As an ugly guy who managed to get a gf I can tell you my experience. My gf would avoid me like plague and she never did anything sexual with me. At the end she told me "I was only with you cuz all my friends have a boyfriend and I did not want to be the only one alone". I was just a pass time while she was waiting for Chad.
There's a lot of truth to this. My sister in highschool was the girl everyone wanted to date. She ended up marrying a short, balding man who wasn't very attractive. I asked her onetime what was it about him that made you marry him. She replied I know I'm the best he'll ever get and will never cheat on my. By the way, at the time she was a single mom and her baby daddy was in and out of prison. In the end she cheated on her husband who was a great father to her children which ended in divorce.
You're forgetting when the male bears a strong resemblance to the female's father/uncle/older brother/older male relative. As young children, girls view their fathers and other older, taller male relative authority figures as the ultimate Chads, influencing their conception of what a "real man" is when comparing to all other men. So, if a man is a bit frumpy-looking, BUT, is frumpy-looking in a way that reminds the woman of her frumpy-looking father or one of these other older, taller male relatives, then he has a good shot of genuinely attracting her.
Legit. My wifes coworker is hot and she likes older frumpy looking guy. Crows feet make her wet, her words. She had older parents and a very stable home. We do tend to gravitate towards those that exhibit traits of our parents.
Sorry some are attracted to the opposite of their parents, like in my case, i rather date a feminine w0men than a masculine, over bearing beach. It depends on how well you are treated & if you are socially aware & reflect on your relationships. Those who fear or respect their opposite gender parent will be attracted to the same characteristics cos of its familiarity. I broke out if it thanks to RP & BP knowledge. I used to date masculine beaches & got beta-whipped but not now. I only date girls who follow my way or she can go to the highway. My current girl loves how i lead & she is so agreeable & willing to go anywhere i go. She used to complain about being questioned by betas for not having her own way, too bad this guys dont know what they are missing out. Already heard stories of how beta-whipped they are now.
My marriage turned into #6. I'm a normie and she was 300+ lbs when we met. She had weight loss surgery and started getting all kinds of attention from Chads. Sex fell off a cliff. Allegedly something like 85% of women that have bariatric surgeries end up divorcing their spouses.
Number 9 is Social Circle. I live in Germany, in a rather rural era. Although Social media is quite common here, it's not as important as in big cities in the US. I know many cases where a pretty girl has an average bf, just because he is the most attractive guy IN HER SPECIFIC SOCIAL CIRCLE. However, when these women had the chance to date up, they did.
@@The11thDimension91 yup, it's not just about getting women. It also determines who wants to be around you, the job you get, etc.. If your a sub5 prepare to be alone. No friends, no girls, etc.
I'd like to ADD my female prospective: #9 She is DEFECIENT 1. She has severe health challenges i.e epilepsy seizures, bipolar disorder, depression, STDs, physically handicapped 2. ADDICTION She's a recovering drug addiction or alcoholic 3. Single mother 4. Divorced 5. Very bad well known past i.e ex porn star or stripper, Webcam, onlyfans, social media etc. 6. Terrible personality ie controlling, selfish, mood disorders, bad attitude, 7. Lack Feminity She is just a Shell of a beautiful woman, she just looks good. She is too masculine, lacks feminine warmth, energy, grace. And charm
As a guy who managed to date a super attractive blond girl in his teems as a fat, poor and long shaggy haired nerd (Watch the video on my channel as proof), I can actually confirm this. She was controlling, selfish and had BPD,. It turns out that being the only guy crazy enough to put up with her was the only thing that made her be with me. {No regrets, it was a very unpleasant experience but the sex was fantastic.}
8. She had a very bad breakup, (been abused, cheated on and lacking of self confidence consequently) so she need a boyfriend that she'll have control on. 9. Codependent. (it can be included in dependency and mental illness but it's more a comportement issue)
06:35 is absolutely true. People(in general, not only men) overestimate female beauty and underestimate male beauty. Blackpillers should have already noticed that, it's quite a obvious thing.
Nah. In nature, male animals pretty much always look better. A lion has a mane, whereas a lioness has nothing. A male peacock has better feathers. Male birds sing better. Men are just better in almost every category, whether in strength, looks, or intelligence, yet women demand so much. Ask any kid to rank peacocks. Show a kid a male peacock and a female peacock, and repeat this with a lion and lioness. Men will come out on top. Women are nothing without makeup. Men are natural.
Not only that, it's a myth that there's a competition between men for women, in reality there is an abundance of women and any man can get some, while women are constantly competing for men.
It’s much easier for a girl to be attractive as long as she’s not fat and wears abit of makeup she’ll get attention from the majority of men. It’s not as easy for men to maximise their genetic potential however they should. Being lean is quite important
Yes I would say the only behavioural trait that holds a significant amount of weight for male SMV is low BF%, the rest is predominantly genetic makeup with a little status/money
Essentially if you haven’t got abs in normal lighting then your face isn’t lean enough. Having a good body can help only if you atleast have average height and facial features. Keep up the videos though bro definitely enjoying your insights into these topics. You planning on making videos on looksmaxxing
People seem to have a very hard time noticing trends when they don't conform with what they want to believe. The blackpill is no exception; even when the blackpill explains 95% of the variance in men's dating outcomes, people will persistently point at that 5% as some evidence that we're wrong.
The girls are not hot if they had plastic surgery and makeup cause if their with men that are average that's because their real look without plastic surgery and makeup is average!
I think the reason for that is "black pill" implies there's just no hope. But then if you say there's a 5% chance you could get an attractive girl as a sub5 it sorta undermines the whole point that you should give up instead of going to the red pill people and trying your luck.
So what, is the answer to give up, try to get laid from Chad's leftovers with as little investment(financial, obviously looksmaxx as part of it) as possible and don't bother looking for a real mate?
@@ma_junia You a White/Black American or some kind of other Westerner? If so, you don't have to stay where you are if you truly want a LTR mate for kids and all the rest that explicitly "trad" types and cohorts always advocate for.
@@thelonehiker4698completely disagree and he’s obv referring to specifically when the woman is exiting her prime after chasing chads that have no reason to commit 🤣 then clearly just marrying some random for security. Maybe many people don’t marry their first choice but how did they get there and what they did in the meantime is the question. Nobody wants to marry someone with insane baggage 😂
@@remyvb3494 you know why there are so many 'dating gurus' flooding the youtube? ....because people lack blackpill knwoledge. If they knew what was going on, they'd avoid getting into such situtation or go to these gurus for advice coz they'd already know what was actually going on. Men thinking thier women cheated on them because they were no 'alpha' enough (redpill) or 'caring' enough (bluepill) lol.
@@remyvb3494 a blackpilled person who is into dating would spend his time grooming himselves and looksmaxxing whereas a bluepilled guy would spend time buying gucci products/ jestermaxxing etc
9) Religion. This is the only case that I have personally witnessed, and is in fact, rarer today than in the past, but highly religiously conservative women dating down in looks happens in environments where other cultural values and the environment allows for it. I've only seen it in church communities and religious college campuses. Like with all of the examples listed however, the preference would be for men with all positive features. The exceptions aren't exceptions. A gold-digger would prefer Chris Hemsworth's money over Bill Gate's wealth, a post wall beta-chaser would prefer Jake Gyllenhaal simping over michael cera, a bad boy with a heart of gold would be preferable to an actual legit asshole, etc. It's all just settling for the best available man that also has X whatever (wealth, power, security, faith).
I'm a Christian conservative, and since I only would date/marry a Christian conservative woman, and these women would only date Christian conservative men, we will be more lenient with looks because we agree on important values for long term marriage.
@@bryant475 100% I'm not religious at all, but I did grow up in a very religious atmosphere, and my college was a private Christian college. The things that I noticed about the women at said college was 1) Faith made a difference in ultimate selection 2) The women still chose based on looks first and faith second. Every woman on campus was actively seeking a marriage from freshman year, most of them were virgins, and yet, the hottest men on campus would have been identical to the frat boy in a movie. Values absolutely matter in that environment, but a hot Christian is better than an ugly one.
The communities/cohorts/bioethno-subcultures/strata and other demographic equivalents of such folks across America/the Anglosphere, arguably the broader "1st world" Occident tbh, are the last bastions for explicit Western "traditionalist" types to conserve or even propagate their values, principles, ideological+philosophical underpinnings, legislation, laws, customs, ideal modalities+lifestyles, etc.....in. Too bad many just LARP online now.
Try Photofeeler, you can post your pictures online to get rated by women. It's good because it's anonymous so they can't lie to risk hurting your feelings
@@WheatWaffles i find that photofeeler isn't totally accurate but can be fairly accurate if you take a good picture, i had a lot of pictures that got like 20 votes and it was rated as a 4 or 5 when i know i'm not a 4 or 5, when i took my best one on the other hand, i got rated as 7-7.5, which is fairly accurate
P. S. Not all women are as nice as they look either. Personalities are diverse - some are hot nightmares. It's cool to put up with a hot psycho chick once or twice in your life, but you learn that the mental trauma is just not worth it.
@@cristianorover5261 Interesting. In my experience, "ugly chicks" seemed apprehensive about being used just for s3x, so they were more cautious/suspicious of a guy's motives.
Indeed, one of my better friends in high school was a 'pretty boy'. Shorter than medium tall women but the excellent face with the right touche of femininity. He was and still is slim and while not muscular, he's in excellent shape. Just like this two other brothers and parents; all have that exact winning gene combination. He had to literally beat the women off him and not a month went by without 2 to 3 hot girls confessing their love to him and asking him out at school. Every night he went out, girls hit on him hard. Can you imagine that?! As a man being asked out by multiple girl all the time that actually looks like women and ... even better ... who are among the top girls in school. The girls were very very thirsty for him; one even offered a pact that if they both were still single at 30 she would still be available as his willing substitute. This specific girl already had it for him since kindergarden and the poor thing always kept desperately trying, everyone in school knew it. All throughout high school, even when he was dating other girls, she kept trying. Even when she had a boyfriend (who was a lot older and didn't go to our school) she still kept at it. She was a math genius who could solve math that's more difficult than what I had at university in no longer than it took the teacher to put the final part of the problem on the board. Yet this chad was all she wanted. She never got him, went to do charity around the world and eventually settled for a guy within her range (she was a 3.5/10 physically). And ... because he had it so SO easy, he loved to toy with these women. Dumping them in mean ways, forcing and making them simp for him hard, pitching them against each other (girls that were the best of friends would plant knives in each others back to get on his good side), ... . To add insult to injury genetics even gave him a grow spurt after highschool, resulting in him ending up not short but about average to tall-average. Not only did he have his looks he had innate talent for math and he too could solve equations like nothing ... but ... because of that he never studied and failed at university in his first year ... but partied like a beast ... he then took it seriously and aced everything thereafter. --- The game is rigged ... as a normal man with apparently a below average face, I can't even get a bloody first date. I've always been well liked and had lots of superficial friends during my education. Since I always took lead in group work to ensure that I aced it (I always was at the top of my class), people fought to be my partners and fought to be next to me on exams. My female friends, all fellow classmates at university, often remark: "why are you still single" -_- I'm this close to telling them: "Well ... why don't you date me? You all seem to be wondering, yet I know not a single one of you would say '"yes" if I asked you out!". There is one big regret I have in my life ... years to late I realised that a single rather sweet but not so attractive smart girl might have been quite a bit in "true" love with me. However, since I got rejected left, right and centre all the time ... by the time she tried to hint her interest at me, I was so lacking in relational confidence that I was 100% sure no girl would go actively for me that I didn't perceive her efforts for what they probably were. Years later I saw on facebook that she's now with someone who looks uncannily like me. So ... not only does deficiency in the looks department harm your chances at succes when asking, it also damages your confidence to such levels that you can't even think someone might chase you for once. You're also not able to "fool around" at the teenager and twen years ... thus not only are you missing out on having fun while you're in your physical prime, you're also not able to build experience with relationships. So ... even if you might stumble on a girl with interest, you don't have the tools and knowhow to do things perfectly right in an organic way ... thus you'll probably still blow it with her, while the same you with experience might have found his life companion... That realisation sucks hard!!! The gap between the winners and losers just keeps ever expanding throughout life. Couple it with impossible recruitment standards for entry level jobs ... always demanding many years of specific experience ... and life within society is just a joke. It's not like in the movies where a high school jock ends up flipping burgers for the rest of his life, while the nerdy kid goes on to be a successful industrial and getting the girl in the end. Either the nerdy kid ends up in a similar dead end job like the jock and still not getting the girl or the nerdy kid succeeds only to have the burger flipping jock fuck his wife behind his back and ending up stuck raising the resulting child ... hopefully blissful unaware that it isn't his only to eventually still end up divorced and going form one gold digger and mental case to another. Well ... I choose the third option. Since my biology masters with great distinction and all the options in biotech means toiletpaper in the hiring business and fun rewarding romantic relationships are denied to me, I instead went for a chill full time job that I take care of in half the time and I spend my free time on me, myself and I. Every hobby and interest I have, I'm planning to do. I only live once and as an only child of middle class parents money is not an issue. And to think that in the past 'blue pilled me' would have been so so happy to spend his time and money on a woman! Nowadays I am so busy most of the time that I honestly wouldn't be able to fit a girlfriend in my life. And whenever I look at what's out there, I don't even find the enthusiasm to even try. Yet ... it still bugs me ... because in the back of my mind I still dream of having a fun girlfriend with whom to share my passions; a true life companion. I'm a very romantic, enthusiastic and optimistic person by nature ... and to face that everything you've believed from childhood is a lie ... it's such a cruel joke. It's why I still feel a need to occasionally go on a rant like here ... . And ... I've come to terms these past few years with the fact that "the one" is a myth for us normies. It's a divine pleasure only experienceable by the beautiful people in society. The only none destructive things we can do is play the numbers game and settle for whatever happens to stick ... or go MGTOW. And surrounded by my passions I think MGTOW is the better choice than lowering your standards to rock bottom and ending up a cuck.
Wow, let me tell you something in India and all of the subcontinent, you get a beautiful hot wife arranged for you which won't even cheat on you 89% chance, the only requirement is that you must have a government job, everything else will be arranged for you, but the thing is western influence is catching onto other parts of the world.
I'm below average in terms of looks and I'm as skinny as a twig, I'm only 20 and I've been balding since 2020, it started during my high school finals, i was stressed and i started to skip breakfast and stayed up late so genetics may not be the only reason but there's no way to even know that because my dad's bald. But i'm extremely grateful for being above average in height, I'd probably be immensely depressed if i was short. But my biggest problem ain't even my lack of physical appeal. I lack social skills too as I've always been extremely shy as a kid, i stayed home and played video games most of the time, and now I'm no longer shy but I'm still reclusive. I enjoy being alone, I'm not lonely or anything but being socially inept and being unattractive is a terrible combination. For the reasons i just stated I've made it my priority in life to acquire a respectable and decent paying job so I won't be completely miserable. But realistically in today's economy i don't think i can accomplish even that.
