I am the one asking for a divorce to my husband. It was an arranged marriage and from the third month, I started understanding we both carry extremely different opinions, beliefs, dreams and expectations. He wants a working wife, modern, independent, fit, but also a wife who can cook, clean and do all household chores with ease alone. I am tired of his complaints as he never helps or does nothing but complain that I missed ordering this, cooked a different item or different way. I feel so tired of these complaints as I am tired and need some help too
I hear you, Appsy. I'm sure it must be so hard having to go through that. I truly hope that there can be some relief and understanding that can come within your marriage. If not, then I hope you find the freedom you desire
So sad. Will your family shun you? These arrange marriages can be brutal if the couples are incompatible. I knew of cases where the family force3them to remarry because they didn't want the stigma of a divorce in the family.
Heyy so glad I found your video I'm getting a divorce, now in the separation period. I'm a full-time mom, I don't have a job I don't know where to start and a good lawyer's very expensive in Thailand. it's so hard to fall asleep at night .. 😢
@@joey1166 I remember those days! But it does get better ❤️🩹 focus on you and your wellbeing and before you know it, you’ll be looking back and will be grateful you aren’t in the same place you were and will admire how much stronger you are 🙏🏽my best wishes to you on this journey!
I’m the one too asking for divorce to my husband and God know that I try everything. But he did not care enough To work with me and today I feel broke from the inside and I’m feeling so alone, I do not wish this feelings to anyone.
I understand that feeling. I hope that both you and your husband can come to terms with what you both want in life and that it may suit both of your needs, going forward
It is mutual for us, and we are just starting the paperwork.I’m also a Filipina and all of my aunts and my mom got divorced, everyone on my husband’s side is divorced, and I didn’t want the same fate, but for our reason, it will not work out.
Wish my wife would stop all this. I'm confident we could make things work out and grow through this together, but she refuses to even speak to me and its been tough.
You are not right for her that's why she's going through with it. Women don't divorce men who treats them well. Weak women stays with men who treated them poorly out of fear of being destitute. Cheaper to stay. Your wife is a brave woman. Give her credit. Work on yourself to become a better person for the next wife.
@@thedivorceediariesyes he might be an in-law but have you ever thought that they too wished you would have divorced him. They might have tolerated him just because you married him but d uh didn't really liked him. You did the right thing for you. Don't feel guilty
I'm not making any judgment on your relationship whatsoever, and something to keep in mind is that nobody enters into a relationship with an abusive person (mostly). almost nobody is ALL bad, even the worst abusers often have good qualities. I'm not at all saying your relationship is abusive-i do not know you, it's just something to remember. everyone has something good but that doesn't mean it's right.
@@hayleyhawn why was the first thing you mentioned was abuse? She expressed doubts and you implied that she was being abused albeit in a very casual way.
That is a great question. I hadn't had any kids in my divorce, luckily, but I am a child of divorced parents and I recall how difficult it was. However, it was also difficult because my parents were very bitter and upset toward each other for many years so it is hard to find peace. I do believe that each parent should do what is best for them because it is better that they are happy so that the kids can be happy as well.
I am the one asking for a divorce to my husband. It was an arranged marriage and from the third month, I started understanding we both carry extremely different opinions, beliefs, dreams and expectations.
He wants a working wife, modern, independent, fit, but also a wife who can cook, clean and do all household chores with ease alone. I am tired of his complaints as he never helps or does nothing but complain that I missed ordering this, cooked a different item or different way. I feel so tired of these complaints as I am tired and need some help too
I hear you, Appsy. I'm sure it must be so hard having to go through that. I truly hope that there can be some relief and understanding that can come within your marriage. If not, then I hope you find the freedom you desire
So sad. Will your family shun you? These arrange marriages can be brutal if the couples are incompatible. I knew of cases where the family force3them to remarry because they didn't want the stigma of a divorce in the family.
Thank you for this. I’m in the same situation right now.
Heyy so glad I found your video I'm getting a divorce, now in the separation period. I'm a full-time mom, I don't have a job I don't know where to start and a good lawyer's very expensive in Thailand. it's so hard to fall asleep at night .. 😢
@@joey1166 I remember those days! But it does get better ❤️🩹 focus on you and your wellbeing and before you know it, you’ll be looking back and will be grateful you aren’t in the same place you were and will admire how much stronger you are 🙏🏽my best wishes to you on this journey!
I’m the one too asking for divorce to my husband and God know that I try everything. But he did not care enough To work with me and today I feel broke from the inside and I’m feeling so alone, I do not wish this feelings to anyone.
I understand that feeling. I hope that both you and your husband can come to terms with what you both want in life and that it may suit both of your needs, going forward
It is mutual for us, and we are just starting the paperwork.I’m also a Filipina and all of my aunts and my mom got divorced, everyone on my husband’s side is divorced, and I didn’t want the same fate, but for our reason, it will not work out.
8:46 I needed this more than you could know. Thank you soooo much for sharing ❤❤
Thank you so much for your kind words 🙏🏽 I’m glad I could help in any way. Sending you so much love! 💕💕
Wish my wife would stop all this. I'm confident we could make things work out and grow through this together, but she refuses to even speak to me and its been tough.
I have faith that all will work as it is supposed to. I hope you both can come to a meaningful understanding that works best for the both of you
Hey, how are things now?
You are not right for her that's why she's going through with it.
Women don't divorce men who treats them well.
Weak women stays with men who treated them poorly out of fear of being destitute. Cheaper to stay.
Your wife is a brave woman. Give her credit. Work on yourself to become a better person for the next wife.
@@thedivorceediariesyes he might be an in-law but have you ever thought that they too wished you would have divorced him. They might have tolerated him just because you married him but d uh didn't really liked him. You did the right thing for you. Don't feel guilty
but what if its a mistake? What if i will regret it? He is not all bad. I dont want to be ungrateful.
I'm not making any judgment on your relationship whatsoever, and something to keep in mind is that nobody enters into a relationship with an abusive person (mostly). almost nobody is ALL bad, even the worst abusers often have good qualities. I'm not at all saying your relationship is abusive-i do not know you, it's just something to remember. everyone has something good but that doesn't mean it's right.
@@hayleyhawn why was the first thing you mentioned was abuse? She expressed doubts and you implied that she was being abused albeit in a very casual way.
@@russellheyns1846 I literally say "I'm not at all saying your relationship is abusive"..................
Seek professional help...maybe marriage counselor/ therapist.
She mentioned being selfish, I'm guessing that selfishness is why her husband wanted a divorce.
What if there is a child between the two ?
That is a great question. I hadn't had any kids in my divorce, luckily, but I am a child of divorced parents and I recall how difficult it was. However, it was also difficult because my parents were very bitter and upset toward each other for many years so it is hard to find peace. I do believe that each parent should do what is best for them because it is better that they are happy so that the kids can be happy as well.
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She's rehearsed now and more dangerous than ever - guys be really careful with this one (she'll take you through the grinder).
Why did he want a divorce? What did you do wrong?
Lawd this was deep but needed !!!!! Bestie you have ripped the ban aid off my arm ! Thanks for guiding me through this ☝🏽🩷🙏🏽