Why Do Women Post Their Ls? Reacting to Shoe0nhead
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- Опубліковано 8 чер 2024
- I recently reacted to Shoe0nhead’s video about the male loneliness epidemic, and she’s now come out with a video on the plight of modern women. This should be interesting-let’s get into it!
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I'll always remember when my girlfriend found I was cheating when she found my secret collection of letters. She was furious and swore she'd never play Scrabble with me ever again...
You had me in the first half not gonna lie
🤣couple goals
From the top rope... congrats on that one.
But who won??!
Bruh…… 😂😂😂
honestly if people stopped sharing their whole life stories to an audience of random doom scrollers, social media would just be a better place.
I just read all these comments to find out what Ls is. Thank you for clarifying
@@ambercarter9746so L's are Life Stories?
@@MizRuthie that is what I’ve concluded. Lol I’m still not sure. I’m not good with these letters that supposed to mean words Lol
@@ambercarter9746usually, it's used to refer to a "loss" or "loser moment". It was largely used in the context of video games, a short way to refer to either a win ( a W) or a loss (an L). But now it's like slang for anything you can apply it for, especially on social media!
In this case I think they're referring to it as "L's" because the stories and/or takes are so... Stupid for lack of a better word lol. Or the fact they're sharing their "loss moments", whenever something went wrong for them. Like they want sympathy for "losing at life" 😂
And so would the world...
If you're having problems finding a good man, announcing that you've had the clap twice is probably not the way.
Imagine looking down on women more than the men that failed them 😂😂actually you wouldn't need to imagine anything it's normal for losers to back up eachothers espicially men😂😂
I was just thinking the same thing.💯
Yeah, the hairs on the back of my neck stood straight up when that person said that. And Imagine this: I just shaved the back of my neck! 😯
Getting the clap so much, it's basically applause
Yes she did some bad decicions that made her contract std but the two guys that lied to her about being healthy bodied are even worse and the guys like you coming after her and overlooking the two guys are just as disgusting you're a waste of oxygen
I just watched a tik tok where a woman was complaining about a friend pining after her husband and the first sentence out of her mouth was “I haven’t spoken to my husband about this”… but she’ll tell hundreds of thousands of strangers about it first?!
She doesn't value his opinion, come on now, lets be real. She needs that validation from all those followers way more than she needs to have healthy communication in her relationship.
@@djblackprincecdn seriously. She even spoke about how they almost divorced but now they’re working through it. Great, but dishing your relationship drama online to everybody but him isn’t a good start.
wow!!🤣🤣🤣
We need to go back to journals. They’re meant to be private and to get your thoughts and emotions out without revealing to the entire world. Please people, just use your brain.
This comment should get more likes. I wholly agree with you.
For sure, then when you are old you can decide if you want to release your journals to the world then as a book and spill all your tea.
Yes! In one of those diaries with a lock and key! Those were the days!
Never put anything private in writing. Sometimes others do not respect your privacy.
you can record the videos. JUST DONT POST THEM lol.
Women always say “Ask her out, the worst she can say is No”. After girls go through high school bullying they think “No” is the worst a woman will say???😅
I always used to say 'She could be a sadistic axe murderer'.
Then again, that was before the metoo movement.
About "the worst she can say is no" - as a man, here is my story from the highschool 10th grade (i think).
I wasn't (and pretty sure i am still not) good in face, so basically any dating was complicated. I didn't like many, nor was i liked myself. But! There was one girl i wanted to ask out, for a movie and stuff like that.
With lots of debating and encouragement from my friends i eventually decided to put cards on the table and approach her. Surprisingly after i mentioned going to cinema she sayd "lright, why not" and so we did. It was a bit awkrward at first, but eventually pressure lowered and conversation went much smoother.
Throughout the movie (a thriller) i noticed some signs that basically SCREAM "come on, do it!". I knew that it's a bad idea to go for something serious, so i just decided to put mt hand on hers to calm her down. *BUT.* The SECOND i made a touch her hand flashed away without her even looking at me.
(I didn't need any more hints that "well, we fucked up", so didn't pressure any further. My point was proven right, couse as soon as movie ended she went with "sorry i need to go home and all" and of course proposition of escort was rejected)
Dissapointed i walked back home myself, thinking "could've been worse, Alex" hoping that we won't have to interract with each other that often...
*BUT I WAS PROVEN WRONG NEXT MORNING!* "The worst she can say is no?!" - the next day, after i went to school, i was called by the councelor for *SEXUAL HARRASMENT!*
I started: "wha- why?! What did i do?!", "that girl informed us taht you tried to grab her in inapropriate places, and bla-bla.." WHAT INAPROPRIATE PLACES?! I can't touch hand anymore? Will the accusations be the same if i were better in face? Would've i been called a "sex-offender" if my jockes were funnier?
NOT ONLY did i have to get a hour long lecture about ME being a WEIRDO, but reputation was RUINED! Not only wasn't it well recieved by girls in school, but guys and even some of my FRIENDS started to look differebtly at me. "What did i do?!" was the only thing i could say.
And OF COURSE nobody beleived me, nobody believed that i wouldn't dare to do that. And OF COURSE there was no need for proofs, to back up taht girls lies. NO! Becouse WHY WE NEED EM, RIGHT?!
Worst she can say is no?! Haha- you PRAY it'll be what she says, when she refuses.
@@CorpusGreedthat's sad, sorry to hear that,
I want to add what else could happen when you ask a girl out..
She can say yes and you go out several times and start to fall in love with her and randomly she just ghosts you completely with no apparent reason..
That has been my recent dating experience after getting divorced from a 10 year marriage with a girl who also "said yes" but then messed with my emotions for a decade before leaving.
So in my experience them saying no its not even close to the worst possible situation that could arise. They could say yes and play with your emotions and leave you destroyed inside.
@@CorpusGreed that is BEYOND messed up
@@SicilianAmericanDreamsOh the ghosting is the worst.
There is no closure, you never find out what you did wrong, you don't know if they have had an accident, you don't know whether to keep hanging on or not, you dunno if they have just broken their phone.
It's cowardly, it's confusing & it f*****g destroys you.
One tip to everyone in this world: It is better to be alone than in bad company.
Fact: Most people are alone because they are bad company..
You being alone is a default position.
@@harryscarry6064 Thanks, i will try my best, and i am in positive move now, because I finally got an apartment offer this week ^^, and tomorrow I'm going to see that apartment.
i think thats the point. the issue is there is no good company. so everyone is alone. thats neither healthy nor joy inspiring so every one is unhealthy and unhappy. and we seem to keep rewarding bad behavior instead of encouraging people to be socially conducive to communities and relationships
@CSAcrazy What a lonely and depressing point of view. Don't you have friends? Family? Children? I sometimes enjoy being alone, but its because I am mostly never alone. And I am a senical optimist who enjoys others even tho realistically speaking they may not enjoy you
Quick warning to all females everywhere, DO NOT attempt to use your relationship as leverage to destroy a man’s hobbies. It doesn’t matter what those hobbies are, any man with integrity and dignity will take his hobbies over you REGARDLESS of the details.
