16 Personalities Proposing
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- Опубліковано 2 гру 2021
- The 16 Myers-Briggs Personalities asking someone to marry them... how awkward could it get??
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Oh my goshhh! A proposal ahhhh🤭! So excited 👏 Please tell me the ring somehow fell off the cake and was not digested lol
Yes ! 😂
Love your videos!! 🙈 I'm always anticipating for another video upload!
@ ENTP. He Failed To Mention That The Wedding Would Take Place In Front Of A Jury Of Their Peers. I Rest My Case
True story -- my INTP husband proposed with a PowerPoint presentation. How appropriate.
Hahaha.😂😂 Sorry. 😅😂
My first thought was, 'that's a good idea.'
I'm INTP, by the way, and female, so I am unlikely to end up using that idea, but I still think it is good.
@@makaniwebb9358 why not as a female? I mean as an intp I am open-minded.
Did it come with a list of pros and cons
@@lightscamerakpop8144 It is possible, just perhaps less likely than if I were male.
For one, confidence issues. For two, indecision. I need to be absolutely certain and know he's certain and have all the information before I would feel okay with asking. That would probably take longer for me than him. For three, I'm not expected to, so I don't have to awkwardly ask and experience the tension of 'will he say yes?' 'is he okay with this' 'am I overstepping?' 'should I run?'. This means it would take a while for me to decide to do it.
Even if I end up deciding to, the male partner would likely get to it first. Which sucks for this hypothetical male, because my answer would probably be 'give me a few days to think about it' if he catches me by surprise. (My parents discussed it ahead of time, but I don't know if that's how it usually works or if my parents are outliers.)
I’m an INFJ engaged to an INTJ and he didn’t even beat around the bush from the beginning of our relationship. He said “look I’m tired of things falling apart on me so if you want to date then you need to decide if marriage is what you want first”
As an INFJ I was so relieved I cried
That's smart. That's one of the first questions I plan on asking any man who's interested in me.
Instant keeper; people giving a damn about trying and growing together will outgrow, lazy romance.
LOL
Omgg being honest thats the best proposal for infj, you can stop overthinking and things are planned❤️❤️ i love intj great partners and friends for infj
That's how Ni works... And us, INFJs, we appreciate the certainty of the future.
INTJ proposing was hilarious! My husband is an INTJ and when he proposed he literally walked up, got down on one knee and with a ring said "I really need you to take this for me." At that point we had been planning our wedding for 2 months already.😂😂
And you are which type ?
@@lightscamerakpop8144 I wannz know too 😂
First of all, that's romantic AF. 😭
First of all, thank you.
Secondly, she’s an ENFP.
@@mertz7305 are you Stephanie’s INTJ? I see Mertz…
I knew he'd pull that hypothetical proposal when it came to INFJ, we just can't catch a break from living out our ideal futures in our minds, can we.
Indeed, sometimes the reality just can't live up to the fantasy we have concocted in our minds!
I can imagine a very nice proposal for people that are interested in me, because I know what they would like to hear. I would just never really ask them. I don't know if this is really funny or really weird. Even after watching this video
I already imagined going all 60's beehive, glittery dress singing baby It's you before popping out the ring on a seaside resort, maybe the Riviera, but that will never happen! That ship has sailed, 🤣 and I'm happy bout it. INFJ don't worry the Moonies can hook you up so relax. 😉
Honestly sometimes i dream about things and i wish they were the reality of things and not just my unconcious imagination coming up with ideal futures
[Screams in idealistic] someone help us OUT !
I love INFJ practicing proposing, that IS something they'd totally do, since they're crazy planners!
Guilty as charged. I play out imaginary scenarios in my head all the time lmao
Perfectionist tendencies 😏
@@AsianEspionage yes I feel that sooo much. So critical of self but working on it 😂😂
Well, my ENFP sisters INFJ boyfriend planned to do a beautiful proposing on a ship but ended up just bluntly asking during one ordinary night in an appartement. I guess their will (Ni hero) to keep a person is actually stronger than all these nuances.
@@robertsh.2506 there may be some truth to this. My istp hubby now proposed by bluntly asking so I think it does have to do with ni in the function stack
INFPs have the whole proposal script already prepared. But then awkwardness gets them and they make it weird af. And go on saying something to make it less weird which is actually weirder. And the chain continues until they realise it.
Wow. You just described every other conversation I have with people out in the wild. 😂
Luckily, it’s not as much of an issue at home because I know that my people accept my weirdness and so I don’t have to prepare a script to try to hide it.
But even so, sometimes I monumentally awkwardize moments with my own family 😂
Fml lol
As I was reading your comment and replaying the situation when I proposed the girl and got rejected (inevitably), I can feel now that I made things awkward.
Any suggestions on how to avoid similar situation next time?
@@sazid_siam maybe she just was the wrong person?
I'm an INFP, too and I've come to the conclusion that because I'm weird I should show who I am to others, so they know right ahead if they like me. Those who do are really great to have in my life and the others are not worth pretending to be something I'm not, because they wouldn't do that for me either.
My husband in the beginning of our relationship once said to he couldn't really understand why he fell in love with me, because I'm not his type, I'm complicated, weird and talk to much. I felt I was dieing inside, but put all my strength together and said "well that's who I am and if you don't like it I suggest you find someone that matches your expectations". We've been together for 20 years. He says the longer he knows me the more he appreciates me as a person.
@@helgaioannidis9365 thanks for your reassurance on she being the wrong person. I felt the same after putting some thoughts onto it later on.
But I am just worried if I would mess some good situations in future by overexplaining on a bad note. That's it. I usually have hard times assessing people's words.
INTJ woman here. I told INFP boyfriend the exact parameters of when he could propose to me six months in advance because I could tell by his flushed and nervous behavior that he had bought a ring. He agreed and when he achieved the necessary steps (had some financial things to work out), he sang me a song from Moulin Rouge at sunset next to a waterfall complete with backing track and pulled out the ring. Win / win.
