1. Awkward conversations 2. Eye contact 3. Staring 4. You daydream about her 5. The atmosphere 6. You both flirt non-stop 7. You both look great together 8. You smile all the time 9. You laugh a lot 10. Your facial expressions 11. The constant teasing 12. You dream about them 13. You gravitate towards them 14. You get closer with touches 15. You have butterflies
I feel like I know when this happens, but I get too scared of rejection that I try to convince myself it’s just me. Yet the feeling and situations keep occurring and coming back. It also sucks when they’re shy as well, because no one ever makes the move.
You have to make sure she is also displaying the same signs before making that move or else you'll be devastated when you get rejected. Learn to read body language. In fact look up videos on body language. It will help immensely.
@@joetroutt7425 man just go up and ask her to play a fun game like the 5 question game or the don't break contact game. If she won't play then move on as she's not going to be a good one. Who cares what people think anyway. Just be a mushroom you know the funguy.
im a little awkward but i make make it seems like everything is okay and i make convos normal sounding. whats funny is when they are even MORE awkward than me. ive had girls try to stall me with an awkward convo, out of breath, and just talking about something dumb lol. for ex. recently i delivered to a girl and she was stalling me trying to not let me go telling me it was the first time she had ordered delivery... really? hard to believe. she also said that why wasnt on a bike. i said its a glitch in the app and that happens sometimes. she laughed and said that she thought was cute..? Being on a bike is cute? and thats funny? i didn't know i was a comedian 🙄 obviously she wasnt my type and she was just stalling me from getting back to work. anyway i was still nice, laughed with her and was professional as possible having to cut her off without looking rude. i got a nice tip in the app afterwards
Going through that now with a coworker. It's killing me that dating anyone at work almost always results in a disaster, so I have to resist my instincts. To make it even harder, she gets very close to me physically when I'm explaining something to her or showing her something at my desk. I'm not sure if she has the same feelings about me, but her comfort being close to me has me so frustrated I'm dying to "test the waters". At times I've wished she would find a job elsewhere so I could pursue her and see where it goes. I'm worried that if she doesn't feel the same tesion as I do that it could make her feel awkward working with me and cause issues on the job.
i just love how everyone else in your comments knew nothing about you or your coworker but are all so sure that she's using you. If you're so attracted to her, why don't you talk to her about it, and why wouldn't you find a job elsewhere?
Daydreaming about someone that you like, is not sexual tension. Sexual tension is mutual, and in that scenario, the person may not feel the same way about you.
I wish this story wasn’t true. Six months ago, I met this man and I immediately felt something for him. I found him very attractive. He reminded me of Ralph Macchio. I also felt like he was feeling the same way as me because I saw him staring. He even got too close to me. At the end, I found out that he was my first cousin once removed. It felt weird.
I’m a girl in a very happy relationship but sometimes I have experienced this with other guys. It’s frustrating when they are people in my day to day life that I can’t really avoid but I learned to not give it more meaning than it really has. I love my boyfriend and I don’t want anybody else but what she describes is simply a biological reaction. No one should confuse this with real love or freak out when they feel this way in a relationship. In my experience it won’t ever last longer than a few weeks.
I've already hypnotize and made a deal with myself not to cheat even when presented insane amount of opportunities... I just laughed it off and tell myself igot gf... i got a ps5 and have to go to the gym too... plus create other source of incomes... I got no time to be creative and hide another relationship. lol!
That’s not what I said at all. As I explained I think it’s normal that this can occur when a relationship isn’t in the honeymoon phase anymore as it is merely a biological reaction. It is your body telling you that you would be sexually compatible with another person than your partner. This doesn’t mean that the love or attraction for the own partner is fading away and it doesn’t mean at all that the person is actively looking out for other people. As she described it is simply a strong feeling that can come out of nowhere with a specific person. I personally experienced this strongly only once and it made me really worried because I wouldn’t want my boyfriend to feel that way about another woman and I thought it was my fault but once the other man wasn’t in my daily life (it was at work so I wasn’t really able to avoid him so it had nothing to do with being respectful) anymore this disappeared completely and I felt relieved that my relationship is still working perfectly fine and that this was just something that had to get “out of the way”. I don’t know about other people but I thought sharing that could help if someone feels guilty for having those feelings with someone else than their partner and maybe questions the whole relationship because of it. It is not worth to damage a healthy relationship because of this and I don’t want people to ascribe more meaning to this feeling than it actually has.
You could. You just need to be creative and change things up. Its easy for long-term relationships to get stale after some time. Change it up. Weekend away to someplace new or do something together you have never done before. You have to keep things fresh or else..
I've never seen a woman display such confidence in explanation. See a woman speak truth and facts without byist there some how. Listing to this Chick talk is one of the most attractive things I've ever seen.
I have been binging on your channel the past week. I am interested in a coworker, and I want to make sure she is interested in me before I do something wrong. We do have long eye contact while we talk, we tend to stand or sit together when in groups. She compliments me, and encourages me, she is encouraging me to come to her work rotation, etc. She has told me she is quiet, so she has not asked me many personal questions, and has not touched me much. She has touched me briefly a few times, and she has started to reach for me, and caught herself a few times. Last week she gave me a high five when I told her some good news. She does lean in close when we talk sitting down, and she stands close, with her feet piinting toward me while we talk standing. We wear masks most of the time, so we cannot see if each other smiles. She does laugh at my jokes, and I laugh at hers. She did briefly mention her daughter, and her daughter's birth month. We have exchanged phone numbers, but only for work purposes, but she did seem enthusiastic when I asked if I could give her my number, and she texted me her number. We have talked a good bit, and we do share common interests. She does not follow me on social media. She has crossed her arms at times.
@@martifrey3357 she is a very kind person to begin with. That is what makes it difficult to tell. She does very well for herself, so she does not need anyone to take care of her.
i would have a communication with my hands with her, to find out (using the under part of the thumb), ...but at a workplace.....??? ...touching is very inappropriate ....yeah, ask her out, i guess i personally would ignore any ronances with a woman at a workplace, same house, same school and so on, its always trouble, if you woud break up in a fight and then still have to see each other therse a reason why to keep privat and workplace seperate, thats one of them. attracion isnt a choise. all the best to you my friend
There's something I felt with a guy and it was kind of weird.. we used to sit on same table in office and I used to feel like my hand has it's own will and if I didn't hold the laptop or table corner, unconsciously my hand will touch his hand 😐
Just because you are in a relationship doesn’t mean you’re dead. You might be in the wrong relationship. Trust me- I was married for 18 years with an abusive husband. Even with 2 kids… all he did was make me feel like crap. Now I don’t want anyone even if they seem nice.
What a lovely presentation - so positive and spot on! I agree with all you mentioned, Joyanima. I subscribed today. Warmest wishes from Northern California :)
If you`re feeling super nervous around someone or sexual tension, they are NOT good for you. Yeah, it feels good for a short period of time but its not going to end pleasantly. You may end up crushing on them which puts you in terrible place emotionally or you will start something with them that will eventually crash and burn fast or hurt other people. The right partner will make you feel completely at peace. There will be no tension, just a mutual feeling of calm and feeling at home with this person. You will both develop into something more serious over time but it`ll feel natural and this is the sort of relationship that is long lasting and deep. Any games are not worth pursuing.
