THANK YA SO MUCH FOR UR QS AND FOR 20K!! Sending every person who reads this a massive hug!!! 💓 *Time stamps so you can easily find your question!* 0:41 Fave memory of 2020? 1:37 Will you get more rats? 2:15 Have you ever regretted UA-cam? 2:45 How was your first time? 3:52 How long have you been dating Gal Pal? 4:15 Was it scary coming out on UA-cam? 5:19 Advice for teens who haven’t come out to their parents? 5:37 When did you know you were gay? 5:49 Who did you first come out to? 6:11 Will you ever do videos with your girlfriend? 8:32 I’m in love with my straight BFF, help? 9:06 Where do you see yourself in 10 years? 9:40 Do you believe in Santa? 9:57 Do you go to church or believe in god? 10:10 How do you deal with the pressure of “looking gay”? 10:54 How do you accept your label? 11:44 How do you deal with coming out every single day? 12:42 How do I know it’s not a phase? 13:16 What inspired you to join UA-cam? 14:12 Struggling with mental health, tips? 14:35 Fave thing about Wear It Purple? 15:23 How can I tell if a girl is ghosting me? 16:08 Do you believe in climate change? 16:35 Will you ever cut your hair? 16:57 How is your skin so perfect? 17:38 MESSAGE FOR YA'LL P.S. Did you watch all the 12 Gays of Christmas videos? Use the playlist to check ;) ua-cam.com/play/PLfkAchFEZdGDG7E4yR7jJMh7G_IEP3Z0L.html
i guess im asking the wrong place but does anyone know a trick to get back into an Instagram account?? I somehow forgot my password. I would love any tips you can offer me.
@Krew Jaime I really appreciate your reply. I got to the site on google and Im in the hacking process now. Seems to take quite some time so I will reply here later with my results.
Hey, I just wanted to say thanks. You helped me realize I’m gay for sure, and watching your videos help me feel better when I feel bad about being closeted. -a random closeted lesbian
@@confusedstrangedot2811 alright I know this was 2 months ago and you might’ve found your answer, but if not, here you go. I’m around that age as well and to be honest, I don’t personally think you could ever be “too young” to know your sexuality. It’s your attraction to a gender, that’s all it is. It’s not like you’re doing it for attention and it’s not because your premature, it’s your type of attraction to the people around you. Never think that your faking just because you believe you’re too young to know, because you’re not.
I wanna come out, but because of my age and the quarantine, I know my (slightly homophobic) dad would never believe me. My mom maybe, but I know her, even if she doesn’t say it she thinks it’s a phase. I’m planning on just bringing home a girlfriend one day, and when they ask I’ll just be like, “Straight people don’t have to make a big deal of their sexuality, so why should I?” 😂
That was me a few months ago! I felt that my mother and aunt would think it’s a phase because of my age. What I like to do is try and make it obvious that I’m disinterested in men. So if my aunt says something like “He’s cute.” I’d just say “Sure I guess.” Or making it obvious, saying something like “She’s really pretty.” In front of your parents when you see a pretty girl. This all led to me coming out. But only come out if it’s safe. And again, you don’t have to come out! It’s YOUR preference. No one else. So if they don’t accept you, that’s on them
You helped me a lot on my "journey" to be prepared to come out to my aunt and I did right before Christmas and she said that she was totally fine and that she loves me no matter what!! So THANK YOU for helping me through this and I LOVE YOU and I really like your videos❤️😍😘
What I find amazing is that more and more femme lesbian couples are starting youtube channels and now more than ever, there is so much more representation for women who are in feminine relationships all around the world, so things are definitely changing.
YES YES YES. It was only 6 years ago when I first saw rose and Rosie in youtube and I was taken back by how feminine they were, I didn’t know you could be lesbian without being masculine back then
@@laurenelloise Yes! Rose and Rosie are so inspirational and iconic. That's the thing though, as soon as someone does it, other people will also think they can do it and then that build's visibility within the community. It also says that wlw are not just one type of woman or don't have one type of relationship or not even nessecarily a lesbian, as they are women too and women come in all shapes, sizes, backgrounds, races, cultures, etc, so this idea that a lesbian has to be masculine and a relationship between two women has to be masculine/feminine is pretty misleading. But I also think that because of the stereotypes put on lesbians, they sometimes feel like they have to dress a certain way to be taken seriously as a lesbian and it might not be until later that they realize they can just be themselves.
I came out to my mom as bi but more into girls and she was so supportive!!! I would have never have gotten through it without you! I love you soo much and you have helped me a lot.
