He’s Nearly 30 And Engaged To My Teen With Braces
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- Опубліковано 16 тра 2024
- Jean says her 17-year-old daughter, Cheyenne, was the all-American girl -- a cheerleader, track star and straight-A honor student -- until she began dating Josh, a 28-year-old divorced father. Dr. Phil takes a look at Josh’s history -- should Jean be concerned? (2213001)
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When she turns 28 she’s gonna realize just how weird this is
Yep, GROOMED
With his criminal record this sounds like the Mica Miller tragedy.
Absolutely!!
By the time she's 28 he will have dumped her already.
She is 26-27 now I found her on Facebook she’s married to someone else and has kids edit also on her wedding pic with her mother he mother appears to have had a stroke.
@@NH-tb2smmost definitely. At 28 she will be too old for him. Sick 😫
My father would take this guy to another planet.
as he should!💯
I as a mother of a young lady would 1000% be under the damn jail happily
@@blueberrymarie908 now,it turns out jail has a basement,okurrr?
@@andreajones886 some of them do 🤦♀️🤷♀️
Same
Citing your favorite color as having something in common is the most childish thing I’ve heard in a long time hahahah
Yeah she is much less mentally and emotionally mature than a typical 17 year old. I'd bet money she had some type of mental disability.
I couldn’t even control my reaction when she said that lol. Like wow, so deep.
🤣😂 right?!
🤣🤣🤣🤣
😢 but what's your favorite color? I need a bestie
The concerning thing with her is, she’s not even mature for even a 17-year-old. She’s more like a 12-year-old and for her not to be concerned about his past marriage, abuse, and the fact that she would be a stepmom to a child that’s not even hers at such a young age hopefully he’ll let her go to college so she can grow up.
College doesn’t make you grow up for most of these kids. It just makes them stupider.
He is just as immature. Like he seems slow AF. She's also slow and doesn't see it.
predators like that
@@jilliangrannon1939 She's an honor student.
He's deliberately keeping her a child as part of his grooming.
I agree. Her emotional development is not at par for a 17-yr-old.
Playground and stuffed animals? This feels so off.
Very off.
Not necessarily if she likes to go there and hang and adults do like stuffed animals but it would be different if she was an adult and they did those things
Women in their 30s have their boyfriends and husbands push them on the swings on the playground sometimes and they consider it very romantic and sweet. Grown women will also get teddy bears on Valentine's Day so there's nothing wrong with that.
Chris Hansen & Steve Wilkos, Where Are You?
Yes! Steve is awesome
Ok where y'all at 😮
Don't play that game here, in a few months when she's 18, none of this is going to be relevant.
@@UA-camUser-mb2oz
You mean when she's about to give birth to his baby & he's nowhere to be found so her parents have to look after her & her unwanted child.
Tell me about it!
She has the mental clarity of a 10 year old and he a 9 year old.
You're giving these two idiots way too much "age" on them for acting like toddler! I would have said maybe 2 or 3!
Maybe they're made for each other then 😂
"But His favorite color is orange and i like oranges! My favorite gumpack is flavored that"
This creeps me out for lots of reasons……he is WAY too old for her and she is very immature for 17. She talks like she is around 12.
I thought the same thing. She's acting like a child and she also looks younger than 17.
@@deroffene-fenster-wahnsinn1326is she autistic? I am,she acts and talks like she’s on the spectrum
Were YOU a virgin at 17?
@@DavidThomas-me6pi Why are you asking such a question?
@@gailwebb9619 exactly. So you were not a virgin at 17 but you want her to be?
He will not allow her to attend college. Nope.
I can guarantee u, she will not be allowed to go to college If she stays with him. He would get in the way of her building a future for herself.
A pervert I know who’s done this doesn’t want his victim to go to college. I bet she doesn’t go.
Right he won't want her to wake up and find someone her own age
The playground for a first date with a child, that's a stomach curdling thought.
