be doing what you mentioned in this video about our kids though. I honestly see no hope in her about us anymore. Is it still possible to get her back?
Do not leave the house at any cost if you own it or if it is joint property and be with your kids else if she asks for a divorce you'll be kicked out and would have to pay her as well.
Wtf if she says she would have left you if she had a job (money) then I only see a gold digger here who's only with you for her comforts. This relationship stands no chance because she's clearly not interested in you, hire an attorney else she'll take away everything that belongs to you. Have some self respect
How'd it go?
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Wow, this is so nice! Thank you so so much.
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