He helped me once, and recently said "These are for you, my lady" as he placed some boxes onto my table, but other than that, he doesn't really talk to me. I doubt it's anything honestly since I'm so quiet at work anyway. And if I like a guy, I tend to just ignore them because obviously they are too good for me.
Okay guys. This guy at work, who is VERY quiet and just works diligently, started to talk to me and ask me personal things. My age for starters-which he surprisingly said, "Oh I thought you were much younger. Like 27-28" Because I am technically 41. Yes, UA-cam, hang me out to dry. Lol. But yeah, he was asking if I have a second job, if my hours are "fixed" at work (I guess because he probably wants to work his schedule around mine? But that could be me taking it personal already 🙃), we spoke about my second job for a good minute. I would suddenly "get distracted" and he would reel me back into the chat with a follow-up comment. I do get the feeling he wants to feel me out and get to know me. It's a weird feeling I get when we work together. He ALWAYS goes on the register next to me, then sadly gets sent to another register since he wasn't assigned the one next to me 😥. Is this called proximity? When someone that likes you gets closer into your personal space? I also got a tarot card reading that mentioned someone at work wanting to get closer, but they are shy. That they feel they aren't "my type". So, I am putting two and two together and I am getting a weird vibe that it's him. Strong vibe.
@@ChannelZero1031 sounds like a definite yes to me. It’s been a month, anything happen? Hell just ask him. Joking say “do you like me?”. Make it easy and playful. Get it out in the open.
Oh are you older? That swings things. If you are just have fun with it. If he is willing to ask you eventually ok. But… it’s pretty rare for men to go after older women, like a serious relationship. Sorry. It’s just not how we are wired mentally truthfully. I mean we certainly find older women attractive for sure, but… you get it.
@@corning1I am much older, almost double his age. I am in my 40s. He's barely 18. I don't have much experience with courting, so I tend to get lost in the cognitive dissonance of trying to understand someone else when they like me. I am also Gay and he is straight. So it could be a weird boundary there.
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone. Women tend to be more emotional, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind-hearted, more peaceful, more patient, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way. Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men. Most women like to do affectionate things with their female friends like cuddling with them and holding their hands and be touchy-feely towards each other, while most men would never do affectionate things with their male friends (especially not cuddling with them or holding their hands or be touchy-feely towards each other). Men are usually much lonelier than women are. Men don't often talk about their personal problems with their male friends like how women do with their female friends.
@@corning1 I'm being serious. I heard that lesbian relationships are healthier because they understand each other. If both partners understand each other, they won’t want to break up with each other. I also heard that women have higher rates of depression when married (in straight relationships). So it's very hard for men and women to bond with each other and have a strong bond with each other.
@@DJR___ Men have a more dominant mentality because they don't like to show weaknesses, that's how they are built. Men tend to be more extroverted. They are more independent, decisive, goal-oriented, and ambitious. Women are more submissive, deep thinkers and feelers. Yes, that's true, women are more emotional, because they are the most powerful inside, whereas men are the most powerful outside. So that just shows that men and women are wired differently from each other, and that they don't seem compatible with each other.
@@DJR___ women’s brains are more wholistic and efficient than men’s brains, with more activity between right ( intuitive) and left (logical) sides of their brains, which means that women can bounce quicker between intuition and logic than men can. When women make decisions, guided by intuition, they analyze the pros and cons before taking action, to maximize benefits. Women have more oestrogen than men which makes them calmer, less reactive, and women are also better at reading emotional nuances and are better communicators than men. A key contributor to this is the ability to actively listen to others and build a two-way dialogue as well as the ability to empathise with others, both of which women tend to be more skilled at than men. Men on the other hand are best at making their decisions more slowly in calm conditions, by deliberate analytical thinking. Men also have a greater cortisol (fright/flight stress responses) to crises and stress than women, and higher testosterone levels than women, which means that men in positions of leadership, often make riskier, impulsive, faster and less analytical decisions driven by their reactions to the surrounding circumstances, which means that men make worse decisions because they do not question their impulses- men are less likely to realize when the are wrong- leading to poorer outcomes. Dr Daniel G Amen, who has studied 250,000 brain scans of women and men has noted these particular differences. Although men’s brains are 10% larger than women’s brains - women are after all 15-20% smaller than men, making men’s brains 5-10% smaller than women’s comparatively- women’s brains are far busier than men’s brains; and in the 80 areas of the brain he studied, women’s brains were more active than men’s brains in 70 areas. Women have more connections between right and left hemispheres of the brain and more activity in the right hemisphere of the brain. In problem-solving, women tend to harness several areas of the brain while men rely on a more localized effort, compartmentalized thinking, mainly on the left side of the brain.
women’s brains are more wholistic and efficient than men’s brains, with more activity between right ( intuitive) and left (logical) sides of their brains, which means that women can bounce quicker between intuition and logic than men can. When women make decisions, guided by intuition, they analyze the pros and cons before taking action, to maximize benefits. Women have more oestrogen than men which makes them calmer, less reactive, and women are also better at reading emotional nuances and are better communicators than men. A key contributor to this is the ability to actively listen to others and build a two-way dialogue as well as the ability to empathise with others, both of which women tend to be more skilled at than men.
He helped me once, and recently said "These are for you, my lady" as he placed some boxes onto my table, but other than that, he doesn't really talk to me. I doubt it's anything honestly since I'm so quiet at work anyway. And if I like a guy, I tend to just ignore them because obviously they are too good for me.
