What she said about women and promiscuity is just plain wrong. They are promiscuous but with the so called alpha males and they keep it secret. Its a mating strategy also called paternity fraud and its deeply ingrained in their behaviour..
Its CRAZY all the young women doing face injections etc and making themselves look like 40 year old soccer mums. These women literally SKIP their most aesthetic years and erode it to line the pockets of the cosmetic industry. A natural beauty always is more desired than a botched look. IYKYK.
Theres plenty of women who get botox and a small lifts but you dont notice it, and it looks good because its done well. When the lip fillers come out its all down hill
There has to be a baseline physical attractiveness for things to add on, but certain things can completely undo it for me. For example a 5/10 who dresses modestly, isn't an annoying gobshite feminist, has respect for herself and has respected herself in the past is infinitely more desireable to be than a 10/10 who slept with 10+ dudes and is posting lingerie pics on insta. But sadly I've never met a woman I'm deeply unattracted to who I've wanted to pursue anyhting more than friendship with, no matter how cool they are.
@@mauricegilliam7102I don't know that he'd get ranked as 10/10 if he weren't a famous actor. Lot of super hot women have gished over him on interviews though.
For males- youth and fertility. For females- taller than 85% of other males in group, facial symmetry, chiseled jaw line, V tapered torso, straight teeth.
Try again. For males- Must be the degrading, non human 'mommy/maid/pornstar', to be his personal slave. Must be a '10' in all respects right down to hair, skin, nails, style of dress etc. Must not be stupid, but also not too smart to intimidate him, and also so she isn't smart enough to leave. Must be good at all domestic duties, and taking care of kids. Must be OK with him having affairs, and watching lots of porn. Must be OK with him spending all his time farting around, drinking beer, and getting a beer belly, and watching dumb sports, while she's slaving away. Must be OK with him dumping her after a few years of her slaving for him, only to find someone else even younger to do it for him all over again, leaving his ex destitute, even if she has kids. What women want- A man who they individually find attractive, as this is completely subjective. We have free will, and want someone intelligent, kind, respects us, does his fair share of all housework, and childrearing without it being 'helping', loves us unconditionally, and they are a compatible, sharing values, and interests, as well as best friends. These are BASICS for any decent relationship. Men want a robotic slave, women want a human PARTNER.
Not true. Men just say it as it is, they seek youth & fertility, yet they still try to maximize the woman's attractiveness. Women just set unrealistic expectations, yet fall in love with personalities of average people, where status & compatibility play a huge role.
Great video. Spot on from my life experience. I was a male model in college, 6' 4", yes 35 years ago. I graduated one weekend and got married the next. I was 23 and she was 33. She eventually got 3 masters and a PhD while being an executive. It was interesting seeing the faces of the ladies that competed with my wife in the profession world when they met me. One CNO, said "Oh that is just unfair" when I came into the room with a suit and tie on, the first time we met. She still hated my wife and they did Not get along. My wife has dozens of gay men friends but a lot of time they needed her professional advice. Lost her to Alzheimer's and now I am in my 50's starting all over with dating. Appreciate the time and effort.
Sorry about your loss, I just hit 60 and could not imagine starting over. Though my spouse almost had to do that a year ago without me. Look out for your health, I wish you well on your journey!
@thoth80 Thank you for your kind words. I guess it my choice on how to move forward. Was so blessed through out my entire dating experience many years ago.
What eloquent explanation of the topic has to do with being offended, for the love of God? There is absolutely no way I would be offended as long as the one speaking to me or about me is honest. In fact, i would rathe she used simpler vocabulary just to sound more natural.
@ Unfortunately, we live at a time when no matter what you say and often how you say it, you’d offend some people and consequently get cancelled 🤦🏻♂️ I think conversational skills and the right choice of vocabulary help you avoid that.
I love how open and forthright she is about the data collected. Sometimes it's a harsh pill to swallow, but we there are also positives to take from all this. Both men and women have a chance to do better.
Thinks it's more of a bell curve, where most men and women fall it to the categories she describes and then there's the minority who find different things attractive.
Interesting! I am unhealthy infertile had POI at 37. I’m 45 now and the amount of attention and compliments I get from both men and women have never stopped. Been proposed to 4 times. I am as unhealthy internally as it gets due to infertility and hormone imbalance. 😉
@@lilyshah4608and out of curiosity, where has that landed you with men? You said you were proposed to 4 times. Are you in a healthy and stable long term relationship with a good man now who knows the state of your health and supports you fully?
@@JuniperLynn789I can't speak for Lily but she sounds similar to my sister-in-law. My brother's wife is about 8 years older than him, in her 40,'s, came to the relationship with a teenage son while he had no kids, and she has a few health issues, internal and externally. He is fully committed to her and his step son. Women hit on my brother all the time so he's no unattractive, he ignores them. While I agree there is a science to who men and women are attracted to, some people just like who they like.
beautiful women form friendships with gay men because they're not relentlessly being pursued by them. It gives them a "break" so to speak. And another aspect of it is that the friendship may be perceived as much more pure.
I've seen women who were "10's" instantly turn into 1's the second they open their mouths and start talking... It's a truly shocking thing to behold... 😱 Conversely, I've seen 5's turn into 10's as soon as they open their mouths and start talking. This is a far more pleasant experience and much preferable to the former... 😉
@@Meditations2024 maybe not 1's but definitely a lot lower. I once met super model Doutzen Kroes, a stunningly beautiful woman. That was until she started talking. I couldn't bear it tbh. I wasn't expecting her to be highly intelligent or fun to be around or anything, but this woman is absolutely nothing but an extremely pretty face. She even had a hard time speaking in coherent sentences and what came out was nothing but gibberish. She is lucky to have a job that only requires her to walk down a catwalk, she would be too stupid to manage the checkout of a petrol station or clean toilets.
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What you say in between 3'10" and 3'25", that men are less likely to get attracted to women with a more adult, wise... outlook, because they are more likely to be approaching menopauze... Since a kid I was always (nearly always) attracted to older women... Their age I (still) was attracted to them climbed simultaneously with my age : 40's, 50's, toppling over 60... I happen to have relationships with women my age or slightly younger, but can be very attracted to women in their 50's... I first began to pay attention this as a thing when I was 40, tracing it back to pre-teen age... 50 now...
Fantastic video My five-year relationship ended a month ago. The decision to part ways with the love of my life is something that truly consumes me. Though it's all in vain, I've tried everything to get him back, and I can't fathom my life with anyone else. Even though I've made every effort to quit thinking about him, I can't help but miss him and can't stop thinking about him. Why I am stating this here is beyond me.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
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Everything they discussed early on in the video is based on mental conditioning / indoctrinated belief systems. That's anything but natural. After that though, it's truly peculiar how accurate it is to the trends in society nowadays. It's as if people tend to do things out of spite or jealousy just to seek out drama, not because they genuinely want something. No wonder why shite soap operas are so popular these days, a lot of people see themselves in that crud. Life imitates "art", "art" imitates life.
Most Women have bigger hips which gives most women a curvy look, hips are made of Bones, so most women stay curvy no matter how old they are and no matter how much estrogen they have. Around 2:02
Dr Sara Hill says around 6:27: "because men are more oriented toward casual sex and non-committed relationships than women are..." Is this really true though? It's such a bold statement. I think women just like men are having casual sex a lot nowadays, doesn't seem like a gender thing but more of a culture thing?
It's pretty rudimentary in how testosterone affects the human body vs estrogen. You see this pattern of behavior in transitioning women on TRT. It's not societal or cultural, it's biological.
