💔 😭 GETTING OVER THE BREAKUP AND MOVING ON!!!!! 🏃🏽♀️💨 | SISTER-2-SISTER | Fumi Desalu-Vold
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My heart goes out to anyone who is hurting right now. I'm sending out a huge collective hug to Miss Fumi and all her watchers (if you need it). 🌷❤🌷❤🌷
Antie Fumi! I love you! I am currently in a French cafe watching your video and I am feeling everything you are saying,.😃
Gros bisous from Paris
Thanks 😊
I promise you this was so timely, it's almost scary!
And boy!, am I grateful I found mama Fums on UA-cam.
I'm at the phase where I've started a course, but there are children in the picture. So because it's still pretty fresh, I'm still trying to find a balance that doesn't get to take me back to sparing any thoughts for the past.
Imagine the relief watching this, has brought me!
God bless you ma'am. Your wealth of knowledge will always leave me grateful for the gift of you.
I love you😘
Thanks so much.
Amen
I cannot put into words how healing your laughter is.
Isn't it! Healing, i feel the same
After a major breakup I experienced years ago, I took myself off the dating market and began to get to know myself. I enjoyed my family, extended family and friends. The greatest reward was living life on purpose! I'm truly in love now.
Who else taps the screen to see how much time is left when Fumi says " listen to the story".....I don't want the time to finish, we feed off of u, u teach us so many things, I'm transfixed I tell u!!!!
I do it all the time with Fumi❤❤
I just love the way Funmi switches btw makeup talks and the subject matter without breaks. I find it calming
Me too ;)
Therapeutic
@@kavoadakunimata20very
Same here. She just draws you in and you feel you are listening to a friend giving you great advice
That guy was in your life to teach you a life lesson and to open the door to yourselves. Find the lessons, learn more about yourselves, and invest in yourselves. Use the experience to move, in fact propel, yourselves further.
You nailed it
Awesome 🏆
as a 25 year old, feel like I needed this 💙
knocked so much sense into me x
You're lucky to catch up with Her as you're much more younger. The options are yours.
She talked to me right thru my soul! Thank you auntie! You are so impactful
How I needed to hear this, I've been down for 8 months because of a man, my husband who treated me so bad, ran off with his mistress to other state, no closure just went to work one morning and never came back, he was abusive, disrespectful, cheater, manipulator and liar. I often told myself, why the tears and sadness, what in the world did you lose. While he walks around happy with the mistress, you're down and out, girl stop it and get up and move on. However I kept falling back but this video I needed to hear because I'm done feeling sorry for myself, having the pity parties, walking around with my head down , I'm rising up today
Yes! Rise up, Sis! Know that whatever he did was never really about you. Cheaters/manipulators have something going on inside that is like an empty hole and they are constantly trying to fill it. They still try to shift blame and say they weren't getting what they needed but its just gaslighting and a cover up so you don't see what they are lacking. Remember the red flags & signs and move away from anyone displaying them in the future. The ex may seem to be "walking around happy" but what happy person tears down another with glee? None. Ms Fumi is giving excellent advice about moving on! Watch frequently and forgive yourself for yuppie part & give yourself permission to heal and just be. You are enough just as you are and when you are ready for more...know that you deserved it all along.
Good for u, I'm so proud of u. Get up and live one day at a time.
You deserve happiness girl
WTH...omg my heart and prayers go out to you ❤️ 💙 I peeped your channel and you are gawgeous honey! His and the mistress karma will come swiftly, just wait and The Most High will reveal. You deserve better and he will give you better. Stay fervent, stay faithful!
You’re going to make it sister. I’m on the journey too.
Just what I needed to hear, I have been trying so hard to leave, I know this relationship is not the one for me but somehow I just can’t leave, I’m exhausted 😢😢😢😭😭😭😭I’m tire, don’t know where to start, I cried all through the episode, it’s time to make a move I’ll try to forgive myself and move on, I’m in pain Aunty Fumi.. but I can do this..
Yes you can dear, you will come out stronger.
Sending you love
You can do it. I'm doing the same after 5.5 years. There is something better for us. I knew in February it was over, and I moved out Monday.
