16 Personalities Getting Over a Crush
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- The 16 Myers-Briggs Personalities Getting over a Crush on Somebody
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I didn’t miss it somehow :)
I never miss your videos, they're too good
Hey, what is the sad song that starts with "You've heard this before" line?
So according to your educated opinion, Forrest Gump was an ISFP?
ISFP was the Forrest Gump reference right?
INFJ, nailed it. There's no getting over a crush, there's only quashing down your feelings and pretending they ain't there so you don't make things awkward.
You shouldn’t do that.
Useless info I’m sure, but I felt compelled to tell you. At the very least, you should write her a lengthy confession letter. At worst she won’t respond, but more than likely she’ll save such a heartfelt letter and read it over and over for years…every time some other numbskull breaks her heart. 😉🥰
I went for my crush; he wound up being NPD. Be careful what you wish for.
@@CrownedMeadow Ha ha, I appreciate that, you're very sweet! He already knows I had a crush, he just doesn't know I still do.
@@CrownedMeadow i always do that. Never works out.
3 years and still strong babyyyyyyy
Although I agree with the INTJ's concept that having a crush is basically mental bloatware, I still feel sorry for the INFP's imaginary children. 😂
And Bosco 🐶😭 He was such good boy ...
same!!
Ikr lol I already uninstall that thing 6 yrs ago 😂
Yo is Marinette an infp? 😂
Don't worry. I have six imaginary children and they are doing so well!
0:00 ISFJ
0:13 ISTP
0:23 ENTP
0:43 ISTJ
0:54 ESFP
1:00 ESTP
1:19 ISFP
1:48 ESFJ
2:04 ENTJ
2:21 INTJ
2:31 ENFJ
2:46 ENFP
3:11 INTP
3:30 INFP
3:56 ESTJ
4:11 INFJ
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HEY ,ENFP here and yes I'm clumsy as hell and often falls for the bad one too.
As an ENTP I was looking for time stamp comment as soon as the video started lol
@@minimalizzz6896 me too as an ISTJ
@@minimalizzz6896 Me too, as a INTP.
@@minimalizzz6896 me too i am infp 💁♀️
thank you for your service, my friend
As an INTJ I’ve always seen crushes as a problem to be solved. Either get the person or forget them. And I’m usually pretty straight forward so it was sort of “do you want me yes or no” situation.
As a fellow INTJ, I agree with it being a problem to be solved..I normally just talk to them so that it crushes the unrealistic image I have of them in my mind.
I like that
Yep. The problem is that our straightforward, no nonsense, no beating around the bush approach tends to scare off most of the population. I tried to tone this down this year when I approached my crush and I clearly failed because they bolted like their hair caught fire. Oh well.
@@raven_bard that’s how you separate the worthy ones. If they stay you know they’re worth it.
@@raven_bard Speaking as an ENFP, I would literally love someone to be direct and honest with me please and thank you that is attractive
as an INFJ i can confirm, i have never gotten over a crush in my life - the feelings are still there, it just begins to have less impact on your everyday life
True. There's still a tinkling sensation whenever I talk about/see my childhood crush😄
Couldn’t agree more.
yeah, I can agree. Though, I also have a belief that every person we meet has a impact in our lives specially if it's a crush. So, I never forget them completely. But their impact slowly drops down as we get more impacts.
I guess then INFPs are the same, cause I am one
INFP here and, uh, same. I'll admit, it's reassuring to hear I'm not alone. Most people don't seem to talk about this, or at least don't admit to it.
As an INFP, getting over crush or one sided love is super painful. Eternal depression.
It's like pulling up a bed of weeds, only to find small, sadder weeds underneath.
Bruh just recovered from a summer fling.. brutal 😪
@@JayTohab that is a beautiful image. You are a poet. Make art out of your misery.
Felt that
And I must say, as an INFJ that is also super painful. Devastating even.
Crushes: *exist
Me as an INTJ: we don't do that here, delete that, we NEVER do that here.
best way to get over them is talk to them and be disappointed.
Nice pfp lol.
Queen Sae Byeok :DD
@@HisameArtwork hahah
@@justanotherlinglingwannabe546 awe thanks
@@HisameArtwork THIS
And Let’s talk about ESTJ’s hate for Timmy...
i think timmy is an INFP
I feel that strongly as well that Timmy is an INFP 🤣
we hate timmy. (im a ESTJ)
In a thread a few months back we had a long discussion and agreed Timmy was probably an ISFP
@@dannyman2k judgers have a tendency to be the only person of their own type they truly like, TJs of the same type are just good at suppressing their dislike for each other when they figure out they actually feel it.
why do I feel we (INFJs) use Franks channel as a support group 😂
Fully! Hahaha
because we do💀
It’s easier to have my feelings explained to me by someone else who understands than for me to explain my own feelings. I can read other people, though. Yep. Just focus on them, not me. Maybe it’ll make the voices quieter.
idk, why do we
Haha, I've been binging this channel to get some of my feelings out so I don't get completely stuck in Ni-Ti-Loop^^ Always helps to know that I can still laugh. Thanks FJ!
INFJ here: basically we want someone to love us but we also run when it looks like that could happen. Self sabotage at it’s emotional finest. 😂
Not an INFJ, but my whole soul felt that. If I sabotage or run away from any potential committed relationship you can never be hurt!! Trying to unlearn that coping mechanism but it’s reeeaallllyyy hard 😅
@@ოChiamariaო that is exactly an INFJ thing!