Exactly, that is just wrong and invalidates that man as a person. If he did it to the woman it would be seen as controlling, which it generally is for either gender. The only time reprimanding someone over their hobby is valid is if it became an addiction and they lost their job/ won’t find a job, do nothing else and don’t look after their kids. For example, I recently saw a video about a woman who was on her computer for 10 hours a day literally ignoring her baby. Her husband should have definitely stopped that or kicked her out.
Good shout, I’m 29 and I like skateboarding, my gf accepts that and encourages it but I’m aware that a lot of women would take that as some sort of turn off.
I dunno I just love skating and it’s a good healthy activity that gets me outside
Any ultimatum means she didn't love you anyway, women will always break their own rules for the ones they actually like.
Absolutely. My husband's wants a small family farm, a forge, a butcher house. All I could say is, how can I help 😅
Wrong. A man with integrity would not even waste 2 minutes on with a woman who has these low value traits. If you are an incel who lets you get seduced by such women - it is entirely on you!
I think the reason for this is victim mentality. If you get power or sympathy from being a victim, then you will even make up Ls.
What is Ls?
@@jeanettejohansson5181 Losses. W's are wins.
So true
@@jeanettejohansson5181In slang, "taking an L" typically means experiencing a loss or failure in a situation, similar to its use in gaming. It's often used to express disappointment or acknowledge when something didn't go as planned.
It's the opposite of a "W" or a "Win". It can be applied to everyday life things for example you embarrass yourself in front of a girl. That's an "L"
Yea, and probably the fact theyve been accomodated for their whole life by other people every time theres the smallest issue
Don't be playing games girls! My now husband asked me out several times on dates where I had previous plans already, but I made it very obvious that I would welcome another invitation from him. He has told me it is probably the only reason he kept asking me out. So grateful I didn't play games.
You did what the dummy who was playing games with me did not. Shit's frustrating.
Was told by a mutual friend "A certain someone is wondering why you gave up so soon, why you didn't fight harder."
Wtf man....
Exactly. There is no reason for games. It just destroys people’s self esteem and makes it seem like no one wants a real connection. If you like someone, make it known. It’s not difficult.
@@Un1234lShe said that she already had plans, so he kept asking until there was a time they could go out. That’s not playing games. If you didn’t get a chance with someone you kept asking out, then maybe it wasn’t meant to be. There are other women in the world. Be open and you’ll find someone that suits you. Just don’t be bitter and think all women are rude or you won’t see the good in anyone. It’s a choice.
@@krystallos81
I don't think you read my comment properly
@@Un1234l no joke! Why would anyone "try harder" for someone who doesn't show equal interest? There's something called self respect. You only "fight" for a relationship (if you want to call it that) when it's an established relationship. Why fight for something that is basically non-existent?
The fact that women do not have the foresight to understand how a man could come across their old social media posts, see these L’s, and move on, is beyond me. How cringe.
I honestly believe whenever a woman tries to tell a story about how she "used a guy for sex and ghosted him" that it's a cope story she wants to tell herself when a guy uses her for sex and ghosts her in reality. And by telling the story as if she's the victor it makes her feel better but it's honestly an L either way it happened.
Or if she did, why be proud of bad behaviour?
@@MaidenHelll Her ego is too big to admit she was rejected by a guy
@@harsh3948 Exactly
@@MaidenHelllbecause she thinks guys respect fuckboys I guess
And if a guy did do that, he’d probably be branded a monster who takes advantage of women or something🤣
I'm a GenX (barely) at 44, and I grew up with a mother who was a staunch proponent of people not airing their private affairs and financial or relationship problems. I can still hear her saying "Why the hell would somebody share that?" and now I totally get it. Also, on a side note I've been following ShoeOnhead for years. She's pretty sensible, and hilarious at times.
I’m almost 42 and my mom always told me you don’t bring anyone into your relatives. Especially family and friends because they will always have a bias try to give you horrible advice. The person you’re with becomes the target of so much negativity if you share your personal issues. It doesn’t help, it usually makes it worse. People can seek professional help if they really need it. For some reason, people these days think the internet is therapy.
How very 4chan of her online handle wonder if she ever put a sharpie in her butt 😂😵
I’m with your Mom! Don’t air your dirty laundry in public! A boomer belief! 😂😂😂
I think there is a point to sharing some Ls. To advise people to avoid certain mistakes, to show growth so people understand your cycle (if you are a poster) but these ones in the video- i dont get it. Its like they are proud of these things
I'm the same age as you at 44 and Gen X, your mom is right on 🎯 on the issue of not airing dirty laundry to the World.
I want to touch on the topic of emotional men. My husband who I love to the ends of the earth, is sometimes sheltered. He didn't have the best upbringing and as such doesn't let himself cry often. I hate seeing him cry but not because he's "weak" or anything like that. It means something or someone has hurt or upset him or the point he can't hold it back. I can count on one hand the amount of times I've seen him cry. When he cries it feels like nothing else matters but him. I will lay with him and hold him while he cries. It almost feels like a bonding moment. He is at his weakest mental state and I'm able to help and bring him out of it. I hate that we live in a society where a man crying is seen as a negative rather than them just being human.
@squeaker4341 I totally agree with you!
I'm not married yet, am 21 and pretty big cry baby because I'm quite a pretty empathetic person, so I feel others peoples emotions pretty hart.
So when my best friend was going through his first break-up, He was extremely upset and sad, and of course I was there to comfort him! Because that's the natural and obvious thing to do. His heart was so broken that he couldn't keep his tears and just started crying. And this just broke my heart, seing him so hurt and heartbroken 🥺😢
I just took him in my arms, rubbed his back and let him be vulnerable for the moment because he really needed it, I was by his side the whole time and it helped him a lot.
He was super grateful! And he knows he can trust me, he knows I will never ridicule him, because he wasn't "manly" enough in my eyes or so!
Now I can't even imagine if it was my partner! My world would shatter!! How can you not be worried about the person you love the most when she's feeling bad??!
How can women leave those men who had enough courage and most importantly TRUST in them to let themselves be vulnerable in their presence and they just discard them!! How horrible is that?!! That's inhuman 😡 No wonder men cannot trust women anymore!
@@anastasiyaholdak8493 On top of women being that way towards men, you also have society as a whole like that towards men. As seen in the phrases of "man up" "be a man" "grow some balls" it's considered "unmanly" to show emotions as a guy (also obvious in the "you're being a little girl" also being used against men for being emotional). At the end of the day I do think men are at a disadvantage when it comes to mental health. Which is why they make up the majority of self-unalivings. And because of the stigma in men being emotional, they tend to not reach out when they need help the most which leads to such high unaliving statistics.