I’m at the same position.
Ask God to give you the strength to let go yes it'll be hard, but do you want to keep living in misery . A better one is out there for you just believe my friend.🙏🙂
THANK YOU! Yes! ASK questions! Don’t be afraid because if he doesn’t want to answer he may have something to hide or not have good intentions. Stay strong sisters.
I'm outche'a regretting why I never emphasized the questions he brushed off
Amen to that👋🏽
Good point
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I am in awe right now Fumi. I got dumped 4 months ago by my ex lover of 3years. Yesterday had reminded me of him and I started reliving those feelings. I told myself that I can't torture myself like that, I need to rebrand myself. I decided to search topics on how to move on and I am here now. You have just reaffirmed me and thank you so much. I love you ❤️
You got this!!!!!❤❤❤
"you are in the world of the living, so live!!!" Thank you
Almost breakdown while watching this, you've lifted my spirit my Queen, thank you 🙏💖💖
I am you. this is so emotional for me
Same here
You are enough don't feel otherwise please be encouraged.
I really needed to listen to this Mummy Fumi. I wish you can talk to me personally. I am ready to move from grass to Grace. Investing in a bucket with holes has been my experience.
I'm always happy when I see sister to sister 🤣🤣🤣 😘
Same 😄❤️😊
Me too 🤗😅
Meeee toooo 😊❤️
I remember going through a hard break up and I wanted to ended all but now looking back at it I say to myself what the heck was I thinking 🤔 ladies this shall pass. Think of it like a cabbage 🥬
Garbage** trash! Trash! Trash!
This was such a great video. I recently had a breakup from a 9 yr relationship. Dealing with the regret and sadness feelings are so real. I continue to pray for patience and strength. I understand this new chapter of life will be challenging . But I have faith I can start over and be blessed with real love. Much love ❤️
I left Mine of 7 years. Turns out I was the one holding his wife's seat. He is getting married now 2 years after our breakup. It's true what Fumi is saying. It's hard to deal with breakups but sometimes you just gotta be strong and leave. For the both of you.
Absolutely 💯
This was right on time as I'm living it at the moment. I'm in a rut. I know it's time to walk away but I'm in so much pain. I deserve better!
Oooh Fumi!!! This was probably one of the best talks/videos/ relationship advice that I think you have ever done! Some of my lady friends tell me that I ask too many personal questions when I meet a man but I want to know up front what he does, how much he earns, what is his credit score, why did he divorce, what habits does he has, does he have any health issues because I want to know upfront if I can deal with his answers. This is going to set a lot of Sistahs free! Please keep them coming. The Lord was just telling me to clean out all of my closets, get my affairs in order, even my will, and get rid of that old junk because you cannot take that junk to your husband's house. I was like wow God! My husbands house? He also told me to tone up and get fit for my wedding night. I have not even met him yet but he's coming soon! Love the make up tutorials!
ask as early as possible. On Date 2 especially so you can let him know you are looking for something serious - the way he responds will let you know if it is a waste of time or not
Wow,I admire your positive energy, exercising so that you fit in your wedding 👗 Even before seeing. Indeed he is there. That's the way to go. You are on the right track
'' And This too will pass'' Spot on and well said.! Take note Fumination !! Thanx again Fumi!
גם זה יעבור 👌
I cut out tags on my clothes because they are uncomfortable too! Glad to know I have something in common with the Diva👏🏽
I’m not going through any breakups but I definitely needed to hear this and I am so glad I listened to the little voice in my head telling me to click on this video.
Very inspired story.... its happened to me more than 10 years ago.. I had 7 years relationship and he dumped me with no valid reason ...I was mourning for almost a year. Then i start to wake up again n living in new me. After few years of break up God grant me with a good husband which i can't imagine of this wonderful man came in to my life.
And yes Fumi as u said "you are the one that has to do the work"....it so true. luv u Fumi...