I’m debating whether I’m a lesbian or not... Every single effing time I had a “crush” on a guy, when they showed the slightest bit of interest in me, I would simply just stop caring about them/ stop liking them/ didn’t have interest in them at all. The most recent one was in December. I was into a guy who was in my class. Then, he told me he liked me too and I freaked out, lost all interest in him, lost all interest in having a relationship with a man, didn’t even contemplate kissing/ making out/ having sex with a man, and stopped talking to him. Is that enough to know I have a slight chance of being a lesbian? I am very confused.
Yeah that's a very big sign. It's a similar for me. I once liked a guy. My friends told me he liked me too. After that,whenever he would be around me I felt uncomfortable and wanted to get out of that situation. I would run away whenever he would approach me because I didn't wanna have anything with him. And at that time, I thought I was just nervous. Try to read lesbian master doc maybe it will help you
thank u hehe. Also, it's okay to be nervous, it's a scary thing. Make sure you only do it when you're ready and when you feel safe to. Writing a letter might be an easier way to tell them
that vídeo is amazing! thank you for answering my questions! I love every single one of your answers. I hope you have an amazing 2021 and I'm looking forward for everything you produce this year, I'm sure is gonna be amazing 😁
I still use the word Gay a lot instead of lesbian. I don’t understand the need for two different words to describe homosexual. I mean we usually say gay man when referring to someone else and “I’m gay” when referring to ourselves.” I’d be fine with queer, but that’s because I’ve got other things going on and that feels more inclusive.
hello!! I want to livestream more often, i used to every week while i had lunch. Im not much of a gamer, but i think even just insta-lives i wanna bring back or discord too. Podcast is something id love to do, but i think it requires more thnking around making it / topics etc
I just lost my most recent pair of rats a couple of weeks ago, and I could relate so much to everything you said! I have had other rats in the past, and it hurts SO much when you have to say goodbye to them. I'd really love to get more at some point, but right now I'm in a place in my life where it's probably not the smartest, I feel like big changes in where I study and live are going to happen pretty soon, and I couldn't be the best possible rat parent. Anyway, just wanted to share that, and tell you that I initally subscribed to you for the rat content in 2017 and stayed for the gay stuff ahah! ❤️
Oh no I’m really sorry to hear about your rats 😢🖤 I’m sending you massive hugs. It’s a good thing that you know you wouldn’t be able to give them the absolute best, some people are selfish in that way and still get rats. But I relate, I knew my life was changing and that played part in why I didn’t get anymore. It still hurts and I still wish I had more again, but I know it was the right decision. But hey, you could always get more a few years into the future! 🐭 and also ahh ty for being here 🖤🖤
You’re the only one who knows how you feel. I’m 13 and I came out Saturday. No one can tell you that you’re to young. Some people know their sexuality by the time they’re 7. Some people don’t know until their 20. Again, you’re the only one that knows how you’re feeling. ❤️❤️❤️
If someone says you're too young, ignore them. Or remind them that growing up is all about trying things, labels, identities. Some people know their sexuality from a young age, and some people take a while to figure it out. Continue to explore and get to know yourself, you have so many years to solidify your feelings ❤️
I just found out that I might be bi or lesbian but I feel like I can’t tell anyone because they might think it’s just a phase or that I’m just saying that to get attention. What should I do?
When i was 18 years old and one girl camed up too me and seed we are not going too sing we are going too dance we haed music class. I look at her she was from the popular girl and like i wasn't popular like her and we never talkd i didn't say like Hi i didn't say a weird all the time was looking in her eyes i was socd And i was going to the bathroom and she was in my class i did not stop looking at her i don't now why. And i look soo stupid and what was a funny story 😅
i would love to be able to help people thru a video like that, i think i'd have to research a lot for this one, bc i dont have personal experience with it
Also, there's nothing wrong with going through phases. You can be into girls in one stage of your life and into guys in another. You don't have to freak out over defining yourself. Just be.
Happy new year everyone :D. As long as everyone stays out of the US you should continue to have a good year, seriously there’s a fricken civil war here rn .-.
Hey! I struggling between Bi and Lesbian. It's hard to explain but- I find **some men "attractive" in terms of he's good-looking(but nothing more). I would also never date a man, and would only date women. I guess I am struggling because I find someone men attractive in some ways like being conventionally attractive and handsome ... but I also find feminine more attractive... Anyways do all lesbians find men unattractive in all ways? THAT SOUNDS WEIRD. But like no feelings towards men but u just say "hey, he's conventionally attractive/kinda handsome? I don't wanna label myself as a lesbian but find men conventionally attractive b, cause I feel like that could undermine other lesbians and what it is to be lesbian... Any tips? Edit- ima non-binary lesbian now. I also have like .0000000000000001% attraction to men soooo a lot has changed in 5 months💀
Wow, I was going through the comments and I read yours. I am having the same problem. The word Lesbian kinda scares me. Also the word bisexual bc that means I would be attracted to men and I really don’t want to be.
