Asking Women If They Prefer to be a "Stay at Home WIFE" or Make MONEY?
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Would you rather be a stay at home wife, mother or make your own money?
Stay at home. Easy. That's a luxury. The kids would turn out better.
In my very upper-middle suburban neighborhood, most of the stay at home moms are alcoholics, dealing with abusive husbands, are taking their kid's ADHD meds or are cheating. I would hate that life.
@@LVLexus I have yet to see that. Though, I would suspect it depends on where you live.
@@apeiceofmoldedclay Yeah I am in the south. These women show up to sporting and school events with their Stanley cups full of vodka, hats, sunglasses and long sleeves to cover their bruises, stumble around giggling like they are in middle school and flirt/sleep with everyone under the sun. They are the ones who speak the loudest and create drama when there is none simply to get attention. I have been on school boards and volunteered my time enough over the years to be able to call this out with confidence - but not that it's a great thing. I think it's sad. It may not be in your neck of the woods but I know it's out there more than you think. These women would have been better off getting jobs or hobbies outside of the home so that they could have more confidence and pride in themselves. This is what our kids would be better off seeing. Not the disaster in their homes they I know they secretly and shamefully carry.
The first, stay at home wife and mother, with a potential side hustle because I do have a STEM degree.
I've been a stay-at-home wife for the past 15 years and I can't imagine it any other way.
yeah but you gotta have a non cheating man to support your ass
@@tracyhoward8228 oof and you sound jealous bc you cant keep a man so you have to work to support yourself lmao
Be blessed 🎉❤
The most beautiful thing to do as a woman 🍀
So if you were Raped or in Case of INcest got pregnant do you agree you should not be able to have Abortion? Bc that is what is happening in bunch of states already. and planned to be in the whole country? You let me know.. Anybody has daughters? how do they feel about it.?
I wanted to raise my own children myself so I was a SAHM for about 10 years. I was also in school during that time and now I work remotely. It’s nice because I’m still home when my kids get off the bus from school but I also get the mental stimulation that I need and can contribute to the household finances. My husband is an amazing trustworthy man that has always provided for me and our children. He has never had a problem with me being a SAHM and is my biggest supporter. ❤ I think that every household needs different things and there is no one size fits all when it comes to running a household and raising a family. At the end of the day you do what you need to do.
What's a SAHM?
@@juliebarnett9812 SAHM = Stay At Home Mother
I always thought I wanted to work and further my career
I loved what I did, I was good at it and made as much as my husband. (Well over 100k 20 years ago). Never would did I think i would be a stay at home mom. After having kids, I changed my mind. It has made our lives so much better. We could have a bigger house, better vacations, etc, but our family life and family harmony is priceless. Many days I miss it, but not one I regret it.
Well said
Well said I totally agree! Similar situation
This 💯
Beautiful!
I was a stay-at-home mom for 10 years and have returned to working outside of the home now that my children are older. I don't regret my decision to stay home and I'm grateful my husband made it possible. For those that have any type of income/ stipend or part time jobs, I'd suggest putting some money in an IRA so that your retirement doesn't suffer from sacrificing for your family.
I chose to be a sahm when my daughters were younger because I wanted to be the one to raise them. Then I started working when they were school age. You can do both but not necessarily at the same time
I started working at a relatively young age so now that I’m in my very late 30’s and have small children, I am a SAHM and prefer it this way. No one will raise and care for my children and family like I can. After all, children only get to be kids for a short time and it goes by quickly, it’s invaluable. A career is always available to pursue whenever you decide is best. Given the right spouse that can provide stability for the family I believe SAHM is best at least when your kids are young.
A woman's eggs begin their decline at the age of 30 and serious risks begin at 35 such as c sections, autism & down syndrome in your children, mortality for the mothers, losing the ability have children etc. IVF treatments are expensive like 20k-30k usd and freezing your eggs isn't guaranteed to work either while this option is also expensive. Women can have a healthy pregnancy after 35 but they're rolling the dice and gambling for that chance, its still very risky. So really a woman's biology says their 20's is the best time for women to have children, they should be done with school by the age of 21 leaving them time to start families.