I've seen women in their twenties and thirties have their boyfriends push them on a swing, nothing wrong with that!
She isn't even mature enough to think up a good lie when she needs it.
That's a teenager for ya
Also, this episode is old
@@amybesswhen I was 17 I could come up with a better lie
This is one of the reasons why Dad's are important.
Why did you spell "dads" with an apostrophe?
Why isn't there more shame for women who reproduce without a committed father?
@@meowy4720clearly a typo relax wtf lol
@@traviswilliams3366lol
Yup, too bad so many men don't agree
This was aired in 2014. She is married and has children with a different man
Where did you find this information?!
This was the comment I was looking for! Thank God for that!
@@TheLauratkdI dug deep onto Reddit and found her Facebook lol
@@TheLauratkd her name is Cheyenne Kiona Martin
@@oliviawalter5583 Send a link?
She is very immature!! After watching and listening to her, she comes across as 15, not 17!
I was thinking 12
@@ameliajoel6427 I’m good with that!
I was more mature at 14 than this. I'd say she's 11 or 12
@@Kira7London-Spencer definitely! She has a lot of growing up to do if she wants to live peacefully in this world!
@@ameliajoel6427 I was thinking the same thing.
His son is 5 years old…. 2 years from being 7…. the AGE he met HER!!! This is sick on way too many levels!!!
His son is 15 now this episode aired 10 years ago . I wonder if there is an update on them.
She's young enough to be his daughter.
@amandalidey329 so he had a kid at 11? Lol it's bad but it's not that bad
@@lanceneol865no, I don’t think that’s what he meant. The kid is now 15, probably had his kid in his early 20s
She doesn’t act her age at all which makes it worse she acts like she’s 12.
Obviously THAT'S what he likes! 🤣
What does a 28 year old have with a 17 year old... answer: nothing... not a thing. If that were my daughter, I'd have the cops on speed dial.
Why not every calibers you own?
They could have things in common. Mentorship can be good for kids if they share a common ambition. This is NOT mentorship, this is gross. I wonder why he isn’t interested in women his own age… 🤢
HECK YEAH!!!!
Just one thing, and he'd be after it.
As an adult I met and married a man 6 yrs older than me. I quickly noticed that age, and experience difference. His friends were guys and their wives another 5 yrs older than him. So my friends and their new husband's bored him as too young and inexperienced. It was ok initially, but he really wanted a wife with years of housekeeping, and cooking experience. I worked fulltime, stabilized our finances, and learned how to cook, yes there were errors, he wasn't very patient.
He’ll be worse when she wants to go to college.
She’s 17, she shouldn’t be thinking about babies.
She's 27 or 28 now
I disagree. The sooner we teach girls about babies the better they can think through the hormones and emotions rather than succumbing to jealousy or the biological clock. Teach them the responsibilities, the lack of sleep, the pain, the sacrifice, the gross outs, the giving of your time and body to another BEFORE they start looking at boys and you'll see less teen pregnancies.
@@Undomaranel that's not what they mean.... they mean having a baby.
@@LeFrenchGuy101 Exactly. Teach girls what having a baby really means before hormones hit and some guy wants to knock you up.
@@Undomaranel that’s not at all what I meant!
**What I meant is that she should be thinking about college, jobs, settling down, etc. before having a baby.
What makes you think it was about what you brought up?
Go to college and when you graduate see if you still feel the same way.
The reason older women don't feel the same way is because of competition, they feel competition from younger women.
If she's married and settled down she won't feel the same way as sorority girls.
It's just mate guarding behavior from older women.
@@UA-camUser-mb2oz what are you talking about ?
@@UA-camUser-mb2oz
I think you may have watched a different video.
Your comment is completely irrelevant to this one.
@gloryakiepper7918 Yes, please let her go to college and wait until in her twenties to decide if she feels the same about him. Sometimes space is needed between 2 people and if meant to be they will end up together.