They don't call it being horny for no reason. It's called the demon of lust with in that everyone needs to battle and overcome if ya ever gonna find real love. Lust and love 2 different things. Mixing them brings confusion.
I'm autistic so I do all of that with everyone except people I actually like. If I like someone I act very very cold. Probably explains why people call me a tease 😮
WOW every sign i been feeling from this one girl! At first i payed no attention to it until I looked over and caught her staring and smiling at me. Now i'm nervous and attracted to her too. These signs tell no lie!!!
The sexual tension between me and my neighbor right now is crazy. We’ve been neighbors since 2013. He moved away a while ago then moved back next door after the pandemic after his father passed. He actually use to try to hook up with me a lot from this app when we was teens but I use to play hard to get. Let him flirt with me soon or look at me too long and it’s on.😈
Not particularly helpful or insightful. The "signs" mentioned are more like basic flirting or having a crush. Tension implies a tug of war between two things, and yet many of these points don't require the other person. You can't push on a rope. I can daydream or sexual dream about someone and they might not even know I exist. A girl can touch me on my arm out of a caring friendship and go home and bang her boyfriend without giving it a second thought. Even if not one sided, many of these things are basic flirting - eye glances, smiles, wanting to be close. Sexual tension is when both sides want each other but for some reason it's not happening. So there is a level of frustration with the situation. Hence the "tension". Could lead to teasing, arguing, or play fighting. Can also be the flirting signs mentioned but on steroids. There is a much greater intensity to it. From the outside its like watching them keep running towards each other then bouncing off over and over.
You’re so sweet. The most pleasant video I’ve watched. What part of England are you from? I’m in Essex. Well done 👍 good video. And well researched. I felt so good watching. This.
It doesn't have to be sexual. I liked someone but I liked just being close to her because it felt so natural and right. In some ways it was better than sexual because I liked her as a person not just physically.
I am experiencing it now. He is fixing an escalator in the bldg I work at. We have such strong chemistry I am so anxious I looked at him a few times but now I feel like a clown doing it. He is so gorgeous very beautiful aura I don't think he digs me 100 percent i am 20 pounds over weight... I think it is holding him back. I do not think I am going to ask him out though rejection hurts. I get butterflies and feel faint when I see him. We kinda look good together too. This is so spot on its crazy. 💙💗💙💗💙
What if you feel attracted to someone who is married & with whom you have a professional relationship? This is very awkward, as I would never mess with someone else's wife/girlfriend... I think she's attracted to me, but in what way, I don't know...
I've experienced sexual tension just twice and only recently latter in life. First time was with a long time family friend while sitting with her on the front seat of her car chatting. The second and last time was with my doctors nurse sitting next to me taking notes. The feeling was very pleasant on both occasions. I don't hold out much hope of this ever happening again because for various reasons the same circumstances are not likely to be repeated.
never felt anything remotely connected to those feelings, maybe because when women see how ugly i am and how poor I am they flee without even looking back You always have to give fair warning that these things only work for rich and handsome guys, they never work for anyone else
love that topic, thats the REAL NONVERBAL CONVERSATION thats going on, when the two "inner cores" communicate. a good exercise to that kind of conversation is to imagine youself in a timetravel back to 8'000 years, and you see the woman of your dreams. how would you communicate and get to know her without undersanding each other? i used to be very good in physics, and those formulas about tension are very well appliable with tension with wemen. i used to always imaging a rubberband between two point fingers.
So this beautiful girl and I walked into this restaurant from opposite doors and walked to the register area and when we got like 10 ft apart from each other we just looked at each other for like 20 seconds then We went around each other. 💕
Cool story, but this video is about someone you see on a regular basis or at least semi-frequently. There needs to be multiple times so you can read the signs (and hopefully ask her out eventually)
@@flaminghead1va there's this girl at work that I make eye contact with constantly when she's going upstairs she looks at my direction. There are times when she looks down when i turn to look at her but other times she looks back up and we make eye contact for a few seconds. I heard she's married so I have never tried to start a conversation with her, she only talks to me when its work related stuff. Though this has been going on for 8 months now lol
I still cant find any explanation for my situation..but i wasn’t attracted at all to him he was to me so he moved to the seat behind me. i felt hot in the face looked back n he was staring at me n continued to stare days after untill I finally found him attractive as well to the point where i could feel right before he entered the room . Extremely intense weird situation chemistry idk never felt it
@@D_Jilla no I didn’t even notice him for the first days of class hes not bad looking at all as a matter of fact had all the girls drooling but he wasnt my type .. n i noticed i started to be attracted to him because i started to see him like the finest thing ever hes all i looked for in the room from then on.
Nope. I sensed some of those signs recently with a crush, but when I asked her out she said she had recently broke up with her boyfriend and she felt it was too soon to start dating again. However, after I started paying less attention to her, she started getting a little closer and whenever we talked after I asked her out, we would talk, look at us in the eyes, and then keep staring at each other for over 30-40 seconds...and a few days ago I was showing her something, and her best friend literally started pinching her cleavage right in front of me (until my crush punched her). As for touching, she is always using the "i dont like to be touched" excuse, and after that she hugs other ppl nearby and so on.
@@octavioaraujo1674 Yeah. She wasn't into me. She has been going out with someone I knew (lesbian) and played me from the start. I know of it because her current gf sent me pictures of them cuddling/going out/dating, right after this girl said she didn't want to date/go out. I thought she was flirting,etc, but she was playing with my feelings (the 2 of them played with my feelings).
some girls just like confidence points. they flirt with guys to get their confidence up (sometimes after breakups) without actually like the person. dont fall for that trap boys. girls can fake alot of the body language signs. what they can't fake is pupil dilation. and thats how you really know. if her pupils look big compared to the rest of her eyes. that means she actually likes you. anyone can have a stare contest with you and smile at you and fake it. pupil dilation can't be faked!
I actively try to avoid women, so the information here is useful. I just do the opposite of what she says, and I’m left to my own devices. It’s made life pretty peaceful for me.
I got u man! Even if I do not avoid, I do not play the dirty game they put in place after been broken by a long list of partners. And nowadays as it is seen everywhere even marriage will not guarantee you less stress in life and it is a bit funny that a boy fight for less stress and stability and as soon as he dominates his fears (or not) he runs to marry the stress of a girl (and all the family with). For the social status? I do not know but what does girls bring to the table except using their body (mostly the down part) to control men! And wenn it doesn't work some become murderer, sadist or influencers. I understand your point and will not judge u to enjoy from time to time! Mostly avoid married women out there (only a recommandation) even if it seems like the man is open for what ever they think is good for their sexual life. It might not be good for you! Peace
I've experienced this twice in life. Once during my Junior and Senior years of high school, except for the dreaming about her part. Neither of us did anything about it at the time, due to her father being very authoritarian and his not being a fan of me. We did find one another after years apart on Facebook two years ago. We're back in touch with one another and still have that strong personal connection. We were finally able to admit to one another that yes, we both had "a thing" for one another back then. We still chat on FB to this day. It's been great re establishing that connection.