Always 😂
INFP here, same thing for me, I always get scared when it comes to facing my emotions lol especially when they’re reciprocated
Must say I do the exact same thing 😂 😅 pining over someone and when they start showing intrest I run for the hills (I'm an enfp)
The description is perfect for an INTP. A logical solution, either to talk to her, ask her out, or just let her go. INTP always chooses a second one.
INTP.
Lol I’m just going to try to get closer over time. I want them to want to talk to me or be okay with talking to me so I don’t seem like a nuisance, annoyance, or come on too strongly. I’ve got months, so. Actually I have a couple years. Hoping the decision kinda makes itself.
Also INTP.
Had a crush for over 3 years (yikes).
I got used to it. Most of the time I can just live my life without it bothering me but some days something reminds me of them and I wonder if things would be different if I asked them out.
But then again the entire process feels so draining that I would rather just go back to ignoring it.
Always.
...unless if they somehow talk to me first, then maybe. But otherwise, not worth the energy.
This was me in high school...100%. And I made the exact same decision.
@@justacat869 This same happens to me a lot
I'm a INFJ and im totaly agree with you, we hide our feelings and we lie to ourselves that we dont like her anymore, when as almost all INFJs we are still obsesionated with her
Yea this happened to me in middle school with a firend of mine.
Just kinda happens and tou cant stop thinking about it
I wanted to just be firends but just really escalated
True 😅 everytime I tell my close frnds I got over him (some crushes even they don't know 🤣) I know it's me trying to convince myself
Yeah had this happen to me often in school so glad I’m not getting to know girls anymore thanks to my work. Slowly I can get over it
Same with me 🥲
So true
being an ENFP, I can confirm that we develop feelings for people based off how abnormal our interactions with them are
Wow, that is one true statement if I ever read one. Thanks for opening my eyes xD
Well that definitely explains a lot, LoL. -INFJ
Yeah... It's a weird thing...
true. my friend says i like people based on how good the story would be
Especially if the moment is really intense
As an ENTP this is 100% accurate. The attraction is lost the minute their dumbness is exposed.
I agree with this comment👀👀👀👀
My crush is ENTP 🤣🤣
INTJ here and I agree. The last time I got close to dating, she turned out to be a real life Yandere (way too obsessive, possessive and lacking impulse control to the point that she became a convicted felon over an insult). Even if she was a 10/10 I'd go out buy some milk...
If she was just mentally challenged, I might endure her for a while longer until I get bored of her...
Yeah I can't tell you how many guys I have dated Who are ugly AF bc they were smart. Like im not The most attractive female, but im far from ugly. If I put in a bit off effort I am pretty good looking. I dated this one guy Who gave 0 fucks about hygene. Super smart, intelligent asf, educated and all but maaan, he was so ugly 😂 He had such poor hygene which is even worse than being ugly. At times I could not have sex with him bc I could not get that physical attraction going and I would vomit in my mouth. It was so fucking sad bc he was good in bed. I had to say fuck this dude, it was gross, but I was like "He had a sexy brain"
@@dicksmashermicrocock7984 I've seen a really attractive woman, but she was such a slob. I was visiting her mother and saw her dirty underwear lying in the open... she had no shame. I'm not obsessed with hygiene or styling, but I don't get how some people can be less clean than pigs.
Ok, as an INFP, the imaginary golden retriever just hit way too close to home
Saying "our future imaginary children" rather than "our imaginary future children" makes it sound like he planned to one day have imaginary children with her, lol.
Wanda Maximoff
The ATTENTION TO DETAIL
bruh thats what he meant lol
what type are u?
What's hilarious though, is Frank said "imaginary, future golden retriever"... the dog was certainly going to be real, lol
INFP: "Not Only Must I let go of my crush on Tiffany, but I've also got to say goodbye to Olive, Hazel and Leopold, our future Imaginary children"
This is way too accurate 🤣 We as INFP have a lot of Imaginations in our head. My Imaginary love, don't leave me 😬
😂😂
You've completely summed up my thoughts watching this
@@steamrazor8084 same lol
In our defence it's hard to let go all those things, like maybe I only saw the real person once in my life, and it was on an airport and I never talked to him. But letting go our family and the life we spent together in my imagination, it's hard
nah i cant relate to this fantasy at all as an INFP..... because fantasizing of an ideal perfect love is what prevents me from having actual real life crushes in the first place
I was waiting for the imaginary dog bit xD FJ knows how much we love animals
Unfortunately, what the INTJ failed to articulate is that the program, once installed, is like those horrible malware buddy programs from the 90s that basically necessitated buying a whole new computer or risk constant blue screens of death. To this day, I *still* think about what I might have done wrong.
LMAO this is so true to me too
I get that the malware is the crush, but how does the metaphor extend to the whole new computer and blue screen?
@@rachelk4805 There were a few programs back in the 90s that were really nasty malware that masqueraded as weather app called weather bug, one called bonzo buddy, etc. The antivirus and malware removal programs weren't nearly as good, so if you purposely installed them it was really damn hard to remove them unless you had an impressive tech skill set.
The best thing you could do was delete most of the primary files, but the malware would randomly blue screen and lock your computer. It was so bad that it was cheaper to buy another computer than it was to buy the components and spend the time trying to repair the damage that was done.