@@phatlewt2932 yooo, same situation except switch around height and looks (I’m 5’8, but maybe a 7/10 in looks). I was very shy growing up, hit puberty late, was excluded most of my childhood and lack the experience of most people my age. Consequently, I became depressed, did poorly in school, didn’t care what happened to me because I’m never gonna have the life I want anyway, etc. I wish I hadn’t, because it’s become a self fulfilling prophecy. The whole thing about “winners stay winning and losers stay losing” is totally true sadly, but I’ve been hitting the gym so that if some stuck up douchebag who’s never faced any real hardship in his life tries to walk all over me, I can at least knock some teeth out.
I see your "5/10 woman" and I see an 9/10 dream queen. I'm feeling pretty lucky knowing my standards for attractiveness aren't high and I can just focus on finding a woman with a good personality.
It's funny to me that people will easily say a man is 'punching above their weight' obviously in regards to looks, but then tell you looks don't matter, I don't think you can have it both ways.
I am a 3 with a 3 gf. I’m good with it lol. We are very happy together. Sometimes you shouldn’t strive to be something you can never be. Being a 7 or higher isn’t necessary to have success, to be a chad, have a girlfriend and be the dominant male. You can improve, and you should surely try your hardest to be the best possible version of yourself though, and then operate within the limits set by your overall quality. I’ve found my perfect match at such a low rating. So I don’t see why anybody else can’t.
If I were you, I'd still work on your looks (namely, if you are overweight, and if you dress badly). Even a woman who is 3 will eventually think she deserves a guy better than a 3 these days (no, she won't tell you that), it's in their nature, and trust me, plenty of dudes would hook up for a short term thing, with big promises of "something serious", through Tinder, etc. You sound way too too comfortable, bro. It's not a good long term strategy for life.
@@GUITARTIME2024 You see, me and my girlfriend are comfortable with each other because we are united by the strength of desperation and loneliness. She used to have an abusive mother and lost her dad when she was only 10. I lost mine when I was 17 and my mother wasn’t that present in my life. Her nature is way too humble to be like “yeah I definitely deserve a guy who is more than a 3”. I can see the gratitude in her eyes about the fact that she got somebody who genuinely loves her in life. I am not overweight and it’s quite the contrary. I regularly go to the gym with a solid training program and follow a moderate caloric surplus diet. I am however garbage when it comes down to stylistic choices, as I kind of “dress up for survival” instead of dressing up for appeal. Its true that I am way too comfortable. Life sucks and it can take away from me anything it wants anytime, her included. So I should always be on guard, I get that. Modern girls have it in their nature to always be looking for someone better and better and better, to satisfy them in terms of economy and public appeal, maybe even sexual purposes. But this girl saw way too much in her life to want more than she currently has. If she turns her back on me, I’m prepared. But I must enjoy this, and if it lasts forever, even better. I met her through a friend, in real life, so the good old way. That should be good too. Edit: I also have a fairly sizable property house (thanks to the struggles of my parents) with all of basic services and pleasures at hand and am studying to become a gynecologist. So she has all that she needs, and can’t be left to desire something another man offers, unless we are considering top 1% dudes. Probably I am just being very harsh on my rating. But I guess it’s in the “good dude” nature.
@@TheRealNightShot wait. You have a sizeable property, you're not fat, you work out. and you are studying to become a doctor??? And (with all due respect) you are with a 3 with baggage (in other words, a white knight). Bro, seriously. It would be great if you had a link to a picture of both of you. This is fascinating.
There's a guy on tiktok who's a Chad, he literally does everything he can do and say to not get a positive response on tinder no matter what he says there's always a positive response. Side note he has 10k matches. Says it all Blackpill theory wins. I'm 6'4, make 6 figures and have game my face currently is a 6/10 because my body weight isn't good - I struggle dating even though I can pick up no problem. Facts are facts.
But then if you are a 6 in the face and 6’4 with 6 figures shouldnt you be like a 7/8? So you should be getting women in abundance? Are you not in shape or something? That surely doesn’t add up
If Harry styles was a 4/5 then he wouldn't have a career. He was selected for his looks and then singing was secondary. He can sing a bit so bonus. Have you ever seen an ugly boy band?
I noticed that too, but I feel it's also the same way with women. Take, for example, saweetie, shes for the most part, attractive, but her music is terrible.
The analysis in this video is excellent. Two further points I'd like to add. 1) People who say "I know several guys who are very ugly but have a lovely girlfriend" often tend to have tunnel vision. Such people will only take notice of the rare few sub5 men who have a girl but they wont pay attention to the many ugly men they run into everyday who are alone. 2) Ugly guys who managed to get an attractive women almost never manage to repeat that success when they break up. I knew a guy who was about a 4/10( short, pudgy, ethnic, spoke with a lisp, poor social skills, crappy job). He was dating a blonde that was way out of his league. They dated for several years. Last I met him he told me that she had left him and he has not had any date since.
@mid-day break but you're talking about dating hot girls that are out of your league. Since you're ugly, you should date other ugly girls and everything will work out fine for you.
@mid-day break dude, that's not true. girls don't care about looks that much. i mean unless you're gonna tell me you look like carrot top (hell even he's not bad), you seem like a really intelligent guy. I grew up as a nerd/dork so i know how it's like being alone. until you get out of this mindset, you will not be with a girl. you have to own up to your worth first before you get to the point where you feel that you'd add to someone's life. if you're going to put yourself down like this then you might as well not even say that a girl doesn't want you, you don't want you. i had to fix my life to gain confidence, whatever it is for you to regain your confidence, do that. if it's to lose weight, do that, wear nicer clothes? do that. make it a plan. it takes time. i just cannot imagine how you could not be worth someone's time when you seem to be a decent self reflective person. bring yourself up and do whatever you need to get there.
Another reason for this phenomenon is trauma. A lot of childhood trauma stemming from the template of love as observed by her parents. This leads to her dating a lot of chads that cheat on her/treat her poorly. She develops the logic that the only nice guys she will find are below her looks level at least 2-4 points
Bro you're a genius! I always thought, that I was the only idiot out there who had those opinions on dating and how a 5/10 guy can get a 8+ girl. In my opinion point 4 is the most important one nowadays. I see SO MANY couples, where both are in their early to mid twenties and where this rule applies. The guy is literally unattractive or at max. average looking and the girl is a stunner. When I asked them, how long they know each other, they always replied this: "We met in school / High school". It's obvious that females had lower standards in school than later in life and that those guys were just lucky to be at the right place at the right time. If they would have met later for the first time and not during school e.g. in their 20's, those guys would have never got the girl. Never. It's a fact but people don't understand this. Great Video and keep up the good work!
Yes, but there has to be something else. I mean, as soon as she starts to get out to the world (job, collegue, etc), she will meet better options for sure. If she keeps with her high school bf, I think we should give some credit to the guy and, especially, to the girl for being a good quality woman.
that is why i encourage puppy love(not sexual romance) on atleast in high school to an extent because when these women enter college their dating pool rises and your chances(given that u r an avg guy) would dip deeper than the marianas trench. heck even if i show im a straight A student in college now ddnt change the fact that im still unacttractive and i can read their facial expressions like "oh wow u r so intelligent, but still iwont date u tho".
@@alejandrop.s.3942 Every time a woman gains a sexual partner, her standards for relationship increase - are harder to please. Women that had less partners, have less standards for relationship. As long as a woman feels secure in that relationship, she will never cheat without alcohol, or leave the guy.
There are two more exceptions you forgot about. Rebounds and 'using' for jealousy. I saw a beautiful girl with one of the least attractive guys in my college. My Chad future-roommate told me he broke up with her for how crazy she was, and she magically ended up with him right after though she went to a college 2 hours away. I've also been the rebound before, and now see that she and her friends disrespected me in small ways.
I notice a lot of women in their 20s-30s dating way below their means, like 4/10 guys with 7/10 girls. The only rational I could come up with is security, they know they own that guy is going to be loyal. I've had girls when I was younger say "You're good looking, you're probably a player, I don't want to get hurt". I really think a lot of girls get burned by Chad, then after heartbreak they intentionally date down.
Add another one: closeted lesbian. In highschool we had an attractive girl date a 4/10 guy (who I always thought looked way too feminine - long hair, feminine face, skinny, short). A few years after breaking up with him she came out as a lesbian. Rare, but happens too. Either they don’t realize it about themselves yet and pick those subconsciously, or it’s “practice” before moving on to the real thing lol
It’s good that you can actually judge men’s faces accordingly I’ve seen many people rate 7’s and 8’s as 6’s very often, great analysis these vids are always high iq
Thank you very much for your support, I'd say the main reason for this is when men rate other men the emphasis is placed on the body, probably due to primitive fighting and survival. Meanwhile when women rate men the emphasis is on face with body being a bonus, as a good face is a better indicator for healthy offspring.
@@WheatWaffles very true then I’m guessing it’s still why “we” give men the advice of “just get big bro” because it’s an added multiplier on top of face, no matter how much or little it’ll affect it will your smv
Regarding nr 7: Many Asian women seek Western men mainly for 2 reasons: Staying in Western countries and thus upgrading their own social status or it is as you said a fetishization of race. One could also apply this example to East European women.
Yup. Sinosphere womynz and post-Soviet bloc womynz are among the worst of the independent developing markets actually open and available to "normie" types and cohorts of Western men. Chinese women from the urban zones who go expat between 20 yrs old and middle aged are generally imposing and now very aligned with the CCP.
That's very true but don't flatter yourselves white boys . These woman aren't so different from your gold diggers they are only in it for the status as the guy commented said ,
1/1,000,000 Anomaly is the entertainer. He's not attractive but her life will never be boring. He has to compensate by constantly planning activities or trips. He also has to be funny all the time. Look at her social media and she will always be doing something.
and then in the end of the day those entertainer depressed and taking his own life, especially comedians, idk why comedians are prone to depression and suicidality
Another reason is: it's fake. And it's not even rare. Most infield videos of PUA coaches are fake and probably almost all of the women they have their picture taken with are bought. Or you see a picture of two buddies and someone else sells it to us as a couple. Or it's just plain lies: remember paraplegic Josh, who supposedly (according to Red Pill) dated three prime women at the same time. It feels like 80% of all Blue Pill men and 99% of all Red Pill men misrepresent their success with women.
If a woman wanted masculinity she wouldn't cheat with a chad until he beats up her husband/boyfriend. 70% or so of men would've been in hospitals at any point in time.
Masculinity is in your looks. You don’t need any masculine behaviors if you look tall, masculine and attractive. Personality is just a meme because people judge people based on looks.
@@weight3820 lol! dude no! women are far and a way less visually stimulated them men. Looks matter way more to us because we've evolved that way. Women on the other hand value resources, provision, and status far more than looks. Looks help, but it isn't at all the main metric.
@@dwade0486 for sexual attraction no. For emotional attraction and long term relationship yes. Just watch Face and LMS videos and you will see how visual women are.
the fact that many women nowadays are on conctraceptives make them desire men with more feminine features. A good mix of masculinity and femininity as to the face is preferable. You really have to have both in a good symbiosis to do good with most females. I have a overly masculine face (sharp broad jaw, thick eyebrows etc). and surprisingly growing my hair long to compensate for that helped me to get more female attention.
Guys some black pill stuff is valid but it is mostly an unhealthy way to cope. If you have money and you are a happy person you'll find someone, that's for sure.
Most times when an 8 girl is dating a 4/5/6 guy, she usually treats him like sh1t. Yea they maybe in a relationship but she treats him like a beta, not an Alpha. She is only in it cos of the lifestyle you provide, she doesnt really desire you. It doesnt feel like a real relationship. Ive seen this too many times. He has to give alot just to be with her (Spend on dates, endure her bull crap, give her emotional Support, follow her lead, surprise her, many more) ive been in one personally & realized i rather date down to be treated like a king than go with the beautiful ones. You cant fight Hypergamy. Even compensating with money/status, its not enough. Would i use game to get a one nighter or a short fling with an 8, hell yeah but to keep them long term? I rather return them to the streets.
The girls are not hot if they had plastic surgery and makeup cause if their with men that are average thats because their real look without plastic surgery and makeup is average!
@@odyseebetterthanyoutubeglo1767 lol you fight hypergamy for only one night stands or short flings bro. Im not a private, im a general. I dont fight battles, i fight wars. U fight one battle too many, u lose the war. Thats the difference between me & u. If ure using game for a one night stand, a short fling, a notch count or for the experience of dating an 8, i applaud u but if ure using game to keep an 8 long term when ure just a 6, i pity u. You'll end up a beta or losing her. Im focusing on building legacy, no more short flings. Its too tiresome. Ive had enough notches.
@@hadiakmal9281 You are so cool bro, teach me your ways. The most important thing is for men to not be betabuxx and stop caring about the world. Incels have nothing to lose. and yet they would betabuxx if given a chance.
I am not ugly by any standards but I’m here because you you do speak the truth. Although I’ve never known what it is to be ugly, I can see those trends holding up when I’m dealing with 9s and 10s. The red pill philosophy would tell you that if you can’t pull that caliber of women, it is because you put them on a pedestal and you don’t treat them like you’d treat inferior women, therefore they pick up on you pedestalizing them and treat you like an inferior person. However, I have always been suspicious of that. The truth is that those women feel that they can get better men than you because of YOUR LOOKS and that is why you can’t pull them. I have always thought that if I was ugly I would absolutely not waste my energy with women AT ALL. Compensating with kindness, personality (which isn’t really mine) and other behavioral things is just not worth it. As human beings we are all after happiness. Not women. Women can give you temporary pleasure. Nobody can make you happy but yourself. So rather than chase skirts I’d say focus on the things that make you happy that don’t depend on women’s validation or admiration.
It's become so normal for me to be rejected by women/girls all the time since middle school that now in my fifties, I suffer major panic attacks and become very aggressively defensive whenever any women shows interest in me. I will not allow any women to come close to me at all. Sadly, this is what I've become and its too bad for the honest woman who wanted to be with me. I just can't do it............
I don't understand how it's real love when the woman loves you mainly because of your looks? The woman loves her husband for money/status as another woman loves her husband for how he looks. If both of them lose them then the woman won't love him?
defonein yeah but that's not what he's saying. According to hypergamy, women will look for the 20%. Surely the other 80% do have a basic level of looks, but it doesn't matter, is it? It's lust not love, a real love is when you accept imperfections in one another.
