LGBTQ advice from the BIG SISTERS you never had 🌈
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- Опубліковано 9 лип 2024
- My sis and I are bringing you the big sister lgbtq advice ya'll needed 💖☁️ We talk about: internalized homophobia, platonic vs romantic attraction, coming out to homophobic parents, baby gay relationships, being lesbian, wlw dating tips & more!
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Timestamps to help you find what u need 💗
0:00 LGBT Advice
0:48 Trauma with men or am I just gay?
3:15 Feeling inexperienced in college
4:42 Should I risk the friendship?
6:16 How to help my partner with depression?
7:39 Coming out to homophobic parents
9:38 What to do when someone outs you
10:25 My parents don't believe I'm gay
12:27 How to make the first move?
13:56 Close friends with an ex?
15:49 Not feeling gay enough
16:57 Dealing with internalized homophobia
17:53 How to know if you're ready to date again?
21:22 Healing after a breakup
22:59 Long distance advice
24:43 How important is labelling yourself?
25:27 I like my friends ex, help!
26:07 How to find ur own style/aesthetic?
28:17 Romantic vs platonic attraction.
30:00 If you still need advice...
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Thanks to my lil sis for joining & you for submitting Qs! Since ya’ll had SOO MANY Qs, should we make a part 2 or like a regular thing? Lemme know 💖💅🏼☁ p.s here’s a playlist with all my vids with Leah ua-cam.com/play/PLfkAchFEZdGCk3OdyB9iDG3IBp6uGM6NX.html
I would love to see this being a regular thing! Honestly I just sometimes need advice and I can't always ask my teachers or parents. Plus, you can learn a lot from the responses to other people's questions.
I would love this to be regular as well, I'm still very young, and still figuring out who I am, so these videos really help a lot
I don't know what to do. I'm questioning right now and I can't figure out if I'm bi or lesbian. I feel like I like girls more, but I'm not sure if I like boys. I don't think I do now, but I don't know. It's like I want boys to like me but the second they do I'm repulsed and disgusted. I'm so confused right now. Any advice? Love your videos ❤
@@rainbowsprinkles18it seems to me, that an ability to control the sitch between you and a boy seems more important than an actual relationship sitch! I was so nervous about coming out, to my family & friends, a few decades ago... I was in the same frame of mind as you, not knowing if past sitches had been relevant to who I was "coming-out" as? Questioning who I was and who I was interested in?!?! Best advise is not to put undue pressure on yourself, the more honest you are with yourself, the faster you'll figure it out.... and nothing says you have to stick with what you decided yesterday, come another decade or so in your life's journey 😊💗✌️
We want a part two gang
👇🏻
ayyyyyyyyyyyy
I came out at 11 and regret doing so
I thought it would be fine because they hadn't talked about it before.
I came out as bisexual and now only a year later I am a lesbian in a one year relationship with my close friend
My parents told me I was confused and it was just a phase.
Now my dad has come to terms with it but my mum still thinks it is a phase.
It doesn't help that she doesn't like my girlfriend and thinks that she is a bad influence. I cant wait for my wedding day where I marry a girl and my mum is proved wrong.
Nooo this is the last video of the 12 gays of christmas. Your sister should definitely be in a lot more videos because she gives the best advice. Merry Christmas you guys have a wonderful day, love from Charlee ❤
one more to go!!! last one will go up in 8hrs (when i wake up haha) yesss this is good news, i would love to do more advice videos! merry christmas to you too charlee!
thank you sm for answering my question! this video will be something i continue to come back to when i'm doubting myself because i don't have a label rn... thank you for the validation, you both are incredible
Any tips to shift a relationship mood from platonic/normal to more romantic or showing your intention of wanting to be with them?
Adding on to what Lauren said answering the question about how to help someone struggling with depression is something I learned through a leadership course. You are not the medicine, you cannot automatically make someone better, you are the cast. You can support them while they get better.
You have no idea how much I’ve been waiting for this video! Remember everyone you are loved 💗
omg yessss
You inspire us everyday and make the world a better place. Never give up! 💖🥰
nawww im v glad
I just wanted to say thank you because this helped a lot and I absolutely know how to handle my situation because of you. I really just wanted to say thank you and you are really inspiring and helpful!
ahhhh glad that we could help you out!! 💜💜💜
I was only thinking the other day about how much I wanted a gay big sister figure because I don’t have anyone like that in my life. So thank you for this video and generally everything on your channel, you make more of an impact than you know. :)
Aww thank you so much for answering my question! You and Leah are awesome advice givers haha!
aww of course, our pleasure! (im sorry we didnt get to answer all of them, but i tried to pick the ones most people would need)
@@laurenelloise noo its okay!!
This was such a fab video!! Thank you so much to both of you 💜 definitely going to buy one of your t-shirts with Christmas money, I’m so excited to own one I’ve been admiring them for ages!!
Thank you both for the wonderful advice!
Merry Christmas everyone ❤
Same to you!
I’m romantically and sexually attracted to the females ever a lot , but I’m like really wondering , like how do I know that there’s some or lot of females who’s already loving me..???
And how do I engage them all..???
Yess for self realization and coming out to yourself - congrats Leah! Also your twelve gays videos were 🔥this year! Well done, what an epic effort to get them all recorded and edited.
It's 2am and I'm watching this falling asleep lol.
This was such a good video!
Yay! Thank you! awww hahah i hope you ended up getting some good sleep!