Just as a Yank from America, I remember in a Pub there hearing a brusque " RIGHT, Here, here love, snap, snap let's go home now!' She just went with it and went with this guy, with very little protest. Bad boy is everywhere I suppose. But then they wonder where the good men are. Something's got to give. It's a lousy situation for relatioinships where both aren't able to work as lovers AND partners for a stable family environment. What if one gets sick or really disabled? Will the other one step up, or like Cowards say "Bye, catch you later!'
Me: literally never moves beyond the first 3 signs with any woman (awkward conversation, fleeting eye contact and staring). Also me: realizes too late that she's not even vaguely interested and I'm making her uncomfortable. Are there videos to teach me how to be someone other than myself?
You have to put yourself out there and risk rejection. Not everyone you talk to is going to be your potential partner, but you won't be able to read the signs she gives when there is that girl that finds you attractive if you don't have that experience to discern different behaviors. If you don't have the experience you won't be able to read those signs let alone act upon them!
Had everything but she broke my heart...!! 😂😂😂 And then I met someone who loved me..!! And from then on it is happily ever after. Now I feel sexual tension with my wife only everywhere I go..😅
Don't be like that! I prefer shy girls and often they end up telling me tha--well first that I came off as arrogant at first but they always assume I was irritated with them or didn't think much of them....when I see a girl that avoided me or was shy around me do even something tiny that took confidence to do and I like her I instantly make her comfortable with me! So go ask him a question and do something like put your hand on his arm to break the touch barrier just briefly.
@@nateo200 Well, he do appear very condescending and watches me like a hawk so I automatically assumed he's waiting for me to do something wrong to make fun of me behind my back with his friends or something plus, he's very quiet when I'm around.
Below avg lookin guys… (decent lookin guys usually don’t care to drink a few & start girl Hoppin) just jump in get rejected 90 times and the 10 times you don’t out of 100 will give you confidence & the best feeling’s you’ve had! I’ve seen more than I can think of guys dating way out there league because women love not having to worry ab impressing their guy or others girls wanting them, sounds bad but get in where you fit in! All love here! Hopefully this helps someone.
Isnt sexual tension a two way thing? Cuz most of these are "YOU do this or that, means you both have sexual tension" like where did 'both' come from? just cuz i do them, doesnt mean the other person does.
This one is a bit long-winded, so please bear with me... as I need some help with this one. I've recently began working at a new job and there is a very cute young woman whom I work with or around pretty much on a daily basis. While we are both "friendly" and polite to each other in a professional & cordial sense... there seems to be a fairly awkward (mutual-attraction / mutual-interest / sexual??) tension when the two off us are ever within proximity to each other. It seems like we both are (fairly regularly) sneaking peaks at each other and we both avert our eyes or glance away quickly when we catch the other doing so. There are also some of the more traditional (albeit, subtle) attraction clues that she gives off... such as slowly stroking & preening her hair, her feet pointing towards me or my direction, one or both of her hand resting on her hip, giggles at my light-hearted & humorous comments, ect. Or, said another way... she has yet to display the more "negative" signals... such standing away, quite, with her head down or her arms & hands crossed when she is near me. but when I say "tension"... in other words, there seems to be an awkward (and almost uncomfortable) "tension in the air" almost always when the two of us are together and it feels like neither of us knows exactly what to say to each other when we are in proximity to each other. Yes, we do technically "talk" to each other... but, so far, strictly for professional work-related reasons only... but... when she does talk to me... she tends to walk up to or stand near me and looks directly in my face / eyes when she does speak to me... and even stands directly in front of me in plain sight as she is talking to another employee (besides myself) Now, it should also be noted... that she hasn't made any blatantly-obvious or other proactive actions towards me... such as breaking the touch barrier, ect. (ie, she has been very professional on her part). That said... she doesn't exactly go out of her way to avoid me, either. and that same goes for me as well (after all, I like what I see). For my part... whenever I'm In fairly awkward or tense situations such as this one (especially with a female co-worker or with any woman for that matter) I always try my best to never reach for or to assume anything.... however, I think it is fairly safe to assume that not too many women would either act or behave like this with a man that they were either not attracted to and/or were uncomfortable being near or with. In summary... she, at the very least... appears to be curious and interested in me (maybe even attracted). On my end... I have made it a point to remain friendly, relaxed, light-hearted, helpful & approachable. In short... I've made it a point to "play it cool" BUT also very professional... largely because the LAST THING I want is any kind of unfounded harassment allegations especially since she is in more of a "formal / superior" position (though she is not my boss or direct supervisor). So my question is... how should I tread and move forward from here... if at all?? -Signed "Awkward at the Job-sight with a Pretty Co-worker".
Easy. In conversation say something that assumes she has a boyfriend and if she doesn't, she'll correct you. Unless you're giving off signs you're interested and she isn't. Then she'll probably let you assume she has a boyfriend. Either way you'll have your answer as to whether you should pursue her further or not.
Fr! I have a situation like that with a girl in the gym 😂 when her man is not looking I always catch her looking at me and sometimes she’ll even do that booty pant adjusting thing where girls fix their pants so she can show me it lmao I thought it was nothing at first but it’s been way too many times she’s done it now
@@joesingh1015 lmao I know! I do, I look when she’s not noticing 😂 she honestly does it more when I don’t pay attention at all If I ever see they break up ima hit that shit though LOL Her man has caught her too, I know because he tries to do certain exercises I do to try to show me up but since he never does them his form is sloppy as hell
I need to learn how to lower my sex drive. I haven’t been sexually active in years and I’m sick and tired of “being in that mood” completely. I wish I could destroy the sexual tension I feel stuck with on a daily basis 🤦🏻
Why do most of your points reference what the viewer is doing. I definitely don't need to read my own body language to tell me I have sexual tension. My brain tells me long before my body reacts
I still like your show like your advice thow I still think I'll never have anyone in my life so I just try to be nice to everyone and try to enjoy my life
We just had almost all these signs happening, but we don't see each other since december. I think we'll meet yet in march and I'm afraid she lost her interest... She ignored me sometimes and then I ignored her and I think it was "playing hard to get". Pray for me pls
Conversations about "what if" you could move in closer to her town : check. Speaking of mutual desire to have children : check. Joking about "when we will be old, and have grandchildren" : check. Her : touching my hands while walking or under the table, and leting me touch and caress her in return : check. Her girlfriend besty, at the other side of the table : "What kind of dope did you took, girl ? Your eyes are all shinning." ;) Compliments about our physic and character : check. Speaking honestly about our mutual insecurities and fears : check. Hugs : check. Kisses on the cheeks : check. Me, kissing her on the forehead : check. Her, overwatching when I was talking with female workmates : check. Me, wanting to be with her, care and listen to her all the time : check. Her, always supportive, upset when I talk bad about myself : check. Me : doing chores and stuff, and asking her is she slept well, looking for her back, and arms pain : check. Her : cooking dishes for me, offering me gifts, asking me to write something for her, and asking me if she can keep the writings and drawings I did : check. Me : getting up early so I can help her at work and do the physical stuff with her, so she will have more time and less pain at the end of the day... and for the pure pleasure to spend time with her : check. Me : getting lost on a hicking path, taking 3 or 4 hours to find my way down to the mountain all alone, using the sun and visual landmarks I saw the day before. All the time, thinking about her, not wanting to make her anxious or sad. Her : waiting for me at the feet of the mountain, alone, for two or three hours, while the others came back home to seek help. Huging me, breathing more easily now, kissing me, feeling liberated, and holding me against her heart. Her : coming to my room to check if I am ok, proposing to rub my legs, arms and feet with oils because I had injuries down there, and insisting to do it herself : check. In the end of vacations, both of us, crying but denying there was more than something beetwen us : check. ^^
@@avril4259 she told me she was writing a letter to me, and she proposed to come in my area in a few weeks to spend time with me, so we will discuss what happened and maybe declare ourselves and decide what we do now.