Me too. If only I talked to him 😂
As an INFJ that married the HS best friend that “was so glad it wasn’t weird” back then… and yes I was in love with him the WHOLE time. There IS hope, friends. (He’s INTP so he just had to learn how to have feelings 😂😭)
You're an infj married to an intp?? Really does that even possible tell me how??
oh noo stop giving me hope, i'm literally always *always* in these situations. including right now. not fun :') but happy for you!
@@nesrinesth1 there is a lot of silence in our relationship. We love just BEING together without having to try so hard. We’re both a little emotionally stunted so fights get a little bit loud but they’re incredibly few and far between. We’re each other’s “safe harbor” from the crazy that is real life. We can go about our lives and come home, take off our “put-together, responsible grown up” masks and just BE.
@@qlouds1516 it’ll get better friend! Just remember that someone WILL see your value as you are and you do NOT need to whittle your own self down to fit someone’s wants or image of you 💕
@@0h.hi_Amy.Here.95 I know exactly what you're talking about and I totally agree that intps and infjs are a great match but how can an intp think about marriage in the first place my intp is so scared of settling down marriage for him is not an option. if you don't mind would you share with us your story on how he decided to marry you?
The INTP is actually pretty accurate.
I have never asked anyone out. Ever. My husband (also an INTP) did technically ask me out, but it was via email, and I am the only person he has ever asked out.
I don't think, in general, that INTPs date easily.
I'm an INTP dating another INTP. He asked me out multiple times, I eventually went "hey, I'm actually considering it this time, let me think about this." Got back to him about a week later. Then we had our first date in a Del Taco. The romance!
I think you’re cute INTP couples 🥺
Yes, it’s so true! So if an INTP chooses to date you, it’s a dang high compliment because it means they have really singled you out. Aaaaand they prolly had to overcome a mountain of anxiety to ask you. They may as well have just slain a dragon after mentally calculating that the chance to be with you was worth it. :)
When my husband first asked me out (IN PERSON 😱), he thought he was gonna have a heart attack. 😂
But I had just gifted him some cookies, and it apparently gave him hope after months of him trying to rack up the courage to ask. I mean, you don’t give cookies to someone you HATE…unless they’re oatmeal raisin or poisoned or something. 😂
It seems like INTPs need some sort of sign that you might say “yes” before taking the plunge. 🤔
~ INFP married to INTP
@@Sumjae Very true. Signs are needed. My husband and I were good friends for a couple of years before dating. We met when he was 20 and I was 24.
He said that along with a few other clues, he took hearing me say that it was practically a tradition among the women of my family (We all look younger than we are.) to marry younger men, as a sign that it was meant to be. LOL
Two INTPs dating each other. As another INTP that sounds to me like a combination of late night thought explorations, a whole lot of silent acceptance and almost complete lack of drama.
Fun fact. I once saw my ENTJ friend get over a crush in a matter of five minutes. How did she do it? Well, she asked if it's ever going to work out with her plans to date this guy. Conclusion: to date this guy would hurt all her future plans. And she can't have that. Crush = over. Come one everybody lets get on with life. And there am I, little INFP, amazed. Because I cry my eyes out for days on end over a crush. Honestly, she amazes me.
As an INTJ, that makes sense. We can learn from everyone, stretch ourselves, and grow. 8) Hang in there.
Yes but you have strong feeling. They see it as a simple logical problem to solve. No harder than an arithmetic problem . I'm an ENFP and it takes me a while to get over a crush.
It is because ENTJ are future oriented (focused on future less on memories/past/present). So is normal that is easier to move on, I think because of that.
An ENTJ here . I can understand how they got over it so easily it's just we are focused on goals and future plans so if we get crush on someone and they reject us we just start thinking logically and trying to check if they would work in our plans of future so if the outcome is no we don't really care and just move on.
ENTJ here, still trying to get over someone that broke my heart. But then I remember all the things I hated about them, and things they did that super pissed me off, and I know they'll never be happy so it's okay. There's always other fish in the sea.
My boyfriend is an INTJ and we recently talked about having crushes.. he doesnt understand the concept of crushes at all🤣 as an INFP this seemd so accurate.. very hilarious..thanks Frank
as an INFP who had the most intense crush on an INTJ, I've realized that certainly he didn't have a crush back
@@sitzpinkler1294 Wait, even my first ever crush is an INTJ..I had liked him for almost an decade... what is up with us INFPs crushing on INTJs lol🙂
@@whatpiuloves Lol, I'm an INFP with an INTJ dad so I can't relate at all. I think I develop intense crushes on guys that are F-types because they're so different from him. After talking to my dad about it, I'm pretty sure he married my mom based off of a logical projection of how their relationship would work out. He doesn't even remember how he proposed, but they're still together 36 years later.
@@sitzpinkler1294 big hug! Fellow infp
Yet another INFP crushing on an INTJ here 🙈
INFP here. I can 100% confirm it is really hard and heartbreaking to lose not just a girlfriend but our - yet imaginary - future kids and pets as well. They are part of our relationship and thus our souls so... yeah. Shitty feeling AF.
As an INTJ I must admit ,I have just realized how accurate this is.If I have a crush on someone my immediate instinct especially if I know it's not going anywhere is to get rid of my crush
I understand that you meant getting rid of your crush on the person but at first glance I thought you meant getting rid of the person you have a crush on and I was like “wow OK”
@@nonsense618 no, he meant what you said at first. Get rid of the person.