@@Daniël-j7p6v There are a lot of sources. A very simple example that you see in everyday life is the sex drive of a 18 year old man vs a 50 year old man. Also, when a man goes on TRT, his sex drive returns or increase. The source of someone transitioning is less common to find. They are out there though. Idk if this helps you. Just what I have seen in my limited self research.
@@manifest2203 I'm not sure sex drive is the same. A woman might have a high sex drive though from experience, that seems to imply she wants to have lots of sex with the same person (or maybe one or two people). I think the desire to have sex with as many partners as possible is more of a male trait. From what I've heard, male and female DNA is slightly different in that both our inherent goals are to procreate. Apparently for women this inspires the desire to find the strongest mate whilst it men, it is inspired to have as many partners as possible (giving us the best chance of our seed surviving). Certainly this is one of the reasons men seem to prefer porn. Apparently it's the constant variety that triggers our mindset. But yep, I've known many woman who have a strong sex drive but they still seem to prefer to keep that in the confines of relationships if not always long term.
Attractive is a set of concepts in someone's mind. When someone is sighted these concepts are applied. The degree of attractiveness depends on how much the concepts tally with the person. That's all. The rest is herd instinct.
@MickVolume I knew a girl that would tell her friend she wasn't that attractive without makeup. Her friend was naturally gorgeous, kind, and smart, and she was just jealous of her.
I read studies on the contrary of the 1% is marrying their own kind. They are segregated how does a blue collar person regardless of how attractive she is get access to super educated wealthy men. Men who are super educated and wealthy marry intelligent, educated women not just beautiful. Also the evolution argument of attracted to markers of fertility is so outdated there is a reason the fertility rate is low people, especially men are not trying to support a family if things go wrong.
As a gay man I wholeheartedly agree. I'm friends with a lot of beautiful women while some of my straight friends are struggling 😂 its truly an interesting dynamic.
None of it is even accurate. Attraction is highly subjective. And feminists have always known most men are sexist however, which is why feminists teach other women to avoid men.
Is there a difference in traits that women are attracted to over their life, in particular, during a promiscuous phase, in contrast to seeking a long-term and likely child-bearing relationship?
This captivating video triggers a flood of painful memories from the end of my 6-year relationship just three months ago. The woman I loved with all my heart chose to walk away, leaving me grappling with an insurmountable sense of loss. Despite my relentless efforts to salvage what we had , I'm left feeling disillusioned and unable to imagine a future without her. Despite my attempts to move on, I'm drawn to express my deep-seated longing for her here .
The struggle to release someone dear to your heart is undeniably arduous. I empathize, having experienced a similar circumstance when my 8 year relationship concluded. Refusing to accept defeat, I pursued every conceivable avenue to reclaim his affection. Eventually, I sought the assistance of a spiritual counselor, whose wisdom and intervention played a pivotal role in reuniting us.
How can she say that women find George Clooney is his 50s more attractive then him at 25? I think older women don’t understand that what they now find attractive at their age is men who are their age. Women in their 20s don’t find men in their 50s attractive, they prefer men in their age group. I am speaking as a woman in her 20s. Young women are disgusted by older men coming onto them. The average age gap is 2,5 years, not 15… When women say they prefer older men, we mean from a few years. Older women sometimes forget what it’s like being a younger women… Women prefer men in their age group, men prefer younger women, that is far more accurate.
Choose one Clooney(both give you the same affection): a 25 year old Clooney who can only afford to take you out once a month to a movie and fast food. Or a 50 year old Clooney that can take you to the finest restaurants and take you on luxurious holidays whenever you want
@@basrur I choose 25 years old Clooney. Honestly, men don’t understand how women in their 20s are not attracted to men in their 50s and it’s shocking. Probably why they are such easy targets to gold diggers…
I totally agree with you as a 20s woman. I can agree If a man in his 50s is objectively attractive but I just can’t be attracted to him due to age. I prefer men in their 20s and 30s. Men really don’t want to accept this and then get used by gold diggers
@@basrur The 25 year old. Everything is better when you're young, even being broke. And if George could snap his fingers and go back to 25 he would even if it meant giving up all the money. Quit being delusional like women. Men's physical prime is 22-27. After that y'alls necks keep growing like Joe rogan. Any man over 40- no matter how attractive he is-if you look at a picture of him 10-15 years earlier he is going to look drastically better.
@@jz372 men like to delude themselves into think they are more attractive because they dont want to accept that any man being picked when they are older is being picked because of lifestyle and not attraction lol
Most 25 yo women are more attracted to 25 yo men than to 50 year old men which is why that is who they tend to marry. And evolutionarily 50 year old men weren’t a better bet because they weren’t likely to live long enough to see the children into adulthood. A lot of this is just tired old stereotypes dressed up as science.
Gay men are absolutely the BEST. For all the reasons your guest explained and more. Gay men don’t judge you, they understand far more than others do because they’ve experienced a lot, they know how a man thinks and how a woman feels, there’s a deep and unspoken understanding that is more powerful than any bond.
Right, I’ve only heard some gay men call women “fish “ They aren’t all friendly towards women. Unfortunately, lots of women think gay men are on our side. Ask the old lesbians about the gays….you’ll get a more truthful answer
@@KarlHeinz_418 Because they're not looking at women as sexual objects, like the majority of men do, and see and treat them like HUMAN BEINGS. That's why women value gay men so much, because they're treated 100000x better.
@ I am a strait female, my gay friends and I are both attracted to men. Thus we can compare and contrast our successes and failures in relationships with men and learn from one another. My gay friends are emotionally intelligent and have amazing understanding of the depth of my emotions and I of theirs. I think a lot of societies and cultures prevent straight men from feeling a full array of emotions, or at least displaying these emotions. An unfortunate side effect of this is emotional stunting. I’m not so bold to say that every straight man is unable to communicate their feelings, that’s definitely not true; but that has been most of my experience with straight men. I’ve had a few exceptions to this observation.
I see A LOT of judgement from gay men. I'm not sure what you are on about. I've seen many far more shallow, and sexist than straight men. And nobody knows how women feel. Only we know that.
Id love to know HOW this is measured today lol. Like did they have a judgement panel of men deciding 9/10, 6/10 hotness scale and then ask for their salaries? Like, Please provide some literature or studies that says good looks are a better indicator of wealth than education? Also, not all looks are genetic. People are fit, care about their diet and sleep etc, so it's fair to say that these women are "taking care" of themselves better?
She didn't answer the question, which was "Is it true that men are less attractive to successful women", she flipped to answer as though the question was that men are not attracted to successful women.
I don't think most women agree at all on what men are attractive. Which is good! Every man has a shot. I literally know several women who think Timothee Chalamet is ugly. Not ugly for a celebrity, they said he looks like a lizard.
I think as a man, how older, how more wisdom, how more stability but also open for new things. And of course the natural respect for the woman, that a woman knows that she can alway's count on the unconditional love of of a male warrior. That must be attractive a woman. 😀
@@custos3249you're right about that. The issue is that the data from data apps is that it's pretty much entirely looks based, which doesn't at all match women's behavior when meeting men in person. If dating apps reflected people's actual expectations, you'd have a large chunk of the population that doesn't end up getting married, but that's not the case. The overwhelming majority of the straight population gets married.
If you are attracted to a girl, And she has a gay male best friend… Be careful. From my experience, These women tend to be more promiscuous. I think the reason is, They gay friend DOES NOT JUDGE them. I know I know… exceptions exceptions But I Married one, and , well…. You can see it as a way to find the truth since she’s going to tell the friend EVERYTHING.
lol, these comments are so intriguing to me. Thanks for sharing! My friend will point out women he finds attractive, to which I respond, “Hey man if you like her, great!” But I’ll point out women I find attractive and he’ll say the same thing to me.
