Is it Just Me?! Or are We the SAME? Feelings, Fears, Experiences, Awkwardness, ect. Can You Relate?

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  • @Sunflower-tu2rg
    @Sunflower-tu2rg 28 днів тому +46

    I can relate 100%... I am 80 years old...! Still ballroom dance and have the time of my life!

    • @JeniferJenkinsBeauty
      @JeniferJenkinsBeauty  28 днів тому +5

      That's my goal!!! Like seriously. I don't ever want to feel like a grown up. Lol! 😂❤

    • @reginabreitenbach4570
      @reginabreitenbach4570 28 днів тому +8

      I'm 65 and I don't feel that old. I feel like I can still do the things I did when I was younger. My oldest daughter is 42. It's so strange to me because I don't feel any older than she is. It's like what Clint Eastwood said to Toby Keith when he asked him how he could still be working in his late 80's. He told him "You just don't let the old man in." You don't go by your age but keep your mind young. Also someone said "How old would you be if you didn't know when you were born? People start thinking they should be old and act differently because of their age. My great grandmother lived until she was 106 and lived by herself until she was 104. Her sister died at 108 and went into a nursing home at 106 my grandma passed away at 93 and was still living by herself, doing everything for herself, still driving to get her hair done. No one would believe that she was that old, she didn't even seem 75. Her mind was good. Cancer took her.
      Just forget about your age and enjoy your life.

  • @ashley8648
    @ashley8648 25 днів тому +10

    I don’t know one person who can believe they are the age they are when they’re over 45.

  • @Ranch-girl
    @Ranch-girl 28 днів тому +34

    I’m turning 63 next week and I don’t feel over 30!! I’m so thankful for good health and energy!! I still wear my hair long and my Miss Me jeans; workout and eat healthy. LOL! I just retired on our ranch raising cattle and loving life!! God has blessed!!❣️🙏 You look amazing!!

    • @Denise-fx1oc
      @Denise-fx1oc 28 днів тому +2

      Me too

    • @Bobtheslob-bi9ng
      @Bobtheslob-bi9ng 28 днів тому

      God gives children cancer, but I'm so glad he helps you feel younger

    • @sunnalee287
      @sunnalee287 27 днів тому +2

      so cool I love this😊

    • @vabeach155
      @vabeach155 27 днів тому

      I’m pp

    • @lizbray8001
      @lizbray8001 27 днів тому +4

      @@Bobtheslob-bi9ng God does not give children cancer! Satan does! Satan's a saint to most. God gets blamed for all the bad. He gave His son for our bad/sin. You need to read your Bible, Sir. Blessings to you, and yours. 🙏💖

  • @lindaraviv5228
    @lindaraviv5228 28 днів тому +30

    I can relate to EVERY SINGLE ISSUE you mentioned. You are not alone!

  • @jenniferw1595
    @jenniferw1595 22 дні тому +2

    I agree on the passing gas being gross in front of other people. The only time we’ve passed gas in front of each other is being so sick you don’t realize or after a surgery and you cannot control it. My parents poop in front of each other and that’s disgusting!

  • @mwheeler82
    @mwheeler82 28 днів тому +14

    I've been with my husband 21 years and he's never heard me rip one. He, on the other hand, never stops ripping one.

    • @JeniferJenkinsBeauty
      @JeniferJenkinsBeauty  26 днів тому +1

      Hahaha! That made me laugh out loud! 😂 I would have to put my foot down! 😁❤️😘

    • @mwheeler82
      @mwheeler82 26 днів тому

      I need to 😂

  • @Reillygirl
    @Reillygirl 28 днів тому +7

    I’m 72 and feel like I look 50 - no big wrinkles on my face and dress like I have always have dressed and I think tons feel this way? I color my roots and wear makeup daily and current hair style - I’m the same as I was at 40 in feeling and acting and my daughter is 47 ( but looks 30) it’s just the times I think like some famous people looking the same and not aging - not like our parents times???

  • @Kim-oo9vv
    @Kim-oo9vv 28 днів тому +7

    One departing though about your video.
    "HAPPINESS" is just an illusion."
    Truly what we all deseire is "Peace and contentment!"
    When you have that you are at peace and can feel joy!!!❤

  • @df3335
    @df3335 28 днів тому +11

    As far as you telling the young lady she is such a pretty little girl; maybe she thought it was condescending. Even though she was young she was old enough and competent enough to hold a job so maybe the “little” and “girl” hit her wrong, even though it wasn’t your intention.
    I resonate with a lot of what you said. ❤

    • @melyndalegg7446
      @melyndalegg7446 25 днів тому

      Yes! That sounded so condescending. I would have been offended.

    • @Coffee384
      @Coffee384 7 днів тому

      I was raised that no matter how I felt, if someone was going out of their way to be nice and pay me a compliment I would see it as that and be grateful and kind. I could see that type of response if it was some creepy guy.

