Every time I start a new playthrough I tell myself this will be the time I go out of my way to see this cutscene in game. Every time I give the first bouquet I then become too emotionally invested with my fictional relationship and refuse to betray their trust.
@@Indigo_Indignation the word is a noun that refers specifically to a group of people who are all romantically involved with each other in a polyamorous relationship. Here it is in a sentence: "I watched a movie the other night with my whole polycule, and they gave the movie mixed reviews." I thought I'd jump in because people were giving you the definition of "polyamory," not of a polycule.
Alex just goes, “What’s up!” I’m not sure if it’s supposed to be said in an accusatory tone, but it sounds too casual for confronting your lover who cheated on you with the whole town
The cutscene in that part was the rabbit foot version, not the one you get without the rabbit foot, Shane actually says “The last shred of hope I had is gone, Thanks (farmer name)”
Exactly! Polyamory for the win Edit: I say, having only ever managed to marry Maru 😅 I’m working on getting hearts up with the ones I want to romance on a modded file
I want to do this, but also, I feel the need to point out, theres a mod that lets you marry everyone and they each get their own spouse room... Which leads to whats basically a giant hallway of spouse rooms lmao
i did this with the bachelors and it's really funny that your house basically doubles in length. robin shaking and crying about me getting free house upgrades because i married another man
You know what it's so funny I thought I was gonna get caught since I got all bachelorettes in full hearts (forgot that I only recently divorced one of them) and they were all walking in a line and came out of Emily n Hailey's house, it was so funny but didn't say a thing and they were all walking in line til they all went to ginger island lol Edit: Whoa, the likes... I swear if only I can show you guys a video of this LOL
Without the rabbit foot Everyone: we hate you and won't take your gifts 😠 With the rabbit foot Everyone: Sure, we'll agree to being your harem, no problem 👍
Pero solo puedes casarte con uno? O queda sin efecto ? Le di para salir a 4 chicos no me atrevo a darle los demás ajajajaja pero no quiero perderme las escenas del juego 😂😂😂
I did this in my "evil" save on stream! I got both "bad" events and then reset the day to get the "good" ones, so I could see both ;) then I married Abigail, turned our child into a dove, divorced her, and moved krobus in. I also sold out to joja, tormented the mayor with the purple shorts at every opportunity, and turned all the legendary fish into sushi, and even got the "haunted doll" Easter egg at the witch's hut. I've never played that way, but it was actually really fun once I disassociated 🤣
This reminds me of persona 5 royal if you romance all the possible options, and you max them all out, they’ll confront you on Valentine’s Day, and you might get beaten up if you play your cards wrong, lol
Broo I've always wanted to try going that P5 route so I could "work for" & see that cutscene for myself, but I keep getting distracted throughout the rest of the game lol
The first time I played Stardew Valley it was with my gf, it's her favorite game, so I played with her. I didn't understand how the game worked and she basically took care of our farm alone and did everything, while I got out and started dating everyone in the city because I wanted to know the gossip (Except Elliot, he is my gf's favorite so I didn't date him, but I dated everyone else that was single). After every cutscene I would tell her what happened and gossip with her, because since she always dates Elliot, she didn't know the outcome of other characters if you date them even after playing this game lots of times. She was the one that told me about the rabbit's foot. So once I died in the cave and Linus stole my rabbit foot, I was so desperate and afraid of this cutscene I never left our farm for days and it was the first time I took care of the crops and the animals and did everything in the farm instead or her. My gf just laughed at me 😂 (I got another rabbit foor later tho)
I'm curious to know if you can date ALMOST all of them? What would happen? Do you also get confronted? Cause I don't think I wanna date them all either.