Dr Sarah Hill is great, but I believe there is more to attraction than what is covered here. For example, commenters here said the guy on the left in the thumbnail was just as attractive as the guy on the right if not moreso. I respectfully think that Dr. Hill's view doesn't cover everyone, and doesn't cover many circumstances. There are different types of attractions for different situations and times in life. Sometimes a spade is just a spade, and symmetry wins. I also think it is old school to paint men to only be concerned with physical aspects, while women are solely concerned about status. Men can also look past simple physical attraction, especially after they mature, and both girls and women are definitely capable of thinking a man is "hot" or not. Still, a very interesting topic of discussion with great points made.
I work at a Gym and You should see the Evil Glances Some women in their 50 ies give the women that are Like 23 to 25 and in their Prime. Something Like that doesnt exist among Men they are only jelous about Status.
Your second paragraph is NOT correct. I'm 57. In the gym I AM jealous of the men with the elite bodies. But I don't glare at them. What point would that serve? What point does a woman glaring at another women serve? These women are without brains. Your first paragraph is right on.
I know exactly what you're talking about but you're misunderstanding the evil glances. It's because the gals in their 50's are trying to get in and out before heading to the office and they're tired of waiting for the machine while the 20-something is sending "selfies" to her imaginary fan club!
The vanity of baby girls always thinking it’s because they’re jealous, just like the guy who looks in the younger girls direction and that means he checking her out.
Never really used my good looks as i hate how men treated me like a meat pile. I made a great career from having a buisness and most people don't even know how i look like cause its online
A lot of women who complain about being treated like a piece of meat or being objectified objectify themselves and use their sexuality to get attention so it’s often a double standard.
Fascinating insights on attraction and competition! Understanding these dynamics has helped me build more authentic relationships, thanks for sharing 🤝 #Habit10x
Her whole theory is based on biology as if it’s the only driving force. Women over 50 can find love and I’ve known quite a few who have. It’s just harder because there are fewer men to choose from and women over 50 tend to be more selective than younger women.
Nope, there's always a hierarchy, everybody knows what's best for their live at one point, I think the people(not men) who always have access to a lot of options would choose one to maximize their potential for many reasons, in this case women ok their 50's would preferí to go with the man with the most resources as posible, might be average salary, 100k, caries by person and perks, men would do the same, nobody sane wants more pain or less happiness in their lives
In my experience men tend to value personality traits way more above attractiveness when it comes to long term relationships. Forget fillers, and invest in becoming a person that's calm and well regulated. Men are much more likely to want to be around you then, and for the right reasons.
I heard on one of these that shoulder to ear ratio has an impact on trust. At 4:00, her shoulder to ear ratio isn't good. Surely it wasn't her who was the guest that time, but it could have been.
Hello: A few months ago I was having lunch at a cafe. There were two people sitting at the next table. One person was a gay man and the woman was straight. It occurred to me that the woman liked being with him because they could talking about things like British period dramas and she knew that he wasn't going to gossip about her behind her back. Have a lovely day.
The take away I'm getting from this is that we should teach our daughters to be beautiful, not smart. Thanks experts. So instead of paying for college, we'll just save up for her eventual plastic surgery. We always assumed it was social media that was making our daughters hate themselves and want to commit suicide - good to know it's just "part of evolutionary science"
Teach your daughters to capitalize on their most valuable resource (youth and fertility) while they are young and fertile. A good education in a marketable field doesn't hurt, but a famous female comedian once said "No man ever reached up a woman's skirt looking for a diploma".
@@anisenkrill6179 So if you had a daughter, you'd see her most valuable asset as her youth and her vagina? You'll tell her to capitalize on that first? Like she's not a human being. JFC no wonder women don't want ANYTHING to do with men these days
Dr Sarah Hill is great! I have found in my psychology profession is that successfully women will choose a man who is more often less successfully. I do not know the exact reason why and this seems to be the case and it is just an assumption but a common theme I see is that these women seem to like submissive men similar to a puppy that do not challenge them. One other comment I have, I see so many women who choose men based upon looks, get married and have kids. Then they realize that this person is a not a provider. I would say it seems some US ladies have a broken modulation as the doctor has mentioned. I would say that Dr Sarah Hill is saying what most people want in society but the divorce rate says otherwise. I wanted to share another take on this and there was nothing wrong with what she said.
I can count on one hand how many truly attractive women I've seen in the U.S. in the past 10 years. 8 out of the 10 most attractive women I've ever seen were in Russia. I've only visited Russia for a grand total of 50 days.
Mate competition for women is taken so stinking seriously... that even though I'm in a relationship (for 20 years at this point), and maybe a 5 on the physical scale... my girlfriend refused to go out on girls' nights with me as she said it was because "they would go up to you, not me". The fact I would immediately turn them down wasn't even a factor for her. Women are freaking nuts sometimes lol.
I must be one odd cookie of a guy then. I prefer smaller breasts/hips/ass over bigger and dont think an hourglass body is the perfect bodytype. Not that it's ugly ofcourse. But not top tier for me personally.
Don't ever confuse 'the statistical median/average' with 'this is the only thing that matters and if you don't fit in you're odd'. People have preferences, your preferences is just less frequent and not weird.
They really don’t. Each person actually does have a physical attractiveness ideal. Women hold men up to physical standards. Look at how many young teens put up posters of good looking young men. Sor The Beatles and all those young women screaming their heads off, from being overwhelmed by how attractive they found them. Because there aren’t that many cis men that are actually physically attractive, for unknown reasons, society considers “reactive attractiveness” as the standard of women being attracted to men. That’s why women who are attracted to guys because of their wallet, or because he shows some respect, or offers a nice dinner date… There are
my ex gf would be considered a 10 by most peoples standards. 5'9" slim/thick in the right places. beautiful face. wore heels all the time and just overall a very sexy woman. But I dumped her six months ago, because I don't care how beautiful you are, you will be a ZERO in my book if you have a bad attitude and/or narcissistic tendencies. life has been better without her. of course she tried so hard to get me back when I left, where were those actions when I was there?? no where to be found... so where am I now.....NOWHERE TO BE FOUND haha her loss.
(I rarely leave comments, particularly unfavorable ones, but) this info is not only generic & archaic, but as a psychotherapist that has worked with a few thousand clients, I have discovered the near exact opposite with so many of these statements. So broad & cliche. Particularly regarding male attraction.
Yeah, I don't care what you "think", there are a ton of guys who look just like him who aren't famous and tadah, suddenly no one pays attention. He's slightly above average at best. You dumb slag@smashmusique
@dunquinho9706 Then it would be weird that they keep asking. Probably has something to do with girl math. Seriously though, if they didn't want an honest opinion they wouldn't ask me.
You’re attracted to people who look like yourself. The rating system is essentially b.s. that’s mainly designed to get you to buy something. I had generally terrible luck finding women until I dated women who have facial features similar to mine. An entire website was based on this called Find your face mate or something similar. This element of assumed familiarity brings about a sense of safeness between people, a common link. Figure out what your ‘other half’ would look like and seek them out. It’s an element of human nature that isn’t going away anytime soon, at its best it leads to amazing relationships even if the couple never realizes the reason why. At its worst it’s an element of human nature that drives things like racism and prejudice. Say whatever you like about this comment, it’s true because I’ve lived it. Good luck out there!
Nice. But also have you considered that how you see and think about yourself might not completely match up with how other people see you? You see yourself as a 6 but perhaps the consensus among people that you interact with is that you’re a 9?
Oh my gosh, thank you for the fax ladder for the folks in the back please. Beauty equals happiness. Tighten it up girls. No whining. PS beauty is fun as hell. Go get it.
