Randy Struggles to Find The Perfect Dress For Non-Binary Bride | Say Yes To The Dress
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- Опубліковано 25 сер 2024
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Randy faces a challenge when a non-binary bride wants to have a dress that they would be able to dance in.
From season 21 episode 1
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You ever watch an episode and just wish there was an immediate follow up of the finished outfits.. Kevin, you look fabulous!
Yes! I want to see the finished disco outfit too 🎉
Kevin looked absolutely beautiful in the final dress and pantsuit. I am so happy they found what they were looking for ❤️
What is worrying is how much it's going to cost 😬 it seems expensive
Should be a non binary wedding participant. Bride and Groom are binary terms. So how does that work?
Well... they couldn't call themselves a Broom could they? 😂
Let them decide what they want to be called.
@@rebeccaharrison2968 true. But don't get offended when people assume they/them/it is called a man or a woman. No one has to automatically assume you're a they/them and get thoroughly abused for it.
@@CassieRDomg glad ime old 🙃😊
@@CassieRD Not offended.
Oh, that last dress is STUNNING. It's so flattering on them, and the vision of the pantsuit is gorgeous! Congratulations to them, they look so very happy🤍
Why should someone being themselves bother anybody else?
Because the way in which they are being themselves demands that everyone else acknowledge them as such. The best of us have intellectual and moral integrity. We therefore cannot join them in their delusions.
@@oscarbenigsen4538 ^ THIS!
@oscarbenigsen4538 you care an awful lot about other people and how they live their lives. Why not just move on to the next video instead of being harmful?
@@oscarbenigsen4538that’s starts with being honest about the premise. They are not being themselves.
@@oberaobera harmful? more like truthful. im sorry (kind of) then nature offends you.
A person wants to be referred to as they/them, neither man nor woman. Yet also wants to be called a bride - a female binary term that literally translates to ‘woman just married or about to be married’.
I agree, he doesnt identify as man or woman but wants to be a bride 🧐
Exactly
If they (Kevin) is non binary, they can mary a man or a woman, or non binary as well. I suppose they will marry a man.
Yes
as an enby folk it's more about personal preference, I am okay with being called dude but someone else might not, perhaps Kevin sees themselves as a more feminine presenting person that's why they consider themselves a bride.
The comments here make me sad. You don't need to understand, but you should accept that they are being their authentic self and that is not for anyone else to judge. Don't get it? Fine. Don't believe? Fine. But accept and be kind.
And why dont you too accept that they dont understand? Peace.
Accepting doesn't mean tolerating bad behavior
They can be whoever they want but, it's just not normal sorry.
@@lydiapicano8806 And who determines what is normal? Live and let live.
@@bethphillips9693 I'm all about letting people live whatever life they choose. There used to be normal and abnormal behavior now everything is ok but honestly is it really. Many believe they're in the wrong bodies and mutilate themselves so their bodies align with what they believe only to regret their irreversible choice later on. This biological man refuses to accept any choice so, he believes he's non-binary. I guess if a human being walked around saying he was a dog that would be normal too. It's terribly sad and I feel sorry for them .
What about a tailored white suit and a long, beautiful veil?
what about a dress because that’s what they want to wear on THEIR wedding?
@@elenagilbert887bruh calm down. he was just trying to give a suggestion, i don’t think he was trying to be mean
@@elenagilbert887second of all, they did see they wanted a pantsuit for the ceremony… pantsuits and suits are quite similar
@@alishadiamond7394 my bad i didn’t mean to come off rude but i guess reading it back it did.
@@elenagilbert887 i rly think he was just trying to suggest a pantsuit for the bride because they are similar to suits but less masculine. i don’t believe he meant any harm in his comment
That consultant is really 🔥
I support non-binary people, but as a grammar fanatic I can't stand using plural terms for single humans. It is too confusing. That being said, the dress turned into pants suit is amazing. Congrats on the wedding.
A true grammar fanatic would know that the singular they dates back to the 1300's ans was even used by Shakespeare. ❤️🌈
@@oberaoberaYeah, and nobody talks like Shakespeare, so your point is moot. I won't use they/them, but I will use the hims and hers. I will choose to call the person by their name instead.
@@oberaoberaYes, but nobody talks like that anymore, so your point is moot.
They/Them are singular pronouns. We use them all the time. I've been called the grammar police, and I have no problem switching off to they/them because we actually use them all the time.
@@cynhanrahan4012 If I know that person is a man why tf would I say "they"
People of Randy's generation are saying; ""they/them, wait, what"?🤔
People of Randy’s generation understanding basic English?! Shocker. 😱
@@songbirdsystem1465they/them is not proper English 😂
@@CassieRD Yes, it is. It has been used ìn the singular genderless context by authors like William Shakespeare and Jane Austen.
