What boggles my mind is nobody gets this about everything on every end on every spectrum. The smarter you are, the more beautiful you are, the richer you are... ppl can and will hate you more. There can always be pros and cons to things in life. For every light, there must be dark. This goes for the qualities in ppl. I feel like this is common sense, but what do I know?
I am just now figuring this out. Now that I am 100% alone. I know now why I drank so much for 18 years. I had to dumb myself down in order to have a social life. It was a mediocre drunk encounter after another. It was a way to perform my music and not be hated. I am sober now and one by one my so called "friends" vanished. My own father hates me because I was so clever. I learned carpentry and excelled past my dad so fast he resented me for it. I overheard him tell people he came up with ideas I created. Sad. I think one of the differences is I never felt insecure around intelligent people. I spent as much time with them as possible. That's how you learn.
The Black Sheep, The Chosen One. All the gifted intelligent ones of the family. You are not alone. I also used to drink in order to tolerate mindless conversations. Thanks to God I don't need people anymore.
hi bro, be u , i learned if you love your self thats the only love i need , i feel ur comments thanks, dont stand out the hammer will hit, dont prove, no one wants truth, no one is ready, we are alone when we are born and mothers dont want to mother, such is life in nature wild death that i wait and contemplate every day, the money that is just a construct of a scammer that knows loopholes, ower intelligence grown from loneliness will be flavour for the wolfs we call fellow humans, thanks for inspiring this comment poetry that will disappear in this 1 n 0 like when i will go back to be stardust.
It's not a black-and-white judgment. You're referring to a pattern, but it isn't a universal rule. In a group full of smart people, saying that wouldn't be a problem, and you'd simply recognize it as the truth.
I was always pushed out of hi level positions....management always feared I wanted their jobs and we're deeply threatened by my presence and talents....
I mentioned this exactly in the previous video about intelligent people why they prefer to be alone and away from people. that it is literally difficult to talk to people because we cannot talk about the weather and that we see the true face of a person who tries to mask his identity and we often talk to the person we see and it is so irritating but we cannot do otherwise. You can't talk to masks. I have such a communication problem. It's rare for someone to understand my intentions and talk at a higher level where we both feel comfortable. Over time, the conversation turns into a battlefield where people try to belittle me because I see what I shouldn't. but there is rarely any attempt to explain. I noticed that if someone didn't understand my conversation at the beginning, they simply wouldn't understand it anymore, and I wouldn't waste my energy explaining myself to someone who wouldn't understand anyway. I prefer to leave and analyze the situation so that I can play the game differently next time. because interpersonal communication is a bit like playing chess. I like to reach the highest level of an epic conversation with the interlocutor, where we can both take away from the conversation something instructive and intellectually, spiritually and developmentally developing. simply talking about the weather won't satisfy me.
Unfortunately, I am experiencing this firsthand. I leave here food for deep thought: "Look closely, a lot of words we use regularly in our life are baseless verbal fiction that got nothing to do with realty".
A lot of smart people don't read the room, there's a plain of conversation when you are with people and the contract is we all start on whatever has been established that we can all understand. It includes other things like your humour which for some is black and others trashy etc, we all tacitly agree to make space for all. Just throwing down your 'deep' idea is ignorant, others have them to, if you want people to talk on your level find people who talk on your level. There's nothing wrong with those who don't want to go there for whatever reason. You're often not some intelligent elite, just a bit arrogant and aren't reading the room or explaining yourself that well or probably most commonly not really getting what the other people are getting at, or worse, you're suffering from the dunning Kruger effect. Join in at the normal level of connection, understand that human connectivity isn't about trying to be deep, but instead is about maintaining a social group for wellbeing. Go be 'smart' some place where it makes a difference. If you really are smart you'll figure it out. If you're not, you just wont have any friends, because friendship, isn't about having things on your terms but terms both parties can be comfortable with.
I was always pushed out of hi level positions....management always feared I wanted their jobs and we're deeply threatened by my presence and talents....
What boggles my mind is nobody gets this about everything on every end on every spectrum. The smarter you are, the more beautiful you are, the richer you are... ppl can and will hate you more. There can always be pros and cons to things in life. For every light, there must be dark. This goes for the qualities in ppl. I feel like this is common sense, but what do I know?
I am just now figuring this out. Now that I am 100% alone. I know now why I drank so much for 18 years. I had to dumb myself down in order to have a social life. It was a mediocre drunk encounter after another. It was a way to perform my music and not be hated. I am sober now and one by one my so called "friends" vanished. My own father hates me because I was so clever. I learned carpentry and excelled past my dad so fast he resented me for it. I overheard him tell people he came up with ideas I created. Sad. I think one of the differences is I never felt insecure around intelligent people. I spent as much time with them as possible. That's how you learn.
The Black Sheep, The Chosen One. All the gifted intelligent ones of the family. You are not alone. I also used to drink in order to tolerate mindless conversations. Thanks to God I don't need people anymore.
The bar is raised so low in society.....personal growth.....emotional intelligence
..self reflection is NON- existent.....