I disagree with her that men put more importance on looks. I think women will lie in surveys for some reason, they don't want to appear superficial maybe? I think women put as much importance on looks if not more. Just take dating apps, it's known that a woman will have 100x more messages than most men. Women have to filter more and the standards becomes higher and higher
People are much more complicated. And she always cherry picks like in 'Man find equally attractive Burger King worker and CEO id the woman is very pretty'... For a short flings/using her for sex - sure. In most cases a man who is accompishe himself would like to have a woman with ambitions, driver, strong will, intelligence, social skills etc. All the small things that makes her the CEO. What a reductive and silly approach talking like that about man. This is absolute BS.
As an otherwise (read on for explanation) attractive woman, I have given up on men entirely, sadly. All the ones I dated watched porn and were very judgemental about my body (even prior to a surgery I had to have), about women's bodies in general. It was horrid really. Now I'm out of a relationship with an abusive porn addict (who, even at 60 now, clearly prefers what's on the screen, and I'm sure you can image). I have a physical deformity (hidden to the public eye), and I just don't feel that I have ANY value in the "sexual marketplace" with things as they are, the increasing prevalence of porn..men being more "visual", having to fight off lust.. I give up! Staying single so I can have some peace and not be judged on my "specs" or lack thereof..
I would never date a man who uses porn. Instantly he is hideous to me. I'm really sorry you dealt with that. We have high value. They don't. Don't think of it as you not having value in the 'market'. That's not accurate. It is the rest of them who are low value. They have absolutely nothing to offer anyone.
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What she said about women and promiscuity is just plain wrong. They are promiscuous but with the so called alpha males and they keep it secret. Its a mating strategy also called paternity fraud and its deeply ingrained in their behaviour..
@@thomasshirrefs5331 Exactly. she talked about "what does it for you" Surely therein lies the kernel of the investigation?
Its CRAZY all the young women doing face injections etc and making themselves look like 40 year old soccer mums. These women literally SKIP their most aesthetic years and erode it to line the pockets of the cosmetic industry.
A natural beauty always is more desired than a botched look. IYKYK.
See also genetic lottery winners vandalizing their bodies with tats.
So women over 40 aren't attractive, got it.
@@MichelleAntonia I’m sure they’re attractive to men their age, not young dudes unless they have a thing for milfs
@@anonymissed3611 So sad
Theres plenty of women who get botox and a small lifts but you dont notice it, and it looks good because its done well. When the lip fillers come out its all down hill
the way Steve kept wanting to say unattr*ctive wom*n but caught himself and said "non conventionally attractive" has me crying.
Why do you censor your comment?
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I can relate!
Loved this! I find that all the people I love look beautiful to me.
How to be attractive? Be as healthy as possible.
...and shower once a day.
Be rich
Helps to study the sociopathic models that can be found on youtube talking about how they attract people.
@@anthonybrett Brad Pitt has never had a shower, apparently.
What about healthy serial killers?
Agree that men are initially attracted by physical characteristics. After that, at least for me, its morality and how women carry themselves
Its the opposite. Women are attracted by phisycal more
There has to be a baseline physical attractiveness for things to add on, but certain things can completely undo it for me. For example a 5/10 who dresses modestly, isn't an annoying gobshite feminist, has respect for herself and has respected herself in the past is infinitely more desireable to be than a 10/10 who slept with 10+ dudes and is posting lingerie pics on insta. But sadly I've never met a woman I'm deeply unattracted to who I've wanted to pursue anyhting more than friendship with, no matter how cool they are.
The way a woman carries themselves is physical
Morality and values are very important in choosing a woman.
I'm saddened by CLICKBAIT thumbnails.
Those artificially chisseled jaw lines gross me out.
The guy that's 10/10 looks weak; too pretty.😊
@@mauricegilliam7102I don't know that he'd get ranked as 10/10 if he weren't a famous actor. Lot of super hot women have gished over him on interviews though.
Even more saddened by people selling supplements with cancer agents in them, like Huel
@@mauricegilliam7102 Yeah. The other one that said 5/10 was MUCH better looking.
For males- youth and fertility. For females- taller than 85% of other males in group, facial symmetry, chiseled jaw line, V tapered torso, straight teeth.
This the correct 😂
Women don't ask for much, do they.
Try again. For males- Must be the degrading, non human 'mommy/maid/pornstar', to be his personal slave. Must be a '10' in all respects right down to hair, skin, nails, style of dress etc. Must not be stupid, but also not too smart to intimidate him, and also so she isn't smart enough to leave. Must be good at all domestic duties, and taking care of kids. Must be OK with him having affairs, and watching lots of porn. Must be OK with him spending all his time farting around, drinking beer, and getting a beer belly, and watching dumb sports, while she's slaving away. Must be OK with him dumping her after a few years of her slaving for him, only to find someone else even younger to do it for him all over again, leaving his ex destitute, even if she has kids.
What women want- A man who they individually find attractive, as this is completely subjective. We have free will, and want someone intelligent, kind, respects us, does his fair share of all housework, and childrearing without it being 'helping', loves us unconditionally, and they are a compatible, sharing values, and interests, as well as best friends. These are BASICS for any decent relationship. Men want a robotic slave, women want a human PARTNER.
You forgot money 💰; but once they have it, women will fukk the thug in baggy jeans 👖, anyway
Not true. Men just say it as it is, they seek youth & fertility, yet they still try to maximize the woman's attractiveness.
Women just set unrealistic expectations, yet fall in love with personalities of average people, where status & compatibility play a huge role.
That guy in the thumby is not 5/10.
True! I would give him a strong 7 or 8 for the looks alone. If he has a nice voice/smell and good character, he's an absolute 10.
It's clickbait
@@marianpe5773 Yeaa that’s fair
@ I wonder if he’s Ai?!
I agree. I find that actor labeled as 10/10 very unattractive. He's weird looking to me and looks too much like a child.
One way to become attracted to someone is to have someone else say that 'that person likes you'.
not true in my case
lol yeah that's funny
Great video. Spot on from my life experience. I was a male model in college, 6' 4", yes 35 years ago. I graduated one weekend and got married the next. I was 23 and she was 33. She eventually got 3 masters and a PhD while being an executive. It was interesting seeing the faces of the ladies that competed with my wife in the profession world when they met me. One CNO, said "Oh that is just unfair" when I came into the room with a suit and tie on, the first time we met. She still hated my wife and they did Not get along.
My wife has dozens of gay men friends but a lot of time they needed her professional advice. Lost her to Alzheimer's and now I am in my 50's starting all over with dating. Appreciate the time and effort.
Sorry about your loss, I just hit 60 and could not imagine starting over. Though my spouse almost had to do that a year ago without me. Look out for your health, I wish you well on your journey!
@thoth80 Thank you for your kind words. I guess it my choice on how to move forward. Was so blessed through out my entire dating experience many years ago.
She expands and explains the topics so eloquently that I think no one will be offended by any of her comments👏🏻
What eloquent explanation of the topic has to do with being offended, for the love of God?
There is absolutely no way I would be offended as long as the one speaking to me or about me is honest. In fact, i would rathe she used simpler vocabulary just to sound more natural.
@ Unfortunately, we live at a time when no matter what you say and often how you say it, you’d offend some people and consequently get cancelled 🤦🏻♂️ I think conversational skills and the right choice of vocabulary help you avoid that.
She's quite thick though. Who on earth would think 50 yr old Clooney is generally more physically attractive than 25 yr old Clooney.
I love how open and forthright she is about the data collected. Sometimes it's a harsh pill to swallow, but we there are also positives to take from all this. Both men and women have a chance to do better.
It is in the eye of the beholder. It is based on SOO many variables. Cultural influences are just one of many variables.
