Understanding love vs emotional addiction is super important if you want a relationship that lasts. Real love doesn’t feel like a rollercoaster and it makes you feel safe, not crazy.
We have to detach from seeking our parents love and find it within ourselves. When we find it within ourselves, we can radiate it to the right partner. When its real, its healing. Avoidance is numbing. We dont want to face real love because it means we will get hurt. But when you really love someone, you would rather jeopardize your heart than experience a life without him/her. Being with them gives you purpose, serenity, and strength.
Men I have a relationship are often challenged and transformed by me but I am not challenged by most of them. I would like to be with a man who challenge me and make me grow. Until now I’m growing by myself.
the only true love is through Jesus Christ n it is exactly as you state above. find a man also in love with Him n you can then share the only true love possible on earth
@@naftalimoses Yes, I have experienced this personally, and it was nothing short of transformative. What I learned is that true love isn’t about someone else completing you-it’s a mirror, reflecting the profound truth that love resides within you. 🤍 love is who we are in our core 🦋
Did you catch that.... "The love that we seek is the love that we never have, only to go on a journey to realize that we've always had." 👏 One of the truest statements I've heard in a while. Naftali, you never cease to amaze me.
Can somebody help explain this paradox of a statement? ❤ Can it even be explained? Can it be experienced; and how? And what is the value behind "understanding it"? 🤔
@@elektrotehnik94 it can only be understood when we are willing to recognize that our life here on earth isnt just random and that our souls made agreements and contracts before being born onto this earth to learn and experience the essence and intention of the creator which is love. and we can experience it when we understand that we are the creator of the created and the value of it is connection in the truest sense
True love is the one thing I’ve never experienced but always strived for. The beast is in ourselves and we need to integrate that and love ourselves. Then we can love the same in others.
I realized my last relationship wasn’t love at all. I felt obsessed and crazy. The guy i was with before him made me feel safe and i never had to worry about anything. All i can say is I’m glad I’m not with either of them. I found who I am while being single for 3 years. And now Im on a journey to find my life’s purpose.
Oooooooh you said courage! Thats it! To look at our parts, in others, and then ourselves and offer those parts love instead of turning away, takes courage. My favorite quote of any movie is the King Arthur Legend of the Sword. The scene where the Mage asks Arthur if he saw everything he needed to see in the darklands and says, “Don’t get me wrong. I look away. We all look away. But that is the difference between a man and a King.”
She could have been perfectly completely content alone. Bell was very educated and well rounded so she wasn't needy. She was whole on her own, however to love and be truly love adds a new adventure into greater depths. ❤
Hey Brother! I Love your stuff!! I was conditioned to believe nothing but lies...about LOve, Life, and God! What a fuckn' journey it has been to unravel the illusions, and salvage a life that was is in alignment with Love and truth! Im 64 years young, very hopeful & determined that I can experience this "True Love!"
You genuinely should have millions of views because some of these videos could single-handedly change somebody’s life immediately and I mean just one of these videos they offered the most exclusive and powerful advice
I remember seeing like two or three videos in my for you page a month ago, and I immediately subscribed because it’s almost like he was speaking directly to me and figuring out and already diagnosing my issues for me🙏🙏🙏❤️ appreciate it naftali
This video blew my mind. I will have to watch it again. So much food for thought. Thanks to the algorithm for suggesting this to me. ❤ love is transcendence
Hey... I know it may sound a bit cringe...ig...haha But I wanna tell u that u give that beautiful kind of vibe which I thought no man could exist with... Actually, no...I knew men with this kind of deep sense of love exist, but never had one in my life so all the saddens and betrayals from them was pushing me away from the believe that men who actually want REAL love exist in this generation. Like I said I know BEAUTIFUL men exist but not meeting any of them was making it difficult to trust that thought. So I wanna thank you for simply being this beautiful and u may not believe it but u have literally given me the hope that men who actually want to have REAL LOVE exist. I did not write this comment to hurt anyone and if I did, I am soo sorry...it's just that betrayals are not easy to forget, maybe forgive but not forget.
Cool-videos! My five-year relationship came to an end a month ago. The love of my life chose to leave, and I can't stop thinking about him; I love him so deeply. I've done everything I can to win him back, but nothing seems to work. I'm feeling frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my efforts to move on, I just can't shake the thoughts of him. I don’t know why I’m sharing this, (but I really miss him)
I just sought him up online thanks to your helpful information. remarkable I just checked Father Obah Eze online, and he's really genuine. Thank you again ❤
How about turn pain to power. Every broken heart teaches you something. You teach them, too. Instead of drowning in sadness turn this into resilience (don't mistake it with stonewalling) and wisdom. Loving someone in today’s world requires HUGE COURAGE because so many run away or shut their hearts down. It is so easy. Our generation mastered avoidance and ghosting. We blame our parents for our attachment styles, our narcissistic exes and hide. I had my heart broken so many times that it should be dead by now. Karmic, soulmates, Twin Flame as the brutal cherry on the top. When I worked on my shadow integration I had moments of fear that I won't find someone as strong as me. No one would be able to handle me in my purest form. I’ve spent most of my life limiting myself, trying to shrink to not scare people because my ability to love is cosmic. And just like you said love I wanted was inside of me. I craved a protector, someone who would fight with me against darkness, to find out that I can give all the love and protection to myself, too.
