Translation: I want a boring woman in my house being my slave while I go out and cheat with the street women and party girls. Ladies, just because a man wants a relationship with a "homebody" doesn't mean HE will be home with you.
Only a fellow homebody can be w us and not be bored… I literally go out 5-8 times a year to any type of party event. Thats not even once a month… a party person would be bored w me
@@AmberColeman-gq1wn yess!! My ex was exactly like this and I know few mor men like this...💯 they wanna do you dirty just for the sake of it and want you to take it and keep your mouth shut!! Never again 🔥😟🔥
@@catlover2223 thank you, sis! At this point, let them sink or swim, just as they leave us to do. I'll save my words, sympathy, and energy for women, children, animals, and the environment.
I support all these comments, just please keep in mind that BW are the 3rd poorest demographic in America and we the men view your opinions through that lens.
Being a homebody doesn't equate to we're doormats... He gonna find out the hard way. You can't run game and play with us. A lot of us are high maintenance in ways that require u to come correct, we don't like our peace disturbed.
I used to try hard not to be high maintenance but the more I've learned to enjoy my space away from men, the more I respect the whole concept of being high maintenance in the RIGHT ways.
Heavy on the high maintenance and disturbing our peace. There ain’t nothing outside so that’s why we stay in. I don’t even want them breathing the air in my house.
@@myas9207 Everything about this man's energy is a red flag to a woman that values her peace. That's why he's looking for us because he can't find us. Hint: The women that literally fled when you stuck a camera in their face to ask them dumb questions, those were the homebodies.
Yes! I’m married to another homebody/introvert. I’m reading and guess who’s beside me watching wrestling? My boo 😂😂😂 with our homebody kids.. who are getting to teenage years and getting the outside itch and we are STRUGGLING 😂😂😂. Take you where? We went to the mall three days ago! Get somebody else to do it
Yup. I have a busy homebody husband; always building a table, fixing a roof, staining some wood for a project. He's not out running the streets with a homebody wife he doesn't have to worry about. He's right here with me even if he's in the garage fixing something.
@@farmhouseonthemountainand yours sounds like he might be actually useful. He knows how to do repairs unlike these other men who want to trade all household duties for the occasional oil changes and random lawn mowing.
@@farmhouseonthemountainSounds like my old neighbor and his wife. That man had a full time job, but was ALWAYS working on something. The only time I saw him sitting was in his golf cart, with his wife, riding around the neighborhood. And on some occasions sitting the garage. But he couldn’t sit for long. And the wife was either in the house or sitting in then garage. I told them all the time how peaceful and rich they were. It made me so freaking happy to see them and their dynamic!
This man is DRESSED for outside... multiple gaudy chains, hoop earrings, a fitted cap, and chest out. Nobody believes he's looking to be inside himself.
If a man walked up to me and said he's looking for a wholesome woman, I would ask him to leave me alone too, because he's clearly up to no good. He's being weird.
Let me see if I got this right. He wants to find someone peaceful and quiet, so he can blast them with noise and nonsense and mess up their whole life 🤦🏾♀️
I'm a homebody/introvert. I have to get myself in the right headspace just to go out and get groceries. The last thing I want is someone coming up to me to interview me, blast me online and try to use me as an example of whatever narrative they're trying to spin. We're not bothering anyone, leave us be please.
Lady yes. I just bought another Kindle after mine died and the world will not be seeing much of me for the rest of the GD year. I have catching up to do!
I was confused by the question, how does he want a "homebody" but complaining about not being able to find one and asking where they hiding? Didn't he answer his own question?
It’s like he thinks introverts are easy to “pick up.” No. If they were easy they wouldn’t be introverts. I doubt he wants to take the time to actually get to know an introvert by sharing interests with her. Men like this don’t like putting in work
Yes. When I would go to work by train I would ride in the first car because it was absolutely quiet and it was mandatory. The conductor saw how quiet I was and put me on. He always looked out for me. I used to love taking the train so much.
As an introvert and homebody, I only date men with a similar temperament. The assumption that a woman who is a homebody would allow a man to come home to her after doing whatever in the streets is absolutely false because I could never..
That’s how some of them become permanent homebodies (iykyk). Play if they want to! Introverts DO NOT enjoy drama and are fierce about protecting their peace.
Im crying he acts like good women are just gonna flock to him if he just shows up. 😂😂 those women have a lot to offer and have to be highly selective as a result. He simply doesn’t qualify.
Right! Women have been forced to socialize w/these people for too long, and they developed an inflated sense of self because of it. Maybe because a woman's presence brings peace, calmness, and joy, they assume their presence does the same (for, like 97% it's a no)? But then, types like that will normally say stuff like "you NeEd SoMe ExCiTeMeNt In YoUr LiFe!!!!" And then disrupt a woman's peace in every way, then act like we should thank them. Like our lives are empty and worthless if we aren't literally stressing and fussing behind one of _them._ Yuck.
