How To Flirt Without Being A Creep

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  • @MrBoomie00
    @MrBoomie00 3 роки тому +8109

    That tight ass shirt is flirting with the end of its life.

    • @Squirrel-zq6oe
      @Squirrel-zq6oe 2 роки тому +187

      Omg 💀

    • @freshjuicee1071
      @freshjuicee1071 2 роки тому +115

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @leoncray9227
      @leoncray9227 2 роки тому

      Buddy need a inhaler after this conversation video

    • @rockfresh1993
      @rockfresh1993 Рік тому +77

      My goodness 😂😂

    • @JohnDoe-ov3kz
      @JohnDoe-ov3kz Рік тому +69

      That tight ass shirt is just one more way to flirt... guys tryna show off his guns.

  • @phd_phd
    @phd_phd Рік тому +484

    Tom Platz said i needed to acheive failure, thats what im intending to

  • @ThebestOne-sc6uo
    @ThebestOne-sc6uo 6 місяців тому +2911

    Revandles forbidden books (thank me later)

    • @kzukiodenthechad7205
      @kzukiodenthechad7205 5 місяців тому +4

      Is Revandle the Author?

    • @markjones42115
      @markjones42115 5 місяців тому

      @@kzukiodenthechad7205 Revandles is website for books, these books are awesome, I was so bad with girls, after these few books I'm starting to get better

    • @jarlkraft
      @jarlkraft 5 місяців тому

      @@kzukiodenthechad7205its a bot scammer

    • @NoobheadGaming
      @NoobheadGaming 5 місяців тому +1

      THANK YOU

    • @markjones42115
      @markjones42115 5 місяців тому

      @@kzukiodenthechad7205 Revandles is website for books

  • @RaktimRanjanBordoloi
    @RaktimRanjanBordoloi Рік тому +259

    Already did everything you said not to, now she's my girlfriend 💀

    • @muneka
      @muneka 7 місяців тому +12

      King ❤

    • @iiTzLurks
      @iiTzLurks 7 місяців тому

      Did everything still nothing thinking I should kms

    • @RicardoHernandez-zr1pw
      @RicardoHernandez-zr1pw 6 місяців тому +7

      Break up with her and be free instead 😂

    • @schnupfi419
      @schnupfi419 4 місяці тому +16

      Becuase he is talking soooo much bullshit. Same for me, watched sone videos and i did the exact opposit and thats how i got my gf, we are now 3 years together.

    • @suhtangwong
      @suhtangwong 4 місяці тому

      That means she's 🚩!

  • @TheRealQuinten
    @TheRealQuinten Рік тому +654

    Bro I’m 6’3, buff, pretty good looking, and I’m successful. I’ve gotten away with some of the absolute dumbest shit and I even got a girl to laugh flirtatiously when I started talking about legos. It is absolutely down to how you look so fellas I can’t stress enough to stop paying attention to cheap hook up hacks. Get your ass in the gym, start taking care of your hygiene, work on your career, buy better clothes, talk to a therapist, and start building social skills.

    • @KingKoalafied
      @KingKoalafied Рік тому +82

      As a 6'2 decently jacked guy, thats fucking true. I mean that other shit is important but women will put up with a fucking LOT of u are in good shape and tall. I literally made a fucking fart joke at a party that was stupid as shit, and one that my friend made like min before that they didnt give a shit about and the girl STILL came up and acted like it was the funniest shit ever

    • @milesjoshua7755
      @milesjoshua7755 Рік тому +90

      As a 7’5 300lbs dark handsome man I completely agree. I’m constantly fighting off women and want it to stop. I need a video on how to get these hoes offa me 😂🤞

    • @50centricher9
      @50centricher9 Рік тому +25

      for real tho im not gonna put on an act and play a character just to get a woman's approval... if she don't like me for who i already am then i dont want her

    • @themasculinesociety
      @themasculinesociety Рік тому +63

      as a 7'1 man who is still considered short in the netherlands undergoing my limb lenghtening surgery to be at least 7'7, I can confirm that I finally get women to be friends with me.

    • @sammy2954
      @sammy2954 Рік тому +17

      @@themasculinesociety😂😂😂

  • @keifer7813
    @keifer7813 Рік тому +146

    Everyone avoiding coming off as a creep meanwhile I embrace it. Creeps need some love too

    • @KIDSOUL777
      @KIDSOUL777 11 місяців тому +32

      Then you must get ready for the authorities to start having conversations with you. 😆🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @TimTeebone
      @TimTeebone 6 місяців тому +13

      FBI: write that down

    • @cash950
      @cash950 5 місяців тому

      @@TimTeebone😂😂

    • @mateaukalua4426
      @mateaukalua4426 4 місяці тому

      Please let the police know your location and name.

    • @keifer7813
      @keifer7813 4 місяці тому +3

      Guys, being a creep doesn't mean breaking the law lol

  • @dominickpadilla2107
    @dominickpadilla2107 Рік тому +155

    Step 1: drop this advice
    Step 2: Only date if there’s high levels of attraction and genuine compassion for each other, there will be no need for these flirting games

  • @apachewraith
    @apachewraith Рік тому +1161

    "Creep" means unattractive. Attractive men can flirt however they want, or not even flirt at all, and smash on day 1

    • @TheRealMcFIy
      @TheRealMcFIy Рік тому +65

      Facts works well.