My MBA batchmate taught me a painful lesson for teasing her. I always used to pull her hair. Once i pulled her hair hard as i always used to. She never used to get angry but that day got wild at me. Unfortunately for me that day she was having a long fat umbrella with a long n sharp tip at the end. She started chasing me wildly. I tried to escape but i slipped a bit and had to stop running to regain my balance. She caught me and gave me one hard whack on my bum with her umbrella. The sharp edge of the umbrella pierced my bum royally. I couldnt sit for two days. Kept rubbing my bum till i reached home. After that day i don't think i teased girls and women
I've read about flirting but I don't understand the dynamic. When would you do it. I know someone on messenger. We are good friends. Do I start saying sex stuff?
Hi. Would really like to join . The sum is very nominal but I live in Iran and can't transfer money. Specially at these negligible amounts. But I subscribed your channel and will follow up your videos regularly 🌹
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Having a crush, is the best and worst thing ever.
god i'm going through this rn😔
TRUE LOL
Truth
👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
True, best thing is that I see him every time and bad thing is he is my dad
1. Awkward conversations
2. Eye contact
3. Staring
4. You daydream about her
5. The atmosphere
6. You both flirt non-stop
7. You both look great together
8. You smile all the time
9. You laugh a lot
10. Your facial expressions
11. The constant teasing
12. You dream about them
13. You gravitate towards them
14. You get closer with touches
15. You have butterflies
I love this so much
Yay! No 🦋 butterflies this time.😆
Fucn yeah jeff
So what is it called when you both make each other laugh and have a good loving friendship with each other than turns into sexual intimacy?
@@ericyoutube77 escalation
I feel like I know when this happens, but I get too scared of rejection that I try to convince myself it’s just me. Yet the feeling and situations keep occurring and coming back. It also sucks when they’re shy as well, because no one ever makes the move.
Use your anxiety to make a move asking a simple to the point question, you'll feel better in the long term regardless of the outcome.
You have to make sure she is also displaying the same signs before making that move or else you'll be devastated when you get rejected. Learn to read body language. In fact look up videos on body language. It will help immensely.
Help I’m literally in a situation like this. Literally!!! Idk what do you
Try having that every time your kid's therapist comes over 💀
@@joetroutt7425 man just go up and ask her to play a fun game like the 5 question game or the don't break contact game. If she won't play then move on as she's not going to be a good one. Who cares what people think anyway. Just be a mushroom you know the funguy.
“awkward conversations” or I am just a super socially awkward human being no matter the gender I am dealing with. Lol
Lol bro you should see me in action I make stuff down right ucomfortable. But then the weekend comes everyone asking if I'm stopping by.
Me too. Lol
im a little awkward but i make make it seems like everything is okay and i make convos normal sounding. whats funny is when they are even MORE awkward than me. ive had girls try to stall me with an awkward convo, out of breath, and just talking about something dumb lol. for ex. recently i delivered to a girl and she was stalling me trying to not let me go telling me it was the first time she had ordered delivery... really? hard to believe. she also said that why wasnt on a bike. i said its a glitch in the app and that happens sometimes. she laughed and said that she thought was cute..? Being on a bike is cute? and thats funny? i didn't know i was a comedian 🙄 obviously she wasnt my type and she was just stalling me from getting back to work. anyway i was still nice, laughed with her and was professional as possible having to cut her off without looking rude. i got a nice tip in the app afterwards
Doesn't matter. Go for it anyway. worst case scenario... things are awkward. Go for it.
Anyone else get a crush and think about them all the time then forget what they used to think about all the time before the crush?
Yeah, all the time
I wrote this comment a year ago and still have the same crush 💀
Going through that now with a coworker. It's killing me that dating anyone at work almost always results in a disaster, so I have to resist my instincts. To make it even harder, she gets very close to me physically when I'm explaining something to her or showing her something at my desk. I'm not sure if she has the same feelings about me, but her comfort being close to me has me so frustrated I'm dying to "test the waters". At times I've wished she would find a job elsewhere so I could pursue her and see where it goes. I'm worried that if she doesn't feel the same tesion as I do that it could make her feel awkward working with me and cause issues on the job.
yeah no don't risk it w a co-worker its not worth it in the long run
@Chris Turnbull As a woman I agree. She could be tied to another male who ignores her outside of work so she uses a work male to get her supply
i just love how everyone else in your comments knew nothing about you or your coworker but are all so sure that she's using you. If you're so attracted to her, why don't you talk to her about it, and why wouldn't you find a job elsewhere?
Don’t shit where you eat, bro
@@Kambrius70 unless you work at a shitty restaraunt
Don’t mistake love for lust
This! 🙌🏻
This! 🙌🏻
no love without lust
I think you meant
"don't mistake Lust for Love," 🤔, but yeah 😁
@@flaminghead1vastrangely it can actually go both ways depending how you look at it
Daydreaming about someone that you like, is not sexual tension. Sexual tension is mutual, and in that scenario, the person may not feel the same way about you.
I wish this story wasn’t true.
Six months ago, I met this man and I immediately felt something for him. I found him very attractive. He reminded me of Ralph Macchio. I also felt like he was feeling the same way as me because I saw him staring. He even got too close to me.
At the end, I found out that he was my first cousin once removed. It felt weird.
🤣 what a loser
😳
@@Valentino_xX it makes me cringe too but I’m glad I found out he was my cousin.
It’s all good as long he’s not your brother
@@user-mj8zf4qq7u nope 🤦🏽♀️
Hurts like hell when you're partner is doing this to someone else while you're in a friend situation and you feel invisible 🥴
That’s a big red flag. Get away from that disrespectful person
Hol up?? Partner??
Uh maybe that might not be a partner for very long if that continued happening to me.
how is that a partner if you’re in a friend relationship
I hate this kind of thing. I’ve never understood it.