I need your help. Some perspective. Also stop doing that to yourself.
Be confident in yourself he may like you!
Okay guys. This guy at work, who is VERY quiet and just works diligently, started to talk to me and ask me personal things. My age for starters-which he surprisingly said, "Oh I thought you were much younger. Like 27-28" Because I am technically 41. Yes, UA-cam, hang me out to dry. Lol. But yeah, he was asking if I have a second job, if my hours are "fixed" at work (I guess because he probably wants to work his schedule around mine? But that could be me taking it personal already 🙃), we spoke about my second job for a good minute. I would suddenly "get distracted" and he would reel me back into the chat with a follow-up comment. I do get the feeling he wants to feel me out and get to know me. It's a weird feeling I get when we work together. He ALWAYS goes on the register next to me, then sadly gets sent to another register since he wasn't assigned the one next to me 😥. Is this called proximity? When someone that likes you gets closer into your personal space? I also got a tarot card reading that mentioned someone at work wanting to get closer, but they are shy. That they feel they aren't "my type". So, I am putting two and two together and I am getting a weird vibe that it's him. Strong vibe.
I’m a man. Does he smile? Not just smile… but SMILE. Then yes. Definitely.
@@corning1Yeah, he smiles lowkey tho. He sends it down. Like shy.
@@ChannelZero1031 sounds like a definite yes to me. It’s been a month, anything happen? Hell just ask him. Joking say “do you like me?”. Make it easy and playful. Get it out in the open.
Oh are you older? That swings things. If you are just have fun with it. If he is willing to ask you eventually ok. But… it’s pretty rare for men to go after older women, like a serious relationship. Sorry. It’s just not how we are wired mentally truthfully. I mean we certainly find older women attractive for sure, but… you get it.
@@corning1I am much older, almost double his age. I am in my 40s. He's barely 18. I don't have much experience with courting, so I tend to get lost in the cognitive dissonance of trying to understand someone else when they like me. I am also Gay and he is straight. So it could be a weird boundary there.
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other.
Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone.
Women tend to be more emotional, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind-hearted, more peaceful, more patient, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way.
Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men.
Most women like to do affectionate things with their female friends like cuddling with them and holding their hands and be touchy-feely towards each other, while most men would never do affectionate things with their male friends (especially not cuddling with them or holding their hands or be touchy-feely towards each other). Men are usually much lonelier than women are. Men don't often talk about their personal problems with their male friends like how women do with their female friends.
Is this a serious question? I’ll answer if it is.
@@corning1 I'm being serious. I heard that lesbian relationships are healthier because they understand each other. If both partners understand each other, they won’t want to break up with each other. I also heard that women have higher rates of depression when married (in straight relationships).
So it's very hard for men and women to bond with each other and have a strong bond with each other.
@@DJR___ Men have a more dominant mentality because they don't like to show weaknesses, that's how they are built. Men tend to be more extroverted. They are more independent, decisive, goal-oriented, and ambitious.
Women are more submissive, deep thinkers and feelers. Yes, that's true, women are more emotional, because they are the most powerful inside, whereas men are the most powerful outside. So that just shows that men and women are wired differently from each other, and that they don't seem compatible with each other.
@@DJR___ women’s brains are more wholistic and efficient than men’s brains, with more activity between right ( intuitive) and left (logical) sides of their brains, which means that women can bounce quicker between intuition and logic than men can. When women make decisions, guided by intuition, they analyze the pros and cons before taking action, to maximize benefits. Women have more oestrogen than men which makes them calmer, less reactive, and women are also better at reading emotional nuances and are better communicators than men. A key contributor to this is the ability to actively listen to others and build a two-way dialogue as well as the ability to empathise with others, both of which women tend to be more skilled at than men.
Men on the other hand are best at making their decisions more slowly in calm conditions, by deliberate analytical thinking. Men also have a greater cortisol (fright/flight stress responses) to crises and stress than women, and higher testosterone levels than women, which means that men in positions of leadership, often make riskier, impulsive, faster and less analytical decisions driven by their reactions to the surrounding circumstances, which means that men make worse decisions because they do not question their impulses- men are less likely to realize when the are wrong- leading to poorer outcomes.
Dr Daniel G Amen, who has studied 250,000 brain scans of women and men has noted these particular differences. Although men’s brains are 10% larger than women’s brains - women are after all 15-20% smaller than men, making men’s brains 5-10% smaller than women’s comparatively- women’s brains are far busier than men’s brains; and in the 80 areas of the brain he studied, women’s brains were more active than men’s brains in 70 areas. Women have more connections between right and left hemispheres of the brain and more activity in the right hemisphere of the brain. In problem-solving, women tend to harness several areas of the brain while men rely on a more localized effort, compartmentalized thinking, mainly on the left side of the brain.
women’s brains are more wholistic and efficient than men’s brains, with more activity between right ( intuitive) and left (logical) sides of their brains, which means that women can bounce quicker between intuition and logic than men can. When women make decisions, guided by intuition, they analyze the pros and cons before taking action, to maximize benefits. Women have more oestrogen than men which makes them calmer, less reactive, and women are also better at reading emotional nuances and are better communicators than men. A key contributor to this is the ability to actively listen to others and build a two-way dialogue as well as the ability to empathise with others, both of which women tend to be more skilled at than men.
I’m his boss..
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