We broke up... 8 years ago. This is our story.

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  • Ah yes... the messy life of dating. Here's our story of how it all played out. It was definitely a complicated thing but we're obviously glad it ended up how it did :)
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  • @meschahayes1003
    @meschahayes1003 2 роки тому +19

    Heard the story a couple of times but this was by FAR the best rendition!

    • @rebekah3483
      @rebekah3483 2 роки тому +1

      Same here and I couldn't agree more!

  • @rens.adventure
    @rens.adventure Рік тому +2

    I grew up in the SDA system and of course, went to an SDA college and we had the same running joke- "if you don't get married before you graduate, you'll never get married, and be alone for life" lol... Gosh, darn religious pressure! I also struggled with religious anxiety up until I was 27-28 and finally started living authentically. And it's been incredibly freeing not having that constant shame/guilt/pressure and being true to myself and my life!! My God is certainly not the God I grew up believing in nor who my parents believe in, and that is 1000% okay. Thank you for sharing this story in more detail! Every religious high school/college young adult needs to hear this kind of message sooner rather than later... imagine how much happier people would be and the world would be without that religious pressure! God is a God of love, grace, and compassion. Not shame, guilt, fire, and brimstone! All the best to you and your family. Thank you guys, again :)

  • @vikkiskomarokha150
    @vikkiskomarokha150 2 роки тому +4

    Thank you for adding definitions and explanations! It really helped understand the story better this time around! I swear the story gets better every time we hear it!

  • @Jen-ns9rs
    @Jen-ns9rs 2 роки тому +20

    I’m Christian not Mormon (only stating to show we can all “learn” from one another/are more alike than not as humans) but you said something that I absolutely needed to hear in this. Love y’all.

    • @debbiebousquet5677
      @debbiebousquet5677 2 роки тому +1

      Most religions stim to 1 God. That is the connection. An I don't c some1 as Jewish or gay or stereo typing.... cuz that's how u miss out on meeting good people in life.. an it's Not our job to judge how someone lives their lives...

    • @dvf4550
      @dvf4550 Рік тому

      Mormon is a nickname. They belong to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and are indeed Christians, too. :)

  • @ashleyi7911
    @ashleyi7911 2 роки тому +5

    Love your story and the connection you guys share now. I know you’ve mentioned going to therapy before and how much it helped your marriage. My husband and I are looking into finding counseling and this gives me hope.

  • @kellywohnsen7950
    @kellywohnsen7950 2 роки тому +6

    I just love that story ❤️ and I love you guys and your family! Your videos keep my spirits high (especially through homeschooling my kids the past 2+ years). Thank you!

  • @donnaheater9090
    @donnaheater9090 2 роки тому +5

    What a lovely live story. My heart was melting listening to your story. Great content to share with your children and grands someday. Thank you for sharing.
    ❤️Love Nana from NY❤️

  • @---BAM---
    @---BAM--- 2 роки тому +8

    You two are so cute!!! Your energy from what we can see is really beautiful together. Thank you for sharing your story. 🥰 and did I see a little tear in Dallin's eye. I am so glad you two are happy. Even if I really don't know you.

  • @marybethsmarvellouslife4490
    @marybethsmarvellouslife4490 2 роки тому +6

    Feel better, George! And enjoy all the shows! 💜 James, you’re such a wonderful sister 😊💜 When you’re older and watching this, please know how much laughter and joy your whole family has brought to us in sharing your lives with us 😊 Great story time, Ashley and Dallin! 💜🎉

  • @alysamcnatt7215
    @alysamcnatt7215 2 роки тому +2

    As a 21 year old(LDS)in Utah, it is so nice to hear both of your perspectives on this ! It resonated with me so much ! Thank you ! ♥️

  • @elleeeveee
    @elleeeveee 2 роки тому +5

    Thank you for sharing ur love story! Always love hearing it whenever you guys talk about it and when Ashley describes her feelings at that time. Very cute and entertaining 😊

  • @deannaeakle8680
    @deannaeakle8680 2 роки тому +6

    I just love you two! I’ve so enjoyed watching you both grow and mature over the years. Georgie was just a tiny thing when I first started watching you guys. I’m really proud of you both.

  • @81sandynae
    @81sandynae 2 роки тому +6

    As an OG Dashley follower...this is one of my favorite stories of yours. So sweet.❤️

  • @bethmeredith
    @bethmeredith 2 роки тому +3

    Thanks for sharing your story as I'm sure it will help others. Prayers George will be better soon.

  • @shirleywarner8831
    @shirleywarner8831 2 роки тому +3

    Great love story and wonderful parents to your little ones. I love the way you interact with the kids and play with them and introduce them for the "first time introducing" the kids.