Been there too many times I hate the friend zone it’s where I live ☹️
I really like how this girl talks, eloquent, fun and has facial expressions :)
I’m a girl in a very happy relationship but sometimes I have experienced this with other guys. It’s frustrating when they are people in my day to day life that I can’t really avoid but I learned to not give it more meaning than it really has. I love my boyfriend and I don’t want anybody else but what she describes is simply a biological reaction. No one should confuse this with real love or freak out when they feel this way in a relationship. In my experience it won’t ever last longer than a few weeks.
Same boat
Same boat
This is wrong. You shouldn’t be staring etc when you’re in a relationship. Be respectful
I've already hypnotize and made a deal with myself not to cheat even when presented insane amount of opportunities... I just laughed it off and tell myself igot gf... i got a ps5 and have to go to the gym too... plus create other source of incomes... I got no time to be creative and hide another relationship. lol!
That’s not what I said at all. As I explained I think it’s normal that this can occur when a relationship isn’t in the honeymoon phase anymore as it is merely a biological reaction. It is your body telling you that you would be sexually compatible with another person than your partner. This doesn’t mean that the love or attraction for the own partner is fading away and it doesn’t mean at all that the person is actively looking out for other people. As she described it is simply a strong feeling that can come out of nowhere with a specific person. I personally experienced this strongly only once and it made me really worried because I wouldn’t want my boyfriend to feel that way about another woman and I thought it was my fault but once the other man wasn’t in my daily life (it was at work so I wasn’t really able to avoid him so it had nothing to do with being respectful) anymore this disappeared completely and I felt relieved that my relationship is still working perfectly fine and that this was just something that had to get “out of the way”. I don’t know about other people but I thought sharing that could help if someone feels guilty for having those feelings with someone else than their partner and maybe questions the whole relationship because of it. It is not worth to damage a healthy relationship because of this and I don’t want people to ascribe more meaning to this feeling than it actually has.
How I wish I could go through this stage again with my wife. Enjoy it while you can single people!
@Joanna Ashley Nailed it. Wow.
you can do it without them knowing
Pina Colada ?
You could. You just need to be creative and change things up. Its easy for long-term relationships to get stale after some time. Change it up. Weekend away to someplace new or do something together you have never done before. You have to keep things fresh or else..
I've never seen a woman display such confidence in explanation. See a woman speak truth and facts without byist there some how. Listing to this Chick talk is one of the most attractive things I've ever seen.
And I love her expression and posture.
I have been binging on your channel the past week. I am interested in a coworker, and I want to make sure she is interested in me before I do something wrong. We do have long eye contact while we talk, we tend to stand or sit together when in groups. She compliments me, and encourages me, she is encouraging me to come to her work rotation, etc. She has told me she is quiet, so she has not asked me many personal questions, and has not touched me much. She has touched me briefly a few times, and she has started to reach for me, and caught herself a few times. Last week she gave me a high five when I told her some good news. She does lean in close when we talk sitting down, and she stands close, with her feet piinting toward me while we talk standing. We wear masks most of the time, so we cannot see if each other smiles. She does laugh at my jokes, and I laugh at hers. She did briefly mention her daughter, and her daughter's birth month. We have exchanged phone numbers, but only for work purposes, but she did seem enthusiastic when I asked if I could give her my number, and she texted me her number. We have talked a good bit, and we do share common interests. She does not follow me on social media. She has crossed her arms at times.
She's into you. Ask her out.
that high 5 thing could be a sign of her thinking of you as a friend only
@@In_brightest_day she is a single mother, she might be looking for a simp
@@martifrey3357 she is a very kind person to begin with. That is what makes it difficult to tell. She does very well for herself, so she does not need anyone to take care of her.
i would have a communication with my hands with her, to find out (using the under part of the thumb), ...but at a workplace.....??? ...touching is very inappropriate ....yeah, ask her out, i guess
i personally would ignore any ronances with a woman at a workplace, same house, same school and so on, its always trouble, if you woud break up in a fight and then still have to see each other
therse a reason why to keep privat and workplace seperate, thats one of them.
attracion isnt a choise. all the best to you my friend
There's something I felt with a guy and it was kind of weird.. we used to sit on same table in office and I used to feel like my hand has it's own will and if I didn't hold the laptop or table corner, unconsciously my hand will touch his hand 😐
Just because you are in a relationship doesn’t mean you’re dead. You might be in the wrong relationship. Trust me- I was married for 18 years with an abusive husband. Even with 2 kids… all he did was make me feel like crap. Now I don’t want anyone even if they seem nice.
If it's not strong enough for someone to put into words then completely ignore it. That's it.
Depends on ur intellect 😊
Right before u get hurt
What a lovely presentation - so positive and spot on! I agree with all you mentioned, Joyanima. I subscribed today. Warmest wishes from Northern California :)
If you`re feeling super nervous around someone or sexual tension, they are NOT good for you. Yeah, it feels good for a short period of time but its not going to end pleasantly. You may end up crushing on them which puts you in terrible place emotionally or you will start something with them that will eventually crash and burn fast or hurt other people.
The right partner will make you feel completely at peace. There will be no tension, just a mutual feeling of calm and feeling at home with this person. You will both develop into something more serious over time but it`ll feel natural and this is the sort of relationship that is long lasting and deep.
Any games are not worth pursuing.
if the nervousness doesn't go away i definetly agree, but if you're just getting to know someone you like, its normal to be nervous around them.
Magnificent! Goes well with the scenario....absolutely!
39 years old and a virgin here- I’ve never had any of this and I feel terrible
😥 and I thought I had it bad. Sorry to hear that.
Update?👀
You never know maybe someone did feel something for you or was attracted to you and you didn’t know
They don't call it being horny for no reason. It's called the demon of lust with in that everyone needs to battle and overcome if ya ever gonna find real love. Lust and love 2 different things. Mixing them brings confusion.
I always experience them together.............it's so powerful
I'm autistic so I do all of that with everyone except people I actually like. If I like someone I act very very cold. Probably explains why people call me a tease 😮
"If I like someone I act extremely cold or even ignoring" story of my life 😂
Autism sucks period
That explains a fucking LOT! I’m Autistic too!
Oh ...im not alone. Acting cold and serious face
Hmmmm yeah the awkward and nervs make me cold when I like some one. Guarded / defensive.
You pretty much described a relationship, as this is what I am experiencing with a lady for the last 3 months. Though it can burn out very quickly.
WOW every sign i been feeling from this one girl! At first i payed no attention to it until I looked over and caught her staring and smiling at me. Now i'm nervous and attracted to her too. These signs tell no lie!!!
Did you make a move?? Tell us!!❤️
@@Xarynnaxarynna 😂
The sexual tension between me and my neighbor right now is crazy. We’ve been neighbors since 2013. He moved away a while ago then moved back next door after the pandemic after his father passed. He actually use to try to hook up with me a lot from this app when we was teens but I use to play hard to get. Let him flirt with me soon or look at me too long and it’s on.😈
I work with a guy I could throw on the floor and take. OMG Never had this before and I'm 56. This. Is. Crazy.
