That Time I Went on Jubilee Middle Ground: Trans vs. Conservative - Unapologetic LIVE
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Jubilee creates weekly videos that aim “to create a movement of empathy for human good.” I recently filmed a video with Jubilee titled “Trans vs Conservative Women” where two conservative women and I went back and forth with three trans women on many of today's most pressing debates about gender. Let’s watch and react!
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0:00 - Intro
1:35 - Is The Trans Movement Indoctrinating Youth?
20:00 - The Trans Bathroom Debate
39:15 - Should Trans Women Compete In Female Sports?
54:53 - Gender Dysphoria Is Real
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With all due respect . I cannot stand to listen to Blossom, when someone is that much of a victim , it’s really mentally exhausting
I 100% Agree. It was so frustrating listening to her
@@anaxmalakas I like your name :) my best friend is Greek !
Let me be clear.. The reality of the fact of the matter is... 😅😂😂🤕
With all disrespect, I can’t stand listening to blossoms big ass. His thinking is so wrong on so many levels
I agree she wants to fight constantly.
To any trans person, if you behave and speak like Blossom, do not get surprised if people will treat you as if you are an ignorant child, if you behave like Gina, people will treat you like an actual nice lady and try to understand your side of the story... and to all trans folks, representation matters, if you choose Blossom to represent you, well dont get surprised if you are met with the same level of ignorance and denying attitude she gives.
Ehhh I can’t argue for that cuz I’ll never again affirm a delusion in a human being
@@Ja_Skulli If you heard the brief explanation of Gina's story, Amala explains that Gina was actually born Intersex meaning she was born with discrepancy between the external genitals and the internal genitals. The doctor told her parents to pick a gender for her since she was born this way and they chose male. It's hard to say for Gina's situation but I don't know if she actually felts she was a woman because she was born with some woman parts or if it's a delusion. It's very hard to say though.
@@starlovelndh as a christian, this is the argument I've always presented to fellow christians - ever since coming across this fact in a medical show in middle school, I always try to educate and remind myself that nuance exists, and encourage my peers to do so as well
I behave like Gina, and was always disrespected.
To prejudiced people, it doesn't matter your character, your behavior, your qualitys, all they see is a person they hate, a low class being.
@@amandavieira2543 The saying our boomer ancestors still say holds up.
You get the respect that you show other people.
Blossom has to be one of the worst advocates for her movement I've seen in flesh. She embodies the twitter mindset. It's impressive how terrible her viewpoints are.
for realll
impressive and embarassing..
My 9 year old son had come to me and said that he thought he was gay. I asked him why do you think that. He said ,"Well, because I like boys and I like girls." I said,' you can like a lot of people for their personalities and who they are, but it's not the same as being attracted to them. you're too little to worried about whether you're gay or not. All you need to worry about right now is learning in school and making friends. Everything else comes later." He said,' I'm good at making friends. So I'm doing OK." I told him when he gets older we can talk about it again and that was the last of it. I'm sure one day he'll bring it backup, but for the moment, he is no longer concerned about his sexuality.
@@juliad368 Thank you. I was really caught off guard but I tried hard to respond and not react. Gotta make your kids feel safe talking to you or they'll stop telling you stuff you know.
As a gay man, I 100% support what you told ur kid. Subjects like this should be discussed once a child is of proper age, not at 9. You’re a good mom! ❤️
@nussisalman5642 Thank you it's hard sometimes to be a parent
I wish other parents did this instead of scaring their kids :((
So much respect for that response. You handle parenting well! I support this message you shared as a bi person.
Blossom: “kids should be able to express themselves by transitioning” others: “what about the permanent effects and how it changes their body?” Blossom: “it doesn’t change their body”
Also blossom: “trans women should be able to compete in woman’s sports bc hormones makes them weaker”
I’m confused 😂
Howly mowly that’s a bunch of likes, thank you ❤️
Insanity
It changed the brain for sure
Blossom should not be chosen again. She made the conversation dumber
Lol omg good point.
She's somehow dumb enough (plays dumb) when it comes to the trans in sports arguments but she sure ain't dumb enough to wear that black trans lives matter t-shirt when debating,
No you are not confused ,she is confused
Bless her heart
What hurt me the most was watching everyone respect blossoms pronouns, then when that 1 girl states "I'm not a cis woman, I'm a woman" blossom doubled down on it.
They do love a double standard sprinkled with some hypocrisy x
I’ve said this over and over again. I am not a cis woman. I am a woman.
@@AnActualWoman you may enjoy the #womenwontwheesht if you're unfamiliar with it x
Because no one hates women more than trans(not all but quite a lot(
Exactly! I got really mad about that myself. They want everyone to respect their pronouns, but won’t respect the ones that don’t want to be referred to as “cis”. Like she said on the video, I’m not a cis woman, I am a woman!
If only every trans person were as real as gina
That is what a truly gender dysphoric person is… born with both so they have both hormones fighting to be dominant. Anyone else not born with both is mentally ill.
Seriously, everytime she spoke she spat so much facts my house flooded
@@fletchqc9900 lmaooo
I don’t even view her as trans. She was born truly with the ability to choose, but she didn’t get to choose.
She’s one of the only people qualified to be who they are.
SHE KIND 0F ISNT TRANS
SHE WAS B0RN-'C0NTAINING EACH-PART' (BUT I MIGHT BE MISTAKEING-C0NCIDARING SHE ISNT APARENTLY-HERMAPHR0DITE)
THIS PART DID C0NFUSED ME
Your ability to actually listen to other people's viewpoints and empathize with them is something I really strive to emulate.
It's a skill that people choose not to use because they need to feel more important than the other. It's just the selfishness of people in this divided western world nowadays.
She literally had Blossom debate Buck Angel on her show and listened to Blossom blabbering for 2 hours straight without getting a mental breakdown. Our queen Amala ❤
As a female marine you will NEVER convince me that men and women are the same physically. I've been punched in the face by both men and women. With women it barely hurt for men I had bruises for weeks. There is an absolute difference. Those that say otherwise either never competed with both or is bought and paid for
Totally agree! And thanks for your service 🇺🇸
It's that kind of nonsense they are pushing that's degrading the culture in general and even our national security now too! Because instead of having separate qualifications for men and women (I'm not sure if it's all military or only the army or something) now America has lowered its standards so everyone has to go through the same process and can you guess what's happening? More men of course
All due respect, you’re lucky. The right guys hit you that’s teeth gone and instant concussion or a lengthy loss of consciousness. It’s not even close.
@@sirgalalot88 I agree! I can't stand it when women say they are the same....like no no you're not!
@@sirgalalot88 only because we weren't supposed to go for the face, but most women use a face jab to try and end it quickly. They just get their chest kicked in by me
@@semperpieeatordie6990 May I ask, if there are any physical aspects where women are better in your opinion? Thank you for your service.
Blossom: what are the statistics to prove your point
Amala: answers question and throws it back
Blossom: we don't need statistics🤨
Girl please
I was just about to comment the same thing. I really don't like Blossom lol.
Blossom is the pure example of how the transgender community thinks. He is short minded & contradicts himself alot
@@thembelihlemazibuko3881
"Her Self" apparently 😂
@@nicolaeentertainment8280 in his wildest dreams lol
the blossom guy reminds of of every gay dude with an agenda ....u cant put labels and new terminology on the majority ...they act like they fight is racial when its not ....yall have a choice to turn trans u could just hide that shiit...u cant hide race
Asked my friends son how he liked middle school and he said, "I don't. Everyone's gay, trans, or talks about pronouns or they're sad. It's so weird." 😒
Tbf I was in middle school 20+ years ago at this point and dear God that was by far my worst and least favorite experience schoolingwise. I was encouraged on quite a regular basis to off myself since I am a dude who tends to enjoy more traditionally "female" activities like being in drama, drawing, writing, singing, and wasn't very athletic (I'm also a superrrrrr short adopted Latino in an almost entirely white town who wore glasses and had a mushroom cut for a long time lol so there was alottttt for bullies to work with lol. That being said! I can't even IMAGINE going through middle school now. I barely spoke to anyone then, I sure as hell wouldn't ever open my mouth now if I was that age.
