Sadder than what this child went through at the hands of school officials are the comments here that support the officials and condemn the mother. I hope and pray that this insanity ends soon.
At its simplest, anyone who tells a child to keep a secret from their parents is up to no good. It can start with the innocent, "Sure we can get some ice cream. Don't tell your mom", and escalate to all manner of betrayal and cruelty. Parents are ultimately responsible for the well being of their children, legally, ethically, and morally. There's a fine line between the government protecting a child from neglectful or abusive parents, and government taking the role of the parent and deciding what's best for the child in opposition to the parents. Removing a disfunctional parent from a child's life and replacing them with what could be the most disfunctional parent, overreaching government bureaucrats, is disastrous. The results of this is that our children are more confused, more distrusting, more anxious, more depressed, and more suicidal than ever before. There is a deeper psychosis in play here. As a group, those afflicted got together, infiltrated all levels of government, and figured out that if they could get between parents and their children with the full weight and force of the government, they could condition the children to their way of thinking. This is how every "cultural revolution" starts.
@@hilowguy12345 Meanwhile over 2/3rds of public school children cannot perform academically at grade level. The average senior in high school graduates with a 6th grade reading level. They don't know their history nor how many genders there are. I'll take my chances.
If there was nothing wrong with what they were doing then why hide it!! They've cultivated lies and distrust between your family dynamic. Disgusting alphabet maffia behaviour. Stand your ground.
Good for you for standing up. These people are extremely sick. If you don't want to go it alone, get a Christian organization to back you Up and go after him with everything you got. If we don't. Stand up against a sick twisted. People. They will still aren't children? Get your community together and fight. For the children iagainst a sick twisted individuals.
If its going to be this way lets fix it really good 2+2should will and can be answered any way any one chooses to answer it and it will be correct because it is the way you choose to answer it
Honestly, as a teacher, I feel like schools shouldn't even be put in the position to have to address these kinds of issues with kids. At the end of the day, the school has to keep kids safe, and unfortunately, many parents are not safe to be around once a child expresses any gender or sexuality issues. Parents should be the first people that a child comes to when they have questions or issues about this, but many parents are not supportive and can even be abusive. One of our students was brutally murdered by their own father in a domestic violence situation, so that gives you an idea of how ugly it can get when parents and kids can't get along. That kind of violence and animosity puts the school in a really bad position when they have to decide how much to tell parents for fear of what will happen to the child if they do say something. Schools are mandatory reporters, but that isn't always enough to stop a tragedy like the one that happened to our student. My advice to any parent who doesn't want to end up blindsided by something like this: Be that safe space for your kids. Approach the situation with an open mind and a willingness to compromise. Don't be so stubborn and angry that your kid and the school stop including you in the conversation.
Not agreeing to comply with your child transitioning is what parents have to worry about. No parent who has strong values and morals will support that decision. Being angry is not the problem! Not being supportive is the problem.
@@risingspirit1983 I don't even think it needs to be as extreme as agreeing to comply. Parents should just be open-minded; maybe let their child try new clothing or a new haircut, perhaps let them experiment with going by a new name, or even just be willing to let your kid see a therapist who has experience with this particular issue. Many therapists can serve as mediators and help create solutions in situations where parents and kids can't come to an agreement. I'm not trans, but my mom was someone with strong morals and values, and it ended up completely ruining our relationship when she refused to compromise, so I just lied and did what I wanted behind her back anyway. As a parent and teacher, I honestly can't understand why anyone would put their morals and value ahead of their relationship with their child. I certainly don't want that kind of relationship with my child. Truthfully, if my mom had been willing to compromise on a few things, I think our relationship would have turned out quite differently.
Simply put it is not the school’s business to direct that child’s future. They are there to educate them about skills required to gain even further education, not to change their body parts or their name.