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Same here, started working young but after kids in my 30s wanted more home life while they're young...but now they're in school want to go back pt
Woman in blue is smart! Who said you can't have both?! Also, the term stay at home doesn't actually mean she stays home all day for those saying they'd be bored 😂
If a woman can stay at home, the value that brings to the family is immeasurable. Nobody can love and care for your family like you can.
No nanny, no grandparent, nobody can bring the magic a mother can.
Money comes and goes, but childhood memories and a happy home last forever.
A strong man takes pride in the fact he can provide for his family and have his wife care for everyone.
Exactly, best investment ever
Gosh, this is disturbing and extremely limiting for the man and the woman in this scenario. I suspect the kids would lose out as well.
Nah. Grandmothers def bring the magic. I’d recon that they also teach old and traditional values.
But what about the dad creating memories with the kids too? So many rich kids whose mom stayed home have issues with their father.
@@UpUpDnDnLtRtLtRtBAStart Not all grandmothers. Some are toxic and you don’t want them around your children 😳
My wife is SAHM, at the beginning she didn't like the idea, but when she understood that nobody is going to rise hers children better than her, she stays at mom, but sometimes she complain about me working a lot. It is hard for me, but I keep going because of my children. Im 💯% agree with SAHM.
I respect a family that stays together and does what’s best for the kids.
It’s hard to answer this question when you ask women who are young and in the thick of their careers this isn’t something that one decides life takes you in this direction depending on the couples circumstances. Money is not everything in life and bringing up children is priceless you can never get back that time with your kids once it’s gone.
I prefer to be a stay at home mom.... I have nothing against working and every woman needs to decide for herself.... but after my husband and I sat down and crunched the numbers... we took into consideration all the expenses accrued if I worked and it would basically absorb most of my income. (Daycare, gas for commuting, career expenses, eating out etc.). By choosing to be a stay at home mom I save our family thousands of dollars per year. Plus raising kids is a very important job... they're the next generation that will be running world. An older person once told me, "the more you put into something in the beginning, the more you get out later." Kids are worth the investment of time. Once my kids are older I probably will seek out a part time job / side hustle, but until then, I prefer to be the keeper of the home :) to each his own 😊
Yes that makes so much sense I would ymthink the same. To be honest the little extra money you MIGHT make, is not worth it at all and all the stress
Better have a good prenup for if the husband leaves for someone younger. Plus if you don't work outside of the house no Social Security so have alimony prepared in prenup. More than half of marriages fail, never depend on a man. If you stay at home you should get at least a nanny's salary.
Good thing I’m much younger than my husband 🤍
Amen!
Im a proud Gen Z Traditional housewife and home schooling mom of 2. Dispite having a high education and previously profitable career.
Serving my husband and family is more rewarding
Yikes!
I would say to each and their own. Nothing wrong with being a devoted housewife and mother. But just know that not every woman desires to be a mom or a housewife, just the same as not every man desires to be a father or a husband. They are nice things to be (if it's what a person desires). But definitely not a lifestyle that can be "forced" on anyone.
I knew from a very young age that having children wasn't something I was interested in. And I'm still not. -Especially with how expensive things have become in this day and age. And I take a lot more pride in having a degree in science and a full-time career in it. As a clinical laboratory technician, my days are devoted to managing test results for people with potentially fatal diseases and illnesses before they become a problem. And for me, that's (extremely rewarding). I also take a lot of pride in earning my own money, and being able to pay my own bills simply because I'm a grown adult, and that's what I'm supposed to do. I spent enough time being bossed around and told what to do as a child. I didn't grow up to become an adult so that could continue for me (Just because of my gender). I also like being able to go fishing whenever I'd like to, hang out with friends or Go for a leisurely drive without being railed for why I'm "not at home like I should be..."
Not only that, but being at home all day (everyday) eventually becomes psychologically damaging enough that many women end up with depression.
Also, a lot of people don't realize how risky it is to have children before securing a solid career and a stable future first. What happens if the husband passes away or just decides to dip on the relationship one day? You've got no work history or an education- nothing valuable on paper to present to any employers. So you're stuck with no other options but to bag groceries at a local stop & shop or scooping french fries and flipping burgers at a local McDonald's. It's not a good situation for the kid when their dinner diet consists of nothing but a Big Mac and chicken nuggets every night, and used clothing from a thrift store because Mom's minimum wage paycheck isn't enough to buy decent food from a grocery store and new clothing (that's never been worn by anyone).