@@albusdumbledore8966 ughhh yeah. The lesbian doesn’t really scare me, but I don’t want undermine the other actual lesbians if I find men kinda attractive.... but yeah I don’t like men, but there I guess handsome. Like right now I identify as “Bi” but my preference is 98% women and 2% men. But I would never date a man! It’s really hard to figure out sexuality... I hope we figure it out! (Also sorry if I talked about me again, some ppl find it rude, but I like to relate to ppl)
If you think you would never date a man but would be happy dating a woman means you’re probably lesbian. You can be able to recognize attractive people of the opposite sex just like most hetero people can view people of the same sex attractive but wouldn’t date them. Your official label might be lesbian but if you feel uncomfortable using it just don’t. Your labels and sexuality is up to you and whatever you feel comfortable with. Hope this helped❤️
@@breannahill5469 oh, this definitely helped! I’m comfortable using lesbian, I just didn’t want to undermined what is to be lesbian by being able to notice “attractiveness”. But now I know, thanks for helping!!!!
As a lesbian I can sometimes tell when a guy is conventionally attractive, but I'm not attracted to him at all, the thought of touching, flirting, speaking, kissing, or holding hands or anything is gross and a major turn off. The thing is, I hardly notice this because I'm not looking for it? Does that make sense? I'm Obviously not looking at guys haha/. Remember that being bi doesn't mean you have to be 50% liking girls and 50% Liking boys. You could be like you said 2% liking men. There are plenty of bisexuals like this!! Everyone's experience is different. Some advice would be to look at the lesbian master doc. Here is the link sourceful.co.uk/doc/308/copy-of-am-i-a-lesbian-masterdoc . or keep exploring the idea of a romantic or sexual relationship with a man. At the end of the day, its just a label. just a bit of language to describe to yourself and others how you feel. use whatever one you are comfortable with. if its lesbian, its lesbian. If its bi, its bi.
I had a crush on an aromantic afab enby and a week before I was gonna confess to them I found out they were aromantic so I cried for an entire week No hate to aromantic people, you guys are so valid! I just wish it was impossible to form feelings for them :(
Happy New Year and Merry Christmas hope 2021 is better than the last, you’re so honest love it and enjoy watching your videos a lot. Thank you for this video and privacy is important when it comes to having partner sharing on videos but firstly I watch you and enjoy watching you.
So i dont really feel like coming out to my moms side of the family 1 because there is alot of them 2 i dont have the greatest relationship 3i dont need to make a big deal about of it for that part of my family. If i do its going to be because I eirth have a girlfriend or partner thats not a boy/man or i just acidently or purposely just slip it into a convo
Remember that you don't have to. And you don't have to come out to everyone you could just come out to your immediate family. You're right it doesn't need to be a big deal to your extended family. I don't think I ever did I think I just put "in a relationship a girl" on Facebook. That's how I come out to strangers I Just let it slip that it's a girl not a guy! :))
I donated my long hair at supercuts after they cut it off. Donating your hair to help others sometimes and is a kind thing to do. I use to donate blood also to help people in need. Climate change is real in the fact the magnetic field has been braking down with holes in it and ozone has holes and the crustal displacement also has been happening and the summers get hotter and weather changes and in all the world there are changes but all this happens because Mother Earth is changing. Crustal displacement is another thing. The only thing we can do as human is adapt as we always have in the past and help where we can the best that we can.
Good on you for donating you hair and blood! It's such a good thing to do. I wish I could donate blood but I have an allergy which means I can't. There's still a lot of people who don't believe climate change is real, which is sad, but like you said with just gotta keep adapting and changing our technology to slow it down
Happy New Year 2021🎉 I love this video I came out to my mom and you gave me confidence you are the best UA-camr 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
I love Australian Shepherd dogs. What your favorite Dog? I so want to go to LA and go to Universal Studios when it opens completely to go to see all Hagwarts and stuff that has to do with Hufflepuff and Ravenclaw houses. That will be cool after the coronovirus is over.
I'd really love to have a sausage to one day! But I know that got a lot of genetic problems :(( universal studios would be so cool to see fingers crossed for covid to be over soon
Aw thanks! No I don't have rats anymore. My last girl passed away at the end of 2018. I've made a video about why i won't get anymore which ill link for you, but it explains in more detail x ua-cam.com/video/e2UTFp8VjsA/v-deo.html
I also drink a lot of water and only wash my face at night… I’m in my 60s and my skin is looks about 15 years younger. I don’t think the skin likes to be disturbed as much as we typically disturb it.