@@IGOTTRIXUPMYSLEEVE Sorry i'm late but thanks! I ended up dating all the girls and almost all the boys and that cutscene only got triggered with the girls so I can confirm it 👏🏻 Also stopped playing because I reached 100% perfection so...(not trying to brag but yeah...maybe a little bit)🤭
Theres irony in this: The bachelors and bachelorettes when you're dating everyone: HOW COULD YOU!? Them when you marry every Bachelor and Bachelorette: Cool
@@zombie2360 The channel "TheProphercy" made a short that involved marrying every single marriage candidate, and they didn't get mad over the other marriage candidates
Hah, I dated everybody because I wanted to see all their heart events, but I was always planning on marrying Maru. So basically the moment I finished getting the last event, it was a speed-run to marriage and almost no opening for getting caught.😂
I just wanted to be nice to Linus since he seems so lonely and I thought it could teach me some stuff from the woods and now I think he's in love with me 😂
I remember going for the friends with everyone achievements, being confused by the conditions, so in my main seed I am married to Emily and dating everyone else. Lol
I did this on accident. I casually got everyone to 10 hearts because I couldn't decide who I wanted to marry and was more focused on restoring the community center anyhow. Had the rabbit's foot on me for the center and went into the saloon. I just assumed it was an event that I messed up because everyone was there, but there wasn't anything really happening. 😅
Seeing that galaxy-themed hotel in France doing the concept so well... come on... *let an unofficial Star Wars experience happen. You don’t need the Mouse’s fortune to make something interactive, visually appealing, and that actually works.* The Mouse *had* its fortune and didn’t even make it work.
lol I can’t be the only one who noticed during the cutscene Shane’s just there. “Oh hey” like bro was just told to show up and he didn’t really care what was happening 😭
Does anyone else really wish for polyamory in the vanilla game? Not just for representation, but content as well? I don’t want to break up with everyone just to get the full experience. I want to keep my wives and husbands! (and maybe let them date each other. Idk.) The event here just implies that with the lucky rabbits foot, you increased your luck enough for them to not catch on to you. I want there to be vanilla dialogue where they acknowledge each other as metamours/partners, not just “haha you could cheat and not get caught cause you were lucky!”
@@Fewix_ Ah. If that’s the way for you, I won’t judge. Polyamory is just my preference because that’s just how I like it. I like to have multiple partners and I absolutely ADORE it when my partner finds other partners. For me, more love from a metamor does not mean less love for me. It just means more for them.
Considering all of them are bisexual allosexual/alloromantic and all of them would decide to date and marry u... Idk I think expecting them to all be polyamorous wouldn't be so far fetched. Additionally the idea of "well maybe some are poly but some are monogamous" but why isn't there any strictly straight or strictly gay or strictly aromantic or strictly asexual characters then? Heh, actually it would be pretty cool If u had to use the rabbits foot just to date certain characters and be lucky enough that they are into u even with preferences, that would be more realistic! X3
@@Br0kenMask dawg Leah’s ex when you reach 8 hearts comes up and is a non binary character it’s not like they don’t know how to make androgynous characters
ok sorry if this is dumb but she said “if ur not married” so like if you are you can just date everyone or does the option for love events go away? also what if its just 2 or not all people? ive never played stardew
There's a mod called the free love mod where the cutscenes triggers but they all expect to have u marry everyone to be equal and then u live in a giant house together.
THANKS!I'll keep a rabbits foot 👣 in my inventory but anyways I won't need it because thier is no way I'm Dating Shane the alcoholic and penny the worst Bachelorette in the game.But thanks 👍 Lummi.
Polygamy mode, really, since it's the farmer in an individual relationship with each person. Polyamory would be everyone dating each other, as well as the farmer. But you need mods for that one.
i always play with the polyamory mod and even still i keep at least one rabbits foot on me at all times 😭 im too paranoid, if this event happens to me ill be so crushed
@@TheLittleRedVixenit doesn't have to be, there's very few but there are people out there in healthy relationships of 10+, I've never seen past 12 people but since 13 is just one over it's not too crazy. There was even an episode of an adult animated comedy with the main characters secret sister actually had 12 adopted dad's that were all married and worried about her. I'd say anything past 20 is definitely pushing it but if people are infact actually happy and healthy and managing their relationships then who are we to interfere? As u said a cult would be bad, I agree, but any number of people even just two dating together can be in a love cult and it can be harmful, I don't think the number decides that, the individuals and their boundaries and their needs and what they and their heart's are capable of is what decides it.
