Join my Private community with Like-minded people and millionaire's:) ➜ www.patreon.com/Snewj408 Here's Why: Our private entrepreneur community is a great place to connect with like-minded individuals and other millionaires. We have live zoom calls every week from our millionaire mentors, where you can ask them any questions you have. You can also Connect with other successful people in our community where partnerships & opportunities are solidified daily. Stop wasting time & change your life today. Your network is your Net-Worth!
I have interesting life experience. I graduated college and then met my husband. Got married had three kids, stayed home while he finished his degree and built up a career. He died unexpectedly at age 35. I don’t regret my choice to stay home with my babies. It was precious and time went by so quickly. I don’t feel scared like I have no skills because I chose this life. I know I can enter the work force and make it if I need to. Thankfully I don’t have to work fulltime because of smart planning on our part in case anything bad happened to either of us… Don’t be afraid to plan smart and live within your means and build the life you want. Ladies if you want to be a stay at home wife and mom, you will find the guy who wants that too and your life can be beautiful. ❤️
I love to be home but am a working mum, and am glad I am too. My husband died at 34 unexpectedly and I was able to smoothly adjust to being the sole provider for our kids because I was working full time . The joy of seeing my girls come home from school and run to me with their day discoveries gets me that I can't help but feel sad on the days that am at work. Embracing who you are, choosing what is best for you and planning well, both ways are Okey but given a choice I would say stay home mum is the best if you are raising a family.
@@marthachikhutu1612 you are amazing and doing exactly what needs to be done for your family. Single moms are amazing creatures and we can and will do whatever necessary or our families. SO sorry for your loss. Sending you love!
Research has proven that a stay at home mom is best for the children. Our youngest is now in high school so my wife works. I make enough money that she can work at a job that fulfills her and not have to work at a job for money. I should also state that I would not be as successful as I am without my wife being there to support me and providing a peaceful home for our family. My success is 100% due to her support. My success is her success.
Love this. I wish more men think like this. Hopefully one day I will find a husband like you so I can be wife to him like yours was to you. May God bless you and your family
I love the 2nd guy’s answer. He doesn’t mind her working, but when it comes time to start a family he wants her raising the kids & putting the family first.
My husband loves being able to provide for our family while I stay home with our children. I'm able to take a lot of stress away from him and allow him to focus on work when he's working and he's able to come home to a loving environment. I believe it's important for men to provide for their families. I wouldn't be able to live happily leaving my children for someone else to raise.
@@melinda67Then let each woman decide for herself what life she wants, but men should NOT pressure all women to be the masculine provider AND the feminine creator. Women who pull double-duty eventually end up feeling overworked and regretting that they are with an unambitious man who depends on HER to provide the roof over their head. ✨✨✨
A stay at home wife is allot of work if she's building a family or homeschooling or helping out in the business. I would always prefer a stay at home wife regardless. I don't want the world to stress her out. But I also want multiple wives.
God told me to focus on the home when I asked him what I should do for a career. He still wants me to be educated and capable, but he wants me to know where my priorities should be.
Amen! I'm "educated" with a couple of degrees; & had a career. I'm a Homemaker; & it's more fulfilling than my former career (which I LOVED), my degrees & all of the accolades & awards I've attained. Home is where it's at! 💃🏾
Im a woman working full time but I’ve never actually had any natural drive for a career. I would of course take being a stay at home wife instantly. Taking care of the home for me is wayy better than working, and i dont mind doing the kind of things that being a house wife entails, in fact they’re enjoyable. I think it would make me less stressed out, and give me the time to take care of my partner and make him less stressed out. Not to mention that i have an abundance of hobbies and skills i crave to learn that being provided for would give me time to do and to better myself. Thats not to say im not in full support of women pursuing careers and think thats fucking amazing
It’s mind boggling to me that some people prefer cooking and cleaning over their job. My goal in life is to work so hard and grow my career to a point where I never have to do those things ever again and can pay housekeepers to do it.
Well im genuinely happy that you will be pursuing something you’re passionate about, but to me its mins boggling that people enjoy going into work everyday . I am not lazy, i am a hardworker, but i crave to put that hard work into different skillsets that arent career oriented. I want my schedule to be filled with developing personal skills and hobbies, time with loved ones, helping others, and to me cooking, cleaning, taking care of my home and everything is just enjoyable and therapeutic. I dont want anyone else to clean my own home i wanna do it myself. Fuck knows why
@@melinda67 That’s highly masculine and not what a desirable husband would want out of you. Children thrown into daycares/at nannies, leading them to develop personality disorders, is destroying society. Not understanding that nutrition is directly linked to the health of the biological vessel you’re in is also the main reason the West is sick. Cooking is a life-skill and demeaning it tells me a lot about the condition your body is in. Being healthy is the biggest flex, not money accumulation.
@@Lily-ex4ipYou’re operating more from your femininity than women who are about being a wage slave. Modern women are highly masculine due to feminism, through which they demean the most important job in society-motherhood.
@@luckyyyinlove I agree that healthy nutrition is important and I’m just saying that I wish I could pay someone who cooks healthy for me. I’m happily married for 3 years and we’re not sure if we’ll have children. It’s not a priority at the moment. If we do, I see nothing wrong with nannies.
I’m a stay at home wife and mum ❤ my husband takes care of us very well and I get to stay with the kids and unschool them. It’s the best… very thankful.
My mom had to work two jobs, she says women who get to be stay at home moms are lucky when I asked her about it. She said she would have loved to have been a stay at home mom.
A real man wants to provide and protect. That does not mean he wants to hold his wife back. However, most men will want their wives to raise the kids rather than some strangers at a day care. My dad was a teacher and had four kids at home. It was important to my parents that my mom was at home with us. I am grateful for my parent’s sacrifices to make that possible. My mom has her masters degree. My dad supported her the entire time she was getting her degrees. He never held her back. They were on the same page about raising kids thank goodness. I am so grateful that I was able to come home to my mom. She was the greatest influence on her kids. My husband has made it possible for me to be a stay at home also. I am so grateful. I was the one with my children for every milestone. I have been the one to teach them right from wrong.
Not being salty but how did your father support the family with 4 kids as a teacher? In this economy, knowing how small teachers' salaries are, it's almost unfathomable.
The wine guy is clearly all about the control. This group seems to be real family men who obviously are in the position where they can even have a stay at home wife. I think that wealthier men see the stay at home wife as a real asset because they are thinking about the future and generations to come. I'd like to see you go to neighborhood with more people of color who are well to do. I just want to see if race is also a factor. Maybe Buckhead, Atlanta or Baldwin Hills.
I agree with you. My husband definitely thinks generationally & sees me as an asset. We don't live in any of those areas; but we are a very well-to-do black family.
You’re an excellent interviewer. Natural, charismatic, respectful, and entertaining to watch all the same time. What a rarity. Wishing you lots of success.