Mmmmmmm. Ive always been invisible to women (pretty much) and the beauty is still in the eye of the beholder ? Please...
I agree with you. She's generalizing way too much.
Thinks it's more of a bell curve, where most men and women fall it to the categories she describes and then there's the minority who find different things attractive.
nope - who told you that... there are clear identifiers
@@James_36 What are 'clear identifiers'?
Men are attracted to health in women; correct hormones, youth, fertility, good genes and nutrition, low parasite load, etc. are just markers of that.
Most underrated comment. 💯
Interesting! I am unhealthy infertile had POI at 37. I’m 45 now and the amount of attention and compliments I get from both men and women have never stopped. Been proposed to 4 times. I am as unhealthy internally as it gets due to infertility and hormone imbalance. 😉
@@lilyshah4608and out of curiosity, where has that landed you with men? You said you were proposed to 4 times. Are you in a healthy and stable long term relationship with a good man now who knows the state of your health and supports you fully?
Men will SMASH anything...but when it comes to LONG TERM MATING and COMMITMENT things take a turn!@@lilyshah4608
@@JuniperLynn789I can't speak for Lily but she sounds similar to my sister-in-law. My brother's wife is about 8 years older than him, in her 40,'s, came to the relationship with a teenage son while he had no kids, and she has a few health issues, internal and externally. He is fully committed to her and his step son. Women hit on my brother all the time so he's no unattractive, he ignores them. While I agree there is a science to who men and women are attracted to, some people just like who they like.
social media has destroyed multiple generations for dating and relationships.
Unfortunately. I believe what you say to be very true.
What an exceedingly articulate and charismatic interviewee!
I need to go back to college.
Best time of my life.
It was a cornucopia of pussy. Funny how we don't miss things until they aren't there anymore.
Yeah, I often think that too, but I'd need to know what I know now to have more fun & drop all that anxiety :)
to CEO: I like your questions, they are so perfectly and carefully and sofisticly choosen. You are really good at THAT 🙂
beautiful women form friendships with gay men because they're not relentlessly being pursued by them. It gives them a "break" so to speak. And another aspect of it is that the friendship may be perceived as much more pure.
Not really. There are only a minority of women that are “relentlessly pursued”.
I tried being friends with gay men but they talk about sex 90% of the time and it gets boring. Maybe It was just a specific kind of gays
Clubspec sst
This is not true.
Opposite. Fig higs are typically ugly.
I've seen women who were "10's" instantly turn into 1's the second they open their mouths and start talking...
It's a truly shocking thing to behold... 😱
Conversely, I've seen 5's turn into 10's as soon as they open their mouths and start talking. This is a far more pleasant experience and much preferable to the former... 😉
@@Meditations2024 maybe not 1's but definitely a lot lower. I once met super model Doutzen Kroes, a stunningly beautiful woman. That was until she started talking. I couldn't bear it tbh. I wasn't expecting her to be highly intelligent or fun to be around or anything, but this woman is absolutely nothing but an extremely pretty face. She even had a hard time speaking in coherent sentences and what came out was nothing but gibberish. She is lucky to have a job that only requires her to walk down a catwalk, she would be too stupid to manage the checkout of a petrol station or clean toilets.
@@Meditations2024 I've not ever witnessed a 5 becoming a 10. Never. Maybe 1 or 2 points. I can see that.
Been to liverpool
YEAH but shes speaking on general concepts alone...NOT IF THE CHICK IS GIVING A TED TALK!! LOL
Can’t relate. Any 10 ive met stays a 10 no matter what they say. Doesn’t mean I want to bang all of them, but their looks stay the same.
Hormonal birth control completely changed what women find attractive. Read about experiences on and off it
The only reason why one of the guys in the thumbnail is a 5/10 and the other 10/10 is because one of them is famous.
I hit $60k today. Thank you for all the knowledge and nuggets you had thrown my way over the last months. Started last month 2024. Financial education is indeed required for more than 70% of the society in the country as very few are literate on the subject.
It's essential for you to have a mentor to keep you accountable. Myself, I'm guided by Evelyn Vera. for years and highly recommend her I focus on her. To be honest, I almost didn't buy the idea of letting someone handle growing my finance, but so glad I did.
I would really love to know how much work you did put in to get to this stage.
Wow! wow! please is there any way to reach her services?
I will leave her info below this comment.
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Gay men are a beautiful woman’s most trusted friend no doubt!
Real organic men too.
maybe it's because they are both more likely to be interested in fashion.
@@wordswordswords8203 No, not so much of that,. It's a stereotype, but not really the norm. The honest opinion about more things than fashion.
One of the only women I’ve listen to that is 100% right about dating & relationships. She’s sharp
What you say in between 3'10" and 3'25", that men are less likely to get attracted to women with a more adult, wise... outlook, because they are more likely to be approaching menopauze... Since a kid I was always (nearly always) attracted to older women... Their age I (still) was attracted to them climbed simultaneously with my age : 40's, 50's, toppling over 60... I happen to have relationships with women my age or slightly younger, but can be very attracted to women in their 50's... I first began to pay attention this as a thing when I was 40, tracing it back to pre-teen age... 50 now...
You are a wise man, my husband is 23 years younger than me and we met at Spin class. Age is just a number.
@@loneranger7573 And you àre beautiful women...
I’ve never really looked at older man as attractive.
at what age does he become "older"?
Not everyone likes ice cream. Choose the person who chooses you.
i like the not everyone likes ice cream comment. Very nice.
Laaaaaaaaaame
No woman has ever chosen me so i guess i'm SOL
French vanilla, butter pecan, chocolate deluxe
Fantastic video My five-year relationship ended a month ago. The decision to part ways with the love of my life is something that truly consumes me. Though it's all in vain, I've tried everything to get him back, and I can't fathom my life with anyone else. Even though I've made every effort to quit thinking about him, I can't help but miss him and can't stop thinking about him. Why I am stating this here is beyond me.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
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Everything they discussed early on in the video is based on mental conditioning / indoctrinated belief systems. That's anything but natural. After that though, it's truly peculiar how accurate it is to the trends in society nowadays.
It's as if people tend to do things out of spite or jealousy just to seek out drama, not because they genuinely want something. No wonder why shite soap operas are so popular these days, a lot of people see themselves in that crud. Life imitates "art", "art" imitates life.
The concept of health in "The 23 Former Doctor Truths" book completely explains this. I wish I read it sooner.
Yes that book is amazing I read it 2 days ago
Dr lauren is such an amazing doctor
It's a scam and the those post are from bots. don't buy it.
BOT ALERT!
Thank god bots are still stupid
Most Women have bigger hips which gives most women a curvy look, hips are made of Bones, so most women stay curvy no matter how old they are and no matter how much estrogen they have. Around 2:02
Sure but she was referring to how fat changes in a women it its placement, same for men and also muscle mass
This is just wittering.
Dr Sara Hill says around 6:27: "because men are more oriented toward casual sex and non-committed relationships than women are..." Is this really true though? It's such a bold statement. I think women just like men are having casual sex a lot nowadays, doesn't seem like a gender thing but more of a culture thing?
It's pretty rudimentary in how testosterone affects the human body vs estrogen. You see this pattern of behavior in transitioning women on TRT. It's not societal or cultural, it's biological.
Yes it all depends on smex drive. Some wmn have more smex drive than othrs.
@@Centurion305 Source?
@@Daniël-j7p6v There are a lot of sources. A very simple example that you see in everyday life is the sex drive of a 18 year old man vs a 50 year old man. Also, when a man goes on TRT, his sex drive returns or increase. The source of someone transitioning is less common to find. They are out there though. Idk if this helps you. Just what I have seen in my limited self research.
