Although I agree that many parents discipline out of guilt and raise their kids with the thought process I want to give my kids what I didn't have. But also parents nowadays are threatened and are scared to discipline their kids because every time you turn around someone is there to report you to CPS if they feel that you did something that was a little too harsh. So you can be in a store with a kid throwing a temper tantrum and most parents don't know what to do anymore because they're scared to do anything. Then you have so many single parents. And you have some that are disciplining out of guilt because they're not together and then there's a competition between Mom and Dad who's the better and more fun of a parent
So true and most parents are even breaking their kids toys as punishment to teach them a lesson and that's a childish thing to do no matter what the situation is ( well except for in rare cases of course). This is also one of those reasons why we have so many kids that break things because they're picking it up from their immature parents.
it is the job of every parent to love their children and let them to express what the want and need if we do that our children grow up strong and healthy as you are said giving time means love it is so amazing words ever .
Yes, I totally agree! I know I feel totally lost and confused this day and age with parenting. There is so much conflicting advice out there. I was an only child and I am totally an introvert. Yet I have a strong-willed child. I am so exhausted, and I really struggled at first (and still do) with my first (the strong-willed one). I was a compliant child and I didn’t even know there was a strong-willed personality out there. Then I had one, and it totally threw me off. I stupidly assumed I would have a really easy child since I was. NOPE. Not with my first. And it is just soooo taxing on me!!! I also have a lot of insecurity issues and whatnot. I have always been super seeet and nice. People say I’m “too nice”, which is probably true. So I have just really had a hard time with my son. I know it’s not, but to me, it feels like I’m yelling at my child or kind of being rough or mean, when I know it’s really not. It’s hard. I really have to push myself. And it’s a confident thing.
I agree with a lot of these comments. The hosts spoke too much, took over, veered the conversation and sidetracked her from getting to her points that I'm sure she had.
There's a good book out called, "On My Way to Hollywood." It literally gets into your conscience to make you a better person. No lie! It's entertaining yet it will shape your child or ANYONE into a better, wiser person. WHO KNEW?
So my kid is strong willed and has lots and lots or energy and when he gets in trouble we can't get him to stay still unless we strap him in his booster seat but to me that defeats the purpose of time out
I think parents need to get over their ego. Kids have a right (and an obligation) to question everything. How else are they going to make it in life? That kind of inclination should be celebrated and encouraged. I would ask my kids (without judgement) what their thought process was when they decided to do x or y (which I may not have liked). That's an opportunity to teach them what went wrong and tell them the processes that were right. It also keeps the door open between you and them. They know they can actually come to you without being yelled at or judged or humiliated. If my kid is having an emergency, I want them coming to me and their father, not some stranger on the street who isn't going to have their best interests at heart. I've worked and lived around a lot of kids in my life. Fact is, they need to know that their opinion and their right to be curious is respected .
Kids can ask questions but we the parents/adult are the ones who must answer with caution and not get into giving long explanations. Simple answers are sufficient
They are supposed to be talking about strong-willed child. Does anyone seriously think that saying to a strong-willed child "mommy needs 5 mins of time" will just make the child magically understand and respect this request for space? WTF, this is the whole damn issue, strong-willed children struggle with respect and boundaries. Also, in the end it was clear that she is coming at this from a bible-thumper's limited perspective and NOT a child psychology perspective.
I hear you I think sometimes there is a gap or a missing link. This strategy will work if you have been using it from day one but if you start when your child already has some learned behaviours you need some more tailored strategies for that situation
Also, we are afraid CPS will come in and take our kids if we are “too hard” on our kids, but we don’t even really know exactly where CPS draws that line. So we live in fear and confusion.
These kids weak nowadays. so weak to where the way i raise mines, outside people think im too hard because i actually have rules they must follow.... and if they dont its consequences. My great grandma raised me and thats how she was but a 100 times worse
Sooo, we're just going to ignore the fact that there is no useful information in this video? Or was it in the last 5 seconds that I didn't get to? Ugh daytime TV can't die fast enough.
Can these hosts please let the GUEST speak? Geez
Why they don't let her speak? I see them talking talking....I see now that most reporters in tv like to always have the attention
Georgina Rivera for real! I was thinking the same thing!
Deborah is great, I am just discovering this show. I wish she was still doing the show.
Although I agree that many parents discipline out of guilt and raise their kids with the thought process I want to give my kids what I didn't have. But also parents nowadays are threatened and are scared to discipline their kids because every time you turn around someone is there to report you to CPS if they feel that you did something that was a little too harsh. So you can be in a store with a kid throwing a temper tantrum and most parents don't know what to do anymore because they're scared to do anything. Then you have so many single parents. And you have some that are disciplining out of guilt because they're not together and then there's a competition between Mom and Dad who's the better and more fun of a parent
So true and most parents are even breaking their kids toys as punishment to teach them a lesson and that's a childish thing to do no matter what the situation is ( well except for in rare cases of course). This is also one of those reasons why we have so many kids that break things because they're picking it up from their immature parents.
it is the job of every parent to love their children and let them to express what the want and need if we do that our children grow up strong and healthy as you are said giving time means love it is so amazing words ever .