Yeah for real, I’m also not sure how relevant the opinion of millionaires are to most middle-class people who are surrounded by other middle-class people
@@BlueLuna5 Or the woman can stop dating men with low ambition and earning power and instead choose a husband who was smart enough to figure out how to earn for the family as the head of household earner 💅🏽
Financial growth is a real and possible endeavor but guidance makes all the difference. Managing money is different from accumulating wealth but the lack of investment education in schools may explain why people struggle to maintain their financial gains.
I think people who invest or try to build wealth should exercise caution with their exposure and when considering new investments, particularly during periods of inflation. It is advisable to seek guidance from a professional or trusted advisor in order to navigate this recession and achieve potential high yields.
This is true. However, it gets quite difficult to handle all of this, and staying informed is a major cause, how do you go about this, are you a pro investor?
I have been in touch with a Financial advisor. With a startup of $ 100 k, my advisor chooses the entry command of my portfolio which has grown to approximately $ 450 k in some weeks.
I’m intrigued by your progress. Could you share some insights into your trading strategy or perhaps recommend any specific resources or mentors that have led to your success.
Wrong! Nothing wrong with having a stay at home wife but it's also important that the wife has her own thing going too. What would she do if something happens to the husband and he can't be physically active.. I earn a lot but I would still want a women to be self sufficient and still take care of her
Wrong. Ideal hands do the devil’s work. There isn’t enough house work once the kids start going to school. Plus you’re taking on a liability a lot of the times for simple task you can outsource for cheap.
Stay home take care of the kids run the home for a fee but not for free. A housekeeper, cook, nanny, therapist, nurse, and all the other roles a stay at home has should be compensated fairly.
What do you mean by compensated? My husband and I often joked, that it cost him nearly every penny he earned, to hire me to raise his children and warm his bed. Of course, the bank accounts are all joint, and everything is shared. Every penny I helped us save, is now net worth.
The most important thing is what the wife wants. It's her life. And choosing to not work is a huge sacrifice on her part. If one day, she needs to work, she'll have no experience and limited opportunities.
Definitely not a sacrifice. The government will take care of her and she should be able to learn something from her husband to operate. Lastly, she probably can get another man. The man really inherits the risk. She leaves, and she gets all the benefits.
Of course women want to take care of the home and have her husband do the providing. Sheesh, of course ya’ll. The problem is every woman knows she’s at high risk of being discarded by age 50 and replaced with a 20 year old. If she doesn’t have a career and she selflessly signed a prenup, she will be living in a van making minimum wage somewhere with no social security and no 401k. And security is a woman’s #1 goal in life. It’s not that hard to understand why women want to avoid this situation that is all too common
If you are doing it right, you won't be discarded at 50. (I'm 53 and my husband is still smitten.) But, more important, if you are doing money right, splitting the marital assets will equal a nice chunk of cash. If my husband left me tomorrow, my half of the marital assets is enough to float me. And of course I have access to his Social Security and his 401K is marital assets, so 1/2 mine. Yes, I want security. I good marriage is one way. A fat net worth is another path. Helping my husband build that net worth by managing the household expenses well, makes him reluctant to pay out half of it, to get me to leave!
My husband and I have a great marriage because he doesn’t work me to death. We lowered our cost of living and I do all the house work and that’s good with me. Life isn’t about the grind it’s about connection and making memories.
Good for you and your husband!! Thank God there are other people who realize that you don’t have to have everything materially to be content. IMO most women who try to work outside their homes , raise their children, be a good wife, keep up with the family appointments etc end up totally stressed out, angry , depleted and emotionally exhausted and sometimes even physically sick. God didn’t intend for anyone to try to do everything. So happy for you and your husband. Life flows so much smoother when you do things the way your family is doing them.
2nd guy.. I love how the first iteration was ‘my wife raising my kids’ and he adjusted it but it was still wrong -versus ‘us raising our kids together.’ Like you do not go with a $300,000 car and not spend just as much time with your kids as the mother does. What is the entire point of all your money. He talks about the wife like she’s some kind of add-on ancillary that handles raising the kids separate from him.
what you’re describing is called a man having a stay at home wife. Of course the mother spend more time with the kids than the father, that’s purpose of the stay at home mom.
I think most women under 25 feel like they want to work. Eventually the commute to work 1 hour each direction, micro aggressions or outright being yelled at by a boss..or customers, being overlooked for promotions, toxic corporate culture..is not worth it. You will likely burn out by 35 or..even 27. I’d gladly be a stay at home wife. Wished I had the opportunity.
I'm 35 and I work in IT, and I'm definitely not burned out. It depends whether you really enjoy what you do. Like if you would be doing it as a hobby anyway
Haha the wine guy straight up said he wants a stay at home wife to have more control. And then SnewJ try to cover it up by saying more support. Tried to clean it up. No my boi, that’s what he meant, he WANTS To CONTROL her. Good luck with that. You aren’t finding a wife who’s going to stick around.
He said the quiet part out loud. Its why the other men laugh when they hear the question and then they proceed to give the socially acceptable response. Women better pay attention! This is the REAL reason for all of this stay at home agenda these men are pushing
Yes, some man do like to take control and this man is honest about it. I think it has to do with this man’s culture, Western woman would not like it. I’m American so I wouldn’t like that either.
I don't see an issue with being a stay at home wife at all, as long as the marriage lasts. Once the marriage is over, that's when you having been at home for years and would like to earn your own money is starting to get tough.
Love 💕 all of your videos! I replied to the first one on the topic of stay at home wives. While I was in the Marine Corps and had 1 or two part time jobs as well my husband treated me much nicer than when I became a stay at home mom. I love the ability to nurse our son, nurturing and cooking. I’d do it differently if I could… with a better husband honestly. 😅 Thank you for asking the watch maker for opportunities and ideas to start in his field. Great job as usual! I’d love a third video with the preferences. I’m super proud of you btw! 🥹😇
Good to know. I used to not want to be a stay at home mom, but now I can’t imagine someone else raising my [future] kids. I still would need to do something on the side, so that I don’t grow complacent or keep my identity in 1 area. I feel like a video on how to meet men like the ones interviewed, would be great 😀
I used to think like that. Being a SAHM NEVER entered my mind. However, it's the very best decision I've ever made! Blessings to you for when you meet the right guy & start your family!
I would never in my life allow myself to be dependent on a man. If a man wants a woman to be a stay at home wife, then he should be fine with marrying her with no prenup imo
Be careful w this ladies. Too many stories of the man being abusive controlling cheating and the woman unable to leave or left w nothing and no work skills to be able to stand on her own. I used to think i wanted this but its too risky. Make sure youre getting your own or know for a fact you will be fine if anything happens..
There are many stories with men who are morally responsible, take excellent care of their families & appreciate their wives. I know from my own experience, family members & close friends. When both spouses work together towards the family vision; & can see being themselves & through to future generations.... these type of marriages work VERY well.
