I Left South Africa!! | I'm Back In Bali, Life Update and MORE
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- I'm Back In Bali!! I Left South Africa, Life Update, Day in My Life.
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Malcolm “MJ” Harris helps you live your best life emotionally, romantically, and financially - and he makes you laugh alot! MJ is an internationally recognized lifestyle and business influencer who has been featured by Oprah, USA Today and Black Enterprise. He has a global reach of over 20 million people each month - across social media and TV. In addition to this, he is the CEO and founder of MJ Harris Financial Services, which is one of America's largest African-American owned financial services firms. MJ’s rise began when he started creating empowering and aspirational digital content about lessons learned from his path of achieving success after overcoming a childhood surrounded by abuse and addiction. Through his videos, online courses, and live events, he created a loyal global fanbase and quickly became a powerhouse in the self-improvement industry.
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MJ I am so happy you went back to BALI alone to get the full experience of life there. I just can't help to wonder about Marco coping with you not around to guide him. I hope your MOM is there, because he doesn't quite make good decisions on his own yet. DJ is so laid back, trouble won't find him, but Marco? Have fun and live your best life. BTW, I love that shirt.
Night life in bali...
show the beach
A tour around Bali 🧡
If you are ever coming back to the US? A talk about that.
I'm so happy you're doing things to focus on you. You look great and I'm so happy with the growth you have made as a parent ❤
My daughter is moving out of my house and moving to Texas on the 1st of June. She will be 9-10hrs away and I know, this is what the both of us need. My husband and I were very young when we had her. I dedicated my Life to raising and nurturing her. She is a college graduate and is in a solid relationship. It's time for us both to evolve and become our best versions of ourselves. It's also time for my husband and I to focus on our bond. Taking advantage of our empty nest 😜 So I totally understand what you are talking about.
BELIEVE IT OR NOT YOU WILL FEEL LOST FOR A MINUTE, THEN YOU GOING TO BE LIKE LORD MY CHILD BET NOT HAVE TO COME BACK I LOVE NOT BEING RESPONSIBLE FOR NOONE ITS A GOOD FEELING,I KNOW EVERY TIME MY PHONE RING I HE THINKING 1 OF MY KIDS BET NOT SAY THEY NEED TO COME BACK HOME.
@@kimberlygray7629 I definitely felt that when she left for college. This time when she leaves my wallet stays with me 🤣🤣 and I've already made plans for her bedroom. So I pray it works out for her 🙏🏾😂
What's your secret? My daughter is 27 and still live with me! 🤦🏿♀️
Tell your daughter "Welcome to Texas!"
Omg… I did the same as you ❤! I love to travel and I want to save money for a home. Plus, my jobs consulting as chemist has been remote since Covid luckily (documentation, GMP audits, and management mostly now). So, I decided to put all my items in storage, travel the world 🌍, visit friends and family, and live my best life before I buy a house and one day have a family with kids hopefully. I stayed in Accra, Ghana for six months last year because I met a boo thang. We just moved to his home country of Cotonou, Benin since he found remote jobs too (super cheap here to rent an apartment near the beautiful beach). We are living our best lives. I’m still traveling in between times. Sometimes we go together, but it’s tougher for him to get visas to some countries. I must admit us Americans have it easy traveling around the world and getting visa approvals so easily. I just love hearing stories like yours, because it inspires me and confirms that I’m right where I’m supposed to be in life! ❤
I’ve made the same decisions you’ve made. We train our children and let them exercise those lessons …life is short enjoy it and we still can love our children.
This has really help me in my direction with my son. I have become so consumed with making sure his 23 yr ahh is good that I have put myself on the back burner. NO MORE! Thanks you MJ
It sure did resonate. I’m 33 & I feel like I do things to satisfy my dad because how hard he is on me, but I know what kind of person I am. I just want to enjoy myself sometimes. I feel like I’ll be an old maid if I live my life trying to please him.
I know exactly how you feel! I’m 34 and I always do things to satisfy my mom. I’m just slowly getting out of trying to please her and others.
