Letting go is hard.

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 85

  • @AnthonyJVu
    @AnthonyJVu  2 місяці тому +42

    Sometimes we hold onto dreams and relationships. It can be hard to let go of them when you feel like you’ve invested so much into them…

    • @AnthonyJVu
      @AnthonyJVu  2 місяці тому +1

      @Minothing33 perfectly said. It’s a leap of faith.

    • @durkiprogaming5819
      @durkiprogaming5819 Місяць тому

      What's the background music name?

    • @AnthonyJVu
      @AnthonyJVu  Місяць тому

      @@durkiprogaming5819lights are on instrumental - Tom rosenthal

  • @TamNguyen-yk9mn
    @TamNguyen-yk9mn Місяць тому +105

    Letting go is like 'trying not to try'. The paradox is weird

    • @dayanakarmila9802
      @dayanakarmila9802 Місяць тому +6

      realest thing. it's hard to let go when you are the type of person who doesn't know how to give up

    • @AnthonyJVu
      @AnthonyJVu  Місяць тому +3

      Life be complicated like that 😂

  • @tn5353
    @tn5353 Місяць тому +30

    Its hard to let go, bc in ur head theyre not the real person but the person you want them to be, the person who is so close to existing yet doesn't and it hurts cause you dont want to let go of that idea of a person even tho it was never real(great video btw i just discovered you n love ur content already)

    • @AnthonyJVu
      @AnthonyJVu  Місяць тому +6

      We sometimes hold out for what we want and blind ourselves to the truth. One of my favorite quotes is from Kung fu panda which is no matter how hard you pray for an apple or an orange, the peach tree will only have peaches. The hardest thing is accepting bc you have to let go of the illusion of control.

  • @user-tl4wq4cs5b
    @user-tl4wq4cs5b День тому +1

    If you wait for the right train you will never get to your destination
    Take a train without knowing where you can go but just enjoy the ride

  • @Skylab2219
    @Skylab2219 29 днів тому +13

    Who came after break up

    • @AnthonyJVu
      @AnthonyJVu  23 дні тому +4

      hope ur doing okay

    • @Skylab2219
      @Skylab2219 23 дні тому +1

      @@AnthonyJVu Yes I'm trying 🙂🌟

  • @AlexKrieg-hg6lp
    @AlexKrieg-hg6lp 2 місяці тому +19

    I recently just broke up with my girlfriend when I knew she liked someone else and finding this vid is helping me try to forget about it :)

    • @B0b842
      @B0b842 2 місяці тому +2

      Hey man, i dont have much experince with relationships but i still do have so much truma in my life. And its hard... things might be so truamtic and just a part of you to let go. But i want to tell you this, its ok! Things are ment to be broken and you just have to move on for the better. I hope your better off now.

    • @AnthonyJVu
      @AnthonyJVu  2 місяці тому +8

      I’m sorry to hear that. I’ve been there too. It’ll take time and it’s ok for it to hurt a while. All we can do is keep moving forward. Things get better I promise.

  • @DanielUBU2
    @DanielUBU2 Місяць тому +10

    My heart was shattered so fken hard, advice from my dad; if she’s gets with another guy would you consider taking her back? No ofc you wouldn’t..move on. 👊

  • @alynguyxn
    @alynguyxn Місяць тому +6

    this was really beautiful and made my day :) i've been stuck in this feeling of just being "there" and this video made it a little easier

    • @AnthonyJVu
      @AnthonyJVu  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you, I’m glad. I hope u find the thing that makes you wanna feel life again 🙂

    • @alynguyxn
      @alynguyxn Місяць тому

      @@AnthonyJVu of course!

  • @preppinghard
    @preppinghard 2 місяці тому +6

    this video was recommended and im glad i clicked on it. changed my perspective for the better. yes its scary, but it must be done. thank you for an amazing insight

    • @AnthonyJVu
      @AnthonyJVu  2 місяці тому +1

      I’m glad you were able to resonate with it. I appreciate it 🙏

  • @sreejashree6499
    @sreejashree6499 Місяць тому +5

    Felt like a hug

    • @AnthonyJVu
      @AnthonyJVu  Місяць тому

      Ty that’s what I aspire these videos to be like. Just a lil touch of warmth helps us all keep pushing 🫶

  • @caliorbustarika3310
    @caliorbustarika3310 Місяць тому +7

    just today, I applied for an apartment in a different city.
    i graduated a few months ago, but stayed around my university because i thought he would come back (he is still in school). but, as my luck would have it, he told me he started seeing someone else a week after i signed my lease.
    so now i have nothing here. i stayed here for him, and he let me go. he did not even give me the chance for a conversation. but i guess, he had nothing to say.
    it's hard to let someone go who, by the end of it, was never yours. it feels like i am letting go of someone who never existed.
    i wish i could tell him that i was suicidial that day. or how sorry i was. or how angry i was at him, for having sex with me when i was down and he had no-one to go to, and then dropping me a few weeks later. he knew just how badly i wanted to be with him. but i guess that was not enough.
    so. today i applied for an apartment in a different city. if it goes well, i will be moving in a month. and i think that will have to be my definition of letting go.