@@manifest2203 I'm not sure sex drive is the same. A woman might have a high sex drive though from experience, that seems to imply she wants to have lots of sex with the same person (or maybe one or two people).
I think the desire to have sex with as many partners as possible is more of a male trait.
From what I've heard, male and female DNA is slightly different in that both our inherent goals are to procreate. Apparently for women this inspires the desire to find the strongest mate whilst it men, it is inspired to have as many partners as possible (giving us the best chance of our seed surviving).
Certainly this is one of the reasons men seem to prefer porn. Apparently it's the constant variety that triggers our mindset.
But yep, I've known many woman who have a strong sex drive but they still seem to prefer to keep that in the confines of relationships if not always long term.
Attractive is a set of concepts in someone's mind. When someone
is sighted these concepts are applied. The degree of attractiveness depends on how much the concepts tally with the person. That's all. The rest is herd instinct.
11:03 Wait, so female friends of attractive women lie about how they look in order to lessen their market potential?!
Yes, there's been some recent studies about this, crazy
@MickVolume I knew a girl that would tell her friend she wasn't that attractive without makeup. Her friend was naturally gorgeous, kind, and smart, and she was just jealous of her.
@@MickVolume Do you need "recent studies" for truths known by any schoolgirl for milleniums?
Absolutely
I read studies on the contrary of the 1% is marrying their own kind. They are segregated how does a blue collar person regardless of how attractive she is get access to super educated wealthy men. Men who are super educated and wealthy marry intelligent, educated women not just beautiful. Also the evolution argument of attracted to markers of fertility is so outdated there is a reason the fertility rate is low people, especially men are not trying to support a family if things go wrong.
As a gay man I wholeheartedly agree. I'm friends with a lot of beautiful women while some of my straight friends are struggling 😂 its truly an interesting dynamic.
This is going to piss a lot feminists off 👀
What the fuck does feminism have to do with this?
Truth is not politically correct.
not enough ever
None of it is even accurate. Attraction is highly subjective. And feminists have always known most men are sexist however, which is why feminists teach other women to avoid men.
Another twit with a warped idea of "feminism"
Is there a difference in traits that women are attracted to over their life, in particular, during a promiscuous phase, in contrast to seeking a long-term and likely child-bearing relationship?
Great, very enlightening, thank you 👍
I'm confused my the thumbnail both are equally attractive. Is it just me?
So good
This captivating video triggers a flood of painful memories from the end of my 6-year relationship just three months ago. The woman I loved with all my heart chose to walk away, leaving me grappling with an insurmountable sense of loss. Despite my relentless efforts to salvage what we had , I'm left feeling disillusioned and unable to imagine a future without her. Despite my attempts to move on, I'm drawn to express my deep-seated longing for her here .
The struggle to release someone dear to your heart is undeniably arduous. I empathize, having experienced a similar circumstance when my 8 year relationship concluded. Refusing to accept defeat, I pursued every conceivable avenue to reclaim his affection. Eventually, I sought the assistance of a spiritual counselor, whose wisdom and intervention played a pivotal role in reuniting us.
Where did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with her?
Suzanne Ann Walters is the name of an exceptional spiritual counselor renowned for her ability to reunite you with your former partner.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online.
@@DianaJovita SCAMMER post.
She just blew med mind!
Women encourage their friends instead of telling the truth! Not because they’ve empathetic but competitive! 🤯
How can she say that women find George Clooney is his 50s more attractive then him at 25? I think older women don’t understand that what they now find attractive at their age is men who are their age. Women in their 20s don’t find men in their 50s attractive, they prefer men in their age group. I am speaking as a woman in her 20s. Young women are disgusted by older men coming onto them. The average age gap is 2,5 years, not 15… When women say they prefer older men, we mean from a few years. Older women sometimes forget what it’s like being a younger women… Women prefer men in their age group, men prefer younger women, that is far more accurate.
Choose one Clooney(both give you the same affection): a 25 year old Clooney who can only afford to take you out once a month to a movie and fast food. Or a 50 year old Clooney that can take you to the finest restaurants and take you on luxurious holidays whenever you want
@@basrur I choose 25 years old Clooney. Honestly, men don’t understand how women in their 20s are not attracted to men in their 50s and it’s shocking. Probably why they are such easy targets to gold diggers…
I totally agree with you as a 20s woman. I can agree If a man in his 50s is objectively attractive but I just can’t be attracted to him due to age.
I prefer men in their 20s and 30s.
Men really don’t want to accept this and then get used by gold diggers
@@basrur
The 25 year old. Everything is better when you're young, even being broke. And if George could snap his fingers and go back to 25 he would even if it meant giving up all the money. Quit being delusional like women. Men's physical prime is 22-27. After that y'alls necks keep growing like Joe rogan. Any man over 40- no matter how attractive he is-if you look at a picture of him 10-15 years earlier he is going to look drastically better.
@@jz372 men like to delude themselves into think they are more attractive because they dont want to accept that any man being picked when they are older is being picked because of lifestyle and not attraction lol
Thx for interesting episode. Btw why is video quality even at 1080 so poor?😳
25/35 year old George Clooney was far more attractive than in his 50 and 60s.
His 40s were his prime
I was thinking that. These exemples seem a little outdated. Women never preferred 50+ men.
Agree. Generallu, women want men their own age.
Most 25 yo women are more attracted to 25 yo men than to 50 year old men which is why that is who they tend to marry. And evolutionarily 50 year old men weren’t a better bet because they weren’t likely to live long enough to see the children into adulthood.
A lot of this is just tired old stereotypes dressed up as science.
Didnt listen what she said? Its personal preference. I know at least 5 woman that think the opposite.
Gay men are absolutely the BEST. For all the reasons your guest explained and more. Gay men don’t judge you, they understand far more than others do because they’ve experienced a lot, they know how a man thinks and how a woman feels, there’s a deep and unspoken understanding that is more powerful than any bond.
How is gay guy supposed to understand how women feel or think?
Right, I’ve only heard some gay men call women “fish “
They aren’t all friendly towards women. Unfortunately, lots of women think gay men are on our side. Ask the old lesbians about the gays….you’ll get a more truthful answer
@@KarlHeinz_418 Because they're not looking at women as sexual objects, like the majority of men do, and see and treat them like HUMAN BEINGS. That's why women value gay men so much, because they're treated 100000x better.
@ I am a strait female, my gay friends and I are both attracted to men. Thus we can compare and contrast our successes and failures in relationships with men and learn from one another. My gay friends are emotionally intelligent and have amazing understanding of the depth of my emotions and I of theirs. I think a lot of societies and cultures prevent straight men from feeling a full array of emotions, or at least displaying these emotions. An unfortunate side effect of this is emotional stunting. I’m not so bold to say that every straight man is unable to communicate their feelings, that’s definitely not true; but that has been most of my experience with straight men. I’ve had a few exceptions to this observation.
I see A LOT of judgement from gay men. I'm not sure what you are on about. I've seen many far more shallow, and sexist than straight men. And nobody knows how women feel. Only we know that.
Most wmn and mn marry within their age range and within their class.
I like the Doctors voice in the Spanish Audio Track 😆
Just on the thumbnail I'm giving the guy on left an 8 and the one on right a 5.
In regards to the CEO vs McDonalds employee comparison, there's a difference between attractiveness and would you date them.
This
Id love to know HOW this is measured today lol. Like did they have a judgement panel of men deciding 9/10, 6/10 hotness scale and then ask for their salaries? Like, Please provide some literature or studies that says good looks are a better indicator of wealth than education? Also, not all looks are genetic. People are fit, care about their diet and sleep etc, so it's fair to say that these women are "taking care" of themselves better?
Any high school kid already knows that by experience, why would you need studies?