I have a son now and it worries me. I'm going to do my part in teaching him that it's okay to be "manly" and emotional, and that if a woman doesn't like him being "emotional" then she can go kick stones.
Oh goodness. There was a whatever episode that mentioned that, and they made that part a short, so I saw it. Comment section FULL of men that have been hit by that behavior and are now scarred.
I am on the other hand, emotional as hell and hate it about myself. I cry in movies and can't control it. I just dont think it's attractive for a man to be this emotional.
@@InteractiveIdea well most men aren't that emotional. I'm saying a man shouldn't be judged for having and showing emotions. I mean I would be turned off by a man crying all the time. But when they're having a hard time it's not fair to them to judge them for it.
My now husband was vulnerable with me a few days before we started dating. That was the moment I knew that I really had feelings for the guy. He was crying, and I just wanted to wrap my arms around him and care for him.
My ex-wife asked me if I wanted an open marriage. Not for me. Turns out she only asked because she was already cheating.
Thats always the case. If she even has to ask that means she's either already cheating or she has someone in mind.
Most women do.
Punishing a man who cried about the loss of a friend is one of many things I do not understand. He would have gotten more points for that in my view. GenX
don’t think he was punished. just less attractive
@@medes1062 They put him at the bottom for being compassionate. That was punishing him for showing emotion
@@1972jbird ???? compassion is not an universally attractive trait when looking for a mate. also, just because you think showing emotion is ok, but it affects his attractiveness score negatively, it does not mean he's being punished.
I had a coworker who had just come back from her loa after giving birth. She was about a month postpartum & still had the appearance of a baby bump. She had put on a decent amount of weight from the last time I'd seen her, and I could tell she felt uncomfortable about it. We were helping a customer behind our desk, and then when she stepped away, the customer said, “You’re about to pop! When is your due date?” My coworker was so embarrassed she just lied & said, “Any day now, I hope!” So yeah I think it’s best to not say anything unless you’re sure.
I think I’m more shocked that she went back to work after only a month? 😵💫
Sorry, a month postpartum?? I’m not sure where you’re from, but why is there no proper maternity leave? 😢
@@JackieBrown93probably the US. "Land of the free"
Yes people. Women get about 6 weeks to ‘recover‘ from having a child in USA. Women get disability pay. 😃
@@sjanexsome get back to work 2 days later lol.
I used to post my L's. I'm a man. It was a cry for attention. Extreme depression and lonliness and a messed up toxic abusive divorced family. I was working 80 hour weeks on farms in the middle of nowhere and I just started having this insane self-depreciating humor.
Sooner or later one finds out it is pointless. No one cares. No one gives a shit. And it will be used against you. Someone will find your stuff and use it to hurt you with it for a short burst of rush.
Back when I was breaking up with my narcissistic ex-fiancé, dealing with the death of my sister, extreme loneliness, I made a bunch of vids too. It never amounted to anything good. Just a few, luckily not many, negative reactions, I had to deal with on top of my life breaking even more apart. Last time the vids had any effect on my life was when a girl messaged me out of the blue, looking for something, and she asked if I was a "video-man"... I deleted all. I don't need strangers to know what I look like when I am depressed. Heck, I don't want girls to know what I look like when I am depressed.
Just don't post self-deprecating stuff online. Trouble.
I'm sorry to hear about your story. I hope you're doing better for yourself now!
Clamydia twice in one year... That's marriage material!
😱😅😂
It is all about announcing how you are a victim to earn sympathy and validation. If they don't have real problems, they invent ones around being offended by racism, LGBT or some such.
Like the Asian chick who got offended that the white guy took down the stop Asian hate thing. White people weren't the ones hating Asians. He had no skin in the game anymore why should he have kept it up?
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The sad thing is, that the audience cannot even understand that they are just selling stories and that the viewers are the actual product..
i'm seeing jealousy and anger for being dumpede by a man not victimism, women gets mental if they get dumped the same way they plan to dump them
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I have never shared an L publicly, but it is actually a way that women communicate with each other. My friends and I all have young kids. We talk about our oopsies and fails pretty regularly. In a way, it helps to turn sources of stress into humor plus get advice, and also feel less like failures.
Unfortunately, the sharing Ls to the entire internet, I'm pretty sure is actually rooted in a lot of people who lack good relationships. Theyre not getting the interaction from a closed friend group, so they're willing to brand themselves publicly for that attention. Its really sad and toxic.
I think you’ve hit the nail on the head there!
This is why I LOVE reading funny parenting tweets! It makes me see the funny side of parenting, while also seeing that my kids aren't the only ones acting like sociopaths with Alzheimer's.
This is exactly what I was thinking. I remember 20 years ago sitting around with my girlfriends talking about bad dates over a glass of wine. The difference there is there was like four of them and they were all my friends. No one else saw or knew anything about it. These women either don't have friends or don't realize the entire world is not their friend. This isn't stuff you're supposed to be sharing with strangers. And if you think about it it's really easy to see where it came from. Back in the 90s you had a regular diary. In the early 2000s you had an anonymous vlog. Now you share everything through video form! At least back in the day of the online diary you didn't use names.
@@123maedayYour kids act like Joe Biden?
@@MamaMOB 🤣😂. I never thought of it like that. 😂🤣
People mistook me for being pregnant and i just tell them " no its just fat".. it motivated me to a more healthier lifestyle.
When I first met my fiancee 8 years ago he was not my type as far as looks and what I was typically attracted to. But I gave him my number and I am so happy I did. He quickly became the most handsome man in the world to me.
It's like boy who cried wolf. When you are constantly sharing your L's, they don't mean anything anymore and eventually no one will care.
When I have to turn down a guy, as I’m a married woman.
I do so as kindly as possible. I explain that I’m happily married. I tell them how flattered I am, and try to give them some encouragement. Like saying “great pickup line by the way.” Or “ I noticed you were thinking about coming over here. Good to see you actually had the balls to do it.” Lol
That's wholesome!!
It's really the best and most nature thing you could do in that situation! I would also be very flattered if it happened to me as a woman myself!😊
Because like, how are they supposed to know if you're already married or not? Some people don't even wear rings and they're still married... So why would you even make a fuss if a guy asked you out, but you were already taken?
In my opinion, respect and gratefulness play a big part here and I get the feeling that those values slowly are disappearing in our current time...😢
I would definitely congratulate the guy for his courage, because it may not be obvious, but it does take some balls to get the courage to ask a woman out!😅 And a little confidence boost would hopefully push them to try out another time with another woman!😊
Bit late. But you don't even need to be that kind, just be a decent human being. Just a yes or no is all we really want to know. Sure it's nice to get a compliment, but you don't have to push yourself. A simple "no thank you" will already be enough.
@@ruud9761 for sure, I think your suggestion are perfectly reasonable if I intended to only kindly turn them down. Nothing wrong with that in the slightest!!
I usually try to encourage them. So they will be willing to try again with someone else.