You live your life for YOU..
Y’all better live life. U only have one. I’m so upset with myself that I didn’t do me. Please change that mindset and enjoy life. Safely. MJ is a great inspiration
I’m 42 and I can IDENTIFY!!! I have so many regrets caring about what they wanted. I retire in 7 years and IM GONE!!!! Be of luck to you!
Your message of setting boundaries and doing and thinking for yourself instead of others resonated with me ❤ thank uou for sharing MJ
Yea yes!! Boundaries is the word of year!! ❤
MJ they needed a break. MJ you are a beautiful person and you have the most loving and beautiful family. The young men needs a break to become strong Black young men.
It’s lovely to be free and travel. 😊
I felt ever moment of that life update. I'm 43 almost... And last year I started back with art learning a new technique and now I'm praying everything goes right for me to do my first sell and showing next month. So all good prayers for this next chapter. I still have a 15 and soon 18 yr old and a 23 that's beginning not to be let go but I had to let him fly okay. And now his room is my studio which can always be changed but at least resort okay 👍🏾 and bless all a good future. So I definitely understand this whole life update 💖💪🏾🦄
Chile! Let me tell you. I binge watched your videos from years ago until the current ones. Chile let me tell you that they helped me a lot. Very therapeutic. By the time the guy I was dating was very sus in terms of cheating but I was just too weak to let go. Until one day I discovered that he married someone behind my back (we had plans to get married). I took it so well that even he was surprised at how well I was taking it. It would actually make him angry that I'm fine. Until one day he tried it with me and to his surprise I am now in a very stable relationship with a mature and masculine man. Thank you mj. What I am trying to say is the therapy I was getting from your videos allowed me to truly move on with my life and learn to appreciate the new good man who is in my life now.
Your so very right!! I’m so busy taking care of everyone that I have forgotten about living my own life ❤
It’s time for you to focus on you ❤
Thanks for sharing. I’ve been struggling with letting our young adult daughters live life and learn from their mistakes. I am so concerned and want them to be safe and make good decisions. The only way that I can do that is to let them live and make their own decisions. Thanks for the confirmation 💕
Great share MJ! Our daughter is 15 and autistic, just finished 10th grade (barely!) but I’m starting to also live in my purpose too. Hubby and I are figuring it out to where even though she will likely need us more and for longer, we will not revolve everything around her to the detriment of self or our marriage. She WILL be OK. Periodt! 👌🏾
Hey 👋🏽 MJ and enjoy! Thanks for taking us along with you until we can go. Much love ❤️
One person who I watch and just smile throughout the video…MJ Is just a breath of fresh Air🥰🥰
Good info/insight. I have 2 adult children, 1 who is married w/kids. BUT "helicopter" parenting is all of the things you described. Especially when your makeup is caregiving, protecting, providing, teaching. Good stuff!!
Yess MJ is getting back to MJ. I just had this revelation for myself this past Saturday. I love it , this was great. Congratulations I'm happy for everyone getting back to themselves.
MJ I really appreciate your message about putting yourself first. I work full time in healthcare and it’s draining me. I think every day about how I need to switch to part time! Need to figure out another source of income still. But it’s nice to be validated that I’m not wrong for feeling the way I do about my career.
Where are the boys?
What the video, he explains it 😊
They moved out, when they visited Africa. They really didn’t want to travel in the first place with MJ. His mama is smart she knew. So she suggested for MJ to go traveling alone.
They both have their own apartments in So Africa
This is exactly what I needed to hear! Thank you for everything that you said, for being your authentic self, and allowing the world to see! :)
Good on you, MJ! I can sense how you have come full circle in your parenting! Love it! ❤
Im sooooo glad you are living your best life for you. Love you MJ
I LOVE YOU MJ, listening to you has really encouraged me to set my boundaries and stay firm on my peace💕
Omg! I cried when listening to you! I uprooted my life for my grown daughter! I gave up my dating life and just life in general! Just trying to protect my daughter from making bad decisions! Thank you for this! I have to live my life as well
Yes get out there and live. You do not need to give up your entire life to support these young adults .