@hypnopompicfool985 I was saying it as a joke. However, you still shouldn't compare an animated fictional show as the real thing and while you see this 12 poly relationship to be healthy on the outside, there is going to be things you don't know what's going on behind close doors. Studies have shown the most close friends you can have is 5. Any more than this your going to have a very hard time maintaining your life as well as your friendships. Now imagine that with 12 people with different personalities. Someone is either going to be left out or gonna cause drama. To be honest, a 12 poly relationship doesn't seem to be a deeply meaningful relationship and more of a large friend group with benefits. However, I'm not bashing poly relationships as I've seen three people love each other equally and seem to be going great but anything upwards of five I'm going to have my doubts.
Every time I start a new playthrough I tell myself this will be the time I go out of my way to see this cutscene in game. Every time I give the first bouquet I then become too emotionally invested with my fictional relationship and refuse to betray their trust.
OMG SAME!! I make an "evil" playthrough, aim to date someone I haven't yet and then feel SO GUILTY after their 10-heart event 😭
SAME LOL
You're a truly good person 😊
The true monogamite.
Lol I can’t even be evil in BitLife😂 I always feel so guilty if I commit a crime! Especially when I have kids!
The rabbits foot turns everyone in the town into a polycule
It's the most powerful item
...may I ask what a polycule is? I'm unfamiliar with the term.
@@Indigo_Indignationit's basically where a group of people are all dating, or multiple people dating one.person, etc.
@@Indigo_Indignation it's when you have 2+or more SOs :p
@@Indigo_Indignation the word is a noun that refers specifically to a group of people who are all romantically involved with each other in a polyamorous relationship. Here it is in a sentence: "I watched a movie the other night with my whole polycule, and they gave the movie mixed reviews."
I thought I'd jump in because people were giving you the definition of "polyamory," not of a polycule.
The rest of the saloon:"I CANT BELIEVE YOU DONE THIS"
Shane:"oh hey"
he’s like: “I expected this, I’m unlovable 😐”
Alex just goes, “What’s up!” I’m not sure if it’s supposed to be said in an accusatory tone, but it sounds too casual for confronting your lover who cheated on you with the whole town
@@You-are-definitely-right-buthe was nervous
The cutscene in that part was the rabbit foot version, not the one you get without the rabbit foot, Shane actually says “The last shred of hope I had is gone, Thanks (farmer name)”
@@somerobloxdude3699ouch
The farmer: Y'all can't dump me I got a rabbit foot!
The people: Oh well.... 😊
The rabbit:GIVE ME MY FOOT
Fr
Nah
Nah that rabbit gave me its foot. Or it like...fell off. I don't know why rabbits feet fall off in the coop but its not my problem.
@@Blaze5x5x5I think they just call it a rabbit's foot. Personally, I think it's a tuff of fur.
She use a mod. That when you get that cutscene everyone will marry you.😅
Yes this actually works, seems like a hassle so I just use the free love mod to wife everyone up
Exactly! Polyamory for the win
Edit: I say, having only ever managed to marry Maru 😅
I’m working on getting hearts up with the ones I want to romance on a modded file
... 🤢
@@carythacker8049 ❄
@@Cat_InAHatI do the whole polyamory thing IRL I have 2 partners maybe more if we find the right person one day but i suppose only time will tell
Including the dudes they get wifed up aswell
Solution to not getting dumped FEET
Just like real life 😀
@@Kino_CartoonHELP
thank you for making this comment@@Kino_Cartoon
LEO?!
@@Kino_CartoonMORT JS THAT YOU?!?!