Holy cow, supposedly I am an infp, moulin rouge is my favorite movie, and the setting? Yes Lord.. I am here crying 😭
Wasn’t Roxanne was it? I hope it wasn’t Roxanne.
J/K. Dude sounds like he did everything right. 👍
either INTXs must have a lot more in common than i thought or im a very idealistic INTP cuz thats exactly what i want
This is my favorite comment.
Obviously I am also INTJ.
I also would appreciate having input into the proposal event as enjoying it requires me to pay attention and get into the right mood for it which is not always my default mode. :) wow other INTJ women are so relatable, it’s great!
My husband is an ISTJ. He proposed and then apologized, because he felt it was lacking. 😆
Him: “Will…you…marry me? I’m sorry, I wanted to say more, but my mind went blank. That was all I could get out.”
Awwwe 💗 Congratulations 🎉
What a sweetheart. It sounds like he had so much more prepared.
Did he say more later or give you a card that shares how he feels about you? :D
@@loveisonthemove After I said “yes” (which alleviated his stress), he went into a paragraph of what he’d been practicing. In his defense, we were in a public setting with most of our immediate family nearby. 😅
What is your personality type
Omg how cute
aww that's awesome!
Not gonna lie, INFJ got us in the first half. I was really happy for him and at the same time I was also surprised for his courage and well-articulated expressions.
I was thinking there's now way I manage to say all with that level of expressing skills and without freaking out, only in my head and dreams haha
@@vsml333 Right? has happened so many times with other things... I plan exactly what i'm going to say then when the time comes i sound like a bubbling fool because i've overthought everything and get super nervous when the time comes to actually say it
@MysticFate Yes! I rehearse important conversations, even take notes of the main issues or things I need to ask or address. But at the moment of doing it for real, it's impossible not to feel nervous, strange, like it will never really be spontaneous ...
I think a good way not to get too stressed out is to focus as much as possible on our desire for perfection to do something the best way possible to the point where the want to succeed becomes so strong that it surpasses the stress. Our perfectionism isn't always a weak point and it has helped me a lot to be less stressed in my life.
@@kyurei4478 I agree, but sometimes it doesn't always work out that way. Sometimes my desire for perfection leaves me with not only stress, but also thoughts of not being capable enough to pull off whatever it is I was going for in the first place.
One way I get around is by being doggedly determined that I'll do my best, and accept the outcome, whatever it may be.
0:01 ESFJ
0:22 ESTJ
0:31 ESTP
0:56 ENFJ
1:04 ESFP
1:32 ENTJ
1:52 ISFJ
2:26 ENTP
2:36 ISTP
2:48 ENFP
3:00 ISFP
3:10 INTJ
3:33 ISTJ
3:47 INFP
4:10 INTP
4:35 INFJ
Thank you. 😊
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@@adilbek.ermekov I'm pretty good, thanks for asking:).WBY??
My INTP husband (finally) proposed on the beach at sunset. He suddenly dropped to one knee and handed me a piece of printer paper. At the top in small writing : "I could say many reasons why I love you..." All the way at the bottom: "Will you marry me?"
My ENFJ self was wanting to see all the reasons filling the huge blank area in between. I had a laughing attack and said "yes."
I enjoy how smoothly INTPs can articulate theories and strategies yet how awkwardly they convey personal feelings (I've learned to interpret subtle eyebrow movements as romantic gestures).
Loved the video, FJ, especially the INFJ!!
INTPs are too adorable 🥰
Their love is just so simple and straightforward. They’re like, “Of course I love you. It’s just a fact of the universe that goes without saying. Like gravity.”
As an ENFJ... that kind of stole my heart 🥺 I would've laughed as well. I'm glad you found each other!
@@whitneyd6827 Thank you, fellow ENFJ. ☺️ I've learned a lot from him, since our 1st and 4th cognitive functions are flipped. 🙃
@@asabio5361 my brother is an ISTP so I know the feeling haha. As adults it's funny seeing us almost relating to each other and then deciding that, no, the other one is crazy lol.
Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!!!!!!
Wife and I are both INTJs and our proposal discussion went something like this:
Me: Will you marry me (done in private at our home)
Her: Both of our families are insane. Can we elope and remove them from the equation?
Me: I think I love you even more now.
Her: Awesome; let’s go.
15 years later and we’re still going strong!
INTJ here. I had the same thought as her. I literally apologized to my ENFP for what I was bringing to the relationship. That was sixteen years and three kids ago.
Perfect.. intj
😆 There are probably so many couples that could benefit from not ignoring that reality ahead of time!
Now THATS amoré.
Thats amazing
That INFJ man did a perfect rehearsal, but when he find that lady (qualified candidate) he might be running away 🤭
You know it!
So true!!!!😂😂😂
tru
Tan real que duele 😅🤣
It just doesn't make sense, right 🙄
I'm and INTJ married to an ISTJ for 28 years. Here's how it went down:
First 4 months of dating: I made sure we covered lifestyle, financial views,
religious/philosophical views, and childrearing views in our
conversations-he was fine with that. When it was clear we were
compatible he proposed.
Him (ISTJ): I want to marry you.
Me (INTJ): I want that too.
Him (ISTJ): Then we should do that.
Me (INTJ): OK
Him (ISTJ): I'll take you ring shopping this weekend. I don't know what you like and I really want you to like it.
Me (INTJ): OK
It was the perfect proposal for us. And I picked out exactly the ring I liked. He was surprised it cost less than he expected. I was EXACTLY the INTJ bride FJ's 16 Personalities as Brides portrays 6 months after we started dating. Not only did I do it my way as a small intimate affair, we (everyone including parents involved) had no debt from it, came in under budget, and hubs and I made a tidy profit from financial gifts.