Here are some suggestions: 1. Bellevue, Washington 2. Clyde Hill, Washington 3. Redmond, Washington 4. Mercer Island, Washington 5. Issaquah, Washington
Wine guy said control. No need to change the wording. It's quite obvious what he meant. I would say car sales guys, watch guy and the first guy were really cool. I liked their take on it.
The thing I didn’t like about being a SAHM was the control my ex-husband had. I couldn’t buy a thing without consulting with him first. That’s not the life for me. It was a full time job and we didn’t even have children.
That's sad. Not all husbands are that way. Many that I know, appreciate their wives; & are happy to give them the things (including money) that desire.
These are millionaires with millions in their bank account. I am not surprised at all. It doesn't always work out the same for net worth millionaires (that still have debt). I am a stay at home mom in a high cost of living area and will be looking for a job in order to help my husband (he doesn't seem to care anymore if I will be the one raising our kids or not since our expenses our rising).
Beautifull That mostly all of them choose stay at home wife because of kids and family. Amazing that they are still men that Love being Provider's So Dope. So True Most rich men want stay at home wives and broke men want their wives to work so true. I think it's beautiful to take the job off your wife if y'all agree and she does wife mom etc. Duties. Family is more important than jobs for most moms. Husbands mainly provide. Moms are nurturing God's way.
One guy said he wanted his wife to stay at home ao he can have more control. That's the real reason why the other guys laugh when they first hear the question. They just have to make it sound better than just control.
@@ecclairmayo4153That older gentleman is telling the truth most men are afraid to say out loud. It is about control, when wife is at home they could work overtime and have an affair. I was a massage therapist for women for 14 years, the trauma dump I got from these women on an intimate level would make any women stay single for the rest of her life. So many were rich women who were SAHM and I always hear about their husbands leaving them for a secretary, someone younger, or total abandonment. I see bruises on their bodies too..... some of them cant find a decent job after divorce. A couple of them have even applied to work at my job as receptionist or something else because their rich husbands hired the best attorneys they could find to screw their wife up even more. Those men are rich for a reason, they claw and push and climb over people to get where they want. They will use their wives the same way, she serves her purpose, and they go find another wife... like climbing the ladder.
@@ecclairmayo4153Not all men are trying to control their wives. There are some with morals & who are thinking at least 3-4 generations ahead. They want a wife who can see & help them achieve their vision. There are selfish men, who can't see beyond themselves. Those are the ones that wise women avoid.
Take notice that all the men who were millionaires and married with kids preferred an independent, working and educated woman. But EVERY guy who earned less than 10 figures and was unmarried wanted a "stay at home woman to take care of him." These men don't want a partner ... they are trying to replace their mother. Same thing as women who want all their bills paid are looking for a father. And that is exactly why the nastiest divorces according to record are between stay at home wives and guys who wanted them. Toxic people are attracted to eachother. Healed people are attracted to successful, independent adults.
Funny how nobody brought up remote work - tons of moms out there who WFH full-time while still balancing children👍 Even had a few who had to bottle feed children/leave for a min to tend to them during meetings
Oh wow. I've been hybrid, then fully remote since 2019. It's nearly impossible for me to work/focus with my child at home. I do have colleagues who do it with babies. With the cost of daycare, I can understand why.
What's the point of having a child/children if someone else is going to raise him/her/them (I.e., nanny, boarding school)!? The point is to raise decent human beings not just to have a child/children because of the societal pressure.
Rich men wives don’t actually stay home because they have money to hire someone to do their house chores for them while they drink wine at the beach socializing with girlfriends.
I'M NEW TO BTC AND I'VE BEEN MAKING LOSSES TRYING TO MAKE PROFIT MYSELF IN TRADING...I THOUGHT TRADING DEMO ACCOUNT IS JUST LIKE TRADING THE REAL MARKET... CAN ANYONE HELP ME OUT OR AT LEAST ADVISE ME ON WHAT TO DO?
Well...I will advise you should stop trading on your own if you keep losing and start trading with an expert because trading with an expert is the best strategy for newbie...😊
Interesting. I have a lump sum doing absolutely nothing at all in my bank account, I wanna get something started with it. You seem to be doing excellent for yourself, how do you achieve this?
It is possible to produce superior performance provided you do something different from the majority. However, most of us tend to pay more attention to the shiniest position in the market to the cost of proper diversification.
I understand that there are single moms who have to work and support their children, but I do not understand why families who have a mom and a dad want to have children and let someone else or an institution raise their children,
I married at 20 and had 1st born at 21. My husband makes enough money for our family to be stable, I often do get bored at home because I’m a stay at home mom, but he’s encouraging me to get a part time job at Macys or something 😂
It all depends on the type of person. My mom decided to be a stay at home mom and in all honesty l can genuinely say I felt unloved and a " selfless" decision she had made for my sake, and boy did l know it. She was never physically abusive, she was at home, but she wasn't there in her soul and spirit. You can't fool children. A stay at home mom can make you feel rejected and abandoned. It has NOTHING to do with whether mom stays at home or not. It's all about true love and passion for what you do, through every good and bad time, and the plateaus in-between.
it's interesting to see how real life rich men are very respectful to women, don't have a misoginistic mindset, and want to provide fully for their woman, while most broke guys are rude misoginistic and want to go 50/50.
The watch maker was an interesting one, I’m also attracted to watches, would be a cool hobby to join a club and learn about the history and mechanics. On the topic of being a stay at hime wife, if I had that option, which I do, I’d choose to be the wife with a husband and children and build an empire, rather than work for a corporation, it’s nice to have your own money, but nicer to build something of your own with someone. Also women face a lot in the workforce, you can imagine the many challenges, so I understand why the man said women making her own money can be lead to other directions. It’s true, if that’s what she chooses and isn’t focused.
If my husband was rich, I would love to be a stay at home wife/mom. It’s a luxury these days. We’re both lucky that we have our own careers. I still see house making as another career (in addition to my work) and honestly, it’s my saving grace from corporate life. Once the last meeting wraps, I am happy to go down and cook my husband and I a snack and then cook dinner ❤
The answers were interesting. Personally for me, i am a Trad Wife (very traditional) and i do all the cooking and cleaning at home while my man is at work and im only 23. I absolutely love it! I no longer get the burnout phase from working for a CEO for a 9-5 job. I am the happiest i have ever been!