  • @kcmarie3774
    @kcmarie3774 28 днів тому +8

    My best friend is like that. I'm 40 and she is 55 but she doesnt act like it at all. She says she feels 20, she's extremely full of life and so energetic. I'm the exact opposite I feel and act way older than I am lol. I am an extreme empath, I had to seek therapy for it. It's so draining and depressing sometimes especially if it has to do with children. I will just cry in sadness for days sometimes thinking about abused children and their pain.

    • @josie4peace
      @josie4peace 28 днів тому +3

      Abused children gets to me also, very much. And animals and elderly neglect and abuse. 😢

    • @JeniferJenkinsBeauty
      @JeniferJenkinsBeauty  26 днів тому +1

      Yes, I am extremely sensitive and feel acutely aware of the thoughts and feelings of everyone around me. Like you said it can be very draining. It’s also one of the reasons I don’t watch movies often. It’s hard for me to separate myself from whatever is going on in the movies and sometimes it can feel like too much. ESPECIALLY when children are involved. I feel like it’s a blessing and a curse. I’m glad that I’m so aware, but often it becomes overwhelming. ❤️🌺

  • @cindysharp4466
    @cindysharp4466 28 днів тому +4

    I don’t think I would ever call a 17 or 18 year old a little girl. I know you meant it in a nice way, but I can understand her response 😊

  • @goldier2264
    @goldier2264 28 днів тому +5

    You are definitely a very empathetic, high vibrational soul. The fact that you can feel sensatiions just by watching other people's pain proves that.
    We all have masculine and feminine energy You are very in your feminine. We need to have a healthy balance between the two. It would benefit you to work on being more in your masculine energy. Feminines are over givers.. very nurturing, Masculines are more receivers.. Now both the female and males have masculine and feminine. The key is to balance the two in a healthy way.
    Some souls you might say are more evolved than others, Not being respectful, Not giving a wave as you said.. These things used to bother me as well.. What I have learned is you never take these things personally, because they simply are not. I had a lady flip me off because she thought I came too close to her car.. I literally just smiled and waved at her.. She looked at me like I was crazy. When you are high vibrational, the acts of others will not effect you the same. You give them grace, You also feel almost sad for them because to behave this way. You know they're not feeling good. But if you think of people with tool belts around their waists and some are just missing some tools, but doing the best they can.. That's how I look at it.
    A lot of the things you speak about sound like they could be Ancestral or past traumas from another life. When you lie in bed at night, worried about sharks, Please keep in mind your body does not actually know that it is not in danger.. Your mind does not know a memory from current time.. A lot of stress and worry is what causes.. disease... Dis.... ease in the body.
    Every time you're having a negative thought, catch yourself, In spirituality we understand that negative thoughts, worries, are showing us we are simply not in Alignment. The only time you should be stressed is if a tiger is actually chasing you.
    Gratitude is incredibly powerful energy, One the universe recognizes and rewards., Same goes for negative thinking, The universe doesn't punish you by giving you negativity.. It's just the law of attractiion.. We are all energy after all..
    The most quoted words in the bible are do not fear.. It's written in the bible nearly eight hundred times.. Fear lowers our vibration. What do our governments do? They keep us in a perpetual state of panic and fear. We are easy to control then. Not so easy to control when we understand our own power. And the universe and who we really are.
    If you knew, really knew that you were eternal and you would never die, how would you look at life differently? I recommend watching, Darius Wright, here on youtube. Once you understand how powerful you are and how very special you are... And who you really are.. Fear will beome a thing of the past.

    • @josie4peace
      @josie4peace 28 днів тому +3

      Amen. "Fear not, for I am with you; Be not dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, Yes, I will help you, I will uphold you with My righteous right hand." Isaiah 41:10 🙌

    • @sebathi1
      @sebathi1 17 днів тому

      goldier2264 WHAT a GREAT comment! So well reflected and sensitive. Thats almost exactly what I wanted to write in this group...but English is not my mothers language and so its hard for ME to find the exact right vocabularies to express my thoughts in English! Thank you that YOU did it! 😊❤

  • @jewelgarden6994
    @jewelgarden6994 28 днів тому +5

    Jenifer - You are not alone. I have the same exact feelings on all of those you mentioned including claustrophobia. I got stuck in an elevator the other day. The pain you receive when someone gets hurt is the same for me too. That electrical sensation hurts. Loved your video on all of these topics, and thank you for reminding me/us about the importance of gratefulness.❤️❤️

  • @user-op7eu5yp3d
    @user-op7eu5yp3d 28 днів тому +6

    I think you are very empathetic. I think empathy and reacting to others pain is less common because society is more medicated. That doesn't mean people have NO empathy but it does numb people more than they realize. Antidepressants, anti-anxiety meds, edibles, and alcohol are so common . i don't think people remember what pure emotion feels like.

  • @edythesandefur3034
    @edythesandefur3034 28 днів тому +8

    I completely agree with the gas and bathroom thing. I'm the same way. That stuff should be behind closed doors as far as I'm concerned abd yes it would make you less attracted to the person in my opinion. Glad I'm not the only one out there that feels like that! Thanks for sharing this video!