She didn't answer the question, which was "Is it true that men are less attractive to successful women", she flipped to answer as though the question was that men are not attracted to successful women.
but of course lol
I don't think most women agree at all on what men are attractive. Which is good! Every man has a shot. I literally know several women who think Timothee Chalamet is ugly. Not ugly for a celebrity, they said he looks like a lizard.
I'm one on them
I think as a man, how older, how more wisdom, how more stability but also open for new things. And of course the natural respect for the woman, that a woman knows that she can alway's count on the unconditional love of of a male warrior. That must be attractive a woman. 😀
Every man has (or even most men have) a shot?
You are severely naive! You are probably a child.
They don't agree, yet, data from dating apps shows a lot of consistency
@@custos3249you're right about that. The issue is that the data from data apps is that it's pretty much entirely looks based, which doesn't at all match women's behavior when meeting men in person.
If dating apps reflected people's actual expectations, you'd have a large chunk of the population that doesn't end up getting married, but that's not the case. The overwhelming majority of the straight population gets married.
I’ve had three gay guy friends and they are/were the best!
The hell is an Oestrogen Expert !?
The study of womanese
😂why do British people put an O in front of estrogen?
How does estrogen impact fertility of transwomen?
If you are attracted to a girl,
And she has a gay male best friend…
Be careful.
From my experience,
These women tend to be more promiscuous.
I think the reason is,
They gay friend DOES NOT JUDGE them.
I know
I know… exceptions exceptions
But I Married one, and , well….
You can see it as a way to find the truth since she’s going to tell the friend EVERYTHING.
who is more attractive, Jonathan Bailey or Timothy Chalamet?
The picture of the guy on the left is more attractive than Chalamet in the thumb nail. TC is 7/10 the guy on the left 8/10
Exact. Chalamet is not that beautifull at all. Plus he look so full of himself. Beark! It's repulsive to me.
To me, as a woman, TC all the way!! 9/10!!!
lol, these comments are so intriguing to me. Thanks for sharing!
My friend will point out women he finds attractive, to which I respond, “Hey man if you like her, great!”
But I’ll point out women I find attractive and he’ll say the same thing to me.
Agreed. Chalumet's a douche
Dr Sarah Hill is great, but I believe there is more to attraction than what is covered here. For example, commenters here said the guy on the left in the thumbnail was just as attractive as the guy on the right if not moreso. I respectfully think that Dr. Hill's view doesn't cover everyone, and doesn't cover many circumstances. There are different types of attractions for different situations and times in life. Sometimes a spade is just a spade, and symmetry wins. I also think it is old school to paint men to only be concerned with physical aspects, while women are solely concerned about status. Men can also look past simple physical attraction, especially after they mature, and both girls and women are definitely capable of thinking a man is "hot" or not. Still, a very interesting topic of discussion with great points made.
"he is too short" - you cant make this rubbish up from these so called experts. Women are fixated on the physical and my quote proves it
I work at a Gym and You should see the Evil Glances Some women in their 50 ies give the women that are Like 23 to 25 and in their Prime.
Something Like that doesnt exist among Men they are only jelous about Status.
Your second paragraph is NOT correct. I'm 57. In the gym I AM jealous of the men with the elite bodies. But I don't glare at them. What point would that serve?
What point does a woman glaring at another women serve? These women are without brains.
Your first paragraph is right on.
25 is not womens prime. They are only girls at that age.
@@jessicahitchens6926 Prime is 19 or 20. After that starts diminishing every year.
I know exactly what you're talking about but you're misunderstanding the evil glances.
It's because the gals in their 50's are trying to get in and out before heading to the office and they're tired of waiting for the machine while the 20-something is sending "selfies" to her imaginary fan club!
The vanity of baby girls always thinking it’s because they’re jealous, just like the guy who looks in the younger girls direction and that means he checking her out.
That one about social mobility is a rough one
Never really used my good looks as i hate how men treated me like a meat pile. I made a great career from having a buisness and most people don't even know how i look like cause its online
No one cares 😅
@fernandomeneses3918 I'm sorry no one cares about you little one..maybe go to the gym or something. Unfortunately nothing to do about your tiny 🍤
Phalease. How virtuous of you to never use the natural tools you were given that almost everyone uses.
A lot of women who complain about being treated like a piece of meat or being objectified objectify themselves and use their sexuality to get attention so it’s often a double standard.
Fascinating insights on attraction and competition! Understanding these dynamics has helped me build more authentic relationships, thanks for sharing 🤝 #Habit10x
So she’s basically saying that women over 50 have zero chance of finding love and romance. Thanks for that 😮
Agreed! This is so depressing for women in their late 40s and beyond
Her whole theory is based on biology as if it’s the only driving force.
Women over 50 can find love and I’ve known quite a few who have. It’s just harder because there are fewer men to choose from and women over 50 tend to be more selective than younger women.
Better to know the truth than have unrealistic expectations.
Nope, there's always a hierarchy, everybody knows what's best for their live at one point, I think the people(not men) who always have access to a lot of options would choose one to maximize their potential for many reasons, in this case women ok their 50's would preferí to go with the man with the most resources as posible, might be average salary, 100k, caries by person and perks, men would do the same, nobody sane wants more pain or less happiness in their lives
You can’t find love with men over 60?
I’m so glad I am 60 and married
So women Like Older Guys and Guys Like women between 23 and 30 thats it. No Rocket Science.
Its Biology.
Women like younger boys, like 38 yo women wil like 28 male
I don’t like older guys. I prefer men my age or slightly younger.
@@queenchiomaofficialyes but this is talking about on average
@@queenchiomaofficialthat's the average numbers, is always the exception to the rule , the world does not turning around you 😂
Most wmn and mn marry within their age range and within their class.
Youth, smile, face , figure … the hierarchy for me…
Youth overwhelmingly
In my experience men tend to value personality traits way more above attractiveness when it comes to long term relationships. Forget fillers, and invest in becoming a person that's calm and well regulated. Men are much more likely to want to be around you then, and for the right reasons.
I heard on one of these that shoulder to ear ratio has an impact on trust. At 4:00, her shoulder to ear ratio isn't good. Surely it wasn't her who was the guest that time, but it could have been.
If that guy in the thumbnail (beside TimChal) is a 5, then I'm definitely a 1. He's equally as attractive as TimChal, except the defined jawline.
Guy on the left is definitely attractive
Left guy looks really good. TC more striking, like some charming rodent.
Hello: A few months ago I was having lunch at a cafe. There were two people sitting at the next table. One person was a gay man and the woman was straight. It occurred to me that the woman liked being with him because they could talking about things like British period dramas and she knew that he wasn't going to gossip about her behind her back. Have a lovely day.
Straight men can do those things also.
The take away I'm getting from this is that we should teach our daughters to be beautiful, not smart. Thanks experts. So instead of paying for college, we'll just save up for her eventual plastic surgery. We always assumed it was social media that was making our daughters hate themselves and want to commit suicide - good to know it's just "part of evolutionary science"
Teach your daughters to capitalize on their most valuable resource (youth and fertility) while they are young and fertile. A good education in a marketable field doesn't hurt, but a famous female comedian once said "No man ever reached up a woman's skirt looking for a diploma".
@@anisenkrill6179 So if you had a daughter, you'd see her most valuable asset as her youth and her vagina? You'll tell her to capitalize on that first? Like she's not a human being. JFC no wonder women don't want ANYTHING to do with men these days
The truth will set you free, but first it will piss you off.
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Dr Sarah Hill is great!
I have found in my psychology profession is that successfully women will choose a man who is more often less successfully. I do not know the exact reason why and this seems to be the case and it is just an assumption but a common theme I see is that these women seem to like submissive men similar to a puppy that do not challenge them.