@@ruthprovins9008 I worked for a school with a lot of LGBTQ+ students. The most we did was honor names and pronouns and offer information on community resources for students and families. We had a trained therapist there in the building, but parents had to sign off on allowing their child to talk to her. We did NOT change body parts! Even most PARENTS weren't changing their children's body parts. I had entire classrooms full of students who I didn't not know their biological gender, and you want to know what we talked about: Egnlish and History because those are the subjects I taught. That's it. Nothing weird or controversial (unless you count reading To Kill a Mockingbird as controversial). People seriously need to chill out! If someone's kid comes home "trans," it's not because the school asked them to be trans.
it must really hurt this little trans boy to find out his life was made worse and he was a pawn in the new-wave of anti trans lies and bullshit. i feel no empathy for this 'mother' her kid was getting the care he needed at this school and didnt feel comfortable talking to you about it because of this exact reaction the mother is having. embrace your child, listen to them, let them be happy as themselves and dont put them in this box "i dont want to lose your daughter" this is still your child, still the exact same person. this mother is pathetic. she will learn in time as her Trans son comes to absolutely resent her for forcing them through an entirely unwanted and avoidable female puberty. if you think the school is sick for "what they did to this mother" you do not understand the psychological damage being done to this poor little kid. removing the healthcare of trans people causes them to attempt suicide in a majority of cases, there are 2 outcomes. the child does not make it to adulthood by way of self harm or the kid leaves this mother the moment they can to be who they know they are. so sad to see this mother tearing apart a relationship with no motive other than "trans=bad" trans is beautiful, trans is powerful, trans is strong, the complete lack of the child in this video is proving my point. your daughter is "gone" that's now your son. and you better love them the same or they'll find a new chosen family that does.
There's definitely no such "boy" involved in any of this. This mother is talking about her daughter, no "trans" anything!! No such thing as "trans" "boy". Girls can't be and aren't ever boys, no, how demented. How is it loving to lie to your daughter about a great fundamental part of who she is because she had some ridiculous, hideous idea she wanted to pretend to be someone else by destroying her breast tissue with a chest flattening device. How is THAT acceptable?? ESPECIALLY for a child... No. This mother is fighting the right fight, for sure!! If you honestly think there's something real and authentic about pretending you're someone you're not, constantly lie, destroy your body (also as a child) in pursuit of a lie and that the mother NEEDS to LIE to the female child she mothered. Your body is who you are, not some sick, sick SICK other underlying mental health problems that cause you the symptoms of developing small incremental hatred of some aspects of the obvious parts of your biological sex. No such thing as "born in the wrong body". The "care" that she needed?? This child needs to be lied to, and effectively put on a path of mutilation is apparently what's "care" to you? Piss off, how egregious. Her daughter is fine the way she is! No, not lying to your child and not medicalizing something that has NO need of being medicalized to a completely healthy body of hers. How incredibly privileged for you to pretend not lying and calling unnecessary body mutilating intervention on healthy bodies "necessary" 🤢... and that not putting her on any pathway of nonsense like that supposedly makes suicidal ideation worse... no it doesn't? And socially transitioning a child so that then taking the child out od that deluded mindset is made more difficult and make her a medical patient for life effectively in pursuit of a fantasy lie that everyone has to pretend along with you is acceptable? Sick.
Yeah so this child now identify as a girl and it was absolutely pushed by school. The emotional manipulation I hear from ppl like you is so disgusting 🤮. You are not a parent and it shows or your self comes from a broken family. State is not above parents and parents have the absolute right to know everything, it’s creepy that school is keeping secrets it’s grooming and predatory.
@@patmacd8886 you fail to recognise that the mother is incapable of giving her son the care he needs. She is sitting here crying about a problem she has made herself. Of course the kid did not tell his mother she is a vile thing who’s ego is too big to make her child feel loved supported and happy
Wow. Your kid really doesn't trust you. I wonder what you did to make her feel like she can't come to you with her problems? Why did you let those adults take advantage of her? The school is not there to raise your kid. You need to pay attention.
The child is 13. Breast binders might cause harm to the child. Listen to those commercials on TV. You think the medical community cares about you? Parents need to know medical information. I think that’s common sense.
If you haven't raised kids then get a reality check. Yes there are transgender kids, but this is not a child who showed any indication prior to this incident with the school. Yes, schools go behind parents backs all the time "for the good of the child" this shit happened to me with my child's school, although it wasn't over transgender. My child was having a hard time with his father and I separating. He was seeing a counselor outside of the school, but the school counselor didn't even contact my son's counselor, instead called me at 9pm at night on a Friday night and said my son was suicidal and I needed to institutionalize him immediately. I contacted his counselor and between the counselor and I decided he wasn't suicidal . Response was the school called DCYF and said I was negligent. I pulled all my kids from the school and paid for private Christian school.