This vlog hit so close to home for me. Thank you MJ because you said out loud what I have been holding in.
Much love to you! I hope every parent will reason like you MJ
Love seeing you happy and in a sense care free. Its inspiring and I know liberating for you. Enjoy every moment of this new journey!
That joy is radiating off of U!😘🥂🫶💯💫
You better speak a whole word! Yes that definitely resonates! I am so glad for this chapter in your life MJ!
Thank you. I needed that affirmation it was a confirmation ❤. Enjoy
Yaaassssss! Thank you for those critical reminders, and for doing / being You! And encouraging us all to do the same … wishing you a joyful and exciting day ❤❤❤
so glad to see u in your energy .. this is why i subscribed!!❤ life be lifing but cream always rises to the top!! love u boo❤
MJ, this is so appropriate for me at this time. I have been waiting to make moves. Blessings brother
M.J got a man now y'all lol and he not telling us. I think it's that black guy from South Africe. Remember when he was getting dressed that time in the Hotel. The man was telling him how to where the neck piece. M.J glowing! that's why he getting space from the boys cause he doing him for a while.
MJ, you are totally 💯 correct.
I've dedicated my life to raising my daughter and she's grown now. That's where I'm at, trying to figure out my next chapter in life. We do need the time and freedom to do so. You're such a blessing and I appreciate the inspiration.
Looks like you're having a wonderful time and I'm very happy for you🎉🎉🎉
I LOVE that you are enjoying this journey! The learning and discoveries, chiiiiile😅
Happy, looks fabulous on you😃❤
Thank you so much for sharing the fact that we need to live life!!! I’m taking your advice and running with it!!!
Enjoy yourself praying for your safety and the boys be blessed.
Hello Mr. Harris I would first like to say I enjoy all of your content. You have said some things that hit home for me and I'm using some of your tools to work on myself to be a better person to me. Please keep up the great work. I'm looking forward to what you have next. ❤
Yassss
your energy is different here, you are glowing! I love traveling and gives me so much joy and energy! Loveeee this video!
Love you love you love you! Thank you for all the inspiration❤ thank you for living BIG and showing us that we can too!
I just love you MJ. Your solid sense of logic and overall wisdom around the intricacies of living life and parenting. I wish you all the best on your “Do you” era! Blessings ❤
I am so glad that spoke on doing you. Basically let go others to allow them to find their own way. Getting back to you.
Content I signed up for. Thank you for always being inspirational and uplifting us. A lot of nuggets of wisdom in this video
I was wondering what happened to you guys. Glad that you are safe and involving us in your day to day. I have been following you from the first days on videoing. Boy have you grown and changed…only for the better. Keep living your best life you are a true inspiration.
This so informative as well as pleasurable and one of the reasons why I started following you way back when. Thank for getting back to the basics.
So happy to see you happy. Lesson learned, Knowing When To Let Go and Live Your Best Life !!!
I just love your energy. The jewels you speak are so much needed. We are never to old to learn.
Yes be intentional and explore and find your best self you deserve it🤸🏿♀️
I like your energy in this vlog!keep your spirit up!
you seem so happy MJ. love it for you ♥✨
MJ, I am so happy you’re taking time for yourself. Enjoy! 🤗🇯🇲🇺🇸
I love these updates and traveling with you🤗.
Omg. This stepped all on my toes and I needed to hear these words spoken into my life. Thank you so much for this inspiration❣️🙏🏿
Thanks MJ. I needed to hear this.
Thank You 🙏🏾
I Needed That Pep Talk, Thank You!
I so needed to hear this! Thank you!
