Inner Coach vs Inner Critic

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  • Опубліковано 3 січ 2025

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  • @BarbaraHeffernan
    @BarbaraHeffernan  3 роки тому +5

    How is _your_ inner coach?

  • @tessellatiaartilery8197
    @tessellatiaartilery8197 Рік тому +2

    Great video. This had so many concrete ideas. And yes, me too: definitely want my inner coach to sound like you. I could happily listen to you all day! But I won't forget that doing the work oneself is most important. And your channel is a great motivation and conduit for personal growth and change.

  • @edwinicq
    @edwinicq 4 місяці тому

    wow, very clear, easy to understand, and practical. good job!

  • @devibaebie8860
    @devibaebie8860 3 роки тому +4

    Ooh, whoa. I design characters for written stories and my mind is blown by the idea of using that skill to create an inner coach. Thanks so much for just putting that idea out here for people 😊

    • @BarbaraHeffernan
      @BarbaraHeffernan  3 роки тому +1

      How terrific! I love that you design characters - and now would love to see your coach!

    • @devibaebie8860
      @devibaebie8860 3 роки тому

      @@BarbaraHeffernan Im thinking carefully on it and will share it some time once finished.

  • @darrenfreeman4936
    @darrenfreeman4936 3 роки тому +5

    Your videos are great! I like the idea of personalising the characters of inner critic and inner coach. Reminds me of transactional analysis with regards to the critical and nurturing parent.

    • @BarbaraHeffernan
      @BarbaraHeffernan  3 роки тому +1

      Yes, similar ideas! So glad you like the videos - thanks for letting me know!

  • @michelepattison9241
    @michelepattison9241 3 роки тому +5

    My inner coach is Fred Rogers !

  • @jonwebb6644
    @jonwebb6644 3 роки тому +2

    The Buddhist monk Thich Nhat Hanh has helped me out tremendously in this area.

  • @id_emotion
    @id_emotion 10 днів тому

    I record my own voice with motivational pep talks for different areas in my life

  • @seleva_
    @seleva_ 6 місяців тому +2

    I call my inner coach "big sister". I communicate with her by writting a dialogue, just she and me. I keep a secret word file for our meetings. 😉

  • @holleywhittemore267
    @holleywhittemore267 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you! So helpful and encouraging.💖

  • @2theja1
    @2theja1 3 роки тому

    Thanks lots of learning

  • @ghadakadhum3095
    @ghadakadhum3095 4 місяці тому

    Afriend i knew in college
    The way she was amazed me and i didnot met anyone like her ever •

  • @spirited6
    @spirited6 3 роки тому +2

    Hey, Ive benn dealing with derealization for a while. Is there any ways to help ?

    • @BarbaraHeffernan
      @BarbaraHeffernan  3 роки тому +1

      Therapists trained in dissociation can often help considerably with this.

  • @mariahkim5404
    @mariahkim5404 Рік тому

    Mam I need your help

  • @mariamkinen8036
    @mariamkinen8036 3 роки тому

    I'm ok.i sometimes find myself talking as if I gave myself advice . As if I spoke to mum. My physical bodily status could be better. I hold good views . TY.

  • @sophiafakevirus-ro8cc
    @sophiafakevirus-ro8cc Рік тому

    The critic does not say YOU are..., I become the critic.
    There isn't really an "I", there is a throne and whichever complex (personality) sits in the throne becomes "I". So I tell myself I am negative things.

  • @mohdibrahim6313
    @mohdibrahim6313 3 роки тому

    Hello Doctor. Got a question and need ur answer please. what an organic mental disorder means?

  • @malemaline
    @malemaline 2 роки тому

    How to know if therapy is effective?

  • @natasaprot1811
    @natasaprot1811 3 роки тому

    My inner coach is coached by Iyanla Vanzant 😁

  • @kattentissari3247
    @kattentissari3247 3 роки тому

    My inner coach is like coach Hines of Mad tv

    • @BarbaraHeffernan
      @BarbaraHeffernan  3 роки тому

      lol - had to look him up - but -oops! we want an inner POSITIVE coach! Perhaps he is more like an inner critic?

  • @phillyfan-182
    @phillyfan-182 3 роки тому

    Like a professional athlete or a coach. Someone like Drew Brees or Sean Payton.