It takes a lot of courage to approach a woman you find attractive, and try to pick her up. A courage many young men seem to lack nowadays.
I do always get say more than what you suggest. But I try encourage when I can
Any woman who has slept with 100 people isn't going to stop with you.
The craziest thing to me is that they COUNT them all, like it's a badge of honor to them.
Believe it or not, I'm a man that actually doesn't like promiscuous women toying with me. I actually do value genuine relationships over any physical connection.
The blonde girl at the beginning is a comedian. So she might be making a fictional funny skit.
If not, she's a complete nutcase.
Thanks for explaining what a BBL was, I've heard the term before and honestly thought it stood for Big Black Ladies, but didn't dare google it...
Brick shithouse use to be a word, might get banned for it these days. But dayum I love this type of woman!
@@michaelh370my mother would always say this. Never knew what it meant
i thought it was big bootie latinas because i had no idea! :')
@@rachaelplant4419Sometimes they would only say bl and boy that one has a very diffrent meaning 😂😂
@@rachaelplant4419”Latina”. Americans especially North Americans, and other uneducated countries that have been falsely linguistically influenced by the USA use latin terms wrong. Latino men and women are those of prominent Mediterranean diaspora who’s prominent origins come from Latin Europe. Yes Latin Europe, Not “Latin” America which solely and only got its name to mean the part of the American continent that was conquered and ruled by Latin European countries in opposition to Anglo America that was conquered and ruled by Anglo European countries. It is important to acknowledge that True misappropriation of foreign terms is Not ok as it negatively impacts many people by contributing to cultural erasure and cultural negation, which therefore achieves a form of cultural assimilation. HISPANIC LITERALLY MEANS SPAIN. LATINO MEANS LATIN HENCE THE TERM LATIN_O. AND THE CULTURA LATINA-THE LATIN CULTURE, THE LATIN PEOPLE, THE LATINO TRIBES (Latini), THE LATIN ETHNICITY AND THE LATIN LANGUAGE ALL COME FROM ITALY! LATINO IS THE SOLE IDENTITY OF SOUTHERN EUROPEAN LATIN MEDITERRANEAN DIASPORA WHOS ETHNICITY AND CULTURE COMES FROM THE TRUE AND REAL LATINO ANCESTORS OF ITALY. And Hispanic is literally the Latin language for Spain not the native Americans they colonized such as those Of south, Central American and Mexican origins weather you or others like you acknowledged it or not. Both Hispanic & Latin/Latino culture come from Europe that is Latin Europe. & Latin Europe was Latinized by Italy hence how Latina Italy got the historical Latin name LATINA! LATINO= SOUTHERN EUROPEAN LATIN MEDITERRANEAN DIASPORA OF THE LATINO ANCESTORS OF ITALY. Hispanic is the name the TRUE Latino people of Rome/Italy gave the Spaniards. People from south central America and Mexico are historically native Americans & now some Mestizos whom where just forced to learn Hispanic ways just like people in North America who where forced to learn English ways and it ends there. Being culturally UNROOTED due to brainwashed acculturation is why so many Americans especially North Americans don’t know their own identity Nor even care.TRUE Latin people need representation in North America as we are misrepresented all day long in this country and it’s not ok. Culturally rooted proud People native to south Central America and Mexico who embrace their true identity feel the same way with FALSE brands like Hispanic and Latino as that is Not their origin it is the origin of their conquerors. South Central Americans and Mexicans are indigenous Americans, mestizo Americans, Castizo Americans, zambos, pardos, sub Saharans etc. Not Latins, Not Latin Blood therefore Not LATIN_O. LATINOS are SOUTHERN EUROPEAN LATINS born anywhere in the world who’s roots come from the LATIN Roman Empire of the Mediterranean Race. Again HENCE HOW LATINA ITALY GOT THE HISTORICAL LATIN NAME LATINA! If those like you want to claim the Hispanic identity and origins of Spain then what ever. HOWEVER us culturally aware true Latin Mediterranean people are tired of this brainwashed American obsession with misappropriation and cultural rape of foreign Latin terms from Italy. Supporting American Brainwashed cultural theft for “gain” and “benefit” does Not magically change this. CULTURALLY REMOVED indigenous Americans, mestizo Americans etc. need to learn and respect their true culture that way they can stop stealing from the Real Latin peoples identity. & TRUE LATINO MEN & WOMEN AKA SOUTHERN EUROPEANS HAVE ALWAYS BEEN MULTI GENETICALLY MIXED ETHNIC PEOPLE DUE TO OUR MIDDLE EASTERN, NORTH AFRICAN & ETHNIC BALKAN DNA. THIS CULTURAL RAPE TOWARDS THE TRUE LATIN PEOPLE OF ITALY EXIST BECAUSE THOSE LIKE YOU BELIEVE YOU HAVE & WILL CONTINUE TO “BENEFIT” FROM THE CULTURAL THEFT TOWARDS US TRUE LATINO MEDITERRANEANS WHO DESCEND FROM ITALY! THE TERM LATINO DERIVES FROM THE VERY FIRST LATIN TRIBE CALLED THE LATINI. LATINI IS PLURAL FOR LATINO AS LATINO IS SINGULAR FOR LATINI. THEY WERE CALLED LATINI BECAUSE IT WAS A TRIBE OF MANY PEOPLE HENCE THE PLURAL TERM FOR LATINO BEING LATINI. LATINO REFERS TO A SINGULAR FORM OF BEING LATINI AND ALL THE LATINI INFLUENCES. THE SAME WITH LATINA BEING SINGULAR AND LATINE BEING PLURAL IN THE LATIN/ITALIAN LANGUAGE. THESE ARE ALL TERMS CREATED SOLELY BY THE TRUE LATINO MEDITERRANEAN ANCESTORS OF ITALY. YOU CAN NOT BE PART OF AN ORIGIN, HISTORY AND ETHNICITY WHICH YOUR ANCESTORS FACTUALLY ARE NOT HISTORICALLY RESPONSIBLE FOR. END OF STORY. IT HAS BECOME TRENDING PROPAGANDA FOR THOSE WHO ARE NOT OF PROMINENT LATIN MEDITERRANEAN ORIGIN TO MISAPPROPRIATE LATIN EUROPEAN TERMS OF ITALY AS TRENDING PROPAGANDA TO APPEAR MORE DESIRABLE FOR SOCIAL STATUS FOR SOCIAL ADVANTAGE. AND IT NEEDS TO BE EXPOSED AND PUT TO AN END. PERIOD.
I remember being 15-16 and getting chewed out by my teacher when I told her congratz on getting pregnant, she wasn't pregnant but she had given birth like 2 months prior but still looked like she was at around 7-9 months pregnant. Had to listen to like a 5 min sermon about how a horrible person I was.
you know how to respond to that? soooo you got pregnant by accident?
