Empower Yourself (3 KEYS THAT CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE!)

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  • Understand 3 key concepts that will enable you to empower yourself to live with joy. People ask, "How do I empower myself?" And "How can I be happy if my loved ones are miserable?" Barbara Heffernan, a Buddhist psychotherapist and transformational coach, answers these questions and gives you three keys to empower your life, have healthy boundaries, and live with joy.
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  • @junea.sierra6691
    @junea.sierra6691 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you so much for each of your videos. They are all very very helpful to me. God bless, Ms Heffernan. Please know that you are making so much difference in the world. ❤

  • @bridbradley6380
    @bridbradley6380 5 місяців тому +1

    Clear tips on empowering yourself. Very helpful thank you

  • @jorgearenas872
    @jorgearenas872 Рік тому

    Thanks Mrs Barbara for your clear advice!!!... Really convenient!!!...greetings from Colombia!!!

  • @valeriebernier7953
    @valeriebernier7953 Рік тому

    Thank you so much for this 🙏🏼

  • @amyj.4992
    @amyj.4992 Рік тому +1

    My therapist told me the same thing, boundaries allow you to make room for compassion. And inexcusable behavior, doesn't need to be rescued. You take care of yourself, we are all responsible for ourselves. Omg yes, talk about the 4 pillars of joy! Healing my negative core beliefs, were apart of my shadow work prompt journaling and my therapist and I briefly elaborated on some subjects of recognizing what makes me feel powerless and what I do have power of

  • @christianaedwards3362
    @christianaedwards3362 4 роки тому +2

    Wow! Boundaries is about understanding your responsibility . Healthy Boundaries

  • @enchiladasqueretanas
    @enchiladasqueretanas 9 місяців тому

    I liked your video on narcissistic behavior!

  • @EliMagidsLuxuryHomes
    @EliMagidsLuxuryHomes 4 роки тому +3

    Yes-- You have to accept what we are powerless over --- Profound statement . Many things are out of our control .Always great info... As is...

  • @sunandakhanna9936
    @sunandakhanna9936 2 роки тому

    thank you so much. I wish I had found you earlier

  • @merriesmith6373
    @merriesmith6373 Рік тому +1

    This is so helpful! Things I knew deep down but needed to hear affirmed. Thank you!

  • @favhispanic
    @favhispanic 4 роки тому +2

    Beautiful, you are amazing. it helps me improve my professional skills.

  • @fahima6186
    @fahima6186 Рік тому

    Thank you Barbara it makes sense i am one of them as my teen ager son started taking drugs as soon as father passed away and also my younger brother and that impact on me great deal 😢 i ma recovering now as accepting the situation by seeking help for both of us and having faith with god prayed lot and my son is on track now as he got job and thinking to go back education❤❤❤
    I watch your lessons lot and they help me lot 👍xxxx

  • @christianaedwards3362
    @christianaedwards3362 4 роки тому +1

    Remaining focused on what is important!

  • @MyCakeGame
    @MyCakeGame 4 роки тому

    I really enjoyed watching your video and can not wait for the next. Great life tips 🥰

  • @cathytremblay73
    @cathytremblay73 Рік тому

    Thank you so much for devoting your time and energy. These videos are
    extremely accurate and helpful.
    Cathy

  • @YesToTech
    @YesToTech 4 роки тому +2

    Can't wait to empower myself with your tips! Thanks for sharing :)

  • @ERICACAMPBELLVIDEO
    @ERICACAMPBELLVIDEO 4 роки тому

    wow - this is so powerful, the difference between caring about someone vs matching their mood. Thanks for sharing this Barbara x

    • @BarbaraHeffernan
      @BarbaraHeffernan  4 роки тому

      Yes! You picked out a great tidbit. Hope it is helpful!

  • @jackiedenewitt2703
    @jackiedenewitt2703 4 роки тому

    I loved this. It's really important to learn to be happy for yourself.

  • @napapanmatatratip2774
    @napapanmatatratip2774 4 роки тому

    Thank you for your sharing it is helpful for me

  • @marymcnamara3706
    @marymcnamara3706 3 роки тому

    Key no 3, Boundaries...thats my biggest obstacle to live an empowered life! Another excellent topic, thank you!👍

  • @mmyyh6723
    @mmyyh6723 Рік тому

    Thank you so much for all the amazing information and tools that you are giving...you have a wonderful way in influencing people... your lovely, kind spirit and your positive energy are obvious through your voice , your tone, and your facial expressions.... thank you for the joy you spread with every video 🌸🌸🌸

  • @shwetakodag9052
    @shwetakodag9052 3 роки тому +1

    Very powerful guidelines for everyday life.Thank you

  • @jimradix6684
    @jimradix6684 3 роки тому

    I enjoy listening to you!