The concept of love is very different for men and woman. You're asking if women are able to love men in the same way that men love women and the answer is no. The closest thing to a man's concept of love that a woman will feel will be towards her child if she is a good mother. They aren't capable of love in the sense that you are thinking of because that concept of love is strictly a male thing. That's just the way it is. Same as how to a lion, family means eating most of your male cubs so that they don't grow up to kill you whereas to humans family is obviously something completely different
@@alejandraguzman7709 Yes, and unfortunately yours is the only unconditional, TRUE love that your son will ever get from a woman. Just as your husband got that extent of female love only from his mother (well, I hope he did -- some men didn't even have a loving mom). Now don't get me wrong, I don't doubt that you love your husband as much as a woman is able to "love" a man, yet this comes nowhere near the love a man has for his wife (as long as it's a happy marriage, of course). Most men would literally die for the woman they love. And a great many of them, throughout history, actually did.
@Sleeper and yes a parent will always love their child more,if you become a father you'd probably love your son more than your wife,you'd love your mother more than your wife,that's why a woman is wired to love her child more as she carried her child inside of her,under her heart,a kind mother,will love her. And let me tell you love isn't always conditional,in a lot of cases it begins with certain conditions ,but with time,the conditions no longer matter and it becomes unconditional and people become ready to sacrifice themselves for their loved ones,I work at a hospital and I see all the time,sisters donating a kidney to her brother,donating blood unconditionally,if you believe that unconditional love has never existed throughout history,I'll give you an idea,clean yourselves and get ready with a mindset that you'll help someone unconditionally selflessly ,it could be helping someone in anyway ,even by smiling at them or by giving company to an old man who is all by himself or maybe donate to charities with your money ,help autistic kids ,or console someone who is going through a hard time,PLEASE do all this without expecting anything in return,do not expect,just do all this for the sake of doing it and step back and realise,that was that not unconditional love??visit an old age home and spent time won't old men and women who have lived their entire lives ,it will give you perspective on life , that there is so much to this world and things are not in black and white ,if you think that way I am sorry for you,but there are always multiple perspectives to every single thing in this world,what you think is right maybe wrong to another,and what you think is wrong,maybe right to another ,try to understand why it is that way.just accpemthtings as they are ,getting a woman is not the only thing in life, and when you have such a black and white approach to things,you won't succeed ,because they are not only infinite shades of grey but other colours as well.insuggest you broaden your horizon.im sorry that you have gone through things in your life which has ,are you like this but with such a mindset you won't go anywhere .and unconditional love,there are so many women where I live who take care of their fathers,mothers and grandparents,there are many women who have stayed with a man despite his financial status . Well let's say you have a daughter ,what kind of man do you want your daughter to marry ?be that man Take care
Id agree with him though as many other will i imagine. I think its maybe because she has quite a rounded face and knowing that she might also have some pounds above average - also cake face.
@@insomnia695 you can tell by this photo that she's very skinny, well defined jawline, girls like that will always be rated highly, I just don't see what you're looking at, she probably the prettiest out of the lot of these women on the photos beside her and many would agree
@@insomnia695 if you watch face and lms he explains how women get away with flaws that women would find unattractive in males, like the round face, wider set eyes, closer set eyes etc and this can be made appear great looking due to make up, she looks very pretty in that photo so don't see the need for a rating of 4 which is way off, without makeup maybe, but not in that photo
I think subconsciously, unfortunately, most European people would scale Latin American features lower than white ones. The guy on the right also probably would be seen as a 6 or 7 but Latin Americans, but in his eyes he’s not
Wheat Waffles I really hope you read this. I have been a part of the black pill community for five years now. To see the ideas evolve to where they are today really makes me happy. As things stand now I would say that your channel does the best job to accurately depict how dating and man women dynamics currently are. So for that a huge job well done and keep up the good work. However I think there is a flaw or a reality that you haven’t quite grasped yet. For some background I am probably between a 7-8 on the looks scale. This isn’t a rating I’ve given myself. I just know from the amount of tinder matches I have been able to get. 10-20 a day and that’s only swiping on girls who are in good shape and average or above in the face and them literally telling me I’m hot. There’s no way I could be lower then a 7-10 in looks purely due to how unforgiving online dating is. I am going to start a black pill channel in the near future. One thing that I will make sure to highlight is the fact that not all girls are as vain as a lot of black pill content creators believe. If you are a five or below in looks it makes little sense to even worry about finding a looks match partner because it would be like fishing with no bait. Is it possible yes. Is it going to happen most definitely not. However if you are a six and up it is definitely possible to find a girl who will treat you well and be committed and you will want to rip there cloths off. I’ve been in a relationship for almost two years now. I would say that the vast majority of black pillers as well as content creators haven’t been in a relationship with a women for longer then a year. What I’m going to describe to you now is a point I feel like you are missing due to that reason. All women want chad. That is true. However there simply aren’t enough chads to go around. Yes many women would rather share chad then be in a relationship with there looks match. These are most of the girls on tinder and the ones with constant simps. However in reality there are just as many girls 5-6 on the looks scale mostly who are very insecure and just want a man who they think is a 6 or above to have the balls to chase them, comment and treat them how they deserve to be treated. Just a note I don’t like the 1-10 looks scale because it is flawed I’m just using it now for simplicities sake. Most men are average and could use this method to find happiness but they are too caught up in the mindset that if you aren’t chad your either just face rejection after rejection or get into a relationship where they are treated terribly. Yes I’m probably considering a chad or chad light now but I ascended from a 4-5 to 7-8 through the five years I’ve been apart if this community. I would love to discuss some things with you and bounce ideas off each other once I get my channel going. Keep up the outstanding work. Loving the content!
@@WheatWaffles U just got Doxed! Just looking out for you. If anyone tho it just goes to how that you are a trustworthy person and haven’t lied about your face/height etc. The guy who doxed you is clearly coping. It’s evident in how he insults you and your ideology in his video. Don’t let it get you down! Keep in mind that someone who is truly confident in there beliefs won’t never be that hostile to others. Guys a prick to be honest.
@@LawofLookism Nobody said it will be utterly impossible to find a girl but you'll never have the same amount of choices chads have and the same respect they give to chads. That's the whole point. Non chads if they want to get laid have to put so much effort and simping and still the success is not guaranteed. Life's not fair and luck (height and face) beats hard work (gym maxing,hygiene and personality). Good luck with the channel, I will subscribe right away.
1. all girls want security, no girl would ever marry a chad who's going to cheat on her over and over again. 2. you assume that the "security" guy got lucky scoring with a good looking girl but pickup artists can score with beautiful girls over and over again. when the relationship ends they WILL have more options. being a 2 doesn't limit his options, he will score another 7 afterwards. RULE #1 in pickup , don't be needy.
Genuine Desire for a Woman is a Good Looking Blue Pilled Alpha that’s Rich! E.g Brad Pitt, Channing Tatum, Chris Hemsworth. That’s a woman’s ideal man! A high value man that’s good looking, Blue Pilled, alpha, rich with status!
9:00 I rougly agree with all the ratings expect the guy on the very right hand side. He his a 6,5 minimum for me. No idea how you could rate him average. Maybe because he seems Mediterranean? The guy below who you rated a 5 could ascend easily by losing fat. He has a pro social face which makes girls feel comfortable, doesn't look too beta also. The guy who you rated a 7 might be the best option for a younger girl, and the guy who you rated an 8 might be the best option for older women. It is simply really difficult even for looks rating "experts" to ascertain attractiveness in some men. There are indeed men who have something in their faces that aid to their attractiveness outside the realms of typical "chad features" such as hunter eyes, sharp jaw, high clearl visible cheekbones. Interestingly, I think your ratings here for the women are more inaccurate than for the men.
You missed the most common example. She uses the "BF" as a reliable guy, and emotional tampon she can talk to about her feelings until 3 am. meanwhile, she steps out with Chad for a quickie all the time. It's a formula many women enjoy
The just be first is a Big truth bomb. Witnessed it a good amount in high school. I'm 28 and like you mentioned in the video those chances of it happening will lessen today. There are very few dating hacks left today. Either be above average or get left behind
Or maybe, learn some skills and increase your value as a potential mate. Put the work in. UA-cam is full of how to's. Change your own oil and breaks on your car and you can do it for someone else. Grow vegetables, raise chickens, hunt, fish. Maybe join a climbing gym, something for fucks sake. Do something of value that you can share with someone else.
True, I only know a few people (3 couples) who have a 8+ year relation since high school because they were each others first. One dumped his gf after 7 years though. I think he got FOMO. All older guys around him say he made a bad decision because she is one of the few who didn't enter the Chad train. He on the other hand dated some girls with issues after while she has a new bf.
I agree 100%. As a fellow young millenial I have a few normie friends with long term gfs and literally all of them met in high school. The rest of us are sol. My only hope left is to geomax.
There was never a time in history that average men were likely to successfully mate and reproduce. In the tough times of history, most men died of life's hardships before they even had a chance to marry, and babies commonly died in childbirth. Life is so physically easy now that the weak men make it to full adulthood, "working" only 40-50 hours a week in an office or service job (as opposed to picking crops, mining, loading ships, etc) earns adequate food and shelter, there is the luxury of leisure time (people in the past worked sunrise to sunset to eke out a bare living), so they have the luxury of bitching that they can't all get sex with the hottest girls who resemble the IG models and porn models they see on their computer and smart phone in their voluminous free time. The human race collectively innovated and labored to make life easier so that weak people could live to bitch about the things they don't have. Sad.
To be honest, I'm like 4/10 in my bad days and 5/10 when I actually care about how do I look. Does it bother me? Not really. I just don't care. I've managed to claim my place in society and I'm not being used by any woman or man. Partner relationships are not everything you should care about. Eventually you will be able to find somebody that truly loves you.
Agreed. Some people delude themselves into thinking that look ( and mostly height because, that's something you can't do anything about) instead of changing their attitude or stop putting relationship as the first and only thing they focus their life around. All start by taking care of yourself, having an healthy life, and respect yourself. It's not that hard. Of course if you don't make any efforts whatsoever why should anyone give you attention or put any efforts with you? I don't want to have friends that do nothing, don't have hobbies don't go outside and that I have to cheer up all the times. I think that the vast majority of girls don't want a boyfriend who act like this either. Looks help for sure but if you don't put any efforts and time on yourself, to learn new skills, and don't take care of yourself, don't expect girls and womans to fall at your feets. And guys that put relationship as the first priority in theirs life are actually scary to womans. I'm not a girl but I have 2 adults daughters ( 24-27yo) and that's what they tell me.
@@xminusone1 A handsome man under 5'5 is doomed, no matter what he brings to the table. He can be the smartest, wittiest, and most athletic in the room, but his height will bring him down. How do I know? Because my height has brought me down. There was a time when I was very driven, much more than taller guys. Yet it didn't matter one bit. My intelligence didn't matter. My humour didn't matter. My abs didn't matter. My engineering job didn't matter. I have now decided not to try so hard in life. I earn next to nothing now. And I am extremely bitter. I was doing ALL that, and for what? I have been robbed at birth. I would trade my supreme intelligence for a few inches of extra height. Ugly tall guys have better chances than me, even though I am smarter, and even though I have a better face. Height matters. Our society sucks.
@@tensai6253 Tryhard in life for your own self, not for women its not worth it. Optain a good job, athletic body, good health and intelligence ALWAYS for your own self or to help others & your family, NEVER for random women
In Western society we were raised with words like 'Looks don't matter'. Because of this women who are raised to always fit in and don't attract bad attention will always find an excuse to not be with an ugly guy. 'You're not my type', 'you're arrogant', 'I want to stay single for now and that's why I can't have a boyfriend', 'We're too different' ... and whatever. That's why naive, unattractive men stay single forever without ever knowing what's wrong with them even though the answer is very simple.
I am 3 and I was with a 8 girl . She really loved me for the first months. I know because I saw it in messages to her friends. the relationship lasted a year. She was the prettiest girl at my job out of 60 girls.
I’m glad you mentioned N.eil Strauss, the so called former “P.ick Up Artist”. The dating roaches and P U a industry like to use N.eil Strauss as their poster boy to say: “look if this short bald man can attract hot looking w.0men, any man can; if learns game”. When N.eil Strauss was writing his book, “The Game”, he was a former senior writer/journalist for both The New York Times/Rolling Stone magazine, this gave him status, and access to elite social circles the average man simply doesn’t have. N.Eil St.rauss did pick up some w.0men, but I strongly suspect they were up and coming actresses, pop stars etc, who had intimate relations with N.Eill in exchange for a free write up. Remember, for anyone in the entertainment industry, publicity is the oxygen that keeps your career alive, and what better person to give you that publicity, than a senior writer for two very high profile publications. Also N.eil Strauss had money and status, so he beta-buxed his way into that model he was married to.
The anomalies aren't that rare, you see occasionally good looking girls with below average guys with no money/status or anything else, in most cases the girls are mentally deranged, it's possible they were abused in the past, they could be on drugs, or simply crazy, these relationships are also very unstable and filled with drama...
Our philosophy teacher once told us when she's teaching us the philosophy of LOVE she said along the line. "Love starts with atraction and ends with attraction, if you're not attracted to her you won't approach her, if she's not attracted to you she won't let you approach her" That line stuck in my head. BTW, I love this channel so much it open my eyes to reality, back when I was red pilled I really thought I can outwork attraction cuz thats how the redpill community tells me but now I know the truth. And I feel free now knowing that I'm not living in the world of delusion anymore. 😀
Where is an example where woman takes an ugly man from the gutter to give him a warm home to stay in, pay for his bills and support him to flourish in his career as an office administrator?
@@chiozo11 You're talking about Jonathan Irons? If the answer is yes, then you completely missed my point and know nothing about women, hipergamy, and black pill.
Of course. Anyone who have unrealistic standards will struggle. Most of the times, those people don't understand why they're still alone but they expect to find the perfect woman. Then they complain that's because of their look and their height. Never had problems to find myself a girlfriend, getting laid or keep a relationship. But I didn't date on dating app or on social media. Only in real life. I always worked hard to be the better version of myself.
Lol the just be first thing is rare even in previous eras and I started trying way before my mid teens. I’m 24 now and I remember at the beginning of 6th grade when I was only 11 and I tried to talk to this girl and she called me ugly and said she wouldn’t be with me because I was ugly. She only dealt with guys who were above a certain looks level. Mind you this was the 2008-2009 school year when MySpace was still popular.
I be trying to tell people bro looks was always the most important thang even the MySpace era people just forget how it really was back then...yes it’s harder now but I remember it being hard back then too.
@@tonysnow2224 Yeah I think people are exaggerating on how much harder it is now. I think its always been hard. It probably wasn't that hard when we still had more of a culture. I had a huge crush on this young lady and I chased her for like 2 years but she never gave me a chance to be her lil boyfriend. She considered me ugly. Like I said she even told me I was ugly so I knew it was all about looks since I was a kid.