Society has tricked many people into thinking they have to follow in the whole tradition of marriage and having children as if it's some kind of "fashion trend." Yet bringing a child into the home isn't like bringing home a dog. It's a very serious decision (and for obvious reasons).
To be completely honest, I LOVE home making! With that being said, I PREFER to be a stay at home wife BUT, also making money from home, to a GOD FEARING, TRUST WORTHY, INTEGRITY HAVING, husband!!! ❤️
Great video bro! My wife stays home with the kids and honestly in our experience our friends wife’s that have kids work just to get more things. Most of my buddies make plenty of money off one income. But it seems like a lot of people aren’t content and would rather allow Nannie’s to raise their kids. Pretty sad. If you don’t have kids yeah both people can work no problem. But to me no amount of money can will take importance on the livelihood of my children. Make more money to hire baby sitters for date nights and vacations. Not two $900 car payments and be house broke.
My husband & I both worked full time jobs & also worked some side jobs as well. When the pandemic happened, we had our first child and instinctively, I want to be home with our baby. We now have 2 kids. They are both under the age of 5. I enjoy being at home with them knowing that are well taken care of & my husband can have a peace of mind while at work. When they start school, I will work part time so I can still be involved with them helping out with homework, etc.
You can be a stay home wife and a mom and make money. Work smart not hard. ✌️
you'll be average at both
Hell. No. Sounds like a nightmare.
Being a stay at home wife and mother (especially when you have toddlers like myself), is work enough. No thanks!
@@yourboiD it's not a kink. wdym swing that way
A lot of traditional stay at home mothers back in the day had side hustles, baking bread, knitting clothes etc. there’s many possibilities
I prefer making my money 💰🤑❤. I am not good at asking money from someone 😞.
I spend a lot 😂 and I prefer making my own money 💰.
Thanks for sharing 🙏.
Stay at home wife all the way. I’m not trying to work and give my entire youth for some corporation and a terrible boss that can replace me easily.
Why do women get the option? Don't you think us men feel the same way? We're humans too just like you. Do you think we like corporations taking advantage of us either? Maybe you should go to work as well instead of thinking some men will simply supply for you. It's 2024, lady!
Husbands can leave at any time, and also be awful, too, so, same-same.
Stay at home husband here. I'm also trying not to work & give away my youth either. Luckily, I'm good at homemaking, good with & taking care of kids, cooking, etc while my wife loves to work. We are all very happy as a family of 5. Anyway, it's important to realize that men & women should have options & that each family dynamic is different and people should do what makes them happy.
@@alankuruvilla8939 I’m not sure it’d work for me. As a man you’re supposed to provide because that’s a masculine thing. So your wife is in the masculine energy and you’re in your feminine. If it works for BOTH of you then that’s good. Did she have all 5 of your kids? I can’t even imagine doing all that and working.
@@martareitmajer That's for YOU lady & what you believe! In our house, we don't follow 1850's gender stereotypes in our house. Nothing is gendered here. My woman is a real woman who loves to work in her career & I'm good at cooking & everything with the house & taking care of kids. Yes, she did give birth to our children. Again, in our house we don't follow pathetic gender roles or stereotypes. We do what we like AND we are ALL happy with it. We don't allow gender roles to interfere with us, rather we WORK together as partners. Sorry lady if that makes you unhappy or if your opinion is different. It's a part of life as humans we all live differently, have our own perspectives & opinion. 🤷♂️
As someone who wanted to be a stay at home mom but unfortunately ended up being married to an abusive narcissist who seemed such a great guy at first, I no longer want to be dependent, controlled with money and have nothing to scape a dangerous situation with. I started my own small businesses I can do from home and take care of my son, I'm happily divorced now thank God. Be careful ladies 🙏
You can definitely do both - loads of people do it very successfully. It's a very personal choice as the video illustrates.
Advice - If someone wants to be a full time 'stay at home' then they need to be independently wealthy (this needs to be ring fenced), or there needs to be serious paperwork involved to protect their personal freedom and financials.
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Just want to say you did a great job interview them! Respectfully listening and honoring each women’s choices. Bravo 👏
I wish I had a choice. But most of my girlfriends are working hard to survive, pushing 40, a family is no longer in the cards for us. Majority of men these days can’t afford to take care of the family. And I do have a partner, but a child will simply ruin our financial stability.