My husband is an ISTP, and at the beginning of our relationship (like VERY beginning) he said something that pissed me off so bad that I stopped answering his calls (I'm an INFJ). He quickly got the message. A few weeks later I received an envelope in the mail (the regular mail, with a stamp and everything) and all it contained was a necklace I'd left at his place, nothing else. Though I didn't realize it at the time, that was so incredibly ISTP of him... Strangely enough, five-six months later I received an email from him totally out of the blue. It just said, "Hey." And that rekindled it all.
So he was not over you? Would you say that ISTPs move on easily or not?
@@linneav1064 Yeah, interestingly enough, I don't think they move on easily unless they are the ones to end things. I found out later that he had NO IDEA that he had pissed me off. (Here's what happened: I had called him to see if he wanted me to come over, he said yes, and I told him I was on my period. I jokingly asked if he still wanted me to come over because we couldn't have sex - he's not into sex during period - and he shocked me by saying, "Oh, I guess you don't need to come over." Needless to say, I was pretty angry.) After we got back together and I explained what happened, he kind of laughed and was like, "Oh... Yeah... That does sound kinda bad..."
He's been able to easily get over other girlfriends, but only when he ended those relationships. There was another girl who broke up with him when he was 17-18, and he had trouble getting over her, but he never contacted her due to those particular circumstances.
Of course I can't speak for all ISTPs, but these are inferences I've picked up from my limited viewpoint.
@@chickadddee Haha!! I don't care who knows. ;) I think it's kind of funny now! :D
@@SmittenKitten. you got angry over that? Cmon now 😅
-another istp fellow
@@elgranhermano8872 Hahaha!! ;)
Being an INTJ, I thoroughly enjoy your depiction of INFPS. My boyfriend is an INFP, and the way he processes things feels and looks exactly like the exaggerated version of them I see here (at least from my point of view). 😂
It *is* an exxagerated version of myself (INFP) too, at least 😅😂😂👌🏼
Ngl, it is not even exaggerated. It feels just like this in the inside if you're an INFP.
I know an INTJ INFP couple but the reverse genders. I'm not sure how it could work the way you have it. But then I'm not an INTJ female.
@@barrydworak I had an ENTJ girfriend. I'm a male INFP. It worked terribly. Looking back, it was incredibly bad, but as an INFP in love, I didn' t really care back then. Now I cannot imagine myself being in a relationship with a xNTJ or xSTJ.
That being said, every person is different and every relationship is different, so it could work in some cases I guess.
@@Szten I know a female INFJ with a male INFP and they seem very happy and a great match.
But what would I know? I'm an ISTP with issues. 😄
As INFJ in this current predicament I can't wait to see how reliable this will be
I just confessed a couple of days.. ngl it's the same experience 🥲
@@akash_4769 I hope it turned out well for you. I am literally in this INFJ situation so I can't really confess😅
Ok I don't usually comment but this one just hit home. I was in the exact situation. Yes, I did confess and yes we are still friend.
@@longluuhoang8394 sorry it didn't work out the the way you wanted but glad to hear y'all are still friends
@@lunasauro2272 Thank you, I still try to get over them but I don't want to loose their friendship because I cherish it to much. I hope me and them can find someone more suitable and can still be good friend after that. And I hope you guys can express your feeling or find other happiness too.
Well… the INTP one was sort of accurate. I don’t get crushes, only a mild interest at best. Either I decide it’s too much work to talk to the person (and forget about them) or I behave like the ENTP.
I don’t know how many times I have begun a conversation with someone who appears to have a brain only to discover they don’t and instantly lost interest in that person. Unlike some ENTPs I know I don’t tend to tell them that, though. I may be a robot, but I do care about people. It surprises me too.
INTP also here. I currently have a crush and I’m sure they’re smart but I’m honestly too afraid of talking to them because they’re already very quiet and talking to someone who doesn’t start a conversation with me first (that I think too much about) is like the biggest giveaway I could give, I think. I don’t know what to think about it. They’re too shy and honestly I’ve gone back and forth on the whole thing. “Stop thinking about girls,” one day, and the next day, it’s, “oh so this happened today and that looks like a sign to me,” and then the next week, “nope, wasn’t a sign. Just nervousness.”
I’m basically just going to try to work with them when I get chances and only ‘work’ with them then. Texting seems obvious, and I don’t know what I’ll say over text, and it may just be bad. I’m not usually a pessimist, but on this topic I am.
I laugh at the silliest things. Like looking up into the sky and like, “haha. What a joy this universe is for giving us life in this place. So many things to go right.” And then, despite all that, the one thing I can’t deal with is that person. And not because they’re bad.
I'm am intp but the intj one was the most accurate for me for my recent crushesl
@@creeperkingdom3190 same
As an INTP, I don't even get crushes, not even mild interest. The most I had was simping for 2d characters or people who are out of my reach. I never had a real crush, would really like to have one tho, never knew how it feels :(
Im INTP but i sometimes feel like an INFP when it comes to crushes and relationships, just daydreaming and unrealistic scenarios but then im like wtf is wrong with me and move on
Completely agree with that INTJ assessment. Crushes that won't amount to anything are basically horrible mental bloatware that need to be uninstalled, asap. Sometimes this is easy, but sometimes they act like hard to remove viruses and require a lot of effort.