A year later on our anniversary:
Him (ISTJ): So you had a pros and cons list for marrying me and you checked off items one at a time while we were dating, didn't you?
Me (INTJ): Of course, but it wasn't a physical list; it was in my head.
Oh my god how nice .. wish you happy life forever
Wow that is nice 👍
Even tho I don't want to get married, but THAT'S a good proposal for me. -INTJ
My intj brother approves this
This is awesome.
My fiance just proposed last month. He's an INFP and yes, it was hilariously awkward and I wouldn't have wanted it any other way. As an INFJ, I already had the majority of the wedding planning done before he proposed, and yes, I did ask for a sustainable diamond :)
Neat, you definitely have the planning, perfectionism and gut instinct down cold.
You're just the kind of person i'm looking for! Ok so i'm an INFJ male and the women i've been interested in is an INFP female. I'm really curious how things work out from a relationship standpoint becase we aren't dating but i feel like at some point we might. I think the combination of personality types is really interesting and want an idea of how dynamic things are, who's generally taking the lead on things and if there's a lot of arguing when it comes to how things get done etc
Oh also congratulations!
That’s hilarious!🤣
@@Mysticfateee OMG you're INFJ? Your personality is awesome! (I'm ENFP by the way 🤭 ✨) and INFP people i need to say that they're so beautiful and cute!🥺 INFJ & INFP matchs so good together! i hope that if you two get together your relationship be full of happiness and love! 💕✨💕✨💕
@@eunji837 Thanks! I imagine ENFP would be pretty similar to an INFP just more outwardly expressive with their emotions maybe?. She is definitely beautiful and cute in her own way i have to agree there haha. I hope so to! thanks for the kind words and blessings.
At the moment i try to exude love towards her without making it obvious and awkward by being a good friend; showing i care and trying to help her grow when i can as well as other little things.
I am an ENFP female, married to an INTJ male. Can attest to the accuracy of this skit. “So, you’ve been the best girlfriend ever, I think you will be the best wife ever. Will you marry me?”
Wow, that’s a dang good line.
Im wheezing🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
HE SMOOTH
One of the best proposal lines 🤣
Then he handed me and empty ring box. 😂
It was my birthday. He took me to a fancy restaurant, payed the piano player (clear piano) to play happy birthday. Then he took me to the capitol building of our city and proposed. Later at his house there was a party for me with my family and then he gave me the ring I front of them. So they could be a part of the proposal but we also could have our own private part of it. He gave me flowers and cake too. It’s been 11 years; and I couldn’t be happier. I am married to the most wonderful and devoted man a girl could dream of. ❤️ I am so lucky!
He had a crush on me for five years before we got together. His plots finally found fruition. 😂
I love him with all my heart might and strength.
My husband, an ISTP, had a file called 'DER' (Diamond Engagement Ring) that he kept for months before he proposed. It housed all of the research he was doing to buy the perfect ring.
That's adorable
Now that's romantic
INTP here 😂
Cute
That is soooooo sweet I am an ISTP too hehe
aww soo sweet
I'm an INTJ & I have this running joke with my partner [INTP] that, whenever something noteworthy happens, it's because I meticulously orchestrated the circumstances of his life from behind the scenes so that he would meet me & I could set up everything to lead to that exact moment. His reaction is always hilarious, especially if it's particularly mundane & absurd. 😂🤣
Like the reverse flash meme
“It was me, INTP!”
🤣🤣 you... this is why we're called the evil masterminds. Hilarious!
Cute💜❤️🩷
I'm an INFJ, and I actually accidentally ended up proposing to my husband without even realizing it. 🤔 He kept dropping hints so I was trying to let him know that it was safe to ask me... Yeah, that didn't come out right... I think I should have rehearsed the interaction a few more times in my head first. 😅 As the girl, I had never once practiced giving a proposal. Clearly that was an oversight! I totally didn't even realize he had taken it as a proposal until several days later. We were long distance (like literally "long-distance" back when it cost a lot of money to call someone who lived an hour away, and we only saw each other on the weekends) at the time and when we talked on the phone later the next week, he said he was so excited and he had told his parents and they were excited and I was literally like, "told them what?" I was completely confused. He goes, "umm, that were engaged..." I mean, I guess the results were the same and it was going to be way too awkward to correct, so I just went along with it. But, if I was going to propose, I would have done something seriously romantic. It wouldn't have just been in a random conversation. Instead, I was apparently engaged for nearly a week and didn't even know it... 🙄
(He's ISFP, if you're wondering)
UPDATE: Scroll down to the 8th comment to get the details... (because several of you asked)
Hahahahahaha this is an amazing story
Yeah you gotta tell us what you said in context. Why didn't he ask? So this was a phone call? Who proposes on the phone? Isn't that as bad as breaking up on the phone? My ex took me to a cheap diner, no ring, no real proposal, and on my birthday, BUT 6 days after I caught him with another woman. It was to distract me. Told him I'd think about it. He later said I embarrassed HIM!! well I could have announced to his audience what he'd done earlier and asked their opinion. Ugh
@@recoveringsoul755 wow that's truly terrible, I'm so sorry that happened.
I love this story!😂
This is gold!
Oh god, infj here and it sounds like something I would do 😂 including the going along with it because you didn't want to make it awkward
Happy it worked for you guys
As an INFP whose wedding anniversary is April 1st, I feel so called out. We'd been engaged for 7 months and had applied for the license in March. Woke up on April Fool's and said, "Hey, do you want to elope today? Nobody will believe us. Haha, just kidding! Unless?" The courthouse clerk even asked us if we were joking. Been married for almost 9 years.
INFP here. I told my partner in advance that I’d buy a set of rings as a Valentine’s Day gift. Comes the day, I propose, I’m rejected, and can play it off as being a dramatic way to hand out the rings. We keep wearing the matching set for 6 months until I can’t keep the pain in anymore and admit that it was a legit proposing. 10/10 for accuracy, don’t recommend anyone proposes like that ever
Ouch... sorry that had to happen to you
That's heartbreaking!! T_T Oh my gosh!!