I think status is different than money. You'll never be your money. But you can be your status. For example take Houellebeck. Of course if he wasn't a succesfull author he wouldn't get laid. But contrary to money there's a high percentage chance that the girl she's with actually like his different books. So yeah the saying : "If you try to get with girls with money, the girl will only love you from your money" is true. But the saying : "If you try to get with girl with your status, the girl will only love you for your status" is false. Because you can be your status (it's not always the case of course). And yes there are girls who will be aroused by your status. Of course it must be crazy high if you're sub-5.
I agree, money is what you have, while your status is more intrinsic to you. Will never be as intrinsic as physical attractiveness or your personality though
Robert Crumb is another great example of this who literally made a comic about being repulsive to girls his whole life until he became famous and hotter ones then he would ever dare dream of now let him do the most degenerate acts to them because of his fame. We use the term status, but I think a more precise term is prestige.
The girls are not hot if they had plastic surgery and makeup cause if their with men that are average thats because their real look without plastic surgery and makeup is average!
I agree with nearly everything except point 2 when you used divorce as the explanation why Neil Strauss was not a real counterexample. It is easy to find examples of beautiful couples who have divorced soon after they married. The quote by Neil Strauss about not speaking negatively about the mother of your child when your child is around is fundamental parenting/co-parenting advice to give the child a happy, caring environment where they don't feel like they have to take sides. It doesn't prove anything about the power dynamic during his relationship. Neil has said in interviews that the relationship with his parents was troublesome so it seems he is trying to parent his child the right way. Your stuff is good but please be fair and balanced too.
@@alb12345672 actually molesting his kids would be worse. Worse for him would be getting convicted of it. Getting murdered in jail would be worse for him, probably. There's a few things worse along that continuum, yeah.
In your unconvincing examples section, I think you undervalued the couple on the right. You valued them both at a 5. I say they are both a 6, maybe the guy is a 7. The boy i thought was the better of all the males there, and the girl was the only one without a wrinkly face so there's that. Maybe the picture looked better because they were outside?
There is something called an ethnic tax... All around the world people prefer fairer skinned people. it has become the beauty standard, thats why a darker skin guy who might be better looking is rated lower
@@92WayToTheMoon dont know about that. places like brazil prefer tan/brown skinned. Same as in the west, tanning salons are literally a billion dollar industry
I agree and I don't think WW is as great a judge of faces as he thinks. If you've a strong jaw line you're automatically a chad according to WW but I've seen him have a few ugly chads.
16:26 what's crazy is I don't think that guy is sub5, he's probably even a 6, but she's solidly a 8 or 9 which makes it a true anomaly. There are other factors with these things like he met her at an exactly specifically perfect time when she was most vulnerable, he helped her, he was some source of strength or something. Maybe she had been abused or something by her previous guy. It's also possible they both lived and met in a very small town where she knew she had very few options. Social media makes all relationships look amazing so she could easily be repulsed by him or that they have no romance, but we wouldn't know the truth
Bro you killed it I've seen dozens of such videos in youtube before, but I found you probly the only legit, intelligent, scinetific based and truly right youtuber in such context.. thanks for your analayzes
The perfect example of the just br first theory is this Instagram model named Joyjah. She is from belize and was in " love" with this regular dj from her country. She got a visa to the u.s because of her modeling and she is no longer with her 2nd world boyfriend. She now has access to athletes and rappers
A lot of y’all ignore that women are people just like you and me, with their own interests and desires. The argument seems to treat them like they’re all the same, and they’ll all go for the exact same type of guy. As if “women” is a term for a monolithic entity, some kind of cruel god with a million faces. That doesn’t make a lick of sense. I’ve met women who genuinely aren’t materialistic and wouldn’t go for a dude over his wealth because they don’t care about wealth.
@@arandomzoomer4837 I agree. Purely dating a man over his looks or wealth is going to lead to disaster. When a woman reduces her dating pool to the 20% of men she finds most physically attractive, she prevents herself from accessing many men that would actually be smart, committed, and loving husbands. You actually have to get to know someone before you rule them out. Understanding your own misconceptions and bad choices in dating is the first step towards finding a good husband that will complete your life. Good luck. 👍
i'd say there is one category that doesn't get talked about a lot but is a very strong point a woman takes into consideration when looking for a man and that is charisma and social status. to clarify what i mean about social status, it's not social status as in how well off they are in general compared to everyone else but how popular they are with people around them and the people they meet, these men tend to have large social circles purely based because people want to be friends with them men and women alike. how do i know this? well my cousin is the prime example of this, he's never dated a girl i'd say is below an 8, but he's been extremely popular despite him being around a 5, looks i'd say perhaps a 6 but he's slightly shorter than the average man and quite too short to be considered attractive height wise. so how did they end up with him? did he do them any favors? did he treat them in a special way or really well? did he have resources? is a big name? no not really. he's a very average guy in all aspects but something he did have that not many men couldn't even come close to having is a lot of charisma and the social status of being beloved by all that came to know him, every man and woman kowtowed to his whims and fancy, why that is the case i had no actual clue as to why for the longest time until it dawned on me. he's the contact man, he could do anything and go anywhere that gave him a lot of power that both men and women sought after and that made him extremely attractive i think. for example he knew the dj and the girls and the bartenders and the bouncers and the big wigs and the fun guys at clubs, so he was basically a way to meet and be some kind of mediator between these parties and he was extremely approachable and friendly and nice, not to a fault but just as a default. but yeah i wouldn't say many men can pull off such a feat, for him it's just how he lives his life.
I’m a pretty cute girl , around an 8 I’ve been told by many of the people I’ve asked to honestly rate me ,Dated someone ugly, wasn’t tall, didn’t have a gym body, didn’t have a social status etc, I just really liked his personality but he still fucked me over
You overinflated his ego unfortunately, people who punch above with their partners eventually get greedy if you allow them to get too comfortable. Good looking guys also date down alot themselves. I prefer average to slightly weird looking (but still attractive overall) women who have good bodies, because from my experience, they are much better sexually. My idea of a good body by the way is a Thicc one, I do not like washboard abs and 5% body fat or anything like that. I think it's because they've already accepted where they rank and gave up focusing on it at some point. They also want to do everything they can to keep you and please you, which translates into the bedroom. Alot of them are freaks and understand what sex is really all about. Life is about balance and trade offs at the end of the day.
That happens. It happened to my younger daughter. Now she's more careful about who she start a relationship with. I think she found a good one now, good guy, great lifes values. She took the time to know him well before starting a relationship with him.
Beauty is just one form of status.The others are talent, competence, experience, money & wealth, family, network, intelligence and physical strength. Some are more attractive than others, depending on which social hierarchy you have chosen to play in. Women are attracted to status. As a man, if you do not have beauty as a status, then you can compensate with one of the other 8. Throughout history, the people who have changed the world, have never been good looking. Generals, great military leaders, kinds, politicians, captains of industry, scientists....all ugly. Name me one historical icon who had a lasting impact on society and history, or the world, who was particularly good looking?
religion is big: if you are a "nice guy" who is a genuine, devout Catholic (as a random example), you will have a better chance of landing a decent looking woman (who is also a devout Catholic) than you would with secular, online dating
Yep. As a Christian Conservative, we know that looks aren't that important, values/principles/beliefs are. I would never date a secular liberal woman, no matter how beautiful she is.
@@Ali-fo4uv that's why you're an incel. You judge a book by its cover rather than its contents. Besides, I wasn't sleeping with incel Pakistani boys when that photo was taken I slept with white women, and I still do.
I think East Asian people (both men and women) can evaluate those guys of the unconvincing examples in this video better than many western men who have been raised in the 'macho' dominated culture. As mentioned in this video the actual sexual attractiveness including so called 'feminity' is more eminent in East Asia (you can clearly see it through K Pop.) I think probably those who have been raised in Macho culture have harder time to see the beauty of these guys than those who have grown up in urban metrosexual society.
Is facial attractiveness really that important? I lost a lot of weight and look like a pretty boy now. But with covid we’ve had to wear masks more. Can’t wait to see how people react now!
you forgot about the size-able and growing demographic that just wants to do the opposite of what society likes and go for a guy just because he's different, that and very sheltered girls in the south and cultural pressure
As an ugly guy who managed to get a gf I can tell you my experience. My gf would avoid me like plague and she never did anything sexual with me. At the end she told me "I was only with you cuz all my friends have a boyfriend and I did not want to be the only one alone". I was just a pass time while she was waiting for Chad.
Brutal
Rather have no gf than be some girls pass time
Brooooooootal
so you never had a gf lol
brootal
There's a lot of truth to this. My sister in highschool was the girl everyone wanted to date. She ended up marrying a short, balding man who wasn't very attractive. I asked her onetime what was it about him that made you marry him. She replied I know I'm the best he'll ever get and will never cheat on my. By the way, at the time she was a single mom and her baby daddy was in and out of prison.
In the end she cheated on her husband who was a great father to her children which ended in divorce.
Wowwwww holy shit that’s based af
was her baby daddy a chad?
damn...so she didn't even have the decency to lie and pretend to love her husband
She only married him because she knew he wouldn't cheat but she cheated on him anyway... Makes sense.
She got the genes and now she gets the dollars
You're forgetting when the male bears a strong resemblance to the female's father/uncle/older brother/older male relative. As young children, girls view their fathers and other older, taller male relative authority figures as the ultimate Chads, influencing their conception of what a "real man" is when comparing to all other men. So, if a man is a bit frumpy-looking, BUT, is frumpy-looking in a way that reminds the woman of her frumpy-looking father or one of these other older, taller male relatives, then he has a good shot of genuinely attracting her.
Very interesting, there should be a separate “daddy issues” section lol
Haha yeah. I’m attracted to skinny guys with no muscles - just like my dad.
"influencing their conception" 😂
Legit. My wifes coworker is hot and she likes older frumpy looking guy. Crows feet make her wet, her words. She had older parents and a very stable home. We do tend to gravitate towards those that exhibit traits of our parents.
Sorry some are attracted to the opposite of their parents, like in my case, i rather date a feminine w0men than a masculine, over bearing beach. It depends on how well you are treated & if you are socially aware & reflect on your relationships. Those who fear or respect their opposite gender parent will be attracted to the same characteristics cos of its familiarity. I broke out if it thanks to RP & BP knowledge. I used to date masculine beaches & got beta-whipped but not now. I only date girls who follow my way or she can go to the highway. My current girl loves how i lead & she is so agreeable & willing to go anywhere i go. She used to complain about being questioned by betas for not having her own way, too bad this guys dont know what they are missing out. Already heard stories of how beta-whipped they are now.
My marriage turned into #6. I'm a normie and she was 300+ lbs when we met. She had weight loss surgery and started getting all kinds of attention from Chads. Sex fell off a cliff. Allegedly something like 85% of women that have bariatric surgeries end up divorcing their spouses.
That’s messed up you were with her at her lowest got a little ego boost and now she feels superior no shot
Lol but her skin go back to normal? Her bones readjust from carrying 300 lbs to 150 lbs just overnight? Something just doesn't add up in this story
@@DimitriTheBarbarianPlastic surgery and modern athletic apparel 🤷🏼♂️
Many such cases. Atleast in your case one of the positives that occurred is that you(hopefully) LEARNED some shit, no?
Why would you get with a woman that was 300+ pounds
Number 9 is Social Circle. I live in Germany, in a rather rural era. Although Social media is quite common here, it's not as important as in big cities in the US. I know many cases where a pretty girl has an average bf, just because he is the most attractive guy IN HER SPECIFIC SOCIAL CIRCLE. However, when these women had the chance to date up, they did.
And because of Covid, even the most rural girls installed tinder and now know how easy it is for them to get a good-looking guy.
Where I live being in the "social circle" is very important; If you aren't popular than you'd better have the chad looks otherwise you're screwed.
Most people think u can score cute girls in poor eastern european countries but with Instagram they can network with millionaires now.
wo genau?
@@The11thDimension91 yup, it's not just about getting women. It also determines who wants to be around you, the job you get, etc.. If your a sub5 prepare to be alone. No friends, no girls, etc.
He's 4? I thought I was a 4, holy shit it's over
You make me laugh don't watch these things
I was thinking the exact same thing. 😂
If you look really closely you can see that he is balding, that's what makes him a 4.
The ratings of men are going lower as im typing this
That wa sbasically my internal dialogue after watching the first FaceandLMS video.
I'd like to ADD my female prospective:
#9 She is DEFECIENT
1. She has severe health challenges
i.e epilepsy seizures, bipolar disorder, depression, STDs, physically handicapped
2. ADDICTION
She's a recovering drug addiction
or alcoholic
3. Single mother
4. Divorced
5. Very bad well known past
i.e ex porn star or stripper, Webcam, onlyfans, social media etc.
6. Terrible personality
ie controlling, selfish, mood disorders,
bad attitude,
7. Lack Feminity
She is just a Shell of a beautiful woman, she just looks good. She is too masculine, lacks feminine warmth, energy, grace. And charm
What's a vvoman doing here?
True
As a guy who managed to date a super attractive blond girl in his teems as a fat, poor and long shaggy haired nerd (Watch the video on my channel as proof), I can actually confirm this. She was controlling, selfish and had BPD,. It turns out that being the only guy crazy enough to put up with her was the only thing that made her be with me. {No regrets, it was a very unpleasant experience but the sex was fantastic.}
8. She had a very bad breakup, (been abused, cheated on and lacking of self confidence consequently) so she need a boyfriend that she'll have control on.
9. Codependent. (it can be included in dependency and mental illness but it's more a comportement issue)
@@moonwalker_-ny3um Woman points of view is essential. To fully comprehend an issue you need the other side of the coins.
06:35 is absolutely true. People(in general, not only men) overestimate female beauty and underestimate male beauty. Blackpillers should have already noticed that, it's quite a obvious thing.
Nah. In nature, male animals pretty much always look better. A lion has a mane, whereas a lioness has nothing. A male peacock has better feathers. Male birds sing better. Men are just better in almost every category, whether in strength, looks, or intelligence, yet women demand so much. Ask any kid to rank peacocks. Show a kid a male peacock and a female peacock, and repeat this with a lion and lioness. Men will come out on top. Women are nothing without makeup. Men are natural.
@@tensai6253 Guess the men should start wearing makeup too :)
(As they once did in the past...)
And still do in Italy hahaha
@@tensai6253 facts
Not only that, it's a myth that there's a competition between men for women, in reality there is an abundance of women and any man can get some, while women are constantly competing for men.