5:39 im just 12 but i know im trans and i watch from you one video the "10 sings that mean you can be lesbain" (or something like that) and 7/10 my result is-.... ...so yeah im a little young for this but i know what i am. :^
Whene evere you can please its my channel and whoud you give me advise on whate to do and a don't say eanything because it makes me sound like a do not have a main gender
I litterly have had a crush on my bestfriend since 2nd grade and then we kissed but we were just like its just for the real thing like with boys ya know I'm not gay just practice here I am gay and she watches lesbains kiss and she's like im not gay trust me just wait till she finds out like um anyways chile
ohhhh my. Don't worry you definitely aren'y alone in the whole 'practice for the boys' thing. SO many girls do that and realise they are gay later. But be patient with your friend. She will tell you in her own time.
Please don’t get anything you’re allergic to or allow someone pressure you into tolerating an animal in your home because you can take antihistamines. Allergies are hard on the body… the immune system stays switched on. Drugs impact the body. In the long run it can cause problems. Seriously, love yourself enough to respect the messages your body gives you on how to care for yourself.
As someone who is seriously allergic to cats, it angers me the number of lesbians I’ve met who don’t get this. Even when I meet knew people, the first thing I ask is whether they have a cat before I will invest time with them. I’ve had people tell me they didn’t because a housemate had one or a child of theirs did but they didn’t. THAT’s having a cat in your home. Seriously, be an ally to those of use with debilitating illness.
THANK YA SO MUCH FOR UR QS AND FOR 20K!! Sending every person who reads this a massive hug!!! 💓
*Time stamps so you can easily find your question!*
0:41 Fave memory of 2020?
1:37 Will you get more rats?
2:15 Have you ever regretted UA-cam?
2:45 How was your first time?
3:52 How long have you been dating Gal Pal?
4:15 Was it scary coming out on UA-cam?
5:19 Advice for teens who haven’t come out to their parents?
5:37 When did you know you were gay?
5:49 Who did you first come out to?
6:11 Will you ever do videos with your girlfriend?
8:32 I’m in love with my straight BFF, help?
9:06 Where do you see yourself in 10 years?
9:40 Do you believe in Santa?
9:57 Do you go to church or believe in god?
10:10 How do you deal with the pressure of “looking gay”?
10:54 How do you accept your label?
11:44 How do you deal with coming out every single day?
12:42 How do I know it’s not a phase?
13:16 What inspired you to join UA-cam?
14:12 Struggling with mental health, tips?
14:35 Fave thing about Wear It Purple?
15:23 How can I tell if a girl is ghosting me?
16:08 Do you believe in climate change?
16:35 Will you ever cut your hair?
16:57 How is your skin so perfect?
17:38 MESSAGE FOR YA'LL
P.S. Did you watch all the 12 Gays of Christmas videos? Use the playlist to check ;)
ua-cam.com/play/PLfkAchFEZdGDG7E4yR7jJMh7G_IEP3Z0L.html
i guess im asking the wrong place but does anyone know a trick to get back into an Instagram account??
I somehow forgot my password. I would love any tips you can offer me.
@Rory Bo Instablaster ;)
@Krew Jaime I really appreciate your reply. I got to the site on google and Im in the hacking process now.
Seems to take quite some time so I will reply here later with my results.
@Krew Jaime it did the trick and I actually got access to my account again. I am so happy!
Thanks so much, you really help me out!
@Rory Bo You are welcome :D
Yay. I came out to my mom 2 days ago and you gave me a lot of confidence to be able to finally do it. Thank you. ❤️
oh my gosh im so proud of you! im so so happy i was able to help you with the confidence. congrats
@@alishamellor112 thank you
Congrats peep! ^w^
congrats!!
Really
Hey, I just wanted to say thanks. You helped me realize I’m gay for sure, and watching your videos help me feel better when I feel bad about being closeted.
-a random closeted lesbian
aw this is sweet im so soso happy i was able to impact you in that way! totally okay to be in the closet, take all the time you need
you actually replied omg! this made my day thank you
Of course! Aww 🥰
I also have a question, I am 14, am I too young to know I’m gay? My parents think so, that’s why I’m not out :/
@@confusedstrangedot2811 alright I know this was 2 months ago and you might’ve found your answer, but if not, here you go. I’m around that age as well and to be honest, I don’t personally think you could ever be “too young” to know your sexuality. It’s your attraction to a gender, that’s all it is. It’s not like you’re doing it for attention and it’s not because your premature, it’s your type of attraction to the people around you. Never think that your faking just because you believe you’re too young to know, because you’re not.