    • @dobridjordje
      @dobridjordje Рік тому +113

      Nope. That's just gross unbacked generalization of how attraction works, stop the cope

    • @apachewraith
      @apachewraith Рік тому +34

      @@dobridjordje 😴

    • @dobridjordje
      @dobridjordje Рік тому +9

      @@apachewraith Tranquilizer B)

    • @apachewraith
      @apachewraith Рік тому +12

      @@dobridjordje Yes, you're so interesting I couldn't keep from losing consciousness 😴

  • @jaykay030
    @jaykay030 2 роки тому +1105

    Say "that's cute" instead of "you're cute", if you make a risky remark, play if of as a joke (right after in a confident fun way, don't leave room for things to get awkward in that situation and do not lower your voice when saying you're just messing around). Instead of thinking "this dude just wants so fuck me" she'll have to wonder if that's your intention and she might feel a little disappointed you immediately shut off the green light again.
    And always remember to listen and to back off if she says she's not interested. Your worth is not determined by the people who reject you and you will find someone who you have chemistry with.

    • @FranSanTeeth90
      @FranSanTeeth90 2 роки тому +19

      This is spot on.
      The OP was on some nonsense.
      A guy can think you're fun and want to be around you but not feel any real attraction.
      Women aren't mind-readers!
      The OP is saying "never, ever".
      But "that's cute" is a breadcrumb in the best way.

    • @bunxsx475
      @bunxsx475 Рік тому +20

      I like this comment. Whenever I get complimented by things I do like, “Your laugh is cute.” Or “It’s so cute when you do that.” It makes me feel some kind of way haha. I think it’s because it’s the fact that the guy is noticing small things about me instead of saying, “hey beautiful.” “You’re really attractive.” “You’re cute.” In some ways, it does work. But it does make me feel like they have intentions for just a hookup which isn’t much of a turn on honestly. I’m pretty sure most women tend to prefer to hookup with men if they can see themselves in a relationship with him. So, noticing the small things like her outfit, her smile, the way she spins when she’s happy, or her interests. It can really start up something!

    • @an_alley_kat
      @an_alley_kat Рік тому +11

      As a girl, I would fall in love if I guy said “That’s cute” to me. It’s nice and sweet and y’all look cute saying it and it’s not coming off too strong but well enough to understand what you mean. Good luck guys I’m rooting for you 💪

    • @JAMMzMHW
      @JAMMzMHW Рік тому +8

      "play it off as a joke" the universal get out of jail free card that allows you to say absolutely whatever you want with no consequences because "it's a joke right?"
      That never works on me, it's one of my biggest pet peeves, when someone says something stupid or offensive and then plays it off like a joke, and then continues to blame you like you can't take a joke.

    • @tomguglielmo9805
      @tomguglielmo9805 Рік тому +3

      ​@@JAMMzMHWthank you. Yup always hate the "it's a prank bro" mentality. Ik it's not quite the same, but I just see it that way. At what point do people seem genuine? Sadly this isn't the populous mentality. Most people love a jokester

  • @ModernDatingMastery
    @ModernDatingMastery 3 місяці тому +5

    *It’s so important to know how to flirt without crossing boundaries. The advice about starting with light-hearted conversation and gradually escalating is spot on.*

  • @Feanor1992
    @Feanor1992 Рік тому +112

    I'd rather play a game on my computer than with a stranger over text messages.

    • @TheWreckingball180
      @TheWreckingball180 11 місяців тому +13

      Me too. Talking to girls is such a waste of time.

    • @borkistshorts7267
      @borkistshorts7267 9 місяців тому

      Watching VHS tapes of Rammstein in the 90's and 00's is a much better use of time@@TheWreckingball180

    • @jackmorris1068
      @jackmorris1068 5 місяців тому

      Stop lying what you hear for then? 😂😂​@@TheWreckingball180

    • @boogeyman2868
      @boogeyman2868 4 місяці тому

      @@TheWreckingball180 yea man women are just the soil we plant our seeds in. us nerds are so much awesomer

  • @brettnelson7518
    @brettnelson7518 Рік тому +98

    Never tell a girl they are attractive at all. They'll hold it over your head.

    • @Ash_Wen-li
      @Ash_Wen-li Рік тому +27

      You can admit she's attractive but don't do it early and don't act like it's a big deal

    • @moneymakinmitch8130
      @moneymakinmitch8130 Рік тому +12

      You can tell a girl she’s fine or whatever just don’t do it in a simpish ass way. Don’t make it a big deal and don’t treat her like she’s above you

    • @JhonnyStone100
      @JhonnyStone100 Рік тому +7

      i only let her know i think she’s pretty in the beginning once or twice to show i’m interested. don’t compliment again

    • @brettnelson7518
      @brettnelson7518 Рік тому +5

      @@Ash_Wen-li Yeah, I really meant you shouldn't when first meeting a girl. Your best bet is act like you have little interest, especially with the most attractive woman. 90% of men are intimidated around an attractive woman and they go through many emotions like feeling nervous, shy, overly excited or afraid of rejection. Not showing any of these emotions makes you stand out from 99% of men.