With Blossom, it's like arguing with a damn wall. You can't get through to her. That or she knows damn good and well what the truth is, she just doesn't want to admit it.
Well said
Yeah she makes me wanna throw a cup of hot coffee at her head
The way she brings race into everything when the prompts have nothing to do with that is really annoying
She does this in every single video she’s in. It ruins the debate every time she talks because she’s not listening to the other side of the debate she’s just talking about whatever she wants to say..
@@shivvWhore She pulls the race card in hopes of getting more sympathy and the feeling of “oh I’m so oppressed”
I'm triggered that Blossom kept misgendering the women on the panel by calling them "Cis Women." At least one explicitly stated that she did not want to be referred to as a "cis woman" and Blossom seems to continue using it in spite of that. Meanwhile even those on the other side are respecting her pronouns. She is a super problematic ideologue.
Cisgender isn’t some sort of alien 3rd gender, it literally means you’re a biological male or female who identifies with your natural biology. It’s “I’m not transgender” but in less words.
Yes exactly ! People’s feelings only matter if they share the same opinion as you
Pretty sure that is a HE not a "she". No way will I sink so low as to call people what they want me to when it is not true and sink to the level of delusion. Anyone who calls that "hate" is projecting their own personality because it is wrong to dictate what others say much less think. I will not be a part of that lie and if they believe it is rude then just do not speak with me and I will not speak with them.
It's a totally one-way straight. See also- your safety/feelings/opportunities don't matter as long as I get mine.
Best way to deal with it is ignore its existence. These weird identifiers only make things worse. They are confusing and mostly pointless besides trans which to the actual committed ones proves a real change that is on approaching the level of man and woman. All the others are jokes.
I’m trans, but blossom is exactly why people have a hard time accepting trans identities. I agreed with Gina for the most part, but it is so annoying when people with a victim complex like Blossom are given a huge platform like this Jubilee video and cannot understand or accept that nuance exists. I also appreciate that Amala is respectful of the other side. Most conservative media focuses on mocking us or accusing us or grooming children. I wish more people approached this topic with empathy like her.
I have met many many trans people who are wonderful. But when I hear the arguments from the more vocal members of the community, I just can't.
Well, if I’m being honest, it’s not that I have a hard time accepting trans identities
I have a hard time promoting a terrible lifestyle cuz there’s proof it’s not stable. Blossom is an extreme example of a wide problem.
@@Ja_Skulli there is proof to the contrary, actually.
@@AmberPremo Check the amount of people gathered for that research, and the reliability of it.
If anything, the risk goes up in people experiencing transgenderism, and I have experienced first-hand that people who come out as “trans” are fragile and weak-minded.
For instance, i simply told a trans MTF friend that “men can’t be women” and that it’s unhealthy to be what they’re being, and now im being called a terrorist.
If your ideology is really that healthy, then why is it that expressing an opinion of the contrary can hurt y’all so easily? It’s because y’all know the truth and are denying it. I don’t know why, but it’s not healthy.
I just wish you would get real help for your problems rather than create a fictional world where you need affirmation. I’m hoping that’s not completely who you are, but the last shred of hope I had for your people has pretty much even destroyed by having sensitive trans friends.
If you disagree, then prove me wrong.
@@Ja_Skulli yeah I’m sure your anecdotal evidence is more reliable than peer-reviewed studies 🤣
Id dare to say that I am neither fragile nor weak-minded. I enjoy hearing other perspectives on everything, including trans discourse. I think your proclivity to assume you know better than others you disagree with on trans issues is born from either willful ignorance or from a disgust response. Theres very few trans folk who actually believe we can become the opposite biological sex. Those who do are probably delusional in some way, sure. It is also delusional to think that you have any authority to dictate how other people choose to live their life.
i love how you explained gender dysphoria. 4 year olds can’t comprehend the concept of being attracted to someone so when a 4 year old says they “like” someone of the same sex maybe they just really enjoy the friendship. but if you tell them that’s not right it changes their perspective
Exactly, kids don’t have sexual attraction and don’t have the same amount of hormones as teens or adults do
I am a gay man, and I had a girlfriend at the age of four. Kids can definitely NOT comprehend the concept of attraction lol 😂
But do they "like" like them? Even the word "like" implies sexuality now, or at least romance. Can't we just like people?
I remember my friends in kindergarten were 2 boys. It didn't mean I was a trans boy. I liked them because they were fun.
I love how Blossom demands for others to give her statistics and when someone does the same to her she says statistics don't matter😂
For someone who calls themselves a "trans activist" she is very uneducated on trans issues, like she is just objectively wrong in a lot of her takes
Let me correct your comment. Give HIM statistics, HE says statistics don't matter
@@dreamcatchernewjeansstan I stand corrected😂
@@dreamcatchernewjeansstanI think blossom goofy too but: ooh you called her a man you really did something there that's such a crazy roast.. because she's trans right?!? hilarious
@@oceanlawnlove8109 I was not trying to be hilarious or something I simply do not believe a man can become a woman and I am not going to pretend that he is a woman just to not hurt his feelings
I had a crush on my (same sex) best friend when I was a child (roughly preschool aged). I would tell my mom that I was going to marry them when I grew up. She asked me why I thought that, and I told her, "Because you're supposed to marry your best friend!" She recognized, as I do now, that because I was pre-sexual, my understanding of marriage was that you married your favorite person so you could be with them forever, and of course your best friend is your favorite person. So even though my family was very religious and very conservative, my mom's response was, "I'm so glad you have such a great best friend that you'd want to live with them forever," because telling me _why_ I wasn't going to marry them would've required explaining sex to me, and it wasn't time for that yet.
Exactly! Kids do and say whatever it is within their own understanding, no need to label them anything sexually related since young age
I mean, she didn’t know that you weren’t going to marry them in the future.
I had to tell my kids they couldn't marry each other but they can be roommates lol
I remember when I was preschool and kindergarten aged I thought the same thing, that you marry your best friend.
@@ms.chievouz789so true. Im gay, and had you asked me as a kid if i wanted to be a woman, i would have said yes, bc my friends were girls and all of that, u know.
As I become older I understand the idea of such more, and I am very happy being a gay man, and having my “manhood”.
Kids do not necessarily know the meaning of what they are saying
Blossom is extremely unlikable - the way ‘she’ disrespected Buck made me so angry.
Damn She’s awful
She disrespected everyone by constantly interrupting or talking over them. And every time she asked for data and was given some she disregarded it as if it were imaginary.
He** fixed it for ya
@@AnActualWoman Thank you!
Blossom's aggression is more typical of an XY chromosome than an XX one.
Thanks! I love how well you speak. I used to be a Democrat. As a mother of a gay child, I used to think that I needed to not be a Republican. But seeing and hearing educated conservatives really helped me accept that you can be a conservative but still accept and support my gay child.
I’m a bisexual woman who came out as a young teenager in the 80s who’s parents are/were (my mother has passed away) republicans, and though they were confused, they never gave me any flak over it, we’re only ever supporting. I don’t identify as a Republican, but I am a conservative, and that isn’t because of my parents, but because of my life experiences/choices. I’m so happy you now see that the manipulation of the extreme left has always been to smokescreen the truth that most republicans/conservatives don’t have half the issues we are accused of having. Kudos 👏
This is so refreshing and interesting. I'm a center democrat and when I think republicans and gay people, I always think conservatives are carrying around the bible ready to throw out quotes to attack gay people. I know some do but not all.
Im a gay man, Im not a democrat or a republican. However, i do believe in conservatism. Kids shouldnt be exposed to certain things, and Biology should not be forgotten
I am straight but the sexual preference of a child should not matter. You should just talk with him or her and explain the reality of this world not respecting that preference in general. Just the dangers and risk, after that you should be able to say that you love her or him no matter what.