Annnnd detention you would get detention
I mean you were rude, it's easy to not mention it
@@blackburned relax dude, just a joke
@@GX-105D usually jokes are funny, lady
I've seen my husband cry a few times but never for himself. He was crying because he had hurt me or had seen me or one of our kids go through something painful. He doesn't cry for himself. Everything he does... EVERYTHING is for his family.
Same with my father. I am 25 I have never seen him cry even during my grandfather's funeral he didn't cry. But When my mother was undergoing an operation he started crying.
After the operation after some hours, my mother gained consciousness. I went inside the ICU to see her first thing she asked me was about him and asked me to tell him not to cry I was like "how does she know that he was crying"?
" Son, we live in a world that has walls, and those walls have to be guarded by men with guns…. You have the luxury of not knowing what I know, that Santiago’s death, while tragic, probably saved lives. And my existence, while grotesque and incomprehensible to you, saves lives. You don’t want the truth, because deep down in places you don’t talk about at parties, you want me on that wall. You need me on that wall. "
i once saw a real man's brains coming out of his ears because he didn't wear a seatbelt. The grown man force field didn't stop him from slamming into the roof when the car flipped, the homosexual seatbelt would have kept him in place for a higher chance of survival. But, grown men are def just supposed to bypass the laws of physics or else they are gay. Solid logic, that person is a true philosopher of the times.
WAT
@lourencovieira5424 I'm kinda confused also lol 😂
Data from 18 countries that mandated seatbelts showed no decrease in deaths and a few cases a net increase. They died looking gay af.
I'm 47, and still remember the movie I watched in driver's education, the summer before I turned 16. It was your basic "don't drink and drive, don't speed" etc. programs, and the rest of the class bolted for the door as soon as the credits began to roll. Since I knew my ride wouldn't be there yet, I sat there for a few more moments, and just after the credits finished, the State Trooper who'd been in the video, came back on the screen and said:
"In more than 20 years in law enforcement, I've never unbuckled a dead body from a safety belt."
and I saw a non real man decapitated by his seatbelt so there's that for your pointlessly worthless personal experience...
People share wayyy too much, especially women. It all sounds like whining.
I had a teacher, a woman, shared her ultrasound baby pictures with our class for nearly an hour.
Another teacher, a man, had a baby, and I only found out when I met him and the child at the store _2 years later_ .
Women sharing their problems is deeply ingrained in their DNA. And social media makes it especially easy to share it. Of course, there's still a difference between women who share their most intimate things and those who don't. In western 'democratic' nations it seems to be relatively common to share the intimate ones that shouldn't be shared. If you look at eastern Europe, Asia, South-American, Africa... that ain't happening. They know to not share things that make them look bad. Meanwhile, the US, eastern Europe and Australia... it's different.
That being said, there's a decent chunk of women here that does have common sense in that regard. Probably even still the majority, I think. It's just that there's also a crapload who do not have that and think they win by sharing everything, even if they don't win.
“I’m a 90s kid, but not that type of 90s” 😂😂😂 I legit choked on my pasta hearing that 😂
yeah 90s kid = i control my own body, no one tells me who i can or cannot sleep with
@@GX-105D Nah, its essentially a play on words. 90's kid as in grew up in the 1990's vs 90's as in a "body count" in the 90's lol. One of the better dad jokes I've heard.
The whole male vulnerability thing reminds me of something Brene Brown acknowledged in one of her TED talk. She shared a story about a husband who was getting books signed for his wife and daughter. He said they would rather see him die on his white horse than see him fall. She acknowledged that this pressure is real and a serious barrier to male emotional health.
I saw that and he's right. They need him to be strong for them. A father to a daughter especially. He's her rock.
@debanydoombringer1385 I am very grateful that my wife and daughter express to me that I am their rock. But I think there is more to the picture. Vulnerability is not weakness. It requires strength to let people see where you are vulnerable. A strong man does not need to pretend they are invulnerable because he knows he has the strength to protect his vulnerabilities if necessary. A "strongman" spends enormous amounts of energy trying to convince everyone that he is invulnerable because he knows he is too weak to deal with any kind of genuine assault. Much of what our culture holds up as strong male behavior is actually a pattern of abject cowardice.
At some point, our culture began to confuse strongmen with strong men. The result is that too many men believe they need to project invulnerability, and too many women believe that about men too. The result is male female relationships devoid of sincere and direct emotional communication.
I cry openly in front of my wife and daughter, and they love and respect me for it. They know that I have the courage to let them see my vulnerabilities. The know I have the strength to fight when I am terrified. They know have genuine strength and not false bravado that will crumble when faced with a genuine threat.
a lot of women need validation from other women it used to be cliques, smal groups of super close friends, gossiping in the hairdressers, but the net has broadened the pool of people.
My question is why does anyone post anything on social media anymore? I wonder if humans are ever gonna realize how utterly pointless it is. It's like screaming into the void. Not to mention how toxic the entire environment of the internet has become. It's probably better to just touch some grass and talk to some people in the real world. Also not gonna pretend i dont see the irony of making this comment lmao. Idk man, they really have masterfully built a system that maximizes our despair havent they.
@adamjames8854 I totally agree with you! I never really understood this whole concept of sharing everything about your life everywhere (but for the attention I guess😅)...
It's not like we live in the virtual world, what does it bring people posting so much online, when they live in the real world. I can understand if you want to like make a page to keep your photo memories with your friends or family so that you can come back to it and remind yourself of the good time you had back then, but over sharing?? Nooo...
I don't get it, how could someone have the need to tell thousand and thousand of TOTAL strangers, you never even met and you didn't even know EXIST, every little thing about your life!!💀💀💀
Gonna add, I'm Gen Z, so I guess it's all individual. I would feel very violated, if I that, but to each their own I guess ...🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
I’m with you. Came of of Facebook and IG because of this. Twitter is toxic but there are still some people I follow who post good content.
I’m with you. Came of of Facebook and IG because of this. Twitter is toxic but there are still some people I follow who post good content.
I truly have learned that social media is for those who lack intelligence. Mostly. Of course there are those who are boosting their business on social media, that’s not most people on social media though from my experience
Why? Cause they want the clicks.
I have always been told men sleep with who they can and women sleep with who they want that to me is so scary bc i think we SHOULD SLEEP WITH ONLY ONE PERSON whatever happened to saving yourself for love and marriage i hate these new trends and relationships
Right? You’d think it would be common sense, but it’s the twenty first century.
I've always been told that men place women in one of two categories; Madonna or whore. And he only takes the Madonna home to mom and then marry. Pick your category.
You don't have to wait for marriage to have sex, you don't have to be promiscous and have a high body count either.
My friend gets really bad bloats before her period and she went to the gym. A man congratulated her for being such a fit pregnant person and she just laughed and said thank you! She actually found it a compliment
That’s the best way to live your life honestly 😂✌🏻
There are some herbal teas for PMS that would help with bloat. Have her go to an herbal store. She would be much more comfortable.