  • @alisharocklin2741
    @alisharocklin2741 2 роки тому +8

    I love the emotion in the telling of your story, and the genuine love I can see from both of you for one another. Thank you so much for sharing!💜💙💚

  • @deeperk982
    @deeperk982 2 роки тому +4

    I’ve heard your story before and it never gets old..When you know,you know ❤️

  • @Angus_CR7
    @Angus_CR7 2 роки тому +3

    So love hearing your story! Wishing you both many more years of love and happiness ❤️

  • @bamvlogs-baileyandsam5171
    @bamvlogs-baileyandsam5171 2 роки тому +4

    I’ve heard this story before on the podcast but I always Iove hearing y’all tell it. Hah. Normally I feel like Dallin is trying to move around it fast but it was fun to hear both sides in this video! Glad y’all found your way back to each other. ♥️

  • @Tenamf
    @Tenamf 2 роки тому +3

    This was a beautiful awesome love story ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏼
    Thank you for sharing!

  • @AdventuresWithC3
    @AdventuresWithC3 2 роки тому +4

    I'm glad your grandpa took the time to encourage you. That would be one thing I really wish we had instead of having to keep it a secret although maybe that is what helped make it more special. Hope George recovers quickly and doesn't pass it on.

  • @LegoJams
    @LegoJams 2 роки тому +1

    I love seeing the old photos and see how much the two of you have grown up. My husband and I just celebrated our 20th anniversary and looking back at the wedding photos and it’s the same thing. We have grown up so much.

  • @lindad1195
    @lindad1195 2 роки тому +3

    Very sweet story! I love it!

  • @bleonard1803
    @bleonard1803 2 роки тому +1

    Interesting story. I thought I was an OG Dashley and knew most of your stories but this one was new to me.

  • @katiemccarthy5349
    @katiemccarthy5349 2 роки тому +1

    Love you guys. You are my kind of people with your candour and down to earth , humorous attitude to life 💞

  • @jestonkin2998
    @jestonkin2998 2 роки тому +1

    I love you guys! And love all the old pictures you shared! ❤️

  • @noraredpath8194
    @noraredpath8194 2 роки тому +3

    I love this so very much…thank you for sharing !
    I’m so glad you two are together… And I think God was behind it all :)

  • @kerriewilkerson2157
    @kerriewilkerson2157 2 роки тому +2

    Loved hearing this again, y’all are just the cutest…💕❤️

  • @mysonruns
    @mysonruns 2 роки тому +3

    You guys are so cute! Thanks for sharing your story!

  • @kimnelligan9820
    @kimnelligan9820 2 роки тому +3

    That is such a beautiful story that is something you can tell your children when they get older I’m glad to see you’re both together and will live happily ever after beautiful family a beautiful home

  • @pconan1
    @pconan1 2 роки тому +2

    Best Vlog ever. I love your story

  • @Kathleensailorgirl
    @Kathleensailorgirl 2 роки тому +4

    I just love you both, my husband was very active in church and he told me that he heard loud and clear in the Lord’s voice that He had heard his prayers and that I was to be his wife 💕💕💕🙏🙏🙏

  • @wdc4560
    @wdc4560 2 роки тому +1

    Aww man that was a beautiful story!

  • @maryannsarkady7950
    @maryannsarkady7950 2 роки тому +4

    Sending get well wishes to George, your story is sweet

  • @jodimaderoable
    @jodimaderoable 2 роки тому +22

    I have been a quiet watcher since I helped you unlock your iPhone lol 😂 (you gave me a shout out) but y’all are still my favorite people figured I’d tell you hello!

    • @TheDashleys
      @TheDashleys  2 роки тому +5

      You saaaaved me lol thank you!!!

  • @juliahjalmarsson7317
    @juliahjalmarsson7317 2 роки тому +2

    Vlog daaaaaaay whoop whop!! 😍😍

  • @carolmiland9665
    @carolmiland9665 2 роки тому +4

    Such love between you two. Beautiful family and you are both great parents. 👍

  • @jamieodaniel8311
    @jamieodaniel8311 Рік тому

    Thank you for that word scrupulous it puts perfect words to the debate/conversation in my world right now

  • @catherinemiller2351
    @catherinemiller2351 2 роки тому +3

    You two are just great and I love your little family ❤️

  • @allisonbiere7894
    @allisonbiere7894 Рік тому

    Aww this is the cutest story of you two getting together even though I watched all of your videos and heard the story a few times.

  • @jeney4
    @jeney4 2 роки тому +1

    Awe. Love it. Be kind to you younger selves.

  • @guicefamily5374
    @guicefamily5374 2 роки тому +1

    I loved this!

  • @erinsinclair-pequeen2052
    @erinsinclair-pequeen2052 2 роки тому +2

    My husband and I cracked up over 'mackin out' !!! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @yikescass
    @yikescass 2 роки тому +1

    You guys are so cute I can barely stand it. I just loved this. Thanks so much.

