EMOTIONAL THANK YOU TO CAREGIVERS! 😢 (12.12.16)
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Peter if all husbands were like you the world would be an amazing place !you two were certainly a match made in heaven two very special people !!
Ann marie White you just stole the words right out of my mouth! 😊
Mary has such an upbeat attitude and is so spunky and optimistic despite what she is going through. She truly is an inspiration!! 💜💜💜
Ann marie White I agree Peter is amazing supportive hubby
We're praying for you kids.... I can see how God is bring everything together so your lungs can be better... I know that God could just speak the word and your lungs would be totally healed... BUT I've learned over the past four years of being disabled that God has everything time out... Our ways are not God's ways, and God's ways aren't our ways...
God has HIS divine will and we don't always understand why... But as I lay here in bed watching your videos I can see God will beginning to unfold. And how HE'S getting all the teams to come together....
Marry you are the miracle. Your struggle is helping others and myself to know that even though we all have different issues that we must deal with, And your out here daily showing others that we all can make it through one day at a time...
Thank you for being a blessing to me and so many others...
NOW AS FOR YOU PETER- as the kids say YOU ROCK!!!! A husband is to love his wife as Christ loved the church. And this young man you are doing... Many so-called husbands could take a few lessons from you... Your parents should be so proud of you...
You always leave the most beautiful comments!
Remember Mary, the joy you experience in taking care of others is no different from the joy others like Peter, your family or medical staff receive when they care of you. The circumstances are different but the joy is the same. They are caring with love, compassion and empathy in their heart. Also remember, nobody is keeping score. Who gives, who receives and when is irrelevant.
Amen! Thanks for the great reminders!
4randosutube Beautifully said. Lovely too to see a patient like Mary so thankful. Many people who are chronically Ill can be grumpy and fault-finding. I loved to nurse and loved being appreciated in return x
Thank you, Peter, for being such an amazing man, and for taking care of Mary.
God has truly blessed you with a wonderful heart.
first day in three weeks without a seizure yeeeaaaahhh
Woohooo!!!!
Thank you :-) I am so happy today even to be having such a small victory #finallyfeelinghuman
Thank you Peter for being a wonderful husband and taking great care of Mary.
I love that you made his bed and folded laundry! Sometimes the smallest gestures show how much you appreciate your loved one! xo
Peter is so amazing I wish we had Peters all around the world he's so sweet
Thumbs up for peter and mary
Your marriage & love for each other is a wonderful testimony! You brought me to tears today.
You are so lucky to have Peter (he's a sweet heart) but he's also lucky to have you! You are an amazing young woman and I'm sure your parents are very proud of you! I hope you do well enough to go home very soon!
AWE sweet girl, God see's Peter's faithfulness. and He will honor him. I am a 61 year old woman with grown children, and I feel I have to check in everyday to see how my youtube kid's are doing. Prayers have been going up for all of you.
Peter you are a fantastic husband. Bless you both
Coming from a nurse, having a patient that is thankful is more than worth it.
When the machine's a-beepin'
No one's a-sleepin'!
Hope you get it straightened out.
Thank you Peter for all you do. We took care of my Dad with his Cancer. It got tough at times, but as you know we do it out of Love.
You and Mary are so sweet together. Prayers for both of you.
Mary,
this was especially moving to me because I am too the one being taking care of and feel the same way.
Xev Setter me too. But my mum is my caregiver though.
Jessica Gibson my boyfriend is mine and he's the best. He's so caring and understanding, he realy trys hard and if it was not for him I don't know where Id be.