21 minutes in - Any person, male or female, who is close to triple digits is someone with some deep seated emotional issues. I’ve never met a person who engaged in that level of compulsive sexual activity who was a mentally well adjusted person.
And if its a woman with that body count they bave been having sex with 30 year olds when they were 17 every time...
True, there’s no way I could even find that many people i would be willing to touch yet alone talk to. This goes for men and women. It is a corrupt, brainwashed mentality to believe that men are more sexual. Instead men and women have been brainwashed to believe that being perverse is a man trait. It’s Not. It’s a character defect that society has convinced men and women that it’s normal and ok because they’re men. I’ve never met a man that can sexually keep up with most women. Only a very naive person would believe men are actually more sexual.
Even mid double digits is already problematic. Close to triple digits is just insane.
Honestly, even 20 is pushing it. Put 20 people in a room, that's a LOT of people.
I knew a single mom that hooked up with as many guys as she possibly could. Eventually one of those guys molested her kid, she just kept on with the behavior though..
The Ls are all Ws for comedy. I've never laughed so hard during a segment.
My grandmother used to write to men in prison after her first husband died back in the 70s. She met a man through it who she married when he was released and they lived happily for over 20 years until he passed away. She vehemently stated he was the love of her life. He was the only grandfather I really knew and one of the best men I’ve ever met.
My wife was the total opposite of “my type”, we have been together for 13 years, she’s amazing and I’m glad she gave this weirdo a shot 🤣
Opposites attract. Very happy for you both.
can we bring back wearing flowers as a "secret" language to signal if it's ok to approach among other things
What does that mean? I’m not familiar with this
@@backdoorsluts_9 there is a flower from the Victorian secret language of flowers that women could wear that visually signaled they didn’t want to be approach, there are also a variety of flowers to indicate interest in someone you could just hand it to them and walk away for them to have time to consider it. I was reading about it and thought that be very useful nowadays since ppl are so awkward with each other
@@shalimardamere302wasn’t there a trend like that regarding rings?
never heard of a ring language, was it more recent? @@darklordsauron3415
Salon Mag: Amala is a right-wing grifter.
Amala's Audience: ONE OF US! ONE OF US!
Sorry? But what she is telling, is at many places on earth LEFT...
Because of 'realistic humanism, empathy, responsibility, sustainability'.
And what these narcissistic wannabe lefties tell is asholism, insane *to a part*.
Amala, may have a strict view on when a women has to become babies...^^
Right a “grifter” lol, she’s probably the most unbiased person on social subjects that I listen to. She speaks carefully out of respect for others in hopes not to offend those who think differently yet encouraging them to step into the conversation as well. That is Not what a grifter is at all. This is what happens when morons use words they have no true understanding upon
lol, Im one of those viewers who leans more liberal and disagrees with some of amala's views, but, I'll take it XD
@@elettramia6380 anyone who doesn't spout every last left wing thing perfectly is a "right wing grifter"
Yeah, "Salon" is some sort of impartial judge of where people fit on the political spectrum. Them and the CPUSA.
The men not approaching women is so true, I had a group of people in an old job and they decided to say I was stalking them on a Whatapp group, which I was not. I went to a superior (it was a female superior) showing what they were saying and after reading the messages she sided with me and called the people. This people only excuse was that they didnt know I was on the whatapp group to be able to read it. I was lucky, but others hasn’t gotten that good with situations like this.
Oooookay. I have had four kids. My babies were big. I've had three cesareans, and I have not been able to do the work on my core to get those muscles in place (did I mention I have four kids? I know some moms can make it happen. I am not one of them). I am also a bit overweight. And all of my weight goes right there to me abdomen. My legs, arms, and face look pretty fit. So I just look pregnant. All the time. Even when I'm decently fit. I have plenty of people assume I'm pregnant.
But you know what? I have accepted this. And when people say this, I tell them I'm just fat, but then I tell them about my core and stuff. Some friends are offended on my behalf, but I just can't fault people, because I really, really, really look pregnant. And I really want to do the work on my core, but it's so hard to find the time, and I'm decently certain you have to be very consistent to see results... So...
Anyway. I think it would be a healthy thing if people were just more understanding of people...
I seriously have taken pictures and put them on my Facebook page of me 100% not pregnant but posing like I'm pregnant, because I LOOK PREGNANT. All the time. (I make it explicitly clear that I'm not pregnant. Just, "See? I look so pregnant. Even though I'm not.")
And it's half just the way things are for my body and it's another half my fault. (And when you're Catholic and have four kids already, people just assume you're going to have another one.)
29:00 I never dated a guy less than 6'2" with lanky builds, and then I met "HIM". I was 19, he was 25. He is 5'9" with broad shoulders, fore-arms bigger than my calves, curly blonde hair, silvery blue eyes and a smile that would make you tell him all of Victoria's secrets. We have been married for 25 years and have 6 kids, and I'm still telling him all of Victoria's secrets.😉 I never knew he was my type until he was.
I dated a Mexican girl who came onto me strong. She told me, "I never thought I would like a white boy until I saw you".
but did you tell him constantly while watching movies or seeing other men out there, that you prefer their looks, achievements and so on? because this hurts men. not being good enough.
Not all women carry pregnancy the same. With both my boys I only carried in the front giant basketball bellies- but I HATED strangers coming up trying to touch me. Yes, they do that. I would tell them I wasn’t pregnant I was just fat so they would feel uncomfortable too and leave me alone. Now I was very obviously pregnant- but pregnancy belly doesn’t always “disappear” right after you deliver. I’ve seen someone congratulate a woman that had just experienced a loss through etopic pregnancy. If you don’t know them personally- just keep your mouth shut. Some women love the attention, and some don’t. 🤷♀️
Thank you! Could not agree more! We have no idea what others are going through. This is where self control and accountability come into play. Just don't say a darn thing. I never bring up pregnancy with a women ever unless I know without a shadow of a doubt that they're pregnant. My mom lost her baby at full term an hour after he was born. I can't imagine someone asking about it. 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
For me it was the opposite, my daughters were very small babies and I had high blood pressure so I was very bloated, my relatively small belly just blended in, I didn't look pregnant I looked fat
@@radhiadeedou8286 I have a longer torso so until about 7 months I could pass as fat with my second baby(I still had baby weight from my first) until I got the rock hard baby bump belly. The amount of people that would still try to touch my stomach was insane. My second was a very big baby at 10lbs at birth and did a lot of muscular damage so even now 2 years later I still have the baby pouch on my lower stomach and of if I eat a lot I bloat and look pregnant.
I looked pregnant for 5 months after lol and everyone was like when are you having your baby. I did four months ago. I'm usually really small but I've had 5 kids... I have digestinal diabetes and gained 50 pounds when pregnant and I'm 128 not pregnant... So IDK it really hurts my feelings when someone says something
@rockeedanylle1814 RE: your mentioning of people trying to touch you.