In a relationship, if a partner says they are going to kill themselves if they don't get something, we call that abusive, regardless of whether that person is dealing with mental issues such as depression. Why is it not considered extremely abusive when trans people use suicide as a way to manipulate people into behaving how they want them to? I've never heard anyone talk about this, but it's always struck me as extremely disturbing.
that's actually a great point
Sorry, but Blossom's intellect and psychological state disqualifies her to participate in a sane debate.
HIS*
Him
Blossom is so aggressive like a man because of biology.
@@debede8296 IT
It seems like Blossom has made a career out of twisting or deliberately misunderstanding what others are saying
She’s a chronic VICTIM.
Mentally ill men cannot think & fathom like sane woman now can they
Blossom is obviously mentally ill. He's delusional and people like that will twist and turn every which way to hold onto their warped sense of reality.
@Inquisitive Gen Z I think people like that only respond when others start doing the same back to them.
Blossom's Testosterone was on high, and he was being aggressive. It's obvious he hates women, and it's obvious he was going after that one mother. He should not be allowed in women's private spaces he's dangerous.
I know this video is older but I just want to say that I used to be quite liberal, and watching your videos has caused me to have a slight change of heart. Though I’m not conservative, I’m definitely more of a moderate. You’re one of the conservative UA-camrs that I agree with mostly. You’re very respectful and express your beliefs in a way that’s appropriate and respectful but still gets the point across. I like the way you approach these topics and aren’t just saying stuff for shock value. Your videos have definitely helped me think critically about both my progressive and conservative beliefs, so I appreciate you.
Speaking as a transwoman myself, Blossom hurts my brain. I feel so scatterbrained trying to follow the dialogue. Augh...
May we all be more real, like Gina. :D
Eh…Gina is an exception that doesn’t apply to everyone in my opinion. I pity them.
@@Ja_Skulli Aye, the fact that Gina's an exception in rational thinking is concerning.
@@coalescence4479 I guess you’re right.
I don’t agree with her “transition” either. The only reason I empathize more there is because they had a genuine defect where they could’ve had the choice to have the genitalia. Then again, they still are a man in terms of a lot so 🥶
@@Ja_Skulli Aye, I think the lot of society could use more empathy and rationality. Even if there are disagreements in terms of transition, I believe we can still come to the discussion table and work together to fix the problems we have.
@@coalescence4479 When you give middle ground to a ideology built off of delusion, you get the type of society we live in.
We need to care enough about our people to treat them with REAL help and not affirming such a delusion as “a man can be a woman”
Besides, promoting this is like telling an anorexic person they’re fat. You just don’t do it because it’s something with obvious bad implications.
Blossom likes to say “the reality of it is”, but doesn’t know what it is.
Yes! You cant be dysphoric and claim to understand a sense of reality 😅
Blossom is a HORRIBLE debater. I couldn’t stand listening to their nonsensical meaningless arguments in your interview with them. And the fact that blossom can never seem to actually stay on topic to answer a question. A lot of talking and saying a whole lot of nothing
When u debated u can bring personal stuff that related to the topic but it can’t be the only way to debate a topic or question . Talking points are just a loosing argument also personal attacks are a way to say i am loosing the debate so let me attack.
She's always off topic
That dude was like a woke encyclopedia.
And its not like blossom is the only one. All these 'woke' people can't properly debate with the facts, but rather play victim and throw their feeling into it
Demons are snatching so many souls. Satan creates confusion and chaos
Blossom sporting those guns and saying "but you don't KNOW I'm stronger than you!" 😂
Love how we are now ciswomen not just women. And if we ask that they call us just women, just as they want to be called what they want.. when biological women say hey i would like to just be referred to as a woman not a “cis” women.. then calling a person what they want to be referred to as is now a problem 😂😂🤯
They are Women Not transwomen nad we are Ciswomen Not Woman!
Re; explaining gayness to kids.
I help raise my niece and sometimes she’ll see my boyfriend over or we’ll go out together. How did I explain this to her?
‘Well one day I might marry David like grandma and granddad are married.’ That’s it. This does not and should not have to be a sexual conversation in any way.
I am a lesbian and I believe that any of these conversations need to be age-appropriate. Or just explain it with you are to young to know about this and once you're older we can have this conversation. The only thing I think should be told to teens once they're at the age of crushes, and relationships is that its okay to have a crush on someone of the same sex. I would also add that in regards to little kids the most that needs to be explained is that some families look different some have a mom and a dad, 2 moms or 2 dads, or single parents. And that is okay.
I just wanted to add a different perspective to the conversation. A lot of people do just brush over homosexuality like its a norm and I do think its a little dishonest. You are absolutely right that your child should know you love them nevertheless and that they are a valued member of society, however when you tell them it's okay, you do tend to give an affirmative political view on the issue. I understand its a mainstream view but I personally wouldn't want to play politics with a child. Let them be a kid, they only have so much time.
@@TryingtoTellYou accepting that some human beings are gay and teaching kids this reality is not affirming their politics beliefs. Wtf are you on about?
@@TryingtoTellYou im sorry but ur kind of contributing to the political problem bro 💀
@@callmemay2777 I don't believe treating people with mental disorders as people with mental disorders is creating any problems but if you want to glorify disability, go to town.
Alot of ppl (i feel) are confusing gender with personality.
That's exactly it for many. Many women will see their "typically male" interests and instead of acknowledging that even though they don't have interests/behaviors that are 100% "typically female" they are still women despite those deviations, (because after all what really makes you a woman is if you're female or not). Vice versa for males.
Here's an idea I tend to express. Gender and sex are not completely detached from each other. Sex is biological fact, and gender is a social construct that derives from the sexes (females tend to be more "motherly," empathic, etc, thus they are identified socially as women [with the main reason for being a woman is being female], males tend to be more "fatherly," stoic, etc. [with the main characteristic of being a man is being male). Males and females tend to have social characteristics that are generally more prevalent in one sex over the other, thus why females are generally identified to have feminine qualities, and that sex AND those qualities are what give birth to word woman. Same thing for males.
To be a woman the characteristic that matters is that the person is female. Presentation and social behavior are secondary. To be a trans-woman the main characteristic of being a trans-woman is to be a male displaying and identifying secondary characteristics to being female/ a woman. I'll leave it at that, as that's not the main point of the conversation, just thought I'd share that idea.
@@eehlohluell My eyes roll into the back of my head anytime someone acts all enlightened then says "you seem to be confusing sex and gender. Because they are actually quite different. You see, gender is just a social construct." BLAH BLAH lol it's like every activist is reading from the same script VERBATIM. Aka another symptom of only being an ideologue and not having a single thought of their own.
Anyways I hear what you're saying but honestly I think it's playing into their whole word game by conceding the words aren't related, even the slightest. Stacia Renee (first comment) has it right. They are confusing gender with personality. Period. Think back even 10 years ago this was a non issue. On every form you ever filled out sex and gender were used interchangeably but now it's more nuanced. Going into even more detail the truth is sex was the obvious physical characteristics and gender was referring to language. But like I said that eventually got mixed together to be interchangeable and now they are trying to redefine that. I'm so sick of the words games and semantics they use
@R G I may not have made it very clear in my first comment, but I do acknowledge sex and gender are, in fact, related(add to clarify: they are not just related, gender _derives_ from sex, as gender uses the sexes and their particular behavior to define gender roles culturally). "Sex" refers to solely the biological facts of sex, and gender refers to the sex and the social aspects of that sex-- the biological and the social. On a technicality, "gender is a social construct" isn't completely wrong, but it leaves out that it is a "social construct" *based on sex* --- a biological observable fact.
I don't think this is entirely different to what you said, however, I think it might contribute to your point.
When you say, "gender was referring to language" I'm understanding you mean that "women" is the social way we refer to females and "men" is the social way we refer to males. If I'm understanding correctly, I can comfortably say I agree with that statement.