    • @brettnelson7518
      @brettnelson7518 Рік тому +3

      @@JhonnyStone100 I have more success not letting girls think I'm interested. Alot of times I don't even ask girls for their numbers. They usually will ask for mine or ask me to come over.

  • @razbenhaim6651
    @razbenhaim6651 3 роки тому +1599

    Give examples of being less direct in the flirting...

    • @nxet2669
      @nxet2669 2 роки тому +279

      If she has green dress on. You can say suddenly green is my favorite color. That’s an example Formula

    • @nxet2669
      @nxet2669 2 роки тому +2

      @@bmgfrosty7089 lol my D wasn’t dry after I used that example

    • @SparrowValentine
      @SparrowValentine 2 роки тому +253

      Point out a specific part about her that you find attractive.
      Instead of saying "you're beautiful", you can say "your smile is nice", or "I like what you've done with your hair" (this one is very cliche, sorry lmao), or compliment her outfit/accessories "I like that necklace you're wearing, it brings out your eyes" (or whatever really).
      All in all, just be respectful.

    • @ThorOdinson1269
      @ThorOdinson1269 2 роки тому

      @@bmgfrosty7089 Her vagina would get drier than the Sahara desert.

    • @ThorOdinson1269
      @ThorOdinson1269 2 роки тому +280

      @@SparrowValentine
      Me: "Did you bathe today"
      Her internally: "Wtf do I smell?"
      Me: "Yeah, me too."

  • @Yetti12912
    @Yetti12912 Рік тому +2

    I cant believe the #1 search to how to talk is this

  • @Jukeboxster
    @Jukeboxster 3 роки тому +1219

    Here's a foolproof way to flirt with her without being a creep, flirt with women that have a high level of attraction to you. You could slip on banana peels and if the girl is into you she'll think it's the hottest thing ever. On the other hand, you could have the flirting skills of James Bond and if she sees you as a 2, you're a creep. But most women that we date will see us somewhere in the middle, so sound advice.

    • @Jukeboxster
      @Jukeboxster 3 роки тому +104

      @@BellaVlogsLife most women have hooked up with a guy on the first date at least once, you don't know that guy within a few hours of meeting him so not buying that women always need a "connection."

    • @Vasco25772
      @Vasco25772 2 роки тому +13

      @@BellaVlogsLife um usually that is true, girls get to know ppl before they like them but not always... I know from experience 😭

    • @Vasco25772
      @Vasco25772 2 роки тому +5

      @@Jukeboxster spot on

    • @ThorOdinson1269
      @ThorOdinson1269 2 роки тому +6

      @@BellaVlogsLife Well guess I'm a woman now.

    • @williamlopez1196
      @williamlopez1196 2 роки тому +7

      @@BellaVlogsLife and how the hell do I even get to that point. Cause when I try to ask a girl out, I make it clear it's not a date, I want to be friends first. Get to know you first. Still she's not interested

  • @callumfinlayson7649
    @callumfinlayson7649 Рік тому +107

    Doesn’t matter what you say to a girl if she’s into you she’s into you.

    • @mrconfusion87
      @mrconfusion87 Рік тому +12

      Yup! So fucking true! You can say some seriously cringey shit and they will still ride you later that night if they find you "hot"! 🤣🤣🤣

    • @rgmabeo
      @rgmabeo 10 місяців тому +3

      @@mrconfusion87 thank you mahn

    • @DJwizz76
      @DJwizz76 10 місяців тому +3

      Exactly. Some of these " dating coaches" make it more difficult thanit has to be.

    • @veiserexab1428
      @veiserexab1428 9 місяців тому

      Right on

    • @ree3197
      @ree3197 8 місяців тому +1

      Not true... You can definitely come on too strong... Or too sexual. Or seem so uninteresting in me that I'd feel stupid for continuing trying with you.

  • @robertmiller5789
    @robertmiller5789 3 роки тому +633

    You are only a " creep" if the woman isn't physically attracted to you.

    • @bashbashbashu
      @bashbashbashu 2 роки тому +34

      Blackpilled

    • @ShanyShannon
      @ShanyShannon 2 роки тому +17

      Not true at all...

    • @Chaosking707
      @Chaosking707 Рік тому +45

      ​@@ShanyShannon as a male with a facial deformity it's ture

    • @Dubov304
      @Dubov304 Рік тому +25

      @@ShanyShannon wrong, it’s true.

    • @trips347
      @trips347 Рік тому +15

      As long as you’re clean, good haircut, don’t dress like a bum, then your personality will matter, even if your face is kind of ugly .

  • @dimensionhacker2271
    @dimensionhacker2271 Рік тому +9

    1. Be Handsome
    2. Be rich
    3. Be eloquent
    If you aren't anything above then give up, you're wasting time and energy, work on yourself and your other goals, quality women who see your worth will come to you automatically.

    • @UltimateD755
      @UltimateD755 Рік тому +1

      I know I’m crying

    • @jjk_death_note
      @jjk_death_note 3 місяці тому

      that’s not true? anyone who thinks that has never met a woman. I’m a girl and I have asked a lot of girls what their type is and literally all of them said tall lightskins with colored eyes who give them princess treatment. never has money or muscles come up.