Yea bc he’s been ran thru and is about to hit that wall now he wants a good woman 😂😂 isn’t that what men say? He’s tired of the insta baddies playing games, taking his money, and now he wants a quiet woman who he doesn’t have to worry about cheating, embarrassing him, making him eat out everyday, he wants some home cooked food. Vett him well ladies bc he may just be looking for love and shelter to regain strength. Once he gets bored he may run back to the streets
If he thinks being an introvert makes us submissive, he’s got a rude awakening coming. 😂 I’m like a cat. I stay within my own territory, perfer routine to spontaneity. I don’t like strangers or children (except my nephew). I’m opinionated, free thinking, strong willed, independent, and slightly aloof. I get the feeling that’s not what he’s after 😂
Exactly! No one is going to ask him what he's bringing to the table harder or more than a woman who doesn't actually need him in her space, nor actually wants him there without good reason. Like...?
Not necessarily. Some folks mix up anxiety with introvertism [it's NOT the same thing]. I, as an introvert, really like extroverts. If you both respect boundaries, have life outside of that relationship bubble [for example I'd never understand not "allowing" your significant other to meet other people, especially god forbid opposite-sex representation], then it can turn into great balance. But it needs 2 people to work on it, without aggressive push out of my comfort zone.
@@bertha8893too late. I’m both. Hubby and I do go out and we also love to stay home. We just have fun together no matter our environment, if we ain’t feeling something, we leave and we know our home is awaiting us. We move how we want. I love it here. 😁💯
They also become boring to us. I don't usually seek out companionship because I'm normally busy, but for the one's that try to catch my attention, I'm normally bored after the first few minutes. I'll politely engage in conversation, but they usually have nothing of substance or depth to say, and are discomforted by any questions that prod for anything deeper. It's really quite whack and a lot of them are lame.
I am a homebody. My ex broke up with me because I never allowed him into my home, so he assumed I was cheating/hiding something. 😂 In reality, I just need my space. 🧘♀️ Men get so butthurt when I refuse to let them in.
Ahhhhh😂😂😂😂 I cackled at the fact that you never let YOUR boyfriend in YOUR house… sis, I nominate you to Homebody chancellor for 2024. You are on a diff level😂😂😂😂😂😂 We need to start a homebody women’s forum I’m tired of sharing talking space w people who desire things of the world
I just had my outdoor day yesterday. went to Lowe's, Hobby Lobby, and Pet Smart. Made the home comfier for myself and the pets. I'm in the house for the next few weeks now.
Has he never heard about the quiet ones?👀 Just because they’re not loud about their antics doesn’t mean they don’t like freak stuff too! In fact, I think the bookish girlies would have him shocked.😂
Lol, the lady in the leopard headscarf is on point. He needs an outgoing woman, I was getting anxiety just watching him and his cameras rolling up on women in public 😅
Why would a wholesome woman want a camera and microphone shoved in her face???? We stay in the house and mind the business that pays us!! Plus he actually came across the woman he claims he wants. They wanted their privacy respected.
Exactly! Here I was thinking he was just going to go out and approach them organically. Instead he brought his ice, his camera crew, and that hype energy expecting the ‘wholesome’ women to be okay with being sought for content. Really shows he only wants that ‘type’ of woman for personal gains and has no intention of being genuine or considerate.
@@thinkinginn7443 you said it!!!!💯🎯👏🏻 I hope more and more women and girls wake up and smell the coffee, so to speak, and take a stance in their /our dealings with men! Too many, waay too many below bare minimum low effort malicious men!!!! ( thanks Elle for coining this super accurate term!)
This dude thinks homebody = women with low standards who I don't have to spend money on to date and/or she has low self-esteem and will be "grateful" to be with a guy like me.
Or Autustic like me(I get overwhelmed with environmental components)🤣😂it just happens that I’m a homebody as well. It’s nice being inside.❤I’m not anyone’s “golden retriever “ waiting for you for your convenience.😂
If only that but they also want to sleep around while momma is used as house appliance for cooking, cleaning, laundry, emotional support and placeholder in bed when he can't find anybody outside home.
If anyone assumes homeboy=low maintenance then they’re in for a shock! My good food, beauty products and amenities ALL cost money. I’m a homebody but I bet you my skin is the softest you ever felt(which you’ll never find out because you don’t get to put your hands all over me). I’m actually a homebody BECAUSE I’m high maintenance and picky. Most places don’t even pass my vibe check.
As a homebody, I can say the guy in the bonnet is correct. I am at HOME. I don’t even do stores since Covid, I don’t do curbside pickup. Everything is delivered to my home. I also work from home. I have valet trash pickup at my door. I only go out for doctor appointments & occasional family/friend events. And I am home by dark. The red haired girl is correct, they get bored with homebodies. I had one bf tell me he was bored because he was used to clubbing, running the streets & fighting with his ex. I told him it was not my job to entertain him. I truly don’t want to be bothered most days. 😂
I'm an introvert and glad to finally be of the age where men like him don't bother me in public anymore. Things will get better after age 35. Trust me.
I'm a homebody but, I still spend a lot of money. I have everything delivered. And, I love shopping online for my clothes and shoes addiction. Homebodies are not cheaper. If he thinks that, he's wrong.😅
I almost broke my neck racing to this comment section. I'm a homebody, but I am FAR from a low maintenence woman. My husband likens me to a Sim that needs all her bars in the green, and not only pampers me accordingly, but enjoys being by my side in comfort and in PEACE. HE'S A HOMEBODY, TOO! He comes home directly from work and we're either watching tv, playing games, model building or going on vacations where... AGAIN... we are INSIDE enjoying the hotel room. Sir. SIR! No! Leave us alone! We have allergies! We don't want you to rock up on us the few times we do come out, reeking of cologne and/or weed. You're not about this life.