  • @susanoliver3904
    @susanoliver3904 28 днів тому +4

    Hi Jen! I just wanted to let you know I enjoy all of your videos. I've been waiting for your next one so I wanted to let you know I thoroughly enjoyed it. I love your outlook on life and always feel better after watching you and listening to you speak. You are so deserving of any compliments you get!

  • @lesliejacobson8263
    @lesliejacobson8263 28 днів тому +3

    I feel pretty much the same on all of your thoughts. I don't feel pain when I see someone get hurt but I do empathize with what they are going through. Great video!!

  • @brendabrooks9699
    @brendabrooks9699 28 днів тому +3

    I feel exactly the same!!! I cannot believe I’m 58! I feel like I’m 30 years old. When I see videos of my mom at my age she seemed and looked so much older.

  • @corinneM0818
    @corinneM0818 28 днів тому +4

    I feel like when you see someone else get hurt and you feel it parasympayhetically that means you're an empath!! Very cool!

    • @JeniferJenkinsBeauty
      @JeniferJenkinsBeauty  26 днів тому +1

      That’s interesting. Ive been told I’m an empath before. I’m going to have to read up on traits of an empath. 🤗❤️🌺

    • @sebathi1
      @sebathi1 17 днів тому

      ​​@@JeniferJenkinsBeautyYES, same thought came on my mind immediately! I am an Empath too! I am also giving complimets to strangers if I am in the mood! Empaths are able to scan other people immediately (their mood, feelings, problems, even their ambitions).

  • @bibis5985
    @bibis5985 28 днів тому +3

    Jenifer , somebody teach me how to enjoy my life and I understand. “ LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL AND TO SHORT “

  • @crazzyladiez
    @crazzyladiez 28 днів тому +2

    Never clicked on a video so fast! Been waiting ages for a new upload! Thankyou jenifer x

  • @angiebonura9798
    @angiebonura9798 28 днів тому +3

    I totally agree with everything you said. You are such a kind person! I love your videos 💕💕💕💕

  • @workoutmusic4209
    @workoutmusic4209 28 днів тому +3

    Love these conversation videos the most 💛

  • @crisspinelli7753
    @crisspinelli7753 28 днів тому +2

    I get the electric feeling too! If my kids get hurt, I feel that zapping feeling where they’ve been injured. When they were little and were unwell, I’d feel sick too, but not as sick as them. I’ve also felt a static electricity feeling a couple of different times when people around me are angry. It’s wild⚡️

  • @dairydamsel68
    @dairydamsel68 28 днів тому +7

    Yes!! Everything you’re saying is so true. I’m 56, but find it very difficult to believe I’m this age!😂. I feel it some days for sure, but I’m told by strangers all the time I look 35. I am blessed with good genes, but even with that, even if I did look my age, I don’t “feel” like I’m this age! Thank you for talking about this, because I think about it all the time. I work with a lot of younger folks..I’ve been a flight attendant now for 35+ years. Many of them have this idea of what 50+ year olds look like or behave like. Some do, but not all of us!:-)

    • @JeniferJenkinsBeauty
      @JeniferJenkinsBeauty  28 днів тому +4

      Yes!! Like I feel like some people were just born to be adults and actually behave and carry theselves like one! And then there's me, who was born to always remain in my 30's. Lol! 😂❤

  • @floridanativelh568
    @floridanativelh568 28 днів тому +1

    To me, these are the types of videos that set you apart. They're my favorites❤ you are the cutest! 😊

  • @cube435
    @cube435 28 днів тому +6

    I can relate to several of the things. I've been accused of being hypervigilant! I just think we are very tuned in to the world around us and have high degree of awareness. Thanks for sharing!

    • @JeniferJenkinsBeauty
      @JeniferJenkinsBeauty  26 днів тому +2

      Oh I am DEFINITELY hypervigilant! I remember a couple of year back we were at the River for a family reunion and there was a young cute kid walking around. I told several family member that I had a sense he was up to no good. Everyone thought I was being silly, but there was something about his behavior that was unsettling to me. My sister even went to talk to him just to be friendly. He ended up breaking into several cars and stealing expensive belonging. He was caught and it was all I could do to not tell everyone “I told you!”. 😂❤️😘

    • @cube435
      @cube435 26 днів тому

      @JeniferJenkinsBeauty omg YES! It has it's advantages but can be exhausting. (Just happened to see your response now, what a story)!

  • @deeleon7377
    @deeleon7377 28 днів тому +3

    Thanks, for sharing. I'm 55, and don't think of myself as this age I find it hard to believe! I'm young in personality, don't believe in an old personality due to age. Your sensitive, it's not a problem. ❤

  • @HollyL56
    @HollyL56 28 днів тому +3

    Hi Jenifer! I have some things to do, but looking forward to watching this soon. Have a great weekend!💗

    • @JeniferJenkinsBeauty
      @JeniferJenkinsBeauty  28 днів тому +1

      Hi Holly! Hope you get everything done! Happy Saturday! ❤🤗

  • @Lexi_________
    @Lexi_________ 17 днів тому

    I used to be uber self conscious when i was given a compliment as well. I fixed this by following up the 'thank you' by saying 'How sweet of you to say so'. boom, nothing further is necessary.