    • @dimensionhacker2271
      @dimensionhacker2271 3 місяці тому

      @@jjk_death_note where did i said muscles? lol see my number 1 point, it's being Handsome, i don't get your point.

  • @Slapperzz
    @Slapperzz Рік тому +140

    "Dating" is a trap. Make friends, become positive and stoked about you life, then share your life with other people.
    Then you'll have suitable women approach YOU. That's how couples meet in schools, work places, and sporting events.

    • @the_rippla7678
      @the_rippla7678 Рік тому +7

      Facts

    • @semalambobodimana7112
      @semalambobodimana7112 Рік тому +4

      Dating not make us Happy trust me, i just start to make a suffering thing, thats bulsh1t who someone in relationships saying they are happy 😅, they just tell the good thing not bad thing

    • @jeffjuco
      @jeffjuco Рік тому +6

      The simps will disagree with these FACTS

    • @maxhatush5918
      @maxhatush5918 Рік тому

      You have no idea how corny and lame you sound😂” become stoked about your life “ 🤓🤓 ayooo 😂😂

    • @giri5384
      @giri5384 Рік тому +1

      How to make friends

  • @gr8b8m85
    @gr8b8m85 Рік тому +5

    With this foolproof advice, even a 5'2 balding indian janitor can flirt with stacey and not be seen as a creep. Brilliant.

    • @mrconfusion87
      @mrconfusion87 Рік тому

      As if he doesn't already slip into her socmed DMs to ask for her "bobs and vagene" pics, while boasting that he's packing a "one foot pinus"! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @pluto4188
    @pluto4188 2 роки тому +52

    the amount of trust he has with that shirt

  • @VinxxyyEdits
    @VinxxyyEdits 11 місяців тому +11

    Those buttons are working overtime

  • @JohnnyBg2905
    @JohnnyBg2905 Рік тому +19

    It's ok to give her ONE compliment at the beginning. Nothing over the top, but she has to know you're interested. Everything else - tone down compliments, I completely agree

  • @pizzagateisreal
    @pizzagateisreal Рік тому +2

    Some women like a guy who is assertive and upfront

  • @SixtyEightnOyouOne
    @SixtyEightnOyouOne Рік тому +63

    If she sees you’re wearing a shirt that’s too tight, she might think you’re a creep 😂

    • @Pat_McRotch88
      @Pat_McRotch88 Рік тому +11

      also being in your mid 40s-50s and making shorts about flirting with girls.

    • @princeali316
      @princeali316 Рік тому +1

      @@Pat_McRotch88 Two miserable losers up in the comments. ^

    • @jordanleiva5562
      @jordanleiva5562 Рік тому +1

      @@Pat_McRotch88 what ? there's an age ? to learn/teach to seduce women ?

    • @mrconfusion87
      @mrconfusion87 Рік тому +3

      Sometimes the only difference between being a "creep" and "not a creep" boils down to whether she finds you "hot" or "ugly"! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @hamzakh555
    @hamzakh555 Рік тому +95

    When you attractive af, its flirting.
    When you ugly af, its harassment.

    • @Cousinbiddy1
      @Cousinbiddy1 Рік тому +7

      I’m attractive and many types of women are not interested

    • @hamzakh555
      @hamzakh555 Рік тому

      @@Cousinbiddy1 Why are y'all so dumb. "wElL iT dOeSn'T hApPeN tO mE". EXCEPTION DOES NOT MAKE A RULE! A RULE IS FOR MAJORITY NOT MINORITY. Try to learn this life lesson, you'll be able to see through a lot of BS.

    • @UltimateD755
      @UltimateD755 Рік тому +3

      It’s not fair

    • @Cousinbiddy1
      @Cousinbiddy1 Рік тому +9

      @@UltimateD755 it is fair , if ur too lazy to not work on ur self to look like a 10

    • @TheWreckingball180
      @TheWreckingball180 11 місяців тому +1

      It's not being lazy. You can't change your looks. If you're born ugly you're just gonna be alone for the rest of your life. It's the truth.

  • @DG123z
    @DG123z Рік тому +6

    I hate games. I hate that men have to cater to women so much just to have a chance. I want a woman who is direct.

  • @Maxx________
    @Maxx________ 2 роки тому +15

    I disagree. It’s all about the internal mindset and how that comes across when you’re saying she’s attractive. Being direct is good and effective and saves you and her time also. A lot of women will think it’s weird that you’re not saying you think they’re attractive because they’ll wonder why you really came over to talk to them

    • @maxpawa9282
      @maxpawa9282 Рік тому

      And you want waste your time!