OMG... if you play as a guy and date all the guys, Alex has completely different dialogue and it is heart-wrenching.
What does it say?
WHAT DOES IT SAY
@@time_to_rui-n_your_life player? i thought we were 'one of a kind'... but you were just using me?
@@dirkjake that hurts omfg ALEX NOOO
Oh I saw that, it was bad 😢
"Wait, you're dating... *Everyone?"*
the god has left the valley
Yoba*
@@bayapinia1399why does that translate into “whether*” ????
Smash Bros Ultimate theme starts
Gonna catch them all
I want to do this, but also, I feel the need to point out, theres a mod that lets you marry everyone and they each get their own spouse room... Which leads to whats basically a giant hallway of spouse rooms lmao
I want this but I need my own computer so I'm not sucking up my roommate's data
What mod is it?
free love@@JETT-Roid
@@JETT-RoidI heard on other comments it's called the free love mod but idk more than that
i did this with the bachelors and it's really funny that your house basically doubles in length. robin shaking and crying about me getting free house upgrades because i married another man
You know what it's so funny I thought I was gonna get caught since I got all bachelorettes in full hearts (forgot that I only recently divorced one of them) and they were all walking in a line and came out of Emily n Hailey's house, it was so funny but didn't say a thing and they were all walking in line til they all went to ginger island lol
Edit: Whoa, the likes... I swear if only I can show you guys a video of this LOL
which one did u divorce?
It doesnt trigger if you married someone already I believe
@@MellowGirl2000yeah but at the mean time I haven't proposed to one of them yet lol, luckily it got back to 0 hearts with my ex-wife
@@ilikedinosaurs392 Emily, it's such a pain to do the divorce tbh
@@aljonserna5598any reason why you divorced her?
Without the rabbit foot
Everyone: we hate you and won't take your gifts 😠
With the rabbit foot
Everyone: Sure, we'll agree to being your harem, no problem 👍
"I am the village."
I accidentally triggered the scene at Emily's house on my first play through, and i was so scared that I immediately closed the game 😅
Same
Rabbits foot, the key to a happy, poly relationship.
Or just ignore Harvey...
Yes. But personally I ignore Alex. Its weird to date him because he looks like my brother and has my nephews name
Harvey cute tho
@@savagecabbage1184 he gives DILF vibes tho
@@KORONORI_YTwho says that’s a bad thing lol
@@thatsprettygaybro3954 that's what I'm saying
So, to be in a successful polycule relationship I must obtain a rabbit foot!
Well, and a polycule, but the rabbits foot could definitely be of use there
So is you have a rabbit foot you can have a HARE- m if you will (pls get the joke )
why'd this make me laugh .
Dam that's really clever of you 💀
roger ebert gives this comment 2 thumbs up. astonishing
En conclusión. Si tienes la pata de conejo, tienes un harem
Pero solo puedes casarte con uno? O queda sin efecto ? Le di para salir a 4 chicos no me atrevo a darle los demás ajajajaja pero no quiero perderme las escenas del juego 😂😂😂
If Alex is the last one you start to date, the cutscene is unavoidable. Even if you have the rabbit’s foot, it will still happen.
I did this in my "evil" save on stream! I got both "bad" events and then reset the day to get the "good" ones, so I could see both ;) then I married Abigail, turned our child into a dove, divorced her, and moved krobus in.