One other comment I have, I see so many women who choose men based upon looks, get married and have kids. Then they realize that this person is a not a provider. I would say it seems some US ladies have a broken modulation as the doctor has mentioned. I would say that Dr Sarah Hill is saying what most people want in society but the divorce rate says otherwise.
I wanted to share another take on this and there was nothing wrong with what she said.
Not me ❤😂😂 I only go for cute baby faces. But seriously its just too deep and personal to predict.
Yeah not into old dudes
I can count on one hand how many truly attractive women I've seen in the U.S. in the past 10 years.
8 out of the 10 most attractive women I've ever seen were in Russia.
I've only visited Russia for a grand total of 50 days.
Mate competition for women is taken so stinking seriously... that even though I'm in a relationship (for 20 years at this point), and maybe a 5 on the physical scale... my girlfriend refused to go out on girls' nights with me as she said it was because "they would go up to you, not me". The fact I would immediately turn them down wasn't even a factor for her. Women are freaking nuts sometimes lol.
Is it that one thing where women what what others have, kind of deal?
I actually think that sometimes the ability to say no makes a woman more, not less, attractive!
At 8:57..Ani Defranco said it best. " You never want to be the prettiest women in the room"
If you are here to find out why women find Timothee Chalamet attractive, you are out of luck.
They do?😮
No we don't
Didn’t really get an answer to the title question though 🤔
I must be one odd cookie of a guy then. I prefer smaller breasts/hips/ass over bigger and dont think an hourglass body is the perfect bodytype. Not that it's ugly ofcourse. But not top tier for me personally.
I think we have a name for that
@@aNicerPlaceoh, shut it. There are so many women with figures he's describing. Not everyone is a copy of Kim K.
@@aNicerPlace Lol, Yea you're probably the type of guy who calls girls boys if they're not shaped enough to your standards.
Don't ever confuse 'the statistical median/average' with 'this is the only thing that matters and if you don't fit in you're odd'. People have preferences, your preferences is just less frequent and not weird.
ewww. your preferences are nuts, but honestly I am so glad that you guys exist. Thats why I can get what I want.
If you actually took these pop psychologists seriously, you'd think human development just stopped dead 12000 years ago.
If it comes to sex we haven't changed. It's just biology.
They really don’t. Each person actually does have a physical attractiveness ideal. Women hold men up to physical standards. Look at how many young teens put up posters of good looking young men. Sor The Beatles and all those young women screaming their heads off, from being overwhelmed by how attractive they found them. Because there aren’t that many cis men that are actually physically attractive, for unknown reasons, society considers “reactive attractiveness” as the standard of women being attracted to men. That’s why women who are attracted to guys because of their wallet, or because he shows some respect, or offers a nice dinner date… There are
@@dfinite1111 If you think the women were screaming for Beatles because they were super attractive and not because they were famous you are mistaken.
It didn't; it's just incredibly slow. We haven't changed much since those times.
Human biology hasn't changed in 12000 years. That's what this is.
She’s quite the up-speaker
my ex gf would be considered a 10 by most peoples standards. 5'9" slim/thick in the right places. beautiful face. wore heels all the time and just overall a very sexy woman. But I dumped her six months ago, because I don't care how beautiful you are, you will be a ZERO in my book if you have a bad attitude and/or narcissistic tendencies. life has been better without her. of course she tried so hard to get me back when I left, where were those actions when I was there?? no where to be found... so where am I now.....NOWHERE TO BE FOUND haha her loss.
geez, you sound hurt.
@ i was hurt when it happened. My new girl is better in every way so Im very happy now.
You have anymore goofy statements make?
(I rarely leave comments, particularly unfavorable ones, but) this info is not only generic & archaic, but as a psychotherapist that has worked with a few thousand clients, I have discovered the near exact opposite with so many of these statements. So broad & cliche. Particularly regarding male attraction.
The picture used is funny because Timothée Chalamet is mainly seen as attractive because he's famous.
mainly because he's famous? I disagree
He’s attractive because of his genetics lol. Stop lying to yourself.
Yeah, I don't care what you "think", there are a ton of guys who look just like him who aren't famous and tadah, suddenly no one pays attention. He's slightly above average at best. You dumb slag@smashmusique
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I'm a straight man and I'm always willing to tell women that something makes them look fat or doesn't work for them.
Maybe they don't value your opinion.
@dunquinho9706 Then it would be weird that they keep asking. Probably has something to do with girl math. Seriously though, if they didn't want an honest opinion they wouldn't ask me.
You’re attracted to people who look like yourself. The rating system is essentially b.s. that’s mainly designed to get you to buy something. I had generally terrible luck finding women until I dated women who have facial features similar to mine. An entire website was based on this called Find your face mate or something similar. This element of assumed familiarity brings about a sense of safeness between people, a common link. Figure out what your ‘other half’ would look like and seek them out. It’s an element of human nature that isn’t going away anytime soon, at its best it leads to amazing relationships even if the couple never realizes the reason why. At its worst it’s an element of human nature that drives things like racism and prejudice.
Say whatever you like about this comment, it’s true because I’ve lived it. Good luck out there!
Sorry not sorry I still do not understand the Thimothee Chalamet supposed attractiveness I do NOT find him attractive at all.
I think he's sooooo hot. But I hate the look of stereotypically masculine men, so there's that.
Rodent men are fashionable in Hollywood...for the moment.
And seriously, Ryan Gosling looks like a goober.
Women say they like a man that can make them laugh. After they see his bank account.
I do
She basically says the exact thing the red-pill sphere (does that still exist?) has said for a while now.
I transcended the socio-economic status I was born into. Yay me. Cause I’m a 6 maybe… so it’s been my education and personality 🤓
Nice. But also have you considered that how you see and think about yourself might not completely match up with how other people see you? You see yourself as a 6 but perhaps the consensus among people that you interact with is that you’re a 9?
must be nice to have the luxury of living in delusion
Oh my gosh, thank you for the fax ladder for the folks in the back please. Beauty equals happiness. Tighten it up girls. No whining. PS beauty is fun as hell. Go get it.
I disagree with her that men put more importance on looks. I think women will lie in surveys for some reason, they don't want to appear superficial maybe?
I think women put as much importance on looks if not more.
Just take dating apps, it's known that a woman will have 100x more messages than most men. Women have to filter more and the standards becomes higher and higher
She is spot on. 💯
People are much more complicated. And she always cherry picks like in 'Man find equally attractive Burger King worker and CEO id the woman is very pretty'... For a short flings/using her for sex - sure. In most cases a man who is accompishe himself would like to have a woman with ambitions, driver, strong will, intelligence, social skills etc. All the small things that makes her the CEO. What a reductive and silly approach talking like that about man. This is absolute BS.
As an otherwise (read on for explanation) attractive woman, I have given up on men entirely, sadly. All the ones I dated watched porn and were very judgemental about my body (even prior to a surgery I had to have), about women's bodies in general. It was horrid really. Now I'm out of a relationship with an abusive porn addict (who, even at 60 now, clearly prefers what's on the screen, and I'm sure you can image). I have a physical deformity (hidden to the public eye), and I just don't feel that I have ANY value in the "sexual marketplace" with things as they are, the increasing prevalence of porn..men being more "visual", having to fight off lust.. I give up! Staying single so I can have some peace and not be judged on my "specs" or lack thereof..
I would never date a man who uses porn. Instantly he is hideous to me. I'm really sorry you dealt with that. We have high value. They don't. Don't think of it as you not having value in the 'market'. That's not accurate. It is the rest of them who are low value. They have absolutely nothing to offer anyone.
Expert from the UA-cam academy lol