    • @elijahpippen5877
      @elijahpippen5877 Рік тому

      No u got it wrong my guy it's in woman's nature to chase and want what they can't have u yes they like directness but not in that way women are born into being told what they wanna hear simply because there girls there use to being told oh ur so beautiful oh ur so pretty oh ur this ur that so by the time a guy comes and tells her these things she may smile and say thank you but she going to be bored and not take the guy seriously because she now has nothing to chase so now u become beta simp number 589 because she hearing what she's heard her whole life versus a mf thsts comes and there and tells her uh idk your kinda ugly or back hand compliment her yeah ur pretty but yeah she'll get mad because ur shattering her ego but her female nature will love u for that because the fact that u had the confidence to say that to her means u have the confidence to go out in the world and serve as a proper protector, a woman when she walks in the room is looking for the strongest man in the room for protection that's ine of the main things women want is protection and if she spots any weakness in a man her respect she may have had for u is now gone women wanna chase u going in there saying she's pretty after she done heard that her whole life is boring to her

  • @smugforce7859
    @smugforce7859 Рік тому +10

    If she's playing teenage games like this, then see the red flags and run

    • @jjk_death_note
      @jjk_death_note 3 місяці тому

      If you’re just meeting someone they’re 100% gonna play games. no one thinks when they see a random stranger (I’m gonna marry that guy and have 5 kids with them)

    • @emmanuelo1998
      @emmanuelo1998 Місяць тому

      ​@jjk_death_note Wrong. Only a woman who doesn't have Hugh interest in you will try to lead you to waste your time. They can't play any games when you only accept a woman who does what you want. You leave her if she isn't cooperating with you, then she can't waste your time. This way you filter out women who don't desire you as they will 10/10 try to bs you.

  • @lavatr8322
    @lavatr8322 Рік тому +2

    Well everything is Risky nowadays.
    I got no time for "Signs" and mind reading.
    Nowadays everything is a Thin line.
    I just Ignore everyone

  • @tennisteuton
    @tennisteuton Рік тому +6

    Being "creepy" is entirely in the eye of the beholder. What some girls find creepy, others find bold.
    Don't worry about being "creepy".

    • @mrconfusion87
      @mrconfusion87 Рік тому +1

      "Hot" and "Ugly" is also often in the eye of the beholder as well! 😊

  • @aaronsalter5596
    @aaronsalter5596 3 місяці тому +1

    Being Direct works if you’re not ugly.

  • @myspam4454
    @myspam4454 Рік тому +7

    This is not true for every girl. To every man trying to flirt with a girl please just do what feels most natural for you. Some girls like honesty and don’t want a game just an honest and kind man.

  • @Stonebone-nu8dk
    @Stonebone-nu8dk Рік тому +1

    This is why I date older women, I'm 17 years old, and can't pull a woman from the games of 17 to 30, but from like 35 to 50 I am thw guy

    • @Car-qu2bc
      @Car-qu2bc Рік тому

      Lmao, where do you even go to chat up older women?

  • @Jupiter_9911
    @Jupiter_9911 Рік тому +3

    This just literally happened to me with a girl who approached me. I was just there for business and not in the mood and felt forced to interact with her because she was gorgeous. That feeling forced came across and she got majorly turned off. They never approach when you are actually looking just when a chick is the least thing you are in the mood for

  • @sethbrolsma516
    @sethbrolsma516 Рік тому +2

    He's absolutely right and it's also why guys are way easier to understand than women. Imagine a guy being turned off because a woman called him hot.

  • @TivonSanders
    @TivonSanders Рік тому +4

    We live in one hell of a world when calling a woman beautiful is "creepy". 🙄

  • @ianchesney9639
    @ianchesney9639 Рік тому +2

    I don't flirt with girls I ask em out directly. I tell them straight up I suck up pick up lines but I would like to take them out. They agree and we go out and have fun, I don't need the flirt that's why I asked her out. It's annoying to me personally.

    • @Mazzzythenomad
      @Mazzzythenomad 7 місяців тому

      Relatable. These flirting tips sounds like some elementary school shit lmfao

  • @General930-b1g
    @General930-b1g 5 місяців тому +4

    Remember people. Taking advice from some random stranger on the internet that thinks he knows everything, is not the best place to be getting advice.

    • @moe583
      @moe583 4 місяці тому +1

      Aren't you a random stranger on the internet giving advice?

    • @General930-b1g
      @General930-b1g 4 місяці тому

      @@moe583 no one likes a smartass

  • @ThirtyThree-sq2ie
    @ThirtyThree-sq2ie Рік тому +1

    He's telling the truth. Your good looks won't save you if you're being needy. Women aren't attracted to that, handsome or not.
    Women are less visual than men. Women don't care about good looks. They care about the way a guy carries himself, his vibe, his personality.

    • @apachewraith
      @apachewraith Рік тому

      No 🤦. If you actually believe women don't care about looks or are less visual than men, I'm guessing you're at least an 8 or a 9. If you weren't then it would very clear to you how much they care about looks.

    • @Car-qu2bc
      @Car-qu2bc Рік тому

      @@apachewraithThis is cope. If you simp, she will lose interest. No matter how good looking you are

  • @davidperry4310
    @davidperry4310 Рік тому +5

    The guys who were confused, are still confused. Be confident, have a reason to talk to her that makes sense. Be present, pay attention to her tone, and body language, etc. This was not a very informative video. I pulled my hottest girlfriend, who moved in with me later just by asking her if you likes fun. My haircut was flawless, so was the way I was dressed, and wore my best smell good, I was also in pretty good shape. Make sure you look the part too. Game is not only what you say or don't say. If you are in shape, well groomed, well dressed, and smell good, the pressure for a flawless approach is not as much.