I also sold out to joja, tormented the mayor with the purple shorts at every opportunity, and turned all the legendary fish into sushi, and even got the "haunted doll" Easter egg at the witch's hut. I've never played that way, but it was actually really fun once I disassociated 🤣
And this is how I started a valley wide cult
This reminds me of persona 5 royal if you romance all the possible options, and you max them all out, they’ll confront you on Valentine’s Day, and you might get beaten up if you play your cards wrong, lol
Persona 4 and I think Persona 3 also have this scene, as far as I know it has no consequences in game, but the weight on the conscience remains
If you play your cards right can you get a harem
Broo I've always wanted to try going that P5 route so I could "work for" & see that cutscene for myself, but I keep getting distracted throughout the rest of the game lol
The first time I played Stardew Valley it was with my gf, it's her favorite game, so I played with her. I didn't understand how the game worked and she basically took care of our farm alone and did everything, while I got out and started dating everyone in the city because I wanted to know the gossip (Except Elliot, he is my gf's favorite so I didn't date him, but I dated everyone else that was single). After every cutscene I would tell her what happened and gossip with her, because since she always dates Elliot, she didn't know the outcome of other characters if you date them even after playing this game lots of times. She was the one that told me about the rabbit's foot. So once I died in the cave and Linus stole my rabbit foot, I was so desperate and afraid of this cutscene I never left our farm for days and it was the first time I took care of the crops and the animals and did everything in the farm instead or her. My gf just laughed at me 😂 (I got another rabbit foor later tho)
[Lucky foot]
Imagine if this was posted in April 1st and the rabbit foot didn’t actually work
I'm curious to know if you can date ALMOST all of them? What would happen? Do you also get confronted? Cause I don't think I wanna date them all either.
I was wondering too! I think it's only triggered if its _everyone,_ but I wouldn't risk it lol. Try checking the wiki, maybe it'll be there!!
So what happens if you date all of them while married?
@@vronica4163 Tried it and pretty sure it doesn't trigger unless you catch them all lol
@@IGOTTRIXUPMYSLEEVE Sorry i'm late but thanks! I ended up dating all the girls and almost all the boys and that cutscene only got triggered with the girls so I can confirm it 👏🏻
Also stopped playing because I reached 100% perfection so...(not trying to brag but yeah...maybe a little bit)🤭
That’s actually a really funny detail
Theres irony in this:
The bachelors and bachelorettes when you're dating everyone: HOW COULD YOU!?
Them when you marry every Bachelor and Bachelorette: Cool
Wait can you actually marry ever single one? Without it being like…. Bad? Like they all divorce you 💀?
@@zombie2360 The channel "TheProphercy" made a short that involved marrying every single marriage candidate, and they didn't get mad over the other marriage candidates
Yes, you can, Theprophecy made a video about marrying all of the spouses in Stardew Valley
Im surprised that penny doesn't see through it, considering she hates rabbits feet
I think it has to do with luck rather than them liking it or not.
Yeah if you have the cutscene you are just considered lucky, they don’t actually see the rabbits foot, they just don’t know you’re dating all of them
You should be allowed to have a polycule with select characters. That’s my dream
I'm glad you put select characters because it'd be weird with some combinations
Hah, I dated everybody because I wanted to see all their heart events, but I was always planning on marrying Maru. So basically the moment I finished getting the last event, it was a speed-run to marriage and almost no opening for getting caught.😂
The one one who will still be mad at you is the rabbit
"Completely blind to your inferti-"
Lmao this is gold
Soooo always have protection of you're gonna be the towns bicycle
Lummi: okay so here’s how to get a harem!
I choose to believe the rabbit's foot makes it so they just happen to find common ground and are chill knowing about whats happening.
That rabbit said; what's up doc? one to many times.
It’s giving that one news report of a guy dating 35 woman to get gifts 😭‼️
The fact you can do that is funny
me building up my harem thanks to the rabbits foot
Stardewtaker
time to be chaotic
Thats why you keep your secret families in separate towns!!
The Rabbits Foot the perfect get out of the jail free card
I should try this on my playthrough.
The smell of blood coming from the foot will make them not talk about it
I just wanted to be nice to Linus since he seems so lonely and I thought it could teach me some stuff from the woods and now I think he's in love with me 😂
When all the women say it's yours:
"Nah sorry, i gotta go milk my cow first"
I remember going for the friends with everyone achievements, being confused by the conditions, so in my main seed I am married to Emily and dating everyone else. Lol
Fun mod fact, the rabbit foot trick works in SV Expanded if you date both Victor and Olivia
I like that it’s considered “good luck” that the entire valley just goes, hey, our girlfriend is here!