  • @TimonTown
    @TimonTown 2 роки тому

    great story guys!!!

  • @sierralittle8551
    @sierralittle8551 2 роки тому +4

    Ohhh long time follower, I never knew that Ashley was also talking with someone when she was interested in Dallin. Either way you marriage was definitely the right decision and has had a positive impact on my life ✨️ 🌴 😘

  • @hawkinsfamilyadventures5341
    @hawkinsfamilyadventures5341 2 роки тому +2

    I love your love story so happy you found each other 💞💞

  • @connieweber7449
    @connieweber7449 2 роки тому +4

    What a sweet love story. You two are meant to be together. 😀❤

  • @jenflowers7392
    @jenflowers7392 2 роки тому +2

    Your so cute. Reminds me of our story I knew the m moment I seen my husband he would be mine.......took him a little longer. I'm not religious at all but we where meant to be. I gave him chances but like you didn't beg and I have up! Fast forward after 17yrs and two kids later. I just knew quicker than him and had to wait till it was our time! Xx

  • @rebeccag8163
    @rebeccag8163 2 роки тому +1

    I loved Dallin’s little Taylor Swift reference there! You two are the cutest 🥰

  • @stacivilhauer1635
    @stacivilhauer1635 2 роки тому +1

    Love your story

  • @valeriedflaum4217
    @valeriedflaum4217 2 роки тому +1

    U2 are still newlyweds. Im happy for you and sad for the rest of us.
    I didn't give up on "Him" he stagnated and i kept changing and
    growing. "He" didn't notice how much help i needed while going to work, school and taking care of kids and house. He was napping while i finished with kids and household chores.

  • @jennifermassie7227
    @jennifermassie7227 2 роки тому +4

    Saw the title and almost puked!!! Then I remembered you telling us about when you guys broke up years ago!! Then thankfully you guys pulled your heads out of your A$$E$ and here you are today!! 3 beautiful kids and 2 precious puppies later and we have the Dashley Family!!!❤🇨🇦❤🇨🇦❤

  • @cicilmay
    @cicilmay 2 роки тому +1

    I love your story ❤️

  • @natashaoconnor7845
    @natashaoconnor7845 2 роки тому +2

    I just (found) your channel absolutely love...love your love story your family is so beautiful 😍

  • @NiCoLe77A
    @NiCoLe77A 2 роки тому

    So cute!!!
    I’m having something similar, and I really hope he’s coming back soon. It’s been a month of no talk/see/meet… send me good vibes or prayers…
    We used to make jokes about how much we clicked and how profound it was.
    Send me positive thoughts 🙏🙏🙏🙏 he is the love of my life.

  • @beckybox2596
    @beckybox2596 2 роки тому +1

    What great love story 💕

  • @dvf4550
    @dvf4550 Рік тому

    And now, married for time and all eternity. Thanks for sharing.

  • @jennamoon9707
    @jennamoon9707 2 роки тому +1

    What a beautiful young couple figuring out a love story ❤

  • @debiantReads
    @debiantReads 2 роки тому +1

    Lol I can’t help but to laugh but in a good way have t stop smiling the whole time. It was the ending that got me lol. I know the story but still this is time around it’s worded different so it’s still new to me.

  • @shannonanderson32
    @shannonanderson32 2 роки тому +1

    Your love story is awesome.

  • @rizzystephenson
    @rizzystephenson 2 роки тому +1

    Those pictures are adorable!

  • @tapangalarson3445
    @tapangalarson3445 2 роки тому +2

    They way Dallin looks at you!

  • @dawnsutherland3461
    @dawnsutherland3461 2 роки тому +2

    Love your love story.

  • @dawnsutherland3461
    @dawnsutherland3461 2 роки тому +3

    Get well George.

  • @ajcurran100
    @ajcurran100 2 роки тому

    Such a little story. Love has a way of finding you

  • @jennyjs72
    @jennyjs72 2 роки тому +1

    lol reminds me of my husband and mine start of our relationship! We have now been married 26 yrs. In the beginning tho I broke it off with him I think 2 times. It was a hot mess! I think it shows tho the passion and fight we had even then to be together.

  • @hannahscakecreations
    @hannahscakecreations 2 роки тому

    Made me tear up 💗

  • @marlareid883
    @marlareid883 2 роки тому +5

    I want another story time, The Engagement and all that led up to it. I know it was in her class, but all the details.

    • @jennifermassie7227
      @jennifermassie7227 2 роки тому +1

      They did do one. Just search The Dashleys engagement. It was so stinking sweet!!❤🇨🇦❤🇨🇦❤

    • @marlareid883
      @marlareid883 2 роки тому +2

      @@jennifermassie7227 yes, I have seen that one. I am wanting more to the story from Dallin's side of it. Did he ask her Dad, did he tell anyone else in their families what his plan was. How did he choose the ring, all that stuff.