  • @rashistephens-media9202
    @rashistephens-media9202 27 днів тому +1

    These were so interesting and relatable! Such enjoyable videos.

  • @suzannortega6671
    @suzannortega6671 17 днів тому

    Aww I can relate to most of those points you made- the thankfulness & massage thing was so relatable!! Also your body is telling you to avoid botox- please don’t take it anymore, it’s activating certain cancers & causes you to eventually look like a weird version of yourself. I’m glad my mom didn’t try competing w 21 year olds…Be a good example on this , our daughters are watching!!💗

  • @rashistephens-media9202
    @rashistephens-media9202 27 днів тому

    Would love a video on you talking about gratitude and different life lessons! Love these videos of yours 🩷🩷

  • @RoseC1209
    @RoseC1209 28 днів тому +1

    You're definitely not alone!; your honesty is much appreciated and your just the sweetest. Enjoyed the video Jenifer. Rose from Florida 🌴

  • @lanabradley8016
    @lanabradley8016 27 днів тому +1

    I am exactly like you. I hate getting my nails, hair done. It is a chore I don't look forward to. I have never had a massage nor do I want one. Sounds awful to me.

  • @lisabonelli4908
    @lisabonelli4908 27 днів тому +1

    People don’t have respect for others like they used too. It’s sad, we taught our children to hold doors open and to say excuse me. Many young and surprisingly older adults ignore these and I say to them, “your welcome” or thank you.”
    Many today have anxiety due to being lied to in2020. 😢

  • @MollyVSmurl
    @MollyVSmurl 21 день тому

    OMG yesss I can’t watch anything negative, medical, horror, gore or too sad etc-because I literally carry it with me !! I will feel the pain regardless in the SAME area.
    I’m a cancer too, I wonder if it’s because it’s the most empathetic and sympathetic astrological sign

  • @clairesteinriede9110
    @clairesteinriede9110 27 днів тому

    Loved this bc I have racing thoughts like too!!& (and the wave thing!)

  • @user-jd2wi3vb5b
    @user-jd2wi3vb5b 27 днів тому +1

    I to feel the same way when somebody gives me a compliment I have to give an explanation!

  • @wam6465
    @wam6465 28 днів тому +1

    I am so glad you made this video cuz I thought I was crazy!!

  • @PS-qn4oz
    @PS-qn4oz 28 днів тому +1

    Fun video! You look gorgeous and your personality is gorgeous, too. I agree with you about gratitude!

  • @beverlyn8535
    @beverlyn8535 27 днів тому +1

    Yes I feel that pain but your right, a sensation, and it last a few seconds for me.

  • @thetoguchis4578
    @thetoguchis4578 28 днів тому +1

    I really enjoyed this video 😊 I am exactly like you in every area, with the exception of fear taking over my thoughts in the scenarios you shared. I have been struggling with depression (primarily due to my marriage), sadly making it difficult to be as grateful as you are, but I do try my best to count my blessings every day 😇 This video was so much fun- especially because we are so alike! I’m glad I’m not alone 😂

  • @wendykrumm9867
    @wendykrumm9867 28 днів тому +1

    Love this❤❤❤

  • @lisahoerr9713
    @lisahoerr9713 26 днів тому

    Love the Gratefulness! Same!! And the bless you for every sneeze!

  • @AllisonJ956
    @AllisonJ956 26 днів тому

    I loved the way you explained them, you made me laugh throughout the vid because I relate to so many of these. You are not alone 😊

  • @kristytriggs7271
    @kristytriggs7271 27 днів тому +1

    I totally agree about the passing gas !! I’m totally that way and glad some one else is too !! It’s diguisting ! I can also relate to alot of the other things you mentioned as well

  • @mauranoonan8951
    @mauranoonan8951 28 днів тому +4

    I’m with you on the common courtesy with driving. Anxiety is horrible. The worst case scenario is often where we go because of anxiety. But you have the right idea to distract yourself with something positive and to stop the cycle. I have had my nails done before, but I hate pedicures because A) it feels rude to make someone work on my feet and B) the feeling of my soles being tickled is torture. A fun idea for a video would be you and your daughter doing the Q&A where you each answer the question about the other person, if that makes sense 😂

    • @JeniferJenkinsBeauty
      @JeniferJenkinsBeauty  26 днів тому

      Omg, we’re so much alike! 🤗 I WISH my daughter would make a video with me! Maybe I could talk her into it before she moves. ❤️😘

  • @cocokay7368
    @cocokay7368 28 днів тому +4

    Hi I must say you are entertaining and funny. I just watch you to hear your stories.