Just came across you for the first time. Thank you for your insights. I've been told in many a meditation that there are degrees of love, and the truest of all requires the greatest sacrifice. All depends what you're willing to give up. Everyone's value system is different though. Some people value security over that level of love. I understand that, even though for me love trumps all else.
I have listened to many relationships coaches , they are incredible but still so much logical buried in it, some spiritual guidance is also way too much irrational and too dreamy to listen to. Those couldn’t explain the mysterious part of love and how it could affect the behavior and how it could transform into real love. Although it’s true but they are very short-sighted in reality. But here, the way you explain it metaphorically. It really helps me to understand the mysterious part that has been undiscovered and unspoken. It’s deeper than just logical explanations. That’s what makes your channel different. You deserve much more followers tho. Thank you so much.
Because everyone lives with a temporary mindset, not eternal mindset. You can lovetruly, only if you know that you live forever, and you are loved forever by Someone
Wowww...woww...i want to write lot of wowws in here. Because how you are admitting your feelings which most of the men don't do that. Like hats off to you n every man in this world should learn from you...like you are mentor to them. This is so true...if it is true love, then it will challenge you. And i also believe True Love is Transforming. It will make you love the part of yourself which you repressed the most. I hope every man should follow your steps.
One of your best vids. And not alot of tangents or at least they're trackable and link back well. Like the use of the fairy tale analogies. Helps to conceptualise.
🙏😭Yes Sir!!! I can't tell you how timely this is. Feels like God handed you some sort of telescope to peek into my life from afar. Right from the jump, to the archetype and dreams, etc, I could relate. I have known someone for close to 5years who purely challenges me in various ways and felt, afraid, inadequate and eventually undeserving. My flaws seemed magnified in comparison to the person he is. Surely he isn't perfect but everything about him just made me check myself. So, I embarked on a journey of prayer, self awareness and discovery. Sort of like imploding and learning to undo the parts of me that I felt were vices, but also relearning to love the bits of me that I stashed away. This journey has brought me unimaginable peace and satisfaction. And I know I'll eventually be able to say, "I AM OKAY" without a trace of doubt. May God bless you Sir and expand your influence for His glory. I shall subscribe right away❤. Thank you🍃. Ps: i cried my eyeballs out because of the accuracy.
Naftali! You are very wise. This knowledge can only come from God, as your understanding is very deep. Thank you for sharing. God bless you and yours 😉🙏
Great video! Alot of what you were describing can be found in other videos about love and finding yourself. But, the ending clicked for me. Invite love in but evaluate why you feels those feelings of unworthiness. I lost a good potential relationship with a great guy because I couldnt accept him. Why does he want me? I ended up rejecting him and now I regret it. Maybe we couldve had a relationship for about 4 years until we break up. But, I wouldve had a chance of finding love with him if only I accepted him. I understand alot better now.
11:09 it’s all centred around learning to love and accept ourselves - which is easier to do once we connect to our higher selves. So what should the be the real goal in order to inspire more people to truly accept their masculine / feminine nature in its truest form? I believe it has to do with learning what unconditional love really is and how can we do it for ourselves. Then once we learn this and how to connect to our higher selves - this acceptance is the freedom we need to be able to change our worldly and share the love with others
Thank you for making your videos. My life course has been altered (and I'm voluntary altering it further) and your videos are so relevant to me right now, especially. Thank you. ❤ Crying good tears...
We have to detach from seeking our parents love and find it within ourselves. When we find it within ourselves, we can radiate it to the right partner. When its real, its healing.
He's composing some good information. I'm taking my notes here, but he reminds me of Falco kinda looks like him to the way he carries himself he's got it.
I enjoy listening to u so much…bc i can relate see my family n friends see me self sufficient But somewhere deep i felt insecure not enough Now I see u handsome but u r vulnerable the way u talk so inspires…..u should write a book 🥰🫶
Hmmm... Unlovable things about me that I struggle to Love... I'm too much. I try to persevere when I really should just end relationships after boundary crossing. I get really Mad when my bids for connection, prioritisation & Clarity are ignored & dismissed - THIS is probably the biggest unlovable thing about me that I struggle to accept.
Who are you Gent? Are you married or in some type of serious relationship? Who ever you are with, needs to be a hell of a woman to match that mind of yours and fulfill it!!! You sounded sooo passionate about this. So Love challenges us. That's why I clicked on this video. What really resonated and hit me though was the mention of us going for what is deeply suppressed in our own subconscious minds. I really SEE now that whether in a book (especially) or Movie, I'm ALWAYS most attracted to the 'dark' dominant, powerful, masculine, successful, fearless, directly purposeful, sexual, controlling etc. Man. What people online today would call toxic heterosexual white Men. Something to really think about and write about now. I'm always writing. So thank you. I knew I would get something personal deep and valuable from this video, I may watch more videos. I can tell, you are really an independent, deep, experienced, thinker. Very rare nowadays, 'I think.'
8:08 let me get esoteric on you and tell you my higher self has shown me visions of why and how a soul connection between a true masculine in their power and a true feminine in her power - an exchange of trust and surrender- is a key to humans continuing their evolutionary process in mind, body and soul. Literally the key for many in order to raise their vibration to be able to ascend
5:12 the beast is raw, unfiltered and real. We all need to see the real beast behind the human - we all have an animal side. If we cannot make peace with that we cannot be whole or balanced in our own energy
Once someone asked the woman: -What do you want? -To know.. Once someone asked the man: -What do you want? -To feel.. Once the man shouted on the devil: -What do you want?! -War! Once the woman screamed on devil: -What do you want?? -From you..? Nothing! I want your heart!