It’s much easier for a girl to be attractive as long as she’s not fat and wears abit of makeup she’ll get attention from the majority of men. It’s not as easy for men to maximise their genetic potential however they should. Being lean is quite important
Yes I would say the only behavioural trait that holds a significant amount of weight for male SMV is low BF%, the rest is predominantly genetic makeup with a little status/money
Essentially if you haven’t got abs in normal lighting then your face isn’t lean enough. Having a good body can help only if you atleast have average height and facial features. Keep up the videos though bro definitely enjoying your insights into these topics. You planning on making videos on looksmaxxing
@@bigmac159 Looksmaxxing is a topic I do have in mind actually, along with more facial analysis coming in future
@Ameer Height/Race is genetic makeup buddy
@Jonny Neumonic In part 4 of my "perfect male face" series I'll be talking about balding
People seem to have a very hard time noticing trends when they don't conform with what they want to believe. The blackpill is no exception; even when the blackpill explains 95% of the variance in men's dating outcomes, people will persistently point at that 5% as some evidence that we're wrong.
Yup im tired of these idiots that i domt bother arguing with them anymore.
It's called cope.
The girls are not hot if they had plastic surgery and makeup cause if their with men that are average that's because their real look without plastic surgery and makeup is average!
I think the reason for that is "black pill" implies there's just no hope. But then if you say there's a 5% chance you could get an attractive girl as a sub5 it sorta undermines the whole point that you should give up instead of going to the red pill people and trying your luck.
@@Carekoso We get it, Chad.
The moment I lost my job, my ex-gf bailed out faster than a dodgy curry.
Joke's on her. I now run my own publishing business.
How about you take me indtead? Im ugly af
@@cuddlemuffin.9545 Every WheatWaffle subscriber is beautiful to me.
Could it be? A good relationship starts out in the comments?
@@ifeellikedirt Why not? It's Christmas. I met my gf on Tinder six years ago. Anything's possible.
@@threethrushes do you pay 💰 for tinder? It used to be free now they want to charge
dating down is brutal
you are just a backup plan when chad doesnt work out or isnt around
brutal sloppy seconds pill
I don't think anyone we end up was out first choice either, everyone is a backup plan imo
So what, is the answer to give up, try to get laid from Chad's leftovers with as little investment(financial, obviously looksmaxx as part of it) as possible and don't bother looking for a real mate?
@@ma_junia You a White/Black American or some kind of other Westerner? If so, you don't have to stay where you are if you truly want a LTR mate for kids and all the rest that explicitly "trad" types and cohorts always advocate for.
We all do this, male or female.
@@thelonehiker4698completely disagree and he’s obv referring to specifically when the woman is exiting her prime after chasing chads that have no reason to commit 🤣 then clearly just marrying some random for security. Maybe many people don’t marry their first choice but how did they get there and what they did in the meantime is the question. Nobody wants to marry someone with insane baggage 😂
I think makeup is a big factor as well. You can’t really compare a couple properly if makeup moves the girl up a few points.
If you discount makeup then no women would be a 10
@@MultiBeast301 au contraire: the 10s are the only ones who don't need it.
@@mrknarf4438 Yes, for sure!!
Doesnt matter. Women are wearing makeup at all times that a comparison would matter.
True to an extent
Dating without having blackpilled awareness is like navigating an uncharted land mine blindfolded and with one arm tied before your back!
How is datiing with the blackpill better?
@@remyvb3494 How is it not? You would rather be ignorant?
@@remyvb3494 you know why there are so many 'dating gurus' flooding the youtube? ....because people lack blackpill knwoledge. If they knew what was going on, they'd avoid getting into such situtation or go to these gurus for advice coz they'd already know what was actually going on. Men thinking thier women cheated on them because they were no 'alpha' enough (redpill) or 'caring' enough (bluepill) lol.
@@remyvb3494 a blackpilled person who is into dating would spend his time grooming himselves and looksmaxxing whereas a bluepilled guy would spend time buying gucci products/ jestermaxxing etc
@@iyerism6577 how about red pill
Even as a Chad, I think your videos are very entertaining and they helped me to understand the struggling of dating for most folk.
Another comment that proves the relevancy of Blackpill. Subfives and normies complain here while chads try to understand them😂.
@@yusufberk-bk9nt be a Chad 💪🏻🔥
@@BZgA hell I'm sure I'll try
9) Religion. This is the only case that I have personally witnessed, and is in fact, rarer today than in the past, but highly religiously conservative women dating down in looks happens in environments where other cultural values and the environment allows for it. I've only seen it in church communities and religious college campuses.
Like with all of the examples listed however, the preference would be for men with all positive features. The exceptions aren't exceptions. A gold-digger would prefer Chris Hemsworth's money over Bill Gate's wealth, a post wall beta-chaser would prefer Jake Gyllenhaal simping over michael cera, a bad boy with a heart of gold would be preferable to an actual legit asshole, etc. It's all just settling for the best available man that also has X whatever (wealth, power, security, faith).
I'm a Christian conservative, and since I only would date/marry a Christian conservative woman, and these women would only date Christian conservative men, we will be more lenient with looks because we agree on important values for long term marriage.
@@bryant475 100%
I'm not religious at all, but I did grow up in a very religious atmosphere, and my college was a private Christian college.
The things that I noticed about the women at said college was 1) Faith made a difference in ultimate selection 2) The women still chose based on looks first and faith second.
Every woman on campus was actively seeking a marriage from freshman year, most of them were virgins, and yet, the hottest men on campus would have been identical to the frat boy in a movie.
Values absolutely matter in that environment, but a hot Christian is better than an ugly one.
X2
The communities/cohorts/bioethno-subcultures/strata and other demographic equivalents of such folks across America/the Anglosphere, arguably the broader "1st world" Occident tbh, are the last bastions for explicit Western "traditionalist" types to conserve or even propagate their values, principles, ideological+philosophical underpinnings, legislation, laws, customs, ideal modalities+lifestyles, etc.....in.
Too bad many just LARP online now.
Thats exactly my case and my SMV is much higher in churches
if this dude is 4/10 then I'm 2/10 and its totally over.
Try Photofeeler, you can post your pictures online to get rated by women. It's good because it's anonymous so they can't lie to risk hurting your feelings
@@WheatWaffles i find that photofeeler isn't totally accurate but can be fairly accurate if you take a good picture, i had a lot of pictures that got like 20 votes and it was rated as a 4 or 5 when i know i'm not a 4 or 5, when i took my best one on the other hand, i got rated as 7-7.5, which is fairly accurate
@@Kiyan3100 lmfao you are never a 7/10 hahahah. You look like a normie 5/10.
@@WheatWaffles no
@@looksaresubjectivesogollum6197 ok
P. S. Not all women are as nice as they look either. Personalities are diverse - some are hot nightmares.
It's cool to put up with a hot psycho chick once or twice in your life, but you learn that the mental trauma is just not worth it.
In my experience the ugly chicks are worst cause they r egoistic n have ridiculously high standards .
@@cristianorover5261 Interesting. In my experience, "ugly chicks" seemed apprehensive about being used just for s3x, so they were more cautious/suspicious of a guy's motives.
@@crotchy7667 ,ugly chicks r jealous of beautiful women.ugly on the outside ugly on the inside .
@@cristianorover5261 ugly men are jealous of handsome men aka CHAD. U incels are jealous of chads lol it goes both ways
@@katsu2014 ,u don't even know me n assume that I am an incel.You sure r a weirdo .
Indeed, one of my better friends in high school was a 'pretty boy'.
Shorter than medium tall women but the excellent face with the right touche of femininity.
He was and still is slim and while not muscular, he's in excellent shape. Just like this two other brothers and parents; all have that exact winning gene combination.
He had to literally beat the women off him and not a month went by without 2 to 3 hot girls confessing their love to him and asking him out at school. Every night he went out, girls hit on him hard.
Can you imagine that?! As a man being asked out by multiple girl all the time that actually looks like women and ... even better ... who are among the top girls in school.
The girls were very very thirsty for him; one even offered a pact that if they both were still single at 30 she would still be available as his willing substitute. This specific girl already had it for him since kindergarden and the poor thing always kept desperately trying, everyone in school knew it. All throughout high school, even when he was dating other girls, she kept trying. Even when she had a boyfriend (who was a lot older and didn't go to our school) she still kept at it.
She was a math genius who could solve math that's more difficult than what I had at university in no longer than it took the teacher to put the final part of the problem on the board. Yet this chad was all she wanted.
She never got him, went to do charity around the world and eventually settled for a guy within her range (she was a 3.5/10 physically).
And ... because he had it so SO easy, he loved to toy with these women.
Dumping them in mean ways, forcing and making them simp for him hard, pitching them against each other (girls that were the best of friends would plant knives in each others back to get on his good side), ... .
To add insult to injury genetics even gave him a grow spurt after highschool, resulting in him ending up not short but about average to tall-average.
Not only did he have his looks he had innate talent for math and he too could solve equations like nothing ... but ... because of that he never studied and failed at university in his first year ... but partied like a beast ... he then took it seriously and aced everything thereafter.
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The game is rigged ... as a normal man with apparently a below average face, I can't even get a bloody first date.
I've always been well liked and had lots of superficial friends during my education. Since I always took lead in group work to ensure that I aced it (I always was at the top of my class), people fought to be my partners and fought to be next to me on exams.
My female friends, all fellow classmates at university, often remark: "why are you still single" -_-
I'm this close to telling them: "Well ... why don't you date me? You all seem to be wondering, yet I know not a single one of you would say '"yes" if I asked you out!".
There is one big regret I have in my life ... years to late I realised that a single rather sweet but not so attractive smart girl might have been quite a bit in "true" love with me. However, since I got rejected left, right and centre all the time ... by the time she tried to hint her interest at me, I was so lacking in relational confidence that I was 100% sure no girl would go actively for me that I didn't perceive her efforts for what they probably were.
Years later I saw on facebook that she's now with someone who looks uncannily like me.
So ... not only does deficiency in the looks department harm your chances at succes when asking, it also damages your confidence to such levels that you can't even think someone might chase you for once.
You're also not able to "fool around" at the teenager and twen years ... thus not only are you missing out on having fun while you're in your physical prime, you're also not able to build experience with relationships.
So ... even if you might stumble on a girl with interest, you don't have the tools and knowhow to do things perfectly right in an organic way ... thus you'll probably still blow it with her, while the same you with experience might have found his life companion...
That realisation sucks hard!!!
The gap between the winners and losers just keeps ever expanding throughout life.
Couple it with impossible recruitment standards for entry level jobs ... always demanding many years of specific experience ... and life within society is just a joke.
It's not like in the movies where a high school jock ends up flipping burgers for the rest of his life, while the nerdy kid goes on to be a successful industrial and getting the girl in the end.
Either the nerdy kid ends up in a similar dead end job like the jock and still not getting the girl
or
the nerdy kid succeeds only to have the burger flipping jock fuck his wife behind his back and ending up stuck raising the resulting child ... hopefully blissful unaware that it isn't his only to eventually still end up divorced and going form one gold digger and mental case to another.
Well ... I choose the third option.
Since my biology masters with great distinction and all the options in biotech means toiletpaper in the hiring business and fun rewarding romantic relationships are denied to me, I instead went for a chill full time job that I take care of in half the time and I spend my free time on me, myself and I.
Every hobby and interest I have, I'm planning to do. I only live once and as an only child of middle class parents money is not an issue.
And to think that in the past 'blue pilled me' would have been so so happy to spend his time and money on a woman!
Nowadays I am so busy most of the time that I honestly wouldn't be able to fit a girlfriend in my life.
And whenever I look at what's out there, I don't even find the enthusiasm to even try.
Yet ... it still bugs me ... because in the back of my mind I still dream of having a fun girlfriend with whom to share my passions; a true life companion.
I'm a very romantic, enthusiastic and optimistic person by nature ... and to face that everything you've believed from childhood is a lie ... it's such a cruel joke.
It's why I still feel a need to occasionally go on a rant like here ... .
And ... I've come to terms these past few years with the fact that "the one" is a myth for us normies.
It's a divine pleasure only experienceable by the beautiful people in society.
The only none destructive things we can do is play the numbers game and settle for whatever happens to stick ... or go MGTOW.
And surrounded by my passions I think MGTOW is the better choice than lowering your standards to rock bottom and ending up a cuck.
Here, here.
The very same early years as yours.
Wow, let me tell you something in India and all of the subcontinent, you get a beautiful hot wife arranged for you which won't even cheat on you 89% chance, the only requirement is that you must have a government job, everything else will be arranged for you, but the thing is western influence is catching onto other parts of the world.
@@AxccleratE that's the case with all third world countries (atleast in asia), get a decent government job and you're guaranteed a wife.
I'm below average in terms of looks and I'm as skinny as a twig, I'm only 20 and I've been balding since 2020, it started during my high school finals, i was stressed and i started to skip breakfast and stayed up late so genetics may not be the only reason but there's no way to even know that because my dad's bald. But i'm extremely grateful for being above average in height, I'd probably be immensely depressed if i was short. But my biggest problem ain't even my lack of physical appeal. I lack social skills too as I've always been extremely shy as a kid, i stayed home and played video games most of the time, and now I'm no longer shy but I'm still reclusive. I enjoy being alone, I'm not lonely or anything but being socially inept and being unattractive is a terrible combination. For the reasons i just stated I've made it my priority in life to acquire a respectable and decent paying job so I won't be completely miserable. But realistically in today's economy i don't think i can accomplish even that.
@@phatlewt2932 yooo, same situation except switch around height and looks (I’m 5’8, but maybe a 7/10 in looks). I was very shy growing up, hit puberty late, was excluded most of my childhood and lack the experience of most people my age. Consequently, I became depressed, did poorly in school, didn’t care what happened to me because I’m never gonna have the life I want anyway, etc. I wish I hadn’t, because it’s become a self fulfilling prophecy. The whole thing about “winners stay winning and losers stay losing” is totally true sadly, but I’ve been hitting the gym so that if some stuck up douchebag who’s never faced any real hardship in his life tries to walk all over me, I can at least knock some teeth out.
I see your "5/10 woman" and I see an 9/10 dream queen. I'm feeling pretty lucky knowing my standards for attractiveness aren't high and I can just focus on finding a woman with a good personality.
literally me bro. all these 5/10 and maybe 6/10 girls are my dream. just have them with a good personality then boom
I really like when we take statistics into account. Finally a chane that has proof for all those non-believers
Those are not actual statistics. He made them up
@@jesusofnazareth6254 cope
@@jakesuper6447 he actually have said that his statistics are not real studies but from his perspective
@@jesusofnazareth6254
No it's literally a statistic now stop copeing
@@jesusofnazareth6254
Search up "tinder experiments II: guys, unless you are really hot" in Google and read the medium article now stop copeing
It's funny to me that people will easily say a man is 'punching above their weight' obviously in regards to looks, but then tell you looks don't matter, I don't think you can have it both ways.
I agree.
I agree too.
