Is it necessary to come out? 🌈 Q&GAY!!

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  • Опубліковано 25 лип 2024
  • Let's talk getting over a straight girl, internalised homophobia, if it's necessary to come out and more! Thank you all so much for submitting Qs! And for watching all the 12 Gays of Christmas videos! MERRY CHRISTMAS 🎄
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    Time stamps so you can easily find your question!
    0:00 MESSAGE FOR YA'LL
    1:06 Dealing with internalised homophobia
    2:07 Accepting you're gay
    2:35 Supporting queer ppl in public
    3:12 How to start UA-cam
    4:44 Coming out to homophobic ppl
    5:29 Being a femme lesbian
    6:13 What motivates you?
    7:23 Where to meet gays
    8:30 When ur not accepted
    9:20 When I realised I was gay
    10:19 Is it necessary to come out
    12:51 Not knowing all sexualities/genders
    14:03 Get over a straight girl
    14:43 Do u and galpal want kids?
    15:08 How'd I know galpal was into me?
    15:43 Do ppl only like you bc ur gay?
    16:24 What happened to the van?
    16:48 Message to baby gays
    Did you watch all the 12 Gays of Christmas videos? Use the playlist to check ;)
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    I see everything you comment and message, thank you cuties! ♡
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 93

  • @laurenelloise
    @laurenelloise  2 роки тому +20

    MERRY CHRISTMAS!! 🎄⛄️💜 thank you all for watching the 12 Gays of Christmas. if you watched just 1 or all of them, i appreciate you. happy holidays, i will see u next year! Watch last year's Q&GAY!! ua-cam.com/video/4P6cj8_yk3E/v-deo.html

  • @galpal
    @galpal 2 роки тому +86

    Question: can I shout to the world HOW PROUD I AM OF YOU?! You did it!! 12 videos in ONE FREAKING MONTH!! You work so hard bby and I am always inspired by you. Have a Merry Gaymas and a Gay New Year everybody! ♡🌈♡

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  2 роки тому +19

      Why are you the cutest :’) I love you

    • @lisalaurel1352
      @lisalaurel1352 2 роки тому +6

      You are so cute how supportive you always are 🤗

  • @thislovecamebacktome1367
    @thislovecamebacktome1367 2 роки тому +18

    Kinda sad that the 12 gays of christmas are over now. I watched, enjoyed and loved every single video. can't wait for other videos

  • @thatoneemokid3442
    @thatoneemokid3442 2 роки тому +7

    When she said "it's ok to be gay" I automatically thought of the song "It's Okay To Be Gay" and now I can't get it out of my head lol

    • @picachugirl2036
      @picachugirl2036 2 роки тому

      😂😂😂 So rejoice with the boys in the g@y way 💓💓💓💓💓

  • @sloth_crew
    @sloth_crew 2 роки тому +27

    I hate how some countries don’t allow people to be gay because the lgbtq community are the best. We should do something about it because people are allowed to be themselves.

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  2 роки тому +10

      it's so sad, i want the world to be a better, more accepting place

    • @sloth_crew
      @sloth_crew 2 роки тому +3

      @@laurenelloise yeah I know, people just need to love others

  • @ameliepfeiffer7432
    @ameliepfeiffer7432 2 роки тому +3

    Love you Lauren, this series was EPIC!!

  • @srmegha7989
    @srmegha7989 2 роки тому +1

    So sad that 12 gays of christmas is over. All of the videos were so fun and educational and inspiring. Btw I loved your eye shadow!!!!!!

  • @erenisnothere379
    @erenisnothere379 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much💖 i just told my mom i like girl and she's pretty chill🥺
    Thank you for the support and everything. I' m brace enough bc of people out there like you🌈

  • @sloth_crew
    @sloth_crew 2 роки тому +5

    I’ve watch the entire 12 gays of Christmas series and it’s now ending, but I can’t wait for more videos

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  2 роки тому +1

      im sad its ending but im so keen to keep making more videos!! 💜

    • @sloth_crew
      @sloth_crew 2 роки тому +1

      @@laurenelloise yayyy can’t wait!!