Sad the matching ring proposal didn't work.
OMG... This is one of the reasons I had to break up with my INFP boyfriend... He got hurt from thing that I didn't think would hurt him but he barely shared... And that made me feel so guilty... He was sweet and sensitive but I couldn't handle feeling like I'm hurting him without even knowing... I was actually happy to hear that he got a girlfriend because that meant that he moved on and that's he's happy...
oh...
thats rough buddy
As an INTJ, I can agree to an extent that most of the actions are preplanned, or already guessed. But similarly, I have learned to acknowledge that many things do not go according to plans, and sometimes you simply roll with the change.
absolutely true
I like how INFJ is doing it backwards- trying to find a picture to fit an existing perfect frame. I guess if you really believe in magic, anything could happen 🪄😉
That’s exactly what we do! Couldn’t have been put better🥲
Oh sh.. For real, couldn't have said it any better
It's not for nothing that the INFJ mascot is a wizard...
INTJ cracked me up. My INTJ husband proposed to me at his 30th birthday surprise party 6 months after we had gotten my engagement ring together, and 7 years after we had our first child. He straight planned everything to a T, 💯. As an INFJ, I'm lucky as all hell he did. Lol
Oh, I'm so happy for you 💚💙🩵💜
How I proposed...
My wife and I were getting ready for the evening, getting changed in our bedroom out of our work clothes and into something nicer. I was sitting on the bed and I just looked at her and said "So, I was thinking...if you don't have any plans for the next 65 plus years maybe you wouldn't mind marrying me". Then she laughed and looked at me and said "wait...wait...are you SERIOUS?!" "Yes. Yes I am" "REALLY?! Of COURSE I'll marry you!"
-INFJ
That is so cute & sounds very infj
What's her type?
@@saramelle3001 ISFJ
that's amazing!!
As ISTP I can agree that me and my partner have discussed just going and getting married legally but not having a wedding or telling anyone until the ask when we’re going to get married and go “we already are”
Smart
lol So practical and economical. 😆
That is so perfect. As an ISTP I view the wedding to be the biggest reason I wouldn't want to get married.
I totally agree- intp
@@bluesteel8376 agreed, too much effort and waste of money. Would rather spend it on building a home workshop of something, anything, even remotely more useful
I thought INTJ was INFP until The word "plan" was brought into the equation.
Same
I'm INFJ and I can confirm we're the most romantic people we just need partners to whom we show all of the romance
My boyfriend is an ENFP and I laughed because he has told me he will get me a nice ring once he finds a better paying job and pays off his debts. Lmao accurate
Yeah... I can fully relate to the INFJ one. I have never practiced proposing to a girl before, but I have definitely thought of what it would be like. Despite never having dated anyone... ever...
I love the INFJ one. My little sister an INFJ and she did the cutest thing ever. She wrote a letter to her future husband and left the letter at a hotel where you can take a book if you leave one behind. She left the letter and is waiting for the person who finds it one day and falls in love with it. So creative and sad at the same time. I'm an INTP and related to mine as well. Terrible anxiety from the texting.....
That INFJ proposal speech to Firstname Middlename Lastname was freakin’ beautiful. Firstname won’t be able to say no. 🥲
INTJ IS SPOT ON! On the bright side INTJ’s tend to be the most loyal ones, once we make plans for someone…and decide if we like someone…our plans don’t change, only the environment. And we plan ahead to make sure there is no failure.
Unless that special one betrays us, and though it hurts a lot, they will no longer be in our plans.
Oh, there is possible failure if you miss important detail. Which happens a lot.
But yes if we decide to commit, we hardly change the decision, we are very loyal.
Yes, I have my life planned along with my current boyfriend, but I also have plan B, C, D, etc. of he leaves, cheats or dies. I must be prepared for any eventuality.
As a INTP getting married in itself is considered a reckless move. I agree I ain't buying a ring until I get a definitive answer. I see no better way to do it than text. Phone call is going to have to be a no for me.
Yup. My INTP husband made sure I would say yes before he “officially proposed” with a ring.
It’s just the smart thing to do 🤷♀️
INTJ here. movie proposals always leave me anxious for the protagonist because i’d be distracted wondering if he can return the ring if she says no.
culturally here, the couple would have had a discussion of intent and the boy would have had his family send a formal delegation to her family to agree a date etc coming with fairly low stakes gifts. then only when everything is confirmed would the wedding party arrive with the expensive stuff like jewelry. hollywood movie ‘romantic’ proposals therefore always feel financially risky to me!
OMG the infp. “If you’re going to reject me, I didn’t mean any of it.” Can confirm.
INTP engaged to an INFP. We went to LOOK at rings and found a good deal. I love how he kept the ring until the next day to officially ask in a nicer setting.
Oh wait that's right. He didn't ask 🤣. He just got down on one knee and was like "here you can have it now". All the while I was covering my face, 100% embarrassed. It was so awkward and yet so us 🥰!
Edit: According to him his speech was a lot more romantic 😂.
How lovely ❤
So cute❤️🩷🩵💜
He asked her if she ate that whole cheese cake like he already knew the answer. 😂😂 But he loves her anyway. How romantic. 😊
ISFJ are so romantic and forgiving. Until the breakup. Then the cheesecake is tossed into the argument tearfully because they worked hard on it and didn't get to see you eat it
@@punkbunnee9558 noted! 😂
@@dipsydoodle7988 not a literal cheesecake... Well... Probably not a literal one. They could make a break up cheesecake to get you to eat that one front of them.