Fumi! This is a whole sermon. I almost, almost, sent him a Happy Thanksgiving text, but I held out. Didn’t do it and guess what?Homeboy texted me! So you are right they always come back. Lol. I’m going to take your advice and ignore him and pour into myself. Thank you so much! Nothing like hearing advice from a beautiful, sweet, goddess. God Bless you!😘
Ladies please pay attention to red flags. We always get them but like Fumi said we ignore them. I paid attention to them with the last man I was liking his actions were not matching his words. Let's just say I DODGED A BULLET. It's someone out there that God has picked just for you. Be patient Blessing s to you all.🙏🙂
Fumi you are so stunning 😍 Ever since I started watching your videos, I've actively changed how I've been living my life, and now I've met an amazing man. I would have never if I continued living the way I lived, I've really opened myself up to the world and this man, and I've you to thank for all the happiness I'm currently experiencing ❤️
Just came right on time ,,,can't believe today was my day to part ways with my bf😭😭😭😭thanks Fummy
Hugs 🤗🧡
Aww I just hope you enjoy your day as much as you can and that you take care of yourself sending hugs your way 🫂🤍
@@NazarofGod thank you 😍
Take care sister. It's a year ago this wkend for me. Love on you & allow yourself to grieve. All will be well in time. You are Worthy, there is more for you.
Hugs baby. The pain will pass
I like it when aunt Funmi says “do you love my darlings” I just feel like she’s talking directly to me like yes mama I’m obsessed
Ended a relationship a little over a year ago which was going nowhere after 10 yeras.
Seeing this video has made me raw on the bus to work this morning. My eyes are full.
Thank you for reminding me of who and what is important...me!
I am somewhat disappointed in myself for not moving on in the right way.
Thank you...
Left mine of 7 years. You are not alone in this.
Happy Thanksgiving Auntie Fumi❤️ and the entire Fumination.
Your content inspires and encourages me to be my best at all times and to exude confidence.
Lots of love from KE🇰🇪🇰🇪
Thanks and same to you with Much Love 💋🤍
Thank you so much Miss Fumi. I would have liked to put on my makeup with you, but my tears are falling. Not the pitiful crying that I was doing this time last year though. But tears of relief that I survived. It gets lonely but I re-learned how to enjoy and appreciate time with...Me.
Good for you my sister, one love from Jamaica
This really helped me you’re beautiful & I really appreciate all that you bring !!!!!!!😇
@@dianrobinson40 One Love!🌷🙏💜
I can’t believe I’m crying so bad
My heart is broken Funmi
Don't cry too long sis, pick yourself up reinvent you and believe there's better out there. You heard her.....Believe!!
@@blessedeternally2666 thank you so much. I just really loved him and I don’t want to think I’m not going to find anyone like him
How are u these days?
I love you so much Fumi. You say it as it is. We women don't love ourselves enough to have standards when it comes to men. We feel we have to be with a man regardless the kind of man he is. You can't change a man. Who he is will never change. Stick to your standards regardless.. women have to put themselves in a position to ensure we get the respect from men we deserve.
She is speaking LIFE🗣🗣!! This is powerful! Every girl experiencing a break up should hear this. Thank you powerful woman for sharing this!
Thank you for this content. You are my mirror - I have come to the same conclusion as you by the same experience. It was hard. I have been dumped, I have begged, felt helpless and worthless and I have learnt. Now I say no respectfully when something doesn't serve me. I don't want men who don't want me. Nothing feels like self-respect. Keep on going sis. And just what is the music at the end? I can't find the same remix. It is a fabulous end to a fabulous content. Nothing but love here.
Is not good being dumped i have being there before!
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This is right on time. I heard my mother-in-law bad mouthing me to her family. I left with my son and husband stayed with her, he’s actually picking up for her, needless to say, it’s a done deal
Damn sis, sending you hugs. How the hell you gon lead a family when you not supporting your spouse? Smh
@@strawburybounce thank you so much 🤗
This isn’t the first instance so I’ve had just about enough. He tells her EVERYTHING. At this point I’m over it.
Looking fabulous
That situation sucks,
It's even worse back home where almost all ladies are married in such conditions and believe that its not a good enough reason to fail a relationship.
My daughters grandmother called me a witch and went on her knees to her son and asked him to never marry me officially as long as she was still alive. Today am still not married but listen to me sis they all can't believe its me... on my own life has become better. I left my country because there was no more for me now living in USA have my business growing very steadily.