Can you go at houses and find the stay at home mothers cus those are all the working ones
huh. stay at moms don't work. laundry. dishwasher machine.
@@tracyhoward8228You know what he meant, working a 9 to 5 is not the same kind of work as a stay at home mom. Nobody said there was no work involved being a stay at home mom, no one likes a lazy bum.
Asa successful business man here in Sarasota, Fl ($140 million) I am both intrigued and impressed with your content!
Currently single and supporting myself. I absolutely want to be a stay at home wife/mom. I feel so much more fulfilled when I’m serving and taking care of other purple. Even if a man was providing for me, I would be very busy taking care of the home, our lives, helping him with whatever tasks he has on his plate. Running the errands. Raising the kids if we have them.
You're a dream spouse, don't let the strong and independent types talk you out of it. Modern Feminists always say women should have a choice but when it comes to being a stay at home wife/mom they'll bully and drag women for wanting that which leads me to believe they really aren't for women's rights as they claim. Traditional women are in demand in the U.S. so much so that men are flying overseas to countries such as Thailand, Philippines, Columbia etc. to find and wife them since traditional family oriented women are more common in those countries. They're called Passport Bros.
I too love taking care of purples. You should try blues sometime too.
@@KSWKREW Purples are much less problematic than the blues though.
Lol.. clearly I didn’t check the autocorrect.
@@Law19157 society is just backwards. I don’t think I’ve ever met a feminist who actually seemed content and at peace in life. Obviously working is more frequently necessary for women these days, but I truly believe women find more satisfaction in nurturing a family and a home. We just don’t get the same satisfaction from pursuing a career. I enjoy my job and using my brain. But it’s just a job. I truly would love to have the option to be in the home more and focus on a family. But there’s no way I’d be lazy with it! I need to be busy and active.
@@brittneythompson7218It was feminists who convinced hoards of women to join the work force and that contributed to the increase in the cost of living. Not only do you have to pay for day care since both spouses are working but duel incomes means couples can bid higher on homes which drives up the cost of housing. Having the right to work is all fine and good but bullying and pressuring women into it is absurd. They're trying to pressure Indian women in India to join the work force and when that happens India will join every other developed country in experiencing population decline.
There is no way you can make 700k-800k a year in a company as just a regular accountant, maybe as CFO or CPA business owner with their own clients with a large portfolio, but not as an accountant, maybe over 100k but no way it's multiple six figures plus. This is coming from a corporate recruiter with 10+ years. You need to be very highly skilled beyond any accountant at what you do and make some miracle happens on those balance sheets.
Yeah she is lying.
@@user-es5jq6yy9lOr she doesn't know what she's talking about.
@@user-es5jq6yy9lshe’s like Pinocchio, but her boobs grow instead of her nose when she is lying.
Ig majority women are lying about their payscale.
She was working for herself!
We need stay at home mothers more than ever. But it’s just not respected and it’s way too hard for most people to make all the sacrifices that come with it.
Love the Christian woman who truly trusts God and doesn’t matter what revenue she gets through donation or platform , she will continue to push forward !
Id prefer both because I've seen my mom do both while taking care of my dad and the 4 of us
Love these videos, and will continue watching them either way. Just a suggestion though...If you edited out the background noise (construction, loud exhaust, etc.) they'd be much easier to watch!!!!
I’ve done both and prefer a combination. Part time work that is flexible for me to still raise my kids and be available for school stuff, when they are sick, or just want to spend the day with me. Being a 100% SAMH was great but I lost my identity and sense of independence. 100% work made me feel like I wasn’t doing enough for my kids. Fortunately I’m blessed to have the option but understand that isn’t realistic for everyone.
That is awesome. Can I ask what you do for flexible part time work?
I'd rather work and earn my money. I once tried staying at home, and I ended up struggling with depression, which took me a long time to overcome. So, I prefer working and having my own money to do whatever I want, whenever I want, and never relying on anyone else for my financial well-being.
Right on sister!!
I loved hearing it from the ladies what they prefer ain't nobody doing these videos like Snewj this was a banger 🔥
I think both I’m full time realtor , and also full time mum as well . I work from home helping my clients and then the day I’m looking for homes for them I just book my appointment around my kids. I’m doing everything. I love it because if my kids are sick , l can be home with them .