I get the stay at home mom view while children aren't of school age but I think a lot of guys need to be very careful with going into that type of agreement/marriage. (Considering that the avg. divorce rate in the U.S. is over 50%, child support tends to be bias 90% of the time against fathers with (20% in most states taking the guy's income) and then some states will require the man to pay alimony based on how long their ex-wife was out of work). As wealthy as these guys are like Jeff Bezos; they are rolling some big dice with their future/existing wife will stay by their side for decades/until death. (When the average marriage is lasting shorter than it takes to get a PHD). The only other concern is; what do the stay-at-home moms do at home while the children are of school age for 8 hours a day? I don't see moms on social media posting millions of pictures once their children turn into teenagers; instead I see a lot of teenagers with parents using technology to raise them. I'd suggest these guys that want women to be stay-at-home moms to get a postnup (yep, you can have an agreement to settle things after the marriage) and prenup before the marriage. Married couples can even have in the prenup that neither person gains "x" amount of weight through the marriage; for those hyper focused on health or not getting a partner that settles into a "dad bod."
I like the idea of both working. I’m personally into independent women, thankfully i already found the sweetest soul, so we share the same interests. I can understand someone who wants a pure housewife but that’s not for me. I think women who don’t have goals and motivation to accomplish something by themselves are highly unattractive, money isn’t the issue it’s about being able to motivate yourself to do something with your life on your own. But everyone has their own preferences. If some other people pigeonhole you because you have different preferences they are just a bunch of clowns. A person who can t accept other opinions will stay broke forever mentally and financially because being close minded doesn’t get you anywhere
Stay at home all the way, and I think if all these men were not afraid of their wives (what a sad situation to be in btw) they'd firmly say " stay at home wife"
@@XXLadyisn't that better for him lol cuz he will be actually sticking to his preferences and principles and voicing out his thoughts. There's a million of the same women but a rich man who has principles is very rare to find.
Second guy’s answer annoyed me… he wants a determined woman but once they have kids he expects her to put her career on hold? How is that fair? If she loves her career and prefers to keep it, childcare should be an equal effort between partners. This mentality contributes to the income gap… obv if a woman is down to stay home none of this matters! However, shifting away from this mentality is productive and takes the pressure of societal norms off the woman.
I used to work at a couple of older adult communities. The one thing that I observed among the older ladies, was that the ones who stayed home & raised their kids, we're MUCH happier than the ones who didn't have kids or never stayed home with their kids. They were filled with regret. That observation greatly impacted me. I quit my career & went home to take care of my husband & babies. I haven't looked back. I enjoy my life & I am so grateful to have experienced so many firsts with my children; as well as being their primary teacher. My career will be there; but I only have a window of time with my children. Once they've grown up, that's it. I maintain my skills by keeping my certifications current, being a part of a community of other moms who work part-time in my industry; as well as working with just a client or two at a time.
I totally get it. My husband would be unhappy married to a less intelligent woman. But he is smart enough to know that he wants his children to be raised be their Mom. It isn't about "fair" as much as "compatible life partner" and "healthy, loved children." My 20's sons express the same conflict. A future wife must be smart, but also willing to raise our children (our legacy) rather than so career focused that our kids get shuffled off to paid caregivers.
The guy that said he wants a stay at home wife for "CONTROL" and stood on that ten toes down, despite thenintervier trying to help him ease his response! Interesting.
Join my Private community with Like-minded people and millionaire's:) ➜ www.patreon.com/Snewj408
Here's Why: Our private entrepreneur community is a great place to connect with like-minded individuals and other millionaires. We have live zoom calls every week from our millionaire mentors, where you can ask them any questions you have. You can also Connect with other successful people in our community where partnerships & opportunities are solidified daily. Stop wasting time & change your life today. Your network is your Net-Worth!
The first guys response to this question was perfect. Supportive but respects his spouse choice. Brilliant
The second and third guy's responses were perfect. He wants to take care of his wife and children and relieve the burden of having her work.
I have interesting life experience. I graduated college and then met my husband. Got married had three kids, stayed home while he finished his degree and built up a career. He died unexpectedly at age 35. I don’t regret my choice to stay home with my babies. It was precious and time went by so quickly. I don’t feel scared like I have no skills because I chose this life. I know I can enter the work force and make it if I need to.
Thankfully I don’t have to work fulltime because of smart planning on our part in case anything bad happened to either of us…
Don’t be afraid to plan smart and live within your means and build the life you want. Ladies if you want to be a stay at home wife and mom, you will find the guy who wants that too and your life can be beautiful. ❤️
I'm sorry for your loss.
Sorry for your loss
Absolutely incredible insight. God bless
I love to be home but am a working mum, and am glad I am too. My husband died at 34 unexpectedly and I was able to smoothly adjust to being the sole provider for our kids because I was working full time .
The joy of seeing my girls come home from school and run to me with their day discoveries gets me that I can't help but feel sad on the days that am at work.
Embracing who you are, choosing what is best for you and planning well, both ways are Okey but given a choice I would say stay home mum is the best if you are raising a family.
@@sentry2236 thank you. 🫶
@@marthachikhutu1612 you are amazing and doing exactly what needs to be done for your family. Single moms are amazing creatures and we can and will do whatever necessary or our families. SO sorry for your loss. Sending you love!
Research has proven that a stay at home mom is best for the children. Our youngest is now in high school so my wife works. I make enough money that she can work at a job that fulfills her and not have to work at a job for money. I should also state that I would not be as successful as I am without my wife being there to support me and providing a peaceful home for our family. My success is 100% due to her support. My success is her success.
You sound like a good husband. You are a blessing to your wife and family. I’m am happy for you and hope to find the same.
Bet your woman is wonderful so you can talk about her like that. Blessings to your family and hope every of us be the same
That is amazing but not all men are like you.
You sound like a great person and husband ❤
Love this. I wish more men think like this. Hopefully one day I will find a husband like you so I can be wife to him like yours was to you. May God bless you and your family
My husband has provided fully for our family since 2009. So grateful for him and guys like him. Y'all real ones.
Agreed!
I love the 2nd guy’s answer. He doesn’t mind her working, but when it comes time to start a family he wants her raising the kids & putting the family first.
Agree. Love a man that knows what he wants.
My husband loves being able to provide for our family while I stay home with our children. I'm able to take a lot of stress away from him and allow him to focus on work when he's working and he's able to come home to a loving environment. I believe it's important for men to provide for their families. I wouldn't be able to live happily leaving my children for someone else to raise.
There are a lot of women who don’t want to do house and childcare work all day long.
@@melinda67Then let each woman decide for herself what life she wants, but men should NOT pressure all women to be the masculine provider AND the feminine creator. Women who pull double-duty eventually end up feeling overworked and regretting that they are with an unambitious man who depends on HER to provide the roof over their head. ✨✨✨
@@HoneyBunches100 I don’t understand double-duty women either. I work and pay 50% of the bills so I don’t cook and clean for my husband.
And many of us LOVE being at home doing what’s best for the family 😀
Exactly
Please also do it the other way around. Ask female millionaires about their preference of husbands.
Yes this!
We already know the answer. Women don’t date down they want men more successful than them…so a stay at home husband isn’t a choice
Good luck with finding that. Most women get their wealth from a man. And secondly, we all know women are going want a man on her level or higher.