Sister you've got this... now that you've made that decision wrong or right; live for it. Just do everything to glow and grow, even if you have no food for tomorrow sister smile always remind yoself that yo did it before at a younger age, you can do it even better with a pill of wisdom.
That really unfortunate and a hard situation. But that’s no reason to leave your husband my love. At least try marriage counseling , pray about it before you pull the plug. Marriage is hard, it’s even harder when family are interfering, you set rules and you let him know what you will or won’t tolerate. I always say try every thing before just going for the D word.
Bless you Fumi for this powerful message of self-love, liberation, determination and strength. Oh thank you for your wisdom and pizazz. It sparked a light within me to get- up, shake myself off and start living again. I too will start throwing away clothing, makeup and things which no longer serve me. With tears of relief and joy for finally letting a relationship go that lasted entirely too long with no future commitment in sight. This sister to sister talk was so epic and life-changing to my spirit. The icing on the cake was seeing how you knew there was so much more in store for yourself. I also know there is more for me too. More for me to create, live, plan, explore and blossom into who God created me to be. Sending you a big hug for uplifting my spirit to new heights!!!💜🤗🥰
For a woman that doesn’t need makeup your makeup game is stunning.
All messages received. Thank you.
You can not imagine how helpful you are!! I came across your UA-cam channel about 2 weeks and I give God thanks.
You are authentic, your words speak hope, encouragement and life.
I pray for the growth and impact your show has had on me and other women that gain knowledge from your wisdom!!!
When the notification comes across the screen, I smile like a kid in a toy store! Your proverbial examples are rich and infamous. Your beauty is breath taking I appreciate the energy you project. You are beautiful inside and out!.
I have not been one to wear makeup but your tutorials are teaching me how to do that which I never thought was something I could achieve. I thank you and ask God to continue to open doors where you can reach and teach empowerment to be that which has been dormant. God bless you and your family!
Thank you Fumi for your great advice. I was just talking with my daughter this morning about her breakup and as a mother my heart aches listening to her pain. I sent her your video in hopes that hearing from someone else it’ll help her to move on…as usual great and informative content…thanks again.
Hugs and love to your daughter!
We may as well pass the offering plate. Preach young lady....this is what is so needed! More more more.....a proud SENIOR sistah in the FUMI NATION is praying your strength in God! Ms. Tina
I’ve watched this at least 3x already. I feel so empowered ❤️
Happy Thanksgiving everyone. 💕
This right here was inspiring and beautiful! Before I met my husband of 18 years of being together I also was in a reckless none committed relationship with someone I knew wasn't going to do anything but enjoy the ride. I too left him and I was with him when I did. Before I walked off I told him this wasn't it and was out. He was hollering what's going on. I told him not this and went on my way alone and got myself together. After 6 months of choosing to be alone I met my beautiful husband in 04 and the moment I met him I knew he was going to be husband. In 07 we welcomed our only daughter. I felt safe and in peace. I am humble and grateful. This was absolutely beautiful. I'm praying whoever is going through something they know in their heart that isn't for would just move. Just take a step forward and don't look back. It's a great thing. Also, in time those exes do show back up in the same situation you left them in. These men will still be uncommitted and will no longer be your issue nor problem. Love this Fumi ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️. The look is gorgeous and when you were talking about your husband it looked like you was going to cry. It was just beautiful how you see your husband through your eyes and how you show beautifully how you feel about your husband. Loved this ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Love your comment 💜. The part where you said “not this” had me laughing lol
You might not know the reasons why things end in the moment, but the reason/s will definitely be revealed eventually, whether it maybe you meet the right person or another door opens that makes you happy!
Fumi, you are the absolute best! I love how the young women call you Auntie! You are a gem in the crown of us Gen X gals, and I am proud of you!
Happy Thanksgiving! You took us to Church today! Preach my Sista'. Everything you spoke on is so true. I will forever be a fan! You are so beautiful. Visually and Spiritually. You are a Survivor. You are in my Prayers for continued success and victory! Be blessed my Nubian Queen!