Luckily, I have a firewall of sorts installed, the bf. As long as that program continues to function properly, I shouldn't be having any issues with other nasty programs. You gotta have a proper firewall though, one that won't overrun the system or else you might be better off without it. Also... hackers... If your system isn't secure, they'll try to sneak in there and install their own software to botch up the works.
I find the best way to uninstall it is to ask them out. They will probably say no, and bam, you have a logical justification to stop
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why do I love this mega nerd talk LMAO - infj
i found this helpful
i mean not really i don't open or install anything shady but that felt like the best thing to say so
I'm ISTP and the way he said " and I never think about her...ever!" Is just hilariously accurate 😂
I have an ISTP friend that just broke up from her 10 years long relationship because her ex cheated on her. Tbh, I'm awed by her quick move on from that long relationship like it's so easy when she invented too much on that relationship all these years. She's a cheerful ISTP, but it's true that she lacks emotions most of the time 😂. Of course she's capable of feeling sad too, but just in other's eyes, it's not enough.
The crush stage is so weird...It would be awesome if we could just jump to the good part!
Landing a relationship with mutuality, consistency and prioritization is such a miracle. I hope those who have it really appreciate it!
Tell me about it 🎯
wait you're trying to tell me there is a stage after a crush?! Like you actually talk to that person one day and you can even be together?!!!!
@@_I_don_t_know_ 😂
It sure seems like so many people can never get past that point.
I feel like there should be a phone app for that. If you’re romantically interested in someone, you verify your identity and then put their name on a list of people you’re interested in. If the other person does the same, you both get notified. (If not, the other person will never know they were on your list so it’s not awkward). So instead of starting with “Will you go out with me?” it’s “Where would you like to go for our first date?” I’d call it Crushfinder
ISTP is so accurate! I think that's because we feel so dumb when we fall in love for someone and it's worst when we start to realize that the person isn't exactly what we thought. It's like... WAS FOR THIS SH*T THAT I FALL IN LOVE? (We would never admit it)
I'm ISTP but kinda related to INTJ. I hate having crushes and will try to delete that.
Latest crush I have is horrible, last 3 years until now it just starting to fade. So irrational I'm so mad lol 😒
@@atesakarn7448 Bruh, I got it!
This is so true, i hated the fact that i've developed a crush on someone, and yes i would never admit it 😂😂
I’m and istp and feel like I’m not good enough for anyone I have a crush on. The feeling normally lasts a month but I usually forget about them and stop feeling feelings for them
But I also feel like I want the girl to ask me out and they have flirt with me before i do with them
As an INFJ, I strongly relate to the ENTPs problem. A cute guy who is dumb is like... my God, how can people tolerate this?
same! that confused the hell out of me
@@Ale_ERAhhhhh. Yup! 😆
I can barely tolerate my own friends when they act dumb or talk about stuff I'm not interested it. I put up with it cause it beats loneliness
Because INFJ and ENTPs are soul mates. Tho the ENTP I like likes me as a friend 😅🤣
It makes it worse when you think they are going to be really smart as you create biases about them and then you talk to them (or even sometimes just hear them talk) for a while and your like. oh. welp.
The isfj is really accurate. It's our level of loyalty and friendships that make it hard to let go.
Agree
So true, if its a good friend you are crushing on, even when they are seeing someone else, those feelings never do die, they just get easier to handle in, my experience.
@@arkwhite23 thats what i strongly dislike about being an isfj… imagine my bestfriend would ever see this comment😵💫🤐
INFJ here. That (*silently dies inside while denying on the face) one at the last was so spot on! I’ve been through that this year and this brought those memories afresh.
As an enfp, it’s either my soul is crushed and I am sobbing as I watch romantic shows, stuffing my face with icecream, or that person was one out of forty people I have a crush on and I get over it tolerably well.
Ahahahah same. I'm an enfp too
LMFAO that's exactly it! I'm an ENFP and once I had a crush so intense it took me 5 years to get over it, and the other one I got over in like 30 sec after I realized it wasn't worth it.
took me four years over someone who i knew only tolerated me so much LMAOOO
the only time we get over ppl faster is when they do something like really bad to our friends or family
@@jaegeristsupremacy2038 For me it was more like "they don't like me back, i'm being a fool" and then it took me 30 sec to get over after that realization hahaha.
@@ninaportoc yeah, i would say i move on pretty easily immediately after realization. for my four year crush it was on and off and i liked other ppl in between, but recently, i had a very brief convo with that crush and i immediately admitted to myself that i was done because it just wasnt worth it anymore and i like someone else lol
ISFJ 0:01
ISTP 0:11
ENTP 0:23
ISTJ 0:41
ESFP 0:53
ESTP 1:00
ISFP 1:18
ESFJ 1:46
ENTJ 2:04
INTJ 2:20
ENFJ 2:30
ENFP 2:45
INTP 3:11
INFP 3:30
ESTJ 3:55
INFJ 4:10
Thanks
Thanks ☺️
Go uuup! Future generations need you! 😆🦾
As usual u're doing time stamps)
@@adilbek.ermekov n this time for the 1st time i wrote it straight 😆.
I've said basically the same thing to a friend last week about crushes.
Geez Frank, how can INTJ be always on point like that lol
As an INFJ, I've tried my best to just hide my feelings whenever I'm around my crush. I confessed to him yesterday and I guess all was well despite him not having the same feelings. I'm satisfied with the friendship we had but that's probably become a bit awkward after I confessed. He thanked me though and then apologized. The good thing is he's actually planned to study abroad and I had that in mind when I decided to confess. So, yeah, we probably won't be talking or interacting even virtually from now on. And then maybe two or three weeks from now, I'd be all over it. I think.