Im on a journey to find that love within me. But today I had the strongest urge to want to hug someone, in a romantic way. i have a 3d body with 3d needs that I am not sure how to meet on this journey
Marriage is not for everyone on this planet.I’m 32 still single,genuinely happy and independent.I don’t need and want another person to fulfill my happiness.
I love the dream you had about blockage. ❤I had the same experience . Although I am a feminine woman in my twenties I had lost the inner tenderness, caring, softness, feminine charewterisrics. I had it in me, but I had to revive them. How ? by letting go of worldly goals and ambitions. They were suppressing all my inner life force and softness. Men or women, we all have it inside of us!
The one, who I thought is the love of my life, just left me for the third time. First time, because I wasn‘t ready to move in with him after 4 weeks dating. Second time, because I said, that I‘d like to be married in the future and he couldn‘t deal with that, because he doesn’t want to be married ever. Now, 2.5 yrs after a rocky relationship because I withdrew more and more. Couldn‘t heal the trauma of the first 2 breakups. Talking didn‘t help. Now I need a traumatherapy. Still devastated. This wasn‘t challenge of real love, I guess. It was probably just not meant to be.
Just don't give up! Please! Let it work, let it die. Go speak, smile, cry, think, pray, forgive, fall back, fight, give thanks, hate, shout, raise, but don't you give up on love and on yourself. It was real. You were real in that, so protect that realness. Prove yourself and to God that your love was real and you meant to give that. He can go and live his life in peace wherever where he wants to, it's not your business. Let him go in peace every minute again and again and again... But you just listen to the Love in you. What that love desires and asking from YOU? Listen to it and watch in the end how beautiful unknown flower gonna grow out from the dark ground as a mirror of you. Give to it years and don't think it's gonna be tomorrow, and don't you think that you are ready!! Because you can be ready, but if you are, the next what you need to do is to die for every afford and for every hard work and for the looong years you invested into the process to get ready. And watch out, because no flower can grow while we are about to mow the grass and to plow the land. 🌹
This is so beautiful. Thank you for your kind and powerful words. It is going to be a long way. I feel love. A love that is a profound one and includes all beings. Except for me.
Yes, you are probably right. Or he craved also for our connection but followed his patterns to build it. And our core wounds and patterns made us see each other - sometimes - as enemies. Hurt people hurt people.
@@katkat7241 probably we should put down the lenses how they can see and mean the things, specially if they don't want to hold us and they don't have the same goals as we do. How Naftali wisely said the 3 types of man characters, probably this one is Gaston for you. He doesn't want kids, family, marriage. He is on the masculine level of a 15 years old boy. Maybe once he will lovet to have those things for someone else, but not for you. But still he will have deficit of character that good luck for that woman. But however... Last month I met a girl who wanted to go to a court with her ex and she was all the time speaking about HIM and HIS actions and HIS views of point and words HE SAID and HIS new girlfriend. .. But you know she doesn't really cared about how damn bad and destroyed she is and how damn big work she got on herself. So she had 2 joices: to go to the court to accusing him and have focus on him for couple more years how peace of sh*t he is. And I asked her - That's the story you want to tell to your grandchildren when you will be a grandma? Or just simply accept the money he is offering to you, move out from the flat and turn back and start to heal and care about YOU, about YOUR life. You know, after the loong and hard years of pain and hate, when we finally forgive what happens that we already put down how THEY were, how THEY treated us, how much THEY hurted us, and we finally start to focus on OURSELVES and on OUR life and on OUR presence and we leave them in peace in our mind. That's the point where we are dropping our last tears and we are ready to forgive and move forward, when we already see ourselves and not the other person. So don't try to think with his head and don't think that he will change. And how Naftali said, care about your inadequacies and insufficiencies - you got there a loot of work instead of mentioning him. 🤍
*IMPORTANT* (pls i just wanna help, i gain nothing from you reading this) I found a book that shows why couples fall out of love after some years and solves most if not all the drama in relationships, plus showing how you can stay in love your whole life pretty much, highly science based btw and still a fun read. Nope not too good to be true. Its called "cupids poisoned arrow" and it was the most important book ive ever read, at all really and definitly on relationships. Give it a try, its really THE answer i belive (i finished it already) I gain nothing from you getting it btw so this cant be an add so PLEASE dont take it down i just wanna make as many as possible happy. I trust you.