I'm screaming... He went out looking... LORDT. Hahahahahahaaaaaa.... I seen it all. A extrovert on the hunt for introverts... If you can't sit still in a library for 8 hours without a camera, in silence without bothering a single soul, entertain yourself without an outside source your application for a Homebody is denied. Just the Application.
This part! Its something i had to shape up on in college because i had a dorm and wanted to make friends. I liked movie night dates but refused to entertain getting "chilled" on....i just like movie nights 😅
The logic for this man really is- I want a quiet woman who doesn’t wanna be bothered so imma go out to these places they like and bother them and make them talk to me
Who gone tell buddy that a lot of us homebodies are Neurodivergent/disabled and are still standing on Covid business because we can't afford to get sick?! Outside is too dangerous for us rn, so we in the house! ✌🏾✌🏾
My gf is a homebody. She doesn't like people and has a very small circle of friends. She said if she didn't have to work she'd be a human burrito with the blankets watching Netflix 😂
I’m a homebody and introvert and I like my peace. I enjoy my own company and my children. I instacart my groceries and pick up target orders because I don’t want to deal with all the foolishness going on
Praise and appreciation to all the ladies who broke it down in these responses. I’m trying not to become an outright misandrist, but then I witness new displays of pure bleeping assholery that makes me glad I simply don’t date. It’s so easy to give the automatic no thank you when you are well aware of all the ways headaches in man form can present
You are a homebody, and when you don't want to go out , he will go out without you or bring the outside into your home. It's all a hell no for me. Leave me at home in my comfort and peace
My father is like this, 'why are you leaving the house all the time' mom's response 'I'm going to see my friends, that have been here over the years' dad's response 'I work so hard to pay for this house, you just want to wonder the streets, stay here next to me. Your friends are more important than me.' Mom's response ' I've been home the entire time you don't know I'm here, the second I'm leaving the house you notice my existence.'
Translation: This guy wants a girl that will be so focused on him and his needs that she gives up on any human desires or needs she may have to the point where she doesn't need to have contact with the outside world. He's just one step away from confessing that if he could, he would have a girl chained up to the house and he'd make her chain long enough that she could do things for him around the house. You know, like a prisoner that has no right to demand anything for themself while he gets to live life to the fullest.
All of the homebody women are hiding from him, but he lacks the self awareness to realize it. 😬 The extroverted women realize he's unwanted and act accordingly.🥴
Translation: I want a boring woman in my house being my slave while I go out and cheat with the street women and party girls.
Ladies, just because a man wants a relationship with a "homebody" doesn't mean HE will be home with you.
Facts 💯
Facts! 😂
Only a fellow homebody can be w us and not be bored… I literally go out 5-8 times a year to any type of party event. Thats not even once a month… a party person would be bored w me
I came to say this exact thing lol. He wants an at home bangmaid so he can go out looking for the "more exciting" on the side partners.
He’ll be out , then blame you for his shenanigans because “you don’t ever like to do anything “.
He wants a woman to be his peace while he's her nightmare.
Well said 👏🏻
Girlllllll speak truth and nothing but the truth
That Part💯
They all do. And if she doesn’t give him peace by not acknowledging his abuse- then she’s now a “bad woman”.
@@AmberColeman-gq1wn yess!! My ex was exactly like this and I know few mor men like this...💯 they wanna do you dirty just for the sake of it and want you to take it and keep your mouth shut!! Never again 🔥😟🔥
They think "homebody" means "easier to control"
Who’s going to tell him homebody usually means “over everyone else’s sh*t and avoiding drama”?
@@catlover2223 Nobody, lol, he'll figure it out and if not, just remain foolish. No need to expose ourselves and our precious energy to such a viper
Yep, that's exactly what it is
@@naediggs4816 You make an excellent point!
@@catlover2223 thank you, sis! At this point, let them sink or swim, just as they leave us to do. I'll save my words, sympathy, and energy for women, children, animals, and the environment.
He asked if we homebodies were hiding somewhere. Yes, we are in the house and we’ll stay there if these are the kind of men out there.
Exactly. I don’t understand why he’s confused
I can't stand these men they are so invasive. Go after the women like you, who want to be seen and bothered. What they coming for us for ugh
Right? Dumbest question I've heard in a long time.
they are and we will stay home.🤡🤛🏾👹🤛🏾
Just said this! We at home!😂
As a certified homebody I kindly reject the offer
Same here
He's gay
Same!!!!!!!!!
I third that statement
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Homebody=He has no money to take you out on dates, vacations, shopping, etc. He wants a woman who is content with living in poverty. No thanks!
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Netflix-chill-date kind of guy.
Exactly!
I support all these comments, just please keep in mind that BW are the 3rd poorest demographic in America and we the men view your opinions through that lens.
I hear low standards. It’s giving I offer the bare minimum and not necessarily materialistic.
He wants a homebody so he doesn’t have to pay for dates. Trust me.