Xev Setter gosh what would we do without the people who love us.... nice to be able to share some appreciation for these amazing people
Xev Setter i wish my boyfriend would take care of me like Peter takes care of Mary i get lucky if he does what i ask him to do with him yelling at me or winning about it or disrespecting me 😢 i envy what Mary and Peter have i see there relationship and i say to my self God i wish i had what they have then i cry and then i feel worthless because my boyfriend puts me down and tells me im this evil women that all i do is put him down and complain about him and thinks he stupid and he thinks i have no feelings for no one or nothing because what i used to do for work i used to be a forensics scientists so he puts me down i had to quit because i found out i had stage 4 cancer and sezures that just kept getting worse i dont ever put him down i love him to death in hopes to get married but he cheated on me well not technically but its still cheating by the bibal i caught him texting valger you know what to women so he was cheating on me twice and he lied to me and i got a phone call from my car insurance and he got into a car accident witch he hid it wasnt bad it was a fender bender but my truck is my baby its lifted i spent over 30 grand fixing it up and i got a phone call from my car insurance they told me my boyfriend got into an accidend he lied to me i asked them to send me proof and sure enough so you know i wish every day i had what other people have every day then what i have because unfortunately im definitely not happy if it wasnt for my health i would change it but it is what it is so i live my life im re training my pitt she my service dog i got her from an organization that claimed to me she was fully trained but nope she not so now im trying to traine her and seek a perfeshional trainer as well so in the mids of all that its helping me keep my mind off of everything and plus my dads dying of panteractic cancer terminal he doesnt have much time so right now it doesnt bother me so much that my relationship sucks at night time it does but i cuddle up with Simone and my build a bear and pray for a miracle that some day i can meet Peter and Mary mabey them two could help give biblacly advice to help mend my relationship who knows i can hope right or just stay lonely and sad for the rest of my life that works too im sad but not depressed i love that saying Peter and Mary always say dont forget to laugh lol sorry tjays the only good thing i have left Happy Holidays to you all i wont have one sad to say all my money going out to traine Simone she more important i need her to alert me when my sezures are comimg and when migraines are coming and panic attacks when i have panic attacks i will have a sezure because i get stressed out and when i have a migraine i get stressed out a i will have a sezure so its a bad cycle it sucks to be me any ways Happy Holidays to you all what are all you having for Christmas dinner ? turkey or ham? i love turkey mmmmm and home made pies oh so good !!!!!
skrilllax fan tecno I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers!! Things have not always been peachie for me as well...my x use to treat me bad- lets just say I had to get my son out of there and a full stay away order.
Things are not perfect now but defiantly a big improvement. Im so sorry you had a horrible experence getting your SD!! Theres a ton of great training videos on UA-cam like Service Dog Colt, Smokie paws, The Pack Life, Days at a time ect...
Im getting my SD from Veterans Moving Forward in 6 months. I have sczoafffeve dis dyslexia ADHD and CAPD as well as Dystonia. Im in "Powsitivly Only Service Dog" fb group witch is vary helpful and friendly.
For the holiday my boyfriend and I are going to my aunts house where we will meet up with my Mom and son. We will be having ham. I actually set up my Christmas tree this year and lights on two windows...last year I had a delusion that the tree was going to attack me so I could not set it up...lol
Mary Christmas every one!
Oh my goodness Mary, your thank you to Peter had me crying! Peter is so selfless and loving, you are very lucky indeed to have him as a husband. But you are also selfless and loving to him and he is lucky to have such an amazing wife as well! Sending love & light to you!
Ellyn E yes! Mary is not the only lucky one in this beautiful marriage!
i cried to god blessed you guys with each other its amazing you also help me today i just sat and let myself cry and i to thanked people this road maybe bumpy but the lord comforts and guilds us through so big thanks for inspiring and all you go through each day
i love your comment …i trully feel the same way. love you mary and Peter
Ellyn E Im so sad i see everyone so happy and Mary your so lucky to have such an a amazing husband there people out there in the world like me that arnt that like they dont get apresheated or tread with respect or loved at or 😢 hold on to that man with your dear life and never let go when God had a plan he had an amazing plan for you both congrates to you both hang in there Mary tour in my prayers always .....
Mary you have a good hearted husband who is so loving and caring peter is the worlds greatest husband you are blessed Mary and loved
#allthetears Way to go, Peter! You are a wonderful partner and caregiver! Praying for you Mary!
I totally understand the beganning statement. caregivers are the most important support we have in the chronic health life. I wish there was a way to show all the caregivers out there on how much we as the chronic health patients could do to show them how much we appreciate their wonderful help they give use (the ones that have a great team, cause I realize some aren't that fortornet (?spelling)( I wish that wasn't true but it is))a way that they realize we do appreciate and great fully understand the support they are giving!!! I have my mom but we're still looking for a specialist that's not on the east coast to help me with my Ehlers-Danlos syndrome, but my mom is the best support and advocator for me when I'm to much in pain to fight the ignorance of a unaware professional that truly doesn't get my daily life struggles due to my multiple diagnosis.
so I appreciate the love and support I do get from my mom and the inspiration that I find from other chronic health survivers like you and your family peter and oliver and others I know that have similar life struggles!! thanks to all the care givers in the world that truly are there 24.7 to help support me and others!! thank you!
Peter is the most amazing guy ever. I hope I find a caregiver/life long companion like him!!!! I really love watching your guy and the bond you have with eachother!! peter, I thank you for everything you do. ... (can you teach other guys to be more like you, haha jk)
Peter is truly a gift from God! We are all lucky to have Peter. We love you Peter!😇
Thank Peter , it takes a very special and selfless person.
I meant thank you, I skipped you.