Very good advice video. Just take the time you need and don't let yourself be pressured to do anything you might regret in the aftermath.
Well said! 💜 and tysm!
So excited for this! Xx
yayyyyy 💜💜💜
Thanks for the advice u are AMAZING!
You're so welcome!
Love your videos. Thank you!
Thanks for watching!
I love your 12 gays of christmas videos! Thank you ☺️
ahh thank you so muchhhhh
Thank you for helping me find out who I am
Amazing video! Thank you so much! And part two definitely sounds like a good idea! ;-)
Glad you enjoyed it!🖤🖤
This helped me so much thank you!
You're so welcome!💖💖
this is so helpful tysm i love your videos
You're so welcome! 💖💖
Brilliant advice, great video, you're on fire, keep it up, happy holidays and Merry Christmas, much love my friend 💖✨🎄
thank you! and same to you! 🎅🏼
@@laurenelloise You're very welcome
Perfect timing since I am coming out to my family in 11 days as a non-binary bisexual person
GOOD LUCK! ❤❤❤🍀🍀
oh yayyyyy 💜 hoping everything goes well!
My mom already knows so it is more trying to get them to use my preferred name
@@EaglemaskJayfeather ah ok, still good luck!
Good luck!!
I'm a bisexual trans woman with Down Syndrome. I told my parents that i am trans when i was 28 years old, and I am 29 now, but they still use my male pronouns after i told them I want the female pronouns. That's because I had kept it hidden after i was outed by an elementary school teacher. I wanted to cry, but i was freaked out, and denied it. I knew i was always bisexual. I always have eyes for women, but i had fallen in love with a guy that i did taekowndo with. I thought i was gay, but i was so uncomfortable with it, and i didn't know why. I had eventually figured out that i still have feelings for women, therefore I am truly bisexual. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You know have no idea how much you are the most awesomest person I know
ahhhhhh this is so cute :')
i questioned my sexuality the first time when i was 11 years old. After a while I just did not think about it anymore. With 12 and a half years old I started reading gay stories, watch gay stuff, things like that. This way it all became very normal to me, almost more normal than straight things, because i almost never watched something straight.With 13 and a half years old, so, right now, i am questioning my sexuality again. i do not think that i only like men (i am a girl) but i do not know if it is just in my head because i watch all this gay stuff. Maybe i am just faking it to myself. Any advice?
Hey beautiful, I agree with your sister, the person you are is the person of another sex or gender you attract!!!🙂
I have a question... How do I come out to my homophobic dad and homophobic grandma? I am deep in the closet right now. I mean my best friend, close friends, favorite cousin and mom know butI don't how to tell my dad and grandma. Any advice?
You and galpal are like my big sisters
These r really gonna help tysm lauren for being here for me
I've had a rough day but
I got my girlfriend a heart necklace and heart earrings and then a promise ring 💍 think she will like it?
Merry Christmas
Hey Lauren awesome and inspyring vid love it
Thanks so much!!
This video was so much help, but I have another question. I am 14 my parents are very religious and I decided not to tell them but how do me and my gf stay hidden or how do I hide it and find lgbt+ spaces to feel welcome without them finding out? Also, I left a comment on ur last video, could you read it with Gal Pal? Love ya ❤
Thanks so much for this video! You didn't see my comment which I understand but I really hope you do at least one more part!
On the topic of staying friends with exes, I actually normally stay friends with my exes, because to me once the romantic relationship is over, it's over. They would have to have done something really bad for me to not want to stay friends. I like to think that I generally date nice people, and I like to keep nice people in my life. Butttttt, I have only dated men, and I'm 30 and recently realized that I was never bi like I thought, that I'm actually a lesbian. So, I mean, that could be why I can stay friends with men that are exes and not feel weird.
We need a part two
I think we do too! There was just sooo many Qs
@@laurenelloise yea there was maybe if y’all do a second one you can try to answer mine I know it my not have a answer but I hope it does
But lets not post more questions here otherwise there might be a part 27 or something loll
@@chaoschaoschaoss lol 😂
You guys are soo cute love u 💓 💗
aww fankksss 💗
It was Bright Side. You saw that on Bright Side (the mimicking body language thing) 😂
0:38 *gaaaaspppppp * THE CAPTIONS ERASED THE GAY :000
Thanks!
Thank you so much for this video! You guys are really good at giving advice.
aww vee!! ur so welcome, thank you sooo much for this generous super thanks :') i appreciate it so much! (i might send this one to leah actually hehe) 💜💜 wishing u a great 2023!
I love your vids! I can’t believe how much hate I’m getting on the first LGBTQIA video I posted :-/ please send help!!! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
How to look more bisexual without plastering myself in bi flags and pins? My dad is not taking hints 😑😅
I'm new here and I was wondering does Gal/Girl Pal go by another name? (I've been watching your 12 days of gay)
aw welcome to the fam! Yeah her name obviously isn’t galpal hahahah but I use galpal on UA-cam, her name is Erin :)
@@laurenelloise thank you so much. I thought she had a UA-cam channel named Gal Pal lol. And I went looking for it.
Hii you are my fav youtuber lesbian rights 🏳🌈🏳🌈🏳🌈
helloooo 💖 awww :') im honoured to be ur fav
I have big sisters!!
But they are not LGBT
😎😃😊😜😍😘💖🌹
First! Or second?
you're officially first!!! congrats 💖
😎😃😊😜😍😘💖🌹