  • @thatwendygirl68
    @thatwendygirl68 27 днів тому +1

    Oh girl, I’m 56 and feel that I’m in my 20s!! I 100% get what you’re saying about “carrying themselves” as older - and the “sweetie” thing with a 20-something. I would never! I just don’t feel like the grown up. Im also an over-thanker and a waver in traffic. PLEASE tell me you have been to the FL panhandle beaches!! No beaches in the U.S. more beautiful. The shark thing right now is an anomaly. I have the bedtime crazy mama thoughts and the inability to accept compliments too!!!

    • @JeniferJenkinsBeauty
      @JeniferJenkinsBeauty  27 днів тому

      I have been to Florida beaches and YES they are so beautiful!! 🌊☀️🏖️ And I laughed when you said that you don’t feel like the grown up. That’s EXACTLY how I feel!! 😂❤️

  • @JenXGirl
    @JenXGirl 28 днів тому

    As for feeling the physical pain of others, I have felt it!

  • @Jeri1900
    @Jeri1900 17 днів тому

    omg yes!!! i relate to so many of these things!!! 😂😂 i love that ur able to talk about this stuff and normalize it!!! ❤❤

  • @carriebrewer9708
    @carriebrewer9708 28 днів тому +3

    Same. I feel the same and do the same things. Awkward compliments and start explaining about the compliment lol

  • @user-ut4xt1dy8y
    @user-ut4xt1dy8y 28 днів тому +2

    I definitely can relate to a lot of the same things ❤

  • @becuteforme
    @becuteforme 28 днів тому +1

    You inspire me to be pretty for less and be smart with finances. That's the energy I get from you. ❤

  • @melissaseften7117
    @melissaseften7117 28 днів тому +2

    Oh my gosh I’m the same way about sharks and bears! I live in Connecticut and we have so many black bears in recent years it absolutely terrifies me 😳 they are in our yard all times of the day sometimes mama bear and cubs which you really need to keep your distance. For the most part they leave you alone, but some are breaking into houses! To be safe, I have actually stopped walking in the neighborhood alone. They are beautiful and I’m awestruck watching them, but I will respectfully keep my distance! So you are not alone nor crazy, just being cautious 😊❤

  • @briannegillette1185
    @briannegillette1185 20 днів тому

    I relate to almost all of the things you mentioned.

  • @sayuriisme9728
    @sayuriisme9728 27 днів тому +1

    You are absolutely not odd and I wish I had a friend just like you❤

  • @southerngirl773
    @southerngirl773 28 днів тому +2

    I can identify with everything you mentioned in this video! You are not odd…you are unique! Never apologize for who you are!! Your husband and children are very fortunate!
    Love your hair cut and color. You always look great!

    • @JeniferJenkinsBeauty
      @JeniferJenkinsBeauty  26 днів тому

      I’m so glad to hear that I’m not alone! 🤗 Thank you so much! ❤️🌺

  • @christinet4951
    @christinet4951 28 днів тому +1

    Im 33 with a 2 year old and a stay at home mom, i aspire to be like you one day. I have a hard time being happy, you seem to make it easy

    • @JeniferJenkinsBeauty
      @JeniferJenkinsBeauty  26 днів тому +2

      Just so you know, it’s tough when our children are young. Mark my words, when your child enters kindergarten, things become a lot easier because everything begins to feel a little more balanced, and you get to take yourself off the back burner. Just hang in there! 🙏❤️🤗

  • @diajael8752
    @diajael8752 27 днів тому

    Hey Jenifer I think this is actually my first ever comment I've made on your channel even though I have been watching your videos since I was 24 or so and I'm now 30! You have been a huge inspiration for me because of the way you look at life and aging and taking care of yourself in general!
    To answer your thoughts on aging, I work at an art gallery in sales and my colleague who is turning 70 this year would say the exact same thing as you about not feeling her age at all. For her I think she said she never feels older than 50 even though that was 20 years ago! Like you she takes pride in her appearance and is health and diet conscious. We talk about this subject sometimes because she is SUCH a young 70, everyone is shocked to find out her age, and we are really close friends despite the 40 year age difference. The strangest thing is that sometimes we will get "little old ladies" in the gallery and they will mention something like "oh I had my son drive me here (from another city) because I just can't deal with the traffic and driving that far anymore at my age, I'm 70 you know!" And my colleague and I will give each other a look because she is 70 too but will never let her age define her personality or her lifestyle. (No shade to the other women, but the difference is so evident). It's totally proof that your mindset and how you think of yourself is a huge indicator of how you will age!
    Thank you again for being such an inspirational woman. Your marriage, relationship with your kids, and your outlook in general have motivated me to become the best version of myself. I'm having my first baby (a girl) in a couple months and I would LOVE more content on your ideas or practices with parenting (but also post-natal health and beauty tips)! Pray for me that I don't get stretch marks haha so far so good at 30 weeks😂❤

  • @dazzlingchick
    @dazzlingchick 28 днів тому +1

    🌹Jenifer this entire video is so relatable! It’s so nice to know someone else thinks the way that I do. You look extra gorgeous in this video also btw. Hope you and your family are having a lovely summer so far. Continued Blessings and Support. ~Love&Light♥️Carli xx