  • @Chanelleopperman
    @Chanelleopperman 2 роки тому +2

    Aww can't believe all 12 videos are done now. So proud of you . You look great. Thank ypu for always giving the best videos.
    Stay you
    Happy New years. Enjoy the van and the trip
    Can't wait to see more new videos in 2022.

  • @shaineMS
    @shaineMS 2 роки тому +1

    yay! looking forward to the van vid! thank you for making the series! hopefully you can get more rest~ happy holidays!

  • @carlatabet6884
    @carlatabet6884 2 роки тому +1

    I love you Lauren ❤ (not because you're gay) but because you're compassionate and understanding and funny too, I love you're videos they make my day. Merry Christmas !

  • @abiisgay
    @abiisgay 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much for posting regularly your videos make my day and help me feel less bad about myself :) thank you you have helped me and so many people as well 🌈💕✨

  • @lisalaurel1352
    @lisalaurel1352 2 роки тому +2

    I love how eloquent and wise you are, thank you for all the amazing content xx

  • @bluecheshirecat13109
    @bluecheshirecat13109 2 роки тому +4

    Merry Christmas with 12 gays of Christmas!! Loved it 🥰

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  2 роки тому +1

      merry christmas!! thank you so happy u enjoyed, thank you so much for being here, ive seen you comment on so many videos and i appreciate you!

  • @denisesantiago1310
    @denisesantiago1310 2 роки тому

    heeey your videos are so educational (and arrived in Brazil haha ​​🌈) congrats!

  • @mysoundofficial1047
    @mysoundofficial1047 2 роки тому

    im so excited for this video

  • @abbyandrews46
    @abbyandrews46 2 роки тому +2

    I’ve watched all 12 videos and they are all so amazing

  • @PotatOstrich
    @PotatOstrich 2 роки тому +2

    Hi Lauren~
    I noticed that your eyeshadow in the video matches your shirt:)
    It's so beautiful! And you rock that outfit!!!
    Also, on that “is it necessary to come out” question I think you answered it perfectly.
    I've thought about that question too,
    but can't come up with a good answer.
    Your answer is quite impressive, I decided if anyone asks me that in the future, I'm gonna tell them your answer 😂
    And thank you so much for the effort you put in the videos!
    You really are like a cool big sister for us gaybies 😂😂

  • @airyedits_
    @airyedits_ 2 роки тому

    Though I'm late I'm so happy you made the 12 gays of Christmas for us! I appreciate you and I hope u had a great Christmas 🌈🎄

  • @sokovianwidow
    @sokovianwidow 2 роки тому

    I’ve just found your channel and I’m so happy. I’ve just recently come out and I’m also Australian. I love finding other lgbtq+ UA-camrs. Thank you.

  • @loupelizzo2399
    @loupelizzo2399 2 роки тому

    Enjoyed watching this video and I have totally enjoyed and appreciated everything you have to us in Vlogmas and all year round. Wishing you and GalPal a Merry Christmas and a safe New Year. I really enjoyed your advice and your answers thank you so much

  • @sloth_crew
    @sloth_crew 2 роки тому +10

    Yayyy another video, nooo I don’t want the 12 gays of Christmas to end. Merry Christmas Lauren and I hope you have a great day, I love, love your channel and I can’t wait for more videos, you are honestly the best. Best wishes from Charlee xx 💝

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  2 роки тому +4

      thank you SOOOO much for being here! i've seen you commenting on every video and I APPRECIATE YOU!! 💗 merry christmas, i hope you have a lovely holiday time!

    • @sloth_crew
      @sloth_crew 2 роки тому

      @@laurenelloise hope you have a great new year and thank you for putting in the effort to make the best videos.