I am a 3 with a 3 gf. I’m good with it lol. We are very happy together. Sometimes you shouldn’t strive to be something you can never be. Being a 7 or higher isn’t necessary to have success, to be a chad, have a girlfriend and be the dominant male. You can improve, and you should surely try your hardest to be the best possible version of yourself though, and then operate within the limits set by your overall quality. I’ve found my perfect match at such a low rating. So I don’t see why anybody else can’t.
Very based and good comment
This is the key. There's someone for everyone. Long as you're not delusional about where you actually are you can find someone
If I were you, I'd still work on your looks (namely, if you are overweight, and if you dress badly). Even a woman who is 3 will eventually think she deserves a guy better than a 3 these days (no, she won't tell you that), it's in their nature, and trust me, plenty of dudes would hook up for a short term thing, with big promises of "something serious", through Tinder, etc. You sound way too too comfortable, bro. It's not a good long term strategy for life.
@@GUITARTIME2024 You see, me and my girlfriend are comfortable with each other because we are united by the strength of desperation and loneliness. She used to have an abusive mother and lost her dad when she was only 10. I lost mine when I was 17 and my mother wasn’t that present in my life. Her nature is way too humble to be like “yeah I definitely deserve a guy who is more than a 3”. I can see the gratitude in her eyes about the fact that she got somebody who genuinely loves her in life.
I am not overweight and it’s quite the contrary. I regularly go to the gym with a solid training program and follow a moderate caloric surplus diet.
I am however garbage when it comes down to stylistic choices, as I kind of “dress up for survival” instead of dressing up for appeal.
Its true that I am way too comfortable. Life sucks and it can take away from me anything it wants anytime, her included. So I should always be on guard, I get that.
Modern girls have it in their nature to always be looking for someone better and better and better, to satisfy them in terms of economy and public appeal, maybe even sexual purposes. But this girl saw way too much in her life to want more than she currently has. If she turns her back on me, I’m prepared. But I must enjoy this, and if it lasts forever, even better.
I met her through a friend, in real life, so the good old way. That should be good too.
Edit: I also have a fairly sizable property house (thanks to the struggles of my parents) with all of basic services and pleasures at hand and am studying to become a gynecologist. So she has all that she needs, and can’t be left to desire something another man offers, unless we are considering top 1% dudes. Probably I am just being very harsh on my rating. But I guess it’s in the “good dude” nature.
@@TheRealNightShot wait. You have a sizeable property, you're not fat, you work out. and you are studying to become a doctor??? And (with all due respect) you are with a 3 with baggage (in other words, a white knight). Bro, seriously. It would be great if you had a link to a picture of both of you. This is fascinating.
There's a guy on tiktok who's a Chad, he literally does everything he can do and say to not get a positive response on tinder no matter what he says there's always a positive response. Side note he has 10k matches. Says it all Blackpill theory wins. I'm 6'4, make 6 figures and have game my face currently is a 6/10 because my body weight isn't good - I struggle dating even though I can pick up no problem. Facts are facts.
But then if you are a 6 in the face and 6’4 with 6 figures shouldnt you be like a 7/8? So you should be getting women in abundance? Are you not in shape or something? That surely doesn’t add up
@@Mropop
I am 192 cm and 7/10, but in the end I am alone.
If Harry styles was a 4/5 then he wouldn't have a career. He was selected for his looks and then singing was secondary. He can sing a bit so bonus. Have you ever seen an ugly boy band?
If you aren’t talking about bands that require actual talent (playing instruments etc) such as rock and metal bands then no
They're called barbershop quartets.
Right. The music industry is a joke. One direction hardly wrote any of their songs. They’ve used their image to sell records to dumb teen girls
Modern boy bands were/are the Mayo pop version of 80s-90s Black R&B bands. A lot of those dudes in those R&B bands were no Tyrones.
I noticed that too, but I feel it's also the same way with women. Take, for example, saweetie, shes for the most part, attractive, but her music is terrible.
The analysis in this video is excellent.
Two further points I'd like to add. 1) People who say "I know several guys who are very ugly but have a lovely girlfriend" often tend to have tunnel vision. Such people will only take notice of the rare few sub5 men who have a girl but they wont pay attention to the many ugly men they run into everyday who are alone.
2) Ugly guys who managed to get an attractive women almost never manage to repeat that success when they break up. I knew a guy who was about a 4/10( short, pudgy, ethnic, spoke with a lisp, poor social skills, crappy job). He was dating a blonde that was way out of his league. They dated for several years. Last I met him he told me that she had left him and he has not had any date since.
You mean he now thinks he can get a hot girl and won't go for girls lower and that's why he'll forever be single.
Damn so me 😂 dated the most talented girl in my school 8/10 and never had someone to date ever again till now
🤣😂
@mid-day break but you're talking about dating hot girls that are out of your league. Since you're ugly, you should date other ugly girls and everything will work out fine for you.
@mid-day break dude, that's not true. girls don't care about looks that much. i mean unless you're gonna tell me you look like carrot top (hell even he's not bad), you seem like a really intelligent guy. I grew up as a nerd/dork so i know how it's like being alone. until you get out of this mindset, you will not be with a girl. you have to own up to your worth first before you get to the point where you feel that you'd add to someone's life. if you're going to put yourself down like this then you might as well not even say that a girl doesn't want you, you don't want you. i had to fix my life to gain confidence, whatever it is for you to regain your confidence, do that. if it's to lose weight, do that, wear nicer clothes? do that. make it a plan. it takes time. i just cannot imagine how you could not be worth someone's time when you seem to be a decent self reflective person. bring yourself up and do whatever you need to get there.
Another reason for this phenomenon is trauma. A lot of childhood trauma stemming from the template of love as observed by her parents. This leads to her dating a lot of chads that cheat on her/treat her poorly. She develops the logic that the only nice guys she will find are below her looks level at least 2-4 points
“But Trumps fuckin hot tho. A solid 10/10.”
-Donald Trump
why was he talking about ivanka?
Bro you're a genius! I always thought, that I was the only idiot out there who had those opinions on dating and how a 5/10 guy can get a 8+ girl.
In my opinion point 4 is the most important one nowadays. I see SO MANY couples, where both are in their early to mid twenties and where this rule applies. The guy is literally unattractive or at max. average looking and the girl is a stunner. When I asked them, how long they know each other, they always replied this: "We met in school / High school". It's obvious that females had lower standards in school than later in life and that those guys were just lucky to be at the right place at the right time. If they would have met later for the first time and not during school e.g. in their 20's, those guys would have never got the girl. Never. It's a fact but people don't understand this.
Great Video and keep up the good work!
Yes, but there has to be something else. I mean, as soon as she starts to get out to the world (job, collegue, etc), she will meet better options for sure. If she keeps with her high school bf, I think we should give some credit to the guy and, especially, to the girl for being a good quality woman.
that is why i encourage puppy love(not sexual romance) on atleast in high school to an extent because when these women enter college their dating pool rises and your chances(given that u r an avg guy) would dip deeper than the marianas trench. heck even if i show im a straight A student in college now ddnt change the fact that im still unacttractive and i can read their facial expressions like "oh wow u r so intelligent, but still iwont date u tho".
Whatever they will get cheated on anyways haha
@@alejandrop.s.3942
Every time a woman gains a sexual partner, her standards for relationship increase - are harder to please. Women that had less partners, have less standards for relationship. As long as a woman feels secure in that relationship, she will never cheat without alcohol, or leave the guy.
It's because the girls have no self esteem
There are two more exceptions you forgot about. Rebounds and 'using' for jealousy. I saw a beautiful girl with one of the least attractive guys in my college. My Chad future-roommate told me he broke up with her for how crazy she was, and she magically ended up with him right after though she went to a college 2 hours away. I've also been the rebound before, and now see that she and her friends disrespected me in small ways.
Bro same experience here. Brings back all those painful memories. I thought she saw something in me. How naive I used to be.
Yeah they use men as rebounds and revenge against chads with no remorse
@@keylanoslokj1806 Like he gives a crap xD he can get better and younger chicks anyway
thats reason 1b) just without the kids
I notice a lot of women in their 20s-30s dating way below their means, like 4/10 guys with 7/10 girls. The only rational I could come up with is security, they know they own that guy is going to be loyal. I've had girls when I was younger say "You're good looking, you're probably a player, I don't want to get hurt". I really think a lot of girls get burned by Chad, then after heartbreak they intentionally date down.
Add another one: closeted lesbian. In highschool we had an attractive girl date a 4/10 guy (who I always thought looked way too feminine - long hair, feminine face, skinny, short). A few years after breaking up with him she came out as a lesbian. Rare, but happens too. Either they don’t realize it about themselves yet and pick those subconsciously, or it’s “practice” before moving on to the real thing lol
It’s good that you can actually judge men’s faces accordingly I’ve seen many people rate 7’s and 8’s as 6’s very often, great analysis these vids are always high iq
Holy cow this is great analysis
Thank you very much for your support, I'd say the main reason for this is when men rate other men the emphasis is placed on the body, probably due to primitive fighting and survival. Meanwhile when women rate men the emphasis is on face with body being a bonus, as a good face is a better indicator for healthy offspring.
@@WheatWaffles very true then I’m guessing it’s still why “we” give men the advice of “just get big bro” because it’s an added multiplier on top of face, no matter how much or little it’ll affect it will your smv
The eye area is #1...
@@WheatWaffles not high iq , he’s prob a 4 and doesn’t come of as smart just hard working
Imo, the guy with the cowboy hat is actually really good-looking (no homo). Btw, I think you tend to overrate a little bit the girls.
Yes,i actually think that the guy with the hat looks beter than his girlfriend
@@pabloa6855 They're about equal imo and I think the girl is very pretty. Guy on the left though is dating down big time.
It’s bc attractiveness is subjective lol
The girl on the right was def a 4 or 5
Regarding nr 7:
Many Asian women seek Western men mainly for 2 reasons:
Staying in Western countries and thus upgrading their own social status or it is as you said a fetishization of race.
One could also apply this example to East European women.
Yup
Yup.
Sinosphere womynz and post-Soviet bloc womynz are among the worst of the independent developing markets actually open and available to "normie" types and cohorts of Western men. Chinese women from the urban zones who go expat between 20 yrs old and middle aged are generally imposing and now very aligned with the CCP.
East Europe is the EU. They don't need Western men as much as years ago, but Ukraine does.
Facts
That's very true but don't flatter yourselves white boys . These woman aren't so different from your gold diggers they are only in it for the status as the guy commented said ,
1/1,000,000 Anomaly is the entertainer. He's not attractive but her life will never be boring. He has to compensate by constantly planning activities or trips. He also has to be funny all the time. Look at her social media and she will always be doing something.
and then in the end of the day those entertainer depressed and taking his own life, especially comedians, idk why comedians are prone to depression and suicidality
@@Peanuts76 the guy above just explained your question
Another reason is: it's fake. And it's not even rare. Most infield videos of PUA coaches are fake and probably almost all of the women they have their picture taken with are bought. Or you see a picture of two buddies and someone else sells it to us as a couple. Or it's just plain lies: remember paraplegic Josh, who supposedly (according to Red Pill) dated three prime women at the same time. It feels like 80% of all Blue Pill men and 99% of all Red Pill men misrepresent their success with women.
10:21 this is what makes me believe that masculinity isnt very relevant to attraction. I think the whole "be alpha" is such a joke to me.
If a woman wanted masculinity she wouldn't cheat with a chad until he beats up her husband/boyfriend. 70% or so of men would've been in hospitals at any point in time.
Masculinity is in your looks. You don’t need any masculine behaviors if you look tall, masculine and attractive. Personality is just a meme because people judge people based on looks.
@@weight3820 lol! dude no! women are far and a way less visually stimulated them men. Looks matter way more to us because we've evolved that way. Women on the other hand value resources, provision, and status far more than looks. Looks help, but it isn't at all the main metric.
@@dwade0486 for sexual attraction no. For emotional attraction and long term relationship yes. Just watch Face and LMS videos and you will see how visual women are.
the fact that many women nowadays are on conctraceptives make them desire men with more feminine features. A good mix of masculinity and femininity as to the face is preferable. You really have to have both in a good symbiosis to do good with most females. I have a overly masculine face (sharp broad jaw, thick eyebrows etc). and surprisingly growing my hair long to compensate for that helped me to get more female attention.
Damn dude, you have done your research. Im 32 and most of what you are saying were things i would observe as a teenager. Great video!
Guys some black pill stuff is valid but it is mostly an unhealthy way to cope. If you have money and you are a happy person you'll find someone, that's for sure.
Most times when an 8 girl is dating a 4/5/6 guy, she usually treats him like sh1t. Yea they maybe in a relationship but she treats him like a beta, not an Alpha. She is only in it cos of the lifestyle you provide, she doesnt really desire you. It doesnt feel like a real relationship. Ive seen this too many times. He has to give alot just to be with her (Spend on dates, endure her bull crap, give her emotional Support, follow her lead, surprise her, many more) ive been in one personally & realized i rather date down to be treated like a king than go with the beautiful ones. You cant fight Hypergamy. Even compensating with money/status, its not enough. Would i use game to get a one nighter or a short fling with an 8, hell yeah but to keep them long term? I rather return them to the streets.
The girls are not hot if they had plastic surgery and makeup cause if their with men that are average thats because their real look without plastic surgery and makeup is average!
Yes happened to me. Just not worth it.
You can fight hypergamy by being a man, and not a simp. You can't fight if you forgot what fighting is, or how to.
@@odyseebetterthanyoutubeglo1767 lol you fight hypergamy for only one night stands or short flings bro. Im not a private, im a general. I dont fight battles, i fight wars. U fight one battle too many, u lose the war. Thats the difference between me & u. If ure using game for a one night stand, a short fling, a notch count or for the experience of dating an 8, i applaud u but if ure using game to keep an 8 long term when ure just a 6, i pity u. You'll end up a beta or losing her. Im focusing on building legacy, no more short flings. Its too tiresome. Ive had enough notches.
@@hadiakmal9281
You are so cool bro, teach me your ways. The most important thing is for men to not be betabuxx and stop caring about the world. Incels have nothing to lose. and yet they would betabuxx if given a chance.
I am not ugly by any standards but I’m here because you you do speak the truth.
Although I’ve never known what it is to be ugly, I can see those trends holding up when I’m dealing with 9s and 10s. The red pill philosophy would tell you that if you can’t pull that caliber of women, it is because you put them on a pedestal and you don’t treat them like you’d treat inferior women, therefore they pick up on you pedestalizing them and treat you like an inferior person. However, I have always been suspicious of that. The truth is that those women feel that they can get better men than you because of YOUR LOOKS and that is why you can’t pull them.
I have always thought that if I was ugly I would absolutely not waste my energy with women AT ALL. Compensating with kindness, personality (which isn’t really mine) and other behavioral things is just not worth it.