@@simonezuri8303 I agree . I did not like him. The age of his girlfriends on the line
at 17. He gets older but the age stays the same.
Too many people insulting the girl in these comments. This isn't about her, she's been groomed, abandoned and abused. This is about her desperately clinging to something she doesn't have, and a creep taking advantage of her.
He seems very immature for being 28. Not just for dating a child, but the way he talks. And I’m in no way shape or form saying that makes it okay for him to date a CHILD. He’s just all around not right….
“Both our favorite colors are blue. She likes to go fishing and so do i”
Like okayyyy
Which is the common denominator between pedos/ MAPs/ whatever you want to call adults attracted to minors. They seek people close to their mental interests, not their physical development.
@alyssameyer7261 I totally agree with you. I’d venture to guess he has a developmental delay.
@@alyssameyer7261fishing can be something to bond over but I’ve never seen people do it over a color
If she were 21 & he was 33 it would still be a bit weird but better than the current situation of 16 & 28. She's still a child & he should keep well away.
Why isn’t he in jail
If she’s the age of consent and depending on the laws with that there’s probably nothing they legally can do
didn't they say he tried to drown his ex-wife? he should be underneath the jail for that..
@@melissahelen88 did they find evidence he did it? Maybe he served jail for that
She’s an honor student? Of what? A nursery school?
🤣
It doesn't take much these days.
U can be book smart but not street tho just because mentally she’s not 17 doesn’t mean academically she’s not smart
This child is to young to even start to have a clue. Very immature and it's disgusting for him to want to be with a child
lol 17 year olds in 2024 have a clue pat, do you live under a rock ? The issue here is she’s WAY too young for him. But if this was say 2 teens together then that would be acceptable.
birth control for cancer control?? the science ain't scienceing 🤣🤣
Estrogen is a notorious troublemaker. You dont feed your cancer Estrogen! I have a reproductive cancer. Ive had several protocols tried, including radiation. Right now my doctor has applied Progesterone. Its working.
I know. And the funny thing was she said her doctor just kept asking and asking and she finally gave in and started the pill to just shut her up. She made it sound like the doctor was showing up at her house and calling her all the time:
@@queenbee3647she doesn’t have cancer. Cruciferous vegetables, edamame beans, linseeds are all proven to reduce risk of estrogen based cancers. OCP to prevent cancer 👀 it ain’t ‘sciencing ‘
@ashleymarks3726 • Regardless of the reason she chose to go on birth control, let’s just feel relieved and pleased she’s using it. He completely steamrolls her so if she was relying on him using condoms, I doubt he would use them.
"women who use the birth control pill have a slightly increased risk of breast, cervical and liver cancer"
I got married at 17 to a 24yo - I was too young to make that kind of decision. He promised me everything and "Love Bombed" me and now older can recognize. There is NEVER a situation that a older individual grooming children ... he is a pedo and will train her to be a gr8 housewife/cook/clean/raise children/ etc ... but at some point she will find out she does not know everything or even anything :(
Sorry to hear about your experience.
Thanks for sharing!
that's not exclusive to age, lots of men my age are the same with their same age gfs
How is 17 and 24 a big deal ??? Men are naturally way more immature then women so I think 24 and 17 isn’t a big deal
@@Rara-lc4ip 17 yo can not give consent that is the difference
What's wrong with being a housewife if it's your own choice?
Please don't stop trying to get your daughter away from this guy. Especially with his background. My 19 year old cousin became pregnant with her 30 year old boyfriend's baby and mysteriously ended up dead. He was returning the baby stuff the next day and texting women during her funeral. Please get her away. If it feels off..it is!!
Oh my I’m so sorry
He did it, and not only that he's a serial killer clearly.
Wow 😢
I'd have this investigated thoroughly with him as a prime suspect, he clearly knows what happened and probably did it.
oh my god, was there ever an investigation if you don't mind me asking? that sounds like something police would at least look into.