Language itself is a "social construct" in the most literal sense as it was something we humans invented(refined: as in they are a string of sounds essentially) to be able to communicate with each other (to be social). (Animals too have social constructs to communicate with each other [chirping, dancing, flaunting] if that helps understand what I mean)
*My thought/elaboration to this is that gender is the social language we use to describe a biological objective fact.*
I don't think acknowledging humans were able to come up with a creative way of transmitting reality with other humans is playing into their word game, but putting an end to their bastardization/"making a game" of the purpose of words and their meaning. They've been taking words and breaking them down, making a mockery of language: an example would be the word "woman". They've twisted it around so much that there's people who reduce what that word means to "it's whatever you want it to be". Being some form of Nihilism comes to mind.
Although all language is "made up," the reality is they are meant to convey is a tangible reality, if not the self-evident truth about our nature and the nature of the world. I'm not very confident I expressed myself very well on this last paragraph, but I hope some of it sticks lol
They all are. Instead of simply dressing and put in on makeup because they like to. wWy do they think doing those things makes them a woman? Liking pink and dolls doesn’t make a guy a woman the same way that me being a tomboy didn’t make me a boy.
Tomboys and feminine men are a thing. That’s what has always been a thing. It’s terrifying that they don’t live themselves but think mutilation and medication will make them feel better about themselves.
I’ve seen so many tell how they would rather mutilate themselves than to accept the way they are. It comes down to hating themselves for being gay instead of accepting who they are.
Yes, that’s what feminism is actually about: biological sex shouldn’t determine what we feel.
I’m a father of four and have another one on the way. When my oldest son was about five, his favorite animal was a cheetah. He used to walk around the house all day pretending that he was a cheetah. This included walking on all fours and drinking and eating as a cheetah would in the documentaries that he would watch 😂. I of course allowed him to use his imagination, however. It began to be a bit too much and happened a bit too often, sometimes at the wrong times lol. At one point I had to sit down with him, as his father, and clarify that he was a human and not an animal. I made sure that he understood that he was a human male and not an animal. There was no confusion whatsoever. My son is eleven now. He is an absolutely amazing kid (I’m so incredibly proud of him) and he is comfortable communicating with me when it comes to everything or anything that he may be confused about. I come from a single mother whom was never able to connect or communicate with me and my father was essentially non-existent, so I’m making sure that I’m there for my children the way I always wanted my parents to be there for me. Am I perfect? Not by a long stretch, but I’ll never stop trying to be the best parent that I can be. I can’t speak on this dysphoria issue-however, I can say that a lot of what we are seeing in culture today most possibly stems simply from horrible parenting-or rather-the lack of actual parenting.
I literally thought I was batman at age 5, I tied my blanky around my neck and fought the Christmas tree one year because it was “the joker” I also jumped off the fireplace mantle. That was when my gramma told me I needed to chill because I wasn’t really batman and I could get extremely hurt trying to batman glide off of counters and high surfaces 😂 I was like “oh, yeah you’re probably right, I can still pretend though! But safely!” Simple as that!
@@LoreleiCatherine lmao! As a kid my mom would put the Christopher Reeves Superman movies on repeat everyday-so I had a very similar situation. A towel tied around my neck, jumping off of furniture and stairs, I definitely had to be spoken too. Lmao.
No discredit to you or your child. I’ve seen a few people write cases like this. And while I do think it is valid, I will say some kids have never really been on that side of the fence. As a gay child, I realized I had a preference toward men fairly young. Not even through sex but just in the way I romantized them, maybe like you would see a prince and princess. Similar to crushes we all have as heterosexuals and homosexuals. I knew this by 5 years old.
That experience has always been central and very much evolved into sexuality for me. With that being said, because I had to live my life as someone who is gay and also a minority in other aspects, I always had a very realistic and mature view of what I was. Never an animal, or anything imaginary. It was always a very hyperrealistic view bc I knew what I was in society wasn’t neccesarily typical. And I had to find myself my own way since there was little representation.
It is very hard to tell with kids sometimes but there are some out there who are strong willed and really know their core identity at a young age. But there are also kids who maybe flip flop a bit more, or express themselves more flexibly. When we think of it like that and relate it to transgenderism, I feel most kids will only bring something like this up if they have put some serious thought into it. Being that we see small nuances like discrimnation through school and other children. But you will always have those cases of detransitioners or social media tricking children. Thats why maybe it would be appropriate to put an age cap for transitioning… but to not allow people up to 26 years old to transition like what is being currently proposed in the ACU is a takeaway of personal freedom and expression, that I personally cannot get behind.
@@shaktra1563 The point that I was making was that kids need their parents, father and mother, to guide them and teach them about life. I don’t know what situation you were raised in, but a lot of my gay friends, admittedly didn’t have a mother or father around (one of my good friends was adopted by an older couple) or had a passive parent around who didn’t care what they did. I’m not saying that’s the case for everyone in the LGBT community. I’m saying it’s the case in some or a lot of the situations. One of my closest friends who is a lesbian became a lesbian because of something traumatizing that happened to her at a young age by an older male figure, so you even have those sort of situations. I would say one hundred percent of the families that I grew up around didn’t really have parents to teach them-they had the type of parents who thought that the only thing a parent had to do was provide a roof over their head and dinner on the table- they had no sort of connection or relationship with their kids. They had no idea what was going on in their life. I’m black and Filipino-most the asian community can vouch for friends and family that had parents who worked hard, cooked dinner, and went to sleep and that was the extent of their relationship. A lot of black friends and family can vouch for many of us not having their father or mother around. A lot of times things can turn out different if their is no parental guidance. That’s what we parents are here for. I’m only speaking on behalf of good parents. I know there are millions of horrible parents out their too, whom give their kids bad examples and all sort of mental/psychological issues. At a young age you may have been one of the few who was certain what they want, however. The other point that I was making is most kids are kids, they don’t know what the hell they want. At one point I wanted to be an astronaut and also join the military, until life and experience changed my mind. I was still figuring out who I was, I had no idea. I didn’t know that I would be an artist and a writer. It would take years to figure things out. My kids don’t even know who their favorite power ranger is or if they like blue or green more. They constantly will change their favorites character in video games and their favorite food/deserts/snacks change every week. Hell, as a child I personally was only worried about playing outside, sports, toys, Pokémon cards, bugs, video games and all sorts of random things throughout elementary and middle-school. Some people as a child identify with a sexuality, I was identifying myself as Superman. I definitely wasn’t bored. Romanticized relationships or sexuality wasn’t even in my mind or vocabulary. I had no room for it at that age. I’m essentially just saying that we need good parents around who are willing to be a positive and intelligent authority in a household. I’m also saying that a lot of kids just want to be kids and don’t know who they are, they’re still figuring things out and that’s okay. It doesn’t help that we live in a world that is becoming increasingly confusing at an alarming rate, where society and movies and games are telling our kids who they are and how to think instead of letting them figure things out themselves. There is also a disgusting bully culture regardless of which side of the fence you lean towards. That can really put peer pressure on kids and young adults as well. It’s good that you had yourself all figured out at a young age, but there are many who don’t and there are so many factors in ones life that influence their decisions and who they will become. It doesn’t hurt for a parent to be the light to show the the way. I also want to say that I’m not discounting all the amazing single parents out there. I had a single mother so I know that they exist lol.
@@shaktra1563 I do understand what you are saying though my friend. I hear you. There are a lot of children who know who they are at a young age, regardless of how they were raised or who their parents are. I definitely acknowledge that. In certain aspects growing up I was a bit more mature in some cases than other kids around me (being a child of domestic violence) so I can relate when you say that you were a bit more mature at a younger age and already knew. I also have a few friends who knew at a young age. I had friends who said their first sexual relationships were in elementary lol so I don’t think it’s just black or white. There are definitely some nuances.