Oh I believe it
Little does he know us homebodies like Doordash, Uber Eats, Grubhub, etc 🤣🤣🤣
I order sushi from home... my at home taste is expensive
And free In home labor
And I'm a homebody who likes to spend tf out of other people's money, so it ain't gonna work!! 🥴
Why would a "homebody" want to be in a relationship? So that you can interupt their spaces and dirty their kitchen counters?
This!! I am the type to be at home and find a corner away from the people in the house. lol- I like being left tf alone
FR! Just the thought of someone filling my pristine sink with dirty dishes bcs they don't know how to rinse a plate after use? AAAAGGGHHHHH 😂😂😂
And mess up the linens and eating up all the food!
Peeing on the toilet Seat and encroaching on my food and life 🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️🛑🚧
Messing up my carefully placed coffee table decor with their outside food 😤
Being a homebody doesn't equate to we're doormats... He gonna find out the hard way. You can't run game and play with us. A lot of us are high maintenance in ways that require u to come correct, we don't like our peace disturbed.
And don’t mind being alone… so try us 😂
@@kirawong4629 Facts 💯
And that scares them the most.
The people outside don't meet my standards. That's why I am a homebody. 😂
I used to try hard not to be high maintenance but the more I've learned to enjoy my space away from men, the more I respect the whole concept of being high maintenance in the RIGHT ways.
Heavy on the high maintenance and disturbing our peace. There ain’t nothing outside so that’s why we stay in. I don’t even want them breathing the air in my house.
You don't have to warn homebodies about men like this. Men like this is why we stay home.
GIRL!
The up and coming homebodies are in danger though.
@@myas9207 Everything about this man's energy is a red flag to a woman that values her peace. That's why he's looking for us because he can't find us. Hint: The women that literally fled when you stuck a camera in their face to ask them dumb questions, those were the homebodies.
That Part
THIS❤
Introverted does not automatically mean that someone is wholesome
Exactly. A ton of serial killers and murderers are introverts. 😂
or wants to be at home Slaving for a man
@@nickj12 I was just about to say this about psychopaths 😂😂
😂😂 Okay dark.... I was finna comment that I'm petty and quiet as hell. But this section is a bit dark so I'll just agree and pass.
@@randomblackwoman nah, please lighten up the comments!! I was not expecting all the dark responses too 😮💨
Bro most of us homebodies are taken by other homebodies lol. You couldn't handle the sofa Olympics
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yes! I’m married to another homebody/introvert. I’m reading and guess who’s beside me watching wrestling? My boo 😂😂😂 with our homebody kids.. who are getting to teenage years and getting the outside itch and we are STRUGGLING 😂😂😂. Take you where? We went to the mall three days ago! Get somebody else to do it
Yup. I have a busy homebody husband; always building a table, fixing a roof, staining some wood for a project. He's not out running the streets with a homebody wife he doesn't have to worry about. He's right here with me even if he's in the garage fixing something.
@@farmhouseonthemountainand yours sounds like he might be actually useful. He knows how to do repairs unlike these other men who want to trade all household duties for the occasional oil changes and random lawn mowing.
@@farmhouseonthemountainSounds like my old neighbor and his wife. That man had a full time job, but was ALWAYS working on something. The only time I saw him sitting was in his golf cart, with his wife, riding around the neighborhood. And on some occasions sitting the garage. But he couldn’t sit for long.
And the wife was either in the house or sitting in then garage.
I told them all the time how peaceful and rich they were. It made me so freaking happy to see them and their dynamic!
This man is DRESSED for outside... multiple gaudy chains, hoop earrings, a fitted cap, and chest out. Nobody believes he's looking to be inside himself.
I thought I was the only one who noticed. I definitely thought he was gay. I was a little confused.
They want to know she’s a homebody so he always know where she’s at while he’s out here cosplaying as a single man, yeah miss me with that 😅
Right 😂
If a man walked up to me and said he's looking for a wholesome woman, I would ask him to leave me alone too, because he's clearly up to no good. He's being weird.
Right?! who does that?😂
"Excuse me, I'm looking for a wholesome woman."
Dude... no....😅
When she said, “I’m on the clock,” I immediately thought, this will be my response where ever I go 🤣.
😂😆😆 Lol funniest comment.
'Looking' means he doesn't know where to find them. As his previously experiences were unwholesome. And that is the first issue.
I'm a homebody, mortgage is high....so I'm enjoying the amenities 😂
Iktr ❤
😂😂👏👏
Get your moneys worth!
No but this
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I’m a proud homebody. Please leave me alone.
And just because he was turned down looking around like a hound, they aren't wholesome??!😑k.
The whole Delegation agrees on this 💯🤡🤛🏾
@@ms.evegene him being turned down is what made the women wholesome to me. Wholesome women don’t talk to some random dude.
Let me see if I got this right. He wants to find someone peaceful and quiet, so he can blast them with noise and nonsense and mess up their whole life 🤦🏾♀️
😂His energy is SO disruptive which is precisely what we DON’T want. You know he has nothing but inane chatter and fidgeting to provide.
Yes!! He wants to destroy her peace.