"We were just friends". Why was a man of that age friends with a teenager? I won't even accept friend requests on games that have a lot of young players because it's inappropriate for me as an adult to have them on my "friends list". You shouldn't have even been friends.
She's like a 12 year old.
“He took me to get birth control because I heard it prevents cancer.” 😮💨
Apparently it can help reduce the risk of ovarian cancer, but it can also increase the risk of breast and cervical cancer, but we all know the real reason she's taking it.
Tell her that when she has his babies 👶
What's more werid is that this relationship is legal in 39 states
She’s going to be 18 soon. At that point you can be with anyone you want despite their age. Even if you all disagree and think it’s disgusting, it’s legal and clearly not that wrong or it would not be LEGAL. if nobody is being forced into anything .. why is everyone else so inclined to give their unwanted opinion. 😑
Honestly the age difference became irrelevant after seeing his past crimes. That should have been the intitial dealbreaker.
17 is of legal age in many states (in fact 16 is in some states). What's concerning is not the 10 year age difference - it's the fact that he allegedly abused his ex-wife. Yet people are ignoring that and just focusing on age.
Of course, but the age difference is still concerning. Why does a 30 years old want to be with a 17 years old fresh out of high school girl? It’s one thing if the age gap was between too much older people. In this case, it is abnormal and strange regardless of how legal it is. And says a lot about him.
17 may be legal age of consent but it’s still weird for a 30 year old to be dating a high schooler.
Stop defending predators. Anyone under 18 is a child whether you like it or not. He is obviously predatory.
That is absolutely a concern. She is 17. What is wrong with you? It’s not 30 and 40. Are you a child molester as well?
"We met when I was 6. Then we reconnected when I was 16."
Yeah, I find that to be highly concerning.
"check my forehead...did somebody write stupid on there?"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
If she was 28 and he was 39. This would not be a problem. But what I have a problem with is he tried to drown his ex. That’s a huge problem. Birth control does not prevent cancer. In some cases of cancer birth control and make it worse or accelerate the cancer.
She’s 17 so yes its different then being 28 vs 38 try again tho 😂
@@violetmanson5514 try again to NOT be an internet troll ...
That's still gross.
Nobody believes she's taking birth control because it prevents cancer.
Or maybe that he met her at age 7 and came back to date her and kept a relationship with her secret after that. This is planning and grooming.
So this recording is from 2014. I wonder if they're still together ?
No they aren’t she’s married to another man last name Martin they have kids. Her mother had a stroke and is in a wheelchair now sadly.
I hope not.
My pedo ex turned really nasty after I turned 17, I'll bet he left once she womand up.
@@wotintheworldyes !! My pedo ex left me before I turned 18. He got scared I think but our situation was different because it was secret
But yea maybe I was becoming too woman for him
Even michael Jackson booted them all after age 11. It's a real pattern with chomos
If her father was in her life this most likely wouldn’t happen.
This girl is so immature for a 17 year old… This is SO CREEPY. He is a predator and I’m sure can’t get a woman his own age so he finds a little girl. 🤮
He don't want a woman his own age. He wants a kid he can take to the playground and control!
U know it can still happen right
Can you not get a restraining order?
They could, but it would likely turn him into a martyr in her eyes.
He hasn’t done anything that we’re aware of to her so can she really?
This episode aired 10 years ago can we get an update on these people lol. Did he kill her? Did they have kids together?
🤣🤣🤣
No. She married a man named Tony Martin and has two kids now. Josh married a woman named Crystal.
If she was my daughter, she wouldn't be dating him. I'd be waiting for parole.
All I have to say is go back through your own family tree. Child marriages were common back in the 1970's going all the way back to biblical times. I guarantee someone in your family tree married a child bride. And without that marriage you would not be here today.
Where is that girls father ??????!!!! This person is extremely creepy… father any male figures where are you?????
