Canelo Alvarez Advice To Son On Not Hiding Emotions
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- Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
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Man I love this. I grew up in the 80’s when it wasn’t ok to cry. It was beat into me. I learned later on that it was ok & it doesn’t make me less of a man. & if someone believes that it does, they will get beat up by the man that cried. Doesn’t sound good does it? 😂😂 I love Canelo he’s the man. Whenever I work with Mexicans they call me Canelo because I look like him 😂 respect to him & this channel 🫡🤝
I was raised believing that a man shouldn't cry and when my brothers were killed it almost drove me crazy holding that pain in and my uncle grabbed me one day when I was getting upset with ppl trying to express condolences to me. And he dapped me up and asked me how I was doing, I told him I was good and just tired of ppl talking to me about this. He hugged me and said, "Your older brother just died in your arms, your lil brother died in someone else's arm beside you and you were hit few times...YOU'RE NOT OK...and that's OK. You are hurting. That doesn't make you less of a man. God cried when Lazarus was dead and he knew he could AND WOULD bring him back to life. He did that to teach you and me, when you're hurting. It's ok to let the pain go. Let it hurt, nephew. And let it out.". He, my doctor, and nurses formed around me and hugged me. I broke down. Man, pain flowed from me in a way I can't describe. But when I got it out, the pressure built inside me was lowered to a point to where I didn't fear conversing with ppl bcz I didn't feel like I was going to explode on someone without reason when they were just trying to care for me in a dark moment of life. When I needed that love and care. I wasn't afraid of blowing up around my sons bcz I was failing at hiding how hurt I was. Til this day, when I'm hurting I let it out. We weren't created to hold on to negative and toxic ish like hatred, anger, bitterness, pain, etc. It legitimately makes us sick and it can mess up our entire lives and other aspects of it. I won't lie, I still struggle with deprogramming what I have learned but when I notice it I try to attend to it in the right way. My daughter, crazy enough, helped me last time. And she's a toddler. I was hurting, my pops was dying. My princess asked me how I was doing, and I told her I was a lil sad but I was ok. I thought I was trying to convince her I was ok and didn't know that I was trying to convince myself until she kept trying to interrupt me and she finally just got out her lil chair and came over to me and said "Daddy, stop!" And she put her hand in the center of my chest and it was like she was looking in my heart and seeing everything. And man, it was an almost an instant breaking when she said, "You're hurting.", here I am a grown man in my mid 20s. Clutching my baby as I broke down as she hugged me back and told me to let it out. Three words she said still stick out to me whenever something in life is really messing me up. "Kings cry too". I'm not the most religious man but I know the Bible says that times will come where wisdom will ce from our babies. And hearing Canelo say this, a great an iconic man and fighter and champion and king. It made me remember my uncle and my princess.
Dam. Thas some prophet type thing to say. 1st man I’ve ever heard say that . Thas wasup