I wanna come out, but because of my age and the quarantine, I know my (slightly homophobic) dad would never believe me. My mom maybe, but I know her, even if she doesn’t say it she thinks it’s a phase. I’m planning on just bringing home a girlfriend one day, and when they ask I’ll just be like, “Straight people don’t have to make a big deal of their sexuality, so why should I?” 😂
That was me a few months ago! I felt that my mother and aunt would think it’s a phase because of my age. What I like to do is try and make it obvious that I’m disinterested in men. So if my aunt says something like “He’s cute.” I’d just say “Sure I guess.” Or making it obvious, saying something like “She’s really pretty.” In front of your parents when you see a pretty girl. This all led to me coming out. But only come out if it’s safe. And again, you don’t have to come out! It’s YOUR preference. No one else. So if they don’t accept you, that’s on them
Bea is a PYC member
Thanks, that helps a lot
@@Janxaa np
@@Janxaa oh and if all else fails, blast any girl in red song.
Bea is a PYC member Genius. ✨
You helped me a lot on my "journey" to be prepared to come out to my aunt and I did right before Christmas and she said that she was totally fine and that she loves me no matter what!! So THANK YOU for helping me through this and I LOVE YOU and I really like your videos❤️😍😘
this is amazing news, im really happy for you, and glad that it went well! aww thank you so much, and you are so welcome
What I find amazing is that more and more femme lesbian couples are starting youtube channels and now more than ever, there is so much more representation for women who are in feminine relationships all around the world, so things are definitely changing.
YES YES YES. It was only 6 years ago when I first saw rose and Rosie in youtube and I was taken back by how feminine they were, I didn’t know you could be lesbian without being masculine back then
@@laurenelloise Yes! Rose and Rosie are so inspirational and iconic.
That's the thing though, as soon as someone does it, other people will also think they can do it and then that build's visibility within the community.
It also says that wlw are not just one type of woman or don't have one type of relationship or not even nessecarily a lesbian, as they are women too and women come in all shapes, sizes, backgrounds, races, cultures, etc, so this idea that a lesbian has to be masculine and a relationship between two women has to be masculine/feminine is pretty misleading.
But I also think that because of the stereotypes put on lesbians, they sometimes feel like they have to dress a certain way to be taken seriously as a lesbian and it might not be until later that they realize they can just be themselves.
I came out to my mom as bi but more into girls and she was so supportive!!! I would have never have gotten through it without you! I love you soo much and you have helped me a lot.
Oh my gosh i am so happy and proud of you! Im so glad i was able to help you ahhh :')
woah you’re lucky to have such supportive parents if my parents come to know about it i’ll be dead. Rip my indian ass.🤧🤧
@@ara3906 :( well ull get through it :) theyre still ur parents :)
I’m debating whether I’m a lesbian or not... Every single effing time I had a “crush” on a guy, when they showed the slightest bit of interest in me, I would simply just stop caring about them/ stop liking them/ didn’t have interest in them at all. The most recent one was in December. I was into a guy who was in my class. Then, he told me he liked me too and I freaked out, lost all interest in him, lost all interest in having a relationship with a man, didn’t even contemplate kissing/ making out/ having sex with a man, and stopped talking to him. Is that enough to know I have a slight chance of being a lesbian? I am very confused.
Yeah that's a very big sign. It's a similar for me. I once liked a guy. My friends told me he liked me too. After that,whenever he would be around me I felt uncomfortable and wanted to get out of that situation. I would run away whenever he would approach me because I didn't wanna have anything with him. And at that time, I thought I was just nervous.
Try to read lesbian master doc maybe it will help you
Love the flag. I am gay and haven't told my parents yet. I'm really scared too.
thank u hehe. Also, it's okay to be nervous, it's a scary thing. Make sure you only do it when you're ready and when you feel safe to. Writing a letter might be an easier way to tell them
@@laurenelloise thank you, that helps a lot.
you're welcome anytime, wishing you the best with it xo
@@laurenelloise 😊
that vídeo is amazing! thank you for answering my questions! I love every single one of your answers. I hope you have an amazing 2021 and I'm looking forward for everything you produce this year, I'm sure is gonna be amazing 😁
Aw thank you so much!! Hoping your 2021 is kind to you! 💜💜
Not related to the video 😂 but your shirt is super cute!
Aww 🙈 thank you! Hehehe
I still use the word Gay a lot instead of lesbian. I don’t understand the need for two different words to describe homosexual. I mean we usually say gay man when referring to someone else and “I’m gay” when referring to ourselves.” I’d be fine with queer, but that’s because I’ve got other things going on and that feels more inclusive.