I like to think that instead they are all talking about their relationship with you and fawning lol
"How to be a mormon in stardew valley"
Stardew Valley Dating Polyamory%. Best Ending Confirmed.
They be living that harem lifestyle consequence free
This is hilarious to learn, but I'm staying true to Shane lol
I did this on accident.
I casually got everyone to 10 hearts because I couldn't decide who I wanted to marry and was more focused on restoring the community center anyhow.
Had the rabbit's foot on me for the center and went into the saloon.
I just assumed it was an event that I messed up because everyone was there, but there wasn't anything really happening. 😅
I did not know my actions have consequences.
Time to do a cheater speedrun
Seeing that galaxy-themed hotel in France doing the concept so well... come on... *let an unofficial Star Wars experience happen. You don’t need the Mouse’s fortune to make something interactive, visually appealing, and that actually works.* The Mouse *had* its fortune and didn’t even make it work.
What...
So fun fact, this was meant for a different video,
lol I can’t be the only one who noticed during the cutscene Shane’s just there. “Oh hey” like bro was just told to show up and he didn’t really care what was happening 😭
Or I'll just use a Polyamory mod.
When your so indecisive you marry everyone
Does anyone else really wish for polyamory in the vanilla game? Not just for representation, but content as well? I don’t want to break up with everyone just to get the full experience. I want to keep my wives and husbands! (and maybe let them date each other. Idk.) The event here just implies that with the lucky rabbits foot, you increased your luck enough for them to not catch on to you. I want there to be vanilla dialogue where they acknowledge each other as metamours/partners, not just “haha you could cheat and not get caught cause you were lucky!”
I'd feel terrible in this kind of relationship
@@Fewix_ Why? Is it personal preference?
@@Gacha_Otomen you can't give enough attention to everyone, and being the receiving end of it is miserable imo
@@Fewix_ Ah. If that’s the way for you, I won’t judge. Polyamory is just my preference because that’s just how I like it. I like to have multiple partners and I absolutely ADORE it when my partner finds other partners. For me, more love from a metamor does not mean less love for me. It just means more for them.
"Completely blind to your infidelity"
Bruh... 💀
I always saw it as just being lucky that everyone just happened to be into polyamory, because that would be pretty damn lucky
Considering all of them are bisexual allosexual/alloromantic and all of them would decide to date and marry u... Idk I think expecting them to all be polyamorous wouldn't be so far fetched. Additionally the idea of "well maybe some are poly but some are monogamous" but why isn't there any strictly straight or strictly gay or strictly aromantic or strictly asexual characters then?
Heh, actually it would be pretty cool
If u had to use the rabbits foot just to date certain characters and be lucky enough that they are into u even with preferences, that would be more realistic! X3
Shane is just like: oh, whatever.
XD
I'm never early, IM SCARED
Shane just being unfazed with the "oh,hey"😭😭😭
Why can’t games just let me have harems 😒
Lummi I love your videos and you inspired me to buy stardew valley on my ps5 thanks for inspiring me and enjoy me being a new subscriber
I thought this game was about farming
reminds me of that datamined persona 5 cutsecne where everyone is fine with you dating everyone
Stardew needs to add Androgynous Character Customization
y’all constantly want representation this is why people dont like your community 💀
And more krobus dialouge
Real
Like what??
doubt that ever gonna happen.