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  2 роки тому +1

      eeee thank you sooooo muchhhhhh all the best for 2022

    • @sloth_crew
      @sloth_crew 2 роки тому

      @@laurenelloise your videos make my day so much better. You make me put a smile on my face. 💖

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  2 роки тому +1

      this is so cute :') im smiling rn

  • @pompeostwistedsister
    @pompeostwistedsister 2 роки тому +2

    Omg you used my comment lol I don't know why I'm so excited about that! Tysm !!! I love your channel, and your who I go to for gay advice

  • @LingLingTheBassPlayer
    @LingLingTheBassPlayer 2 роки тому

    Amazing 🥺♥️

  • @mysoundofficial1047
    @mysoundofficial1047 2 роки тому

    MERRY CHRISTMAS

  • @rosarosepotyre1747
    @rosarosepotyre1747 2 роки тому +2

    merry Christmas lauren Elloise

  • @lebomoloabi
    @lebomoloabi 2 роки тому +2

    Merry Christmas 🎄🎄🎄

  • @mouybrab9530
    @mouybrab9530 2 роки тому

    The dog looks so relax

  • @picachugirl2036
    @picachugirl2036 2 роки тому

    Shes like the wingman for us closeted folk (im bi out to everybody but my family, i dont wanna deal with the family bit, ill outlive most of them and i love them so i wanna have that time with em)

  • @meghalidutta3515
    @meghalidutta3515 2 роки тому

    Yayy. Super excited to watch this! Btw when is the how to know if your bi or lesbian video coming out?
    Unlike me rn - sorry just had to make that joke lmao

  • @lorendennis9918
    @lorendennis9918 Рік тому

    So I'm a bisexual/trixic Nonbinary person and alot of people say I look straight (mostly boys)...so it hit hard when you said you want to change people's views on "looking a certain way" I'm so glad you brought that up

  • @ihavewritersblock4617
    @ihavewritersblock4617 2 роки тому

    i've been gone for three months from your channel and now im catching up

  • @gaitazampogna32
    @gaitazampogna32 2 роки тому

    Fantastic channel! I absolutely love the tolerance message! Would you do an ear piercing challenge on this channel with your partner?

  • @juliahartley-barnes975
    @juliahartley-barnes975 2 роки тому

    I guess you’re still recuperating from your Christmas videos. 🌈🤨 Just letting you know… we’re still here…. Waiting…. For your move in vlog and a lot more. So, I’m in New Hampshire in the US. It’s really summer over there yea? So strange. It’s freezing here with snow on the ground. 🥶 👍🏻🌈

  • @froggy2128
    @froggy2128 2 роки тому

    I would subscribe except then my parents would see it and wonder why I was so interested in gay vids 😅 but I love ur vids

  • @chibishatrack
    @chibishatrack 2 роки тому

    i love your channel i am watching your videos every day. I identify as lesbian from very young age (11). First i identified as bi/pan when i was 9. Then at age of 10 boys just disgusted me like they were very toxic and allways being hrny. Now i am 13 and i still identify as lesbian. I havent came out bc of my homophobic parents. i love your channel wish you the best Lauren! (Sorry for my grammar mistakes lol)

  • @Ava-fe4nd
    @Ava-fe4nd 2 роки тому

    what do you think is the right amount of time to wait to come out after you realize your sexuality? I know i am safe with my family and that they will support me but i still feel like it is too soon to say anything

  • @Anna-Maria_L.
    @Anna-Maria_L. 2 роки тому

    I came here because of your rat videos years ago and watched every video since then. I'm not gay, I'm literally from the other side of the world and I don't speak english perfectly, but i love watching your videos.