  • @mariacardaropoli90
    @mariacardaropoli90 27 днів тому

    You’re such a beautiful person inside and out, bless you!!! Could you please do an update skincare video? Your neck is so tight! What do you use on it? Thank you❤❤

  • @yolandaahrens9583
    @yolandaahrens9583 26 днів тому +1

    This was so interesting! I can relate to most of these topics for sure! Passing gas is huge with me. I would never do that in front of anyone. My boyfriend, friends, family or strangers and I certainly dont want it done around me. A simple wave when I let you into traffic…how hard is that to show appreciation? Drives me insane when someone cannot take a split second to do a quick wave as a thank you. Thank you for being you and just know you are not alone in your quirkiness. ❤

  • @nancymurray7050
    @nancymurray7050 28 днів тому

    Hi Jenn, you are one of the very few people that is beautiful inside and out ❤

  • @annl5200
    @annl5200 28 днів тому +2

    I'm not accepting that getting older has to include giving up being alive. If you say "I'm old I should behave the way I see other old people behaving" then you give up staying happy, attractive and functional for the rest of your life. I'm 20 years older than you and I think I'm 40 because I feel that way, look a lot younger than I am, and I dress like a 40 year old, because I can still wear the clothes attractively. I stay fit so I don't have to physically limit myself. I still have plans, dreams, and bucket list that seems to get larger with time, not smaller. I don't have the time to think about being old. You're already ahead of the crowd Jenifer so stay in the game!

    • @JeniferJenkinsBeauty
      @JeniferJenkinsBeauty  26 днів тому

      Oh I LOVE this perspective!!! It’s exactly how I feel! Thank you for leaving this comment. I plan to live to 120! 😁❤️😘

  • @brendaleverette
    @brendaleverette 28 днів тому +2

    I can relate to so many things you discussed

  • @JessicaMillerNashville
    @JessicaMillerNashville 27 днів тому

    Your a sweet spirit and I love that you are the way you are! I understand completely how you feel about taking a compliment, I'm 100% with you on that!

  • @lizbray8001
    @lizbray8001 28 днів тому +3

    I concur with EVERYTHING you spoke about, Jenifer!!!💖I too think age is a state of mind. People are not polite now-a-days. God said it would be this way. I just always say to myself; "I'll pray for you!" and draw a cross in the air. We have to remember kids today are not socialized. The young lady didn't have the skills to properly respond to you. She may also have a hard time accepting a compliment. I also feel a sensation in my body when someone gets hurt!! My body hurts! It gives me goosebumps! Just think when you had your breast, or eyelids done, you didn't mind that service; you're paying for that service. God gave them the talent to share with us, and that helps them pay their bills. We should always conduct ourselves in a respectful way to EVERYONE, including our spouse (flatulence). God doesn't want us behaving in that way. I worry about the safety of my loved ones just like you do! I'm constantly telling my sister when they go camping to watch the kids around the water, take bear spray... I have to remind myself that God told us not to live in fear. I always comfort myself by saying; "I trust you'll watch over them Lord." ✝🙏💖 If someone doesn't bless you, know God blessed you first.✝🙏💞 Our grocery bill runs close to $300-400 and it's just my husband and I. Enjoy those moments together! Give the glory to God; He loves giving to us! God bless you!!!!🥰💖✝🙏

    • @Bobtheslob-bi9ng
      @Bobtheslob-bi9ng 28 днів тому

      God has done nothing for you. This is delusonial

    • @lizbray8001
      @lizbray8001 28 днів тому

      I'll pray for you. ✝️🙏💓

    • @Ranch-girl
      @Ranch-girl 27 днів тому

      @@Bobtheslob-bi9ng I pray that you find Jesus!🙏

  • @dianedeferrari3888
    @dianedeferrari3888 28 днів тому

    Same same same same! I think we're very connected to our younger selves. And?
    Then I think I come to terms with it, some young guy hits on me.
    , and on back to square one thinkingI'm 30 years younger than I am, but only in my head! Great video Jen, thank you.

  • @Bluesapphire804
    @Bluesapphire804 28 днів тому

    I completely agree with not feeling your age!! I feel about the same age as you - either in my late 20s or early 30s and I am going to be 43 on Thursday. I don’t feel I am that age at all. Although we can’t change our physical age, I think so much of it is mental, as well. I still have such a childlike naivety and curiosity and I hope that never changes, actually.

  • @tabathahutchins8110
    @tabathahutchins8110 25 днів тому

    Hey Jennifer! I’m 50 also. From the things you say you could be my sister! Thanks for all your videos! I can definitely relate.

  • @tammiecurrie930
    @tammiecurrie930 14 днів тому

    I totally agree about the gas thing, completely!