@@sherry1974 All they care about is liability. My friend works in Scouts which is the Boy Scouts and they say “Is the kid having problems? Call Dyphis.” They are protecting their behind and it’s crazy.
"misgendering". Pfff, if that's what you pretend concerns you the most, that she's correctly referring to her DAUGHTER. Then you're part of the problem. Deal with it. How VILE to pretend and lie to CHILDREN specifically about the most fundamental part about them as a human, their SEX. Her whole body. Sick for anyone to even pretend there's anything such as so-called "trans" or ESPECIALLY a so-called "trans child" ❌❌❌. Lying is not loving. Body mutilating is not loving. Finding yourself in a lying, demented, dogmatic quasi-religious body mutilating cult like "trans" is hideous. People's HEALTHY bodies are fine the way they are and NOT lying about who you are by saying they're apparently a "man" when they're a WOMAN. Women can't be men... Ever...
Insanity. Thank you for standing up to these lunatics!
isn t there doctor patient privlege
@@truthhurts5158 It's not always necessary. In fact, there really should be some exceptions.
Good for you MOM. Your daughter is going to be alright now because of you. You saved her Life.
You can do this. I homeschooled my son from 9 to 12 grades. My prayers are with you.
Go Amber!! I’ll always have your back!!! HUGS!!!
You're doing the right thing!! You're an amazing mom!! Praying for you!!
Sadder than what this child went through at the hands of school officials are the comments here that support the officials and condemn the mother. I hope and pray that this insanity ends soon.
each parent needs to.stand up for their childre
It's too bad this one chose hate and abuse against hers. She'll end up spending her twilight years in a discount retirement home.
At its simplest, anyone who tells a child to keep a secret from their parents is up to no good. It can start with the innocent, "Sure we can get some ice cream. Don't tell your mom", and escalate to all manner of betrayal and cruelty. Parents are ultimately responsible for the well being of their children, legally, ethically, and morally. There's a fine line between the government protecting a child from neglectful or abusive parents, and government taking the role of the parent and deciding what's best for the child in opposition to the parents. Removing a disfunctional parent from a child's life and replacing them with what could be the most disfunctional parent, overreaching government bureaucrats, is disastrous. The results of this is that our children are more confused, more distrusting, more anxious, more depressed, and more suicidal than ever before. There is a deeper psychosis in play here. As a group, those afflicted got together, infiltrated all levels of government, and figured out that if they could get between parents and their children with the full weight and force of the government, they could condition the children to their way of thinking. This is how every "cultural revolution" starts.
I am praying for you and your daughter. We fight not against flesh & blood.... this is all so demonic.
You need therapy.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
We the People need to know. Please forward to all. 😢😢😢😢
Same thing happened to my daughter.
Sick
Yes, Amber is a deeply disturbed and hateful individual.
@@hilowguy12345no the school weirdo
RSU 40 (a neighboring school district) just passed back in March (policy ACAAA) allows and sanctions this very thing to happen!
Client patient privilege. Up to her daughter to share if she wants
Wow. That is totally outrageous and unforgiveable !! ... But does the girl WANT to transition?
She's too young to make that desision.
Good job standing up for her
Insanity children can not consent
My kids have never set foot in a public school. They never will.
And they'll suffer in the long run for your unspeakable idiocy
Or they just go to private school lol
@@hilowguy12345 Meanwhile over 2/3rds of public school children cannot perform academically at grade level. The average senior in high school graduates with a 6th grade reading level. They don't know their history nor how many genders there are.
I'll take my chances.
@pinkturtle2016 when good people are in a bad system……the system wins.
I hope you win your law suit but, don't mislead prople into thinking medicine or surgery were provided to your child.
If there was nothing wrong with what they were doing then why hide it!! They've cultivated lies and distrust between your family dynamic. Disgusting alphabet maffia behaviour. Stand your ground.
Good for you for standing up. These people are extremely sick. If you don't want to go it alone, get a Christian organization to back you Up and go after him with everything you got. If we don't.
Stand up against a sick twisted. People. They will still aren't children? Get your community together and fight.
For the children iagainst a sick twisted individuals.