I'm not a conservative (or an independent) but I 100% agree with every point in this response. I just wish that people could see this not as a left/right or Christian vs secular issue but as a people issue so everyone can feel free to think about this logically.
Blossom: hormones deteriorate the body.
Also blossom: has arms bigger then my thighs.
LOOK at his Shoulders, real women looking like Dwarfs
@@vjr5074 dont say his, she’s still a she even if you prefer seeing male and female (binary gender). I’m still conservative but at least try being respectful since you do know she wants to go by she 🤷♀️
@@MBJK_baby NO THANKS
@@vjr5074 alrighty
@@MBJK_baby respect isn't the default. Respect is earned. Blossom didn't earn any here.
Much respect to Gina. I appreciate this person's perspective much more than Blossom's. Has actual arguments as opposed to emotional ones. Keeps it realistic.
‘This person.’ It’s ‘THIS WOMAN.’ If u respect her, don’t misgender her
@@piecky1361 I'm a trans advocate and even I feel like you're reaching . . . let people make progress when they're trying to be respectful on their own time.
@@piecky1361 they used gender neutral pronouns chill💀
@@piecky1361 'Person' is not a gender.
@@piecky1361 As a trans woman, basically every trans woman accepts gender neutral terms, so this is absolutely respectful.
i can’t wait to see gina on your channel! she needs to know how much we want to listen and learn from her!
In 3rd grade I used to always joke around about being a man. And when my parents heard about that, they had a discussion with me about being “transgender”. At the time, I thought that was the coolest thing ever. So I told my mom I was transgender, and my new name would be Alex. And since I thought I was now a boy, I told almost everyone I met that I was one. A couple years later in 5th grade, I started to get bullied for it. It got so bad that I ended up going to homeschool. I do know that my parents had a good intention behind opening my eyes to lgbtq+, but I really wish they never had.
Blossom has this idea that if she says something with enough force and confidence that makes it true, but that's obviously not the case.
Dead right. Painful to listen to him.
@@kaybarry5933 I appreciate your "misgendering". I considered that in my original comment. I have a tendency to respect pronouns but I realize that's a slippery slope.
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@@AllenDickenson The willingness to use preferred pronouns is just a situational thing for me. If I'm in a debate, I would never use the pronouns because that would make me immediately wrong. However, if I'm out in public just hanging out with someone who is transgender, I will because it's respectful to. I won't get much of anywhere talking to transgenders if I don't use their opposite-sex pronouns, because ultimately they would not listen to me or want to associate with me.
@@lija_leza yeah, that's kinda how I feel. But I didn't want to misgender on UA-cam comments just because I don't want to have to answer to the potential backlash.
"The kids enjoy it. It's the parents that have a problem with it."
Dude Blossom, Kids don't know any better and enjoy a lot of terrible things. That's why parents make decisions for them. It's called raising children.
I once enjoyed a jumbo giant sized chocolate bar, of a size they don't even make any more, and barfed a huge puddle of chocolate soon after. I was miserable. The babysitter cried. I cried. Mom came home to a house full of tears and chocolate barf.
Mom is my parent. She would never have let me eat all that chocolate all at once, no matter how much I enjoyed it.
The babysitter was not a parent. She did not know any better.
Dude Blossom should never be let alone with a child. And has no business making any decisions that involve children. He is obviously clueless if I'm being generous. I mean, maybe that adult man is really that clueless. unless it's something more sinister.
Agreed and very well said many of "HIS" comments were red flaggy...also he doth protest to much I wouldn't trust that man with a 20 ft radius of me much less ANY child.
This comment!❤
i agree with your comment but as much as i don’t like her, talking about her with the male pronouns is still disrespectful.
As much as I agree, the he/him pronouns are incredibly disrespectful. You can dislike someone while still respecting their identity. You wouldn't do it to a cis person in this situation. Don't do it to a trans person. No matter how awful.
@@inthe50smood Because she's trans? And therefore identifies as a woman? I don't see what the argument is here.
38:18 I just noticed this. Blissom would be pissed if his pronouns were not respected. The lady she was addressing said that she is not a cis woman and Blossom's immediate response was to call her a cis woman.
As a natural born woman I’m so sick and tired of men trying to take away our very natural and given biology by God. A woman is an adult female, period. They want respect from women while denying us respect. We should just stop with the being nice. Feelings are not facts. You can feel like whatever you want that doesn’t make it fact.
This won’t stop unless we as women stop it. If we don’t I fear for our future. We all know that money talks. I believe that if we hit the people that give in endorsements as well as awards that should rightly go to actual women to biological men that things would change.
It’ll take sacrifice but as women we have and will always sacrifice but that doesn’t mean that we should sacrifice what we are from God and by nature. We are Women and it can’t be reproduced in a laboratory.
I agree with you, but no offense, religion discredits your argument instantly. As it did Aliya. You don't even need to use your faith as an argument, biology is enough.
I can’t imagine the fear I would have if I was a sexual assault survivor using a public bathroom alone and a person who is clearly a biological male walks in. I would feel very vulnerable. Or as a young girl who is trying to adjust to having a menstrual cycle and being exposed to this added element that makes women feel vulnerable.
I'd be scared, as a mother, to have grown men, walk in and dominate the safe space for women. They could expose themselves and I couldn't be there to protect her.
Oh, but if we say this, we are labeled "transphobic" 🙄 Not one Trans person will ever understand this fear because it isn't built into their DNA the same way and never will be no matter how many hormones they ingest.
One day, the women's bathroom will be so dominated and frequented by biological men that no woman will ever enter it.
It will look like two men's bathrooms. Just imagine, someday, if this really happens or close to it happening?
This. It IS scary.
Like Blossom, he clearly hates women.
Blossom is DANGEROUS. I had to tap out of the interview with buck. I'm doing my best to hang in on this one but I'm not sure I'll make it to the end.... you have such grace amala x
I REALLY had to grin and bare it with her and Buck, and I only hung it because I like and respect Buck. Absolutely insufferable, Blossom is.
What a treat ☺️ so good to finally listen to a panel in which you were actually in! I could listen to you talk for days! Can't wait to hear you're conversation with Gina.
Just want to say, I discovered Amala's Unapologetic videos a few days ago, and I LOVE THEM. I really enjoy how she, clearly, explains her point of view, and states that her opinions are based on research. We all have different perspectives on everything, but its not all grounded in looking things up and, objectively, analyzing what we observe. But, Amala seems to be a person who takes the time to get to know her topics, before she presents them in her videos. That's very much appreciated!
"LET'S JUST BE CLEAR!!". I subscribed after seeing Amala on Jubilee. "AND THE REALITY OF IT IS," for ME, a black first generation african-american woman from the SOUTH, AMALA handled opposing views with so much style and grace, as a REAL WOMAN does! 🙏🏿🙋🏿♀️🙌🏿
Welcome !! Amala is amazing :) I became a conservative this summer because of her !! I think you will really enjoy PragerU.
Amala has gained an extremely large viewership as of recent, we welcome you dearly! Like the other reply says, I also became more of a free thinker after watching Amala
@@lija_leza 🙏🏿
Totally agree!!
I wish I could speak like she does. Her clarity is among the best
“IM NOT A CIS WOMAN I AM JUST A WOMAN”
PERIODT✊
Transphobes stealing from LGBTQIA+ culture, mmmkay.
in this case, she is a woman who is cis. aka cis woman.
@@nazgulstew no
You can call me straight, you can call me a man, a male, if you refer to me as cis... *trigger*
Yes, cis is true but in their terms it's very derogatory in the way they use it. This coming from a man that is LGBT.
As someone who is gay, I honestly felt almost equally as alienated and stressed by my own community as I did from people who were homophobic growing up. I was worried about silly things like how to come out, which label out of nearly hundreds suited me best, etc--so much so because it was always made to be such a huge deal. I think kids should just exist as they are without adding labels and specifics to it. Let them be kids. My brother played with dolls and wore girl clothes sometimes and my parents didn’t make a big deal of it at all, and he’s now a straight cisgender male.