I like “ stop giving your child things” our kids need more they need discipline and direction
How can you tell the difference between a strong willed child and a hyper active child or oppositional defiance behaviour
I think this generation doesn’t realize that kids are tougher than we realize.
Yes, I totally agree! I know I feel totally lost and confused this day and age with parenting. There is so much conflicting advice out there. I was an only child and I am totally an introvert. Yet I have a strong-willed child. I am so exhausted, and I really struggled at first (and still do) with my first (the strong-willed one). I was a compliant child and I didn’t even know there was a strong-willed personality out there. Then I had one, and it totally threw me off. I stupidly assumed I would have a really easy child since I was. NOPE. Not with my first. And it is just soooo taxing on me!!! I also have a lot of insecurity issues and whatnot. I have always been super seeet and nice. People say I’m “too nice”, which is probably true. So I have just really had a hard time with my son. I know it’s not, but to me, it feels like I’m yelling at my child or kind of being rough or mean, when I know it’s really not. It’s hard. I really have to push myself. And it’s a confident thing.
Follow through, start with yourself discipline yourself... Great tips
I'm writing a story with children and the comment section is helping me more than the video thanks guys :)
Truuuue
Nice! Lol
I have to truly strong willed child and they clearly have no idea what a strong willed child is like 😂😂
😃😄😄😄
Totally agree
I agree with a lot of these comments. The hosts spoke too much, took over, veered the conversation and sidetracked her from getting to her points that I'm sure she had.
I love this woman and the name she gave her son. Zeplin.. love ❤️
There's a good book out called, "On My Way to Hollywood." It literally gets into your conscience to make you a better person. No lie! It's entertaining yet it will shape your child or ANYONE into a better, wiser person. WHO KNEW?
So my kid is strong willed and has lots and lots or energy and when he gets in trouble we can't get him to stay still unless we strap him in his booster seat but to me that defeats the purpose of time out
I think parents need to get over their ego. Kids have a right (and an obligation) to question everything. How else are they going to make it in life? That kind of inclination should be celebrated and encouraged. I would ask my kids (without judgement) what their thought process was when they decided to do x or y (which I may not have liked). That's an opportunity to teach them what went wrong and tell them the processes that were right. It also keeps the door open between you and them. They know they can actually come to you without being yelled at or judged or humiliated. If my kid is having an emergency, I want them coming to me and their father, not some stranger on the street who isn't going to have their best interests at heart. I've worked and lived around a lot of kids in my life. Fact is, they need to know that their opinion and their right to be curious is respected .
Kids can ask questions but we the parents/adult are the ones who must answer with caution and not get into giving long explanations. Simple answers are sufficient
Wait a minute there can't be 2 supernannys
Jo Frost Supernanny
Deborah Tillman America's Supernanny
Cris Poli Supernanny Brazil 🇧🇷
If we use the right strategies you can discipline your kids with fear of the authorities
They are supposed to be talking about strong-willed child. Does anyone seriously think that saying to a strong-willed child "mommy needs 5 mins of time" will just make the child magically understand and respect this request for space? WTF, this is the whole damn issue, strong-willed children struggle with respect and boundaries. Also, in the end it was clear that she is coming at this from a bible-thumper's limited perspective and NOT a child psychology perspective.
I hear you I think sometimes there is a gap or a missing link. This strategy will work if you have been using it from day one but if you start when your child already has some learned behaviours you need some more tailored strategies for that situation
Did she say Obama?
melissa haner I thought I heard the same thing!
I thought I heard that too
Me too! What a psycho!!
I hope so.
Also, we are afraid CPS will come in and take our kids if we are “too hard” on our kids, but we don’t even really know exactly where CPS draws that line. So we live in fear and confusion.
Stop giving things, give them time and heart and emotions…
These hosts are super annoying
She’s funny. 😆
The guy needs to stop interrupting
This guy must be attention deprived he is the example of what she is talking about. Lol
These kids weak nowadays. so weak to where the way i raise mines, outside people think im too hard because i actually have rules they must follow.... and if they dont its consequences. My great grandma raised me and thats how she was but a 100 times worse
You know could be a Hitler or... Obama lol
My this host is so rude he keeps interrupting her 🤦🏻♀️
Sooo, we're just going to ignore the fact that there is no useful information in this video? Or was it in the last 5 seconds that I didn't get to? Ugh daytime TV can't die fast enough.