  • @cmac6992
    @cmac6992 28 днів тому

    Your hair looks great! Love how you do everything yourself(nails, hair etc). Please film yourself trimming and styling it so we can see the tips and tricks!❤

  • @alicialucker749
    @alicialucker749 25 днів тому

    I love your content! We are so alike in so many ways. I'm more terrified of lake monsters than the ocean though 😂

  • @rebeccafalkner2876
    @rebeccafalkner2876 28 днів тому

    Loved this chat.
    Also- we are only 2 kids and 7 years in but so far, we have never and will never pass gas in front of each other. It’s unattractive, lazy and sort of rude. We aren’t buddies. We are friends of course, but also lovers.
    It makes me laugh when people think they are somehow more intimate or close because they use bathroom humor, go #2 in front of each other and pass gas.
    I find maintaining a sense of elegance and keeping some mystery is what keeps spice and desire going.

  • @AnastasiaAlonso-gt3fe
    @AnastasiaAlonso-gt3fe 8 днів тому

    Many years ago…. My son had a friend 8-9 yrs old…
    the girl looked and was very poor..from central america
    I remember telling her you are so beautiful!! ( she only had a pretty smile) and she was so tender..😭
    So looked at me and said no one has ever said that to me 😭it killed me… i hugged her and repeated well you are very beautiful. I wonder if those words impacted her life in any way?

  • @shelibreen2029
    @shelibreen2029 5 днів тому

    Try meditating daily for more positive thinking ❤

  • @AnastasiaAlonso-gt3fe
    @AnastasiaAlonso-gt3fe 8 днів тому

    Funny you should mention the thoughts at night…
    I lost my parents 3 years ago.. they died one year apart..
    Every night when i do my prayers and pray for them and others…. My brain goes all
    over the place… then i cry… then insomnia hits thinking of them etc.. i had to stop prayers at night.. (probably the devil)!!

  • @SA2302
    @SA2302 27 днів тому

    You are so refreshingly real and honest that I found myself wanting this video to go on and on! If you are odd, I'm odd too because I related to EVERYTHING you said! Please keep making videos like this! Thank you for being unapologetically YOU. I wish more women could feel brave enough to speak this candidly and openly! Can't wait for your next video! I think a lot of us listen to you and think that we are friends with you in our head! 💗

  • @rachellemini8632
    @rachellemini8632 27 днів тому +1

    I loved this video!!! I’m 52 and I cannot believe I’m 52, I feel the same as what you said. I still think I’m like 35 😂 I absolutely hate spending money on groceries too, we’re a family of four and I’ve been married 23 years. I also think it’s very important to be grateful for everything I have, and I don’t have a perfect life, there have been struggles but every day I continue to be grateful. I always give a wave if someone in traffic lets me in and I get offended if I don’t get a wave. Also I always say bless you when someone sneezes and my feelings are hurt if I sneeze and no one says it 😂

  • @nicolehall694
    @nicolehall694 28 днів тому +3

    I am 55 and don't relate to women my age.
    They're all acting...old.
    They only listen to 80s music and complain about anything modern and dress like old women.
    I too was a SAHM. I think when you spend your time with kids you mentally age slower

  • @AllThingsSoul
    @AllThingsSoul 28 днів тому +1

    These are some very interesting questions. 1. I'm 59 and I don't feel it either. Yes, the girl might have taken offense to you saying "little girl." 2. No, I don't feel other's people pain, but some have a sixth-sense. It's like a medium, only a few people have that sixth sense. Feeling it in your private area, that's al little strange to me. 3. Over-thanker. Look back in your childhood for the answer. Who in your childhood was unthankful? Many cultures believe women should never pass gas or use the restroom in front of their husband. Not weird. 4. I do not swim in the ocean, even though I'm a well-trained swimmer. Why? Sharks! It's just smart. Not odd. Swim in a pool. Anxiety increases as we age. I'm scared to swim in the deep end now. If you're up at night thinking about it, anxiety is getting the best of you. There's plenty help for it, look into classes for it. 5. Tickling. Doesn't bother me much. 6. Accepting a compliment is a problem for many women. Your self-esteem is the cause of that. Just say thank you. If it's a compliment on your youthful look, just say thank you, my surgeon does really good work! And leave it at that. Anxiety increases with age. It can get out of control so take classes to learn to reduce it. Also I get annoyed when people say bless you when I sneeze, particularly when people yell it from across the room. To me, it's silly.

  • @Kim-oo9vv
    @Kim-oo9vv 28 днів тому +5

    You ate definitely a Highly Sensitive Person.
    Our Central Nervous System is very sensitive!!!!
    ❤🎉🥴🤍🩷❤️🌺🙏

    • @JeniferJenkinsBeauty
      @JeniferJenkinsBeauty  27 днів тому

      Yes, I am! But it’s a blessing and a curse. I actually wish I was less sensitive. ❤️😘

  • @rimaalsekait
    @rimaalsekait 28 днів тому +1

    MIRROR-TOUCH SYNESTHESIA! I think this is what you have regarding feeling others’ pain (a girl had it in a TV show called Chicago MD and that’s how I learned about it lol)

  • @marianb2530
    @marianb2530 28 днів тому +8

    I can suggest you incorporate more prayer in your life. You can start with Philippians 4:16.... Oh you just started mentioning scriptures as I was writing this out, lol! Because if I don't, my anxieties will get the best of me!
    Thank you for the video...and for being vulnerable. We all have some insecurities in some way. We just have to learn balance!😊