  • @jAYViOtheborgack
    @jAYViOtheborgack 5 місяців тому +2

    As an aromatic/asexual person, if ANYONE comes up to me and I don’t know them and they look at me a certain way,they are 100% a creep

  • @Salmantwim
    @Salmantwim Рік тому +7

    Replace creep with Simp.

  • @ck_official_.
    @ck_official_. 4 місяці тому +1

    female here
    i think being called beautiful is one of the best things i can hear!
    unless i just like bumped into you or smth.
    if ik u as a friend or wtv or we’ve been talkign im fine w that! Its realllllllyyy nice to be called beautiful

    • @jjk_death_note
      @jjk_death_note 3 місяці тому +1

      when someone calls me beautiful I’m like "oh.. umm.. thanks… y- you too😬"

  • @FatherSonHolySpiritAmen.
    @FatherSonHolySpiritAmen. Рік тому +5

    Perfect advice bro! Also loved you in The Punisher

    • @TopGInsightz
      @TopGInsightz Рік тому +1

      I's so glad someone said it 😂

    • @psychosound4417
      @psychosound4417 Рік тому +1

      I'm glad I'm not the only one thinking he looks like Jon Bernthal

  • @Beasleysibs
    @Beasleysibs 5 місяців тому +1

    Honestly, if my crush told me I was beautiful or cute… I WOULD FALL IN LOVE HARDER THAN EVERRRRR

  • @rameeziqbal8711
    @rameeziqbal8711 Рік тому +3

    Don't try this if you wanna stay out of jail. These mind games are not worth.

  • @ZukouriOfficial
    @ZukouriOfficial Місяць тому +1

    As a woman, this is correct.
    We would think you was a creep 😂

  • @PeterMasalski93
    @PeterMasalski93 Рік тому +6

    Step 1: Be good Looking
    Step 2: Be Rich
    Step 3: Be good-looking and Rich
    Step 4: Doesn't matter what you say

    • @semalambobodimana7112
      @semalambobodimana7112 Рік тому +1

      And she said you're boring, and if you have talent to make her happy or laugh by your line, music or something, she consider you as her clown 🤡 🤣🤣 the rule is women always right, undeniable

  • @BexBuffardson-ks9fy
    @BexBuffardson-ks9fy 9 місяців тому +1

    "It has to be a game with her"
    Woman: i ain't got time to be playing games with boys. Im a strong independent woman.

  • @giyuutomioka6974
    @giyuutomioka6974 2 роки тому +26

    This actually makes a lot of sense. Basically beating around the bush is the way to flirt. Thanks man

    • @BulldogMindset
      @BulldogMindset  2 роки тому +6

      Glad you found value.

    • @giyuutomioka6974
      @giyuutomioka6974 2 роки тому +8

      @@BulldogMindset thanks for the help man. I just gotta remember to basically pull a fake-out move in order to keep her guessing

    • @Squirrel-zq6oe
      @Squirrel-zq6oe 2 роки тому +5

      @@giyuutomioka6974 yeah, it almost seems counterintuitive or something, but when you tell somebody your intentions right off the bat, they just can't handle it for whatever reason. They are used to trying to have to figure out people's MO, so I think it really throws people off when you actually just state it outright like that and they can't handle it.

    • @ht4373
      @ht4373 2 роки тому +1

      @@Squirrel-zq6oe Sometimes I meet girls and talk to them just for a few minutes, I start pointing to my lips and start making out. Only at night when I go out tho, I couldn’t believe it was so simple but U have to keep in mind that most of the girls want to be approached by guys in general, and somehow if u believe ur funny they will think that too

    • @Squirrel-zq6oe
      @Squirrel-zq6oe 2 роки тому +1

      @@ht4373 haha right!? I feel that

  • @Growing513
    @Growing513 Рік тому +1

    The real truth is if she has a chemistry with you, she will love the compliments. If she doesn’t have a chemistry with you even if you play your cards right , she will say your a nice guy but that’s it.

  • @Snowlys
    @Snowlys Рік тому +3

    “It has to be a game”. No adult should be playing games

  • @dewell1993
    @dewell1993 Рік тому +11

    It's so freaking hard to flirt without conveying energy of a creep. Even though I'm off the market and have been for nearly a decade I can't help but remember when I was younger I was afraid to approach girls for that particular reason and I never had an incentive to make the first move for the fear of being rejected thus lacking confidence though when I would get compliments on my looks that would boost my confidence instantly. I also think to myself had I grown up in a different area/town I probably would have had much better odds.

    • @akashicpulsegavin
      @akashicpulsegavin Рік тому

      well then you are, in fact a creep dude lol

    • @jjk_death_note
      @jjk_death_note 3 місяці тому

      it’s hard to flirt as a girl too. I know if I flirt with a guy they’re gonna make fun of me or call me weird. once I held a guys hand and he said ew 💀

  • @Dude1-b6j
    @Dude1-b6j 6 місяців тому

    Thanks for this vid, it reminded me to be more playful in my approach which is 100% better than outright coming out and saying she’s beautiful 👌🏻

  • @sindx
    @sindx 3 роки тому +20

    These shorts are simply amazing. Very informative and straight to the point.