I also want to thank Peter for taking such good care of you. He truly is an angel. Love and lots of hugs. I'm praying for a speedy recovery from surgery and that you get to go home soon. You two are amazing.
Mary, you have a supporting and caring husband! Peter is an amazing and supportive guy! Love you all! Hope you can go home soon Mary!
Peter, you are one of a kind. Thank you for supplying us with great vlogs and sharing your lives with us. Most of all, thanks for taking amazing care of Mary. You are so loving to her.
Another part time for Peter! Those monitors can drive one crazy!
Peter's faith shines through.
Peter is your rock Mary, but never underestimate your power in your marriage!
The most beautiful thing about this whole thing, is seeing how much you appreciate Peter (and everyone), and that makes you SO incredibly special, Mary. I can feel how much it urks you at times, because you want to do more, but please realize that you do more than you know to show how much you appreciate and love the people who support you. I wish I had a caregiver, besides myself, because on days like today (when I can barely move) I am not able to do the things that are a necessity (cook, shop if food is needed, laundry, take care of my cat, etc...) I am very grateful that you have the support you need, though, as you deserve it.
Peter thank u for taking care of Mary and loving her
I completely understand where you're coming from Mary. I got sick with a progressive disease almost 6 years ago (I'm now in a wheelchair for the most part, short distances with forearm crutches) and I had always been the one giving, and caring for others for the first almost 18 years of my life. It was what made me the happiest. Then I got sick and it's forced me to switch roles to the one needing help. It's so hard to be a carer when you need the care, and it's so impossible to ever say thank you to family, close friends, community, and doctors and nurses who have given you life.
Peter you are an amazing man! I pray that one day I find a man as caring and loving as you to take my hand in marriage. You bring so much hope to me that I won't be alone forever.
Always find the position in everyday. Smile and don't loose your sparkle. You are a amazing woman and strong.
Cant say it enough, how precious you both are. Gods many blessings to you both and prayer for your healing Mary and blessings to you Peter for being the wonderful man of God you are.
I cried along with you Mary. You have an amazing husband. I pray you feel better soon. God is watching you carefully. Keep that positive energy going. big hugs to you.
Peter, you work so hard and obviously love Mary so much. Thank you for all that you do. Stay strong.
Peter....your love and support of Mary is truly a beautiful thing! As a caregiver (my hubby has musc. dystrophy), I know it's hard work, even to the point of exhaustion....BUT, it's so worth it when we know we are helping our loved one!! XOXOXO
THANK YOU PETER for taking care of Mary (and Ollie!)!!! We love you guys!
THANK YOU MARY for doing your best, always! You inspire all of us!!!
Shelley Hooper my PCG is my boyfriend. I tell him all the time because I would never take for granted all he does for me. Mary is the same and I love this. Even though they don't require it, it tells good to thank our PCG as to us they keep us alive inside and it is nice to have someone with us through it. Thank you for being there for your husband. He probably thanks you in many ways he can but it is nice to hear.
thank you, Moriganna!
So well said, Shelley!
Shelley H my brother had muscular dystrophy. (Congenital merosin negative MD)
Peters & Mary, Love you! Praying lots for you. I am thanking our Lord and Savior for you!
As a CF mom myself I can say, yes, it's a lot of work and sometimes exhausting, BUT, the joy my daughter brings me cannot compare and I would choose this every time just to have her. I'm sure your parents and Peter both feel the same!! Peter is awesome though and I pray my daughter has an equally as awesome husband when she grows up. Sending love and well wishes! 💜
I feel for you and Peter. Every time you cry Mary...I cry.
Mary, u and I were blessed with two very rare men. I have been thru 9 spine surgeries, 13 weeks in the hospital last year alone, and my spinal cord was hit by a dr. my spinal cord is located outside of the spinal column at T12 due to the spinal cord injuries. My husband has been by my side the entire time. Many men would have walked by now but thankfully my hubby continues to be by my side and I could not imagine him not being here. I don't think I could make it without him. He is my ROCK.
aww Mary I cried right along with you. Your parents and Peter do what they do out of love. Peter is wonderful but so are you.
Things will get better.Think positive you have a awesome husband to make your life better.
Peter does so much and he’s such a great man. Peter deserves to be super proud of himself. You got a great husband, Mary!
So happy you and your sister were diagnosed early and are being taken care of as hard as things can be for you. I lost a family member to undiagnosed CF at a very young age in a horrific manner.
I am so sorry to hear that Christy :(
The Frey Life I think you are awesome. So positive even though this is difficult. In this video I wept with you as you cried in gratitude for your caregivers. What a beautiful soul you have Mary.