  • @veerleverkeerd8183
    @veerleverkeerd8183 Рік тому

    Thank you for another great video, I learn so much from each one, I never heard about the connection between joy and the pillars, but definitely hits home.

  • @kamaliwickramage2418
    @kamaliwickramage2418 4 роки тому

    This is super helpful, thank you so much.

  • @irektaflinski5449
    @irektaflinski5449 Рік тому

    Excellent

  • @shubhangshukla4628
    @shubhangshukla4628 4 роки тому

    Wonderful session

  • @lintarg6639
    @lintarg6639 3 роки тому

    Agreed about have to statements!!!

  • @praveennarayanan8828
    @praveennarayanan8828 3 роки тому

    Very good one Madam. My relatives use to criticise me that I m not looking my Daddy, even if it is not true. I ignore them but feel some pain. I will learn to be in control

  • @lintarg6639
    @lintarg6639 3 роки тому

    You're so cute!❤️ also thank you for the video. Very empowering as always. -Katelyn

  • @jill652
    @jill652 3 роки тому

    how do I empower myself with my weight issue, I am underweight may I say also being able to eat during the day as I tend to eat before I go to bed. I feel hungry and angry all day which hurts. I will try your techniques as you are amazing and I have tried many of your techniques which I have found helpful as have eaten a little before my usual time and drunk some teas. I would like some more help please? Some more techniques.

  • @hudasaleh9624
    @hudasaleh9624 3 роки тому

    Hello, I am Huda Saleh, a translator from Saudi Arabia. I would like to say that you are such a great psychotherapist and I do really enjoy your videos. Your UA-cam channel is so beneficial, so I would like to translate your videos from English language to Arabic language in order to help Arab people to get benefits from your channel. So, would you allowed me to do that?

  • @peterbosanko4404
    @peterbosanko4404 3 роки тому

    Accept what you cannot control. Easy to say. But how do you do it?

  • @davidyang6074
    @davidyang6074 2 роки тому +1

    I am motivated to change, putting in effort to change, and believe I can change, but her mindset is "as is," so she broke up with me.

  • @monikaram17602
    @monikaram17602 Рік тому

    I cant find ppl like u in my real life for getting therapy

  • @shubhangshukla4628
    @shubhangshukla4628 4 роки тому +2

    I have a problem .when I talk to people I forget everything what I want to say .

    • @BarbaraHeffernan
      @BarbaraHeffernan  4 роки тому +3

      Could be anxiety - I do have some videos on social anxiety. And diaphragmatic breathing super important.

  • @ylana4444
    @ylana4444 4 роки тому

    Where/what is your fb group? Is it for anyone to join? And what is it about? You have several fb “profiles” ..I don’t know where to go or access it. Was wondering if it is for the public. Thank you!

    • @BarbaraHeffernan
      @BarbaraHeffernan  4 роки тому

      Hi! The Facebook group is coaching tools and techniques for living a more joyful life (less mental health focused). The link is in the notes below each of my videos, but I will repost here: facebook.com/groups/awakenjoy.life.
      You can also access it via my Facebook business page at @awakenjoy.life or facebook.com/awakenjoy.life. Thanks for your interest!!

  • @charleyfrost2135
    @charleyfrost2135 3 роки тому

    Hi I’m Charley I’m 18 years old I was diagnosed with anxiety and depression in year 6 at primary I went through being bullied for my intelligence and my looks, I have huge anxiety depression and self esteem issues, A year ago I was also diagnosed with autism and body dismorphia I don’t know how to change my thoughts, I can’t have Instagram because I have a fear of women’s bodies cause I get really insecure and then depressed and end up falling out with my boyfriend because I think he’ll prefer them to me he’s been with me 3 years, it’s completely taking over my life, I can’t watch movies incase of any lady’s bodies being in it, I tell my boyfriend not to watch certain things or avoid certain things to protect me from have a meltdown, I can’t have insta and I had to delete most girls of my Sc, I get panicked about going out incase I see someone or something that’s going to make me insecure its ruining my whole life, please please make a video I’m desperate I don’t think I can cope with this much longer I’m really trapped 😣

  • @Noir-sr5bw
    @Noir-sr5bw 3 роки тому

    What do you do if you feel like you were fooled. I feel like I can't trust my judgment anymore.