@@Br0kenMask dawg Leah’s ex when you reach 8 hearts comes up and is a non binary character it’s not like they don’t know how to make androgynous characters
I can not imagine choosing to not give your whole heart to penny
Tysm omg ima sub
I like to think the mobs are just as confused as you are
"Let me fix that" *Polys your dating sim*
Time to start franchising my kids
we want the gigapoly
“They’ll be completely blind to your infidelity-“
You interpreted it as not being caught? I always thought this was a big polycule lol
LMAO yeah i figured they just had no idea but your depiction is more fun😂
Rabbit's foot in short enables harem mode 😂
ok sorry if this is dumb but she said “if ur not married” so like if you are you can just date everyone or does the option for love events go away? also what if its just 2 or not all people? ive never played stardew
Lucky rabbit foot headcanon
They've all just decided to be content in a poly relationship
I was wishing there was a way to be poly in stardew lol
There's a mod called the free love mod where the cutscenes triggers but they all expect to have u marry everyone to be equal and then u live in a giant house together.
They *knew* that players would visit Emily and Haley’s house the most
The best way to stay away from this cutscene is to steer clear of Harvey nothing special about him
I will not say sorry I stand by my decision
I was expecting a ...... different outcome.
THANKS!I'll keep a rabbits foot 👣 in my inventory but anyways I won't need it because thier is no way I'm Dating Shane the alcoholic and penny the worst Bachelorette in the game.But thanks 👍 Lummi.
I see this as the poly ending
Damn, the lucky rabbits foot enables polyamory mode.
polyamory? really? 💀
Polygamy mode, really, since it's the farmer in an individual relationship with each person. Polyamory would be everyone dating each other, as well as the farmer. But you need mods for that one.
@@Connor_Tyler poly is just a joke
More like polygamy mode
@@emmuzboosh ... That's the. Same thing?
Stardew Valley's only flaw: monogamy
i always play with the polyamory mod and even still i keep at least one rabbits foot on me at all times 😭 im too paranoid, if this event happens to me ill be so crushed
If the event happens in the free love mod the event ends in them saying "well now you gotta marry all of us"
Lol its not even a choice anymore.
It feels illegal to be this early 😭
The short above this, humorously, featured a Kirby character named Haley.
No way😮
“the girls will be hanging around emily and haley’s table gossiping, completely blind to your infidel-“
HELP THE CUT OFF 😭 i’d feel so bad lmfao
I want a haley dating sim
I like to think the rabbit's foot doesn't make them blind, it makes them poly
i wanna date them all without feeling like a dirty cheater 😭 why can't all 13 of us be in a happy poli relationship?
There's a mod for that
If your dating 13 people at the same time at that point it's a love cult
@@TheLittleRedVixenit doesn't have to be, there's very few but there are people out there in healthy relationships of 10+, I've never seen past 12 people but since 13 is just one over it's not too crazy. There was even an episode of an adult animated comedy with the main characters secret sister actually had 12 adopted dad's that were all married and worried about her. I'd say anything past 20 is definitely pushing it but if people are infact actually happy and healthy and managing their relationships then who are we to interfere? As u said a cult would be bad, I agree, but any number of people even just two dating together can be in a love cult and it can be harmful, I don't think the number decides that, the individuals and their boundaries and their needs and what they and their heart's are capable of is what decides it.
@hypnopompicfool985 I was saying it as a joke. However, you still shouldn't compare an animated fictional show as the real thing and while you see this 12 poly relationship to be healthy on the outside, there is going to be things you don't know what's going on behind close doors.
Studies have shown the most close friends you can have is 5. Any more than this your going to have a very hard time maintaining your life as well as your friendships. Now imagine that with 12 people with different personalities. Someone is either going to be left out or gonna cause drama.
To be honest, a 12 poly relationship doesn't seem to be a deeply meaningful relationship and more of a large friend group with benefits.
However, I'm not bashing poly relationships as I've seen three people love each other equally and seem to be going great but anything upwards of five I'm going to have my doubts.
I get to invested in my virtual relationships, I would actually be physically crushed if I dared to even try and break their trust
Say it with me now:
Polyamorous👏relationships👏are👏valid
This is not polygamy.
You have to agree to it
This is cheating since you told NOBODY about it
Agreed, they should give us the proper option to ask them all out together and not have it be a secret.