Awe precious tears💓💓 you are a delight. Peter making your bed. Love it
Peter you've got a heart of gold my friend. Your selfless and patient. God keep you both.
thank you heavenly father for peter! ...oh mary im sure peter appreciates all you are able to do for him you guys are truly such a great team !
You look brighter today, Mary! Peter is a gem of gems :) I am sure you KNOW he was destined to be your husband...and you his wife!
Your joy, dedication and love are inspiring. I am praying for rest and healing for the both of you.
When my partner was in hospital I spent 15 hours a day with him. Hospital in the UK don't have enough nurses to look after someone who needs support to do everything. That being said the time I spent at home was mainly wishing the night away so I could go back again. Hospitals here don't provide somewhere for a partner to sleep 😟
Debbie Sanderson I've always wondered how hospitals in UK cope with those of us with higher care needs. The one time I was in hospital whilst this disabled was awful as had no help and wasn't allowed anyone in to help me! Thankfully it was only like 3 days.
Debbie Sanderson wow thats amazing and so kind of you that shows tou love tour partner very much always always be there for eachother no matter what both eachothers love will grow even stronger and tou two will be unseperaterble God has a plan for you two . I wish i had that my boyfriend wont even give me the time of day he cheated on me with other women with phone you know what cant say its still cheating he got my toy truck well its not a toy but i keep my truck in thr garage its lifted and i done over 30 grand of work on it a new paimt job new tires new rims lift kit new muferler light bar off road pakage for to turn it into a prerunner to go on dirt roads and jumps hills up to 20 feet or more in the air and go over 100 on the dirt roads and cornors its a trophy truck so anys ways he got into an accidend he lied to me about it so like i said tou are very lucky to have a partner that loves you and care about you hang on to thay person sounds like a keeper i cry every night i feel very alone all i have is my service dog Simone and Mary and Peters vlogs so without that i would be lost happy Holidays to you what are you having for Christmas dinner Ham or Turkey?
God bless Peter and all of the caregivers out there❤️
Thank you Peter! You rock!
Peter you are a super star, as are Marys parents, but darling Mary, you care for us all every day via your vlogs. There is no way of thanking you for your support. huggs
I'm sure that your parents took care of you out of pure LOVE and also you have been blessed with such a loving husband in Peter! His love shows everytime he looks at you. Such a sweet couple!! Blessing to both of you.
You and Peter are the perfect pair to complement either others lives! God put him here to help you when you cant take care of yourself because we all need help every now and then. Just showing your love and appreciation is all that is needed for Peter and your family.
Mary, I sat with tears running down my face as you described how thankful you are for Peter and your parents. I completely know how it feels to need physical care from your loved ones since I have Spinal Muscular Atrophy. I am so grateful for my family and their care...from daily needs to the many hospital stays. Stay strong and God Bless you all.
Thank you for crying with us and laughing with us
Awww, Mary....you brought tears to my eyes! Yes! Caregivers are a true blessing to those they serve!
Prayers continue to be with you and Peter. Thank you for sharing your journey.
❤ you both.
It can be frustrating to be so dependent but there is a wondrous teaching opportunity for us to allow others to care
for us ---remember how good it feels to do for others when you can? It's amazing to be able to let others get that feeling too!
It's a real give and take circle of God's love.
My husband is the with way me, it takes a totally a very special person, a true hero!!!!!!!
Peter, you are wonderful husband for Mary :)
Mary you are a person who is totally and fully worthy of sacrificing for. God's promise fulfills in your and Peter's life. He never leaves us alone and his love is selfless and for free :) And you cannot thank him enough!
Praying for you two! I learned so much from your vlogs :)
You are lucky to have such a good husband taking care of you. Beautiful love connection!
Not everyone gets a Peter...you are blessed, Mary.
Wishing LOVE and ((HUGS)) and holiday wishes to you both! 💕🎄💕
God Bless you guys!!!! God Bless Peter!! such a great man of God after God's own heart
Mary I'm loving your haircut. They did a great job.
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I can relate to your emotions. I've been married to my husband for 12 years. I was very healthy when we got married. One year later I started getting sick. We found out I had lupus. We had started a business before we got married. It was a salon that I ran and did hair full time. I did it for 10 years being sick but I loved making others feel wonderful even if I went home depleted. After being a hair stylist for 27 years of my life I had to retire early due to my health. My husband is my number 1! He works full time and helps me full time. I don't know many men that would be as selfless as the men in our lives. A true blessing.
Amen, so thankful for our amazing husbands!
Thank you Peter!