Maybe you could elaborate on how woman are "nieve " by being in a narcissistic type relationship ( I say type because most women haven't been in a relationship with a diagnosed narcissist, but a man with similar traits). You lost me when you said " what do think when she's looking at when sees Beast? Dark male characteristics. What do you think happens to women when they avoid those dark male characteristics? They end up with a Gaston. And you can put your hands up ladies if you've had your narcissistic abusive relationships, it typically comes from your naiveté, understanding the challenge that is required from you, when you have to face the parts of youself that you reject. What does that pop up as? Beast." You stated that Beast represents the dark male characteristics in the eyes of Bell, and if they avoid those traits, they end up with Gaston. But she also sees the same dark traits in Gaston. Beast she sees a monster who's willing to rip apart a family, hold a woman hostage, and a literal wild animal, or one in the same as the wolves that were the in fact one of the main causes that her father needed to seek shelter from the storm. With Gaston she sees the narcissistic traits, that you say women are so nieve to. But I'm not sure how this correlates to a woman rejecting parts of herself or any challenges that she might need to face. Women end up with men that the Gaston type because they mistake confidence with competence, when in fact the confidence is his self centeredness. He uses this confidence to lure in and trick any woman who believes his flattery. Basically he lies about who he really is, which is easy to fall for considering all the evidence shows that he's a well respected man held in high esteem by the towns men and is the ideal partner in the eyes of the eligible towns women. This would be no diffrent if the roles were reversed and it was the most desired woman in town showing intrest in some seemingly ordinary man. In both cases either male or female would fall victim to the charms of the highly desirable masked narcissist. Most women would see the Beast as a threat. Which is a very real concern for most if not all women in the world today.( hence the bear vs man in the woods earlier this year) Given the situation, I'm not sure where a woman rejecting the dark parts of her self come into play. Maybe you could further explaine this in a few minute video when you have the opportunity or the time. Thank you, and I appreciate the time you take making this type of informative content.
You’re becoming aware of a very important distinction, that the characteristics aren’t the issue it’s the awareness and direction of those characteristics. The beauty of the story is that Bell and beast grow together. They exist outside of how they are seen. It’s in the choices they make.
@@naftalimoses ok to clarify; its not the rejection of those characteristics so much as it's the awareness that they each in turn have AND are aware that they possess these dark traits. this awareness grants them the courage to test any stereotype placed there by society..... .......(and quite frankly by themselves simply because they were raised in such a manner that acknowledging these dark characteristics is already taboo, but to actually allow ones self to use these said dark characteristics would practically be seen as a form of blasphemy, and nevermind even considering the possibility that there might be any positive outcome from nither acknowledging or putting them into action)... ...... simply by having the willingness to display and at times use these very same characteristics that they are aware of in themselves, are aware of in each other, and despite the fear imposed by society, are willing to voluntary face, but even more importantly USE. By testing these so-called dark parts of themselves they learn that not only are these dark characteristics anything but dark, but are in fact essential, because in reality and in nature, are perfectly innate. Is this correct?
@@naftalimoses also, if possible, I'd like to bring to your awareness a version of the Disney story line that to my knowledge has not been addressed by anyone including Mr. Peterson, is there an email that you can point me in the direction of, so I can run it by you. If you like your more than welcome to use it. I'm not feeling credit just believe this information should be at least introduced, how the world takes it, well to be blunt, I could give two f*cks how the masses receives it, as long as the seed is planted into their awareness is all that would matter. Thank you for your time.
Understanding love vs emotional addiction is super important if you want a relationship that lasts. Real love doesn’t feel like a rollercoaster and it makes you feel safe, not crazy.
GOD ISNT CONFUSION!
SO ITS NOT FROM GOD.
Agreed
We have to detach from seeking our parents love and find it within ourselves. When we find it within ourselves, we can radiate it to the right partner. When its real, its healing.
Avoidance is numbing. We dont want to face real love because it means we will get hurt. But when you really love someone, you would rather jeopardize your heart than experience a life without him/her. Being with them gives you purpose, serenity, and strength.
This is so beautifully written, thank you so much for sharing
In love with a dismissive avoidant. Its a fucking journey
Men I have a relationship are often challenged and transformed by me but I am not challenged by most of them. I would like to be with a man who challenge me and make me grow. Until now I’m growing by myself.
True love elevates you to your highest self. It dismantles the ego, creating space for your authentic essence to radiate fully.
Curious, did you experienced this personally?
Yes @@naftalimoses
the only true love is through Jesus Christ n it is exactly as you state above. find a man also in love with Him n you can then share the only true love possible on earth
@@naftalimoses Yes, I have experienced this personally, and it was nothing short of transformative. What I learned is that true love isn’t about someone else completing you-it’s a mirror, reflecting the profound truth that love resides within you. 🤍 love is who we are in our core 🦋
@@suewomack5960 🦋
Did you catch that.... "The love that we seek is the love that we never have, only to go on a journey to realize that we've always had." 👏
One of the truest statements I've heard in a while.
Naftali, you never cease to amaze me.
God bless
It is an honor and pleasure
Can somebody help explain this paradox of a statement? ❤
Can it even be explained?
Can it be experienced; and how? And what is the value behind "understanding it"? 🤔
😮😮😮😮
@@elektrotehnik94 it can only be understood when we are willing to recognize that our life here on earth isnt just random and that our souls made agreements and contracts before being born onto this earth to learn and experience the essence and intention of the creator which is love. and we can experience it when we understand that we are the creator of the created and the value of it is connection in the truest sense
“Why do you not deserve that love?!” I love that for our parts. I love that you are addressing the darkest parts. Integration.
True love is the one thing I’ve never experienced but always strived for. The beast is in ourselves and we need to integrate that and love ourselves. Then we can love the same in others.
True Love will challenge you and you will be challenged if you truly love. ❤
I realized my last relationship wasn’t love at all. I felt obsessed and crazy. The guy i was with before him made me feel safe and i never had to worry about anything. All i can say is I’m glad I’m not with either of them. I found who I am while being single for 3 years. And now Im on a journey to find my life’s purpose.