I'd want a stay at home wife for many reasons.
You’re a man
5/7 women chose to make their own money. 71%
Then the future economy is doomed.
@@Law19157not really, it’s better to have your own money as a woman instead of being fully dependent on a man who could possibly leave you
@@xxhshrebyba A woman who makes her own money isn't interested in starting families and if they do it's past 30 when they can barely have children. No children means no future customers for products and services which means job loss, supply chain problems, economic collapse and extinction of the human species.
@@xxhshrebybaWomen are the one's who abandon their relationships for the most asinine reasons and they're the one's filing for divorce 75% of the time and take half of their husbands assets as well as alimony. The risk isn't a man leaving a woman, the majority of the time its the woman leaving the man. Forgoing starting families in your 20s for the sake of having your own money is causing a population decline which means later you'll have problems making your own money due to a lack of jobs which will be due to no new customers for businesses to have ever been born.
@@Law19157 everyone is different so everyone should have their own money to rely on no matter the gender. just in case things turn sour
This is a tough one, I believe when a mom is home running the household that is invaluable to a family. However, I have seen friends that have been out of the work force for 15 years going through a divorce or their husband passes away or is sick and cannot work. I know you cannot live life based on "what ifs" but I have seen it and its scary. I have always made my own living so it's hard imagining myself not doing so.
I left nursing to be a stay at home wife/mom. Best choice! I have energy and time to love on and take care of my family in a way I couldn’t before!
What happens when he drops you like a hot potato and you have no money? What if he becomes abusive? Missed years paying into SS? Who will take care of you in your later years? Will your kids provide you with a pension as thanks for raising them!
So I was working since high school & college part time then full time time after graduation for almost 10 yrs so I’m grateful now to be sahm. I can’t deal with the office politics & gossip/ drama. I just need to go & do my job lol. Maybe one day I’ll go back but I love taking care of our little ones
Both...its a balance
Allll the comments are quite interesting...because each person has a different opinion and each lives are different.....different circumstances as well....but quite interesting video
I think it is nice to buy some extra things which you think are important to buy (without to hear a possible no because the man can not always see the idea and also be wrong), but after that i think you feel themost feminine to just be yourself, and do what you like, i stead of out of fear or feeling forced
I would love to be sahm & business owner
Business owners work longer hours than normal 9 to 5 employees. You can pursue business when your children are grown but you'll still have to put in those long hours which can hurt your marriage. To spend less hours in your business means giving up equity to partners to run the business which means less equity for you and maybe less earnings also and there's always the risk of getting screwed by your business partners. Nobody can have it all, there are pros and cons and give and take to everything. People have to choose what's more important to them.
It can go awfully wrong being finically dependant on one partner. Ive personally seen it happen to people close to me. When its good its great! When it goes wrong its a disaster. It ridiculous not to voice the risk. Nothing about jealousy! I wish staying at home was an every women option in the perfect world, where people didn't cheat, get ill or die. But life can happen. Its wrong/ ridiculous not talking about both sides of the same coin. My mum was a stay at home mother twice! Ive seen it growing up.
How about both?
Hi Snewj, please make a video interviewing with software, tech, startups, Ai and more founders, CEOs, CTOs ...
1 of my favorite channels ...Thanks from South Africa 🇿🇦
I have a masters degree and been working since I was 16. I have been unemployed before and I hated not working. Even if I have kids. Then they go to school? I’m a clean person so don’t say clean when I’m already cleaning the whole house.
What if something happens to your husband? I’ve been independent my whole life without someone else supporting me. I would rather have me and my husband working so we have more money and can spoil our kids without relying only on one person.
If you're both working neither of you will have enough time to spend with your children and raise them. Your cost of living will go up as you'll have to pay for daycare and because you have duel incomes you'll be able to bid more on homes which drives up the price of housing for everyone raising the general cost of living. Also, if you spoil your children you're going to raise terrible human beings who will cause problems for the public.
I loved being a stay at home mom for all four of my children best years of my life
I am a SAHW but work for my husband’s businesses from home… he has a lot going on and I help him however I can.
Would have loved to be a SAHW/M - trad wife but that wasn’t in the cards for me. My husband earned a good living for us until his health cost him his job and now I’m the primary breadwinner. Not the role I expected
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Hello , I am very interested. As you know, there are tons of investments out there and without solid knowledge, I can't decide what is best. Can you explain further how you invest and earn?