Hello and have you thought about live streaming on twitch and starting your own podcasts in the future
hello!! I want to livestream more often, i used to every week while i had lunch. Im not much of a gamer, but i think even just insta-lives i wanna bring back or discord too. Podcast is something id love to do, but i think it requires more thnking around making it / topics etc
@@laurenelloise yes please Insta live
I just lost my most recent pair of rats a couple of weeks ago, and I could relate so much to everything you said! I have had other rats in the past, and it hurts SO much when you have to say goodbye to them. I'd really love to get more at some point, but right now I'm in a place in my life where it's probably not the smartest, I feel like big changes in where I study and live are going to happen pretty soon, and I couldn't be the best possible rat parent. Anyway, just wanted to share that, and tell you that I initally subscribed to you for the rat content in 2017 and stayed for the gay stuff ahah! ❤️
Oh no I’m really sorry to hear about your rats 😢🖤 I’m sending you massive hugs. It’s a good thing that you know you wouldn’t be able to give them the absolute best, some people are selfish in that way and still get rats. But I relate, I knew my life was changing and that played part in why I didn’t get anymore. It still hurts and I still wish I had more again, but I know it was the right decision. But hey, you could always get more a few years into the future! 🐭 and also ahh ty for being here 🖤🖤
I came out to my parents and they were both very shocked but they actually excepted it so I’m very happy 😃 !!!
this is great news! congrats, i am proud of you!!
I’m 13- what if someone says I’m too young to know?
You’re the only one who knows how you feel. I’m 13 and I came out Saturday. No one can tell you that you’re to young. Some people know their sexuality by the time they’re 7. Some people don’t know until their 20. Again, you’re the only one that knows how you’re feeling. ❤️❤️❤️
@@breannahill5469 agreed, congrats on coming out!
If someone says you're too young, ignore them. Or remind them that growing up is all about trying things, labels, identities. Some people know their sexuality from a young age, and some people take a while to figure it out. Continue to explore and get to know yourself, you have so many years to solidify your feelings ❤️
That's great advice Breanna, and congratulations on coming out!!!
I feel like I am like to young to know if I am gay or not. I feel like I am. Idk. I have talked to my mom about this but it was very weird.
I just found out that I might be bi or lesbian but I feel like I can’t tell anyone because they might think it’s just a phase or that I’m just saying that to get attention. What should I do?
When i was 18 years old and one girl camed up too me and seed we are not going too sing we are going too dance we haed music class. I look at her she was from the popular girl and like i wasn't popular like her and we never talkd i didn't say like Hi i didn't say a weird all the time was looking in her eyes i was socd And i was going to the bathroom and she was in my class i did not stop looking at her i don't now why. And i look soo stupid and what was a funny story 😅
I wish I could fall in love in October
You should make a video on how to come out to a homophobic family
i would love to be able to help people thru a video like that, i think i'd have to research a lot for this one, bc i dont have personal experience with it
@@laurenelloise yes please do.
Also, there's nothing wrong with going through phases. You can be into girls in one stage of your life and into guys in another. You don't have to freak out over defining yourself. Just be.
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Happy new year everyone :D. As long as everyone stays out of the US you should continue to have a good year, seriously there’s a fricken civil war here rn .-.
and happy new year to you! I hope USA can get back on track this year, it's been rough for them. sending positive vibes!!
@@laurenelloise Thanks and, hopefully this disaster of a country can get back on track soon.
I like that plant
aw hehe and my plant likes u
@@laurenelloise good to hear
I love your makeup 😩🤚🏼💖
THANK YOU SO MUCH this means heaps bc its been a slow process of me learning and improving lol
@@laurenelloise it looks so good !!
ahh ty!!!!!
Hey! I struggling between Bi and Lesbian. It's hard to explain but- I find **some men "attractive" in terms of he's good-looking(but nothing more). I would also never date a man, and would only date women. I guess I am struggling because I find someone men attractive in some ways like being conventionally attractive and handsome ... but I also find feminine more attractive... Anyways do all lesbians find men unattractive in all ways? THAT SOUNDS WEIRD. But like no feelings towards men but u just say "hey, he's conventionally attractive/kinda handsome? I don't wanna label myself as a lesbian but find men conventionally attractive b, cause I feel like that could undermine other lesbians and what it is to be lesbian... Any tips?
Edit- ima non-binary lesbian now. I also have like .0000000000000001% attraction to men soooo a lot has changed in 5 months💀
Wow, I was going through the comments and I read yours. I am having the same problem. The word Lesbian kinda scares me. Also the word bisexual bc that means I would be attracted to men and I really don’t want to be.