With his other family
@@kimkaragiannis848u know when children with the most loving of families can fall victims to things right
@@kimkaragiannis848 I mean not having a parent figure will automatically make u a victim of something tho she should’ve been taught signs of grooming regardless of of who she lives with
My parents had 11 years apart and my in-laws 12. But the difference is they met and married when the ladies were in their twenties not in elementary or middle school!
If she was older and more mature she would realize that him trying to drown his previous wife is a solid no for dating him. She will be abused, it just how long will she will put up with him. For the love of God do not have a child with this man!
I was this girl back in 2005 at 17 years old. I spent almost 14 years of my life and my entire adult life with that man until about 4 years ago. He was controlling, manipulative, jealous, demeaning in order to get his way, etc. I’ve been on my own now for just over 4 years, I’m 36 years old now, and it’s hard for me to have a relationship with another man, bc I’ve become so selfish after spending so many years with a man whose wants and needs were always put over mine, I just want what I want at this time and do not have the ability to compromise. Even though I’m not with him anymore and have a happy stable life, that relationship still has effects me to this day. I wish o could tell this young lady on stage the big mistake she’s making.
You don't have to compromise.
@@RescueAlwaysOfficialyou always have to compromise if u want companionship. Romantic and platonic. I think what OP meant is that she is so scared of losing herself again that she put up walls. It's hard to go back to normal and if u come out of an abusive relationships u have to even learn what normal is. Not being able to compromise is not a good thing and shows the damage her abuser has done.
@@BlackChambermaid are you American? Asking because I think if you were you would understand what I mean.
Of course you always make compromises dealing with anyone- regardless of the type of relationship. I mean compromise more as in "settle".
@@RescueAlwaysOfficial If you meant settle it does make sense. But why are u asking if I am American?
@@BlackChambermaid because I figure an American would understand what I meant because of how we speak. 🤣
At my prom there was a strict rule on guests, if they were older then 21 they couldn’t attend
I so wish someone had told me this at age 15, 16, 17, 19, & 21... my life would've been SO different. 😭😭😭💔
But at that age would you have listened? That’s the hard part.
So many people would say the same thing. We need to Trust God to help us move forward❤️🙏🏼❤️
Mentally she’s 9
He is losing his hair already! When she gets 30 - he will be using a walker & she will walk away!
28 is actually the age that most men start losing hair, but I've even seen people in high school with hair loss. It's not age related. It's simply genetic. There are men in their 80's who have more hair than young men in their early 20's.
@@TheSixthSLoT
😇💜 Loosing your hair also IS due to wearing hats and mainly wearing baseball hats.
@@jenniferesser8249 That's a myth.
How does a 40 year old man need a walker?
what..using a walker at 42.. get your facts straight. he's 'nearly 30 now' ie 29.. that is 12 years older than her. I am not saying this is right. but your talk of a walker at that age is unusual.
If a man hurt one woman, he’ll hurt the next. Speaking from experience.
HECK NO!! I’m 44 and got had to deal with a 17 year old. NO WAY!!(not worth the headache)IT WONT LAST!! Before she hits 25 I GUARANTEE she will want out
You dated a 17 year old? At what age? Come on and speak out with it bud 😡
Age of consent in their state was 17 at the time
The problem was you not her, believe me.. what did you think you would get from a barely legal teen? Creep. A man going for a woman that young is looking for someone they can run game on an manipulate - of course they want out by 25, because they realise how creepy the elder man they are with really is and that the man is no more emotionally or mentally mature than she is. Facts… a man that is mentally mature would want someone who can mentally stimulate him, unless he has no mind to stimulate. That tells me all I need to know
Each U.S. state has its own general age of consent. As of August 1, 2018, the age of consent in each state in the United States is either 16 years of age, 17 years of age, or 18 years of age. The most common age of consent is 16, which is a common age of consent in most other Western countries.