    • @josie4peace
      @josie4peace 28 днів тому +2

      Indeed, I have Scripture hanging all over my house! 🙌

  • @bella031003
    @bella031003 25 днів тому

    I swear !!!! Must to your long lost sisters. . Most of the time … This line takes the cake . ❤

  • @kkienast
    @kkienast 28 днів тому +1

    You make me laugh so hard i'm crying.. i love the entire video. Love that all your siblings are all still married.. very unusual! You are stunning!! Your hair is perfection!💗

  • @xxpositivexxful
    @xxpositivexxful 28 днів тому

    Oh wow I feel seen!! I can relate to most of things you’ve said esp the age, saying bless you, saying thanks and having to go to appointments lol. I’m a huge introvert too ❤

  • @dalbriggss
    @dalbriggss 26 днів тому

    I always think “we need to share the planet” and sometimes people are weird, or think of only themselves, or are high strung etc., and when my path comes across one of these people (I say to my self, yes we need to share the planet), and start to think of something else. ✌️❤️

  • @jamesparsons8006
    @jamesparsons8006 28 днів тому

    I felt every one of these in my heart.

  • @sheenabright5456
    @sheenabright5456 26 днів тому

    Thank you!! I thought I was the only one who had horrible thoughts at night and fear and worry over my children! Like really random things that won’t go out of my head ! I have to read scriptures too. It’s the only thing that gives me peace when I do that 😞

    • @JeniferJenkinsBeauty
      @JeniferJenkinsBeauty  26 днів тому

      It’s the worst!!! I’m sorry you have to deal with those types of intrusive thoughts also. But I’m glad we have scripture to turn to. 🙏❤️

  • @thebeautyschooldropin
    @thebeautyschooldropin 28 днів тому +1

    I wish I could introduce you to my husband, because he says there's no one thinks like me. I relate to EVERYTHING!!! I can't believe it. I am 52....the only other difference is, a person only gets one chance to wave" thank you" at me haha. Thank you for sharing!!

    • @JeniferJenkinsBeauty
      @JeniferJenkinsBeauty  28 днів тому

      Omg, my husband says the same thing! Glad to know I’m not alone. ❤️😁 So funny about the wave thing! 👋😂

  • @Smileylook
    @Smileylook 28 днів тому

    Love this video Jenifer.. Lots of these examples I can definitely relate. The " Bless You" example, you may want to consider that they may be an atheist and they don't say bless you. Congratulations on your 20th year anniversary!

  • @momwithdelusions
    @momwithdelusions 27 днів тому

    Jen, please don’t worry so much about all this stuff! You’re real and you’re kind and you’re you and that’s why we all keep watching, just keep being yourself ❤ And btw, the ocean is scary as heck, I completely understand. We were in Hawaii last month, and I could not think too hard about how my teens were playing out there or I wouldn’t have been able to relax at all , I just had to pray and zone out 😂

  • @roseyc.5846
    @roseyc.5846 26 днів тому

    Jen, I can totally relate. I'm way older than you and I feel about 23, in my head. With all due respect, it may be possible you have some level of anxiety. I have generalized anxiety disorder (and depression), and, I'm not implying you have either of those. But yes, I worry about my adult children and grandchildren, often when trying to sleep, or if I wake up very early. NO massages, hate the hair salon, all that. I started doing my own hair, too, because I'd get so anxious before an appointment, I decided it just wasn't worth it. The "wave"..I agree. "Jaws" terrified me, too, and, I will go in barely up to my knees. I worry about my kids and grandkids with that, as well. Sharks have definitely been coming closer inland. It's just how we're wired. TFS, because you've helped us who also feel as you do! Hugs. Rosemarie ❤

  • @Bluesapphire804
    @Bluesapphire804 28 днів тому

    I am such an over thinker, too! I also don’t like massages and people think im so weird. My husband gets them all the time. I just feel awkward.

  • @camiwilson7171
    @camiwilson7171 28 днів тому

    Hi Jenifer. I am a fairly new subscriber, and I really enjoy your content. I am in my fifties too but a bit older than you. I think as women our mental mindset and are physical mindset can be different at the same time. I think that is why we can feel younger than we really are. A love for life and giving and receiving joy is so important to a happy life. You are so correct in that gratitude is so essential. It is important to lift each other up!!!

  • @XxBREWxX
    @XxBREWxX 26 днів тому

    When I watch videos of people falling or getting hurt, my stomach drops. Like when your stomach drops after reaching the top of a roller coaster and it sits for a second before it drops and takes off. That feeling.

  • @lindajames5065
    @lindajames5065 28 днів тому

    Don’t feel bad about having those thoughts when you go to bed, I have some of those same fears. Also I do the same thing,I’ll let people cut in front of me,and I wave at people when they let me out in heavy traffic. But you do ,do the right thing by looking up scriptures when your having scary thoughts . You sound like you have similar things like I do.
    Thanks for sharing.
    Texas Lady🤗