As an INTJ, the INTJ is so accurate 😂 I didn't think it's an INTJ thing. At least now I know it's not just me who "doesn't" have a crush.
How most of my crushes go like:
-I meet them
-I like them
-I become friends with them
-I get to know them better
-I don't like them anymore but I got a new friend I guess...???
-Repeat with another person
And with the 2% of my crushes who I still like after getting to know them I never get a chance because I friendzoned myself (:
-INFJ
Fucking so relatable....😂🤣
INFJs can't express their feeling they just want a person in their life who can understand their feelings without any words..........n their wish never come tru:(
Why can't we express our feelings??
Strongly agree
It’s scary? Or we just know it doesn’t work out and know exactly what we should do or would tell other people to do, but can’t do it ourselves?…..
Eh, I got nothing to be honest.
srl tho my bf is constantly confused
scared to take the initiative maybe?
Sigh........🙂...........cant agree more....
INTJs getting over a crush: What were those useless thoughts in your mind?! Just forget those awkward moments!! Just forget!!
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-Many years later: still can't forget and has nightmares about it.
I'm an enfp and I fell in love with this handsome delivery man who kindly smiled and asked me which door I would prefer to have my packages delivered to. and then many more times with random nice folks or small everyday stuff with people. lol Sometimes we have this thing that when people smile at us or show deepness of emotion for random things we feel that they've opened their whole souls to us, and we become emotionally attached aka 'in love' lol its never usually serious unless it was "meant to be".
this is exactly how it feels for me! then people joke about me falling in love twenty times a week bc someone cute smiled at me 😭
As a ISFP this is about right. The only thing missing is the listening to music on these long walks
INFP is so damn accurate. That's why I try to don't change much my future kids' "OCs" when I get a crush on someone else-
INFP: Never getting over the crush
Pretty accurate. Yeah, we're basically doomed.
One of my friends is an INFP. I've considered just getting her to see a therapist, not because I care for her, but because she annoys the fuck out of everyone with it. - INTP
@@Alexandar358 as an isfp, i do the same thing ur friend does, and im truly sorry to everyone ive annoyed, i might never get over this crush fully
I love how the music at the INFJ skit is the exact same as “16personalities around their crush” hahahaha
😂 That Forest Gump moment, love that for the ISFP.
I used to have really long crushes in my kid and teenage years. Nowadays they don't last very long.
As an INTP, this is very relatable. I think I have literally had these exact thoughts before.
Poor INFJ got friend zoned. Don't worry abt it bro. I know after an existential crisis you'll be fine - INTP
INTP Me: this is why I have anime crushes, so I won't be bothered by their existence and I won't have to expand my tiny "social bubble" (as if it exists either) and just waste my energy on something which I can't even manage...
*_*silent cri_**
Yeah because that's a really healthy coping mechanism.
@@FalconOfStorms thanks bro
This worked for me, until I found cosplayers. :)
@@catchingstars7 usually cosplayers don't give me the same vibe or energy as the anime characters. So it's kinda difficult for me lol
Seems good to me 2D>3D
I am an INTJ and have been in this situation. Curious to see if the depiction here would match my reaction back then.
It was pretty accurate.
I'm an INFP and I've never been able to tell whether the person is just a crush or the love of my life lol, the feelings are always so intense, I feel like I'd literally die for them 😆😭 My bf is an INTP btw so I had to be the one to make the first move 😅 Totally worth it though 💕
As an INFJ, that happened to me, the exact same words. While watching that part of the video I was laughing for the coincidence but also crying on the inside, all at the same time
Oh my gosh, the ISFP one was so spot on. My little sister is an ISFP and I'm an INFJ. She's a strange little creature that I feel like I can decipher but at the same time, it's like we are both from another planet.
What a coincidence! I'm an INFJ and my little sister is an ISFP too. Sometimes, while I just keep talking about the new ideas and possiblities I have just came up, she always reminds me to stop talking and getting back to work on what I'm doing
I’m an INTJ and my sister is an ENFJ. Interesting how sometimes you’ll share 2 letters with most siblings
OMG seriously INFJ hits deep . Heard that more than once and still hope the perfect partner is already born somewhere waiting for me lmao never ending story of broken dreams
I recently had a crush on a guy. Immediately analyzed all character flaws and incompatibilities and ran multiple disaster permutations to kill crush through logic. When that didn't work, added extra processing processing power to will myself out of the crush. When that didn't work, decided to let time wean me off it while simultaneously trusting my poker face /RBF to ensure he will never have a clue I like him anyway. Am I even an INTJ anymore?
Great undercover work
I recently had a crush on a girl. I did the first step. The crush went from 100 to 0 really quick. ENTP.
What is an RBF? Yes, you sound like an INTJ. I admire all that brain crushing power.
@Elise S now that is 🤣 funny!
@@id01_01 As a fellow ENTP, what is most disappointing is when they have the potential to be an intellectual genius, but squander it for whatever reason. Normally they’re afraid to develop their minds, which is tragic.
The number of people I know that are competent in many domains, extremely intelligent, and seemingly well read, yet almost entirely intellectually bankrupt and bereft of any love of logic would be infuriating... except mere serfs and vassals cannot infuriate us because they’re simply pathetic puppets of potent propaganda
All that to say: Recognising latent potential sucks. And is tragically hilarious. And infuriating. And makes me detach. And retreat into the arrogance of the intellect. Which could prove our demise. Ok. I’ll shut up.