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Hello how do you make such monthly?? I'm a born Christian and sometimes I feel so down 🤦♀️of myself because of low finance but I still
believe in God
Wow that's nice She makes you that much!! Thanks 🙏 I will try to reach her services, I work 3 jobs and trying to pay off my debts for a while now!!Thanks for the help .
51years and I’m retiring next year 2025 all glory to Angela for all her good works in my life…. 970k earned so far
I would rather make my own money...I don't trust nobody with my livelihood but myself...
Exactly!😊
Yikes
I love you for saying this ❤❤
I would never be a stay at home mother/wife because if my husband dies or the relationship ends I’m screwed. My next door neighbor is a stay at home wife and she doesn’t know how to do anything or fix anything. Her husband has heart issues and if something happens to him I don’t know what she will do.
I would love to be a home stayed mom/wife and earn my money online 🦋
Can you give me ideas of what you would do?
Why are you not asking RICH, MILLIONAIRE WOMEN instead... it's not held to the same standard as your previous video.
Nursing is hard on your body and your emotions but One thing it's good for is there is virtually NO stigma for being all different kinds of nurses. You can switch to every kind if you get the on-the-job training or special certificate. No one thinks bad of you for switching it up. I have a cousin who's done neo natal to Hospice to Surgical and no one's blinked an eye. Whatever job y'all do please young people, buy yourselves IRA's. I'm getting me some as my dear hubby works his last. I don't even care about the tax break anymore. I'm just piling up extra that no one can get from ya in lawsuits or so I've been told. ( Except the IRS ). We should've been buying more of them for each of us.
The only time I can think of when somebody would file lawsuits against nurses and doctors is if they weren't doing their jobs right or made a fatal mistake. This is why I choose to eat right and exercise to take care of my own health because I simply do not trust medical professionals.
I’d rather stay at home and raise my children. I feel like in some way it is difficult to ask any of these women what they’d prefer if they have yet to have kids. Even while pregnant you can plan to go back to work at a certain point PP but once you have your baby you can change your mind completely. Also for the women saying they’d rather be independent, that’s all well and good, but having a man that truly has your back and you KNOW he has your back and supports you, you will not WANT to be independent, you feel safe knowing you can rely on him. That’s just my own experience 🤷🏽♀️
I love my own money anytime any day.
The paralegal has the realest answer
As I get older, I appreciate that my man wants to support me and our future family. I have always planned to shift my work 100% online for freedom and flexibility.
Now that my man and I are planning a future together, it makes sense for me to be the "homemaker" and him the financial provider. But I will continue to build my online business.
Are you and dree still together bro?
I am a single mom and I been all alone with my daughter for the last 7 years no dating ,no man and I am all proud about that. I love working but if I ever find my soul mate I would be okay either way, continue working or be stay home wife and taking care of my family if my husband is okay to make money and provide for our family. When two mutually agree what works best for the family just go with the flow , love and respect is the way to go ❣🙏🌸🍀
I don’t think a CPA half a million
I was wondering about this. Maybe she works with very high net worth persons
Total reach
As a CPA, I can tell you that the percentage that make $500k/year or more is less than 5%. The average is somewhere in the $130-150k range.
@@georgelane9738 He's in a rich area doing these interviews, so the odds of him running into a top 5%, or even 1%, or even top 0.001% are much higher.
I'm raising two boys one baby girl. I tell my boys who are getting older reach for the stars. Be the best never the less.
I'd definitely prefer to work/ make money
Balance both for woman =
Being available for kids and working to spend money on themselves and not pay bills..
The girl with the white sweater only giving real answers here
I would love to stay at home but what if we don't work-out? What if he dies? What if he becomes disablled? And I placed all my livelihood in his hands?!
I'm glad you're taking the time to acknowledge the risks involved in having a family first instead of going to college and being financially secure (prior to having children). Because you never know if the man of the relationship is going to pass away or dip completely. And then what? You've got no college education, no resume with any work history on it. So the only jobs available to you are bagging groceries at stop & shop or ringing people up on a cash register at Walmart. A paycheck from scooping french fries and flipping burgers at McDonald's isn't going to be enough to cover the cost of decent food from a grocery store or clothing that isn't used from a thrift store. And a diet of french fries and chicken fingers every night (because the minimum wage paycheck isn't enough to get decent food) certainly doesn't make for a healthy situation for any child. For single mothers, the struggle is all too real. Yet everybody acts like having children is some sort of "fashion trend" to follow and it's basically the same as buying a dog. And so the assumption is all women should just forget about being educated and having a career, and just jump right to motherhood without having secured a stable future first...