  • @subirbarat7244
    @subirbarat7244 2 роки тому +2

    MERRY CHRISTMAS EVERY ONE HAVE A GREAT DAY :D

  • @kanon_natsuki
    @kanon_natsuki 2 роки тому

    Noooooo oof- this dog tho make it a good end of 12 days lol

  • @kaylajosie2833
    @kaylajosie2833 2 роки тому

    Question: how do you know a 100% youre lesbian or gay

  • @cbeau9876
    @cbeau9876 Рік тому

    I'm really scared to tell my parents I'm lesbian bc I'm scared they won't expect it...😣😣😣

  • @Richforever88
    @Richforever88 2 роки тому

    Don't tell me this is the end of this year's 12 gays of Christmas ...

  • @aditichapagai9783
    @aditichapagai9783 2 роки тому +1

    Me who is a baby gay liking my straight friend

  • @ryanfrankum3493
    @ryanfrankum3493 Рік тому

    How I know I gay

  • @jenay4072
    @jenay4072 2 роки тому

    hey lauren i know this question has no relevance to this video but i wanted to ask, i know your from Australia, i am to and i was wondering what breeder you got your pet rats from and where there located

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  2 роки тому

      Hey, sorry im not comfortable disclosing, but you should be able to find some on facebook / gumtree etc. Also Fancy Rat Society NSW

    • @jenay4072
      @jenay4072 2 роки тому

      @@laurenelloise ah okay sorry if that question made you uncomfortable at all! thanks for the help

  • @Madiii.305
    @Madiii.305 2 роки тому

    Where are u I need gay content I’m so happy I have my first girl crush and she has a bad gf though and I just don’t know what to do could u help

  • @AMBER_DOBERMAN
    @AMBER_DOBERMAN 2 роки тому

    I adopted a rat as you inspired me too
    She's a black and white hooded fancy rat

  • @Ink_splaters
    @Ink_splaters 2 роки тому +1

    Hi

  • @yourlocalventchannelinacti6037
    @yourlocalventchannelinacti6037 2 роки тому

    🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🌈🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈

  • @FALLEN_ANGEL871
    @FALLEN_ANGEL871 2 роки тому +1

    In my country , Greece you can't do gay marriage

    • @annastreett933
      @annastreett933 Рік тому

      Its the same where im from, but im thanksfall that relationships are. I personlly wouldnt want to walk around with a pride flag on my back, bc i might expirence vilence, but some ppl do. Also i live in the mkst relliges city in the entaire country wich sucks whan im gay.

  • @juliahartley-barnes975
    @juliahartley-barnes975 2 роки тому

    3 weeks now! 😢 Are you okay? 🤭

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  2 роки тому +1

      yes! im just having a break for a few weeks after the most stressful period of my life hahah

    • @juliahartley-barnes975
      @juliahartley-barnes975 2 роки тому

      @@laurenelloise that’s fine! I just needed to know you were okay AND you are coming back. Rest is important, be well, stay well! 🌈❤️👍🏻

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  2 роки тому

  • @johnnysins6851
    @johnnysins6851 2 роки тому

    When i was young i was little bit attracted to male friend,then i was attracted to female friend
    Now I'm adult and attract to no-one
    Not even opposite gender
    Whats wrong with me??🙄🙄

    • @thislovecamebacktome1367
      @thislovecamebacktome1367 2 роки тому

      You could be ace, Ever heard of it? And there's nothing wrong with that. It's valid

    • @14..lily.y
      @14..lily.y 2 роки тому

      There’s nothing wrong with you. Have u ever heard of demisexuality?

    • @johnnysins6851
      @johnnysins6851 2 роки тому +1

      @@14..lily.y i just googled it 🥰

  • @robquin1525
    @robquin1525 Рік тому

    At least psychiatrists don't see it as a mental disorder anymore haven't seen it that way since the '70s

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  Рік тому

      interesting you say that bc yesterday was IDAHOBIT which came about because may 17th 1990 is the day the world health organisation removed homosexuality out of it's list of mental illnesses, only 33 years ago. progress, but i think we still have a long way *sigh* ahah