No point millionaire women don't want a stay at home man
All the rich women would either have a husband already, or be divorced lol
A stay at home wife is the healthiest for a Family. Plus a stay at home wife is allot of work involved. That is a full time Job.
Thankyou!❤
youre a real man
Just watch out for the pool boy coming over when you’re wifey is bored 🎉
A stay at home wife is allot of work if she's building a family or homeschooling or helping out in the business. I would always prefer a stay at home wife regardless. I don't want the world to stress her out. But I also want multiple wives.
Until the man decides he wants another women then she is screwed.
God told me to focus on the home when I asked him what I should do for a career.
He still wants me to be educated and capable, but he wants me to know where my priorities should be.
Amen! I'm "educated" with a couple of degrees; & had a career. I'm a Homemaker; & it's more fulfilling than my former career (which I LOVED), my degrees & all of the accolades & awards I've attained. Home is where it's at! 💃🏾
Im a woman working full time but I’ve never actually had any natural drive for a career. I would of course take being a stay at home wife instantly. Taking care of the home for me is wayy better than working, and i dont mind doing the kind of things that being a house wife entails, in fact they’re enjoyable. I think it would make me less stressed out, and give me the time to take care of my partner and make him less stressed out. Not to mention that i have an abundance of hobbies and skills i crave to learn that being provided for would give me time to do and to better myself.
Thats not to say im not in full support of women pursuing careers and think thats fucking amazing
It’s mind boggling to me that some people prefer cooking and cleaning over their job. My goal in life is to work so hard and grow my career to a point where I never have to do those things ever again and can pay housekeepers to do it.
Well im genuinely happy that you will be pursuing something you’re passionate about, but to me its mins boggling that people enjoy going into work everyday . I am not lazy, i am a hardworker, but i crave to put that hard work into different skillsets that arent career oriented. I want my schedule to be filled with developing personal skills and hobbies, time with loved ones, helping others, and to me cooking, cleaning, taking care of my home and everything is just enjoyable and therapeutic. I dont want anyone else to clean my own home i wanna do it myself. Fuck knows why
@@melinda67 That’s highly masculine and not what a desirable husband would want out of you. Children thrown into daycares/at nannies, leading them to develop personality disorders, is destroying society. Not understanding that nutrition is directly linked to the health of the biological vessel you’re in is also the main reason the West is sick. Cooking is a life-skill and demeaning it tells me a lot about the condition your body is in. Being healthy is the biggest flex, not money accumulation.
@@Lily-ex4ipYou’re operating more from your femininity than women who are about being a wage slave. Modern women are highly masculine due to feminism, through which they demean the most important job in society-motherhood.
@@luckyyyinlove I agree that healthy nutrition is important and I’m just saying that I wish I could pay someone who cooks healthy for me. I’m happily married for 3 years and we’re not sure if we’ll have children. It’s not a priority at the moment. If we do, I see nothing wrong with nannies.
I’m a stay at home wife and mum ❤ my husband takes care of us very well and I get to stay with the kids and unschool them. It’s the best… very thankful.
Same here & me too! 💃🏾
Me too!!! Same situation here and looooooovvvveeee it❤ lucky ladies
@@TheExcellentFamily 🥰 that's how to do it!!!
@@KP-ro8fy that's right sister!! 💃🏾
My mom had to work two jobs, she says women who get to be stay at home moms are lucky when I asked her about it. She said she would have loved to have been a stay at home mom.
A real man wants to provide and protect. That does not mean he wants to hold his wife back. However, most men will want their wives to raise the kids rather than some strangers at a day care. My dad was a teacher and had four kids at home. It was important to my parents that my mom was at home with us. I am grateful for my parent’s sacrifices to make that possible. My mom has her masters degree. My dad supported her the entire time she was getting her degrees. He never held her back. They were on the same page about raising kids thank goodness. I am so grateful that I was able to come home to my mom. She was the greatest influence on her kids. My husband has made it possible for me to be a stay at home also. I am so grateful. I was the one with my children for every milestone. I have been the one to teach them right from wrong.
Yesssss!!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Love this!!!
Not being salty but how did your father support the family with 4 kids as a teacher? In this economy, knowing how small teachers' salaries are, it's almost unfathomable.
The first guy is exactly how I’d want my husband to be
The wine guy is clearly all about the control. This group seems to be real family men who obviously are in the position where they can even have a stay at home wife. I think that wealthier men see the stay at home wife as a real asset because they are thinking about the future and generations to come. I'd like to see you go to neighborhood with more people of color who are well to do. I just want to see if race is also a factor. Maybe Buckhead, Atlanta or Baldwin Hills.
exactly
Yes-Baldwin Hills would be a good one
I don’t like this type of man.
I agree with you. My husband definitely thinks generationally & sees me as an asset. We don't live in any of those areas; but we are a very well-to-do black family.
The wine guy just wants to purchase a passive woman.
My three favorite channels: SnewJ Knows, Stock Brotha, & How Money Works. Make my week complete!
On every video 😫
You’re an excellent interviewer. Natural, charismatic, respectful, and entertaining to watch all the same time. What a rarity. Wishing you lots of success.
I was aboutntonsaynthe same he's great
4:05 👏 I love his definition of alpha male. We are here to help each other. It’s a partnership!
Do one of these videos in a working-class $50-$75K a year neighborhood.
Why, so you can be inspired to be mediocre?😂 Stop being lazy and unambitious or worse, a defeatist with nothing but excuses instead of solutions. ✨✨✨
Yeah for real, I’m also not sure how relevant the opinion of millionaires are to most middle-class people who are surrounded by other middle-class people
They both have to work. Simple as that.
@@BlueLuna5 Or the woman can stop dating men with low ambition and earning power and instead choose a husband who was smart enough to figure out how to earn for the family as the head of household earner 💅🏽
@HoneyBunches100 I'm going off him being a middle class guy making 50k.
Financial growth is a real and possible endeavor but guidance makes all the difference. Managing money is different from accumulating wealth but the lack of investment education in schools may explain why people struggle to maintain their financial gains.
I think people who invest or try to build wealth should exercise caution with their exposure and when considering new investments, particularly during periods of inflation. It is advisable to seek guidance from a professional or trusted advisor in order to navigate this recession and achieve potential high yields.
This is true. However, it gets quite difficult to handle all of this, and staying informed is a major cause, how do you go about this, are you a pro investor?
I have been in touch with a Financial advisor. With a startup of $ 100 k, my advisor chooses the entry command of my portfolio which has grown to approximately $ 450 k in some weeks.
I’m intrigued by your progress. Could you share some insights into your trading strategy or perhaps recommend any specific resources or mentors that have led to your success.
I consult with:-
A rich guy wants a house wife. A broke guy wants a wife that works. That simple.
U let ur wife go outdid to work means u are allowing ur wife to screwed by other Men especially her bosses or colleagues, Simple!!