Make no mistake... The same people who are demanding that you accept and tolerate their way of life-- passionately hate you for yours, and are relentlessly seeking to destroy it
It absolutely is about genitalia when men can use theirs as a weapon. And 99% of the time men are physically stronger than women.
@Brianna Jenell We need to stick together on this one.
And women can't?
I would say alot use thier " genitalia " to get to positions of power... I am not saying that men do use theirs in a disgusting way but women tend to use their to get what they want. They have done it for 100s of years.. English monarchs and Queens were masters at it .
The majority of men can kill a woman with their bare hands. That is woman's greatest fear in regards to the opposite sex. Men's is that women will laugh at them. Not the same ballpark. Different game.
Yes, so true. Only males have the anatomy for rope.
Even boys (meaning underage men or prepubescent males) are stronger than adult females meaning women. A 14 year boy killed his mom several years ago in NYC. Let's stop acting like trans identified men are ever going to be women. Being a women is more than being able to give birth, or be pretty or have boobs. These men are horrible.
Protect your male and female children from these fools they are not fooling me!
I have a 27-year-old son named Patrick who came out as gay when he was 16 years old. When he was 3 years old he came down the stairs in his big sister's pink feather boa and high heel shoes and proclaimed that "from now on I am to be called princess peach". When he was four he put his sisters silver shiny dress on and wanted to wear it everyday everywhere we went. Every morning I told him "no Patrick dresses are for girls. You are a boy. Boys don't wear dresses". Then I would dress him in his boy clothes. He would put the dress on over his clothes and I allowed that. We did this for 2 years. Most people didn't freak out. You should have seen what he did in his first game when we made him try out for football in the fourth grade! It was hilarious. I never allowed people namely his five other siblings to ever whispered that Patrick is gay. I said if he is he'll figure that out for himself when he's older. I never labeled him. Well I mean I guess I did I said he was a boy but that's because I live in reality. If this was happening right now in this environment I wonder if I would have fallen for the whole gender affirming care ideology? I don't think so! Patrick wore that dress for two and a half years and took it off one day and never put it on again. And to find out he discovered that he was only gay! He happens to be quite strong in his masculinity and is secure in his manhood. He is also secure in his gay Hood. I'm super proud of him.
So a person who was not trans is an example of what really?
If he was trans he would have kept going with the dresses, names and behavior and never stoping.
@@amandavieira2543 she didn't push the narrative that her son was trans and allowed him to mutilate his body and become sterile like so many are today. Her son is gay not trans and it would of done so much damage cause he wanted to wear a dress, if she pushed the trans stuff! She handled it the way it should be! Great mom!!!
@@longlegs7881 her son was gay, not trans, nothing to be discussed.
This is not an example for anything.
@@amandavieira2543 of course you refuse to see what she was saying cause your a woke and woke do not hear anything that does not fit there narrative. Most of the kids they push and say they are trans and no they are gay. They ruin childrens lives.
@@longlegs7881 and my life was ruined by ignorants and prejudiced people like you, you don't care about kids, you care about your ideology being forced onto them.
I just had to comment on the bathroom debate. Blaire White actually did a video of her walking into a men's bathroom, and was ultimately asked to leave the establishment because of the complaints that were received.
Just found your channel and admire you so much- your mind, your values, your talent to articulate.
Blossom had me rolling my eyes every time she spoke. It’s like she was there just to be on the attacking side, saying what she wanted to say and completely ignored any opposing views. Her reasonings were completely irrational. What is the point of joining a debate if you’re not willing to listen to the other side and have your ideas be challenged?
I don't know what "blossom" claims to be but that person is anything but feminine.
I am so sad that Taylor isn’t going to be in the show! I really appreciate his perspective and that he brings a Christian perspective
Where did Taylor go? 😢 did I miss it where they address why he isn’t there?
@@Romans08.31 She stated that he moved to Tennessee with his family at the very beginning (like in the first minute). He is still going to be on the show, but not as often.
@@vivd8187 I spoke to him and he said he is still going to be on regularly once he gets his studio set up. I too was glad to hear
Me too! I love Taylor's perspective.
I really appreciate your platform. You are very insightful and well spoken! ❤
I watched this episode before and loved your take on things. Im so happy to have very randomly found your channel 💞💞
Thrilled to hear that Gina will be coming on the show!
I'm so sick of biological men stomping on women and our rights. My 3 little girls should be able to go to the bathroom without a biological man in there with them. I think little girls rights trump a grown persons rights. We have to protect them.
exactly, we've heard countless stories of women/girls getting sexually harrased or assaulted by these so called 'transwomen". enough is enough.
Thank you! As women we deserve and have the right to single sex spaces. Especially when we all know it’s our safety that will be truly compromised.
@user-cc4kz9ql3b exactly, why does their feelings trump the majority of WOMENs wants and safety?
@@theresnoyintoni She kept saying idk what would happen to Nikita if they go into a men's restroom. I'll tell her absolutely nothing. Ladyboys in Thailand use the men's restroom. There's plenty of memes of what looks like a woman using the urinal. It should always be organized by sex not gender or looks.
Thank you. I was going to say that the answer to the question posed 'who needs protecting more?' is women and especially young, old, or disabled ones. Rather than grown men who have chosen to undergo physical changes based upon mental issues.
Idk but if my kid was suicidal I wouldn't be taking them to a gender clinic I'd be taking them to a therapist.
I'm not in the slightest percent comfortable with sharing a bathroom with the other side.
The condescending tone of blossom is one that MOST trans women have, they become so emboldened to be overtly offensive and even threatening towards a biological woman, which is so fckn ironic considering they cry all day and night about being offended and feeling threatened 🙄
its because they are a protected class of people so they dont have to fear being called out and attacked for it
@@thepsychomagus no it’s always been that way, even before this whole woke shit. I grew up in Hawaii and trans women are a part of the culture . They’ve always said the most offensive things and have always been the ones to really hold that tone and “try me!” Kind of stature.
28 And just as they did not see fit to acknowledge God any longer, God gave them over to a depraved mind, to do those things which are not proper, 29 being filled with all unrighteousness, wickedness, greed, evil; full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, malice; they are gossips, 30 slanderers, haters of God, insolent, arrogant, boastful, inventors of evil, disobedient to parents, 31 without understanding, untrustworthy, unloving, unmerciful...... Romans 1 tells us truth about the attitude they have.
Blossom has a full load of 'Male Entitlement'. That's why we know he's a Male person.
Right because if they want to beat our ass or rape us they can theyre big strong men!
When “blossom” said “the kids enjoyed it” referring to the drag shows amongst minor children the radar went off. That’s EXACTLY what a groomer would say!
EXACTLY!!! like what normal person says that kids enjoyed seeing a man wear a sexed up stereotype of a female? of course the wont riot, theyre literally children they dont know any better
You're so cringey for trying to turn this into that . . .
That's disgusting of you.
Amen
@@knxcholx Don't amen that, nobody's god wants any part in prejudice.
@@iTeacupPanda I'll say amen to whatever I want. Shut up
I love Jubilee and I enjoy and appreciate the content they do.
I think I started getting your videos on my recommended after watching the Trans Women vs Conservative Women video.
I was really happy to see Gina again! She's been in Jubilee's Spectrum videos and she's such a sweet and open minded person. Being an older trans women she's obviously experienced so much throughout her life, things that a lot of younger trans people and those who call themselves tras because they don't get it do not understand or respect.
You were amazing!
I watched the episode with Blossom and Buck and now after watching Jubilee's video I came to the conclusion that whenever Blossom sees that she doesnt have a strong srgument she goes after the other side by saying they're dodging the question when in reality she's the one dodging the question
"She's" dodging reality.
He's** dodging reality
I don't think she is dodging. I think her mind is running 100 miles a minute because she is defensive and too emotionally defensive for this and wants to do a good job but she just isn't a debater or someone with that skillset.