I remember when I was younger, maybe 25-ish (33 now) and there was a young girl at my job who was pregnant. I was like, "Wow!" I reached out my hand and hovered and asked "Can I?" She said "No! No, no. But I have to say, I appreciate that you asked first. Most people just touch and I don't like it." I never forgot that.
When I was pregnant with my first child my ex who was clearly incompetent started to think that all women with a large stomach meant they were pregnant. It was so embarrassing and I constantly had to check him when we were out in public. He was walking around openly talking about women who looked 50 years old saying he could tell they were pregnant. Women who clearly were just over weight and were obviously not pregnant
😂😂😂 Jeez did they hear him? Did anyone ever say anything?
My take is the L’s are getting them tons of views, so they keep feeding the monster and they intensify for shock value. People probably like watching these because they’re either relatable or make them feel better about their own lives lol.
You got it really good! Also Zoey is a scary name.
I knew someone who had cancer and it made her look pregnant. She had to tell people all the time that she wasn't
Ok understood, next time I want to break up with a girl I just get drunk and start getting emotional about something in my past. Sorted.
I’m bi and I have so much anxiety the times I have tried hitting on a woman. I totally get why it is so hard for guys to approach women. It’s super nerve wracking and even as a woman I was worried about coming off as a creep.
Don’t be afraid of rejection 🤷♀️ it’s part of the game. If they don’t want to talk to you or are rude which sucks, it wasn’t meant to be or the right time. Don’t let it get to your head. And plus, it shows courage and makes you brave to put yourself out there and out of your comfort zone taking a risk. Young people are cruel sometimes.
For me, oversharing (some things) is a public service I do to make people understand they are not alone. As someone who has working in behavioral health I know how many people feel the stigma of discussing life’s difficulties and I don’t ever want people to feel like they are the only ones dealing with it. This goes more for domestic abuse (mostly emotional) and family trauma. I don’t think it’s shameful to discuss the things we go through, as long as it is helpful to others.
Shoe doesn't post a lot, but it's pure gold when she does.
That's why you can trust her tho. She isn't depending on your funds
@@thelordsephiroth777 Never trust any entertainer.
@@michaelh370 Even comedians?
Omg, the "school bully will end up fat and alone" lie! My bully ALSO became a body builder😅 and my daughter's bully is the child of a former college athlete.
The mother of my granddaughter's bully was a senior social worker!!
I know it’s dysfunctional of me, but if my kid had a bully I’d be tempted to get them listening to comedians and roasts, dis tracks and whatever and teach them the valuable skill of learning how to read a b!+ch 😅 it’s also my fantasy.. non-violent, smooth AF and hilarious. Unstoppable lol
i gotta put something into perspective for my boy hawking - at the time he was having the procedure done at the hospital where he later on fell in love with one of the nurses that cared for him after the procedure, at that time, his then still wife was on her second or third affair with a choirmaster at her local church in Cambridge.
ginger nursey just had to swoop in there and sooth a scientists broken heart
You know what I've realized is weird about social media? You see these content creators a couple times a week, and you grow a connection with them through shared interests, but they have NO idea who you are. It's oddly sad, if you think about it.
@@minki46664 Yeah, but they don't talk to you on a personal level like they're your buddies. Content creators talk to you like your friends would, so it kind of feels like part of your social circle. Just found it to be an odd social dynamic.
For example: If a painful event happened in Amala's life, I would have a friendship-level emotional response to it.
It's just a interesting symbiotic relationship that social media has presented.
i know Shoe has said she's not as good unscripted, but a part of me deep within my soul is still begging for a crossover
Play the victim is one of the strength of this modern feminine era
Modern feminists in general draw power from being "victims"
It's always been that. Feminism is predicated on the idea of females being victims of males. Without that feminism falls apart.
@@Indygo9 the thing is though it used to be somewhat true back when the original Feminist movement started. It just isn't true anymore.
Its the first play they rip from the book when deny deny deny fails them
@@cynthiahembree3957 yeah it was based on getting the right to work, vote and own property. well they got that so what is it based on now? gimmie gimmie gimmie
I love Taylor. Taylor is masculine but has some curved edges, intelligent but with humility so its not overbearing and vulnerable but not sappy so it isnt irritating. I hope im raising my son to be this type of person and my daughter to seek this type of partner.
For most women nothing is confidential. If another woman is the least bit interested everything is up for grabs.
Men expect some things to be kept confidential by their wives and girlfriends. Expectations are very often completely ignored.
As a person that has gained weight and it looks like I’m pregnant because I gained 75% in my belly like a Pregnant stomach. I don’t like when people ask if I’m pregnant. It’s upsetting and I immediately get embarrassed and very self conscious for days. Also doesn’t help that I had a miscarriage right before I gained the weight so people who knew I was pregnant just think im growing and it sucks having to say I lost the baby and just kept growing with fat:
Just curious. How do those previous bad things inhibit you from making better choices now?
Being hated by Salon is one of the things I least worry about in life. Which is to say, not at all.
I've had people TWICE ask if I was pregnant.... and I'm not. Lets not pretend: I know what I look like (pre-diabetic). I have mirrors. I just laugh and say ' nope, no baby, just fat!" and do all I can to alleviate their discomfort by laughing at the situation. Let just try being kind to people with good intentions. Lets just cut each other some slack.
Amala, I absolutely enjoyed your expressions on this one, not even to mention as a 58 year old woman "learning" stuff that is mind bogling about today's generation. Love you and your show.
I love Shoe, and love you, Amala. She worked hard and made a stellar video, and thank you for your contribution, too.
I'm a single guy. I'm very afraid to approach a woman anymore because any move that you do wrong will turn into a lawsuit and ruin the rest of your life.
Or she takes your sperm and you have to send money for 18 years. It's insane.
Old canadian guy. Watch you faithfully. Thank you. The Cool Aid man hitting the wall analogy has me rolling. Thanks to that genius.
I love when my man feels safe enough to share his emotions with me. I dont like it when men I already don't like cry.
Kinda agree with both comments, I like when people are comfortable enough to be vulnerable with me, but crying makes me uncomfortable especially when it's a stranger. I'd probably check still to see if they're alright though.
@@zerotwo8245 Narcissism is more an XY-chromosome haver thing, though. We already know men hate their children.
Maybe I'm too awkward but I can't think about liking or disliking whether a man or woman cries. Babies/children are something else since it can get annoying/distressing but adults?
I think the problem with vulnerability is that it has its time in its place. When you are starting to date, most women want a man who is stable, stoic, who knows how to handle stressful situations, along with the rest of the characteristics that can be considered attractive. It's completely different when you are in a long-term relationship and your partner needs your support and opens up to you in a time of need, by then your love for that person makes you want to comfort and support him.
I've seen the insecurity of needing the passwords from those who have been cheated on more often than the narcissist who's cheating
Amala just clarified the two types of people. There are people who will do stupid things just to be able to post it online, and then there are people that won't post that even if water boarded.