Oooooooh you said courage! Thats it! To look at our parts, in others, and then ourselves and offer those parts love instead of turning away, takes courage. My favorite quote of any movie is the King Arthur Legend of the Sword. The scene where the Mage asks Arthur if he saw everything he needed to see in the darklands and says, “Don’t get me wrong. I look away. We all look away. But that is the difference between a man and a King.”
She could have been perfectly completely content alone. Bell was very educated and well rounded so she wasn't needy. She was whole on her own, however to love and be truly love adds a new adventure into greater depths. ❤
Hey Brother! I Love your stuff!! I was conditioned to believe nothing but lies...about LOve, Life, and God! What a fuckn' journey it has been to unravel the illusions, and salvage a life that was is in alignment with Love and truth! Im 64 years young, very hopeful & determined that I can experience this "True Love!"
You genuinely should have millions of views because some of these videos could single-handedly change somebody’s life immediately and I mean just one of these videos they offered the most exclusive and powerful advice
I remember seeing like two or three videos in my for you page a month ago, and I immediately subscribed because it’s almost like he was speaking directly to me and figuring out and already diagnosing my issues for me🙏🙏🙏❤️ appreciate it naftali
Facts
God bless you. Your support means a lot
Watch a few more then. I thought the same. You might change your mind
❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️ the love we seek, is the love we never had. I have rejected a deep emotional connection and yet I’ crave it
The best love story is with yourself ❤️ master that than it easy to fall in love with anyone. Find the happiness within than feel easy from others😜✅💯
You'll attract the love you feel you're worthy of receiving.
God is love, that is why it is beyond our comprehension. God is beyond our comprehension.
This video blew my mind. I will have to watch it again. So much food for thought. Thanks to the algorithm for suggesting this to me. ❤ love is transcendence
Fantastic!
That dark knight :) of the soul. Is confrontation to death of the old you and its proving to be difficult for me. But forward is inward.
My god, I love your thinking and articulation.
Well I guess you have to pick some-one. May you continue upward in health, peace, and joy.
Love will challenge what you value most to sacrifice for love. If you can’t overcome it then you’ll carry on like your other relationships.
Finally. Good to know men like u do exist. That inspires hope as well. Thank u. 🎉
Always!
Grow up
Hey... I know it may sound a bit cringe...ig...haha
But I wanna tell u that u give that beautiful kind of vibe which I thought no man could exist with...
Actually, no...I knew men with this kind of deep sense of love exist, but never had one in my life so all the saddens and betrayals from them was pushing me away from the believe that men who actually want REAL love exist in this generation. Like I said I know BEAUTIFUL men exist but not meeting any of them was making it difficult to trust that thought.
So I wanna thank you for simply being this beautiful and u may not believe it but u have literally given me the hope that men who actually want to have REAL LOVE exist.
I did not write this comment to hurt anyone and if I did, I am soo sorry...it's just that betrayals are not easy to forget, maybe forgive but not forget.
Cool-videos! My five-year relationship came to an end a month ago. The love of my life chose to leave, and I can't stop thinking about him; I love him so deeply. I've done everything I can to win him back, but nothing seems to work. I'm feeling frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my efforts to move on, I just can't shake the thoughts of him. I don’t know why I’m sharing this, (but I really miss him)
It's interesting! How can I contact a spiritual counselor most efficiently, and how did you find one?
He can assist you; he is Father Obah Eze, and he possesses immense powers.
I just sought him up online thanks to your helpful information. remarkable
I just checked Father Obah Eze online, and he's really genuine. Thank you again ❤
You will be fine. Perhaps universe have better plan for you
Try to figure out why it happened, what is there in there for u to learn. The moment u understand is the moment u are free.
How about turn pain to power. Every broken heart teaches you something. You teach them, too. Instead of drowning in sadness turn this into resilience (don't mistake it with stonewalling) and wisdom. Loving someone in today’s world requires HUGE COURAGE because so many run away or shut their hearts down. It is so easy. Our generation mastered avoidance and ghosting. We blame our parents for our attachment styles, our narcissistic exes and hide.
I had my heart broken so many times that it should be dead by now. Karmic, soulmates, Twin Flame as the brutal cherry on the top. When I worked on my shadow integration I had moments of fear that I won't find someone as strong as me. No one would be able to handle me in my purest form. I’ve spent most of my life limiting myself, trying to shrink to not scare people because my ability to love is cosmic. And just like you said love I wanted was inside of me. I craved a protector, someone who would fight with me against darkness, to find out that I can give all the love and protection to myself, too.
Wonderfully written, it inspired me. Thanks.
Just came across you for the first time. Thank you for your insights. I've been told in many a meditation that there are degrees of love, and the truest of all requires the greatest sacrifice. All depends what you're willing to give up. Everyone's value system is different though. Some people value security over that level of love. I understand that, even though for me love trumps all else.
Straight up !! This information is well needed and so synchronized with my journey!!
Truly appreciate this lecture and the analogy 🔥
I have listened to many relationships coaches , they are incredible but still so much logical buried in it, some spiritual guidance is also way too much irrational and too dreamy to listen to.
Those couldn’t explain the mysterious part of love and how it could affect the behavior and how it could transform into real love. Although it’s true but they are very short-sighted in reality.
But here, the way you explain it metaphorically. It really helps me to understand the mysterious part that has been undiscovered and unspoken.