  • @highcontrast4488
    @highcontrast4488 Рік тому +2

    Thank you Punisher.

  • @erikovist3133
    @erikovist3133 Рік тому +24

    Never wear a shirt where your buttons are struggling to stay together.

    • @DishyLemon
      @DishyLemon Рік тому

      Shiiiiiii, I liked it 🤷‍♀️

  • @RickThompson-ce5ci
    @RickThompson-ce5ci 8 днів тому

    Bro Jim Rome dropping knowledge on the treads!🙏

  • @chulocholo7848
    @chulocholo7848 Рік тому +3

    I’m so glad Serj Tankian is teaching me how to pick up girls💀

  • @unclesam7368
    @unclesam7368 5 місяців тому

    Literally the best advice I ever got. My old man said girls really just want excitement. If you reveal the trick behind the magic, it isn't magic anymore.

  • @SadfoxGuyver
    @SadfoxGuyver Рік тому +1

    That under shirt is the real hero in this video

  • @avarknee
    @avarknee 2 роки тому +18

    As a girl the first one isn’t always valid. My love language is words of affirmation so if you call me attractive I will not stop thinking about you and I will probably kiss you

  • @samanthasinger3747
    @samanthasinger3747 10 місяців тому

    I love this. It gets weird when someone just says you’re beautiful, especially when they have nothing else to say. It usually ends with an awkward “thanks”.
    Personally, I don’t think it matters much how attractive someone is. I’ll take personality over looks all day long, that’s what makes someone attractive to me.

  • @daleferia1640
    @daleferia1640 2 роки тому +53

    It’s only harassment if she doesn’t find you attractive

    • @Squirrel-zq6oe
      @Squirrel-zq6oe 2 роки тому +3

      Right!?

    • @Chewbachi
      @Chewbachi 2 роки тому +5

      Bro, just because you’re ugly doesn’t mean you can’t get an attractive girl or that she will see you as a creep. It’s simple men today don’t have game. There’s only 10-20% of men who are sexually active with women. At first yes it matters what you look like but if you’re an ugly dude and you’re funny, and you have game, you can still get a hot girl. Instead of whining about being a creep work on your game. Get to know yourself what qualities do you have that attract people to you?

    • @skrttskrtt7534
      @skrttskrtt7534 Рік тому +1

      Improve personality and expand your social circle even it was just 20% friends and 70% acquaintances until a woman will match for you

    • @jaquanellis2534
      @jaquanellis2534 Рік тому +1

      @@Chewbachi thank u for the advice Mr.Player guru

    • @Chewbachi
      @Chewbachi Рік тому

      @@jaquanellis2534 nah y’all just love too whine because you don’t know hot to interact with the other gender

  • @TonyGBennet
    @TonyGBennet 7 місяців тому

    I just like her a lot…she’s not a game to be played. I want to start taking care of her, being at her side, keeping her happy, letting her know how important she is.

  • @semi5alpha
    @semi5alpha Рік тому +7

    I go straight up and the girls lend me their things.

  • @ChristopherFerron-g6u
    @ChristopherFerron-g6u 5 місяців тому

    He's waving his hands around so you'll notice his big arms, it's so adorable 😊

  • @ThorOdinson1269
    @ThorOdinson1269 2 роки тому +17

    The title should be more like: "How not to be a creep" No examples of how to do it were provided, only examples of what not to do.

    • @OrdinaryJoe12
      @OrdinaryJoe12 Рік тому

      Be goof looking is how not to be a creep

    • @ghostfocus
      @ghostfocus 11 місяців тому

      Haha nyce 1 mate I was gonna txt the same sh

  • @buddyraw9778
    @buddyraw9778 Рік тому +2

    Only towards guys she's not attracted to. If you're attractive, you can tell her you just took a sh*t and she's gonna giggle and drop the digits. They don't like compliments from the "wrong" guy. They get offended if they're not attracted and they catch you glancing their way.

  • @omnipotentone5628
    @omnipotentone5628 Рік тому +3

    If you're not getting strong choosing signals, steer clear of her, and a sexual harassment charge.

  • @private_0NE
    @private_0NE 5 місяців тому

    Not all girls are the same some of them really appreciates it and loves the way your being honest about it

  • @carsonking6199
    @carsonking6199 Рік тому +3

    I don’t even know what to say after “hello”

    • @xpez9694
      @xpez9694 Рік тому

      sing this after "HELLO", "is it me you're looking for?
      'Cause I wonder where you are and I wonder what you do
      Are you somewhere feeling lonely or is someone loving you?
      Tell me how to win your heart, for I haven't got a clue
      But let me start by saying, I love you
      I love you
      I love you.." - by Lionel Ritchie

  • @thatonemexicant8989
    @thatonemexicant8989 6 місяців тому

    Who knew jon bernthal would give me flirting tips 😂😂 much love man 💯💯

  • @DivineLogos
    @DivineLogos Рік тому +5

    I used to be either totally afraid to flirt or be way too forward and creepy in a nervous way.

    • @jjk_death_note
      @jjk_death_note 3 місяці тому

      If a guy was nervous when talking to me I’d smile. I want to be able to tell if a guy is attracted to me, it makes me attracted to them.