Wrong! Nothing wrong with having a stay at home wife but it's also important that the wife has her own thing going too. What would she do if something happens to the husband and he can't be physically active..
I earn a lot but I would still want a women to be self sufficient and still take care of her
Wrong. Ideal hands do the devil’s work. There isn’t enough house work once the kids start going to school. Plus you’re taking on a liability a lot of the times for simple task you can outsource for cheap.
Facts
@@tptbs66that’s cap lmao. You won’t get the best femininity from a working woman
Stay home take care of the kids run the home for a fee but not for free. A housekeeper, cook, nanny, therapist, nurse, and all the other roles a stay at home has should be compensated fairly.
Sorry, but you can't say a SAHM plays the role as a nurse. You need a college degree to be able to play a role as a nurse.
Do you need a college degree to be successful in business?@@cupcake1406
Definitely not be compensated for taking care of your own children. Are you kidding?
They are your children!!!!
What do you mean by compensated? My husband and I often joked, that it cost him nearly every penny he earned, to hire me to raise his children and warm his bed. Of course, the bank accounts are all joint, and everything is shared. Every penny I helped us save, is now net worth.
The most important thing is what the wife wants. It's her life. And choosing to not work is a huge sacrifice on her part. If one day, she needs to work, she'll have no experience and limited opportunities.
How does that make any sense if she is married to a person who has the experience and opportunities
Definitely not a sacrifice. The government will take care of her and she should be able to learn something from her husband to operate. Lastly, she probably can get another man. The man really inherits the risk. She leaves, and she gets all the benefits.
@@OptionsXenmofo of he dies then what? Don't be a dumbxss
@@tptbs66false
Because most marriages in the US end in divorce.@@OptionsXen
Of course women want to take care of the home and have her husband do the providing. Sheesh, of course ya’ll. The problem is every woman knows she’s at high risk of being discarded by age 50 and replaced with a 20 year old. If she doesn’t have a career and she selflessly signed a prenup, she will be living in a van making minimum wage somewhere with no social security and no 401k. And security is a woman’s #1 goal in life. It’s not that hard to understand why women want to avoid this situation that is all too common
If you are doing it right, you won't be discarded at 50. (I'm 53 and my husband is still smitten.) But, more important, if you are doing money right, splitting the marital assets will equal a nice chunk of cash. If my husband left me tomorrow, my half of the marital assets is enough to float me. And of course I have access to his Social Security and his 401K is marital assets, so 1/2 mine. Yes, I want security. I good marriage is one way. A fat net worth is another path. Helping my husband build that net worth by managing the household expenses well, makes him reluctant to pay out half of it, to get me to leave!
Being a stay at home wife is fine but I think all women should have their own money because you never know what could happen.
My husband wants me to not work for a few years if we have kids. But he doesn’t mind me working now
Damn I need to find an Arab guy! If the standard is be a stay at home wife, I’m down! lol
My husband and I have a great marriage because he doesn’t work me to death. We lowered our cost of living and I do all the house work and that’s good with me.
Life isn’t about the grind it’s about connection and making memories.
Yes! SAHW & Homeschooling Mom here; & I'm so very grateful!
Good for you and your husband!!
Thank God there are other people who realize that you don’t have to have everything materially to be content.
IMO most women who try to work outside their homes , raise their children, be a good wife, keep up with the family appointments etc end up totally stressed out, angry , depleted and emotionally exhausted and sometimes even physically sick.
God didn’t intend for anyone to try to do everything.
So happy for you and your husband.
Life flows so much smoother when you do things the way your family is doing them.
2nd guy.. I love how the first iteration was ‘my wife raising my kids’ and he adjusted it but it was still wrong -versus ‘us raising our kids together.’ Like you do not go with a $300,000 car and not spend just as much time with your kids as the mother does. What is the entire point of all your money. He talks about the wife like she’s some kind of add-on ancillary that handles raising the kids separate from him.
what you’re describing is called a man having a stay at home wife. Of course the mother spend more time with the kids than the father, that’s purpose of the stay at home mom.
So I’m supposed to work full time( likely more) and spend just as much time as sahm? How’s that work?
Cry feminst
It’s always men asking other men what they want a person separate from them to do and never men asking women what they want for themselves.
I think most women under 25 feel like they want to work. Eventually the commute to work 1 hour each direction, micro aggressions or outright being yelled at by a boss..or customers, being overlooked for promotions, toxic corporate culture..is not worth it. You will likely burn out by 35 or..even 27. I’d gladly be a stay at home wife. Wished I had the opportunity.
I'm 35 and I work in IT, and I'm definitely not burned out. It depends whether you really enjoy what you do. Like if you would be doing it as a hobby anyway
Your husband can make those same micro aggressions and yell at you just the same if you got the wrong husband
Haha the wine guy straight up said he wants a stay at home wife to have more control. And then SnewJ try to cover it up by saying more support. Tried to clean it up. No my boi, that’s what he meant, he WANTS To CONTROL her. Good luck with that. You aren’t finding a wife who’s going to stick around.
He said the quiet part out loud. Its why the other men laugh when they hear the question and then they proceed to give the socially acceptable response. Women better pay attention! This is the REAL reason for all of this stay at home agenda these men are pushing
As he should.
That’s the type of millionaire I would never marry. See right through that response.
Yes, some man do like to take control and this man is honest about it. I think it has to do with this man’s culture, Western woman would not like it. I’m American so I wouldn’t like that either.
@@BeverlyBijou who said he wants you lmap
I don't see an issue with being a stay at home wife at all, as long as the marriage lasts. Once the marriage is over, that's when you having been at home for years and would like to earn your own money is starting to get tough.
Love 💕 all of your videos! I replied to the first one on the topic of stay at home wives. While I was in the Marine Corps and had 1 or two part time jobs as well my husband treated me much nicer than when I became a stay at home mom. I love the ability to nurse our son, nurturing and cooking. I’d do it differently if I could… with a better husband honestly. 😅 Thank you for asking the watch maker for opportunities and ideas to start in his field. Great job as usual! I’d love a third video with the preferences. I’m super proud of you btw! 🥹😇
Good to know. I used to not want to be a stay at home mom, but now I can’t imagine someone else raising my [future] kids. I still would need to do something on the side, so that I don’t grow complacent or keep my identity in 1 area.
I feel like a video on how to meet men like the ones interviewed, would be great 😀
I used to think like that. Being a SAHM NEVER entered my mind. However, it's the very best decision I've ever made! Blessings to you for when you meet the right guy & start your family!
I would never in my life allow myself to be dependent on a man. If a man wants a woman to be a stay at home wife, then he should be fine with marrying her with no prenup imo
Be careful w this ladies. Too many stories of the man being abusive controlling cheating and the woman unable to leave or left w nothing and no work skills to be able to stand on her own. I used to think i wanted this but its too risky. Make sure youre getting your own or know for a fact you will be fine if anything happens..