    • @AnthonyJVu
      @AnthonyJVu  Місяць тому +5

      Thank you for sharing your story. That takes courage. Life has different plans for you, and you didn’t need someone like that in your life anyway. Channel all that energy you feel into a new beginning. You are on a new train now and it’s ok to be unsure or scared. Just know whatever awaits you in that new city and your future will be full of refreshing opportunities and healing relationships. You just gotta have the courage to take hold of them. Much love ❤️

  • @kiraflugh
    @kiraflugh Місяць тому +3

    i love it when people share their experiences and stories and what they learned from the life and want to help others as well, life has a lot of up and downs and im in one of those downs rn, no matter i listen these advices or helps it helps for just a while, then u r going back to ur old thoughts cause u r used to them, so in the end everything depends on you, if u decide to love urself u will love urself and doesnt care what others says, but easy to say surely, im not enough in my eyes, i just see a lot of flaws and fails when i look at the mirror, i feel nervous every time even there is nothing to get nervous anymore, cause im used to feeling nervous, well at least im not keeping everything to myself anymore and seeking for help...thats something, right?

    • @AnthonyJVu
      @AnthonyJVu  Місяць тому +1

      Definitely! To be willing of change is the first step. Yes sometimes we can be stuck in self-deprecating habits. Change takes time, but one day you will look in the mirror and be proud of what you see. You’ll appreciate the scars bc they make it that much sweeter :)

    • @kiraflugh
      @kiraflugh Місяць тому

      @@AnthonyJVu looking for those days

  • @ariette06
    @ariette06 Місяць тому +1

    thank you, i really needed this, i just wish that it'd be a bit longer because your voice and the message is rly comforting, and i'm really hurt rn.

    • @AnthonyJVu
      @AnthonyJVu  Місяць тому +1

      I’m sorry I know it’s tough to have to sit through pain. I pray one day you come back to this video and ur comment will only give you nostalgia of a distant memory. Everything will turn out ok ❤️

  • @RevStar_
    @RevStar_ Місяць тому +5

    underrated.

  • @Melv1i
    @Melv1i 4 дні тому

    GOD DAMN I STRUCK GOLD. THIS CHANNEL IS SOO GOOOD. keep it up dawg. we all have our goals in life i pray you achieve yours

    • @AnthonyJVu
      @AnthonyJVu  16 годин тому

      Nahhhh u a real one. I appreciate you. I pray you achieve yours as well. Much love bro

  • @stuxduxx
    @stuxduxx Місяць тому +3

    100th sub. great content. hope this channel grows fast .

    • @AnthonyJVu
      @AnthonyJVu  Місяць тому +1

      @@stuxduxx I appreciate this so much. much love 🫶

  • @brafdaniel3958
    @brafdaniel3958 Місяць тому +2

    love your vids, you got talent bro :)

    • @AnthonyJVu
      @AnthonyJVu  Місяць тому

      I appreciate it man. Still looking to get better 🙏

  • @islandgirl_survivor04
    @islandgirl_survivor04 Місяць тому

    Good shit bro! This video popped up on my page exactly when I needed to hear this message the most. I switched my major last year and, even though I knew it was for the best, it made me question what my purpose in life really was. My new major has a lot of different fields and specialties to offer but I don’t know where I fit in yet.
    Watching this also made me reflect on my first relationship because I still regret how I ended things with him back then. As much as I want to talk to him, I know he has already healed and moved on while I’m still stuck on the past. I wished things turned out differently. But this video gave me the clarity and strength to move on. Thank you Anthony!

    • @AnthonyJVu
      @AnthonyJVu  29 днів тому

      Thank you! I’m glad you decided to take a leap of faith. It’s ok to not know where u fit in. Sometimes it’s not about finding yourself per se but building who you want to be. It’s not always about finding ur purpose based on “fitting in”, but creating your own wave. It also may be tough holding onto a conversation that never happened. Never feeling satisfied that your words were ever heard. But sometimes that’s ok. You don’t know it yet, but there’s more worthwhile things waiting for you in the future :)

  • @frickyourcomments
    @frickyourcomments 13 днів тому +1

    keep on creating man, this is gold ❤‍🔥

    • @AnthonyJVu
      @AnthonyJVu  9 днів тому +1

      Thank you I appreciate it bro 🙏

  • @umeshsingh-du3pk
    @umeshsingh-du3pk 4 дні тому

    It's so evil, when they make you fall in love with them with lies and later show their true color, the cruel manipulation tactics. Whom you trusted from the bottom of your heart and in an instant realizing that everything was a made up stories. In that case you have to let go, even tho you don't want to. Its gonna be hard but it's the best for you. 😊

    • @AnthonyJVu
      @AnthonyJVu  16 годин тому

      Can’t hold onto things that aren’t right for you. You were meant for greater things :)

  • @MiraeOverTheMoonFilms
    @MiraeOverTheMoonFilms 2 місяці тому

    thank you for sharing this! it really resonated with some of my recent endeavours and it gave me some perspective!