@@LoveK1😂LOL
Indubitably
He walking around all loud and sh*t. I want peace when I'm shopping!😂
I'm a homebody/introvert. I have to get myself in the right headspace just to go out and get groceries. The last thing I want is someone coming up to me to interview me, blast me online and try to use me as an example of whatever narrative they're trying to spin. We're not bothering anyone, leave us be please.
Well said. I struggle to just leave the house as well and I totally get it.
SAMEEEEE! Grocery delivery has me NEVER leaving home and I couldn’t be happier! ❤
I'm with y'all, introverted homebody. I'm partnered up now but always been a homebody even when I was single
@@LosAngelesLauraI hate to be a boo but gotta thank COVID for the blessing of grocery delivery. I live on Instacart!
I love the idea of stepping out the front door but my bed won’t let me go lol
"Where you all hiding?"
I am at home. Rewatching the same show for the past few months and reading. Do not disturb
Lady yes. I just bought another Kindle after mine died and the world will not be seeing much of me for the rest of the GD year. I have catching up to do!
I was confused by the question, how does he want a "homebody" but complaining about not being able to find one and asking where they hiding? Didn't he answer his own question?
Lord I'm about to rewatch Grey's anatomy from season one for the 50th time! McDreamy McSteamy McDelicious McAllofit I'm McGood!
OMG ...I feel so seen here. ☺ #tribe
Ye excuse me as l rewatch breaking bad for the seventh time lmao
Wholesome women, dont talk to creepy guys,when they are just minding their own business trying to shop.
Most women don’t talk to strange men. I mean it’s kind of taught to us early not to trust men we don’t know
Right! A whole creep walking up on women In Target with a camera 🤡🤛🏾
💯🎯
I’m wondering what the heck he means “wholesome woman” . Super creepy stalking women in a store
Wholesome single inside women don't want to talk to daytime party energy strangers. That's the drunk outside late night woman's game.
It’s like he thinks introverts are easy to “pick up.” No. If they were easy they wouldn’t be introverts. I doubt he wants to take the time to actually get to know an introvert by sharing interests with her. Men like this don’t like putting in work
As an introvert/homebody, I love to go to places where talking is not allowed (library, operas, museums, Symphonies, etc). Then I go back home.
😅 Wow. That's so true.😂
I went to a museum and had so much fun. I've had to question my whole entire identify. Who tf am I?
Yes! It’s not a vacation for me if there isn’t at least 1 museum.
Yes. When I would go to work by train I would ride in the first car because it was absolutely quiet and it was mandatory. The conductor saw how quiet I was and put me on. He always looked out for me. I used to love taking the train so much.
As an introvert and homebody, I only date men with a similar temperament. The assumption that a woman who is a homebody would allow a man to come home to her after doing whatever in the streets is absolutely false because I could never..
That’s how some of them become permanent homebodies (iykyk). Play if they want to! Introverts DO NOT enjoy drama and are fierce about protecting their peace.
When that man said a homebody will drive to another gas station if the pump says "please see cashier", I screamed at the accuracy. 😂
I have done it 😅
Me too!!!!
The sense of dread and fear the moment I see a sign like that 😂
This has happened to me 😂😂
Who’s going to tell him that homebodies don’t generally care for company???🤨😒🙄
Why did my husband say "Dont bring outside animals indoors, you'll regret it" 😆😆😆
He told not one lie
The International Committee of Homebodies has spoken: LEAVE US ALONE!!!
Im crying he acts like good women are just gonna flock to him if he just shows up. 😂😂 those women have a lot to offer and have to be highly selective as a result. He simply doesn’t qualify.
I was thinking the same thing!
Facts.
Baby first off he is too loud and obnoxious, it's a no right off the bat. We are selective for a reason 💯.
Yep.
Right! Women have been forced to socialize w/these people for too long, and they developed an inflated sense of self because of it. Maybe because a woman's presence brings peace, calmness, and joy, they assume their presence does the same (for, like 97% it's a no)?
But then, types like that will normally say stuff like "you NeEd SoMe ExCiTeMeNt In YoUr LiFe!!!!" And then disrupt a woman's peace in every way, then act like we should thank them. Like our lives are empty and worthless if we aren't literally stressing and fussing behind one of _them._ Yuck.
Yea bc he’s been ran thru and is about to hit that wall now he wants a good woman 😂😂 isn’t that what men say? He’s tired of the insta baddies playing games, taking his money, and now he wants a quiet woman who he doesn’t have to worry about cheating, embarrassing him, making him eat out everyday, he wants some home cooked food. Vett him well ladies bc he may just be looking for love and shelter to regain strength. Once he gets bored he may run back to the streets
"To regain strength," 😂 I have brothers like this, ugh.
He’s a left over man. The insta baddies don’t want him anymore. 😂
Horribly ran thru….I can see it all over him!! 😂😂😂
This the one lol
Yeah these dudes are just a bunch of feral dogs 😂
They are in the house hiding from men like you
😂 my exact thoughts 💭
No more words need to be said💯
LMAO REAL
If he thinks being an introvert makes us submissive, he’s got a rude awakening coming. 😂
I’m like a cat. I stay within my own territory, perfer routine to spontaneity. I don’t like strangers or children (except my nephew). I’m opinionated, free thinking, strong willed, independent, and slightly aloof.