It’s deeper than just logical explanations.
That’s what makes your channel different.
You deserve much more followers tho. Thank you so much.
Because everyone lives with a temporary mindset, not eternal mindset. You can lovetruly, only if you know that you live forever, and you are loved forever by Someone
Your generalizing . Everyone doesn’t live with a temporary mindset , it’s a start you have finally realised this at least .
Wowww...woww...i want to write lot of wowws in here. Because how you are admitting your feelings which most of the men don't do that. Like hats off to you n every man in this world should learn from you...like you are mentor to them.
This is so true...if it is true love, then it will challenge you. And i also believe True Love is Transforming. It will make you love the part of yourself which you repressed the most. I hope every man should follow your steps.
GOD working here...
Love is great...If you love GOD you know love!
@kathymiller4385 love to hear this 😊
One of your best vids. And not alot of tangents or at least they're trackable and link back well. Like the use of the fairy tale analogies. Helps to conceptualise.
🙏😭Yes Sir!!! I can't tell you how timely this is. Feels like God handed you some sort of telescope to peek into my life from afar. Right from the jump, to the archetype and dreams, etc, I could relate.
I have known someone for close to 5years who purely challenges me in various ways and felt, afraid, inadequate and eventually undeserving. My flaws seemed magnified in comparison to the person he is. Surely he isn't perfect but everything about him just made me check myself.
So, I embarked on a journey of prayer, self awareness and discovery. Sort of like imploding and learning to undo the parts of me that I felt were vices, but also relearning to love the bits of me that I stashed away. This journey has brought me unimaginable peace and satisfaction.
And I know I'll eventually be able to say, "I AM OKAY" without a trace of doubt.
May God bless you Sir and expand your influence for His glory.
I shall subscribe right away❤. Thank you🍃.
Ps: i cried my eyeballs out because of the accuracy.
Wonderful realisation. Reach out to me on Instagram to go deeper from here.
@naftalimoses Sure thing. I need depth and all the help I can get🙏.
It’s called a twin flame journey.
You have such an inspiring, intuitive mind. I can’t wait to work together one day. Thank you for your message here and inviting us on this journey.
Looking forward to that day as well
Naftali! You are very wise. This knowledge can only come from God, as your understanding is very deep. Thank you for sharing. God bless you and yours 😉🙏
Great video! Alot of what you were describing can be found in other videos about love and finding yourself. But, the ending clicked for me. Invite love in but evaluate why you feels those feelings of unworthiness. I lost a good potential relationship with a great guy because I couldnt accept him. Why does he want me? I ended up rejecting him and now I regret it. Maybe we couldve had a relationship for about 4 years until we break up. But, I wouldve had a chance of finding love with him if only I accepted him. I understand alot better now.
Love is like a rainy sunday afternoon, cuddling with you SP.
No roller coaster. Just like something very flat and secure. Its home
11:09 it’s all centred around learning to love and accept ourselves - which is easier to do once we connect to our higher selves. So what should the be the real goal in order to inspire more people to truly accept their masculine / feminine nature in its truest form? I believe it has to do with learning what unconditional love really is and how can we do it for ourselves. Then once we learn this and how to connect to our higher selves - this acceptance is the freedom we need to be able to change our worldly and share the love with others
Thank you for making your videos. My life course has been altered (and I'm voluntary altering it further) and your videos are so relevant to me right now, especially. Thank you. ❤ Crying good tears...
Welcome
Sometimes the one we love is also the one we hate
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You changed the way I think of life
God bless
We have to detach from seeking our parents love and find it within ourselves. When we find it within ourselves, we can radiate it to the right partner. When its real, its healing.
He's composing some good information. I'm taking my notes here, but he reminds me of Falco kinda looks like him to the way he carries himself he's got it.
Yes, because we lied to ourselves.
I enjoy listening to u so much…bc i can relate see
my family n friends see me self sufficient
But somewhere deep i felt insecure not enough
Now I see u handsome but u r vulnerable the way u talk so inspires…..u should write a book 🥰🫶
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Just had my vibe checked and ego destroyed by a wonderful woman that’s gone forever.
Got Goosebumps watching this, thanks for this beautiful video
Very welcome
Truly amazing ❤❤❤❤
Hmmm... Unlovable things about me that I struggle to Love... I'm too much. I try to persevere when I really should just end relationships after boundary crossing. I get really Mad when my bids for connection, prioritisation & Clarity are ignored & dismissed - THIS is probably the biggest unlovable thing about me that I struggle to accept.
You are not alone in that. I think if people were honest there would be more than just myself that have the same pattern.
I have that exact problem. I think it's not accepting something about us.
You’re such a Poet 🙌!!))
Open up and prepare to the big fall….
Who are you Gent? Are you married or in some type of serious relationship? Who ever you are with, needs to be a hell of a woman to match that mind of yours and fulfill it!!! You sounded sooo passionate about this. So Love challenges us. That's why I clicked on this video. What really resonated and hit me though was the mention of us going for what is deeply suppressed in our own subconscious minds. I really SEE now that whether in a book (especially) or Movie, I'm ALWAYS most attracted to the 'dark' dominant, powerful, masculine, successful, fearless, directly purposeful, sexual, controlling etc. Man. What people online today would call toxic heterosexual white Men. Something to really think about and write about now. I'm always writing. So thank you. I knew I would get something personal deep and valuable from this video, I may watch more videos. I can tell, you are really an independent, deep, experienced, thinker. Very rare nowadays, 'I think.'