Sounds like your ment to be together
You're describing it all so well...
Not particularly helpful or insightful. The "signs" mentioned are more like basic flirting or having a crush. Tension implies a tug of war between two things, and yet many of these points don't require the other person. You can't push on a rope. I can daydream or sexual dream about someone and they might not even know I exist. A girl can touch me on my arm out of a caring friendship and go home and bang her boyfriend without giving it a second thought.
Even if not one sided, many of these things are basic flirting - eye glances, smiles, wanting to be close.
Sexual tension is when both sides want each other but for some reason it's not happening. So there is a level of frustration with the situation. Hence the "tension". Could lead to teasing, arguing, or play fighting. Can also be the flirting signs mentioned but on steroids. There is a much greater intensity to it.
From the outside its like watching them keep running towards each other then bouncing off over and over.
One of your better videos , i find. You're becoming more and more attractive with age , more mature.
IS IT TIME FOR LADY ANNA TO CHANGE HER "THUMBNAIL'S" TO SHOW OFF HER NEW LOOK CAUSE THAT COLOR & CURLS ARE HER NEW LOOK AND SHE REALLY ROCKIN IT ?¿?
Great video! Beautiful presentator 😍Greetings from San Francisco, CA, USA
I pick up on these pretty consistently. Problem is when I start talking
You’re so sweet. The most pleasant video I’ve watched. What part of England are you from? I’m in Essex. Well done 👍 good video. And well researched. I felt so good watching. This.
It doesn't have to be sexual. I liked someone but I liked just being close to her because it felt so natural and right. In some ways it was better than sexual because I liked her as a person not just physically.
So feeling like an awkward teenager again is basically your body doesn't know how to handle all these intense emotions and attraction?
I am experiencing it now. He is fixing an escalator in the bldg I work at. We have such strong chemistry I am so anxious I looked at him a few times but now I feel like a clown doing it. He is so gorgeous very beautiful aura I don't think he digs me 100 percent i am 20 pounds over weight... I think it is holding him back. I do not think I am going to ask him out though rejection hurts. I get butterflies and feel faint when I see him. We kinda look good together too. This is so spot on its crazy. 💙💗💙💗💙
It is such an intense feeling and it makes you Happy, but when u realize talking to him is not that easy, its sad Situation 😅
What if you feel attracted to someone who is married & with whom you have a professional relationship?
This is very awkward, as I would never mess with someone else's wife/girlfriend...
I think she's attracted to me, but in what way, I don't know...
Never crap where you eat
Me: Hey Anna, what separates Earth from space?
Anna: 3:11
Me: Oh my god, you’re so smart ;)
Don’t do this with somebody else in front of your significant other
I've experienced sexual tension just twice and only recently latter in life.
First time was with a long time family friend while sitting with her on the front seat of her car chatting.
The second and last time was with my doctors nurse sitting next to me taking notes.
The feeling was very pleasant on both occasions.
I don't hold out much hope of this ever happening again because for various reasons the same circumstances are not likely to be repeated.
Why isn't it likely to be repeated? If it's happened twice then it can happen again.
What’s the backstory on the front seat of her car… can you explain further?
Tell us more bro
I get the “dream” one sometimes the dream feels real🤔😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
That's the reason why even if I get so annoyed I'm still smiling and that makes me feel so stupid hahahahahaha
never felt anything remotely connected to those feelings, maybe because when women see how ugly i am and how poor I am they flee without even looking back
You always have to give fair warning that these things only work for rich and handsome guys, they never work for anyone else
love that topic, thats the REAL NONVERBAL CONVERSATION thats going on, when the two "inner cores" communicate.
a good exercise to that kind of conversation is to imagine youself in a timetravel back to 8'000 years, and you see the woman of your dreams. how would you communicate and get to know her without undersanding each other?
i used to be very good in physics, and those formulas about tension are very well appliable with tension with wemen.
i used to always imaging a rubberband between two point fingers.
I could listen to her talk about sexual tension all day…
That's an awkward conversation, total sexual tension between both of you 😂
I bet you could 😅
So this beautiful girl and I walked into this restaurant from opposite doors and walked to the register area and when we got like 10 ft apart from each other we just looked at each other for like 20 seconds then We went around each other. 💕
Cool story, but this video is about someone you see on a regular basis or at least semi-frequently. There needs to be multiple times so you can read the signs (and hopefully ask her out eventually)
@@flaminghead1va there's this girl at work that I make eye contact with constantly when she's going upstairs she looks at my direction. There are times when she looks down when i turn to look at her but other times she looks back up and we make eye contact for a few seconds. I heard she's married so I have never tried to start a conversation with her, she only talks to me when its work related stuff. Though this has been going on for 8 months now lol
I still cant find any explanation for my situation..but i wasn’t attracted at all to him he was to me so he moved to the seat behind me. i felt hot in the face looked back n he was staring at me n continued to stare days after untill I finally found him attractive as well to the point where i could feel right before he entered the room . Extremely intense weird situation chemistry idk never felt it
You weren't attracted to him at all at first? How exactly do you know if you are attracted to someone?
@@D_Jilla no I didn’t even notice him for the first days of class hes not bad looking at all as a matter of fact had all the girls drooling but he wasnt my type .. n i noticed i started to be attracted to him because i started to see him like the finest thing ever hes all i looked for in the room from then on.
Thank you for posting 📫 this video 📫 📹. You have a new subscriber. Keep up the great work 📫 📹 ❤️.
I don't know I am ambitious and I shy away to easily so I just go with the flow LOL x
Thanks for the advice. It helps me understand that she is not that into me.
Nope. I sensed some of those signs recently with a crush, but when I asked her out she said she had recently broke up with her boyfriend and she felt it was too soon to start dating again. However, after I started paying less attention to her, she started getting a little closer and whenever we talked after I asked her out, we would talk, look at us in the eyes, and then keep staring at each other for over 30-40 seconds...and a few days ago I was showing her something, and her best friend literally started pinching her cleavage right in front of me (until my crush punched her). As for touching, she is always using the "i dont like to be touched" excuse, and after that she hugs other ppl nearby and so on.
So, are you saying that she is not that into you? Can you explain more?
@@octavioaraujo1674 Yeah. She wasn't into me. She has been going out with someone I knew (lesbian) and played me from the start. I know of it because her current gf sent me pictures of them cuddling/going out/dating, right after this girl said she didn't want to date/go out. I thought she was flirting,etc, but she was playing with my feelings (the 2 of them played with my feelings).
some girls just like confidence points. they flirt with guys to get their confidence up (sometimes after breakups) without actually like the person. dont fall for that trap boys. girls can fake alot of the body language signs. what they can't fake is pupil dilation. and thats how you really know. if her pupils look big compared to the rest of her eyes. that means she actually likes you. anyone can have a stare contest with you and smile at you and fake it. pupil dilation can't be faked!