@@KGBSpyGeorgeCostanza Ohhhhh, we've got a big man over here! Look out, he's got an emoji XDXDXD
There is no way they have anything in common. I’m 30 years old. That guy is just a pervert. Period.
I remember when I was a senior in high school there was a girl in my class that got engaged and married a cop. I don't think it lasted long...
My former best friend did this... she stayed on Skype or calling 24/7 because he lived in Wales and they eventually got married after meeting in person like...4 times. They were EXTREMELY codependent and moved WAY too fast.
They are now divorced because she cheated.
This is your future, Cheyanne.
Can we get an update on this trainwreck?
I need one
She's married to someone else now with kids.
*She'll see him for what he is when he dumps her after she's 21 and then goes after another child*
I love the way Dr. Phil is "handling" her!
all the other points aside (and there are DEFINITELY problems with this "relationship" and it's criminal in most civilized societies, as it should be)...shame on Dr. Phil for shaming the girl for taking the RESPONSIBLE step of getting on birth control. That's the ONE smart thing about what she's doing! The only thing that could make this tragic, criminal "relationship" even worse would be for a child to come out of it...she'll hopefully grow out of this nonsense and be able to go on with her life...with an unwanted pregnancy coming from this mistake--especially now that the US is a country (along with Afghanistan and Saudi Arabia) where girls are forced to give birth to unwanted pregnancies, even those from rapes--her life would be permanently ruined.
Lock the dude up, tell the girl she's nuts...fine. But do NOT ridicule her for being responsible about birth control.
This was 10 years ago. I wonder if they're still together ... I'm banking on them having split up after she matured.
Wait, this Josh guy was arrested for a violent crime? Why doesn't his probation officer send him back to prison?
What in the Drake is this?
When I was growing up the cops probation officers, the courts they took care of business. Now it’s like they don’t even wanna be bothered by this stuff.
he's seems like he's a bit of a groomer
They always are
A lot of this boils down to parenting styles/parenting in general.
Not always.
I apologize... in this case, you are correct!
Most of the time it’s the lack of a father in the home, she’s looking for love in a father figure
I don't know. You can't control these teenagers sometimes!
Not necessarily people can be victims/ trash people even when they came from loving homes
She's going to find a boy her own age in college and then this guy will try to unalive her like his ex.
That's if he doesn't knock her up before she even has the chance to go.
Yeah, I can totally see him trapping her with a pregnancy. There’s no way he’s on board with her going off to college.
This was 10 years ago. She married a man named Tony Martin and has two kids now. Josh married a woman named Crystal.
Unfortunately she is at the legal age of consent so calling the police will do nothing.
Apparently in the state the show is filmed it’s not at least according to dr Phil but idk what state they’re in
We need an update on this story!!
Child grooming 101 right here. So disturbing.
Way way beyond creepy
All I have to say is go back through your own family tree. Child marriages were common back in the 1970's less common in the 1980's but still went on, start with the 1980's go all the way back to biblical times. I guarantee someone in your family tree married a child bride. And without that marriage you would not be here today.
Teen girls take my advice because I care about our youth if an older man tempts you into relations or in a relationship with him RUN RUN RUN to your mom and away from him
They’re not together anymore. She’s married some guy named Tony and has 2 kids now.
Dr. Phil is spot on!
She’s 17 now, which their state may allow, but he groomed her when she was younger. There is a legal complaint.
She’s 28 now. This was filmed a long time ago
When she hits 30 she will realise the damage this has done. Unfortunately she won’t be able take it bk 😞
The best thing the mom can do is make sure she graduates HS and goes off the college. Once she at college and meets boys her age-he’ll be history.
I feel so bad for her, I was the same way as her. I grew up so fast that I ended up dating much older than myself. She seems like a good kid I hope she finds inner happiness
How much older?
He wants someone he can easily control!!!