@@punkbunnee9558 😅
I was actually feeling the ring scrape the inside of the throat and writhing with pain calling the ambulance and just, oh god no. How fast she gobbled it up. You have to push that out with your tongue and Mom was right chew slowly bad kids!! No rolling pin emoji found 😔
The people I wanna marry do not exist, they are fictional characters- INFJ
Same. In fact, I almost married them in my imagination. ~INFJ
Haha ah.... Why is this so funny, yet so painfully true? ..... Excuse me while I get this week's fictional character some coffee.
@@GoldenMediaGirl 😂😂
@@shikhasuman871 other people's crushes Don't know they exist, our crushes Don't exist *signature look of superiority*
@@Sriniket *Sweg!* 😏😎
INTP probably took a long time to work up to that point and, can attest, failing a social interaction (especially an important one) is a heck of a detrimental thing
As an INTP the INTP proposal is the only one that makes sense.
Efficient, direct, no big fuss, no strangers involved, no embarrassment and not waste of money.
I would answer "yep" right away
Yeah, makes perfect sense.
Of course for the other person it might take some getting used to that when there's a new message, it might be a funny meme with cats or a sudden marriage proposal, and conclusions are drawn from the reaction time.
😂if i ever propose to anyone it would be like this... but then again i don't plan on getting married or even dating. waste of time and socially draining and exhausting.... i can't even fall in love lmao😂😂😂😂
yessss, I relish the thought of then meeting them having prior sealed the deal and moving on with other matters...
Also, he was so cute.
As an ENTP I would text back "why"
i love that intp is always wearing glasses and standing awkwardly cuz thats exactly how we are
as an intp im literally always wearing askew glasses that are usually dirty and standing as if im lost in the mall (which i probably am, if i ever go to the mall)
Yes, but without the glasses for me.
@@makaniwebb9358 Give it time (sorry)
@@louisejoel Hopefully not. My vision's remained exactly the same so far. I don't think it will worsen, but it is a possibility.
My INTJ husband did propose by the ocean! It was very straightforward, lol, but my romantic INFP self had, thank God, said enough times that I wanted it on one knee, that he did. Made me cry. We've been married 14 years. 🥰🥰
Cheers for you❤❤ Wish you and your husband the best❤❤
Oh my god that is so cute.
Cool! Now you need to make a FEMALE VERSION - the 16 personalities receiving a proposal!!
(the INFJ would probably run away even if she were crazy about the guy🥲)
As a female INFJ, I agree 😂. I avoided marriage like the plague. Never dreamt of fairytale weddings or Prince Charming sweeping me off of my feet. I could have easily stayed happily single for my entire life.
INFJ = The Stare 😂
INTJ: "Just stop, we need to do a risk-benefit analysis first."
INTJ - my answer to his impending proposal was prepared 10 months ago.
INTP: wonders who the other person is talking to.
“I will crawl into a corner and die.”
Honestly that’s me with anything
Some ideas for more videos!! -
16 personalities giving birth
16 personalities as uncles
16 personalities as aunts
16 personalities as mean girls
16 personalities as Zodiac signs
16 personalities as therapists
16 personalities getting married
16 personalities falling in love
16 personalities at Christmas
16 personalities at New Year's Parties
16 Personalities as celebrities
16 personalities as Disney characters
Love all of these!!
Example of personalities as zodiacs?
Love these examples, especially Therapists and Mean Girls!
@@polygonalduck like when you think of theis pearticular personality, you mostly think of these zodiacs type like when I think of ENFJ it's mostly Saggitarius or Gemini, when I think of INFJ it's usually Capricorn, INFP you think of Pisces (I am INFP and an Aquarius but I fit into the stereotypes about Pisces usually), like that!!
@@rishibhakhandurie4206 there are twelve zodiac signs and sixteen personality types.
The intp with the texting proposal!!!!!!! Lol I laughed so hard.
like imma spend money on a whole diamond ring before I know for a fact your going to say yes.
@@creeperkingdom3190 that’s ti thinking right there lmao
If the medium of asking the question is enough for her to say no, you weren’t right for each other
Oh god, it's me. INFP, decided to propose, planned it all out perfectly and romantic and awesome to go out on the first snowfall at the ice skating rink where we had our third date, and then we got there, I got down on one knee, and completely forgot the script, kinda stared at him while waving the ring box at him, and babbled awkwardly until he said yes. Thank god he said yes. Now I just have to not screw up the wedding vows, lol
You are lucky being INFP I also planned to propose my friend at Airforce Museum but she ditched the plan and after some days I proposed her while going for a College and she denied... 😅
ESFP: Nice touch inviting the pigeons to witness the event! I bet they were really moved by that! 😁
INFJ: Well that was just sweet and lovely! Awww! ❤ Definitely keep the magic part in there!
ISFJ: maaannnn....😬🤦♀️
As an ISFJ, I am a big cheesecake fan, but how do you not see a ring on a cheesecake? 😂
Agreed, surely you'd TASTE a ring in a cheesecake, they're not THAT thick!
I am an INTJ in a long term relationship with an INFP. This is how things are going:
Him: I love you so much.
Me: Me too. It seems we will eventually get married.
Him: YES! I have been eyeballing some rings.
Me: Oh, I don't like surprises. Can I choose my own ring?
Him: Good idea, I didn't know what to choose.
Me: What if we exchange engagement rings to signify that there is no hierarchy in our relationship?
Him: Sweet!
...
Him: But I still want to make a huge deal of the proposal. :C
Me: Alright, do as you please.
Me: (Still gets prepared because doesn't like surprises).
I will update on how things go.
Update?
Update? This sounds adorable and amazing and I love it and I want to learn more.
So sweet and adorable💚💙🩵💜
As an INTP that couldn't be more realistic. Except it wasn't a proposal which was ghosted, I was just asking for a date.
I thought the one proposing in april's fool was SO creative, and it turns out it's INFP LMAO.