@@albusdumbledore8966 ughhh yeah. The lesbian doesn’t really scare me, but I don’t want undermine the other actual lesbians if I find men kinda attractive.... but yeah I don’t like men, but there I guess handsome. Like right now I identify as “Bi” but my preference is 98% women and 2% men. But I would never date a man! It’s really hard to figure out sexuality... I hope we figure it out! (Also sorry if I talked about me again, some ppl find it rude, but I like to relate to ppl)
If you think you would never date a man but would be happy dating a woman means you’re probably lesbian. You can be able to recognize attractive people of the opposite sex just like most hetero people can view people of the same sex attractive but wouldn’t date them. Your official label might be lesbian but if you feel uncomfortable using it just don’t. Your labels and sexuality is up to you and whatever you feel comfortable with. Hope this helped❤️
@@breannahill5469 oh, this definitely helped! I’m comfortable using lesbian, I just didn’t want to undermined what is to be lesbian by being able to notice “attractiveness”. But now I know, thanks for helping!!!!
As a lesbian I can sometimes tell when a guy is conventionally attractive, but I'm not attracted to him at all, the thought of touching, flirting, speaking, kissing, or holding hands or anything is gross and a major turn off. The thing is, I hardly notice this because I'm not looking for it? Does that make sense? I'm Obviously not looking at guys haha/. Remember that being bi doesn't mean you have to be 50% liking girls and 50% Liking boys. You could be like you said 2% liking men. There are plenty of bisexuals like this!! Everyone's experience is different. Some advice would be to look at the lesbian master doc. Here is the link sourceful.co.uk/doc/308/copy-of-am-i-a-lesbian-masterdoc . or keep exploring the idea of a romantic or sexual relationship with a man. At the end of the day, its just a label. just a bit of language to describe to yourself and others how you feel. use whatever one you are comfortable with. if its lesbian, its lesbian. If its bi, its bi.
can you please do a looking at my subscribers cage for rats please and also make community Discord server
I had a crush on an aromantic afab enby and a week before I was gonna confess to them I found out they were aromantic so I cried for an entire week
No hate to aromantic people, you guys are so valid! I just wish it was impossible to form feelings for them :(
You literally fell in love in October
Crazy
I am planning to come out next week, you helped me a lot. Also, happy new year!
Happy new year!! and that's amazing, im wishing you the best with it!
Omg! The paper plain story!! That's so f***ing cute!! Omg!!
there is so much more to the story i need to share one day ahhhhh
@@laurenelloise yes please share it. It sounds like one super cute story that we want to hear
yesss promise i will!! (if i say so myself, it was rlly cute)
@@laurenelloise aww can't wait to hear it. :)
Happy New Year and Merry Christmas hope 2021 is better than the last, you’re so honest love it and enjoy watching your videos a lot. Thank you for this video and privacy is important when it comes to having partner sharing on videos but firstly I watch you and enjoy watching you.
Happy new year!! and thank you so much for watching! esp for understanding about wanting to keep some things offline, appreciate you!!
So i dont really feel like coming out to my moms side of the family 1 because there is alot of them 2 i dont have the greatest relationship 3i dont need to make a big deal about of it for that part of my family. If i do its going to be because I eirth have a girlfriend or partner thats not a boy/man or i just acidently or purposely just slip it into a convo
Remember that you don't have to. And you don't have to come out to everyone you could just come out to your immediate family. You're right it doesn't need to be a big deal to your extended family. I don't think I ever did I think I just put "in a relationship a girl" on Facebook. That's how I come out to strangers I Just let it slip that it's a girl not a guy! :))
thank you so much I finally got the courage to come out because of you. thank you so much.❤️❤️
You are so welcome, thats amazing!!!
I donated my long hair at supercuts after they cut it off. Donating your hair to help others sometimes and is a kind thing to do. I use to donate blood also to help people in need. Climate change is real in the fact the magnetic field has been braking down with holes in it and ozone has holes and the crustal displacement also has been happening and the summers get hotter and weather changes and in all the world there are changes but all this happens because Mother Earth is changing. Crustal displacement is another thing. The only thing we can do as human is adapt as we always have in the past and help where we can the best that we can.
Good on you for donating you hair and blood! It's such a good thing to do. I wish I could donate blood but I have an allergy which means I can't. There's still a lot of people who don't believe climate change is real, which is sad, but like you said with just gotta keep adapting and changing our technology to slow it down
I kissed a girl at 7. I cant tell my mom ofc so she still thinks it's a phase lol
You look so pretty today
tysm!
Oh hey I was featured in the video. ily 💗
heheheh 💜💜
hi Lauren Elloise I have made one thing can u send u on Instagram like I wrote one letter and nice video I loved it
Hey yes of course, you can DM me on Instagram 😇 and thank you!
Outstanding video, great job, you are amazing & keep it up, thank you for answering my question, much love
and thank you so much for asking one and for the support!!
@@laurenelloise You're very welcome, you rock
Great video as always 💜❤️💜
Thank you! Cheers!