I L♡♡♡♡♡Ve you MJ. You always have encouraging things to say. Gods continued Blessings and Success 🙏🏼🙌🏼
This is exactly what I needed to hear! TY
Live out loud! I love it! Enjoy
MJ ain’t nothing wrong with choosing you & living your best life….you are sooooo on point with the video I to have had to face this….& I’m trying to live my best life rn & STOP ppl pleasing…..Thank you I needed this convo 🥰
I’m proud of you, MJ! ❤
Home is wherever you are - live and make it amazing! LOVE the fit, as always! 😍
I love it MJ… Choose YOU as you care for and care about them…
Live your life!💕
What I needed to hear!!!❤
Much needed ❤ Thank you MJ 💕
Everything you said was on point! Gave me a lot to think about. Thankyou🙏💜
Thank you, great information and a blessing to you and us by sharing details.
Hello. You are a great father to these young men. Glad your focusing on yourself.❤❤
You are living your best life!
MJ my best video from you yet thank you I’m just in that space you are talking about and feel so liberated ❤️❤️❤️❤️
This is so helpful to me because I need to start putting myself first. Thank you MJ! 💜
MJ I needed to hear this( I've been thinking lately about taking a trip or doing something special for me 🥂)💜💙💜💙💜
I truly enjoyed this video! This message resonated with me❤
New subscriber, when I tell you everything you said hit home, I needed to hear every word
MJ enjoy yourself but just remember be careful
Enjoy life MJ. I LOVE YOU ❤️
You know listening to your videos make me feel uplifted ty MJ😍
I love the way you inspire me. I have said yes to everyone around me except my self.
I needed this message TODAY. Thank you.
Yes MJ, I feel you on this, my mom is retired and Thank GOD in pretty good health, but sometimes I tend to not do anything for myself because I wanna make sure she is good. But I do need to say yes to myself and take a trip, hey maybe even Bali. Your such an inspiration! Thanks for sharing❤❤❤!
LOVE YOU LOTS BEST FRIEND MJ 😍❤️ YOU ARE AMAZING ❤️ 😍 HAVE LOTS OF FUN 😍❤️🎉 ENJOY YOURSELF 🎉❤️😍
I just love you!! I am a 68 year old mom, grandma, and great grandma. You are amazing!! I am planning to come with my nephew next year. I would love to meet you and give you a big hug!! I can see you and my nephew being good friends.
Wow! My nephew said he met you in LA 8 years ago. You were doing a conference about insurance. That's crazy!!
TRULY love this video MJ, ♥️all the tips🙌🏽
So Encouraging Thank You For The Update🥰🥰🥰
Hi MJ, it resonates, mindset is everything & I needed this message, thank you!
You look fabulous & glowing! Like a weight has been lifted off your shoulders. Enjoy 😊
I Love you & THANK YOU❤ Take us everywhere with you! Needed this inspiration 😘
You are so gorgeous 😍😍!!! I can listen to you talk all day everyday.
Wow MJ, For sure setting boundaries and taking care of yourself is important. Parenting can be stressful when they become adults and trying to continuously protect them. Let them grow and know that you have provided them with the tools to be successful.
Happy For You MJ! 🙌🏾
I just love your spirit abd your good energy. Enjoy yourself you deserve it ❤❤❤❤
I AM so happy for U that U have U for U now. Stay happy and continue your gr8 journey.
You’re so full of light😊
I have a teenager waiting for graduation and honey I’m ready to move to Bali too!!!!
MJ, you say it all, am going through exactly same things with my teenage kids?? Thanks so much 🎉❤am so glad that everything is going to be ok 👍🏼🙏🏽🙏🏽
❤❤ I needed to hear this because I want to move on to another state I'm 59 but I need more
I was going through the EXACT emotional situation you were going through with the boys. I am a caregiver-a people pleaser . The weight of the situation gets better when we ask ourselves what have I done for me lately. What do I want to do, now? It is so liberating when you look back and know you have to give yourself permission and the responsibility to take care of self.
Marc, very good decision to live your life and let the adult children develop to their best version. They are allow to make mistakes, its their mistakes. Live your life, you are allow to be happyyy! Warm regards from Curacao.
Glad you made this! This vlog is so useful for me because I plan on visiting (then maybe moving to) Bali or Thailand!