I am INFP myself and I haven't proposed to anyone. I only did it in RPG. However, I dit like... like A LOT. Since I am an idealist, I wanted to make my person's ideals and dreams come true. It had to be fantastic. I took all of our memories and created a blog for him (both of our characters are male). I put there all the preparations I did, the entire month before proposing. Letters I wrote each day for him.
When the day came, I gave this person the link and another gifts via app. I bought a ring and tuxedos for both our characters, and after he read the blog, I would send him to the app where I gave him the ring, and after that I would send him to the app where I bought the tuxedos, so that he could collect all the clues and romantic notes.
The day we got married, I filmed 14 videos (14 because I asked him to be my boyfriend in Saint Valentine's day) showing him how I prepared the house that was going to be ours. How I decorated it, how it changed little by little. I did the house in an app for decorating houses. Then I edited a video with a summary of all the videos plus screenshots that are our memories, pictures together, etc. 14 parts, each one with a flower and an emotion he provoked in my heart. I let his favorite flower for the end.
This RPG relationship is almost 3 years old now, and we are going stronger each day. I don't know if I will get to propose the same way to anyone irl, but I do know that IF an INFP really loves you, they will be willing to pull all those preparations and romantic details for you. And they will not get tired, because they want so bad to make you an active participant of their ideal life and world. You will be always included in their plans for the future and they will remember every detail about you that can turn a gift into something really personal and deep. Intimate.
Fellow INFP, if you read this and you love someone, don't be afraid to take advantage of your artistic skills and abstract mind! You have the potential to create the most romantic and heart-felt gifts and proposals! Love for you💙
Edit: Writing this made me want even more to travel to meet this person. She's a lovely ISFJ and deserves the whole world.
This is really sweet and you are very kind fellow INFP 💚
The RPG proposal thats so sweet. This comment is very sweet. Hope one day you'll meet your ISFJ fron a fellow INFP 💛
Although Marriage is scary for me and i plan on not doing it tbh but Ill probably will do the same thing you did with a game with a game.
You’re an ISFP.
so what game is it
As a fellow INFP I sadly have to inform you that not all of us have artistic skills. I'm really not very creative or artistic. I'm not even romantic.
But I'm really good at putting others at ease and make them feel loved and appreciated.
Awww, INFJ deserves happiness.
My husband is an Intp and and I'm an Infj. Before we got married he asked if I wanted to date him over text. To be fair, I was in a different state at the time but this is pretty accurate. 😂😂 When he "proposed" to me it was more like you want to get married yet?? (Over text) 🤣 Doesn't sound very romantic but he was very shy about opening up to me and wanted to make sure I even liked him before he proposed lol he's honestly the best husband I could have ever asked for, and we are definitely a perfect match. 🥰❤
They call intp and xnfj golden pair
INFJ have really perfect romantic life in our imagination. But reality always speak differently.
Man this reality 😭
I'm an INTP and I can't imagine proposing with a text. Well, I mean, I can but I wouldn't want to go that route.
If I ever found someone and learned what love is, I would push my creativity and knowledge of the person and (proposals in general) to the limit and come up with a really unique and personalized moment/scenario to pop the question.
The ISFJ! 😜🤣 "a cleaning process" indeed. Oh my gosh!! You always have to kill us with the INFJ.🥺😄👍💜
That is exactly how my INFJ boyfriend now husband proposed to me, it is so accurate it is scary!!!
Your INFJ interpretations are always perfection Frank. Its a lonely existence lol. But I rock at my social work career and friends love me and people in general come to me all the time. ALL THE TIME for advice and emotional support. It gets freaking annoying after a while though when a part of you just wants to find someone who wants to be with you in a more than friends way. I'm not convinced there is enough time for the frustrating ritual that is sifting through dates that end in "lets go back to being just friends". "Sorry to disappoint but I don't feel the same way". Also I dated an INTJ then we were friends after dating for ages. We were really good friends too until I had to end it because I couldn't stop wanting more (a relationship). But the INTJ proposal is a little scary 😂
FJ in his head: "Should I get a ring for the sketch? Nah, actually it's more funny if the box is empty."
Hilarious!
INTP here. Proposed to my wife on a walk in the park. It was inevitable, as I’d procrastinated about it for ages and I finally had to bite the bullet. Partly because my parents were going to visit the country where we live, so I decided it’d be good for our wedding to coincide with their visit.
Thankfully my fiancée said yes, and we’re happy together after nearly 18 years.
Accurate.
I, an INFJ, have practiced so many conversations that never happened the way I thought they would lol.
And my ISTP hubby mentioned that diamond rings are way too overpriced, and I agreed, so we got a fairly cheaper one, which is more sparkly (moissanite). 😊 ✨
And he challenged pretty much every wedding cost that came up, asking if we really need it and if it really has to cost that much. 😆 I actually appreciate how he challenges the norms and makes me think.
He was very sweet when he proposed. He was nervous and awkward, but I was prepared for that. 😉 After a day of doing all our fave things, eating all our fave foods, etc, at sunset, in a gazebo, he proposed.
INFP female here. I’ve been happily married to multiple guys that don’t exist and are widely popular in games/animes for years now and our relationships are absolutely perfect courtesy of my self indulgent fanfictions.
... The thought of an actual, legit proposal being done by an actual, legit human being, however, is terrifying and I would most definitely puke from a sheer emotional overload. The idea of a real romance is scarier than any horror movie/game/etc in existence to me and my terrible dating luck has almost doomed me to a forever single life :,)
OMG I relate to this so much. I've been living the single life for over 25 years now, and have come to see it as generally pretty glorious.
@Kratze Seriously!!! My terrible luck with dating weirdos has practically set my single status in stone due to how much better it feels. My last boyfriend couldn’t keep his hands off of me, would guilt me if I didn’t go where he wanted, and made me feel really uncomfortable. I don’t want to give up entirely, but the guys I’ve dated really makes it hard for me to actually WANT to date someone!