    • @jennifermassie7227
      @jennifermassie7227 2 роки тому +2

      @@marlareid883 ohhhh ok lol ya I don't know any of that!! Now that you brought it up I would like to know now too!! Only if he wants to go so in depth about it. Lol❤🇨🇦❤🇨🇦❤

    • @marlareid883
      @marlareid883 2 роки тому +2

      @@jennifermassie7227 I am in Ottawa 🇨🇦🍁

    • @jennifermassie7227
      @jennifermassie7227 2 роки тому +2

      @@marlareid883 I've been noticing a ton of Canadians on other UA-cam channels lately!!! Makes me so proud when other countries (a lot of Americans) say how lucky I am to live in such a wonderful country!! I thank them but also say we have plenty of our fare share of shitty people!!❤🇨🇦❤🇨🇦❤

  • @melrhea12
    @melrhea12 2 роки тому +2

    Ashley is so naturally beautiful!!

  • @debbiebousquet5677
    @debbiebousquet5677 2 роки тому +2

    Both of y'all r the sweetest a most loving people ... an I'm glad ur the 1st second choice.... heeheehee an 3 adorable an beautiful babies... heeheehee

  • @patwainright7960
    @patwainright7960 2 роки тому

    Love you guys 😊

  • @carolsweet8592
    @carolsweet8592 2 роки тому +1

    Awesome love

  • @TheLindz123
    @TheLindz123 2 роки тому +3

    If I didn't remember this story I would have died on the spot 😂

  • @cliff1958
    @cliff1958 2 роки тому +1

    Sometimes us blokes need a little Push we're not good at reading the signals love this video 😂

  • @valeriedflaum4217
    @valeriedflaum4217 2 роки тому +1

    Dalin doesn't act like he's doing his chores with kids. It's his kids. Amazing!

  • @andreajames4117
    @andreajames4117 2 роки тому +1

    Love everything dashley but turn the outro down it’s so loud!!!

  • @vilma8298
    @vilma8298 2 роки тому +2

    How come Ashley has not aged at all? You would think there were fine lines or something 😯 if she has found the fountain of youth, were can I get some?

  • @Whistlenirish
    @Whistlenirish 2 роки тому +2

    Ashley reminds me of Rory Gilmore in this vlog. 😄

  • @Karellybean
    @Karellybean 2 роки тому +1

    Imo it is not the religion but the spirit who guides us AMEN!

  • @dianabarrick4663
    @dianabarrick4663 2 роки тому +1

    You two are so stinkin cute!!!

  • @gloriahess2469
    @gloriahess2469 2 роки тому

    You are the cutest!

  • @mmb1896
    @mmb1896 2 роки тому

    Support

  • @mariahorsfield76
    @mariahorsfield76 2 роки тому +2

    I found my for ever love by knocking on he’s door looking for my ex has my ex rented a room from him and we been together just about from day one 20 yrs later 3 kids and 3 grandchildren

  • @suezaratzian8804
    @suezaratzian8804 2 роки тому

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @wanda4573
    @wanda4573 2 роки тому

    Cute story

  • @bernadettew3614
    @bernadettew3614 2 роки тому

    ❣️

  • @beverly7239
    @beverly7239 2 роки тому

    ❤️

  • @letty88
    @letty88 2 роки тому +1

    Looks like someone wanted to be on "Responding to Hate comments episode 4" Jokes on you Marcia 😳

  • @kerrividler6571
    @kerrividler6571 2 роки тому

    Omg your story is not that far from mine, only I was a heck of alot older and my partner wanted to be with someone else and blah de blah I’ve made him feel guilty so many times since them lol

  • @amandahendrix8533
    @amandahendrix8533 Рік тому

    You manifested each other

  • @suziq143
    @suziq143 Рік тому

    I listened to this twice this morning. And what did I hear? That you found each other while doing service for others. I also heard GOD say....stop! Slow down, be still. The right person will be there. Just when you least expect it. AND, pretend to be asleep! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @KellyBurklund
    @KellyBurklund 2 роки тому

    Dallin the heartbreaker.

  • @Jennifer-el1bw
    @Jennifer-el1bw 2 роки тому

    Why did you name your daughter James

  • @Nona23parsons
    @Nona23parsons 2 роки тому +1

    "Committing a sin against God because I actually like Ashley...." God must have been laughing loudly at that thought in your head, Dallin!😆

  • @beckymesbah7905
    @beckymesbah7905 2 роки тому +1

    Wow guy that's so beautiful
    But del u prat u could of lost her

  • @Edgedamage01
    @Edgedamage01 2 роки тому +1

    She was a great girl.....super nice ....hate her 🤣🤣🤣

  • @andyoung2438
    @andyoung2438 2 роки тому

    Ft