  • @whatsinaname7289
    @whatsinaname7289 6 місяців тому +1

    Step 1: be attractive.
    Step 2: be attractive.

  • @CostaBetBuilders
    @CostaBetBuilders Рік тому +8

    It doesn’t matter what u say , I’m sure if an attractive guy says hey beautiful ur so cute it will work 😂 it’s more of how you look /dress /behave making her want u

    • @residentjess
      @residentjess Рік тому

      It absolutely matters. First impressions matter.

  • @avibeontherun
    @avibeontherun 6 місяців тому

    Wow a man that understands this 😮

  • @byza101
    @byza101 Рік тому +2

    If you’re flirting for the sake of it, sure leave that out. If you are flirting with the intent of building it up to a date, sure leave that out… If you see a girl at the cafe and you want to spend the morning with her, you have to tell her you find her super attractive, you have to be straight up and ask what she’s up to for the rest of the morning, what you want and what you are proposing… you yourself will need to have your shit together as she is not gonna consider a romp in the sheets with a dude who does not attract her.

  • @MagicLabz
    @MagicLabz Рік тому

    Awesome tips! Keep calm, playful, build chemistry..

  • @1Bridem
    @1Bridem Рік тому +3

    this is like taking advice from the guy on wolf of wall st. the drug dealer one

  • @Williamtheg
    @Williamtheg 4 місяці тому

    „She’s gonna think you’re are Creeper Weirdo”
    Got it.

  • @bradleymcdonald6273
    @bradleymcdonald6273 2 роки тому +13

    Nothing's creepier than being the guy who teaches people how to flirt

  • @Wholesomewarriortv99
    @Wholesomewarriortv99 Рік тому +1

    Precisely why I don’t give compliments when I talk to woman, just tell her she looks like a vibe 💯

  • @jacobl7451
    @jacobl7451 2 роки тому +6

    thats true. thats whay random weirdos in her DMs tell her

    • @mrconfusion87
      @mrconfusion87 Рік тому

      Including the world infamous "Bobs And Vagene" hunters! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @MyLittleArsonist
    @MyLittleArsonist 5 місяців тому

    Me who said “hey I feel like talking to you you’re the right person to talk to rn for me” and she just ignored it but isn’t giving negative signs

  • @NBAclipsHere
    @NBAclipsHere 11 місяців тому +6

    If you’re a 8.5+ out of 10, all of your creepy flirting problems will be solved 😂

  • @MyDarling572
    @MyDarling572 5 місяців тому

    Approved ! You read us very well ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @jeffjuco
    @jeffjuco Рік тому +3

    99% of comments on insta-thots’ posts: “omg you’re so beautiful, blah blah….” Then those simps hope and prey the girl likes him back…Ha!

    • @mrconfusion87
      @mrconfusion87 Рік тому

      I never comment on them! I just like their sexxxy/near nude photos! If the Instahoes show pics of them with their "boyfriends", I purposely do NOT like those pics nor do I like pics of them wearing clothes and doing non-provocative stuff! They are just mere fap bait for me after all and should just stick with that! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @Shiva_bhai_funny
    @Shiva_bhai_funny 4 дні тому

    The silence around Revandles' forbidden books is actually wild.

  • @CP-mt1st
    @CP-mt1st Рік тому +4

    Creeps unite. We don’t play games

  • @Applleheead
    @Applleheead 7 місяців тому

    This is true and we feel that way because creeps are very forward

  • @filipmazic5486
    @filipmazic5486 Рік тому +5

    How to flirt with women: keep it mysterious, playful, imply she is hot without saying it, be creative, witty, funny, charming, etc...
    How to flirt with men: open legs
    This applies to all sexualities

  • @jasondoomsday4031
    @jasondoomsday4031 4 місяці тому +1

    If you’re attractive, as long as it’s not vulgar or disrespectful, there’s no creepy way to flirt. If you’re not attractive, it doesn’t matter what you say, women will perceive you as creepy. There is no such thing as a creepy 10…

  • @tyarnold4088
    @tyarnold4088 Рік тому +8

    But if a guy doesn't come on strong enough the ball never gets rolling. As a guy your looks, money and status are what matters. You have the right looks and status you can say almost anything. If you don't look good you could talk perfectly and the women won't even give you a chance.

  • @proaltraplay
    @proaltraplay 2 місяці тому +1

    Goes shirt less and says " wassap lil cupcake😈"

  • @Naelinjs
    @Naelinjs 3 місяці тому +1

    Just let them be with someone else

  • @gautamn6222
    @gautamn6222 2 роки тому +7

    Should have given atleast one example..

    • @BulldogMindset
      @BulldogMindset  2 роки тому +2

      Here are my real examples, ua-cam.com/video/yaz14BBV8-w/v-deo.html. You can also learn more about how to flirt properly here, ua-cam.com/video/CamiYFrW7TY/v-deo.html.

  • @salty_wuterrmelon8655
    @salty_wuterrmelon8655 10 місяців тому

    Flirting is fun this way, i love it, definitely agree with this

  • @Durwang_lifts
    @Durwang_lifts 2 роки тому +8

    Thanks gigachad