So relatable haha being alone and watching other people's happy marriage makes me happy.
I can't live without my manga/manhwa male favorite characters. I've been an NBSB (no boyfriend since birth) for 27 years now hopefully until I die. I like men only in the imaginary realm of manga and I'm content with it. Living in a peaceful room alone makes me at ease even for a solitary confinement as long as I have wifi to read manga.
Omg same 🤣!!
I just read the part of you being married to multiple people and I was like hold up
INFJ was so accurate! I've been single for 8 years BY CHOICE, but also constantly imagine my life with someone else. 😅
Officially married to an ISFJ. It was pretty much assumed from almost the very beginning of the relationships that we are going to get married.
With the whole pandemic situation we haven't had the wedding party yet, so he is waiting to propose 😁
He wants me to choose my engagement ring and it's pretty much up to me when he buys one and when we hold our party.
congratulations!!!!
You should tell him to propose with a cheesecake 🍰 😉
@@sarahhamdan5470 Thank you 😁
@@Sumjae 🤣
Funny but not enough sobbing and blushing for the INFP one. :’) if it was me I would probably not be able to stop crying and I’d accidentally drop the ring then have the most awkward laughing fit ever, stumble over my own feet and knock over that something on a restaurant table nearby, THEN after 27 tries finally say, will you marry me
INTP here. I didn't do the proposing but I definitely orchestrated the relationship direction perfectly so that he would fall right into my clutches.
LOL did u ever find out?
That INFJ proposal was both so sweet and simultaneously unsettling for me. I'm not good with the feels, haha.
If your actual proposal will be like that, your SO is going to be so happy. 😊
All the best FJ! 👍🏻
Omg after hearing that INFJ proposal I don't want any other type anymore Q_Q It was so beautiful, and all I would ever wish for! I even teared up a little (kudos to your acting skills Frank!).
~ Sincerely, another INFJ
How about...
16 personalities as stalkers
16 personalities as criminals
16 personalities when they are at their highest and lowest self esteem. I think that their confidence would present itself differently depending on the type, same with the forms their self-loathing would take
The INTJ criminals are supervillains.
I think he did a 16 personalities getting arrested video
Y e s
As an INFJ, I can relate to this, lol! I have my whole wedding and stuff picked out, now I just need to find someone to propose to me. XD
INTP is cute as always! I guess "16 personalities doing random acts of kindness" would be great for this season 🎄🎁🎅🏻😄
As a constantly planning INTJ who already thought of pulling this sh!t... Don't expose us.
Yeah, can't wait to see the opinion of INTJs who are already married.
Waaait… you mean INTJs can actually find someone willing to say yes?
Well not many of us are married, I'm an INTJ woman in my 40's and it never happened for me and I know it never will, but maybe it will happen for the younger INTJs
I'm INTJ, I'm married, and I'm saying nothing. ;)
Don't go shattering the illusion of choice now. It's an invaluable tool.
@@swiftarrow9 My dad did.
My husband is an INTP and he proposed by giving me a dozen red roses on Valentine’s Day and writing “Will you marry me?” on the card that came with the flowers. That was 21 years ago. I still have the ring box. I collect them.
You've convinced me I need to go fall in love with an ISFJ. 😂😂😂 Love his patience with her. (And tbh, I could totally be that lady who ate cheesecake without noticing the ring.)
-INTP
ISFJ knows he can’t really blame the lady- cheesecake is THAT GOOD 😋
Yeah, ISFJs are too kind and forgiving to stay mad about an infraction so understandable as snarfing down a whole cheesecake-ring and all-because it was so distractingly delicious. I mean, the ISFJ probably made it from scratch.
Now that I see the red shirt I always think of ENFJ first. And the “ethically sourced” was a cherry on top! But I would go even one step further and get a vintage one 😂 now, something tells me I need a red shirt, that one actually looks nice 👀👀👀
Yes! It's always the red sweater that has me go oh the ENFJ!
Me, an INTJ who has yet to find anyone half as captivating as my fourth grade crush:
...how the FUCK does he do that?!!
For anyone watching this, proposing over text is NOT okay, for ANY personality type!
As an INTP it’s the first play that comes to mind 😂
Definitely a no-go though
Yeah. I'm an intp girl, but I still want my partner to put effort into it. I still want it to be a memorable moment
As a probable INTP, I have to say that it's a good way to ensure compatibility. If someone gets offended by THAT, then they'll also be perpetually offended by the INTP during the marriage as well. And the significant other would have gotten offended prior to that as well, and a breakup would have happened well before a proposal, because INTP isn't going to keep mucking about with somebody who appears to dislike them. Which makes it a pretty efficient and smart thing to do if one happens to be an INTP, as a last-ditch check to make sure marriage won't be permanent misery. Um. I guess. Not that I have any experience to go on, lol.
Well, it really depends on the people. As an INTP, I honestly don’t know how I would react if anyone proposed to me at all, especially if it’s in front of people or in front of a camera, or even in person! I’d feel pressured to say yes, without being given the time to seriously consider my answer, and I don’t think I’d appreciate that. Also, I’m not particularly romantic, so if the guy proposes in a fancy way with all kinds of expensive and/or thoughtful pieces to it, I wouldn’t appreciate that very much either. It would make me embarrassed. If he texts me though, I don’t have to reply right away and I have time to think things through. I also have time to get excited, squeal, do a happy dance, screenshot it, and send it to my INFJ sister who will celebrate with me. I think, in a way, texting would be better for the guy as well. He wouldn’t need an expensive ring, would have time to phrase the proposal in the way he really wants to, wouldn’t have to worry about lighting for a photographer or weather for an outdoor proposal, wouldn’t have to worry about stuttering, sweaty palms, pits, or brow, and he wouldn’t have to worry about any interruptions. Proposing through text definitely isn’t for everyone (on the proposing or receiving end,) but I think it could work out really well if the people loved each other and thought similarly enough about the subject.