Elvis, do you think it's appropriate for a 25 year old to date a 14 year old? Elvis: Everybody in the whole cell block
Was dancin' to the Jailhouse Rock
Someone once said don’t worry about the 30 years old woman because everyday somewhere a girl turns 18. 🙄
He's also not "with it" enough to come up with a lie... a believable lie.
I'd have him arrested.
The last update on this pair is from 2019. She and Josh separated and she got engaged to a new partner 1 month prior to Josh getting engaged to a new... Victim, which may or may not be a coincidence. It seems that she moved on, atleast.
I want an update on this story soooo bad
There’s no doubt that she will out grow him, But she’ll probably have a couple of babies by then, so she’ll never get rid of him.
Creepy!
Dr. Phil is so right.
Wonder what ever happened with them ? So disturbing
She is book smart but is very naive. I don't think she has had any experience with boys her age which is why this has been so easy for him. If she ever decides to do anything for herself besides focus on him that threatens his control over her, he will treat her the same way he treated his ex. She doesn't grasp that he is seperating her from her support systems like her friends and her mother. She thinks its love. She doesn't understand its abuse. I would be interested in the update of these 2 in 5 years. Its probably gonna take awhile for her to get out of this.
He is not as smart as she. She will outgrow him quickly if he doesn’t harm her first
Who writes these titles?
What the heck do braces have to do with anything?! He's dating a teenager!!!
I started sneaking around and talking to my BIL’s cousin when I was just 16. When I was 17, he was 28, I had literally “fallen in love”, and told my parents. They objected but knew I was months away from 18 and they wouldn’t be able to stop me. My mind was made up. He was controlling and possessive the more serious things got, and I ultimately didn’t have any friends my age anymore. I moved into his house after graduating HS at 18. I ended up not going to college bc I knew he was concerned that I would meet someone better than him and didn’t want to deal with the drama of him constantly accusing me of cheating. When I was 20 we had an unplanned pregnancy, she is 15 years old now and is my one and only child bc I didn’t want to being another child into the world bc he was so selfish and I did almost everything for our daughter myself. After spending almost 14 years together when my daughter was 10 years old, I realized I couldn’t take it anymore. I’d lived under his thumb my entire adult life and didn’t have anything for myself, nor any support. And it took me that long to leave a man I need to say good for me b/c he did everything he could to make me believe I could not take care of, and provide for my daughter and myself on my own. At about 32 y/o I left that house that I helped pay for and make into a home for almost 14 years with nothing but my truck and our clothes. Stayed on my moms couch for about 5 months and finally by Gods grace a house that I could afford with a gf of mine who just separated with her husband, our daughters were best friends so we all moved into the house together, and slowly but surely and only by God’s grace after 4 years my daughter and I live in this house by ourselves now and have been for 3 years, and life is pretty good. But I allowed that man to rob most of my adult life and this young girl is about to do the same thing.
This has to be a joke?💀
This is so damn creepy. He gives her gifts. They are already planning to have one child. He's grooming her
This poor poor girl. Failed by both parents and running to the first "safe" adult she finds.
I mean, why does the "with braces" matter 😂
LMAO
Same I was like huh😂
Explaining how young she is
@@SupDawg-xs2rr that doesn’t really mean anything as adults get braces too
Just wait till she gets a little older and he shows less interest in her and more interested in other 17 year old girls. He's messing her up mentally.
She has that teenager "know it all" attitude but her smirk was wiped away when she heard some facts.
Josh be resembling Channing Tatum a little
Is there an update on this case?
According to my research on Google and instagram, they aren’t together anymore
She left him after a couple of months. She moved on married someone else and had a baby.
What?! Did she not go to college?
@@sylviaguerrero9794 thank you!
Wasn’t the doctor that kept asking, it was him hounding her about it. When you tell a doctor no to meds they’re not gonna keep asking.
Well over 40 years ago I was 17 and my boyfriend was 24. He was the father of my child when I was 20. We ended up breaking up when my son was around 9 months old. My son is now 41. So glad I have him. Best thing that happened to me.