Peace.
As an INTJ I feel really called out by how accurate that depiction was.
I'm an INFP but I relate to ISFP the most in this one (1:20) lol I go on random long walks to process my emotions but when I was a kid I always fantasized about living with my friends in the future 😅 which I actually got to but it wasn't as fun as I'd hoped it would be lmao
I‘m so glad that you posted this and that this is Friday. I haven‘t been in the best mood for the last hour. 😩 Just the trailer made me smile. Looking forward to relaxing with a glass of something and an FJ video. Hope you all have a great weekend.🙂
Why are you doing this to us ? I needed this fucking right now
Sorry to hear that. I hope you will feel better and unwind soon 🌸💗
Hope things are ok and you manage to relax a bit! 💜
I'm an INTJ. I had a crush for three years, and couldn't talk to him, my brain just doesn't work well (I run away every time we meet haha), flirting is difficult with two introverts.
Interesting combination of names for the future children 😄 I wouldn't give up hope! …it's been a long week, I've been really looking forward to the premiere 😊 the trailer looks really good lol
Oh? Is it a reference?
Would be interesting to see how the 16 personality types react to someone confessing to them. Which type would run away and avoid them for the rest of their life like the plug, but simultaneously always wonder *what if...?*
I'm a mix of INFJ and INFP on this one, I'd never tell anyone about my thoughts of future children (although my Sims families would leave records of them), and I'd also swallow those feelings and ignore them to keep things from being awkward.
The INTJ one is so accurate. I usually get over that shit quickly once I see that it wont go well.
I used to be an INTJ and I can relate to it so well. Like you can always go over your crush the moment you realize it is not going to work out. But now I am INTP who is slowly converting to INFP. It's super painful
I actually thought something is wrong with me cause among my fraindes I'm the only one who never had a crush though even if I did, I wouldn't do anything about it. But this days I just think of myself as above human interaction.
-intj
I'm an INTJ too. Basically my mindset was, "Oh, it seems our relationship isn't going to be permanent. Good to know. Clearly you're not The One. " Then just moving on. Worked for me. I've been married to my ISTJ husband for 28 years now.
@@GeekNewz #sigma /j
@@GeekNewz INTJ thinks that they are above gods. I used to be an INTJ and I know that feeling.
Hi! I just wanna drop by and wish you all a lovely weekend. Getting over a crush might be painful, relieving or just not an issue. Either way, never forget to take care of yourself, treat yourself kindly and don't forget how awesome you are. Maybe try some cookies or a tasty dinner, whatever you fancy, because you deserve it.
Or try some Ben and Jerry's ice cream. I like Cherry Garcia. They even have vegan Cherry Garcia. what a blessing! ENFP female here. Do all the good things for yo'self you would do for others. I am still learning!
What a nice post! Thank you for your kindness! I appreciate encouraging words (that is my love language). They are good for a lifetime. Here is a saying I like: "A kindness is never wasted". I think it just goes out to the person in need when they need it. Like there is a cosmic fund of kindness and 🙏 prayers. Good luck!
ENFJ?
I must for once more applaude the sole most accurate ENFJ representation that has ever produced in the history of mankind . 👏👏👏👏
I like the fact that the only reason the INTP had to get over a crush was because of introversion, and no other outside factors.
2:46 At least we know why ENFP is banned from Italy.
The fact that my dating life is non existential but I watched and enjoyed this anyway
I'm sure it will stay that way as well
INFP surfing the internet wave
Same *ENFP wave back *
@@elementalsailorficora5644 I genuinely cannot comprehend the idea of asking another person out on a date. Or expressing that I like someone. Like, who, and what, and when, and where, and why, and how?!
INFP here but I am really interested in the Backstory of your ENFP Character, I am assuming this is part of the reason they are not alowed back into Italy, they mentioned something about that in a past vid, I hope we'll get the full story at some point xD
Ooh, worldbuilding!
I remember ENFP getting kicked out of Italy!
0:23 as an ENTP, I have always said "I have had many crushes but most of them are gone the moment they open their mouth".
Seriously, I just want someone that wants to and is able to keep with my deep and random conversations.
I am like, "let's talk about quantum physics now" and she responds "What is even that?" and me "Really? you do not know? Oh well, you see it is this and that" and she responds with "that sounds boring" and me "*gasp*!! Take that back!"
@@farrex0 Once my otherwise smart bf asked "why would somebody even want to know about quantum physics" 😳 ... why not?!
@@farrex0I’m an infj, I used to be in love with an entp I freaking love talking to them, their scattered thinking is really interesting to listen too. Often I’d just sit and listen but if it was a topic I’m passionate about I’d happily debate and go back and forth in some friendly banter. I’m sure you’ll find someone who appreciates your amazing brain, good luck!!
The INFJ one cut deep lol! Luckily, 11 years later we got married so it all worked out.
As an isfp , i have to admit that i used to go on long walks , meaningless ones after school when i was trying to get over my crush to process what I’m feeling and how i can change the way i was feeling , BUT ITS SO FUNNY THE WAY YOU EXECUTED IT , i love it
I love how this video was right just on time… I’m trying to get over my crush atm
Lol Pasco and Leopold 😂😂😂 Will someone just put INFP out of their misery! INFJ still adapting perfectly 👌😅
ISFP: I take the job
How to get over a crush, ENTP edition: Just talk to them. It'll die REAL quick, promise.