My INTJ fiance recently proposed, and thankfully it was not like that! 😆
I could tell he had planned out how to do it / what to say, and he was still nervous even though I already knew he was going to do it. LOL. I couldn't have asked for a better proposal though (me an INFJ).
The one with the INTJ is just terrifyingly accurate! What can I say?! We love to control every possible factor in our environment; which, at some point, leads to us wanting to control the people themselves
I'm an INTJ and the whole concept of 'knowing that you're the one for me and planning the entire course of the relationship up until a week after our official wedding' is pretty accurate, but I ain't gonna say it out in the proposal. The aim is to get married so "no" isn't an option, and because I know you so well, I'll do everything within my abilities to make you emotionally and psychologically incapable of saying no.
Okay. That sounds incredibly creepy and manipulative and controlling. 😬
@@breezymango4113 It sounds that way but it's not how it'll look like irl, cos all I have to do is be my normal weird self and recreate a perfect romantic proposal that I've seen from a tv show, and it'll be perfectly suitable both of us as introverts, and she's gonna melt. No way will she say no.
Depends on your partner, I guess. I like saying the randomest shit and be super crude and honest so I definitely say everything out loud, and my INTJ bf does the same with his evil thoughts lol
@@nightmare4122 Mine is an INFJ and saying it out loud might leave her speechless and I won't want anything to get in her way of saying yes.
@@breezymango4113 only becuz ur not intj
As an INFJ... that one hit hard... but it is what it is.
💯
ENFJ one was spot on… that’s literally how I proposed to some INFP on a futurely-open note but apparently “she has kids and doesn’t need one more”..
I don’t know whether to laugh or feel bad for you.
@Lunits Thank you..
@@TheHollyJollyLife If it was for me, I can be super practical like istps and ESTPs, we have the same functions.. but..,
I'm surprised an infp even got a date in the first place.
@@jackcolson4745 She’s a girl, a lot INFP females have very strong libido when they’re young so they often marry young..
Oh man, that ring box was as empty as my cold cold heart. 😃
I was waiting to see a “Ring Pop” 🍭 somewhere along the line 😂
Infj married intj here. I think you kind of nailed it. He had been preparing for 10 years. I was going to do what it takes to make it work. Now, take into consideration the narc parents that spawned us, and books could be written.
I'm an ISTP and marriage seems to be REALLY scary
I agree -intp
Correct. Depicting the ISTP wanting to get married in the first place is inaccurate.
-ISTP
i agree -istp
also where are all the other istp's
If you have more assets than your partner, it *is*
5:04
STOP, I LITERALLY KNEW RIGHT AWAY 😭
🚶
And yes, female INFJs practice both the proposal their future fiancé will propose to them AND their own reacton to it.
Girl don't be giving out our secrets 😂
that's sooo true
The ENFP was too real. My ex wanted to propose to me on our first year anniversary and we were both so broke and unemployed and in debt 😂
LMAOOO
I suggested to my husband that we could get married, no point in waiting when we knew we want to stay together; that I will get the ring coz I can get it cheaper and that he can give it to me when I won’t expect it. Which is exactly what happened. Who says I don’t have the romance figured out?! INTJ
Ah but it IS better to not have it, all the its, figured out.
Lifelong I/ENTJ who is recovering now the last 5 yrs-slowly lol
I’m almost 57, so anything is possible! Incl *changing ur personality type*, true story
I did the same thing lmao. I found a ring that I love for a great price, he just handed the money. I am an INTJ, he is an INFP.
@@kuramacabre mine is ISFJ, it’s an interesting dynamics as he is sort of a protector of old values and I constantly challenge the status quo.
Instead of proposing, INFJ will give therapy or help her to propose her crush......"you've heard this before" (background song)
Edit- OMG!! I laughed so hard when he said i just need to find a person 🤣🤣......poor INFJ☹️😂
Indeed, that sounds SO up INFJ's alley! 😂
Yeah I laughed too, and felt depress at same time
I laughed too - but then I almost cried😪 why are we like this?
@@Seca95 i wish i had the answer of this question☹️...... Sadly We can't find someone who understand us
The esfp is literally my husband. The intj is what he becomes after several drinks. Lol
The first time he said that he loves me and wanted to marry me, I looked at him and asked, “are you drunk?”
Btw, the intj in this video is so romantic! Love it.
INFP here! Why can I relate to our skit so much? A while back I literally asked someone out on April 1st so that if they said no I could be like "haha, just kidding". HOW IS THIS SO ACCURATE?!
Same literally I also did that with my best girl friend but she denied... 😅
FJ really knows his stuff!
My husband was definitely intj proposing... he remembered when he first met me but I seriously have no recollection. It was about 4 years before we even met
Timestamps:-
0:00 ~ ESFJ
0:24 ~ ESTJ
0:32 ~ ESTP
0:58 ~ ENFJ
1:06 ~ ESFP
1:34 ~ ENTJ
1:54 ~ ISFJ
2:28 ~ ENTP
2:38 ~ ISTP
2:50 ~ ENFP
3:02 ~ ISFP
3:12 ~ INTJ
3:35 ~ ISTJ
3:47 ~ INFP
4:11 ~ INTP
4:37 ~ INFJ
Thanks
I am ENFJ but i 100% relate to the INFJ on this one
At least the 75% of FJ's audience that is supposedly all female all be like "yes!". Married, unmarried, in a relationship, no matter! 🤪😂
True 😇😂
🤭😂
I am an INFJ who was mistyped as an INFP for ages. I used to see my ISTP partner in the ISTP sketches, but never myself in INFP. These INFJ sketches though, now that I know, they hit me hard. 🙃
oh come on i was waiting for a "sure!" text and then intp's wholesome happiness