Yes, a very potential (disaster) indeed!
You should do a video on women in their 20-30s making +100k if they would be a SAHM once they have kids. Daycare is expensive here in California or US in general so lots of women end up being a SAHM since it would basically cost the same as their after tax take home income.
The nurse 🤌
Most cpas never make anywhere near 500k. In most states the average is less than 6 figures
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You should do this video question with the lower/middle class people in LA
I IMMEDIATELY knew the sales girl was going to say make her own money 😂 Her body language says she’s very guarded.
Also…SAHM all day every day!! I did the career route for almost 20 years as a working mom and now I’m a stay at home mom with small children and I know I definitely missed out with my oldest now that I’m in this position. She’s doing great, but I wish I would have had more opportunity to be there when she was small instead of working a full-time job. At the time, it didn’t even cross my mind to do anything different tho.
Stay at home wife, not a mother and still make my own money. ❤
Can you give me ideas of things you do?
@@iamannabeautiful P&C insurance salesman, online vintage store owner and private caregiver.
What do you do from home ?
I would like to make my own money with the option to be a stay at home mom if we agreed to have kids
Snew can you drop other side hustle video or interviewing upcoming millions
When women are over 40 we tend to rather make our own money because our children are usually in school/older.
Next time, Ask women who are 20-30 if they rather stay home and you’ll get a completely different answer. (Especially from women who are not financially well-off. )
Other than cars and watches, what do Millionaires collect as a hobby? 🤔 cards, art, shoes, etc..
If the good man exists, why not lol but yeah good luck with that
Another great video!
Can I get the contact info of the person that helps people with past due taxes?
Depend on God first, then on yourself then ... make your money
God is good all the time❤
We need stay at home Husbands more than a stay at home wife, Because men can do home repairs and handle the day to day issues. Men will work after the kids go to school. just my 2 cents.
Always make your own money and support yourself. It's a very bad / insecure decision to depend on someone else for your livelihood,
I agree but at the same time a woman who gets into a marriage could potentially lock in income for life and be self-sufficient based off the divorce settlement. So, in effect, it is a job in itself...if they do it right.
@@mountains1233Not in the state of Florida, Desantis put an end to life long alimony and I suspect many other states will reform their marriage laws too especially now that women are earning more, they're not going to be in favor of life long alimony and child support. When the shoe is on the other foot they find out.
Its fine to have a career skill as a back up if something happens to the husbands job or they get into an accident and can't work for a while but duel incomes means contributing to the increase in the cost of living pricing out many would be home buyers forcing them to move to another lower cost city or state.
Job and mom.. both
She wants to make her own money for better life 🚀❤️
The last lady is the real definition of the last shall be the first and the first shall be the last
The want to make money without paying any bills.
Interesting, the whole reason I make money IS (to pay my bills)...lol
Great video
I’m curious to see you ask this question in a different area. I believe you may have different answers
LOVE YOUR CONTENT MAN
Women act like your not able to leave the house being a stay at home mom lol my girlfriend is a stay at home mom we travel a lot still she goes to dinner w her friends, sometimes they come over, we go out to different events & she also runs our charity as well so she has tons of fun but main duty is providing that life for her and my kids and hers is taking care of them and the home and everything else comes after that
These peoples salaries seem very high compared to the UK. I used to be a senior/principal electronics engineer and only made like $50K Definitely work on contracts or run your own business rather than be a full-time employee.
What do you do now?
@@iamannabeautiful I quit the rat race and moved to the far east where I work on online projects.
Thank you for replying. I hope it's going well for you 🙏🏾
Ministry.. what does she make.
The lady at 8:08 relying on the Lord for her provision is so nice to hear. It is the testimony of my life as well. God has always provided and continues to provide everything I need❤️
”But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.“
Matthew 6:33 NIV
Just support the man you marry and be a caring wife dont become the opposite 🚩