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I feel offended 🧍♀️ - ENTP
(not too much, just a bit 🤭)
Oh it works both ways?
This is so true. Recently had this exact thing happen to me. - ENTP
Maybe it'd be more effective to start having a crush on an imaginary partner in my head so that I don't have to get disappointed by reality.
Pretty accurate with the ENTP rant. ENTPs try to play it cool And definitely our crush never knows. Always love the INFJ’s .They definitely are the ones who try to pursue Entp’s. Unfortunately we never know lol
Can confirm that, as an INFP, getting over a crush is, well... crushing.
isn't that why they call it a crush?
INTP: *got a crush*
“Lol, too much work”
*slowly focuses on other things until crush is forgotten*
"You've heard this before" 🎵😥💔
Poor INFJ!
0:00 isfj
0:12 Istp
0:23 entp
0:42 istj
0:54 esfp
1:00 estp
1:20 isfp
1:47 esfj
2:02 entj
2:21 intj me
2:31 enfj
2:46 enfp my crush
3:11 intp
3:31 infp also maybe my crush
3:57 estj
4:11 infj
👍🏻
You forgot some
@@robertsiems3808 gimme a minute to complete it man...
It's been 10 years since I got rejected from my high school crush, which he also was my best friend.
It's unforgettable and still hurts so bad. I have never dated anyone since then because my heart just keeps telling me that he's the one. The love of my life.
Being INFP is really painful....
Still in love with my ex gf from 10 years ago. Yeah it sucks
Thing is, a crush doesn’t uninstall haha. Before infected, best to have good firewalls and security challenges. Best you can do *after* infected, is to pause your life, reboot the whole system, and reinstall everything else lol
I have literal tears in my eyes thinking of Bosco. Such a good, good boy! 🥺
As an ISFP, I related to this WAYY too much🤣
I laughed soo hard😂 a fellow isfp here
Lol same I’m like I dunno how I feel then I think about it and got no where. Then I’m like I’m tired imma stop 😂
Not an ISFP, but I’m really sad that everyone missed the Forest Gump reference 🙂
IM A FELLO ISFP
Yeah, sometimes it's creepy how type of personality define my behavior, not me
INFJ is way too accurate. Had a crush and got friend zoned. Ended up in a terrible rebound relationship with a narcissist a few months later and wasted 2 years of my life on him. So happy all that is years in the past now.
Omg that what happened to me too but maybe not chronologically. Had a relationship with someone with NPD (only 2 weeks but left a lot of damage here and there), left him and finally healed after almost one year. Had a crush on a boy (another INFJ) seems like he friends-zoned me so I just say that my feelings wasn’t really real that’s just some kind of romantic projection cause I’m so lonely 😭😂
Holy sheep... uhhh... that’s exactly what happened to me too-
But his friend also had a crush on me so I had to politely turn him down but he was... really clingy. And the other guy just was toxic on so many levels but I ended up being supportive and forgiving cuz I liked him.
Over two years worth of my time and support on those two but I’ve gotten over him and thank god have just gotten them out of my life-
I was crying tears of guilt and mostly relief when I did.
I’m struggling with some things cuz of it, but I’m a better person for that experience.
-also I’m happy to say after that I’m in a very healthy relationship with a wonderful human being for over half a year, and I’ve learned the value of being cared for as much as you care for another person.
I hope that everyone one of you has and finds a healthy beautiful relationship and you won’t shut the door from fear, I almost did and I would’ve missed out XD
The best relationships are honestly the ones that build from pure friendship that grow into smth more-
Hehe- anyway sorry for the long message, love y’all
4 years and running
I’m an ISFP and I feel so called out that I’m scREAMING.
Ha ha ha, all made me laugh! I bet a lot of people won't even get the Forest Gump one. Have a great weekend Frank! :)
Which one
Time stamp pls😅
Nice long walk to clear the mind... Go Forest Go!
That was s funny and so good! Loved his pronounciation 😁
I've been looking for someone to mention this! Absolutely the best part of the video, assuming you get the reference
This is probably the most accurate INFP depiction I've seen so far, great job Frank James!
This ENTP just had a split with an INFJ.
Good timing, I need this.
Enfp is so accurate. We imagine exxagerated stuff when we see someone for the first time and stay dramatic over this thing for no reason at all 👁️👄👁️
when I saw you taking a walk to process your feelings, I knew that was ISFP, my type, cuz that's exactly what I did.
The future imaginary children is the most difficult thing to let go of
I get over it by telling them and then remembering how uninteresting people actually are
Intj: You gotta uninstall that **** right away
This is productive, very productive.
ENFP here. Met a guy from Ireland on Facebook and we talked in such depth for hours. Then I daydreamed for days of him coming to the states and wisking me away to Ireland. Then he got a girlfriend and stopped talking to me. I was devastated… until I met….
Wow! I’m a ENFP and this literally happened to me with a guy from Germany. We talked for years and I thought I would go visit him in Germany. I imagined how we would again meet and what we would say to each other. We had originally met when we had gone to school together for a few months and I was really excited to see him. However, he got a gf so that was the end of that.
I'm an INFP and you just nailed that part. The place where i lived before had two golden retrievers one male and female i had already imagined their wedding and kids when we had to move from there...i was heartbroken