    • @AnthonyJVu
      @AnthonyJVu  2 місяці тому +1

      @@MiraeOverTheMoonFilms I wish you luck in whatever you’re pursuing ✌️

  • @boenje
    @boenje Місяць тому +2

    Bro, such a good script!

    • @AnthonyJVu
      @AnthonyJVu  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you! I want these to be genuine. I just hit record and just let my mind say whatever.

  • @Aakritijainn
    @Aakritijainn 28 днів тому

    This is so beautifully written ❤️

  • @adeelnasir6567
    @adeelnasir6567 Місяць тому

    Dude thank you for making this beautiful video for me I’ve been wanting to hear this from someone lately ✨
    Can i use your voice for my video?

    • @AnthonyJVu
      @AnthonyJVu  Місяць тому +1

      I’m glad! Yes as long as you can credit me for the audio. I am excited to see what you create

  • @ManWithLamp
    @ManWithLamp 25 днів тому

    Marvellous Video❤❤❤

  • @meiven.moreno
    @meiven.moreno Місяць тому

    FIRE VIDEOOOOO 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @suleimanrocknroll9067
    @suleimanrocknroll9067 27 днів тому

    I find myself wanting to make things work everytime but all it does is makes it more worse I had dreams I had plans and now it feels like I have nothing.

    • @AnthonyJVu
      @AnthonyJVu  23 дні тому

      I know it feels that way. You wanted something so bad and were convinced it was right for you. But sometimes those things weren’t meant to be. Sometimes what you need isn’t what you wanted. But eventually everything will make sense and turn out ok :)

  • @isabellawalser4150
    @isabellawalser4150 Місяць тому

    Wow!

  • @jamesdoanecompositions
    @jamesdoanecompositions Місяць тому

    Great job!

  • @c4rs0n.
    @c4rs0n. Місяць тому

    i love this

  • @ibtihalchadli2399
    @ibtihalchadli2399 25 днів тому

    Omg ur vid is fantastic ❤

  • @Lily-mz1yj
    @Lily-mz1yj Місяць тому

    the scenery is beautifully captured - what camera do you use and what do you use to edit?

    • @AnthonyJVu
      @AnthonyJVu  Місяць тому +1

      @@Lily-mz1yj as of rn til I save up to buy a real camera im using an iPhone 13. I use davinci resolve to edit. I’m still learning and getting better everyday

  • @Iamme_30663
    @Iamme_30663 Місяць тому

    I think god might’ve put this in my pyp because he sees me stressing about some girl 😭

    • @AnthonyJVu
      @AnthonyJVu  Місяць тому

      Hope it all works out for u bro

  • @joycegoes266
    @joycegoes266 23 дні тому

    You offer to god to help you to forget your ex

  • @GloriaSpeaking-i1l
    @GloriaSpeaking-i1l Місяць тому

    Im going through a heartbreak
    We planned a lot together
    But he left it 😢

    • @AnthonyJVu
      @AnthonyJVu  Місяць тому +1

      Sorry to hear that. It’s tough to let go of all that planning and hope. But it wasn’t the right investment for you. But there is more to come in your future that will be worth planting your hopes in, people or endeavors, that you will get to see blossom :)

    • @GloriaSpeaking-i1l
      @GloriaSpeaking-i1l Місяць тому

      @@AnthonyJVu thanks 🥹

  • @seeneditss
    @seeneditss 3 дні тому

    bro the bgm ?

    • @AnthonyJVu
      @AnthonyJVu  16 годин тому

      Lights are on instrumental

  • @DionMango
    @DionMango Місяць тому

    Can i ask if i can use the audio for an edit?

    • @AnthonyJVu
      @AnthonyJVu  Місяць тому

      Thanks for asking. Yes I don’t mind as long as you can credit me for the audio. Would love to see what it inspires u to make

  • @RAYMCHANNEL
    @RAYMCHANNEL 28 днів тому

    What the song name?

    • @AnthonyJVu
      @AnthonyJVu  23 дні тому

      Lights are on instrumental - Tom Rosenthal

  • @2Pro9000
    @2Pro9000 2 місяці тому +4

    Jesus loves u

  • @user-uv4vn1js8o
    @user-uv4vn1js8o 26 днів тому

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    0:13
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  • @bronco586
    @bronco586 Місяць тому

    Every man/women has been blessed/cursed at birth with the Spirit...
    not the holy spirit... the holy spirit has to be attained. If you do not believe that statement that is okay.
    the Spirit that we are given at birth however is the very thing that test us every single moment of our existence.
    Please read the Quran to understand why the Spirit is basically barcode with your information. This very spirit will be with you during your final judgement... Allah will judge every single spirit!! whats in your spirit right now? is it the Grace of the only God(Allah)? Whatever that is in your spirit at any moment will attempt to destroy you! Allah knows this, That is why Allah blessed manking with the message.. The Quran is a message not of hope or faith but a message directly for your spirit to stay with Him(Allah). Allah will never try to destroy you aslong as you stay with him(Allah) and only him!

  • @IMATofficiall
    @IMATofficiall Місяць тому +1

    Get out of the comments and focus on the vide

  • @socialstealthh
    @socialstealthh 29 днів тому

    It's really not