In the UK Rizlas are rolling papers for smoking/toking. Don't know if that helps?
They’re different :)
Hey we use the same ones in Belgium 😁
My boyfriend helped me tune up my bike-sprayed all the springs/joints with WD40, replaced my brake pads, and it made him so happy! (Until one of them wasn’t doing what it was supposed to, then he got very serious 😂)
I loved it
Im 41 and ive been in many relationships in my younger years. I was vulnerable one time in my whole life to my most last resent almost wife of 7 years. Guess what happened... she cheated and left, Never again will i make the mistake of showing my feelings to another woman.
I'm old. I'm 54, so I do not understand these people who air their dirty laundry in public. It is just unfathomable to me.
Love you guys! Great episode, needed the laughs…but also got a few scare’s. 😅
Sympathy’s a hell of a drug
Its called "covert narcissism". Its the particular flavour of attention seeking self-centredness that is based on getting empathy from strangers by telling them about the bad stuff in your life, whether true or not.
Oh come on, the "you should see my T*TS" comment was pure comedy gold!! I legit LMAO at that one when it was read! I bet that girl is FUNNY!
I just told my mom I’m going to the store do you want anything. And she said no. Then as I’m walking out the door she said can I change my mind? Lmao stereotypes are stereotypes for a reason
Text my wife when I get to the store “at the store, need anything?”. Always answers no. Then when I get back to the truck, I get the text with half a dozen things in it….and back into the store I go.
If a woman has a body count that’s higher than like 2 per year since you turned 18, she doesn’t see sex as something that’s part of a relationship… If I’m dating, I’m looking for a serious relationship, not looking to be just one of a hundred other guys she doesn’t care about.
I’m at the start of the video googling “what are women posting their L’s” - oh Losses! Sometimes things need explaining right at the start! Not wait until the 2nd video of the girl finally explain it. Please help out us that don’t learn the lingo straight away?
Always love watching you and your commentary ❤
Your partner wanting to see your phone constantly doesn’t mean they’re cheating every time. I used to be like this after I got cheated on and I’ve never cheated but I was constantly worried my next partner was hiding something.
I’m not saying it’s right just that it doesn’t mean they’re cheating. There’s many nuances to this convo
Love shoe! Been watching her content for a long time.
“The internet is your modern diary”
I’ve never heard something so terrifying yet true
I like that not everything on the internet is good. I like that people 'overshare' because it's amazing how often one can relate to the oversharing. It makes life easier knowing everyone is going through something.
I didn’t watch shoes video so thanks for covering it and adding to it I love your channel l
I don't have to make exceptions. I'm only attracted to people that I like as a person and woman. Both things are important, personality, woman, anything else doesn't really matter for me.
Bacon matters.
@@RedX32 Not really. If they like bacon, we both bring in more bacon. If they don't like bacon, more bacon for me.
Amala please make a video of your take on the ballad of songbirds and snakes!! I need it 🙏🏼🙏🏼 maybe on your other channel with Risa?
The idea of a man asking/begging his wife for an open relationship is absolutely baffling to me. To most men, the idea of another guy boning his wife/gf is so repellant that even the idea of sleeping with 5 or 10 beautiful women in exchange wouldn't seem worthwhile.
On the unsolicited "congratulations" on being pregnant. I had a second trimester miscarriage, still looked pregnant, and was congratulated. I did not take it well, and I feel completely justified 10 years later that I used my entire quota of adult words for the year while I ugly cried. I hope that old woman learned to never congratulate random women buying milk in the super market.
I don't understand why this is a thing. Seriously, you don't know what people are going through.
Seriously I don't think anyone gets very much joy from being congratulated on being pregnant from random strangers when they ARE pregnant, so just WHY??? I never ever even if they are wearing a t-shirt that says "Baby on board" or something
Or, you could just have an iota of compassion that this woman intended to be kind, and had no idea of your pain. There was NO reason to unload your pain onto an innocent person who only meant to be kind. I'm sure if you had politely said 'actually, I just lost the baby', the woman would have had compassion for you that you denied her.
@@user-qe8cs8qo6b The response to the polite,"I just lost my baby" is a mumbled "oh" and retreating as fast as replacement hips will carry them. It's pretty fast.
Social maxims are there for a reason. Don't assume someone is pregnant isn't there just for fat people. It can be much worse. You might become part of one of the worst days in someone's life and 10 years later, they will still be glad they broke all social conventions and called you out on your lack of common sense.
@@mallorycarpinski1160 They're wearing that to draw attention to the fact they're pregnant. I was always fine with people congratulating me. I was told I'd never carry a baby to term so yeah, it was a big deal. People sharing in my joy was a good thing. It made people, particularly other women, happy to see someone having children. Especially in today's day and age where women are made to feel guilty for having them and told it's wrong to do so from so many places. Having someone be happy you are can help ease that guilt parts of society are putting on them.
@@stefaniejohnson29 Yeah you posted your L. As good as it felt to take your anger and pain out on that woman, it was wrong. She didn't do anything to you and you being proud still that you did that says way more about you than her. I bet you also think people shouldn't constantly be walking around on eggshells worried they'll offend somebody, but here you are saying they should because it offended you. You're "you don't know what other people are going through" goes right back to you. You don't know what SHE was going through either or had been through. It's not a one way street. You're not the main character in the world's story.
I don’t approach women anymore…at all. Not worth the small chance we’re compatible.
Same here. All I see among women is rampant disease, mental instability, selfishness and the pretense (albeit warped) of motherly virtue. There are few times that I've ever felt so "by myself" as when I've been IN a romantic relationship with a woman. It's absolutely torturous being with them (relationship-wise).
You know, interestingly, women are a lot like people.
@@vae8652 Yeah, cause the subject-matter of this video is "people" in general. Thanks, I missed that, because of all the talk about women... and that pesky title: "Women Do Post Their Ls?"
@@normanmcneal9394 pretty sure that was more pointed at the "I don't approach women at all" part of the comment rather than denying that there are some women who act crazy.
@@Cardinal_claw perhaps you're right. If so, my apologies for the snarkiness.
I once got caught halfway through a door when a woman approached. At that time there were stories about men being fired for crowding a woman at a door. I almost hurt my back trying to get out of the way.
When I told some people about this I was told that I should be hurt because men were so evil.
Sorry life is hard. If you are in a liberal state, you should likely evacuate.
If someone told me i had to choose between them and a hobby of mine i'd be ready to leave too. Not because my hobbies are more important to me than my relationship, but because the very act of giving me such an ultimatum is a huge red flag. The fact that that guy chose his playstation over a 10 year marriage tells me there were deeper issues, which was already implied by the very existence of the ultimatum.
Besides the great opinions here, you have a very endearing laugh. Great job on the video guys always entertaining. 😊
Message to women:
Please don't sleep with us and then block us, that's mean.
There's nothing worse than having sex and then having peace and quiet afterwards.
Lmao 😅
You say this as if women are actually having sex with you