As human beings we are all after happiness. Not women. Women can give you temporary pleasure. Nobody can make you happy but yourself. So rather than chase skirts I’d say focus on the things that make you happy that don’t depend on women’s validation or admiration.
You are ethnic lol keep coping
@@fernbm8653 It depends on where you live.
@@fernbm8653 bruh
ethniccel cope
dude from your photo you are sub five, 4/10 at most. I don't understand why are you lying to yourself
It's become so normal for me to be rejected by women/girls all the time since middle school that now in my fifties, I suffer major panic attacks and become very aggressively defensive whenever any women shows interest in me. I will not allow any women to come close to me at all. Sadly, this is what I've become and its too bad for the honest woman who wanted to be with me. I just can't do it............
I don't understand how it's real love when the woman loves you mainly because of your looks?
The woman loves her husband for money/status as another woman loves her husband for how he looks. If both of them lose them then the woman won't love him?
defonein yeah but that's not what he's saying. According to hypergamy, women will look for the 20%. Surely the other 80% do have a basic level of looks, but it doesn't matter, is it? It's lust not love, a real love is when you accept imperfections in one another.
The concept of love is very different for men and woman. You're asking if women are able to love men in the same way that men love women and the answer is no. The closest thing to a man's concept of love that a woman will feel will be towards her child if she is a good mother. They aren't capable of love in the sense that you are thinking of because that concept of love is strictly a male thing. That's just the way it is. Same as how to a lion, family means eating most of your male cubs so that they don't grow up to kill you whereas to humans family is obviously something completely different
@@sleeper9638 True! I love my husband but he will never compare to the love I have for our son.
@@alejandraguzman7709 Yes, and unfortunately yours is the only unconditional, TRUE love that your son will ever get from a woman. Just as your husband got that extent of female love only from his mother (well, I hope he did -- some men didn't even have a loving mom). Now don't get me wrong, I don't doubt that you love your husband as much as a woman is able to "love" a man, yet this comes nowhere near the love a man has for his wife (as long as it's a happy marriage, of course). Most men would literally die for the woman they love. And a great many of them, throughout history, actually did.
@Sleeper and yes a parent will always love their child more,if you become a father you'd probably love your son more than your wife,you'd love your mother more than your wife,that's why a woman is wired to love her child more as she carried her child inside of her,under her heart,a kind mother,will love her.
And let me tell you love isn't always conditional,in a lot of cases it begins with certain conditions ,but with time,the conditions no longer matter and it becomes unconditional and people become ready to sacrifice themselves for their loved ones,I work at a hospital and I see all the time,sisters donating a kidney to her brother,donating blood unconditionally,if you believe that unconditional love has never existed throughout history,I'll give you an idea,clean yourselves and get ready with a mindset that you'll help someone unconditionally selflessly ,it could be helping someone in anyway ,even by smiling at them or by giving company to an old man who is all by himself or maybe donate to charities with your money ,help autistic kids ,or console someone who is going through a hard time,PLEASE do all this without expecting anything in return,do not expect,just do all this for the sake of doing it and step back and realise,that was that not unconditional love??visit an old age home and spent time won't old men and women who have lived their entire lives ,it will give you perspective on life , that there is so much to this world and things are not in black and white ,if you think that way I am sorry for you,but there are always multiple perspectives to every single thing in this world,what you think is right maybe wrong to another,and what you think is wrong,maybe right to another ,try to understand why it is that way.just accpemthtings as they are ,getting a woman is not the only thing in life, and when you have such a black and white approach to things,you won't succeed ,because they are not only infinite shades of grey but other colours as well.insuggest you broaden your horizon.im sorry that you have gone through things in your life which has ,are you like this but with such a mindset you won't go anywhere .and unconditional love,there are so many women where I live who take care of their fathers,mothers and grandparents,there are many women who have stayed with a man despite his financial status .
Well let's say you have a daughter ,what kind of man do you want your daughter to marry ?be that man
Take care
8:13
In most of those pics it's the girls punching above their looks level
Yet I still get sent these so-called "outliers"
@@WheatWaffles i feel like they underate the guy just to prove either point
@@jouskehigaskita8835 I think you're spot on
@@jouskehigaskita8835 Heterosexual men in general may just be genuinely bad at judging male facial beauty from a female perspective.
The girl on the bottom was massively underrated, other three I’d say the guys are better looking.
You rate that girl a 4/10 at 7:50? How ? She's at least a 7, looks are subjective but damn man there's no way she's a 4
Id agree with him though as many other will i imagine.
I think its maybe because she has quite a rounded face and knowing that she might also have some pounds above average - also cake face.
@@insomnia695 you can tell by this photo that she's very skinny, well defined jawline, girls like that will always be rated highly, I just don't see what you're looking at, she probably the prettiest out of the lot of these women on the photos beside her and many would agree
@@insomnia695 if you watch face and lms he explains how women get away with flaws that women would find unattractive in males, like the round face, wider set eyes, closer set eyes etc and this can be made appear great looking due to make up, she looks very pretty in that photo so don't see the need for a rating of 4 which is way off, without makeup maybe, but not in that photo
@Dollar Decade TV not a hope
I think subconsciously, unfortunately, most European people would scale Latin American features lower than white ones.
The guy on the right also probably would be seen as a 6 or 7 but Latin Americans, but in his eyes he’s not
Wheat Waffles I really hope you read this. I have been a part of the black pill community for five years now. To see the ideas evolve to where they are today really makes me happy. As things stand now I would say that your channel does the best job to accurately depict how dating and man women dynamics currently are. So for that a huge job well done and keep up the good work. However I think there is a flaw or a reality that you haven’t quite grasped yet. For some background I am probably between a 7-8 on the looks scale. This isn’t a rating I’ve given myself. I just know from the amount of tinder matches I have been able to get. 10-20 a day and that’s only swiping on girls who are in good shape and average or above in the face and them literally telling me I’m hot. There’s no way I could be lower then a 7-10 in looks purely due to how unforgiving online dating is. I am going to start a black pill channel in the near future. One thing that I will make sure to highlight is the fact that not all girls are as vain as a lot of black pill content creators believe. If you are a five or below in looks it makes little sense to even worry about finding a looks match partner because it would be like fishing with no bait. Is it possible yes. Is it going to happen most definitely not. However if you are a six and up it is definitely possible to find a girl who will treat you well and be committed and you will want to rip there cloths off. I’ve been in a relationship for almost two years now. I would say that the vast majority of black pillers as well as content creators haven’t been in a relationship with a women for longer then a year. What I’m going to describe to you now is a point I feel like you are missing due to that reason. All women want chad. That is true. However there simply aren’t enough chads to go around. Yes many women would rather share chad then be in a relationship with there looks match. These are most of the girls on tinder and the ones with constant simps. However in reality there are just as many girls 5-6 on the looks scale mostly who are very insecure and just want a man who they think is a 6 or above to have the balls to chase them, comment and treat them how they deserve to be treated. Just a note I don’t like the 1-10 looks scale because it is flawed I’m just using it now for simplicities sake. Most men are average and could use this method to find happiness but they are too caught up in the mindset that if you aren’t chad your either just face rejection after rejection or get into a relationship where they are treated terribly. Yes I’m probably considering a chad or chad light now but I ascended from a 4-5 to 7-8 through the five years I’ve been apart if this community. I would love to discuss some things with you and bounce ideas off each other once I get my channel going. Keep up the outstanding work. Loving the content!
Read this. I agree with most points raised, hopefully see your channel in the future and maybe collab if your channel grows
@@WheatWaffles U just got Doxed! Just looking out for you. If anyone tho it just goes to how that you are a trustworthy person and haven’t lied about your face/height etc. The guy who doxed you is clearly coping. It’s evident in how he insults you and your ideology in his video. Don’t let it get you down! Keep in mind that someone who is truly confident in there beliefs won’t never be that hostile to others. Guys a prick to be honest.
And as soon as the insecure 5-6 girl gets male attention and now knows her value she is going to ignore you(If you aren‘t at least a 6-7).
@@LawofLookism Nobody said it will be utterly impossible to find a girl but you'll never have the same amount of choices chads have and the same respect they give to chads. That's the whole point. Non chads if they want to get laid have to put so much effort and simping and still the success is not guaranteed. Life's not fair and luck (height and face) beats hard work (gym maxing,hygiene and personality). Good luck with the channel, I will subscribe right away.
I think when women start hitting the wall their priority changes.
1. all girls want security, no girl would ever marry a chad who's going to cheat on her over and over again.
2. you assume that the "security" guy got lucky scoring with a good looking girl but pickup artists can score with beautiful girls over and over again. when the relationship ends they WILL have more options. being a 2 doesn't limit his options, he will score another 7 afterwards.
RULE #1 in pickup , don't be needy.
Genuine Desire for a Woman is a Good Looking Blue Pilled Alpha that’s Rich! E.g Brad Pitt, Channing Tatum, Chris Hemsworth. That’s a woman’s ideal man! A high value man that’s good looking, Blue Pilled, alpha, rich with status!
Hypergamy 101! LOL Young professional athletes are their prime targets.
Blue pill is a synonym to naiveness or something like that?
Yes but certain days of the month she wants to go full dark triad badboi. And not just handsome blue pillers.
9:00 I rougly agree with all the ratings expect the guy on the very right hand side. He his a 6,5 minimum for me. No idea how you could rate him average. Maybe because he seems Mediterranean? The guy below who you rated a 5 could ascend easily by losing fat. He has a pro social face which makes girls feel comfortable, doesn't look too beta also. The guy who you rated a 7 might be the best option for a younger girl, and the guy who you rated an 8 might be the best option for older women. It is simply really difficult even for looks rating "experts" to ascertain attractiveness in some men. There are indeed men who have something in their faces that aid to their attractiveness outside the realms of typical "chad features" such as hunter eyes, sharp jaw, high clearl visible cheekbones. Interestingly, I think your ratings here for the women are more inaccurate than for the men.
I agree, the latino boy is clearly better than average, and the cowboy, come on, he's really handsome.
Mediterranean? that one dude clearly looks mestizo from the Americas. No ethnically Mediterranean people have these features
Yes he is very cute
You missed the most common example. She uses the "BF" as a reliable guy, and emotional tampon she can talk to about her feelings until 3 am. meanwhile, she steps out with Chad for a quickie all the time. It's a formula many women enjoy
The unattractive “nice guy” in my experience was actually the exact opposite. The second you build up their ego-they think they are too good for you.
You’re quite generous with your girl ratings
simps rate every woman a 9 or 10.
@@alb12345672 I think his point is, some of those women deserve lower ratings.
@@max_rove like the girl on the right when he mentioned his third reason
Well I'd say Ingrid was an 8 rather than a 7.
I've noticed this too
The just be first is a Big truth bomb. Witnessed it a good amount in high school. I'm 28 and like you mentioned in the video those chances of it happening will lessen today. There are very few dating hacks left today. Either be above average or get left behind
Or maybe, learn some skills and increase your value as a potential mate. Put the work in. UA-cam is full of how to's. Change your own oil and breaks on your car and you can do it for someone else. Grow vegetables, raise chickens, hunt, fish. Maybe join a climbing gym, something for fucks sake. Do something of value that you can share with someone else.
True, I only know a few people (3 couples) who have a 8+ year relation since high school because they were each others first. One dumped his gf after 7 years though. I think he got FOMO. All older guys around him say he made a bad decision because she is one of the few who didn't enter the Chad train. He on the other hand dated some girls with issues after while she has a new bf.
I agree 100%. As a fellow young millenial I have a few normie friends with long term gfs and literally all of them met in high school. The rest of us are sol. My only hope left is to geomax.
There was never a time in history that average men were likely to successfully mate and reproduce. In the tough times of history, most men died of life's hardships before they even had a chance to marry, and babies commonly died in childbirth. Life is so physically easy now that the weak men make it to full adulthood, "working" only 40-50 hours a week in an office or service job (as opposed to picking crops, mining, loading ships, etc) earns adequate food and shelter, there is the luxury of leisure time (people in the past worked sunrise to sunset to eke out a bare living), so they have the luxury of bitching that they can't all get sex with the hottest girls who resemble the IG models and porn models they see on their computer and smart phone in their voluminous free time. The human race collectively innovated and labored to make life easier so that weak people could live to bitch about the things they don't have. Sad.
ur onlu chance is highschool desperation
To be honest, I'm like 4/10 in my bad days and 5/10 when I actually care about how do I look. Does it bother me? Not really. I just don't care. I've managed to claim my place in society and I'm not being used by any woman or man. Partner relationships are not everything you should care about. Eventually you will be able to find somebody that truly loves you.
Agreed. Some people delude themselves into thinking that look ( and mostly height because, that's something you can't do anything about) instead of changing their attitude or stop putting relationship as the first and only thing they focus their life around. All start by taking care of yourself, having an healthy life, and respect yourself. It's not that hard. Of course if you don't make any efforts whatsoever why should anyone give you attention or put any efforts with you? I don't want to have friends that do nothing, don't have hobbies don't go outside and that I have to cheer up all the times. I think that the vast majority of girls don't want a boyfriend who act like this either. Looks help for sure but if you don't put any efforts and time on yourself, to learn new skills, and don't take care of yourself, don't expect girls and womans to fall at your feets. And guys that put relationship as the first priority in theirs life are actually scary to womans. I'm not a girl but I have 2 adults daughters ( 24-27yo) and that's what they tell me.
@@xminusone1 A handsome man under 5'5 is doomed, no matter what he brings to the table. He can be the smartest, wittiest, and most athletic in the room, but his height will bring him down. How do I know? Because my height has brought me down. There was a time when I was very driven, much more than taller guys. Yet it didn't matter one bit. My intelligence didn't matter. My humour didn't matter. My abs didn't matter. My engineering job didn't matter. I have now decided not to try so hard in life. I earn next to nothing now. And I am extremely bitter. I was doing ALL that, and for what? I have been robbed at birth. I would trade my supreme intelligence for a few inches of extra height. Ugly tall guys have better chances than me, even though I am smarter, and even though I have a better face. Height matters. Our society sucks.
@@tensai6253 Tryhard in life for your own self, not for women its not worth it.
Optain a good job, athletic body, good health and intelligence ALWAYS for your own self or to help others & your family, NEVER for random women
In Western society we were raised with words like 'Looks don't matter'.
Because of this women who are raised to always fit in and don't attract bad attention will always find an excuse to not be with an ugly guy.
'You're not my type', 'you're arrogant', 'I want to stay single for now and that's why I can't have a boyfriend', 'We're too different' ... and whatever.
That's why naive, unattractive men stay single forever without ever knowing what's wrong with them even though the answer is very simple.
@@JackoBanon1 How to look good out of sudden then?