@@samusranzer
That's fucked up. Those are some trashy traits. Forget those losers, you deserve better.
Try and move on. Doesn't sound like she's worth your time.
This woman gives me tension
Me too!
😲
same here
🤣🤣🤣
Lmfaooo!
I actively try to avoid women, so the information here is useful. I just do the opposite of what she says, and I’m left to my own devices. It’s made life pretty peaceful for me.
How sad
@@LS-fe4ob incel problems. Wonder why they're drawn to this lady's page tho
So why are you watching this video if you don't want to find anybody?
I got u man! Even if I do not avoid, I do not play the dirty game they put in place after been broken by a long list of partners. And nowadays as it is seen everywhere even marriage will not guarantee you less stress in life and it is a bit funny that a boy fight for less stress and stability and as soon as he dominates his fears (or not) he runs to marry the stress of a girl (and all the family with). For the social status? I do not know but what does girls bring to the table except using their body (mostly the down part) to control men! And wenn it doesn't work some become murderer, sadist or influencers. I understand your point and will not judge u to enjoy from time to time! Mostly avoid married women out there (only a recommandation) even if it seems like the man is open for what ever they think is good for their sexual life. It might not be good for you! Peace
So you have really positive conversations with women then?
Somehow I am guessing not.
not me watching this as an aroace that doesnt experience attraction just so i can analyse interactions between other people for my pure entertainment
I've experienced this twice in life. Once during my Junior and Senior years of high school, except for the dreaming about her part. Neither of us did anything about it at the time, due to her father being very authoritarian and his not being a fan of me.
We did find one another after years apart on Facebook two years ago. We're back in touch with one another and still have that strong personal connection. We were finally able to admit to one another that yes, we both had "a thing" for one another back then. We still chat on FB to this day. It's been great re establishing that connection.
Just as a Yank from America, I remember in a Pub there hearing a brusque " RIGHT, Here, here love, snap, snap let's go home now!' She just went with it and went with this guy, with very little protest. Bad boy is everywhere I suppose. But then they wonder where the good men are. Something's got to give. It's a lousy situation for relatioinships where both aren't able to work as lovers AND partners for a stable family environment. What if one gets sick or really disabled? Will the other one step up, or like Cowards say "Bye, catch you later!'
Dude, you look really good with that lady - said no guy ever!!!
Me: literally never moves beyond the first 3 signs with any woman (awkward conversation, fleeting eye contact and staring).
Also me: realizes too late that she's not even vaguely interested and I'm making her uncomfortable.
Are there videos to teach me how to be someone other than myself?
So basic.. but brilliant.. love your vids. ❤
You just have to go out there and have fun , don’t take yourself too seriously.
So I can check all of this because this goes on a lot with me (:
Never felt it, but I’m sure it feels splendid. How would I know if I don’t really interact with woman that much?
You have to put yourself out there and risk rejection. Not everyone you talk to is going to be your potential partner, but you won't be able to read the signs she gives when there is that girl that finds you attractive if you don't have that experience to discern different behaviors. If you don't have the experience you won't be able to read those signs let alone act upon them!
Pruhyunus don't be women repellent..😬
Had everything but she broke my heart...!! 😂😂😂 And then I met someone who loved me..!! And from then on it is happily ever after. Now I feel sexual tension with my wife only everywhere I go..😅
She is lucky
I feel like my crush secretly hates me, that's why I steer clear away whenever he's around :(
Don't be like that! I prefer shy girls and often they end up telling me tha--well first that I came off as arrogant at first but they always assume I was irritated with them or didn't think much of them....when I see a girl that avoided me or was shy around me do even something tiny that took confidence to do and I like her I instantly make her comfortable with me! So go ask him a question and do something like put your hand on his arm to break the touch barrier just briefly.
@@nateo200 Well, he do appear very condescending and watches me like a hawk so I automatically assumed he's waiting for me to do something wrong to make fun of me behind my back with his friends or something plus, he's very quiet when I'm around.
@@clusterfuck2177 he probably likes you back
@@MOE13576 No matter the case, I ain't making the first move.
@@clusterfuck2177 have you at least tried to talking to him ?
Below avg lookin guys… (decent lookin guys usually don’t care to drink a few & start girl Hoppin) just jump in get rejected 90 times and the 10 times you don’t out of 100 will give you confidence & the best feeling’s you’ve had! I’ve seen more than I can think of guys dating way out there league because women love not having to worry ab impressing their guy or others girls wanting them, sounds bad but get in where you fit in! All love here! Hopefully this helps someone.
So true. Loved it.
Isnt sexual tension a two way thing? Cuz most of these are "YOU do this or that, means you both have sexual tension" like where did 'both' come from? just cuz i do them, doesnt mean the other person does.
Me and my boyfriend been dating like over 8month? Oooh I still have butter flies around him!ˆ😊ˆ
Sunday night 24 April 2022. Cheers, Joyanima.
Thank you ❤️☺️, yes , so true Now I know we both feel the same. Yes , yes 💕🌹. He always laugh.
This one is
a bit long-winded,
so please bear with me...
as I need some help with this one.
I've recently began working at a new job
and there is a very cute young woman
whom I work with or around
pretty much on a daily basis.
While we are both "friendly" and polite
to each other in a professional & cordial sense...
there seems to be a fairly awkward
(mutual-attraction / mutual-interest / sexual??)
tension when the two off us are
ever within proximity to each other.
It seems like we both are (fairly regularly)
sneaking peaks at each other and we both
avert our eyes or glance away quickly
when we catch the other doing so.
There are also some of the
more traditional (albeit, subtle)
attraction clues that she gives off...
such as slowly stroking & preening her hair,
her feet pointing towards me or my direction,
one or both of her hand resting on her hip, giggles at my
light-hearted & humorous comments, ect.
Or, said another way...
she has yet to display
the more "negative" signals...
such standing away, quite,
with her head down or her
arms & hands crossed
when she is near me.
but when I say "tension"...
in other words, there seems to be an
awkward (and almost uncomfortable)
"tension in the air" almost always
when the two of us are together
and it feels like neither of us
knows exactly what to say
to each other when we are
in proximity to each other.
Yes, we do technically "talk" to each other...
but, so far, strictly for professional
work-related reasons only...
but... when she does talk to me...
she tends to walk up to or stand near me
and looks directly in my face /
eyes when she does speak to me...
and even stands directly
in front of me in plain sight
as she is talking to
another employee
(besides myself)
Now, it should also be noted...
that she hasn't made any
blatantly-obvious or other
proactive actions towards me...
such as breaking the touch barrier, ect.
(ie, she has been very professional on her part).
That said...
she doesn't exactly go
out of her way to avoid me, either.
and that same goes for me as well
(after all, I like what I see).
For my part...
whenever I'm In fairly awkward
or tense situations such as this one
(especially with a female co-worker
or with any woman for that matter)
I always try my best to never
reach for or to assume anything....
however,
I think it is fairly safe to assume
that not too many women would either
act or behave like this with a man that
they were either not attracted to and/or
were uncomfortable being near or with.