If its going to be this way lets fix it really good 2+2should will and can be answered any way any one chooses to answer it and it will be correct because it is the way you choose to answer it
Maybe the kid is keeping this secret because she’s afraid of how her parents would react 🥴
Honestly, as a teacher, I feel like schools shouldn't even be put in the position to have to address these kinds of issues with kids. At the end of the day, the school has to keep kids safe, and unfortunately, many parents are not safe to be around once a child expresses any gender or sexuality issues. Parents should be the first people that a child comes to when they have questions or issues about this, but many parents are not supportive and can even be abusive. One of our students was brutally murdered by their own father in a domestic violence situation, so that gives you an idea of how ugly it can get when parents and kids can't get along. That kind of violence and animosity puts the school in a really bad position when they have to decide how much to tell parents for fear of what will happen to the child if they do say something. Schools are mandatory reporters, but that isn't always enough to stop a tragedy like the one that happened to our student. My advice to any parent who doesn't want to end up blindsided by something like this: Be that safe space for your kids. Approach the situation with an open mind and a willingness to compromise. Don't be so stubborn and angry that your kid and the school stop including you in the conversation.
Not agreeing to comply with your child transitioning is what parents have to worry about. No parent who has strong values and morals will support that decision. Being angry is not the problem! Not being supportive is the problem.
@@risingspirit1983 I don't even think it needs to be as extreme as agreeing to comply. Parents should just be open-minded; maybe let their child try new clothing or a new haircut, perhaps let them experiment with going by a new name, or even just be willing to let your kid see a therapist who has experience with this particular issue. Many therapists can serve as mediators and help create solutions in situations where parents and kids can't come to an agreement. I'm not trans, but my mom was someone with strong morals and values, and it ended up completely ruining our relationship when she refused to compromise, so I just lied and did what I wanted behind her back anyway. As a parent and teacher, I honestly can't understand why anyone would put their morals and value ahead of their relationship with their child. I certainly don't want that kind of relationship with my child. Truthfully, if my mom had been willing to compromise on a few things, I think our relationship would have turned out quite differently.
Simply put it is not the school’s business to direct that child’s future. They are there to educate them about skills required to gain even further education, not to change their body parts or their name.
@@ruthprovins9008 I worked for a school with a lot of LGBTQ+ students. The most we did was honor names and pronouns and offer information on community resources for students and families. We had a trained therapist there in the building, but parents had to sign off on allowing their child to talk to her. We did NOT change body parts! Even most PARENTS weren't changing their children's body parts. I had entire classrooms full of students who I didn't not know their biological gender, and you want to know what we talked about: Egnlish and History because those are the subjects I taught. That's it. Nothing weird or controversial (unless you count reading To Kill a Mockingbird as controversial). People seriously need to chill out! If someone's kid comes home "trans," it's not because the school asked them to be trans.
The Matrix is messing up the situation with your daughter
She should consult Andrew Tate for advice.
it must really hurt this little trans boy to find out his life was made worse and he was a pawn in the new-wave of anti trans lies and bullshit. i feel no empathy for this 'mother' her kid was getting the care he needed at this school and didnt feel comfortable talking to you about it because of this exact reaction the mother is having.
embrace your child, listen to them, let them be happy as themselves and dont put them in this box "i dont want to lose your daughter" this is still your child, still the exact same person. this mother is pathetic. she will learn in time as her Trans son comes to absolutely resent her for forcing them through an entirely unwanted and avoidable female puberty.
if you think the school is sick for "what they did to this mother" you do not understand the psychological damage being done to this poor little kid. removing the healthcare of trans people causes them to attempt suicide in a majority of cases, there are 2 outcomes. the child does not make it to adulthood by way of self harm or the kid leaves this mother the moment they can to be who they know they are.
so sad to see this mother tearing apart a relationship with no motive other than "trans=bad"
trans is beautiful, trans is powerful, trans is strong, the complete lack of the child in this video is proving my point.
your daughter is "gone" that's now your son. and you better love them the same or they'll find a new chosen family that does.
There's definitely no such "boy" involved in any of this. This mother is talking about her daughter, no "trans" anything!! No such thing as "trans" "boy". Girls can't be and aren't ever boys, no, how demented.