Love this video ❤its darkness,the other side - I finde so attraktive
Very Welcome
8:08 let me get esoteric on you and tell you my higher self has shown me visions of why and how a soul connection between a true masculine in their power and a true feminine in her power - an exchange of trust and surrender- is a key to humans continuing their evolutionary process in mind, body and soul. Literally the key for many in order to raise their vibration to be able to ascend
This is deep. You can appreciate the analogy when you start to understand the essence of it. Thank you for bringing this out!
He is great! Sometimes he talks too fast though!
This was like listening to poetry
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5:12 the beast is raw, unfiltered and real. We all need to see the real beast behind the human - we all have an animal side. If we cannot make peace with that we cannot be whole or balanced in our own energy
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🪄 right! The magic of both is within us. Let us share from full cups.
Love the video ambiance in color and everything!!
I love this video. Keep them coming, Sir. Blessings.
Welcome
Thank you
I needed this one. Thank you
Always!
This was amazing!
Dr Ramani would have a lot to say about this video
Beautiful, well said
Good acting. Missed your vocation. More useful advice available from the people he is using to base this diatribe on.
All you had to say Beauty and The Beast my favorite love story ;)
Love your creator w all soul and mind and love neighbor as you love self
Sums it up fine people
Beautiful!
Sometimes I don't understand what I need, I feel like I always end up choosing pipo who hate me in the end even though I give all the love
Love, for me, should be straightforwardly honest.
WoW...excellent anaolgies/explanation 🤯🤩💫🫶
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Once someone asked the woman:
-What do you want?
-To know..
Once someone asked the man:
-What do you want?
-To feel..
Once the man shouted on the devil:
-What do you want?!
-War!
Once the woman screamed on devil:
-What do you want??
-From you..? Nothing! I want your heart!
Im on a journey to find that love within me. But today I had the strongest urge to want to hug someone, in a romantic way. i have a 3d body with 3d needs that I am not sure how to meet on this journey
You should have so much more viewers bro
Continuing to grow and spread the message every day 🙏🏽
Love is a misunderstanding between two fools
Brilliant
Marriage is not for everyone on this planet.I’m 32 still single,genuinely happy and independent.I don’t need and want another person to fulfill my happiness.
Marriage is to grow into someone you never become staying alone
Beautiful insight
Glad you enjoyed it
I love the dream you had about blockage. ❤I had the same experience . Although I am a feminine woman in my twenties I had lost the inner tenderness, caring, softness, feminine charewterisrics. I had it in me, but I had to revive them. How ? by letting go of worldly goals and ambitions. They were suppressing all my inner life force and softness. Men or women, we all have it inside of us!
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The one, who I thought is the love of my life, just left me for the third time. First time, because I wasn‘t ready to move in with him after 4 weeks dating. Second time, because I said, that I‘d like to be married in the future and he couldn‘t deal with that, because he doesn’t want to be married ever. Now, 2.5 yrs after a rocky relationship because I withdrew more and more. Couldn‘t heal the trauma of the first 2 breakups. Talking didn‘t help. Now I need a traumatherapy. Still devastated. This wasn‘t challenge of real love, I guess. It was probably just not meant to be.
I say this with care… it’s not about “not meant to be” it’s just he simply didn’t want the same thing you did or at least not enough. That simple
Just don't give up! Please! Let it work, let it die. Go speak, smile, cry, think, pray, forgive, fall back, fight, give thanks, hate, shout, raise, but don't you give up on love and on yourself. It was real. You were real in that, so protect that realness. Prove yourself and to God that your love was real and you meant to give that. He can go and live his life in peace wherever where he wants to, it's not your business. Let him go in peace every minute again and again and again...
But you just listen to the Love in you. What that love desires and asking from YOU? Listen to it and watch in the end how beautiful unknown flower gonna grow out from the dark ground as a mirror of you. Give to it years and don't think it's gonna be tomorrow, and don't you think that you are ready!! Because you can be ready, but if you are, the next what you need to do is to die for every afford and for every hard work and for the looong years you invested into the process to get ready.
And watch out, because no flower can grow while we are about to mow the grass and to plow the land. 🌹
This is so beautiful. Thank you for your kind and powerful words. It is going to be a long way. I feel love. A love that is a profound one and includes all beings. Except for me.
Yes, you are probably right. Or he craved also for our connection but followed his patterns to build it. And our core wounds and patterns made us see each other - sometimes - as enemies. Hurt people hurt people.
@@katkat7241 probably we should put down the lenses how they can see and mean the things, specially if they don't want to hold us and they don't have the same goals as we do. How Naftali wisely said the 3 types of man characters, probably this one is Gaston for you. He doesn't want kids, family, marriage. He is on the masculine level of a 15 years old boy. Maybe once he will lovet to have those things for someone else, but not for you. But still he will have deficit of character that good luck for that woman.
But however... Last month I met a girl who wanted to go to a court with her ex and she was all the time speaking about HIM and HIS actions and HIS views of point and words HE SAID and HIS new girlfriend. .. But you know she doesn't really cared about how damn bad and destroyed she is and how damn big work she got on herself. So she had 2 joices: to go to the court to accusing him and have focus on him for couple more years how peace of sh*t he is. And I asked her - That's the story you want to tell to your grandchildren when you will be a grandma? Or just simply accept the money he is offering to you, move out from the flat and turn back and start to heal and care about YOU, about YOUR life.