I get the feeling that’s not what he’s after 😂
Lol luv it I'm similar only like my nieces and nephews if my nephew's weren't so codependent I would be around more
😂😂😂rude awakening for sure. He has no idea.
Yeah, it's just me and my cat Tinkerbelle.🐈⬛️ She's basically me in cat form.😂
Exactly! No one is going to ask him what he's bringing to the table harder or more than a woman who doesn't actually need him in her space, nor actually wants him there without good reason. Like...?
😅 yep a very rude awakening....
Being introverted dating an extrovert is a nightmare within a nightmare
l know all to well🤦🏾♀️
Not necessarily. Some folks mix up anxiety with introvertism [it's NOT the same thing]. I, as an introvert, really like extroverts. If you both respect boundaries, have life outside of that relationship bubble [for example I'd never understand not "allowing" your significant other to meet other people, especially god forbid opposite-sex representation], then it can turn into great balance. But it needs 2 people to work on it, without aggressive push out of my comfort zone.
Y'all better not tell him the homebody hours of business ladies. We are closed for business for a reason.
Hahahahahaah right
I know right! Do not give out our secrets because I love my peace❤
@@bertha8893too late. I’m both. Hubby and I do go out and we also love to stay home. We just have fun together no matter our environment, if we ain’t feeling something, we leave and we know our home is awaiting us. We move how we want. I love it here. 😁💯
Right!
Exactly! They are addicted to drama and toxicity so we quickly become boring to them.
They also become boring to us. I don't usually seek out companionship because I'm normally busy, but for the one's that try to catch my attention, I'm normally bored after the first few minutes.
I'll politely engage in conversation, but they usually have nothing of substance or depth to say, and are discomforted by any questions that prod for anything deeper. It's really quite whack and a lot of them are lame.
Right
Why are the always trying to disrupt our peace?
Misery loves company 😂
If they’re not disrupting our peace then they don’t want it
They're all lonely and they don't get why we're content to be alone.
@@Liz-wz8dh They can't understand liking themselves enough to value solitude and quality time with oneself...
They are destroyers
I am a homebody. My ex broke up with me because I never allowed him into my home, so he assumed I was cheating/hiding something. 😂
In reality, I just need my space. 🧘♀️
Men get so butthurt when I refuse to let them in.
Ahhhhh😂😂😂😂 I cackled at the fact that you never let YOUR boyfriend in YOUR house… sis, I nominate you to Homebody chancellor for 2024. You are on a diff level😂😂😂😂😂😂
We need to start a homebody women’s forum I’m tired of sharing talking space w people who desire things of the world
Lisssseeennnnn!! 😅😅😅😅😅
Yes they do. But I'm glad they throw a hissy fit because it tells you which ones you need to avoid.
i wouldnt want someone im with to know where i live either. if i break up with them and they start actin stupid my home is safe
This is why I vote for no living with men as a tenet of Western 4B movement.
Why is he out harassing Women?? He’s annoying
“They go outside to make inside more comfortable” hell yea.
About to head to HomeGoods and Lowe's right now.
😂💯💯
I just had my outdoor day yesterday. went to Lowe's, Hobby Lobby, and Pet Smart. Made the home comfier for myself and the pets. I'm in the house for the next few weeks now.
well put💯
Mhmm! I felt when he said that 👏🏾👏🏾
11:26 I am SO GLAD another man called him out. There is no way this kind of dude would ever appreciate a homebody.
So extroverts are ho3s and introverts are wholesome 😂 mkay
That part!
Has he never heard about the quiet ones?👀 Just because they’re not loud about their antics doesn’t mean they don’t like freak stuff too! In fact, I think the bookish girlies would have him shocked.😂
@LoveK1 exactly but let him find out 😂
He probably assumes that introverts are easier to control. A lot of these men are looking for "easy targets" to prey on.
@@LoveK1we absolutely would 😂😂😂😂😂😂. Two words.. Fantasy Romance… we read our p0rn like ladies.
Lol, the lady in the leopard headscarf is on point. He needs an outgoing woman, I was getting anxiety just watching him and his cameras rolling up on women in public 😅
She’s y spirit animal. That exactly how I look at home. I stay tucked up in a super soft blanket. Pure bliss.🤩
@@LoveK1 Same here lol
You could feel the uncomfortable energy he created when approaching these women.
The camera actually SHOCKED me. These guys are _weirdos._
He proved he has no idea what he wants because we stay home to avoid dealing with the public 🙄 and he makes a public display
Cringe. When I’m out doing my thing I don’t want to be filmed or interviewed. I literally avoid any eye contact at the gym on purpose
I don’t know why he thought walking up to strange women and asking to talk to them would work.
OMg me too!
😅😅😅I thought I was the only one who avoided eye contact at the gym 🏋️♀️
He's a creep! with gay Jewelry 🤔🧐
Why would a wholesome woman want a camera and microphone shoved in her face???? We stay in the house and mind the business that pays us!!
Plus he actually came across the woman he claims he wants. They wanted their privacy respected.
Girl even randoms approaching us w that hyper a$$ energy… watching him walk all fast made me anxious
Exactly! Here I was thinking he was just going to go out and approach them organically. Instead he brought his ice, his camera crew, and that hype energy expecting the ‘wholesome’ women to be okay with being sought for content.