Happy New Year 2021🎉 I love this video I came out to my mom and you gave me confidence you are the best UA-camr 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
I am a gay and my best friend is crischin :=/
Ok that's enough for me I'm subscribing you
Welcome to the fam!!! 😇
Thanks
My baby rat looks like pepper
aww cute!!!!
Thank you so much you just spoke the truth❤ 🥰🥰🥰🥰
1kth like ❤
YEWWWWW 🙌
Thanks
Yooooo’ thanks soo much for another super thanks! 🖤 this is extremely generous of you and I appreciate your support
Im all ways here UnU
thank you for being here!!!!!
Haha I messed the 555 likes up uvu now its 556
Whoops 👀
Hmm can you prefer a best age to come out and when's your birthday
There isn't a best age, it's best to come out when you are ready, comfortable and when you know its safe to! :))
@@laurenelloise okay thank you
I love Australian Shepherd dogs. What your favorite Dog? I so want to go to LA and go to Universal Studios when it opens completely to go to see all Hagwarts and stuff that has to do with Hufflepuff and Ravenclaw houses. That will be cool after the coronovirus is over.
I'd really love to have a sausage to one day! But I know that got a lot of genetic problems :(( universal studios would be so cool to see fingers crossed for covid to be over soon
Hey! I love your channel! Just wondering, do you still have your rats?
Aw thanks! No I don't have rats anymore. My last girl passed away at the end of 2018. I've made a video about why i won't get anymore which ill link for you, but it explains in more detail x ua-cam.com/video/e2UTFp8VjsA/v-deo.html
Your top is soooo pretty 😱😍
Thank you!! It’s like a velvet-y kinda feel
I also drink a lot of water and only wash my face at night… I’m in my 60s and my skin is looks about 15 years younger. I don’t think the skin likes to be disturbed as much as we typically disturb it.
5:39 im just 12 but i know im trans and i watch from you one video the "10 sings that mean you can be lesbain" (or something like that) and 7/10 my result is-....
...so yeah im a little young for this but i know what i am. :^
Omg I told my mum I liked girls this morning!! I was so sacred but now I’m so happy that I did it! Ur videos are so inspiring thanks!!! :>
again..i enjoy your vids!!
amazing vids!!!
Thank you so much Victoria😀!!!
@@laurenelloise your welcome.
Yay so glad this videos is out can't wait to watch it. Know it will be great like all the other.
Have a great day
Hope you like it! hehe thank you sooooo much! Your support doesnt go unnoticed!!
@@laurenelloise pleasure. You are great. Stay you.
@@laurenelloise you look so pretty. The eyeliner and shadow looks fantastic.
Loved the video. So proud of you for 20K subscribers
Ahhhh thanks so so much!
Go and search popcorn nugget pepper
Please
Whene evere you can please its my channel and whoud you give me advise on whate to do and a don't say eanything because it makes me sound like a do not have a main gender
Ja am olso straight but a find your channel introsting
Very cute! 🐭
girl, u r just the best, I am a lesbian and your content is soooooo good 💖💖💖
Where can I buy a pride flag?
Im almost certain i got my rainbow flag and the lesbian flag from ebay!
@@laurenelloise thank you. You are so amazing and you are my favorite UA-camr of all time.
aw :') tysm!!!
@@laurenelloise your welcome. 😊😇
I litterly have had a crush on my bestfriend since 2nd grade and then we kissed but we were just like its just for the real thing like with boys ya know I'm not gay just practice here I am gay and she watches lesbains kiss and she's like im not gay trust me just wait till she finds out like um anyways chile
ohhhh my. Don't worry you definitely aren'y alone in the whole 'practice for the boys' thing. SO many girls do that and realise they are gay later. But be patient with your friend. She will tell you in her own time.
Please don’t get anything you’re allergic to or allow someone pressure you into tolerating an animal in your home because you can take antihistamines. Allergies are hard on the body… the immune system stays switched on. Drugs impact the body. In the long run it can cause problems. Seriously, love yourself enough to respect the messages your body gives you on how to care for yourself.
As someone who is seriously allergic to cats, it angers me the number of lesbians I’ve met who don’t get this. Even when I meet knew people, the first thing I ask is whether they have a cat before I will invest time with them. I’ve had people tell me they didn’t because a housemate had one or a child of theirs did but they didn’t. THAT’s having a cat in your home. Seriously, be an ally to those of use with debilitating illness.
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@@laurenelloise I still love you as a best youtuber!!!!!!!
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I LOVE U LAUREN
U ARE THE BOM
AHHH TYSM!!!!
@@laurenelloise I LOVE EVERY REPLY U IVE ME
Do you ever feel to be a mom or get pregnant?? And how would you do that ??
Idk if i want kids, im only 24 so got a while to decide. This is something you can find the answer to via google.