The bar is set. That's probably a dick thing to do, but grammar matters to me lol. I'm nobody to don't be offended
I am highly discerning and a critical thinker.....beautiful inside and out.......always alone.....
But you haven't shared any of your findings or thinking on your UA-cam channel.
I have no close friends or family….I must be a genius
It's better to be intelligent. ❤
I refuse to dumb myself down so my peers are less uncomfortable.....
hi bro, be u , i learned if you love your self thats the only love i need , i feel ur comments thanks, dont stand out the hammer will hit, dont prove, no one wants truth, no one is ready, we are alone when we are born and mothers dont want to mother, such is life in nature wild death that i wait and contemplate every day, the money that is just a construct of a scammer that knows loopholes, ower intelligence grown from loneliness will be flavour for the wolfs we call fellow humans, thanks for inspiring this comment poetry that will disappear in this 1 n 0 like when i will go back to be stardust.
I take the opposite position. As a reasonably intelligent person, I feel that it's my obligation to make other people feel comfortable.
@ you don't have obligations but if you want to go for it
Two reasons. People you interact with do not want to look stupid. People are too lazy to rise above mediocracy.
I've taught myself to talk dumb.
It helps.
Chopinhauer
When someone say,s to you IM VERY INTELLIGENT .... then you know they are dumb.
It's not a black-and-white judgment. You're referring to a pattern, but it isn't a universal rule. In a group full of smart people, saying that wouldn't be a problem, and you'd simply recognize it as the truth.
Like the “stable genius” as prez lol
Interesting part for me is i 'naturally' went his way of thinking thru life, that enables me to navigate the social life while preffering solitude.
I was always pushed out of hi level positions....management always feared I wanted their jobs and we're deeply threatened by my presence and talents....
Book, The American Exile Trilogy by Max Meeks
I mentioned this exactly in the previous video about intelligent people why they prefer to be alone and away from people. that it is literally difficult to talk to people because we cannot talk about the weather and that we see the true face of a person who tries to mask his identity and we often talk to the person we see and it is so irritating but we cannot do otherwise. You can't talk to masks. I have such a communication problem. It's rare for someone to understand my intentions and talk at a higher level where we both feel comfortable. Over time, the conversation turns into a battlefield where people try to belittle me because I see what I shouldn't. but there is rarely any attempt to explain. I noticed that if someone didn't understand my conversation at the beginning, they simply wouldn't understand it anymore, and I wouldn't waste my energy explaining myself to someone who wouldn't understand anyway. I prefer to leave and analyze the situation so that I can play the game differently next time. because interpersonal communication is a bit like playing chess. I like to reach the highest level of an epic conversation with the interlocutor, where we can both take away from the conversation something instructive and intellectually, spiritually and developmentally developing. simply talking about the weather won't satisfy me.
“Developmentally developing”???? Lmao ok genius
Unfortunately, I am experiencing this firsthand.
I leave here food for deep thought: "Look closely, a lot of words we use regularly in our life are baseless verbal fiction that got nothing to do with realty".
I must be really smart.
You are! And I am here just to confirm your wisdom.
Or the opposite sometimes it's hard to tell
No its because you are a chosen one
Can confirm. I have not met this man and I don’t like him
lol
A lot of smart people don't read the room, there's a plain of conversation when you are with people and the contract is we all start on whatever has been established that we can all understand. It includes other things like your humour which for some is black and others trashy etc, we all tacitly agree to make space for all. Just throwing down your 'deep' idea is ignorant, others have them to, if you want people to talk on your level find people who talk on your level. There's nothing wrong with those who don't want to go there for whatever reason. You're often not some intelligent elite, just a bit arrogant and aren't reading the room or explaining yourself that well or probably most commonly not really getting what the other people are getting at, or worse, you're suffering from the dunning Kruger effect. Join in at the normal level of connection, understand that human connectivity isn't about trying to be deep, but instead is about maintaining a social group for wellbeing. Go be 'smart' some place where it makes a difference. If you really are smart you'll figure it out. If you're not, you just wont have any friends, because friendship, isn't about having things on your terms but terms both parties can be comfortable with.
to speak to someone. and it takes humanity one hundred years later to understand it. kind of like the lesson with Tony Stark with his dad.
Im just an asshole.
Dennis Leary is also an asshole.
I came here after reading a bunch of wiki pages on ego and the id and stuff like that ...a lot of this is straight from there word for word 😂
What A Sociallity Shame Confront The True Of Life ♥️♥️♥️😎
Most people wanna see you too good but not better than them.. This is why you must make oil move moving silence and let the result speak for itself.
I don't know what to say about my experience 😢
Very nice video
I am so smart. S-m-r-t!! 🔥🔥🍩🍺
Alot of baggage !!
Good grief slow down your AI
The AI was fine…
r/iamverysmart
Reddit was always pseudo intellectual Self poop feeding loops of normies compiled on normies
The dunning creger affect.
The dunning creger affect?
Krooo gerrrr
Nice channel. ,🪄✨️
I was always pushed out of hi level positions....management always feared I wanted their jobs and we're deeply threatened by my presence and talents....