Really shows he only wants that ‘type’ of woman for personal gains and has no intention of being genuine or considerate.
My thoughts exactly. He showed his true colors right. Just because they didn't engage in his shenanigans, they were no longer wholesome women.
@@MsFadir 💯
@@thinkinginn7443 you said it!!!!💯🎯👏🏻 I hope more and more women and girls wake up and smell the coffee, so to speak, and take a stance in their /our dealings with men! Too many, waay too many below bare minimum low effort malicious men!!!! ( thanks Elle for coining this super accurate term!)
This dude thinks homebody = women with low standards who I don't have to spend money on to date and/or she has low self-esteem and will be "grateful" to be with a guy like me.
Let him belive that and get a rude awakening
Lol..@@abbasjoy4785
A true homebody will be that person out with their AirPods or headphones on and listening to nothing 😂
😂😂😂
Guilty
Either nothing, or blasting alt
Or Autustic like me(I get overwhelmed with environmental components)🤣😂it just happens that I’m a homebody as well. It’s nice being inside.❤I’m not anyone’s “golden retriever “ waiting for you for your convenience.😂
Guilty 😂
Sister with the fabulous animal print head wrap and the fluffy blanket wins the award for the most comfortable setting. 🏆
Ikr! I was a lil jealous 😍
Again, they want a momma
If only that but they also want to sleep around while momma is used as house appliance for cooking, cleaning, laundry, emotional support and placeholder in bed when he can't find anybody outside home.
Homebody (for him) = isolated prey
Just because a woman stays home doesn’t mean she won’t spend any money lol that’s why there’s online shopping for everything
Yup! Online is the only way I shop.
Yup with his card too lol
Being home more makes it even easier to spend more!!!I spend a lot!!!!
Instacart and prime aren't free lol, it get's expensive sometimes for my a$$ to sit at home all weekend and not go out
Facts... hundreds per day .... and he wanna stay home 😂😂😂😂
“Just stay in the house” I’m not a dog on a leash so no thanks 🙂↔️
If anyone assumes homeboy=low maintenance then they’re in for a shock! My good food, beauty products and amenities ALL cost money. I’m a homebody but I bet you my skin is the softest you ever felt(which you’ll never find out because you don’t get to put your hands all over me). I’m actually a homebody BECAUSE I’m high maintenance and picky. Most places don’t even pass my vibe check.
*WE'RE IN THE HOUSE BEING SINGLE BY CHOICE* ......LEAVE US ALONE!!!
As a homebody, I can say the guy in the bonnet is correct. I am at HOME. I don’t even do stores since Covid, I don’t do curbside pickup. Everything is delivered to my home. I also work from home. I have valet trash pickup at my door. I only go out for doctor appointments & occasional family/friend events. And I am home by dark. The red haired girl is correct, they get bored with homebodies. I had one bf tell me he was bored because he was used to clubbing, running the streets & fighting with his ex. I told him it was not my job to entertain him. I truly don’t want to be bothered most days. 😂
I know that's right sis
😂😂😂😂" we all getting a lamp!"
And " when shes taken that bra off, she aint going out again" 😂😂😂.. real facts!!
ngl when he mentioned the bra thing i thought: didn't know a man could be so smart!
Our public appearances are very limited 😂....home, work, grocery store, church.... that's about it 😂....he's giving f*&$ boy vibes
I’m a homebody and I don’t want this man. His energy feels chaotic. I stay in because most men are annoying.
Just because I'm a homebody doesn't mean I don't expect proper dates or have no standards lol
Delusional AF.
Yeah, no way I would trust a guy like that. My space is sacred. You don't get access, dude. Go find a pick me to bother.
That man wants a woman who stays at home so he can go out and cheat in peace, and then he has a woman who's taking care of things at home. 😂
I'm an introvert and glad to finally be of the age where men like him don't bother me in public anymore. Things will get better after age 35. Trust me.
He just wants to disturb someone's peace. Master of chaos. Run ladies!!!!
I'm a homebody but, I still spend a lot of money. I have everything delivered. And, I love shopping online for my clothes and shoes addiction. Homebodies are not cheaper. If he thinks that, he's wrong.😅
I’m a homebody woman through disability. Am I really going to put up with the bullshit of a man like this?
They were so wholesome. Listen to how politely they turned him down and requested a respectful distance.
I almost broke my neck racing to this comment section.
I'm a homebody, but I am FAR from a low maintenence woman. My husband likens me to a Sim that needs all her bars in the green, and not only pampers me accordingly, but enjoys being by my side in comfort and in PEACE. HE'S A HOMEBODY, TOO! He comes home directly from work and we're either watching tv, playing games, model building or going on vacations where... AGAIN... we are INSIDE enjoying the hotel room.
Sir. SIR! No! Leave us alone! We have allergies! We don't want you to rock up on us the few times we do come out, reeking of cologne and/or weed. You're not about this life.
I call it the forbidden fruit syndrome... Folks yearn for that thing they know they can't/shouldn't have.
I'm a certified homebody and introvert. I'm in the house minding my business, enjoying my doggy and my peace. Leave me alone sir.