It’s is embarrassing to see people like Blossom representing our community. I’m a conservative trans man that previously held liberal views. Accepting myself for who I am in reality is the only thing that set me free. Gender dysphoria is a mental disorder and my transition is how I cope with that disorder. Delusion is crippling the trans community.
I hope your doing well in life, being trans and conservative must be vary hard as it seems those demographics are at odds. I just want to offer my support and let you know that most level headed conservatives support treatment for gender dysphoria. I think the big hurdles is to transition children and many people being "trans" as a statement rather than mental requirement. With June coming I imagine there will.be a lot of dog whistles that will put the sides at odds with each other
Again I hope you do well though and continue to grow in life!
@@carsandsports123 it’s definitely not easy! I’m starting a UA-cam channel soon to start speaking out against the insane ideologies being pushed by extremist on both sides. I also have an interview I did with Buck coming out on his channel soon! Thank you for the support it means a lot to me (:
You’re awesome Braxton. You have incredible wisdom to see reality as it is and I wish more did. We are living in a dystopia where everyone gets to say things and that becomes reality and if anyone goes against it, they are at massive risk to be ostracized and canceled. Keep being you and always remember, we LOVE you and you should absolutely get to live whatever way you want.
@@commentarywithconnor thank you Connor! It truly means so much to me. There are more of us that share my stance and we are starting to find our voices! We will take back this community and make it what it was intended to be, I’m sure of it! It may take a long time but we will persevere and show the world that not all people who claim the trans label are bat shit crazy! I love all of you too! Together we will make the world a better place!
@@braxtontaylor_ love that buddy. We just want to live in the real world. I don’t think any of us have hate in our heart. But we can’t sit here and claim things and then force others to obey and if they don’t threaten their jobs, livelihood, etc. I think it’s going to take a long time. But you know the crazy part? If all the leftists that are just blindly following this because they have to or risk being canceled could actually speak out and there was no consequence for free speech of the people in the middle that are afraid to speak, this entire ideology would be crushed in a day. We’d return to a world where biology is real again. Where truth is what we value. Instead here we are in this fairy tale where they try to convince us that men and women are the same or just social constructs. Where trans women in womens sports have no advantage whatsoever. You almost just want to grab them and shake them to stop pretending they believe it. Regardless, we need more people like you. People willing to live their lives the way they want to and be grounded in reality. You seem like a wonderful person and I’m glad you’ve found your happiness. Don’t ever change ❤️
"You need to be educated"
Is just their way of saying "fuck you" because they can't back up their argument.
Really appreciate the compassion Amala has for Gina.
Blossom is a headache...
With no cure
On the restroom issue, I absolutely agree with Amala! There used to be single stall restrooms in most public spaces. They were called "family" or "unisex" restrooms, and were typically used by handicapped persons or parents who had a child/children that needed assistance with using the restroom or needed diapers changed. These seem to have been phased out about 20 years ago or so. I've had Crohn's disease since I was 10 years old, and I'm still not comfortable using multi-stall restrooms.
Also, I would have an answer to Gina, yes, If a man goes to a women’s bathroom and exposes him self, if he “grapes” smo, etc., there are laws protecting women, but you can say vice versa, that if they “trans women”, will go to the men’s bathroom and get beaten up, well there are laws protecting trans women as well. So, yeah, I think it doesn’t have a way around it, only a unisex bathroom would be an option.
I live in London UK and I've seen at least one of those family toilets, not sure if thry are everywhere but normally parents with children are welcome to use the disabled toilet, maybe transgender people can do the same so this will end the debate? Also someone that looks like a man/ woman can easily use the stalls and have privacy just like everyone else
@Diamond TBH, I don't see the need in ANYONE exposing themselves to someone else, that's why THERE ARE STALLS IN ALL THE RESTROOMS.
@@AlissaSss23 tell that to men who do that, there are fetish ppl who pleasure them selves in that way, the same as rapist do it. There is no need to expose your self in a park as well, but there are ppl who do that. As I said before, we can try to protect the ppl going to the men’s bathrooms and getting the shit kicked out of them or the women who can get raped. Again in both cases it won’t happen a lot, but in some cases it will, so, how can we go around this issue in your opinion? “Edit”: I actually proposed the same thing as you, unisex bathrooms, go right in, don’t see a problem there, uh even now we smt in clubs see a problem that men try to rape women and the security can’t run as fast to check on it, so, a family, separate unisex bathroom would be a solution.
I live in Chicago. We have unisex bathrooms in most of our stores and restaurants.
I love that these conversations are happening! I’m truly inspired and happy! Working on keeping myself calm during such idiotic circular conversations.
The part you mentioned about why interests have to influence identity: spot on. That’s exactly how I feel. As a lesbian, I’ve been saying this. Sex doesn’t determine gender expression, and my gender expression doesn’t mean I have to change my biology to fit. Personally
I have a great idea to end this idiocy..it may just work..but, have Trump come out on stage dressed in full drag, and then tell everyone that he's every pronoun ever said..it'll become uncool real quick😂😂😂
Honestly thats brilliant
I think would exactly work, times like a LOT.
He’s not the right “token”
@kaeotik lol thanks, I have my moments
Both Trump and Elon! I remember people said Trump should have done this as president so he can claim that he’s the first woman president ever. They would either have to go along with it or have their ideology collapse.
Women are under attack. I was in Primark and a MAN walked into the bathroom. Me and the other lady were washing our hands and I didn't leave until she was done because I don't know what he wanted and why he was in there. It's so dangerous I try to avoid public restrooms and stores that allow this nonsense.
@Isis Jenkins why didnt the man mind his business and go to the males bathroom? even if he identifies as a woman he can still be a threat to women.
@Isis Jenkins you must've been the man in the restroom with me. 😂😂😂
@Isis Jenkins trans women's comfort and validation isn't more important than women's safety.
It’s so scary..
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I really like something you said here about being stuck in between two different mindsets at times. For me life has been hard because I do my best to walk the middle ground. I see the good and bad of both sides and usually find that the truth or what seems "best" generally lies somewhere in the middle. The problem with being extreme on either side is that your judgment is clouded by an intolerance or hatred of the other side. That doesn't allow rational and open-minded thought. I do my best to encourage free thought and challenge or question ideas presented to you. Unfortunately today that kind of thinking is usually met with criticism and an assumption that I am on the other side... Whatever the opposing side happens to be at that moment. I am truly glad that I discovered your videos because I am catching up on them at the moment. I don't agree with All of your beliefs, but most of them hit pretty close to home. To be honest it feels so refreshing, because I know very few people that share many of my ideals while still encouraging free thought. Thank you so much for putting yourself out there. It is very brave to try and speak sense to the world. Keep up the excellent work!
Thank you for the honest conversation
I really don’t care for Blossom. He gets super defensive and all of his arguments are based off of emotion instead of actual facts.
Thank god I’m not the only one who cannot stand her
From what I’ve seen, Blossom takes any criticism of anything even remotely relating to trans as a personal attack. Blossom also seems unable to talk about any negative aspects of anything trans, likely because that would be seen as an attack on the trans community. That would be why Blossom would lie that there were no negative aspects of surgery or hormones.
It’s all emotions and conflating an entire community as one’s own identity.
But what do I know, I’m just some guy.
blossom still has all his testosterone
tHe ReAlItY oF tHe sItUaTiOn iS....
She’s a very strong woman. If you never played sports I think you should not speak on the topic. Lol she may be stronger then me lol she could body slam every woman on that stage
Gina gained my respect. I really thank her for being objective on the children part. Children should be children. Nobody has right to push down agendas to these children's brain.
And I really hate the way Blossom TWISTED Amala's words about the restroom part. No one in the panel said that Trans people assaulting biological women in the restroom. Amala literally said earlier it opened men, faking about being trans people and using the opportunity to use ladies restroom and harass women.