Mary and Peter the love you have for one another is truly a beautiful thing to witness, you are both selfless and devoted to each other. I just have no other words. 💕✌️🌞🇨🇦🎄
I was a caregiver for my husband 7 years ago. It is very tough. Understand what Peter is going through. Hugs to you both
What a blessing you have Mary in Peter. You both are great and an inspiration to a lot of people.
And Mary it's so nice how you want to take care of the people that take care of you and of course you would cause that's just the kind of person u are and Peter your so wonderful for taking care of Mary and Mary u take care of Peter too which is just so amazing❤️
What a beautiful example of Christ-like love you are to us, Mary and Peter.
God bless you both.
Peter you are a super star! And Mary you are superwoman! But Ollie you are the best!
Mary, this was so precious and so meaningful for you to share your feelings and giving thanks to your caregivers. When you spoke of your Mom and Dad, I know they are so proud of you for being such a positive person and being such a trooper. You are like the little energizer bunny, or the little engine who could who says I think I could, I think I could. Small but mighty comes to mind. Much love and blessings over this holiday season.
Watching you two is like watching my busband and I. He is such an amazing man, husband and, father. Feel better soon Mary! Peter, hope you feel extra rested!
That chicken noodle balloon cracked me up!
Rebecca Steele ikr? lol
Rebecca Steele Me too i seen it too and i was like OMG that balloon is so cute i love it lol !!!!!
I'm glad that Mary is so grateful for her caregivers. I never doubted you were, but my family shares caregiving responsibilities for my grandmother and she's the opposite of grateful, which makes an already difficult and stressful situation even worse. Peter, please don't forget to take care of yourself too! It's a gift to Mary when you care for yourself so you can fully be there for her :)
This made me cry! You're so right, Peter is such an amazing, selfless person and we love watching him being the hands and feet of Jesus! What an inspiration! He sure holds the bar high for other husbands! :) And Mary, you were made to be his!! You are such a loving thoughtful wife and your relationship is really why people love watching your videos!! We dont watch to listen to an IV pump beeping, we watch because you two are simply precious and inspire us all!! Praying your health turns around in a hurry, but so very thankful you're at the best of the best hospitals!
😭😭😭😭 oh goodness Mary, all the tears 😭😭😭. The love between you two is so beautiful, and brings me so much joy. ❤️❤️❤️
In a word, or 2, You BOTH are beautiful people, no words can describe how wonderful both of you are and what you give out to ALMOST 100000 people, all of us in this crazy FREY LIFE FAMILY #thefreylife #shesnotcontageous #theyarecontageous
Peter is a true hero
Aww Mary I know the flood of emotion ur feeling when trying to thank Peter and ur parents for caring for you. I have several chronic illnesses and know the sacrifices that my husband and father make for me. I know I always say it but in this house we love y'all! God bless!
Mary you are a true inspiration to us all! Peter you are an amazing husband and I'm so glad God brought you two together! Ollie Boy you are just adorable! I love watching your videos and I talk about y'all as if you were my family to everyone I know. May God bless y'all and keep y'all safe. ❤️🙏🏻
Thank you Peter for helping Mary your amazing :) God Bless you
Stay strong Mary. You have about 10000 people supporting you. Praying you get the answers on your fungal cultures and can get the bast care and rest. And also that you may go home for Christmas! God bless you.
Aww mary. Dont worry in your next life you will be able to care for someone like peter does for you. Hes a good husband.
I love you guys.
You are a wonderful person and wife to Peter. You made me cry and also think about all the wonderful things my husband does for me. Thanks for being such a positive person and making me appropriate my life more and how blessed I am for my family and friends. I love watching your videos.
Hugs Mary and Peter!!
That is part of what drew me into watching your vlog everyday was seeing how much each of you really love and take care of each other. Peter I think it is truly a testament of your faith how well you take care of your wife. Mary I have watched you do many things for Peter also... like cooking for him, making him smile... he lights up when he sees you and that is important! You guys are super cute together!
So sweet..🎄☃️🐾
I`m in the hospital and I don`t know what I would do without my husband. He wanted me to come. God bless Peter and my husband Jamie.
Love to you Mary & Peter
Praying for you Mary. 💕❤️
Have been praying for you and Peter
sending you both tons of hugs and lots of love!
peter is your angel! got my cry quota for today!
God bless you both xx
Peter reminds me a lot of my husband. always so caring and willing to help. I'm a diabetic and sometimes when my sugars go crazy I can't get out of bed. I'm blessed to have a wonderful husband.
Me I always have to stay positive in the hospital. Truly all the caregivers that take care of me is amazing. They always go above and beyond and I can't thank them enough. Go Peter!
praying for you girlie