I'm screaming... He went out looking... LORDT. Hahahahahahaaaaaa.... I seen it all. A extrovert on the hunt for introverts... If you can't sit still in a library for 8 hours without a camera, in silence without bothering a single soul, entertain yourself without an outside source your application for a Homebody is denied. Just the Application.
🧟Over before he started
Just because I’m a homebody doesn’t mean you can come over.
🎯🎯🎯
This part! Its something i had to shape up on in college because i had a dorm and wanted to make friends. I liked movie night dates but refused to entertain getting "chilled" on....i just like movie nights 😅
"They're inside???" 😂😂😂😂😂
Boy math is looking for a homebody, OUTSIDE! 😊
Does dude realize wholesome women can still say no? 😂
The logic for this man really is- I want a quiet woman who doesn’t wanna be bothered so imma go out to these places they like and bother them and make them talk to me
Stay away from my house. Lol!
Get off my lawn!
Quick, set the sprinklers on! Release the hounds!!
YES! We ARE hiding from you BRO! EVERYBODY SCATTER😂
LOL
This guy: 🤓👁🫦👁
👁 👁
👅
Women, Scattering:
🛸
🚁 🚀
🚠🚠 👩🏾🚀 🚀
🏇🏾 🚵🏾♀️ 👩🏼✈️🛫✈️🛩
⛷️ 🧗🏾♀️
🏂🏼 🧗🏼♀️ 👩🏻🦯➡️👩🦽➡️ 👩🏼🦼➡️ 👩🏿🦼➡️
🏃🏽♀️🏃♀️ 🏃🏾♀️ 🧍🏾 🏃🏼♀️➡️🏃🏿♀️➡️ 🏃🏻♀️➡️
🚙 🚕 🤸🏾♀️ 🤸🏻♀️ 🤸🏼♀️
🚣♀️ 🏊🏾♀️🏊🏼♀️
🏄🏿♀️ 🏊🏻♀️🏊🏿♀️
@@Liz-wz8dh shhh, the kukui is outside
Wholesome women don’t entertain strangers Sir
He aint lied! My bra comes off, its a wrap!
Ikr..😄
Who gone tell buddy that a lot of us homebodies are Neurodivergent/disabled and are still standing on Covid business because we can't afford to get sick?! Outside is too dangerous for us rn, so we in the house! ✌🏾✌🏾
At home avoiding men with noserings
I’m so glad us women are able to read between the lines of the crap these men spew.
😂😂😂Forget about vitamin D. We'll get a lamp😂😂😂
Man, I couldn't have said it better myself!
Lmao , I laughed so hard 😂
I was like nahhh sis , we going to get this vitamin D but during the hours where everyone is still at work or something lol
Or supplements
@@kimleemoonwas going to type this my introverted twin😅😂
We in the house with our husbands love. Go away.
Exactly ❤
Lol, “You got too much razzle to your dazzle…” I’m definitely using that! ✨✨
Homebody here. Also introverted . No you can’t walk all over me just because I don’t run the streets.
As a homebody, I don't want him. He insulted my fellow girlies.
Girl foreal
As a introvert, I agree! That type of energy is not even welcome in my space. Go sit down somewhere with that BS.
he wants to be able to cheat and she will not have a clue 😂😂
My gf is a homebody. She doesn't like people and has a very small circle of friends. She said if she didn't have to work she'd be a human burrito with the blankets watching Netflix 😂
Cuuuuuuute ❤ "Human Burrito 🌯"
I’m a homebody and introvert and I like my peace. I enjoy my own company and my children. I instacart my groceries and pick up target orders because I don’t want to deal with all the foolishness going on
He doesn't want someone his own speed, because he knows how shady he is. He's not slick.
Praise and appreciation to all the ladies who broke it down in these responses.
I’m trying not to become an outright misandrist, but then I witness new displays of pure bleeping assholery that makes me glad I simply don’t date. It’s so easy to give the automatic no thank you when you are well aware of all the ways headaches in man form can present
You are a homebody, and when you don't want to go out , he will go out without you or bring the outside into your home. It's all a hell no for me. Leave me at home in my comfort and peace
We are in the house. Living our peaceful lives.🤫
We in the house for a reason. 😂😂
As a HOMEBODY WORKAHOLIC GYM GYRLIE I KINDLY REJECT THIS WORLD ❤
My father is like this, 'why are you leaving the house all the time' mom's response 'I'm going to see my friends, that have been here over the years' dad's response 'I work so hard to pay for this house, you just want to wonder the streets, stay here next to me. Your friends are more important than me.' Mom's response ' I've been home the entire time you don't know I'm here, the second I'm leaving the house you notice my existence.'
The best part about being introverted and a homebody is that we are able to duck and dodge dudes like this naturally
Maintain your peace, my sisters. 😊
Translation: This guy wants a girl that will be so focused on him and his needs that she gives up on any human desires or needs she may have to the point where she doesn't need to have contact with the outside world. He's just one step away from confessing that if he could, he would have a girl chained up to the house and he'd make her chain long enough that she could do things for him around the house. You know, like a prisoner that has no right to demand anything for themself while he gets to live life to the fullest.
All of the homebody women are hiding from him, but he lacks the self awareness to realize it. 😬 The extroverted women realize he's unwanted and act accordingly.🥴