You know, after the loong and hard years of pain and hate, when we finally forgive what happens that we already put down how THEY were, how THEY treated us, how much THEY hurted us, and we finally start to focus on OURSELVES and on OUR life and on OUR presence and we leave them in peace in our mind. That's the point where we are dropping our last tears and we are ready to forgive and move forward, when we already see ourselves and not the other person. So don't try to think with his head and don't think that he will change. And how Naftali said, care about your inadequacies and insufficiencies - you got there a loot of work instead of mentioning him. 🤍
1:45 I am usually fascinated by what they see that I don’t - how is there perspective different than mine? Why don’t I see it?
Birth, Love, Death.
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*IMPORTANT* (pls i just wanna help, i gain nothing from you reading this)
I found a book that shows why couples fall out of love after some years and solves most if not all the drama in relationships, plus showing how you can stay in love your whole life pretty much, highly science based btw and still a fun read.
Nope not too good to be true.
Its called "cupids poisoned arrow" and it was the most important book ive ever read, at all really and definitly on relationships. Give it a try, its really THE answer i belive (i finished it already)
I gain nothing from you getting it btw so this cant be an add so PLEASE dont take it down i just wanna make as many as possible happy. I trust you.
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1 Corinthians 13 verses 4-7
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can we be clear and honest talking about real love pride and prejudice A better example than beauty and the beast .
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He speaks like Jordan Peterson, interesting
What is the DEEPEST Meaning of LOVE❤
Maybe you could elaborate on how woman are "nieve " by being in a narcissistic type relationship ( I say type because most women haven't been in a relationship with a diagnosed narcissist, but a man with similar traits). You lost me when you said
" what do think when she's looking at when sees Beast? Dark male characteristics. What do you think happens to women when they avoid those dark male characteristics? They end up with a Gaston. And you can put your hands up ladies if you've had your narcissistic abusive relationships, it typically comes from your naiveté, understanding the challenge that is required from you, when you have to face the parts of youself that you reject. What does that pop up as? Beast."
You stated that Beast represents the dark male characteristics in the eyes of Bell, and if they avoid those traits, they end up with Gaston. But she also sees the same dark traits in Gaston. Beast she sees a monster who's willing to rip apart a family, hold a woman hostage, and a literal wild animal, or one in the same as the wolves that were the in fact one of the main causes that her father needed to seek shelter from the storm. With Gaston she sees the narcissistic traits, that you say women are so nieve to. But I'm not sure how this correlates to a woman rejecting parts of herself or any challenges that she might need to face. Women end up with men that the Gaston type because they mistake confidence with competence, when in fact the confidence is his self centeredness. He uses this confidence to lure in and trick any woman who believes his flattery. Basically he lies about who he really is, which is easy to fall for considering all the evidence shows that he's a well respected man held in high esteem by the towns men and is the ideal partner in the eyes of the eligible towns women. This would be no diffrent if the roles were reversed and it was the most desired woman in town showing intrest in some seemingly ordinary man. In both cases either male or female would fall victim to the charms of the highly desirable masked narcissist. Most women would see the Beast as a threat. Which is a very real concern for most if not all women in the world today.( hence the bear vs man in the woods earlier this year) Given the situation, I'm not sure where a woman rejecting the dark parts of her self come into play. Maybe you could further explaine this in a few minute video when you have the opportunity or the time. Thank you, and I appreciate the time you take making this type of informative content.
You’re becoming aware of a very important distinction, that the characteristics aren’t the issue it’s the awareness and direction of those characteristics. The beauty of the story is that Bell and beast grow together. They exist outside of how they are seen. It’s in the choices they make.
@@naftalimoses ok to clarify; its not the rejection of those characteristics so much as it's the awareness that they each in turn have AND are aware that they possess these dark traits. this awareness grants them the courage to test any stereotype placed there by society.....
.......(and quite frankly by themselves simply because they were raised in such a manner that acknowledging these dark characteristics is already taboo, but to actually allow ones self to use these said dark characteristics would practically be seen as a form of blasphemy, and nevermind even considering the possibility that there might be any positive outcome from nither acknowledging or putting them into action)...
...... simply by having the willingness to display and at times use these very same characteristics that they are aware of in themselves, are aware of in each other, and despite the fear imposed by society, are willing to voluntary face, but even more importantly USE. By testing these so-called dark parts of themselves they learn that not only are these dark characteristics anything but dark, but are in fact essential, because in reality and in nature, are perfectly innate. Is this correct?
@@naftalimoses also, if possible, I'd like to bring to your awareness a version of the Disney story line that to my knowledge has not been addressed by anyone including Mr. Peterson, is there an email that you can point me in the direction of, so I can run it by you. If you like your more than welcome to use it. I'm not feeling credit just believe this information should be at least introduced, how the world takes it, well to be blunt, I could give two f*cks how the masses receives it, as long as the seed is planted into their awareness is all that would matter. Thank you for your time.
You're in Love Naftali?
I may be too dumb but I ain’t understood a thing here. Can someone please explain ?
Me encantas
Two words: Jordan Peterson ❤
Andrew,is that you?
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