There are many stories with men who are morally responsible, take excellent care of their families & appreciate their wives. I know from my own experience, family members & close friends. When both spouses work together towards the family vision; & can see being themselves & through to future generations.... these type of marriages work VERY well.
Here are some suggestions:
1. Bellevue, Washington
2. Clyde Hill, Washington
3. Redmond, Washington
4. Mercer Island, Washington
5. Issaquah, Washington
Wrong, try Medina, Washington!
Wine guy said control. No need to change the wording. It's quite obvious what he meant. I would say car sales guys, watch guy and the first guy were really cool. I liked their take on it.
Maybe. Not everyone is very eloquent. I think he meant as in control of the household, not necessarily him controlling her.
@blahblah4129
Mm, he also said, "When women get their own money, they go in the wrong direction " 😆 . Huh?
You found the ocean guy!!!!😂😂
The thing I didn’t like about being a SAHM was the control my ex-husband had. I couldn’t buy a thing without consulting with him first. That’s not the life for me. It was a full time job and we didn’t even have children.
That's sad. Not all husbands are that way. Many that I know, appreciate their wives; & are happy to give them the things (including money) that desire.
I love how many prefer BOTH wtf
So we are so supposed to be the perfect house wife and also the best career woman who is independent.
That what I’m right now. This is just how I am. I love to cook I love to clean and plus making an own income I feel so awesome and badass!
These are millionaires with millions in their bank account. I am not surprised at all. It doesn't always work out the same for net worth millionaires (that still have debt). I am a stay at home mom in a high cost of living area and will be looking for a job in order to help my husband (he doesn't seem to care anymore if I will be the one raising our kids or not since our expenses our rising).
The first one seems really genuine and kind. Hope he finds a good loving wife.
Snewj is one of the ones who inspired my channel, keep going brother!
Beautifull That mostly all of them choose stay at home wife because of kids and family. Amazing that they are still men that Love being Provider's So Dope. So True Most rich men want stay at home wives and broke men want their wives to work so true. I think it's beautiful to take the job off your wife if y'all agree and she does wife mom etc. Duties. Family is more important than jobs for most moms. Husbands mainly provide. Moms are nurturing God's way.
One guy said he wanted his wife to stay at home ao he can have more control. That's the real reason why the other guys laugh when they first hear the question. They just have to make it sound better than just control.
@@ecclairmayo4153That older gentleman is telling the truth most men are afraid to say out loud. It is about control, when wife is at home they could work overtime and have an affair. I was a massage therapist for women for 14 years, the trauma dump I got from these women on an intimate level would make any women stay single for the rest of her life. So many were rich women who were SAHM and I always hear about their husbands leaving them for a secretary, someone younger, or total abandonment. I see bruises on their bodies too..... some of them cant find a decent job after divorce. A couple of them have even applied to work at my job as receptionist or something else because their rich husbands hired the best attorneys they could find to screw their wife up even more. Those men are rich for a reason, they claw and push and climb over people to get where they want. They will use their wives the same way, she serves her purpose, and they go find another wife... like climbing the ladder.
@@ecclairmayo4153Not all men are trying to control their wives. There are some with morals & who are thinking at least 3-4 generations ahead. They want a wife who can see & help them achieve their vision.
There are selfish men, who can't see beyond themselves. Those are the ones that wise women avoid.
Money can’t love you like a woman can and doesn’t feel as good as a woman does. That’s all I really want.
Take notice that all the men who were millionaires and married with kids preferred an independent, working and educated woman. But EVERY guy who earned less than 10 figures and was unmarried wanted a "stay at home woman to take care of him." These men don't want a partner ... they are trying to replace their mother. Same thing as women who want all their bills paid are looking for a father.
And that is exactly why the nastiest divorces according to record are between stay at home wives and guys who wanted them.
Toxic people are attracted to eachother. Healed people are attracted to successful, independent adults.
Take action: Its not about tomorrow, it's not about yesterday, it's about what you do rite now.
Funny how nobody brought up remote work - tons of moms out there who WFH full-time while still balancing children👍 Even had a few who had to bottle feed children/leave for a min to tend to them during meetings
Oh wow. I've been hybrid, then fully remote since 2019. It's nearly impossible for me to work/focus with my child at home. I do have colleagues who do it with babies. With the cost of daycare, I can understand why.
Note the lawyer - his daughter is also a lawyer . Very common for dads to push their daughters
What's the point of having a child/children if someone else is going to raise him/her/them (I.e., nanny, boarding school)!? The point is to raise decent human beings not just to have a child/children because of the societal pressure.
Rich men wives don’t actually stay home because they have money to hire someone to do their house chores for them while they drink wine at the beach socializing with girlfriends.
I'M NEW TO BTC AND I'VE BEEN MAKING LOSSES TRYING TO MAKE PROFIT MYSELF IN TRADING...I THOUGHT TRADING DEMO ACCOUNT IS JUST LIKE TRADING THE REAL MARKET... CAN ANYONE HELP ME OUT OR AT LEAST ADVISE ME ON WHAT TO DO?
Well...I will advise you should stop trading on your own if you keep losing and start trading with an expert because trading with an expert is the best strategy for newbie...😊
All you need now is a professional trader esle you will continue making losses
Interesting. I have a lump sum doing absolutely nothing at all in my bank account, I wanna get something started with it. You seem to be doing excellent for yourself, how do you achieve this?
It is possible to produce superior performance provided you do something different from the majority. However, most of us tend to pay more attention to the shiniest position in the market to the cost of proper diversification.
That's true most people today have been having a lot of failure in fx and crypto sector because of had orientation and bad expert
ultimately, no one cares. Just choose the right partner for yourself.
Is it hard to find women millionaires? I would love to see some videos about that for inspiration. I do enjoy your videos.
There’s tons of woman millionaires in those areas but they mostly do ONLYFANS unfortunately.
YOUNG, BEAUTIFUL women do OnlyFans.
Unicorn
I feel like people would be upset at this answer but it’s wayy harder to find wealthy women and most of the times it’s professions that involve looks
@@kthx1138 No they don't lol I have seen botched ugly old and f@t ppl on OF smh no joke lmao
“okaaay, how bout some practical tips…” lol
I understand that there are single moms who have to work and support their children, but I do not understand why families who have a mom and a dad want to have children and let someone else or an institution raise their children,
These dudes were all so level headed and approachable. Love to see it.
Provider or nothing.
Oh lady, get to work. It's 2024!
@@alankuruvilla8939brokie 👆🏻
Love it. When the kids go to school " shes more than welcome to work".
I like how you display the job occupation right at start of interview 👍
I married at 20 and had 1st born at 21. My husband makes enough money for our family to be stable, I often do get bored at home because I’m a stay at home mom, but he’s encouraging me to get a part time job at Macys or something 😂
Interesting. I want to hear the opinion of married wealthy men who don’t want kids.