In summary...
she, at the very least...
appears to be curious
and interested in me
(maybe even attracted).
On my end...
I have made it a point to remain
friendly, relaxed, light-hearted,
helpful & approachable.
In short...
I've made it a point to "play it cool"
BUT also very professional...
largely because the LAST THING
I want is any kind of unfounded
harassment allegations especially since
she is in more of a "formal / superior" position
(though she is not my boss or direct supervisor).
So my question is...
how should I tread
and move forward
from here... if at all??
-Signed
"Awkward at the Job-sight
with a Pretty Co-worker".
Hey Hey!
Have you ever done a video for things that women do that annoy Men or vice versa??
Hey girl hey lol
great topic, used to be addicted to nonverbal communication
I love your voice.
Ho Ho!
What is the best and safest way of finding out if a colleague of opposite sex is single or not?
Easy. In conversation say something that assumes she has a boyfriend and if she doesn't, she'll correct you. Unless you're giving off signs you're interested and she isn't. Then she'll probably let you assume she has a boyfriend. Either way you'll have your answer as to whether you should pursue her further or not.
Every Friday or before a holiday, ask about weekend plans.
Ask her is she dating, or is she spoken for..😬
What if she is in a relationship already with someone else? But looks sometimes. With a serious look on her face.
Fr! I have a situation like that with a girl in the gym 😂 when her man is not looking I always catch her looking at me and sometimes she’ll even do that booty pant adjusting thing where girls fix their pants so she can show me it lmao
I thought it was nothing at first but it’s been way too many times she’s done it now
@@stresslee she just teasing. She know what she doing. Stay strong.
@@joesingh1015 lmao I know! I do, I look when she’s not noticing 😂 she honestly does it more when I don’t pay attention at all
If I ever see they break up ima hit that shit though LOL
Her man has caught her too, I know because he tries to do certain exercises I do to try to show me up but since he never does them his form is sloppy as hell
She for the streets bro
I've felt butterflies and put it off as thinking that it was hunger pains.
Liking the natural hair colour, great content
I love this content and your accent is beautiful 🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
But goshdarnits and it's because of the way how I was just about to say the same exact thing
Lollollollollollol
I need to learn how to lower my sex drive. I haven’t been sexually active in years and I’m sick and tired of “being in that mood” completely. I wish I could destroy the sexual tension I feel stuck with on a daily basis 🤦🏻
take a shot everytime she says sexual tension 😂
Why do most of your points reference what the viewer is doing. I definitely don't need to read my own body language to tell me I have sexual tension. My brain tells me long before my body reacts
I still like your show like your advice thow I still think I'll never have anyone in my life so I just try to be nice to everyone and try to enjoy my life
We just had almost all these signs happening, but we don't see each other since december. I think we'll meet yet in march and I'm afraid she lost her interest... She ignored me sometimes and then I ignored her and I think it was "playing hard to get". Pray for me pls
Sounds like my situation
Conversations about "what if" you could move in closer to her town : check.
Speaking of mutual desire to have children : check.
Joking about "when we will be old, and have grandchildren" : check.
Her : touching my hands while walking or under the table, and leting me touch and caress her in return : check.
Her girlfriend besty, at the other side of the table : "What kind of dope did you took, girl ? Your eyes are all shinning." ;)
Compliments about our physic and character : check.
Speaking honestly about our mutual insecurities and fears : check.
Hugs : check.
Kisses on the cheeks : check.
Me, kissing her on the forehead : check.
Her, overwatching when I was talking with female workmates : check.
Me, wanting to be with her, care and listen to her all the time : check.
Her, always supportive, upset when I talk bad about myself : check.
Me : doing chores and stuff, and asking her is she slept well, looking for her back, and arms pain : check.
Her : cooking dishes for me, offering me gifts, asking me to write something for her, and asking me if she can keep the writings and drawings I did : check.
Me : getting up early so I can help her at work and do the physical stuff with her, so she will have more time and less pain at the end of the day... and for the pure pleasure to spend time with her : check.
Me : getting lost on a hicking path, taking 3 or 4 hours to find my way down to the mountain all alone, using the sun and visual landmarks I saw the day before. All the time, thinking about her, not wanting to make her anxious or sad.
Her : waiting for me at the feet of the mountain, alone, for two or three hours, while the others came back home to seek help. Huging me, breathing more easily now, kissing me, feeling liberated, and holding me against her heart.
Her : coming to my room to check if I am ok, proposing to rub my legs, arms and feet with oils because I had injuries down there, and insisting to do it herself : check.
In the end of vacations, both of us, crying but denying there was more than something beetwen us : check. ^^
Dude tell me you are with her now
@@avril4259 she told me she was writing a letter to me, and she proposed to come in my area in a few weeks to spend time with me, so we will discuss what happened and maybe declare ourselves and decide what we do now.
Is it just me or do I feel fear and dissociate around girls I feel sexual tension with? My mind crumbles and my legs go wobbly.
My MBA batchmate taught me a painful lesson for teasing her. I always used to pull her hair. Once i pulled her hair hard as i always used to. She never used to get angry but that day got wild at me. Unfortunately for me that day she was having a long fat umbrella with a long n sharp tip at the end. She started chasing me wildly. I tried to escape but i slipped a bit and had to stop running to regain my balance. She caught me and gave me one hard whack on my bum with her umbrella. The sharp edge of the umbrella pierced my bum royally. I couldnt sit for two days. Kept rubbing my bum till i reached home. After that day i don't think i teased girls and women
I dont know why i imgained that but you jumped up in the air and screamed YEOWWWWWCH like fred flintstone 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@insaiyan634 i screamed aaaaaah and caught my bum with my hand
Wouldn't simply asking for a hug have been better..😬
Good for you.
@@redefinedliving5974 that was NOT gud!!! She broke my bum into four pieces 😠😠😠
Can’t make any moves because we are both married to someone else. 😩
Good God
At this point I'm glad that no woman ever liked me
🌟 for presentation
No woman has ever done any of these with me. 😩
Haha ok don't be sad I'll do to you
It's rare. It will happen one day, till then, just work on yourself. Cheers mate
I've read about flirting but I don't understand the dynamic. When would you do it. I know someone on messenger. We are good friends. Do I start saying sex stuff?
Hi me and the friend is like that we look at each other with to look away and start talk then
There’s no signs really, it’s just a feeling you have towards that person, when you’re around them, or talking to them you can feel the horny
horniness, works better
Hi. Would really like to join . The sum is very nominal but I live in Iran and can't transfer money. Specially at these negligible amounts. But I subscribed your channel and will follow up your videos regularly 🌹
Lol this just confirmed that my ex has sexual tension with another girl and I get to witness it weekly...fun😅
Love it !
In 4 words only :
No money, no love.
Height and face entered the chat.
You got that right 💯
I am a female its not true for me. Money means ziltch to me. Its so vapid
So, sexual tension is more like a crush? I'm not sure I get the difference
Today, I were reading about this topic in a website 💖💖❣ and you make its video tonight 😘😍