Auntie Fumi, discovering your channel is no caps one of my biggest blessings from God this year.. you have no idea how much you have validated me.. when I discovered you I binged watched all of the sister to sister episodes I could find going back to 6 years ago. How can it be possible to feel so connected to someone I do not know and who is millions of miles away from me but you speak to my soul everytime. I hope I meet you someday but if I never.. Thank you for all the love and light you have sent my way.. I look forward to your videos every week..
And everytime it drops it is a blessing.
I love you very much. God bless you and all of yours..
I celebrate us all the Fumi nation!
I can so relate to this comment , The GodMother I wanted and needed in every single way 💜❤️🙏🏾🥰
Fumi is just great fabulous she's so real that why i love hèr sooo much my sister ❤
I love you with a passion cos you are the big sis I never had! Thank you for all you do, Aunty Funmi.
This channel is heavenly sent, this episode was beautiful Fumi. Much love from South Africa 🇿🇦 ❤
Thank you, you spoke to what I was already feeling in this new relationship and I don’t want to waste my time. This was confirmation for me to let this go before I invest too much time in something I know isn’t working for me or in agreement with me.
24:49 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Aunty Fumi Is a whole mood
Yaaasss
Happy thanksgiving beautiful Queen Fumi, I don't know if you will see this message.
Growing up as an orphan, God once placed a lady called Brigitte in my life who you amazingly remind me of. She was my rock and a voice of a guardian, a love like a parent I never had, and a friend I've not come across else where until now on your channel.
Fumi oh how I love your solid truth, your love-logic balance and honesty. Your voice instills it in right the way I last heard 33yrs ago. I can't believe I can relate and respect someone as if I know them. Fumi please whenever you happen to be in Boston kindly please let me see you face to face I simply wanna give you a big huge.
You have a beautiful heart and may God protect you and your family.
If I was asked to choose who to listen to between you Fumi and Oprah... without hesitation I would choose you over and over mama... Do we love ❤ 😍 💖
Listen, when I tell you I needed this!!! Today is my birthday and I decided not to celebrate because the person I wanted to celebrate it with-we do not speak. I was so sad. I felt like I have nothing to celebrate but I do! I am alive and well and my friends and family love me! We have to pick ourselves up and LIVE! I pray that we all get through whatever we are going through. God loves us and we deserve nothing but the best!
Wow funmi your experience is exactly what I am going through right now. I tried to test my boyfriend emotional intelligence by breaking up with him when it got to a time he wasn't looking in my direction. I wanted him to listen to me and understand my needs. I wanted us to balance the equation but he was adamant so I broke up with him to see if he would FIGHT FOR ME but then it went south. I had to explain that I didn't mean for us to break up still he didn't listen so I left. He is back and begging for the relationship and I told him I was no longer interested. Thank you for this funmi now I know I wasn't so wrong after all. I will apply these steps. I LOVE YOU
This has to be one of the most uplifting and inspiring videos I've ever watched!!!! Thank you Fumi, I needed this🥰❤
You’re such a good story teller🥰🥰🥰🌺 you’re helping so many people around the world 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🥰🎉🎊
Excellent messages. Excellent advice. I have had my experiences with break ups. I have stopped blaming myself a long time ago. I am 49 y/o single, happy, & in peace open to a healthy long term relationship.
I make the focus about me now, what is good for me. I try my best not to fall for the lies, tricks & games men come with. I never let them move in or stay over more than a weekend, I never ever loan or give money , I never let them borrow or even drive my car & truck and I put myself in charge of my heart and emotions to keep both safe in my hands only. Since I stick to those rules I've been very happy in my dating life. If the guy doesn't like my rules or tries to change my rules then I don't date him period.
Hi Fumi my sister...I'm on vacation in the Gambia. My niece married a Gambian soccer player on November 05-07 2021. It was fantastic and I'm still here until my birthday Dec 04
You’re such a breath of fresh air Funmi my Gambian sister auntie 🇬🇲… such a powerful message.
How do you do it? The seamless switching between the story and make-up talk, it is so gifted.