It all depends on the type of person. My mom decided to be a stay at home mom and in all honesty l can genuinely say I felt unloved and a " selfless" decision she had made for my sake, and boy did l know it. She was never physically abusive, she was at home, but she wasn't there in her soul and spirit. You can't fool children. A stay at home mom can make you feel rejected and abandoned. It has NOTHING to do with whether mom stays at home or not.
It's all about true love and passion for what you do, through every good and bad time, and the plateaus in-between.
hey we miss ur vlogs and pranks bring em back
Yess part 3 please!!
As a woman, I prefer the power couple dynamic but I would want to raise my kids.. so I would definitely work from home.. 😅
So what does snew do to be able to go around and make these video with multi millionaires
love it! u inspire me every morning dawg
it's interesting to see how real life rich men are very respectful to women, don't have a misoginistic mindset, and want to provide fully for their woman, while most broke guys are rude misoginistic and want to go 50/50.
Thanks Snewj, i always look out for your videos :))
These guys are so humble
Go to Bellevue Washington
Medina > Bellevue
What is the name of the first guy
I enjoyed this video. These guys knows what they want. Period. 🎉
The watch maker was an interesting one, I’m also attracted to watches, would be a cool hobby to join a club and learn about the history and mechanics.
On the topic of being a stay at hime wife, if I had that option, which I do, I’d choose to be the wife with a husband and children and build an empire, rather than work for a corporation, it’s nice to have your own money, but nicer to build something of your own with someone. Also women face a lot in the workforce, you can imagine the many challenges, so I understand why the man said women making her own money can be lead to other directions. It’s true, if that’s what she chooses and isn’t focused.
Go to San Diego next! La Jolla, Solana Beach, Del Mar, Rancho Santa Fe, and Coronado.
If my husband was rich, I would love to be a stay at home wife/mom. It’s a luxury these days. We’re both lucky that we have our own careers. I still see house making as another career (in addition to my work) and honestly, it’s my saving grace from corporate life. Once the last meeting wraps, I am happy to go down and cook my husband and I a snack and then cook dinner ❤
Part 3 please
First guy saying "i prefer to be single" 100 different ways
The answers were interesting. Personally for me, i am a Trad Wife (very traditional) and i do all the cooking and cleaning at home while my man is at work and im only 23. I absolutely love it! I no longer get the burnout phase from working for a CEO for a 9-5 job. I am the happiest i have ever been!
Most Middle Easterns will say they want a stay at home wife
You'll rarely hear a woman say its up to him if he wants to be a stay at home husband or work.
“Again I tell you, it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich person to enter the kingdom of God.” Matthew 19:24
I get the stay at home mom view while children aren't of school age but I think a lot of guys need to be very careful with going into that type of agreement/marriage. (Considering that the avg. divorce rate in the U.S. is over 50%, child support tends to be bias 90% of the time against fathers with (20% in most states taking the guy's income) and then some states will require the man to pay alimony based on how long their ex-wife was out of work). As wealthy as these guys are like Jeff Bezos; they are rolling some big dice with their future/existing wife will stay by their side for decades/until death. (When the average marriage is lasting shorter than it takes to get a PHD). The only other concern is; what do the stay-at-home moms do at home while the children are of school age for 8 hours a day? I don't see moms on social media posting millions of pictures once their children turn into teenagers; instead I see a lot of teenagers with parents using technology to raise them. I'd suggest these guys that want women to be stay-at-home moms to get a postnup (yep, you can have an agreement to settle things after the marriage) and prenup before the marriage. Married couples can even have in the prenup that neither person gains "x" amount of weight through the marriage; for those hyper focused on health or not getting a partner that settles into a "dad bod."
I like the idea of both working. I’m personally into independent women, thankfully i already found the sweetest soul, so we share the same interests. I can understand someone who wants a pure housewife but that’s not for me. I think women who don’t have goals and motivation to accomplish something by themselves are highly unattractive, money isn’t the issue it’s about being able to motivate yourself to do something with your life on your own. But everyone has their own preferences. If some other people pigeonhole you because you have different preferences they are just a bunch of clowns. A person who can t accept other opinions will stay broke forever mentally and financially because being close minded doesn’t get you anywhere
Wait until these men have children. Their views will change
I love hearing what people do for a living. I could listen to them all day!
I'm luvin this channel and your content. I love learning what real life people do and their views on stay at home vs working wife
Come to Florida. Also ask women questions cause they are funny in Miami
snewj let me get your opinion , i wanna start a youtube channel , whats your thoughts on these guys offering to do automation ?
I love this. It's important to be interesting and also peaceful. Whatever contributes to that is the road to take.
Stay at home all the way, and I think if all these men were not afraid of their wives (what a sad situation to be in btw) they'd firmly say " stay at home wife"
What makes them afraid of they’re wives? I think you’re afraid that if your wife works you won’t be able to control her.
And wife would firmly laugh in your face and divorce you 😂
@@XXLadyisn't that better for him lol cuz he will be actually sticking to his preferences and principles and voicing out his thoughts.
There's a million of the same women but a rich man who has principles is very rare to find.
@@XXLady then he replaces her easily 😂
@@muazunais2378a good woman is rare, good luck finding your replacement
Second guy’s answer annoyed me… he wants a determined woman but once they have kids he expects her to put her career on hold? How is that fair? If she loves her career and prefers to keep it, childcare should be an equal effort between partners. This mentality contributes to the income gap… obv if a woman is down to stay home none of this matters! However, shifting away from this mentality is productive and takes the pressure of societal norms off the woman.
I used to work at a couple of older adult communities. The one thing that I observed among the older ladies, was that the ones who stayed home & raised their kids, we're MUCH happier than the ones who didn't have kids or never stayed home with their kids. They were filled with regret. That observation greatly impacted me. I quit my career & went home to take care of my husband & babies. I haven't looked back. I enjoy my life & I am so grateful to have experienced so many firsts with my children; as well as being their primary teacher.
My career will be there; but I only have a window of time with my children. Once they've grown up, that's it. I maintain my skills by keeping my certifications current, being a part of a community of other moms who work part-time in my industry; as well as working with just a client or two at a time.
I totally get it. My husband would be unhappy married to a less intelligent woman. But he is smart enough to know that he wants his children to be raised be their Mom. It isn't about "fair" as much as "compatible life partner" and "healthy, loved children." My 20's sons express the same conflict. A future wife must be smart, but also willing to raise our children (our legacy) rather than so career focused that our kids get shuffled off to paid caregivers.
Cam was my favorite. I assumed the men would be more obnoxious but they were more laid back and introverts.
El Dorado Hills, CA!
Where's the follow up vids with Josh clean oil man?
Thank you Snew J.
The guy that said he wants a stay at home wife for "CONTROL" and stood on that ten toes down, despite thenintervier trying to help him ease his response! Interesting.