I am 3 and I was with a 8 girl . She really loved me for the first months. I know because I saw it in messages to her friends. the relationship lasted a year. She was the prettiest girl at my job out of 60 girls.
I’m glad you mentioned N.eil Strauss, the so called former “P.ick Up Artist”.
The dating roaches and P U a industry like to use N.eil Strauss as their poster boy to say: “look if this short bald man can attract hot looking w.0men, any man can; if learns game”. When N.eil Strauss was writing his book, “The Game”, he was a former senior writer/journalist for both The New York Times/Rolling Stone magazine, this gave him status, and access to elite social circles the average man simply doesn’t have. N.Eil St.rauss did pick up some w.0men, but I strongly suspect they were up and coming actresses, pop stars etc, who had intimate relations with N.Eill in exchange for a free write up. Remember, for anyone in the entertainment industry, publicity is the oxygen that keeps your career alive, and what better person to give you that publicity, than a senior writer for two very high profile publications. Also N.eil Strauss had money and status, so he beta-buxed his way into that model he was married to.
Just got recommended your channel from a guy through Tails comment section. Very impressive work my black pill brother. Subscribed.
The anomalies aren't that rare, you see occasionally good looking girls with below average guys with no money/status or anything else, in most cases the girls are mentally deranged, it's possible they were abused in the past, they could be on drugs, or simply crazy, these relationships are also very unstable and filled with drama...
Our philosophy teacher once told us when she's teaching us the philosophy of LOVE she said along the line. "Love starts with atraction and ends with attraction, if you're not attracted to her you won't approach her, if she's not attracted to you she won't let you approach her"
That line stuck in my head.
BTW, I love this channel so much it open my eyes to reality, back when I was red pilled I really thought I can outwork attraction cuz thats how the redpill community tells me but now I know the truth. And I feel free now knowing that I'm not living in the world of delusion anymore. 😀
Top content mate. Its so much easier to understand the world when you are blackpilled.
Where is an example where woman takes an ugly man from the gutter to give him a warm home to stay in, pay for his bills and support him to flourish in his career as an office administrator?
lmao
Don't try to make sense with blue pillers
Maya Moore. WNBA player
@@chiozo11 You're talking about Jonathan Irons? If the answer is yes, then you completely missed my point and know nothing about women, hipergamy, and black pill.
@@michaljagielo7448 yeah. Thats what I am talking about
You're way too generous at 8:22. the girl on the left is a 4 at best
As a man who has dealt with dating the hot messes, I'm now more attracted to average women who seem to appreciate me. Facts.
But your little dingaling still tingles when you think of your hot psycho ex
Of course. Anyone who have unrealistic standards will struggle. Most of the times, those people don't understand why they're still alone but they expect to find the perfect woman. Then they complain that's because of their look and their height. Never had problems to find myself a girlfriend, getting laid or keep a relationship. But I didn't date on dating app or on social media. Only in real life. I always worked hard to be the better version of myself.
Lol the just be first thing is rare even in previous eras and I started trying way before my mid teens. I’m 24 now and I remember at the beginning of 6th grade when I was only 11 and I tried to talk to this girl and she called me ugly and said she wouldn’t be with me because I was ugly. She only dealt with guys who were above a certain looks level. Mind you this was the 2008-2009 school year when MySpace was still popular.
I be trying to tell people bro looks was always the most important thang even the MySpace era people just forget how it really was back then...yes it’s harder now but I remember it being hard back then too.
@@tonysnow2224 Yeah I think people are exaggerating on how much harder it is now. I think its always been hard. It probably wasn't that hard when we still had more of a culture. I had a huge crush on this young lady and I chased her for like 2 years but she never gave me a chance to be her lil boyfriend. She considered me ugly. Like I said she even told me I was ugly so I knew it was all about looks since I was a kid.
i know a 5“6 indian guy with a beautiful russian girl that is all over him even after 4 years, thanks to him being her first experience
@@yungefendi6480 That’s nice but that could be uncommon though
@@GokuGohan2015 it's common because she's Russian. Russian girls are conservative in comparison to American or Western European women.
I think status is different than money. You'll never be your money. But you can be your status. For example take Houellebeck. Of course if he wasn't a succesfull author he wouldn't get laid. But contrary to money there's a high percentage chance that the girl she's with actually like his different books. So yeah the saying : "If you try to get with girls with money, the girl will only love you from your money" is true. But the saying : "If you try to get with girl with your status, the girl will only love you for your status" is false. Because you can be your status (it's not always the case of course). And yes there are girls who will be aroused by your status. Of course it must be crazy high if you're sub-5.
I agree, money is what you have, while your status is more intrinsic to you. Will never be as intrinsic as physical attractiveness or your personality though
Robert Crumb is another great example of this who literally made a comic about being repulsive to girls his whole life until he became famous and hotter ones then he would ever dare dream of now let him do the most degenerate acts to them because of his fame.
We use the term status, but I think a more precise term is prestige.
The girls are not hot if they had plastic surgery and makeup cause if their with men that are average thats because their real look without plastic surgery and makeup is average!
"Even if he had the will power to go cheat, he wouldn't have the options" 😂😂😂😂 now that's Cold
Never say never.
I agree with nearly everything except point 2 when you used divorce as the explanation why Neil Strauss was not a real counterexample. It is easy to find examples of beautiful couples who have divorced soon after they married.
The quote by Neil Strauss about not speaking negatively about the mother of your child when your child is around is fundamental parenting/co-parenting advice to give the child a happy, caring environment where they don't feel like they have to take sides. It doesn't prove anything about the power dynamic during his relationship.
Neil has said in interviews that the relationship with his parents was troublesome so it seems he is trying to parent his child the right way.
Your stuff is good but please be fair and balanced too.
Brad pitt got accused of molesting his kids :lol:. I don't know what is worse than that.
@@alb12345672 actually molesting his kids would be worse. Worse for him would be getting convicted of it. Getting murdered in jail would be worse for him, probably.
There's a few things worse along that continuum, yeah.
16:29 This guy is not ugly tho
Depends on height
@@vacantile Tom cruise isn’t ugly and he’s 5’6
They are looksmatch without makeup. But women are allowed to cheat their way up SMV.
@@vacantile physique not height
@@davidhealy4534 true
You forgot the mental problem "discounts"
insecure, depressed, daddy issues, loneliness, anxiety, you name it
Lmao
In your unconvincing examples section, I think you undervalued the couple on the right.
You valued them both at a 5.
I say they are both a 6, maybe the guy is a 7.
The boy i thought was the better of all the males there, and the girl was the only one without a wrinkly face so there's that. Maybe the picture looked better because they were outside?
I agree.
There is something called an ethnic tax... All around the world people prefer fairer skinned people. it has become the beauty standard, thats why a darker skin guy who might be better looking is rated lower
@@92WayToTheMoon dont know about that. places like brazil prefer tan/brown skinned. Same as in the west, tanning salons are literally a billion dollar industry
@@Talltyronelite Yeah if you are fair skinned, brown people don't go out to tan bud
I agree and I don't think WW is as great a judge of faces as he thinks. If you've a strong jaw line you're automatically a chad according to WW but I've seen him have a few ugly chads.
I once saw the following question: "If the average size is 5" and I have 7", then who is missing this inches?"
You definitely underrated the guy in the thumbnail. That girl is obviously way better looking than him but he's not a 4
This shit is why working out is one of the things you need to do on a basis, being fat reduces your score a lot
16:26 what's crazy is I don't think that guy is sub5, he's probably even a 6, but she's solidly a 8 or 9 which makes it a true anomaly. There are other factors with these things like he met her at an exactly specifically perfect time when she was most vulnerable, he helped her, he was some source of strength or something. Maybe she had been abused or something by her previous guy. It's also possible they both lived and met in a very small town where she knew she had very few options. Social media makes all relationships look amazing so she could easily be repulsed by him or that they have no romance, but we wouldn't know the truth
I think most guys get the black pill wrong it's not about giving up it's just about being realistic..
And what means realistic?
@@HR-in8yt dating fat women lol
The guy in the thumbnail is way higher than 4/10. He’s easily a solid 6/weak 7 Chadlite.
100, he probably got down voted by dudes cause he was next to that girl
Id say he's a 5
@@youtubeshadowbannedme oh yeah cause we totally take seriously the opinions of dudes with a woman for their profile picture
@@youtubeshadowbannedme he’s an 8
I am a girl and he's a 7 and personality is probably respectful
thank god im a model in this world we are living in
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Bro you killed it
I've seen dozens of such videos in youtube before, but I found you probly the only legit, intelligent, scinetific based and truly right youtuber in such context.. thanks for your analayzes
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World class
The perfect example of the just br first theory is this Instagram model named Joyjah. She is from belize and was in " love" with this regular dj from her country. She got a visa to the u.s because of her modeling and she is no longer with her 2nd world boyfriend. She now has access to athletes and rappers
A lot of y’all ignore that women are people just like you and me, with their own interests and desires. The argument seems to treat them like they’re all the same, and they’ll all go for the exact same type of guy. As if “women” is a term for a monolithic entity, some kind of cruel god with a million faces. That doesn’t make a lick of sense. I’ve met women who genuinely aren’t materialistic and wouldn’t go for a dude over his wealth because they don’t care about wealth.
@Hersey Your mom considers me to be a high value male
@@arandomzoomer4837 I agree. Purely dating a man over his looks or wealth is going to lead to disaster. When a woman reduces her dating pool to the 20% of men she finds most physically attractive, she prevents herself from accessing many men that would actually be smart, committed, and loving husbands.
You actually have to get to know someone before you rule them out. Understanding your own misconceptions and bad choices in dating is the first step towards finding a good husband that will complete your life.
Good luck. 👍
i'd say there is one category that doesn't get talked about a lot but is a very strong point a woman takes into consideration when looking for a man and that is charisma and social status.
to clarify what i mean about social status, it's not social status as in how well off they are in general compared to everyone else but how popular they are with people around them and the people they meet, these men tend to have large social circles purely based because people want to be friends with them men and women alike.
how do i know this? well my cousin is the prime example of this, he's never dated a girl i'd say is below an 8, but he's been extremely popular despite him being around a 5, looks i'd say perhaps a 6 but he's slightly shorter than the average man and quite too short to be considered attractive height wise.
so how did they end up with him? did he do them any favors? did he treat them in a special way or really well? did he have resources? is a big name? no not really.
he's a very average guy in all aspects but something he did have that not many men couldn't even come close to having is a lot of charisma and the social status of being beloved by all that came to know him, every man and woman kowtowed to his whims and fancy, why that is the case i had no actual clue as to why for the longest time until it dawned on me.
he's the contact man, he could do anything and go anywhere that gave him a lot of power that both men and women sought after and that made him extremely attractive i think.
for example he knew the dj and the girls and the bartenders and the bouncers and the big wigs and the fun guys at clubs, so he was basically a way to meet and be some kind of mediator between these parties and he was extremely approachable and friendly and nice, not to a fault but just as a default.
but yeah i wouldn't say many men can pull off such a feat, for him it's just how he lives his life.
It's over for exceptional cels!
This channel is incredible. Your videos explain everything so clearly. Good work.
Being a step dad is like continuing somebody else’s saved game,
I’m a pretty cute girl , around an 8 I’ve been told by many of the people I’ve asked to honestly rate me ,Dated someone ugly, wasn’t tall, didn’t have a gym body, didn’t have a social status etc, I just really liked his personality but he still fucked me over
You overinflated his ego unfortunately, people who punch above with their partners eventually get greedy if you allow them to get too comfortable.
Good looking guys also date down alot themselves. I prefer average to slightly weird looking (but still attractive overall) women who have good bodies, because from my experience, they are much better sexually. My idea of a good body by the way is a Thicc one, I do not like washboard abs and 5% body fat or anything like that.
I think it's because they've already accepted where they rank and gave up focusing on it at some point. They also want to do everything they can to keep you and please you, which translates into the bedroom. Alot of them are freaks and understand what sex is really all about.
Life is about balance and trade offs at the end of the day.
@Σ it did? Have you considered some girls care about personality
@@meekimations3443 So you wouldn't mind a goblin with good personality. I would bet you wouldn't wanna be caught dead with him by your side...
@@92WayToTheMoon no I really don’t give a shit, one rule no fatties that’s it
That happens. It happened to my younger daughter. Now she's more careful about who she start a relationship with. I think she found a good one now, good guy, great lifes values. She took the time to know him well before starting a relationship with him.
Beauty is just one form of status.The others are talent, competence, experience, money & wealth, family, network, intelligence and physical strength. Some are more attractive than others, depending on which social hierarchy you have chosen to play in. Women are attracted to status. As a man, if you do not have beauty as a status, then you can compensate with one of the other 8. Throughout history, the people who have changed the world, have never been good looking. Generals, great military leaders, kinds, politicians, captains of industry, scientists....all ugly. Name me one historical icon who had a lasting impact on society and history, or the world, who was particularly good looking?
if you started early, i can only imagine how big this channel would be.. i love the analytical perspective
she WILL date an ugly guy if he has money
no shit
religion is big: if you are a "nice guy" who is a genuine, devout Catholic (as a random example), you will have a better chance of landing a decent looking woman (who is also a devout Catholic) than you would with secular, online dating
Yep. As a Christian Conservative, we know that looks aren't that important, values/principles/beliefs are. I would never date a secular liberal woman, no matter how beautiful she is.
Ayee the pua coach is a 2/10 like me. I think I look better than him tbh but apparently in the eyes of w0m3n we're both 2/10, so 2/10 it is lol.
The black pill is so hard to swallow for most people around the world.
But I swallowed it
I got it as a suppository.
@@Ergeniz underrated comment. should have at least 100 likes.
And yup, pretty boys always get the girls, I know because I was and still am one. We punch way above our weight.
@@Ali-fo4uv that's why you're an incel. You judge a book by its cover rather than its contents. Besides, I wasn't sleeping with incel Pakistani boys when that photo was taken I slept with white women, and I still do.
I think East Asian people (both men and women) can evaluate those guys of the unconvincing examples in this video better than many western men who have been raised in the 'macho' dominated culture. As mentioned in this video the actual sexual attractiveness including so called 'feminity' is more eminent in East Asia (you can clearly see it through K Pop.) I think probably those who have been raised in Macho culture have harder time to see the beauty of these guys than those who have grown up in urban metrosexual society.
Is facial attractiveness really that important? I lost a lot of weight and look like a pretty boy now. But with covid we’ve had to wear masks more. Can’t wait to see how people react now!
Don't wear masks..the fucking gorvernment is turning you into a sheep
Update pls
I live in Asia and am white. Loving the mogging.
you forgot about the size-able and growing demographic that just wants to do the opposite of what society likes and go for a guy just because he's different, that and very sheltered girls in the south and cultural pressure
Exception #9: The girl turns out to be a Realdoll