I Live and Love you Fumi! Your beautiful laugh and spirit come through every video you share! Left my husband after 28 years. I was miserable and lost myself. It was the hardest thing I had ever done in my life!! My son was in high school about to graduate, and I tried but I knew he would be ok and it was time for me to look after me! I never looked back and my life and dreams I always wanted have come true! My ex was angry and bitter and blamed me for everything that was wrong in his life. Unfortunately, he passed 2 years later. I saw him in the hospital and he told me how sorry he was and that he loved me. We made peace with each other and I forgave him. Sometimes the worst thing that happens can be what's best for you! Not rejection, but redirection!!! Love you Gorgeous and thanks for sharing your stories and life lessons with us!!!! xo
That story speaks right into my heart. It's me you were addressing Auntie. Nevertheless, I ask my God for a God-fearing man who put his relationship with Jesus first. That way I know he will treat me with uttermost respect, honestly, patience, love me as Christ loves the Church which is us. I am taking notes on every story told in this series so far. Thank you auntie for the knowledge and wisdom you impart to us. These aren't in books, they are living experiences. Love you and the Fumination...👪👍🏿💃🏿
Thanks for this episode, I was in relationship that I didn't even feel I was in a relationship because he was just so distant but the part that is my down fall is I end up with a child, in some sense I always get reminded of the relationship because now a child is evolved but I live , I learned, I must move on...
Your child is your gift. I am sure that at one point or another it was not all bad. Don't use that expression it was your down fall. The power and the awesomeness of having a child is so amazing. cherish your child treat your child with love and respect don't ever let your child feel like they are a burden or that you hate them because they might look like the father (who your no longer with ) I was born in the Caribbean and you would not believe how many children starve for their mothers love because she hate the child since she no longer with the father who didn't even have the decency to say goodbye when he left.
Fumi you are the wise Aunty I could wish for, for life... Much love from Kenya❤ 🇰🇪
🇰🇪 I concur, love u Fumi u have changed my mindset
Fumi you are one of a kind . I love, love your videos .You're always including your husband and son, l love that about you alot ❤. 68 year old from Canada 🇨🇦
By the way the dress looks gorgeous on you
Welp! That concludes the reading and hearing of the word today. God be with you 🙌🏾!! Fumi is preaching today 😆🙏🏾
My God! Thank you, Father. You have helped me in the first 7 minutes of this video. I am going through a divorce right now. I agree 100% with your feedback and comments. Thank you, Fumi. I'm working on my healing and a new chapter. God Bless
My attitude for relationships have always been, enjoy the fuck out of it while u have it, AND LET IT GO WHEN IT OVER….. I’ve never felt bitter when it’s over, because i was present during that time… No contact is literally the only way to proceed forward.. Out of sight, out of mind for sure.. also try not to date ppl that live too close to u.. so u don’t have to bump into them while out and about…
I needed this so much today .. thanks 🙏🏽 so much .. I will play this daily to keep me moving forward .. it’s sooooo hard but I will do this !!
This was an excellent video lets me know im on the right track. Auntie Fumi your Wisdom is a true blessing to me and so many women. A lot of confirmation for me.
Everything you said is true almost as if you had secretly followed my life. I am much happier and confident about my future.
I just found your channel I love listening to you so much. I'm coming out off a 18yr long "waist of time" 💔. I think my standards changed after solely purchasing a new home, car and finishing up nursing school. He got so insecure and the disrespect was becoming unbearable 😭 so I had to give him an ultimatum change or leave, after 18 years he chose to walk out, leaving me with the mortgage, a 12 yr old and 6 months left in nursing school. I almost had a nervous breakdown. I'm finally starting to get over it and enjoying your videos in the process 🙌 darling. Thank you
Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family, Fumi!! Beautiful makeup and dress!!! I give THANKS for YOU: Your message today was right on time. I appreciate your honesty, wisdom and candor. ❤️
Need this today
Great timing
Thank you 🙏💜❤️💙
I know this channel is primarily women but I think this advice works for men as well. Fumi's advice is universal to people who are looking to get up and get moving to something better. Positive people ATTRACT. Fumi is a beacon of self love, courage, accountability and FABULOCITY. Who doesn't need that?