The earliest recorded usage waa 1375.
Not to mention if you just break down what a pronoun means. What would it mean? 'She' would be a person who is female. And 'he' would be a person who is male.
Well, what if we wanted a pronoun that just describes a person. Irregardless of whether you believe non-binariness exists or not. It could be before we even know the gender of a person. In this context, They is the best fit for this and fills in this gap well and people do understand what you mean.
So you're just plain wrong and/or you've been taught incorrectly.
I’m 72 years old, and I am totally supportive of non-binary, etc.
@@CassieRD you are so blatantly incorrect and you said it with your whole chest too. Please go back to elementary school.
I hope you have a beautiful wedding!
In Swedish "he" is "han" and "she" is "hon". We have come up with an intermediate word, "hen", which is really very useful. I can't help it, they/them sounds plural to me 😢 Surely someone can come up with something better?
if you don’t know someone’s gender? what do you call them? hint… it’s in the question and it grammatically makes sense
You..what are you @@izzycusson3017
The best thing to do is to use what you are asked to use. You may stumble, that's ok. Just apologize and correct yourself. It does get easier.
Actually, if you are neither man or nor woman, there is special pronoun, invented centuries ago "lunatic".
@@zFaTallz so what about intersex people, if you even know what that word means?
Kevin was so sweet and so beautiful. I'm so glad Kevin found what he is looking for 😍
They.
@@cynhanrahan4012 Can't you just accept the sentiment and leave it at that ??? SMH
@@cynhanrahan4012shut up
Ill be tge first to say, I dont understand non binary. Kevin is happy in their life. I so appreciate seeing someone comfortable in their own skin. I liked the final idea of the gown-pant suit.
Kevin! Your yes dress & pantsuit combo is perfect for you! I'm assuming you're married by now and hope you danced the night away into the morning with your love! Thank you for allowing your bridal shopping experience to be shared. Best wishes and stay fabulously YOU! ❤
They look so nice! Wish they showed the finished look!
i also would like to see the finished look
Kevin looked amazing. I would love to see them in the finished outfits
Rocking them boots ! Love those boots
Kevin looks amazing in that dress and the surprise party outfit underneath is pure disco baby 😍 i hope they have the wedding of their dreams 🎉
In all honesty, it would have made more sense to have something specifically made for this purpose. It is somewhat disingenuous to approach a BRIDAL shop to purchase a woman's gown for a male body with a genderless intention. Then there's the worry aspect that you won't be catered for because you are not in the correct category. There is a lot of confusion in there.
But this is what happens when we don't give the correct support.
That being said, the team worked hard to help.
They look beautiful
that look is going to be sickening when it’s done. kudos to kevin, they look gorge
Umm so what happened to "I don't want to look like a man in a dress"?
right 😂
Oh my!
The last dress is perfect for them! They look stunning in it! So happy for them!
HIM.....
Please revisit your basic Grade 5 English Peggy .... 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
@@PriestessHephzibah “oh someone left their wallet here, ill leave it up here, hopefully they will find it” an example of using non gendered pronouns to talk about someone
@@astrid3683 are you OK? Bless your heart, I will pray for you. Take care now.
@@astrid3683that phrased is used bc we don’t know who they are lol. So maybe that’s why he wants to be called they/them he don’t know who he is. Truly sad.
If Kevin chooses to look and wear clothes as a bride..then they will look like a man in the dress so doesn't that go against what they initially said they didn't want?
Kevin looks stunning in that final outfit, and bravo to Kleinfeld's for creativity!
He doesn’t want to look like a man in a dress…. I just don’t get it
He literally is a man in a dress tho 😂💀
Doesn't make sense.
Get educated
So happy for Kevin, that last dress is perfect 👍🏼🥰
How wonderful to be living in a time where we are finally able to express ourselves!
Weirdos
Is there any of the rainbow gang t/nb branch who are like normal... or are all of them a version of crazy dram pretend land perpetual teen?!?
Real question...
you would like someone who spends more time online than talking to people in the real world.
That thumbnail 😂❤
Treat all with dignity and respect.
They look beautiful! I wish we could see the actual wedding day look! Please consider sharing.
Just please be who you are at birth
a baby?
Exaclty a man!. Never be a woman!. Only q man.
yea be a baby
I am a baby 😂
What a crazy world this has become! Enough!
nope
My gender is not s costume you can take on and off. Stop reducing femininity to a cosplay.
they don’t even claim to have the same gender as you…
@@babs_babsyeah but they associates a dress with being feminine, which is sexist
I can't even watch this
But you did
He doesnt need a wedding dress ..he needs a psychiatrist
😂💀
@@CassieRD is that you in the profile picture ???? 😂😂🤫💀
@@Noahtells What do you think? 🤦🏻♀️
And you need to learn to to keep your bigoted opinions to yourself.