I think Blossom's strategy is to make Blossom's argument sounds correct and solid by degrading any argument from anyone (even by fellow transgender), even though in the end Blossom just ended up looking stupid.
I cannot provide statistics because if I did they would not support my point of view so I would not believe them. I am done with Blossom.
So for the bathroom debate with the question of who needs defending, I would say the woman need defending. If you choose to be a man an identify and therefore outwardly present yourself as a woman that’s your decision. It does unfortunately comes with risks. As a woman I don’t feel like we need to be put in dangerous positions because of a man’s choice.
I don't care for Blossom. As soon as I heard her voice, I was like "omg, not Blossom."
Seriously .
His*.
Why should we respect Blossom's pronouns when he himself doesn't respect Aliya's request?
Especially this kind of disrespectful transgender?
Respect should not be imposed. Respect is merited and mutual.
The only exception to enforced respect that I would tolerate is respect for my parents when I supposedly do something wrong and they demand rightfully my proper behavior.
Only case of imposed respect. Other than that, I don't take it from any stranger and especially not someone who wouldn't respect me like Blossom. He's a hypocrite narcissistic.
@@analeticiacastromatos9509 yea !! Respect is earned not given . That’s my reply every time someone says it’s disrespectful to not validate someone’s made up pronouns
@@olenchka.
The only thing I will respect from someone like Blossom is only in the realm of law.
He has the right to express, the right to life and so on. And these basic rights/privileges need to be respected.
Unless he is a criminal, in which case he will have no respect in any aspect of anything.
But let him not get in my face or anyone else's and demand respect OUTSIDE basic rights like "neutral language" or pronouns or far-left activism.
Honestly, I am tired of this. I am not obligated to follow this nor to submissively accept this nonsense. Sorry not so sorry.
@@analeticiacastromatos9509 that was an amazing response. Thank you!
Blossom is so for transgender that she doesn't want to hear how dangerous it is. Gina is telling a lot of truth and hearing more of her story and how she feels about all of this agenda.
Just discovered Amala! I love your videos.
Man I love Gina. So kind, so respectful and so open and understand of new point of views.
i was going through the comments of the segment and even from the very pro trans side there was a lot of push back on blossoms blatant hypocrisy and conflation with a lot of her obfuscating responses
*his him.
That's nice. Usually on the "middle ground" episodes the comments love the liberal side and hate the conversative arguments. It doesn't help that because they're based in California that they get some wackjobs on there, many times *for some reason* seem to happen on the right leaning side.
Because SHE, (looking at you Request) is rude AF. Her whole stance and attitude is actually what is driving allies away because it gets exhausting dealing with that much of a needy ego.
She wasn't there to discuss, she was there to argue.
@@soapyfartbubble HIS Testosterone was in full effect. He was bullying on the SHE'S.
@@request2000 SHE. Bully or not, no one is impressed by you being a dick and misgendering her. It's not up to you to tell people how they need to be addressed just as it isn't up to HER to do the same thing.
Blaire White actually did an experiment where she went into the mens bathroom at a restaurant and she got kicked out lmao
Do you know which state that was in?
@@etherspin I believe California. She has a video on it.
This is kind of why I think the entire restroom debate is ridiculous. If you're fully transitioned just go into the bathroom of the gender you look like. No one's going to question it. And we don't worry about those people being dangerous. The people who put that much effort into actually transitioning are most likely not predators. The people we have to worry about are the people who essentially are men in wigs and dresses. So if you look like a man in a dress... no you shouldn't be allowed to go into the women's bathroom. That's going to make women and girls feel unsafe. But if you're fully transitioned and you look like a girl, then obviously it would be way more of a stir for you to go into the men's restroom then to go in the women's bathroom.
I watched it! I think she did a couple of them.
At first I really wasn't thinking that the black guy dressing like a woman was a predator but the fact that they are defending men going into the bathroom this hard and then saying you cannot say this or cannot say that I believe that person is most likely a predator as well
You have no idea how intelligent you are Amala❤ thanks i enjoyed watching u on middle ground
Blossoms argument for the bathrooms is that because she isn't a predator that no one else will be🤣🤣🤣
Exactly-
Part of me wonders if trans women like Blossom defend this because the more people who transition and the more mainstream this becomes, even if it's children, it helps to reaffirm their own choice to do so and for some even helps to feed their own ego.
also why the LGBT dont let the detransitioners have a voice. they dont want people, especially kids, to know the horrors of what a lot go into
Bingo, sin loves company!
It's not that deep, Leslie. Weird that we have the same name. Let live.
What transition blossom go through? He looks like my neighbor, whose a cross dresser.
NO, its because of the MONEY HE makes as an activist for Left wingers & Big Pharma.
Resonated most with your views. Such an enlightened person, if only people would do the same work to prevent ignorance.
Lol. At 49 minutes... the look on Amala's face... trying so hard not to lose her composure dealing with Blossom. You did good Amala. You held it together. Not sure I'm nice enough to do that when people are blatant hippocrytes. Ideologs infuriate me too much.
hypocrites* btw :))
Blossom: I really think we need to be educated before speaking on these issues.
Also Blossom:
I’m sorry but the carrot dipped in dirt part made me CACKLE!! 😂
I cringed so hard when Roxane quoted Whipping Girl, one of the most misogynistic books ever written.
So I saw the first appearance of Blossom on the debate with TRANSGENDER vs TRANSEXUAL, and it was painful. Blossom was just as painful in this debate. It hurts. I REALLY hope her eyes and ears can open up an take in SOME truth PLEASE Lord help Blossom TT_TT
It's not just the genitals that matter, though. It's the male size, strength, speed, muscularity, explosiveness, bone & skull thickness & sturdiness, hand size, grip strength, punching power, kicking force, strangling ability, etc. Big strapping Blossom and the older trans person in the wig both could easily overpower a girl or woman, grab her by the throat & strangle her to unconsciousness & death with just one of their hands.
Not even. They could literally just crush her skull. MMA already had a trans woman fracture a female's skull.
The irony is that when Blossom was on Amala's podcast, she was asked if she had ever played any sports. She responded, "No I have not". Then mentions how science needs to catch up with experience. Yet, she is giving an unscientific opinion based on a topic she has NO EXPERIENCE in.🤦🏿♀️
#MakeItMakeSense
lmao @ "Big Strapping Blossom" 😹
Blossom looks just like my cross dressing neighbor. When dude have his transition? I don't see it.
@@aprilrae6551 I'm sure he used the $20k ELLEN and Caitlin Jenner gave to him to go to nursing school on this "transition".
The spam commercial is my favorite 😂 lol
I watched this but I didn't get to see some of these being shown. May be its part 2. Ooooo this is so interesting!
My thoughts on bathrooms and access to them:
Any single use bathroom should be converted into a unisex bathroom.
Multi-use bathrooms should remain divided between the M/F sexes and access shouldn’t be fluid; meaning, based on someone’s self identify when it’s in opposition to their actual biological sex.
Amala is correct to bring up the realities of the situation.
I agree. I’m all of wasn’t saying that trans. People are perpetrators. She was commenting that there are people who take a vantage of the situation in order to become sexual predators. I don’t want this to be easy for that population of people, as few as there may be.
@c00lhand208 I like your input. I've been thinking about that for awhile. My question to you & anyone that reads this. What about the locker rooms? Correct me if wrong. I think the restroom are different from locker rooms. I'm not dissing anyone or calling anyone out. Just a question I've always wondered about thid
@@gundome12 locker rooms must remain divided by M/F sex.
If we’re talking biological sex I assume you mean post op trans people should go where there original sex is located. Right?
My only qualm with that is, while women may be safer in these situations what about the transfolk who enter these spaces? More often then women face trans predators, trans people face discrimation, gawking, and physical violence especially on the male side. How do we make them feel as safe as the women in question? This goes especially for the locker room scenario.
@@shaktra1563 this like opening pandora box. Everyone at risk. No matter what locker you got too. This really sucks