Just wat I needed to hia,
Going thru this phase of reactivation of my gone self...
The power of surrender works
Thanks big sis fumi
Love from uganda 🇺🇬
It's Amaaaazing how you multi-task from make up tips to a different topic... I find myself waiting for the switch back to the intense discussions. Thanks so much 😊
I love Darling.....Your life lessons are so inspiring, also you're gifted in storytelling!
Thank you Fumi! I converted “him” to “them” referring to my bosses and colleagues at work, people whom that I considered family for 10 years and I don’t feel the same from them . It touched my heart. You have no idea what you’ve done to my heart ❤️
Best video on UA-cam right now
All I can say is," You're such a beautiful lady and you say the most interesting things ".... You're a Gem💎
Love you Fumi, you are gorgeous & so classy! Love it!!! ❤️ I could listen to you all day!
Thanks Fumi I've dug a DEEP whole for myself and just about can drag myself back out because I'm soooo exausted trying. Felt like walking down a dead end street. I can't fix or change anyone. I will try take a LONG walk beautiful. You are sooo amazing. Thank you for your uplifting words 🙏🏽
This is for me to recover. Thank you sweet sister🥰❤. God bless you!
Your laugh is contagious 🤣 I love it. I’m a new subscriber; super happy I stumbled on your page.
Why do we stay in relationships that hurt us even more?- Fumi
Wow I felt that smh
Your so fabulous FUMI on the inside and out! I love how humble, yet classy you are! I am taking notes.
Beautiful advice. With every episode I've watched, I continue to love this channel, more and more.
Your story telling IS par excellence .
The way you weave the makeup tutorial with the guidance, using your own authentic experience is SOOO creative and SUPER beneficial.......Truly Priceless 👏🏿👏👏🏼👏🏻👏🏾👏🏽 💯‼️‼️‼️
What i needed to hear. This is such an encouragement, been holding on to some1 for just over a year now, i am exhausted of it.😥 thanks aunty Fumi.
Fumi, you are a class act, cheers! 🥂 🇨🇦
Fumi i love your laughter, your a woman of my heart. Fumi i been telling my daughter and sister about those red flags, I’ve been there. I’m now 70 years old and have been single for the pass twenty years, I won’t a relationship I’ve spoken to God about it i even told him the man i want, I’m ready to start over. I keep myself well put together (let me say this you could not tell me i would be with out a man this long) Please give me some ideas. Fumi keep giving your great advice there’s so many women out here who really need it specially these young sisters.🌞
Hello, I hope you are coping better every day. Truly 20years is actually a long time. God bless.
I Love ❤️ this look I am a darker skin older women I wish I knew how to apply my makeup like you. You are Marvelous
Fumi your so beautiful inside and out ❤️🧿 Wise, wise words as always; your everyone’s best friend, big sister, auntie and mum rolled into one 🌟
I’m in such awe with you Fumi. Thank you so much for your advice, words of encouragement, wisdom, & love. I’ve recently just found your channel this month and every video I have love, taking notes, cried, & praised. ❤️
Sister to sister is my favorite. Happy Thanksgiving to you Fumi and the entire Fumination🥰❤️🔥🌹
I'm glad you said the word "loss" because that's the word I kept feeling. I don't miss "him," I miss being loved. And I also missed having someone to love. I loved him so much. I don't anymore. I want to feel that love again. It feels like a black hole since my love for him left. He was the bucket with the hole you decribed. Pouring everything into him with no return no overflow, I was truly depleted after it all, which is why it was an easy quick decision when I decided to end it. Doesn't mean I don't miss having love for someone and being loved.
Fumi, thankyou. I really needed to hear this today. I just called it quits last night. I realized that I deserve better. Funny how this week,. Have started eating better, am looking into exercising and walking and I have been throwing junk out of my house. Thankyou Fumi, Thankyou!
Your energy is contagious! Simply beautiful!
Thanks auntie Fumi, I came across your channel almost a week ago and probably one of your young subies now hehe. Very inspirational, every word was taken in and very much in the process of bettering myself and fell in love with the gym again.