I agree
Confusion
All of this gets my eyes twitching! And Kevin wants the look to be fluid. Someone explain please WTH does fluid look like? I really want to run and lock myself in my house.
Yeahhh... he basically wants to look like a woman. That's what 'fluid' means. Lol.
Loved loved that dress and pants suite
This dude needs extreme psychological help.
And the people enabling him as well
😂😂😂 don't know whether to laugh or cry
This makes my mama-heart so happy!
💛🤍💜🖤
A confused person who needs to stop being dilusional....
Wow, cruel much?
No we're not accepting this trend, fantasy.@cynhanrahan4012
This was stunning, such a beautiful episode!
The first dress is very nice.
that will make an awesome pantsuit
stop with the ridiculous pro nouns, why has he got female makeup on and false nails
Because that's who THEY are. Respect costs nothing.
Kevin is very confused.
I doubt that. If he met you in person he'd know you're a troll.
Really
Kevin you look STUNNING in your dress/jumper! Such a beautiful bride 😍🤍
Kevin, you have such gorgeous Gorgeous GORGEOUS eyes! I feel like they are just telling the world who you are!
Sending a huge HUG!!!❤❤❤
They are going to love no matter what❤❤
Please don't ruin this show for us that is for brides (biologically women). idc about what other ppl beliefs are. Just take your gender fluidity and drama elsewhere maybe to another show that is specifically for ppl like them.
Looks ridiculous.
Your just either male or female!!!!!!!!!
How ridiculous this person is. For gods sake
The fact I'm watching this I pride month is so fitting 🏳️🌈
Happy Pride Month!
I’ve never seen anything so ridiculous in my whole life.
Hold nu op , det sku for åndsvagt 😏
There are people born with both male and female genitals as well as people born XXY and XYY so not every individual fits the same cookie cutter.
That's like saying some people aren't born with 2 legs. Doesn't change the fact when you describe a human your gonna say they have 2 legs
@@Loveheart-er3ou 😂💀💀
That’s called a medical condition. Not an identity someone can “feel”
@@uikmnhj4me its an example of why the gender binary is flawed, and how it is reductionary towards a complex part of human identity. Both biological and socially
@@astrid3683it’s literally a medical condition
Looks like a him
I’m all about love is love. They look like a guy in a dress. They don’t pull off the right body for a dress. To me it’s just not flattering.
It isn’t my place to say. But if I was their friend I’d be 100% with them. I personally rather be told the truth rather than looking a fool
🤮
As a non-binary person myself, this makes my day!!! The dress/pantsuit Kevin chose looks absolutely stunning on them!!!
6:16 that's a beautiful dress
Now dudes could wear wedding dress. More money to the industry I guess.
I do not understand the non binary term, i know they identify as neither male nor female yet want to identify as a bride which is a female term? Im happy they found their happiness and their forever person and they are happy with their look for their wedding and i support the LGBTQI+ community. Im guessing, like many others i just need to be educated in these terms. ❤🧡💛💚💙
Non binary means they can identify either as man or woman or neither. I have a non binary child. He doesn’t care about pronouns but he goes to work looking male and when he’s at home he looks more feminine. He’s beautiful
Thank you for your lovely post. I hope you continue to ask such respectful questions for as long as you wish to.
What a veil? What happened to the crown and veil.
Authentic is the word...❤
Gorgeous ❤
Respect pronouns, how about it
they/ them…🤦♀️🤦♀️
Never understood the concept of non binary. His name is Kevin, he wears lipstick. So it looks like...cross dressing.
Ew just ew
Pura pluma en este show. Cuack-Cuack!
have a his- tory of
💀💀💀
It a guy
They look amazing and I'm so happy they were able to see their vision realized.
So many haters here. :(
Freaks of the world
To all the negative people in this comment section, find something to do with your time aside from commenting on the life and identity of some random person who holds no bearing on your life and deserves just as much love and respect as Evey other living being on the planet
Bride = female and that a man in a dress 🤷🏻♀️
🙄
I liked the first one best.
Disgusting 🤢
Brian tai!
I would love to see the finished look!
Man in a dress
Being censored
Yes. Very censored on here
I’m all for people to feel the best with whatever they want. But I will never get they/them pronouns. Tomorrow it will be a chair and in 3 days someone will identify as a cat.
Still out of respect for Kevin: they look amazing in the last gown ❤
And although I’ve already bought my dress and had an amazing consultant, I’d love to have Peter as mine ❤
bro what is this creature
Shameful nonsense
Everybody deserves to be happy on their wedding day❤ They looked happy 😊
Agreed
You are gorgeous