How is it loving to lie to your daughter about a great fundamental part of who she is because she had some ridiculous, hideous idea she wanted to pretend to be someone else by destroying her breast tissue with a chest flattening device. How is THAT acceptable?? ESPECIALLY for a child... No. This mother is fighting the right fight, for sure!! If you honestly think there's something real and authentic about pretending you're someone you're not, constantly lie, destroy your body (also as a child) in pursuit of a lie and that the mother NEEDS to LIE to the female child she mothered. Your body is who you are, not some sick, sick SICK other underlying mental health problems that cause you the symptoms of developing small incremental hatred of some aspects of the obvious parts of your biological sex. No such thing as "born in the wrong body".
The "care" that she needed?? This child needs to be lied to, and effectively put on a path of mutilation is apparently what's "care" to you? Piss off, how egregious. Her daughter is fine the way she is!
No, not lying to your child and not medicalizing something that has NO need of being medicalized to a completely healthy body of hers. How incredibly privileged for you to pretend not lying and calling unnecessary body mutilating intervention on healthy bodies "necessary" 🤢... and that not putting her on any pathway of nonsense like that supposedly makes suicidal ideation worse... no it doesn't? And socially transitioning a child so that then taking the child out od that deluded mindset is made more difficult and make her a medical patient for life effectively in pursuit of a fantasy lie that everyone has to pretend along with you is acceptable? Sick.
Only sane person here
Yeah so this child now identify as a girl and it was absolutely pushed by school. The emotional manipulation I hear from ppl like you is so disgusting 🤮. You are not a parent and it shows or your self comes from a broken family. State is not above parents and parents have the absolute right to know everything, it’s creepy that school is keeping secrets it’s grooming and predatory.
That’s called grooming. It’s predatory and evil. Especially when hidden behind the parent’s back at that kid’s age.
@@patmacd8886 you fail to recognise that the mother is incapable of giving her son the care he needs. She is sitting here crying about a problem she has made herself. Of course the kid did not tell his mother she is a vile thing who’s ego is too big to make her child feel loved supported and happy
Schools really aren’t the problem here. Kids choose not to come to their parents for a reason.
It’s illegal for minors to transist without parental consent.
@@jamescollier7360 transist?????? I was not aware that kids were becoming electrical equipment!!!! Sick and sad!!!!!
God you're fucking stupid.
Wow. Your kid really doesn't trust you. I wonder what you did to make her feel like she can't come to you with her problems? Why did you let those adults take advantage of her? The school is not there to raise your kid. You need to pay attention.
How dare you blame the poor mother. How about what did that counselor do to subterfuge the student’s parents?
Hearing this woman continually misgender her child is disgusting. There is a reason why they felt like they couldn’t talk to you.
Wtf
The child is 13. Breast binders might cause harm to the child. Listen to those commercials on TV. You think the medical community cares about you? Parents need to know medical information. I think that’s common sense.
If you haven't raised kids then get a reality check. Yes there are transgender kids, but this is not a child who showed any indication prior to this incident with the school. Yes, schools go behind parents backs all the time "for the good of the child" this shit happened to me with my child's school, although it wasn't over transgender. My child was having a hard time with his father and I separating. He was seeing a counselor outside of the school, but the school counselor didn't even contact my son's counselor, instead called me at 9pm at night on a Friday night and said my son was suicidal and I needed to institutionalize him immediately. I contacted his counselor and between the counselor and I decided he wasn't suicidal . Response was the school called DCYF and said I was negligent. I pulled all my kids from the school and paid for private Christian school.
@@sherry1974 All they care about is liability. My friend works in Scouts which is the Boy Scouts and they say “Is the kid having problems? Call Dyphis.” They are protecting their behind and it’s crazy.
"misgendering". Pfff, if that's what you pretend concerns you the most, that she's correctly referring to her DAUGHTER. Then you're part of the problem. Deal with it. How VILE to pretend and lie to CHILDREN specifically about the most fundamental part about them as a human, their SEX. Her whole body.
Sick for anyone to even pretend there's anything such as so-called "trans" or ESPECIALLY a so-called "trans child" ❌❌❌.
Lying is not loving. Body mutilating is not loving. Finding yourself in a lying, demented, dogmatic quasi-religious body mutilating cult like "trans" is hideous. People's HEALTHY bodies are fine the way they are and NOT lying about who you are by saying they're apparently a "man" when they're a WOMAN. Women can't be men... Ever...